Men like this will never change. And yet most women who are with these type of men won't change either... because it is all they have ever known. I speak from experience.
i used to be in this type relationship & i swear it was the worst thing i ever been through i lied to my parents until finaly my daddy caught me with a huge black eye & beat the hell of him i hate him i want him to dief*ck him
@palms864 I was in a relationship like this too but life is about moving on. My dad saved me too so I know how you feel. Hate isn't what you need to focus on...your free and your dad loved you enough to save you from what he knew was happening.
I've been listening to this song since 2007. It makes me feel stronger. I know where I was and where I am and I am blessed. There were plenty of things momma didn't know. Know that you CAN get away.....even scum is afraid to die....just make sure you're ready to go when you do because you have to have the gonadal fortitude to keep going when you walk or it might be the last time you get a chance. Prayers with those who haven't found the strength to walk yet and the ones who put it behind them.
I lived in this situation for 8 yrs it was not all the time and i keep thing i could melt his heart and show him love had 2 kids and ended up staying for them then got to the point where i felt that i did not deserve any better but i finally got out and and relized that i do deserve better :) you can too
I met Mica recently. Had no idea that she was a singer. Didn't know her from Adam, but I can tell you, I'm a big fan now. She's an extremely nice gal, and absolutely beautiful to boot. She could sing to me anytime.
This song is my fav. It's mine and my Husband's song cause he has beat on me alot and give me alot of black eye's everything and my mom don't like him and she never has......
Yea in this situation you're scared, but some are not so scared they can't make a plan and get the hell out of this type of situation. It isn't always a "fast get away" but it sure beats just hanging around in it. It takes a strong mind and a strong heart to remember it's not your fault, but rather a deficiency in the other person causing this to happen. Not everyone can hang onto that type of mentality during such a situation. And yea, Mamas DO KNOW, even when it isnt mentioned.
the situation is harder to get out of then it looks been there done that and it took me two years too long... i know ppl dont understand it neither did i until it was me on the other side...it happens but when and if u make it out alive u r ten times stronger i promise u that !!! and when ppl r in the situation u cant help them till they open thier eyes and realize they have to help themselves...its just really hard especially if there is a child involved..u learn from ur mistsakes.............
the situation is harder to get out of then it looks been there done that and it took me two years too long... i know ppl dont understand it neither did i until it was me on the other side...it happens but when and if u make it out alive u r ten times stronger i promise u that !!!
I am the BIGGEST Country Music Fan that exists and I CAN'T believe that this is the VERY first time that I'm EVER hearing this Country Music Song! I CAN'T recall EVER hearing ANY Country Stations play this Country Song before! I JUST accidentally stumbled upon this AMAZING Country Song and I am soooo GLAD that I did! :)
@kalmanizer If u think this is good get this...the parts outside the house....thats my house in Lake L.A. CA lol its great!!! i got to meet her and the mom...and my uncle is standing in for toby keith in the car :) great experience
You know, this really just says it all! There are a million reasons why a battered woman stays with their abuser...reasons that no one in "normal society" could even begin to understand...What a great song on such a terrible (more common than it should be) condition of life.
god i just herd this song the other day i just finally got away from an abusive relationship i dont know why its so hard but i have a really great guy now to all the ladies who had ta lie ta there mamas to protect them ur in my prayers hopefully u are strong enough to get away and stay away u will be in my prayers
i had an ex who beat me and i was preg. after he cooled down he said he was sorry and he will never do it again but like they say love is blind i believed him. i was wit him for 3 months till he slammed my head into the table. i told my ex who was still in love wit me and he had his mom come and get me. i am so happy now i have a man that cant even raise his hand 2 me.
@xmysticbeautyx You are so strong, keep your head high and you´ll get through it all. God bless you, I understand what you´re going through x take care
@proudmexican111 & SexyLilLezNTx ; Each of you are just as pathetic as the other. I just love the way you try to shit to each other over a computer. Like a fucking keyboard makes you hard. Seriously? What are you two 5 or something? Both of you should grow up. & SexyLilLexNTx , as for you playing the race card.. what are you Hitler? Amusing that an entire group of people are the same because of where they came from not only makes you sound pathetic but it makes you sound plain ass dumb.
if this song had came out only twelve years earlier it would be the perfect song for the movie practical magic with nicole kidman and sandra Bolack it reminds me of nicole's character in the movie.
@proudmexican111, Go get pregnant or have an abortion. Do something you are good at. LMAO!!!! What makes it so bad, is you are probably just like your Mom. Abortions are a Family Tradition. Do you all have a Fiesta when you have one. Do you all have a chart to keep up with who has more??? Who is winning?? You, your mom or your sister???? I bet you....you seem more WORTHLESS!!! LMAO!!!
