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  • why don't you delete the hate mail? it's your channel, do as you want!

  • First of all, you are a beautiful (inside and out) woman with enough confidence to even do what you do! When you DO lose weight nobody's going to be able to tell you sheeyat stinks, okay. Blacks tend to live in a crab barrel in America anyway, so... Instead of seeing a beautiful woman and compliment her, blacks say 'she thinks she's cute... WTF? I feel you on that Mamasita. Obviously you DO have ppl in your life (real or cybor) that ARE cheering and supporting of you! We can't choose family :(

  • all those haters are probably 600 lbs and over. they are jealous of your amazing ability to keep positive, the ability to help ppl and motivate them. Dont worry, there are more fans than those stupid haters that have no life. u WILL reach ur goal. I wish the very very best. good luck

  • Mrs. Babyfat, I just subscribed to your page. I have gotten this far in one day, and you are not doing this in vain. I am tired of living in this body, and you are inspiring me. I am actually rooting for you, and am eager to see what's next every time a clip ends, and another begins. Your excitement, your honesty, and your laughter is enough to inspire and make every experience helpful..even for a stranger like me who ignored every sign. Keep doing what you do, I LOVE IT! Thank you!

  • keep on keeping on your doing great!:)

  • Misery loves company so because these haters are so unhappy with themselves that they want you to feel the same keep ur head up u are beautiful and inspiring

  • I'm rooting for you! It's sad that some people can be so negative. You can always post your vids on your blog to filter out some of the nonsense. If people have nothing nice/uplifting to say they should keep it moving..it's not that hard to do. Power to you girl!!!

  • This is why I don't post videos of myself on here. I know people would hate on me and my self esteem could never withstand it.

  • Exactly like the Note Below Me said. Some People Feel Bad about themselves or their Life isn't going the way they want or they aren't Happy.... So they Look for someone they want to Put Down or Belittle them ..... For Some SICK Reason it Makes them feel good ???? I don't get How Hurting Someone can make themselves feel good bcuz that is Sooooo wrong to do. But Anyways Stay Focused on the Positive cuz we Are Out Here. We Enjoy Ur Videos & I like ur Energy ! Best Wishes to U !!! :))

  • You seem like an awesome, strong,dedicated,family loving,God fearing,successful, woman and some people are intimated by that. these people want to turn you in to a hater. Don't fall for it. Keep up the positive attidude! Great job and God bless you and your family.

  • ok, well first off the only person you need to do this for is you, Cus this is for you. Some of these ppl are probably just mad that they are watching your videos and know they arent going to change. You are a beautiful woman and you need not listen to those ppl because they dont know what they are talking about.

  • i just subbed to ur vids, and u r doing a great job!!!! 4get the negativity, if they don't like they don't have to watch and u can block them!! Mary j. Blige said it best people are gonna put u down cuz they don't like themselves so do u and work what u got!! Much success!!

  • You are gorgeous, u got a pretty face.. Don't let the haters take ur energy.. U go girl.. F... The haters!

  • Dont give the hatter the energy.. keep doin what you doin..

  • There's a dickhead disliking EVERY FUCKIN video i upload, he doesn't even wan't to tell me who he is..like seriously?! what have i done? if my videos really suck i don't get why he's still watching my videos...oh wait..its becuz he's a dick!

  • "Sometimes" what those mean spirited people say are partially true, thats is why it hurt because they have touched a nerve in you. The truth is what you know is true no matter how it comes to you! But what I say is take what you need and push the other BS down the toilet and keep it pushin. I like your channel and keep the faith.

  • I just wanted to let you know that you inspire me. I am starting my weight loss journey and I will start making videos too. I think your videos are great. Don,t worry about other people. This is your journey. Your a beautiful person..keep up the good work! You have my support!

