2 tips for meeting women in bars you haven't heard before

[mesha1ism]

Well put together video

[marlin187]

You are giving the wrong advice my friend.Tactics that work for you might not work for others and going early to a bar is not the best time to go.

[injaley]

LOL @ 0:58 I just cracked up on "the women being more sober and more likely to focus on the conversation"...that just conjured up a picture in my mind of a poor guy trying to have a conversation with a drunk woman....lol. Be honest, you don't have to stifle the urge to laugh sometimes when you make (or made) these videos? Some of these subject matters or situations are quite funny :-)

[HardUpN0Luck]

Gonna try sum of that

[jx14aby]

Good tips. Thanks. 

[hindflight]

Arkadi, +1000% on going out early. Women usually take much longer to "doll up" before going out, so they have to plan to go out and are usually out early. The ratio is usually around 50/50 early. Later, guys decide to throw on a shirt and just show up or their date ended early. Either way, later in the evening the ratio is usually 70/30 or so.

[andresmjc]

hey buddy your tips are very simple and effectives, they actually work. i bet you get alot of ladies 

[limedog133]

Why waste money going to club and bars when you can find singles in your area! I approach women in my neighborhood and I love to flirt with them. I hate women who wears make up. I love beautiful women. I hate black women. I only flirt with white and Asian women because black women are ugly as hell. Thats why black guys bang and go after white and Asian girls.

Trust me you know it and it's true.

[davidgsr2k]

@limedog133 LOL...that is funny as shyt..but here you go..."Your right" haha i luv it

[dakotafanning1106011]

Can somebody pleasetell me wat to say if I'm Ina line

[GFIRST2010]

Wow, u are different as other chanal. u the one, the best chanel.

this is message of Life. thank you!!!

[thomxAristy]

This is very idealistic. I read the Game, followed some of the theories put them to the test and worked out pretty well. First off just because girls sit next to you, it doesnt mean they'll be forced to talk to you. You have to have something to say and it better be interesting. I like to ask their opinion on something because women loove to give it. it'll involve a break up or a friend of mine having to go to a show to find about a secret admirer.. whatever. google openers. the game

[MrGab185]

You're right on a certain point. It's true that you must have something to say, but isn't it like that for everything in life? I mean, you have to have something to say with you're friends, you have to have something to say to your parents, to your children, to your girlfriend or to your customers to sell them your stuff. But just think about it, if you sit down next to a couple of girls and talk to them, that's great. But i they sit next to you, isn't it gonna be easier? I think yes.

[MrGab185]

@MrGab185 However, i agree that you should not wait for the girls because even if this happens to me every time i go out, when girls come to sit next to me, 1 time on 5 they will be as hot as I would like and 4 times on 5 they will be from «not bad» to «not at all». But I really believe that this guy is giving VERY good advices and I watched most of his videos.

[StoneinFocus]

very astute advice. a lot guys have trouble talking to girls i think, because they see how the most prominent males, the alpha males, go about it, and they try to replicate that behaviour, when its much more advantageous to play to your own strengths.

thumbs up

[chiQiboy]

i prefer women who CANT focus or hold a conversation.if there being sick,that helps too.

[SlowDaddie]

thestaggie

What I've done in the past is find a small bar, like a dive-bar, that only has a handful of people during the week. Not a danky, smelly bar like Moes Tavern, but a nice bar that's small and not crowded. I'll go to the bar and have a drink, but look "busy" on my phone, like I'm texting or e-mailing. If there's a smoking section, I'll have a cigarette (but I don't smoke anymore so blah). Once 2 girls came up to me and I chatted with them, so it kinda works.

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[bbasher79]

arkady39, i dont have anyone i know who likes to go to bars, but at times after work i feel like getting a beer sometimes. would i look like a loser going to a bar and sitting there by myself, or is it ok to go alone...i get out of work at about 10 pm. thanks please reply. i wanna meet new people but am afraid to look like a loser sitting there by myself.

[SlowDaddie]

@bbasher79

basher that's an excellent question. I get out of work late and I live in a city where I don't really know a lot of people. Sometimes I drive home and I pass by the bars, and it's full of people having a good time. I think, "I wish I could be part of that!" But then, I don't really know many people, and the ones I do know wouldn't want to do that anyway.

How can you go to a bar by yourself, but not look like a loser?

[thestaggie]

@SlowDaddie Yeah, that is a good question. My mates are all in serious relationships now and are under the whip, so they "can't" go to bars or anything. I feel okay hitting a bar after work for a few beers but feel akward going by myself later in the evening. Get to the bar, grab your drink, then what? Stand around like an idiot.

