10 Signs You May Be a BootyCall - Jumpoff - Bussitbaby. TonyaTko Talks

[NawticJ]

What if dating is not accepted in his culture, so he's not introducing you to parents?

[ricewinery]

OMFG! I'M A BOOTYCALL?!! AHHHHHALSDJKFALSDJF

[Missjk007]

"I'm trying to make this under 10min..."

Looks at the vid time: 19:53..xD. lol...,good vid btw! <3

[kaylahface]

Oh my gosh this is all true. And my best friend is a booty all and does not fucking get it. Idk wut to do with her

[makeupbydel]

@kaylahface show her the video :P

[woodyfly]

As a guy, I agree with everything. Everything that I would do when I am in it just to hit it is listed in the video.

[ppls4life]

i am craking up, this is hilarious but ALL true

[Jahnay22]

Loved it!!! Nothin but the truth

[gullig85]

This is awesome! thanks a lot!

[caramelprincessxxx4]

not all men are into beauty TONYA..studies show that beautiful women are most likely to go on DATES/GET TREATED BETTER and also STAY SINGLE because many men are intimidated by them and think other men are after them too so they may have to work harder. Lets be honest, most mens 'wifeys' arent as hot as the 'chick on the side' who is usually more attractive, the baby mamas arent hot either

[caramelprincessxxx4]

isit strange that i treat guys as my 'dick calls' isit strange?

[Nycutie82]

Girl you are so on point with this video!

[asmaulai244]

what does it mean when a man says he is afriad of relationships after you tell him you like him....however he still takes me out, i ve met his mother and friends and i have even been to church with him on more than one occassion where he introduced me to everyone at his church.....But i still havent gotten a committment from him or anything....the situation really confuses me.......FYI i ve NOT been intimate with this guy!!!

[TheShootTruth10]

I got a question. I have a pretty good record when it comes to same night sex. if I dont bang a girl within a week I never do. if a girl is attracted to me why cant I say lets go fuck.

[caramelprincessxxx4]

@TheShootTruth10

lol how do you know shes attracted to you? lmao...most girls these days will have sex regardless especially after a night at a club

[TheShootTruth10]

@caramelprincessxxx4 cmon you can tell if a girls is attracted to you. especially when you keep neutral women around you who know their shit and can comfirm. you go into a club with a girl and she knows her stuff she can confirm it because women give each other dirty looks all the time when this happens.

[caramelprincessxxx4]

@TheShootTruth10

your not hot. Believe me us girls can lie..and also, who told you that just because a girl gives another girl dirty looks it means its because she wants the guy shes with? are you serious? girls stare each other out all the time, there could be thousands of things going through our heads. Dont kid yourself johnny boy. I cant stand guys who think we have to BEG for men..in this day and age..please!

[caramelprincessxxx4]

@TheShootTruth10

Dont think that girls are after LOOKS or soo big on a guys LOOKS..lmao..you need to have the money too. Im sorry johnny

[TheShootTruth10]

@caramelprincessxxx4 you dont need money. look around you. you black girls and some white girs date all them jobless black guys. money cannot buy swagger. money is just something that complicates things. money should not not be used as a crutch. ask the guys who have a lot of money and after 5 years his girlfriend or wife cheat on them with the average man. kevin federline for example. looks? you want a guys with yellow teeth? I know you want guys with long fingernails that is a given.

[caramelprincessxxx4]

@TheShootTruth10

lol im not black. Have you seen the TYPE of women that date these guys? come on...hugh hefner gets laid more than all the teen guys put together and he aint just getting the hood chicks..theres a reason. Britney spears in BIPOLAR she aint in the right frame of mind.

[TheShootTruth10]

@caramelprincessxxx4 oh so you call yourself caramel princess because you are white. hugh hefner gets women for one reason. because he sells them dreams. I would rather not need a crutch to get laids. like owning playboy and being a millionaire. that is obvious. everyone is out here trying to use a crutch all the time. I am the type of person who doesnt want any crutch to get things. that is why I never want to be rich or famous. yes believe it or not.

[TheShootTruth10]

@caramelprincessxxx4 what is up with all your racist problems when it comes to dating and sex?

[caramelprincessxxx4]

@TheShootTruth10

what are you talking about now

[TonyaTko]

@caramelprincessxxx4 @TheShootTruth10 Dont worry Caramel, he looks a bit like Vinny from Jersey Shore, so maybe he's getting some left-over pumpum reminiscent of the show's craze?

-Tko

[TheShootTruth10]

women want sex just as much if not more than men they just dont show it.