@proudmexican111, Before you write back. Please have a dictionary handy. Your usage of spelling, grammar, and proper punctuation is as useless as you are. Thanks amigote. Wait, you probably cant spell properly in your language either. Amigote in English means Buddy.
@proudmexican111.....I have an idea. Why dont you think outside of the BORDER as well? LMFAO!!!! From this moment on I will think of you as nothing more than a chocho, coño, almeja. See even I am fluent in your native language. MEXICANO!! No need to thank me....you are more than welcome. You deserve all my kind words. ha! ha! HA1
@proudmexican111, I wonder what age were you when you had your first child?? 14 or 15 thats about the age ya'll start popping them out. The same time you go on welfare. BE PROUD you PATHETIC, PATHETIC, PATHETIC Mexican.
@proudmexican111, this song could be ur theme song. Because I am sure there are ALOT of things your mama don't know. Like how many sexual partners Ur MEXICAN nasty ass as had. How many abortions have you had MEXICAN? HUH?? I think I have a right to know where my money (the money that I earn while U sit on ur MEXICAN PATHETIC ASS all day doing nothing, but surfing the net & commenting on other people's posts). You started this,but U can best believe U MEXICAN taco eating idiot, I will finish it.
@proudmexican111 I wasnt speaking you dumbass. I was typing. So here is an idea KISS MY ASS!! If you dont like I what I type.....then DO NOT read it. Ta-Ta!!!
@proudmexican111 No thanks I dont fuck MEXICANS....I am way too scared I might catch something that cant be cured. LMAO!!! But thanks for the invite. Maybe in another lifetime. Have a great night ya Pinata!!! lmao again!!
@proudmexican111 Why dont you get off of your WORTHLESS, MEXICAN ass and get a job. You're PROUD, proud of what exactly? Living off other people. Allowing others to support your non-working, non-America Citizen, Mexican ass. I would NOT even admit to being a MEXICAN. I would DENY, DENY, DENY! Stop living off WELFARE that my TAX dollars are paying for. I am tired of working my ass off so you can have a better life. Go back to Mexico where you belong. No one with class wants you here in America.
bitch stop trying to offend me because it's not working just because you do or you're all those things doesn't mean you should accuse people of your faulty acts...i sincerely didn't read half the things you wrote ...your not worth wasting my valuable time on you nasty fucking hillbilly!
@proudmexican111 Oh its working and its working better than I thought it would. If you were NOT offended by my words, you would NOT take the time to comment back. Hey at least you are thinking about me. Thank you for keeping me on your minds. Now its time for me to eat dinner.....I am thinking, Casa Ole'. After all this back and fourth with you I am craving Mexican food. Bye, bye burrito!!! I know you will think of me...thank you for that. You are officially a new member of my Fan Club. LMAO!!
She used to be a backup singer for Faith Hill. I am glad that she is venturing out on her own. Mica has a great singing voice. I wish her nothing but success.
Wow this is the first time i have heard this song and it hit HARD! i am in the, well was in a similar situation with my husband. people cannot understand this girls pain until they fall into her situation, it's hard to leave someone who has made you feel you are their world. Trust me. things have changed for the best for my husband and i, but this song used to be us.. it really did...
I'm a guy that would never hit a woman or anyone for that fact but i have been in some bad relationships and there was times i just thought that's what girlfriends are like but thankfully i got out before the relationships got worse and no one should have to go thought that type of relationship male or female .
i love this video, and i wish no one will be in that situation, just walk away there good man out there,because no man has the right too hit a woman, and there are good woman out there, and no woman has the right too hit a man, and GOD bless everyone.
its so hard when youre in this predicament. Thats how things were with my daughters father and when I was with him is when this song came out. Every day I listened to it and cried
@unclecode90 very true no one deserves to be in a relationship like this it isnt " Love" this is all about control,and anger,nothing about love but I also know from experience its not as cut and dry as that it isnt as easy to get out of these types of relationships as it is to get into them most that do end up in them have low self esteem to start with is why they are a target once you there thinking you deserve takes alot of strength to get out.. my kids was my reason i got out for them
@InvictusAmare Same here, I left for my lil girl's sake... I know now that I didn't deserve it, but I put up with the controlling and mental abuse for way too long... Good Luck and I wish you the best, I know what you've went thru..
Mica Roberts was Locust Grove Class of 85. I was Locust Grove Class of 87. I remember being in choir with her. Hometown girl made good. :)
susie869 1 month ago
Star of this video is the 69' AMX!!!! AMC rules!!!!