  • hi.... first of all i want to say that english is not my first language so... sorry for the mistakes! What if the haters are right ( off course not in all they-re sayig) What if your family don`t tell you the truth because they love you too much... listen, it`s an onest opinion, please don`t be mad at me... you need to loose weight.. i`ve read some comments down below and.... honey you`re not beautiful, you`re not healthy.. cut the calories, that`s why you`re not loosing weight. i`m 224 lbs, i

  • @gaby765bv i`m 224 lbs, i know how hard it is.. i`ve been called fat, i still am.... but i`m trying to loose weight and i am. you`re a nurse ( btw i study to be a nurse) so you know what i`m talking about. EAT 1400-1600 calories, try Atkins it`s working, try 1 day of water fast/week. The truth is obesity make`s a person ugly, not fit, ill. So loose the damn weight... you`re carring 300 lbs of fat get rid of it in 2 years and have a normal life not for the haters but for you and your family

  • I use to have the same problem, I think when your heavy it makes people feel better about themselves to tell u 2 lose weight they feel as if that's their good deed. Then when u do lose u become competition especially among women so they tell u to slow down or sabotage u. And if u are like me with a fine ass husband the hating never stops but keep your head up u have nothing to prove to no 1 but you.

  • @POOHLUVIN IKTR!! And girl, my husband is Fiiiiiiiinnnnee!!!:)

  • The thing is is that ppl dont want to see others do better than them. Especially when they believe your below them. Keep it up, ur a very attractive person ur personality just adds to ur beauty. : ) I come across these people too but im learning to leave yhose ppl alone, so called friends and family. Like u im also emotional n ppls coments also get to me. I thought of suicide but if I left this earth, who would be here to prove them wrong?

  • dont care about what people think do you

  • Also, I've noticed that white people say stuff behind each others backs. I'm not sure which is worse...behind your back or to your face, but both are hurtful. Keep the faith! You'll *still* be beautiful and *still* have a great personality when you meet your goal.

  • Honey, you are beautiful! Some people are just mean. They probably just like causing controversy. You keep up the good work. Losing weight is HARD! I've been battling this my whole life. I think you're doing a great job and THANK YOU for posting these!

  • when it comes to haters, it doesn't matter if you're a skinny bitch or a bbw...they'll curse you out, call you down to the lowest because 9 times out of 10 they're insecure about themselves. Don't let their negativity bring you down. As far as I'm concerned you're doing great and deserve much applause for your efforts! Keep at it beautiful!

  • One thing about it people are going to talk. Yes you are human so it is going to bother you but like you said yourself people had something to say when you lost the 100lbs and they are going to talk when you are big. You are loosing weight for you and your kids not for people keep your head up be encouraged. People are real tuff behind a computer screen and the internet gives a window for weak people to say anything they want to say just let them talk. Its not just race.

  • No one deserves to be hated on just for doing videos. We need to stop letting it go just because "it's the internet". We should not let bigotry, bias and hatred to permeate. It is too rampant on the internet.

  • People are just plain stupid and mean. i say this to you keep pushing. who ever made those nasty comments probally aint worth crap anyway.

  • Mrs. Babyfat, I would not waste my time with people that say evil things. Did you know that you can actually set up your youtube account for you to approve/disapprove comments and that way your comments can only show edifying comments and you can have it all positive for everyone. Losing a large amount of weight is one of the hardest things a person can do and you don't need the negative. I would stay away from face-book (not of God). Remember, the devil talks through people--don't listen.

  • NO I REALLY DON'T THINK THAT U R WRONG OR BEING TO SENSITIVE AND IT IS NOT UR IMAGINATION. PEOPLE DO HATE BUT IT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE WHO U ARE. AND ALOT OF THEM ARE THINKING WHY NO ME AND WHY HER. THEY HONESTLY THINK JUST BECAUSE WE ARE BIG THAT WE ARE NOT WORTHY. BUT THAT'S NOT TRUE AT ALL BECAUSE IF WE WERE WE WOULDN'T HAVE THE PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES THAT LOVE US THE WAY WE DO. SO GIRL DO U. LUV AND RESPECT FROM ANOTHER BIG THICK BEAUTIFUL SISTER.