[Allinmyworld]

wow i 've watched many booty call vids just for you knowledge this is the best

[prityricky1]

Number 1 is right on!!!! I had a " jump off" that was in a relationship, & anytime she would have an argument with him or dispute with him, she would call me. He even slapped her one time & I still didn't care! She would want me to pick her up, & bring her back to my apartment, and I would tell her no. She still doesn't know where I live to this day! If a chick that I valued would have gotten slapped by her man, I would have picked her up without hesitation, & probably put a" hit" out on her ma

[kyte212]

Wow! I wish this video existed in 2008

[ldpoetess]

I love your accent. AND this video!!

[tyquan718]

u are funny lol

[mamihottie1234]

i hate men they are all completely bastards i dont know why i end up being one

[MrCwillie]

damn! you are breaking down the science ! thats crazy, isn't it crazy how men and woman think differently?

[Sony888888888888]

He didn't even call the next day to check to see if I was alive. My female intuition told me he probably found someone else to sleep with since I wasn't available. I know know to raise my standards and stick with them while keeping my legs closed! By the grace of God, I was able to get home. LESSON LEARNED. 

[ldpoetess]

@Sony888888888888 Proud of you girl!

[Sony888888888888]

Just learned #1 the hard way. I have been with this 1guy for long time. He tells me he loves me. The other day, I had a photo shoot in a far part of MD, I live in DC & take public transportation. Public trans ends earlier in MD. I asked him if he could give me a ride home. He said no problem. The photo shoot ran late. He called to check in & sounded drunk & wasted. Needless to say, he stood me up outside in 27 degree weather. Luckily the photographer and his wife gave me a lift home.

[misssweetbaby]

Scary but true! Thanks Tonya !!!!

[Falcrist]

If I'm unavailable between the hours of "2am and 4am" I'm probably asleep. Nobody had consistent access to me at those hours until I was thinking about getting engaged.

[chestveeg]

The park is the number 1 spot to take a booty call. I have done it because nooo.one I know is ever at the park. Now the movies or mall is a no no for a booty call .

[EbunnyEthereal]

i'm a teen! =) i'll just pmsg u my questions, i guess.

[slickslipslimey]

is it possible to be a jump off with out the sex being involved cause thats what i think i am to this guy

[kandela75]

i been dealing with this guy that was my friend before we slept togother. We work at te same place so we didnt want anybody to know. Me and him both said we didnt want to be in a relationship. Its been almost 3 yrs. he is always there for me. i even lived with him and his family for a while. but sometimes i dont feel right.

[TonyaTko]

@kandela75 Youre in the "Friends With Benefits" category... a particularly Tough situation to be in! I suggest talking with him and seeing where you all are at. Ppl who don't want relationships tend not to want them bcz of a particular stage they are in in their lives. Having sex doesn't usually change that life stage for men. Women on the otherhand tend to ignore what the man has said verbally for what she THINKS he's saying physically. 3 yrs later & I bet he STILL doesnt say ur his girl

-Tko

[systemfx]

HAHAHAH OOO BUZZZY

[MillenniumTV]

luv it 10:22 ''twigs & berries, blup & blup'', lol ;) another entertaining video Tonya!

[Brownfox1981]

Pretending to fall on the curb. That's new

[chriztinalori]

you should make a book :]

[sonebone7]

Thats why we should play the game also lol!!!!! Some men are out for themselves only...

[chrislee210android]

LOL Twig and berries.

Subscribe.

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[NikaCheysvin]

Tonya your a amazing! Thank you for doing these you help me so much! <3

[lolwtfmichele]

Agreeing 100% with #1 im so glad I watch this though because I already knew that my Bf cared but I wasnt sure how much .. but when I read this I was like wow my bf goes all out trying to help with a situation, or really tries to encourage me to do something that would help me help myself in the situation! :)

[GerlaineTalk]

This advice made me feel a lot better about this new relationship that I am in. Awesome!

[TonyaTko]

@vixious101 I did... have you done a search for "TonyaTko Black women Aids)? I did it last year... Which points were you hoping to go over?

-Tko

[desertrose88]

oh buuzzyyyyy... AHAHAHAHAHA

[TonyaTko]

@burtonite13 I've often told you the importance of LISTENING. He said he doesnt want anything of substance... and under that premise you have CHOSEN to become intimate with him. What motivation does he have to make you his girl? when ur willing to sleep w/ ppl who clearly have NOT? And he doesnt even have to take you on ONE DATE EITHER? Just light some candles left over from the last girl strum a tune &get inside your guts? AND have open ears to listen to his issues? But what do YOU have?