[StoneinFocus]

@bbasher79 you never look like a loser, no matter what you're doing, as long as you look confident in your actions. That's just what i've found from personal experience, lack of confidence is the biggest killer, and women can see it from a mile away and are repelled by it

[blackforest270]

The more women drink,the better i look!

[Ko252]

and then they puke all over you, and then you smell bad as well?

[dolph80550]

good advice man. i like to be on the approach though. i'll sit down on the last seat on the booth with a table full of girls. and just start making them smile. i go home with 3 or 4 numbers every night, and 2 or 3 rejections. the odds are usually in your favor if you have the game

[marksiempre]

I really find it amusing in his videos when he says "theese ees a meestake!" although dont get me wrong, his advice is pretty good because it's just so genuine.

[nfs444]

What if your gay?

[FASANORACING]

then dont move when the guys sit next to you

[deejaystyle1]

am very independent out in bars or clubs drink and chill is what a do if a girl sit next to me chat all i do is answer the questions and wait for her to ask what am doing tonight after i leave and balm just say well nothing atoll prob going to be walkin home myself :( then she will ether offer you to her place or ask if she can walk you simple as that. lol

[VazProductions]

You know, i wish you would be one of my friends. You really good, and i like you're videos very much. Just wanted to say :)

Please keep making videos.

P.s this is my first reaction ever on youtube. Take it as a compliment...

[eviltheory]

This one acutally works. I accidently arrived early to a bar with my friend. We grabbed a couple of beers and then just sat and chatted for a while. Some few people started to arrive at the bar and a group of girls sat down next to us and started a conversation. We chatted for a while and then invited all three of them to dance with us on the empty dance floor!

[moreajosh]

so basically hes saying get there early as possible lol everything else AHHHHHHHHH lol

[MrCoolguy6273]

what if your not into the bar seen?

[juicebowl]

For day game you can meet women just about wherever you go. The mall, grocery store, school/university, book stores, cafes and even the yoga floor are good places to meet women. The more you are out, the greater your chances of seeing someone you like and approaching them. Keep your eyes open because people are all over.

Don't forget that having a good social network is another good option for making contacts; you can have some of your friends, family or aquintances hook you up with someone.

[krazyxtwisted]

then just stay home and jerk off

[alton956]

@krazyxtwisted

LMFAO!!!

[alton956]

@krazyxtwisted

dude im still laughing at your response, its soo fuckin random..classic though

[250mxrider]

@ alton956

his response must have been to the guy who said:

Q:"What if you're gay?"

A: "Then just stay home and jerk off."

good advise :)

[Cedde82]

clubs are empty at 10 at night.

it starts at midnight till the early morning.

times have changed, people went out early in the evening in the 70's and 80's but now many parties only start at 10 at night.

besides these clubs are full of drugs, 80% men, dirty dancing and pounding techno music so you almost can't see and hear each other.

[General0208]

@Cedde82 no man !!! You are wrong, lots of boys think the same and end up arriving late !!! Once, i arrived at 9.30, guess what ??? There were 3:1 ratio between females and males.

[hindflight]

@Cedde82 This is true on the East Coast more so than the West Coast. In L.A. people usually go out much earlier. The bars start to empy around 1 and anyone that still wants to party has to find a rave.

[TheNewRiflemanBob]

@Cedde82 I'm pretty sure that not all bars are like that. As a matter of fact, I have seen a few bars which were open in the afternoon and had a pleasant atmosphere.

[chrl007]

agree

[Lando0824]

You should put some skits up. Maybe an undercover example. I'd like to see you in action.

[Putrefaction666]

OH WOW!

AHAHA

[BkRealistzzz]

excuse me, i simply dont understand why u would want to talk to a sober woman in a bar....

[elliez23]

Then you need to get a life.

[meow0meow7]

"Oh wow, where are you coming from?"

[jiggle12345678]

lol "oh wow"

[wot4edge540]

trying this next saturday

[scancool]

hahha, how the F you notice all this stuff?

[rockyz58]

to be fair, his advice is better than mostdo this: don't be a wuss, bust 'em on their flaked dates and late callbacks (ahem.nicely, gents) and if they really can't reciprocate your own courtesy (do they even want it? they can't say they didn't have a chance.) move on to better material. The ladies draw to themselves exactly what they want. If they complain about what they get, they should complain about what they are and where they are when they get hit on. li'l miss independent, right?

[rockyz58]

where's larrain and gilda llllloooollll

[rockyz58]

omg ..not another wild and crazy guy from bratislava...

[rockyz58]

MARTIN/AYKROYD: We shall show them our magnificent american bulges...

[muzicalman]

the only thing about that is, it takes women way longer to get ready to go out, at ANY given time!!

[elzzird23]

great advice. he just reminds me of BORAT..haha.. I LIKE

[Borat2borat]

Dude... your AWESOME. Everything you say is basically true.