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Anlimema 4 months ago
i had no idea toby keith was actually in this video
til now and ive seen this many times
toby 1223 to 235 g8 song
chrisyoungfan2 4 months ago
Men like this will never change. And yet most women who are with these type of men won't change either... because it is all they have ever known. I speak from experience.
PrincessWellington 4 months ago
That's gotta be toby keith as her boyfriend in this video
383strokerize 4 months ago
i used to be in this type relationship & i swear it was the worst thing i ever been through i lied to my parents until finaly my daddy caught me with a huge black eye & beat the hell of him i hate him i want him to dief*ck him
palms864 5 months ago
@palms864 I was in a relationship like this too but life is about moving on. My dad saved me too so I know how you feel. Hate isn't what you need to focus on...your free and your dad loved you enough to save you from what he knew was happening.
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This song is* very good and my mom and I enjoy listening to this together (she showed me to this song).
plsDaddy1 7 months ago
This song is a very good and my mom and I enjoy listening to this together (she showed me to this song).
plsDaddy1 7 months ago
I've been listening to this song since 2007. It makes me feel stronger. I know where I was and where I am and I am blessed. There were plenty of things momma didn't know. Know that you CAN get away.....even scum is afraid to die....just make sure you're ready to go when you do because you have to have the gonadal fortitude to keep going when you walk or it might be the last time you get a chance. Prayers with those who haven't found the strength to walk yet and the ones who put it behind them.
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Anlimema 7 months ago
mom hes a real go-getter. love hasnt ever felt better :(
teamoevenilson 7 months ago
What has this world come too? This is a video of a woman being abused and you two are fighting over race?! What the hell is wrong with you two?
MichelaDarling 8 months ago
On 0:45 where is Mica Roberts?????
I love this song it,s great!!
poekie94 8 months ago
On 0:45 where is Mica Roberts?????
poekie94 8 months ago
@poekie94 aha. she's probably short enough that you can't see her in the seat. That's how I am when I'm in my dad's car.
SarJesBear 5 months ago
@poekie94 Or she was never really in the seat! LMFAO!
SarJesBear 5 months ago
On 0:45 where is Mica?????
poekie94 8 months ago
I lived in this situation for 8 yrs it was not all the time and i keep thing i could melt his heart and show him love had 2 kids and ended up staying for them then got to the point where i felt that i did not deserve any better but i finally got out and and relized that i do deserve better :) you can too
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teamoevenilson 7 months ago
I met Mica recently. Had no idea that she was a singer. Didn't know her from Adam, but I can tell you, I'm a big fan now. She's an extremely nice gal, and absolutely beautiful to boot. She could sing to me anytime.
derekseab 9 months ago
This song is my fav. It's mine and my Husband's song cause he has beat on me alot and give me alot of black eye's everything and my mom don't like him and she never has......
thecuttiemaster 10 months ago
@thecuttiemaster :( :( :(
teamoevenilson 7 months ago
@teamoevenilson But everything is okay
thecuttiemaster 5 months ago
if any of you ladies are in this situation leave me a message and i'll help cause no woman deserves that
MegaCramer1 10 months ago
Yea in this situation you're scared, but some are not so scared they can't make a plan and get the hell out of this type of situation. It isn't always a "fast get away" but it sure beats just hanging around in it. It takes a strong mind and a strong heart to remember it's not your fault, but rather a deficiency in the other person causing this to happen. Not everyone can hang onto that type of mentality during such a situation. And yea, Mamas DO KNOW, even when it isnt mentioned.
Bravebuckeyegirl 11 months ago
the situation is harder to get out of then it looks been there done that and it took me two years too long... i know ppl dont understand it neither did i until it was me on the other side...it happens but when and if u make it out alive u r ten times stronger i promise u that !!! and when ppl r in the situation u cant help them till they open thier eyes and realize they have to help themselves...its just really hard especially if there is a child involved..u learn from ur mistsakes.............
druckemiller87 11 months ago 2
the situation is harder to get out of then it looks been there done that and it took me two years too long... i know ppl dont understand it neither did i until it was me on the other side...it happens but when and if u make it out alive u r ten times stronger i promise u that !!!
druckemiller87 11 months ago
IM IN THE SAME SITUATION NOW.
theronnie708 1 year ago
Wow cant picture Toby being an abuser he is such a sweet guy but this video is AWESOME! Great job both of them this needs to be heard! </3
LaCeYsBacK72280 1 year ago
i normally don't like country music, but this is a good song.
plsDaddy1 1 year ago
I am the BIGGEST Country Music Fan that exists and I CAN'T believe that this is the VERY first time that I'm EVER hearing this Country Music Song! I CAN'T recall EVER hearing ANY Country Stations play this Country Song before! I JUST accidentally stumbled upon this AMAZING Country Song and I am soooo GLAD that I did! :)
kalmanizer 1 year ago
@kalmanizer If u think this is good get this...the parts outside the house....thats my house in Lake L.A. CA lol its great!!! i got to meet her and the mom...and my uncle is standing in for toby keith in the car :) great experience
tezraq 1 year ago
You know, this really just says it all! There are a million reasons why a battered woman stays with their abuser...reasons that no one in "normal society" could even begin to understand...What a great song on such a terrible (more common than it should be) condition of life.