-Tko

[Dena119]

LMMFAO No Lickie No Sticky! You Want To Beat You Got To Eat It!!! too funny but you're right

[beennamedIcy]

He cares.

[mark23j]

what if you was the secret at first and haven't met her friend or her family and now you just dont care now what go on out side of her house like now you don't really care to met anybody now she wants me too or she dont like too do things i do. she just boring but i like her . ...........lets go back to watching you do push ups that more fun tonya

[TonyaTko]

@mark23j Um... If you find her boring, no longer want to be in the relationship and no loger care.

Leave.

-Tko

[mark23j]

and what if you was the secret at first and haven't met her friends and family and you only care is only in her house no where else 

[TonyaTko]

@mark23j I dont understand, plz write clearly...

-Tko

[mark23j]

tanya stop starting stuff what if she boring but you like her?

[Ojokernegro]

Interesting video TonyaTko! Great points indeed.

Would love to be some woman's booty-call though, now that'd be awesome.

PS: No offense, but may the hot women not listen to you TT xD

[miszshoes]

lmao ! i love it !

[JAFFACAKEMONKEY]

Your videos are brilliant...you tell it like it is, which is how it should be.

Also when will body butter beautiful be available? its sold out because i really want some.

Again your great.

[sheebaby]

"boop and bloop" LMAO

[tushay67]

your advice is awesome....i'm so glad your here

[TMONEYDAKING]

HA......

i like thys it go hard......

now i wonder of many dudes switch there game for ova thys.....

ha

[lynette021964]

I can't wait for your next video. Your videos are always on point and timely.

[precioushead]

ROFL!! This really makes me appreciate being married. Dating is a Hot Mess! This gave me a good laugh, especially the "Masturbation Sleeve." LOL!!!

[cherryz88]

aahhhh hurry up with the next vid!! i need it bad!! lol :)

[CBSkyGirl]

just tweeted today about a guy falling into the fruit stand while trying to avoid his girl's hand hold lmao too funny! these girls dont learn!!!

[ESEJUVEN]

"OH BUZZY!!!" HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[pang5]

I don't know if this about you being bootycall so much as the guy just being a jerk. I'd use stronger language about him but I'll restrain myself. Damn, any behaviour like this = he was raised by wolves. Actually, that's unfair to wolves, ain't it. :)

[oilldrill1]

@pang5 everbody has a level of value....maybe he aint no jerk...maybe u just aint valuable beyond drill'in. what do u offer 2 a man?

[pang5]

@oilldrill1 I offer myself which is a pretty damned good deal. :)

Too many guys act like they're the gift to the relationship. Pah. A relationship is a combined effort. Each brings a perspective and a value to it. Otherwise, what tonya our lady is describing? It's a jerk instead of a man. Sorry, but that's the truth.

[oilldrill1]

@pang5 sugar...the fact that u needed those 10 signs to be spoken by somebody else lets me know how to bring u to now

[pang5]

@oilldrill1 Cute but no. Tonya is someone I enjoy watching. These points point to a clear case of jerkism and, unless a person wants to be a mere bed buddy, then they should kick the jerk to the kerb. A jerk is a jerk by how he/she behaves. Remember what my parents told me and your parents should have told you - ugly is as ugly does.

[oilldrill1]

@pang5 how many ..."non-dates"..that end with you feeling like an outhouse..do you need for the blessed words of momma and daddy to ring in ur head? If I walked up to a drillsite and said what I wanted...and I surely would....ya thank she would respect that more than me just drillin her till she passed out?..hence no need for goin out...by the way is u a bubba or bubbette?

[pang5]

@oilldrill1 If someone wanted me to be a bed buddy and was up-front about it, I could respect that behaviour. Depending on what I wanted at the time, he or she might be successful. :)

Unless a person says what they want, no one can read their mind but if someone behaves like a jerk, everyone can avoid them. :D

I'm female.

[oilldrill1]

@pang5 well shit sugar thats all anybody talkin bout.....do u wanna do the duct tape mambo or should u run....I mean...say no

[pang5]

@oilldrill1 Hahahaha. No thanks, man. Thanks all the same.

[oilldrill1]

@pang5 actually that was what they call a "rhe-tor-ical" question...but I figured u 2 b a runner......

[Alleyesontimekka]

@pang5 totally agree.. honesty is the best policy.