[jg215]

y would u want her more sober... lol jk nice vid

[baker4190]

damn dude you too smart.

[helmutschmutke]

Hey man!

I really enjoy watching your videos.

Can you please tell me something.

I like this girl,and we already talked.

But i am not shoure if she has a boyfriend.

What is the best way to find out?

Thanks

Greetings from Slovenia(europe)

[Xycopixie]

in my opinion- ask her!

[aaapilih]

@helmutschmutke

Od kdaj so pa fanti še bli problem xDD

[steverattlehead]

"oh wow, how are you doing?" hahahaha!

[Ryandri0d]

GENIUS!

[Cri354]

once i used the good old watress tip :P give to a womans some cash and say them that u need something to drink and tell her where u seat :P and then u got her to talk :P...or a risky way is...go in a underground train see a woman give her a phone and tell her to call u on ur other phone :P and she might call u to give ur phone bk :D

[balleballe213]

ur brilliant man i like your style

[darpachief]

what if the group of guys come over and sit next to you and are like "fancy a bump?" XD

[MidsummerNightScream]

if they are hot then say ya sure

[bettronomical]

good tips, but if U grow some balls & approach women rather than let them approach U your success rate would be higher. But good tips none the less for shy guys & beginers. big ups to arkady39 for tryin to help afc(average fustrated chumps)

[allanroyce]

just post ur video men....are you picking up grannies???

[mambojazz1]

It's not about balls or being shy. He's right that the success rate is higher if the girls are pursuing you. If she approaches you and gives you proximity (and yes it sub-conciously is proximity as she could have sat anywhere or ordered her drink from anywhere in the bar but chose to do it near you), it's easy for her to fall into the frame that she's the one trying to pick you up.

[noffssy]

listen to this guy, he k n o w s.

[elias225]

i love you man ..your awsome thanks a lot body

[xxxsmd]

THANX mAN  !!!

aNOTHER Great Jop!!!!

[gaygay78]

waw this another great GOODONE that i never heard b4 Thank u .

[glayswandir]

This is a good video, it was already put to practise by a guy whose video you favorited, like pick up master in NY ...but still good to sum it up :D

[Nightavenger2]

Please post a video on why nice guys are underestimated, and overlooked when it comes to dating.

[mikeOmightchitown]

The loud music is an major problem. I dislike it and dislike women yelling in my ears 2. Not 2 attractive. Huh? Better off dancing in my experiences in loud venues.

Nice vid bro;) tc

Mike

[Vampirefreak931027]

THX dude for putting these videos on youtube.

[mateor09]

are there any other places to try out your luck with women besides bars cuz i dont really like to drink too much it makes you fat and i hate beer fat?

[arkady39]

Of course! Just about any other place is better for meeting women than a bar. And by the way, I don't drink either.

[mateor09]

Nice.. great videos by the way im just soakin in all this knowledge about the opposite sex

[milllanooo]

i agree with AmitNO , your vocabulary is very clear , i can get all your words easily , thanks gad that i found you and your videos arkadi :D

[arkady39]

Thanks!

[davidgsr2k]

@milllanooo your a fag...u sit on youtube and tell ppl their vocab is good..haha no wonder your watching dating videos.....and before you say it, im just here to learn to date 4 women at a time, im stuck at 3..its lame i

[milllanooo]

@davidgsr2k

what is the problem when i said that arkady has a clear and obvious vocab ,

kill your self david , psycooo

[AmitNO]

Sure, they are great! Fantastic advice, logical explanation and a vast vocabulary, not over-using "You know" and "Like". In comparison, I saw another dating-video where the guy used the terms so much, it made the video unbearable to watch. Keep it up, you're helping lots of guys, including me. ;)

[arkady39]

Thanks a lot!

[AmitNO]

I don't know if you've noticed, but every time you have an example of starting a conversation with a girl it starts with "Wow..." :P

[arkady39]

:) Good observation. I should work on not doing it.

[AmitNO]

Well, it's better than saying "You know" or "Like" all the time :P

[arkady39]

You just read my mind. I have low tolerance for these "terms."

Well, I should feel proud that you noticed the "wow" - this means that you watch and pay attention. :)

[Teddisoulja]

This is what you call a man that knows

[SilverTimberwolf]

Man kotk05 when I get to 21 I'm gonna try this advice in the bars too.But U do have a point too.

[kotk05]

Arkady39, I failed to implement those ideas last night, but won't let it happen again. You're right though, there were more women, sober, at 9:15pm.

[moonseeker44]

You are one brilliant person. I love the way you explain things. It is precise and to the point. You give very good advice and I am hoping to see more videos from you in the future.

[arkady39]

Thanks, I appreciate it very much.

[alphasamuel]

Makes sense as usual ;-)