(FYI I have been abuse free for 8 years now...)
CarolynKlassen 1 year ago
god i just herd this song the other day i just finally got away from an abusive relationship i dont know why its so hard but i have a really great guy now to all the ladies who had ta lie ta there mamas to protect them ur in my prayers hopefully u are strong enough to get away and stay away u will be in my prayers
jessianne2488 1 year ago
i had an ex who beat me and i was preg. after he cooled down he said he was sorry and he will never do it again but like they say love is blind i believed him. i was wit him for 3 months till he slammed my head into the table. i told my ex who was still in love wit me and he had his mom come and get me. i am so happy now i have a man that cant even raise his hand 2 me.
melissairvine1 1 year ago
@xmysticbeautyx You are so strong, keep your head high and you´ll get through it all. God bless you, I understand what you´re going through x take care
LaRositaRubia 1 year ago
never seen toby that abusive in a video before i know its just acting.
bigchicken88 1 year ago
@bigchicken88 yea i did not want 2 believe it was him
melissairvine1 1 year ago
@proudmexican111 & SexyLilLezNTx ; Each of you are just as pathetic as the other. I just love the way you try to shit to each other over a computer. Like a fucking keyboard makes you hard. Seriously? What are you two 5 or something? Both of you should grow up. & SexyLilLexNTx , as for you playing the race card.. what are you Hitler? Amusing that an entire group of people are the same because of where they came from not only makes you sound pathetic but it makes you sound plain ass dumb.
SUGARRBEARRFAME 1 year ago
if this song had came out only twelve years earlier it would be the perfect song for the movie practical magic with nicole kidman and sandra Bolack it reminds me of nicole's character in the movie.
Litandharryginny 1 year ago
@proudmexican111, Go get pregnant or have an abortion. Do something you are good at. LMAO!!!! What makes it so bad, is you are probably just like your Mom. Abortions are a Family Tradition. Do you all have a Fiesta when you have one. Do you all have a chart to keep up with who has more??? Who is winning?? You, your mom or your sister???? I bet you....you seem more WORTHLESS!!! LMAO!!!
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@SexyLilLezNTx
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
TWO CAMELS IN A TINY FUCKING CAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
proudmexican111 1 year ago
@proudmexican111, Before you write back. Please have a dictionary handy. Your usage of spelling, grammar, and proper punctuation is as useless as you are. Thanks amigote. Wait, you probably cant spell properly in your language either. Amigote in English means Buddy.
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@SexyLilLezNTx
oh and i spell better then you.
go fuck your brother or something you damn hillbilly
proudmexican111 1 year ago
Damn, now I am in the mood for Taco Bell. LMAO!!!!!
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@proudmexican111.....I have an idea. Why dont you think outside of the BORDER as well? LMFAO!!!! From this moment on I will think of you as nothing more than a chocho, coño, almeja. See even I am fluent in your native language. MEXICANO!! No need to thank me....you are more than welcome. You deserve all my kind words. ha! ha! HA1
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@proudmexican111, I wonder what age were you when you had your first child?? 14 or 15 thats about the age ya'll start popping them out. The same time you go on welfare. BE PROUD you PATHETIC, PATHETIC, PATHETIC Mexican.
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@proudmexican111, this song could be ur theme song. Because I am sure there are ALOT of things your mama don't know. Like how many sexual partners Ur MEXICAN nasty ass as had. How many abortions have you had MEXICAN? HUH?? I think I have a right to know where my money (the money that I earn while U sit on ur MEXICAN PATHETIC ASS all day doing nothing, but surfing the net & commenting on other people's posts). You started this,but U can best believe U MEXICAN taco eating idiot, I will finish it.
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
That is NOT Toby Keith in the video. Its just a look alike.
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@SexyLilLezNTx
shut up
proudmexican111 1 year ago
@proudmexican111 I wasnt speaking you dumbass. I was typing. So here is an idea KISS MY ASS!! If you dont like I what I type.....then DO NOT read it. Ta-Ta!!!