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  • WE ALL HAVE TO HEAR THE NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE COMMENTS,LEARN FROM THEM AND MOVE ON. THE POSITIVE COMMENTS WILL ENCOURAGE YOU AND THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS ARE TO MAKE YOU STRONGER AT WHAT YOU ARE DOING. YOU ARE A GOOD ROLE MODEL SO PLEASE KEEP ON DOING YOU. EVERY STEP YOU MAKE AND EVERY TURN YOU TAKE WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE

  • It's strange that as a Christian, you feel the need to do a "why" video. That is plain and simple. The devil is real and alive. The same reason people comment hate and negativity when I say I'm a child of God and then they find out I'm gay. That's just the way the world is. You shouldn't even respond. The Christian thing to do is pray for them! #justsayin

  • You are making yourself so vulnerable by posting the truth of who you are and unfortunately people who don't know better will use that as ammunition if they can. Keep your head up - I'm a Christian and we all are people, we all get hurt sometimes - even by strangers. I truly feel where you are coming from but I really think the common denominator is a lack of character and conscience. Please know that the love and support outweighs the hate and overwhelming darkness only demands more light.

  • Keep up your good work. Stick to what your doing and don't pay no attention to who is giving you negative comments, it's the devil trying to keep you down. Just ignore it an keep doin you. Everyone is gonna have haters so why not give em something to hate about!! An no matter how long it takes never give up. This is your journey an we want to see you succeed in it(:

  • Resist the devil and he shall flee. In this world that we live in we will encounter all types of spirits. Pray for those that persecute you. I am no saint, Yes I am a believer but this is a hard walk baby. This is how I choose to think when I am faced with negativity so I am passing this on to you. Persecution is a good thing. Let em hate. They hated on Jesus. You keep on posting these videos and pushing on with your weight loss journey. Anything worth having is worth working hard for.:)

  • I bet u the people who leave the nasty comments are socially handicapped therefore must resort to going online anonymously and talk shit about others.... Remember one thing..... Those who anger u control u.... They go about their night.... While u dwell and get upset on some lonely souls comment. Think about it. Those people who are truly happy in life and with themselves do not go around doing that... Why hate on someone you dont know? No one with common sense and true happiness does that... T

  • They are just jealous. Some people who are miserable don't like to see others succeed. There will always be negative people out there to throw you off your game. Stay committed to your goals and don't stress over those crazy things that others say, focus on the positive comments and support!! Instead of ordering chinese, go for a walk, chew a piece of gum, or some other activity other than eating. You will reach your goals this is your journey...however long it takes!!

  • KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK DONT STOP TO U REACH YOUR GOAL

  • Pure jealousy! I am keeping my journey secret for the SAME reason!

  • I like tuna fish sandwiches...they are yummy!

  • Ya know....There is always the delete button. Whenever I get mean comments on my videos and profile, I delete the comments and I block the person. I am responsible for MY space and what affects ME. The comments do not effect me at all because I choose not to. Now I've gotten some stalkerish messages and comments so I can understand how those things can shake you up. But the mean comments? They're idiots. who cares?

  • Keep your head up!!!! They are just jealous of your and your bravery.

  • The reason that I subscribe to you is your bravery and honesty. It takes a lot to put yourself out there and you are doing it, over and over. Anyone who posts negative comments is someone who doesn't have the courage to do what you do and they are jealous. Please do not let them hurt you, you are funny and sweet and beautiful. I get excited whenever I see you have posted a new video, 2000 subscribers can't be wrong! Keep the faith, much love from Idaho!

  • @MrsBabyfat Very Good!!! Congrats on the 10 lbs. Every little bit counts....Check out my videos...My channel :)

  • I just subscribed to you to support you. Please pray for those who are mean to you and continue on you journey! Be blessed. And yes I am a sista!!

  • love your vids and make those haters your motivaters hunny cuz u are always goin to get negative feedback in anything you do...don't let them effect you because that's what they want you to do is FAIL prove them wrong let them motivate you to work even harder

  • maybe u should try nutrisystem or weight watchers or go to a nutritionist to help develop a good diet plan once you have a good diet plan make sure you have a good exercising plan as well because diet and exercise are the key to losing weight also some other causes of you not losing weight could be due to stress so try activities that stimulate your mind in positive ways

  • I know what yer going through sweetie. I've been working out on an eliptical but struggle to fend off the chow. Don't give up. Keep at it. xxoo

  • Let the haters hate baby!!!! You will always, always, always have opposition when you're working on accomplishing a goal! Do your thing....your haters serve to get you blessed, and to make you even stronger!!!! Just wait until you lose the weight!! Girl you are really gonna get haters!!!! Straighten your back, hold your head up, and do ministry baby!!! Your ministry to help others is beyond race!!! Focus!!!!!!!!! You're a winner baby!!!!