[kzique73]

i always have a smile after watching your show girl. your too funny and truthful--but you make truth fun! = )

[lancejr14]

she is so right

[csguitarsk8dude]

"you want to beat it gotta eat it"

lol love your quotes xP

[Asha3000]

LMAO...I love your videos Tonya.

Thanks for keeping it real !

[corrkyme]

No licky No sticky!!!! OMG girl I LOVE you! If i'm having a sucky day, I watch one of your videos and I laugh SO much! Aside from being hilarious, your videos are VERY informative!

[babychanel21]

common sense for sure. lol. my booty call was weird. he didnt take me much places but wed walk around, go eat breakfast and hed hold my hand as we walked LOL. plus, the sex was intimate and we cuddled; but only contacted me once in awhile and at night only LOL. we didnt have much of a connection outside the bed. oh well.. on to the next.

[gabrinic]

@babychanel21 I WAS THINKIN THIS SAME THING WHILE I WAS WATCHING THE VID!!! OH WELL...LIVE & LEARN.

[Free6969]

@babychanel21 this sounds familiar for me too--on to the next one--FOR REAL

[nazishtk16]

tonya, it was soo funny when you zoomed in closer!!!!! hahahah

[rodirodi1254]

hahhahaaha..9:42 to like 10:00 she was cracking me up she started like spazing out but its so true...ahh man i got a good laugh at her tonya u light up my day

[everbeen23]

LOL TWIG AND BERRIES!

[7SaintsRow]

Ms. TKO, you never keep your vids under 10 minutes when you say so, but I thank you for it cause information shouldn't be limited. Great video cause I've pulled stunts like what you said all the time. Hell if you interview me on the subject, I'll give you some insight for yo ass :-D LOL...

P.S. You fine as hell girl!

[TheSquidni]

Hahah your original plan was 10 minutes, but it became 20 ;) You're adoraable hahah I watch videos that don't event affect me! I'm 15, and I know for sure that I'm not a booty call (since I've never even kissed a boy yet), but I STILL WATCH YOUR VIDEOS hahahah Don't be creeped out, be flattered ^_^

[bajestar24]

You are ALWAYS dead on. 

[mom2dave]

This was so on point! Unfortunately I've had all 10 happen to me in one situation. The thing is, the relationship started out being a friends with benefits situation and I was hoping to take it further. Ladies if you start off as a jump off/booty call it is highly unlikely that you will ever become anything more than that!

[TheRayBeverly]

u said a warm bun for his hot dog LOL

[TheRayBeverly]

u zoomed in LOL

[sheldonrize]

masturbation slip ahahah!

[lavinder11]

Shouldn't this be intuitive?

I'm quoting your human masturbation sleeve comment on my FB right now lmao!

[tariis09]

hey tko, pls write what you have said about 10 signs. Thanks

[OMFGBA0BA0]

you're so funny! this is so true though

[GataAgressiva411]

LOL this was funny and very true. I've been dropping these clowns left and right for their foolishness. Luckily I always stop short of any real trouble, but I always feel the need to "check" my intuition with time, waiting for them to say/do something to give me proof I'm right, without investing any real physical or emotional energy. But now I realize even a friendship is investment, and most of the time, it's not even worth it. Thanks. Peace.

[blahblahblahman]

Every woman has a gut instinct and knows whether or not a guy really cares about her or is using her. The thing is getting women to actually listen to their intuition...instead of "hoping" and "giving him a chance".

We already know, ladies. We just continue to let ourselves get played. I've been there and done that, so I'm talking to myself as well.

[blackandthick]

very nice video loved it

[NvrSettle]

LMAO. This is funny yet so damn true. Wow.

[Unonanahah]

TonyaTKO you cracks me up! All 10 are oh so true!LOL!

[sugababe971]

Tonya, I suscribed recently and I absolutely love your videos because they are the truth. I had to comment on this oneto say that

1. you're hilarious and

2. you're absolutely right. I've been there and ladies listen, all the points that she raises in the video are true.

But as you said Tonya, there may be different circumstances so I think that the ladies should look for 3 or 4 of these signs together 2 determine if they are a bootycall. Keep doing what you do!!

[ceeads32]

"you ain't stickin' unless you lickin" "you wanna beat you got to eat it" HAHA Love it.

[hibothebibo]

Under 10 minutes? Tonya, I love you but you know that's not gonna happen. LOL! :D

[siggyboss]

How does a man know if a woman prefers to be a 'bootycall' or just a 'bussitbaby'? Obviously, these relationships may exist where the woman is financially independent, adulterous, etc. Many men are confused by the constant barrage of others that all women want traditional relationships.