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@SexyLilLezNTx
lmfao
FUCK YOU!
proudmexican111 1 year ago
@proudmexican111 No thanks I dont fuck MEXICANS....I am way too scared I might catch something that cant be cured. LMAO!!! But thanks for the invite. Maybe in another lifetime. Have a great night ya Pinata!!! lmao again!!
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@SexyLilLezNTx
bitch you'd be lucky to get with A Mexican you nasty 2nd rate triflin
white bitch......sexy? i dought it you good for nothing lazy fat ass
go do something productive......although im sure you cant do anything productive because your worthless almost all hillbillies are
proudmexican111 1 year ago
@proudmexican111 Why dont you get off of your WORTHLESS, MEXICAN ass and get a job. You're PROUD, proud of what exactly? Living off other people. Allowing others to support your non-working, non-America Citizen, Mexican ass. I would NOT even admit to being a MEXICAN. I would DENY, DENY, DENY! Stop living off WELFARE that my TAX dollars are paying for. I am tired of working my ass off so you can have a better life. Go back to Mexico where you belong. No one with class wants you here in America.
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@SexyLilLezNTx
LMFAO!!
bitch stop trying to offend me because it's not working just because you do or you're all those things doesn't mean you should accuse people of your faulty acts...i sincerely didn't read half the things you wrote ...your not worth wasting my valuable time on you nasty fucking hillbilly!
proudmexican111 1 year ago
@proudmexican111 Oh its working and its working better than I thought it would. If you were NOT offended by my words, you would NOT take the time to comment back. Hey at least you are thinking about me. Thank you for keeping me on your minds. Now its time for me to eat dinner.....I am thinking, Casa Ole'. After all this back and fourth with you I am craving Mexican food. Bye, bye burrito!!! I know you will think of me...thank you for that. You are officially a new member of my Fan Club. LMAO!!
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
@SexyLilLezNTx i agree mexicans are nothing but nasty wetbacks, that need to go back to mexico!
hottieriah 1 year ago
She used to be a backup singer for Faith Hill. I am glad that she is venturing out on her own. Mica has a great singing voice. I wish her nothing but success.
SexyLilLezNTx 1 year ago
Wow this is the first time i have heard this song and it hit HARD! i am in the, well was in a similar situation with my husband. people cannot understand this girls pain until they fall into her situation, it's hard to leave someone who has made you feel you are their world. Trust me. things have changed for the best for my husband and i, but this song used to be us.. it really did...
mwsbabbydoll 1 year ago
I'm a guy that would never hit a woman or anyone for that fact but i have been in some bad relationships and there was times i just thought that's what girlfriends are like but thankfully i got out before the relationships got worse and no one should have to go thought that type of relationship male or female .
unclecode90 1 year ago
Is this Toby playing the abusive guy in this vid? It just seems totally unlike him
jimbad05 1 year ago
can i ask a question is toby kieth playing her boyfriend in this video it kinda looks like him but im not sure does anyone know?
milangirl123 1 year ago
i love this video, and i wish no one will be in that situation, just walk away there good man out there,because no man has the right too hit a woman, and there are good woman out there, and no woman has the right too hit a man, and GOD bless everyone.
carrieanns1 1 year ago 4
this is a sad song, and it make me cry, because no one deserves too be in this type relationship famale or male
carrieanns1 1 year ago 4
WHAT A GREAT VOICE SHE HAS .
HEYCONWAYTWITTY 1 year ago 6
This video and song is so Beautiful.
laarbe 1 year ago 4
When you in this type of a situation...you are scared. You think that you deserve this somehow and that it will get better.
All of those are wrong but until you get away from the jerk and believe in yourself you never go...no matter how many chances you have to go.
kidcare05 2 years ago 25
y doesnt she just drive away???
russianamericanbaby 2 years ago 3
its so hard when youre in this predicament. Thats how things were with my daughters father and when I was with him is when this song came out. Every day I listened to it and cried
rubyroo219 2 years ago 3
nobody deserves to be in this type of relationships male or female .
unclecode90 2 years ago 18
@unclecode90 very true no one deserves to be in a relationship like this it isnt " Love" this is all about control,and anger,nothing about love but I also know from experience its not as cut and dry as that it isnt as easy to get out of these types of relationships as it is to get into them most that do end up in them have low self esteem to start with is why they are a target once you there thinking you deserve takes alot of strength to get out.. my kids was my reason i got out for them
InvictusAmare 3 months ago
@InvictusAmare Same here, I left for my lil girl's sake... I know now that I didn't deserve it, but I put up with the controlling and mental abuse for way too long... Good Luck and I wish you the best, I know what you've went thru..
flirtylilmustanggirl 2 months ago