  • Stay strong continue your goal, some things that are helping me is when i get hungry eat fresh produce and set a time before you go to bed to stop eating at least two hours before bed this realy helps and this may sound crazy but check out Buffy the body she has a lot of excercises you can do at home and a lot of good advice about food , this is not a easy journey and also try a 1800 calorie diet or 2000 calorie diet and when you are not at the gym walk around the neighborhood . plan your meal

  • my name is kia and I am not sure were you are at your weight loss , Do Not Quite keep going ignore the haters, because what you are doing is not easy and there will always be people who works with the devil trying to distract or discourage us from any Goal that we may have . yes me myself is on a weight loss journey , to go back to my sexy self my goal is to lose 150 lbs

  • Chanda, do I need to be go H. Park and C. Hill on some people?

  • You are a beauiful and strong woman. Stay strong. Don't let these haters get to you. Seeing you on youtube has been so inspirational. You are so brave to come on and be real about your weight loss journey. You are such a positive woman. Keep that positive energy. I'm an Black woman and it has been wonderful seeing you here. Know that there are some people who thrive on the misery of others and feel better about themselves from causing others pain. Brush them off our shoulder!!

  • WOW!! I just came across your video! Not trying to change the subject but I think you are GORGEOUS. Your facial features the cheekbones,eyes and skin tone. GOOD LAWD your skin is also blemish free.

    Take care...

  • people are just asses. forget them

  • The truth is, People may not like you b/c you have perseverance,you are beautiful and successful. People are envious of you; you have a beautiful family and career, and on top of all that you are trying to become a better you! Even tho i havent met you in person, I feel like I love you! Really! You are such a personable, and beautiful woman! I learn so much from you! and the best part is that as the wonderful woman you are, you will rise above this; of that I am sure! :)

  • them :)

  • When you let the negativity of others affect you then u give them the power to control your destiny and they win, they can't do it unless you allow they to. Take your POWER back and you WIN!! BE BLESSED!!

  • Don't let the negativity discourage u, better yet let it motivate u to your goal. they are only foot stools to take you higher to your destination. START STEPPING MY SISTER!!!! :)

  • Hello doll. I love you...don't you even give those negative people a second thought...I hear it too and I am oh so happy anyway...I just ran across your page and I couldn't wait to subscribe to you. I find that the better I become...the more hater's I get. It just reminds me that I am going in the right direction. You are awesome and going in the right direction. Luv u and keep the inspiration coming. Each day is an opportunity to be better.

  • People want to see you fail. And I can see right now that it's getting to you and that's exactly what they want to happen. Stuffing your face and eating. Girl I'm really disappointed that you let them get to you. Let it Goooooooooo! Your husband is right. I let noone get to me because God have the capability of Smashing the Devil Down.. God has not given you the spirit of Fear but of Power, Love and a Sound mind......

  • Why are you going through this? You are feeding into their ignorance. You know the saying If the shoe fits wear it.. You are only talking and encouraging those that have a weight issue themselves. We are the only ones that enjoying you. If you can't take the nonsense that people are saying to you and about you on youtube then cancel your channel. Otherwise continue your progress and tell these people to get a life and shut up.

  • You do this it WILL fall off!!! Blessings

  • You may want to consider Atkins, it really does work, really fast. Look into it, all their information Is free in their website and you can print out the foods that you're allowed, also it appears that your calorie intake is too high, you should lower it by at least 500, that alone will give you 5 pounds off in about a week, also you should increase your water intake, and most importantly exercise, cardio at least 45 minutes a day, it will melt off, no bread, starch, and no sodium, I promise if

  • Your husband is right, YouTube is not the place to be if you are overly sensitive. There is alot of evil in the world and unfortunately a ridiculous amount of it is hanging out here trolling away. That being said, there are also ALOT of us here that enjoy you, are pulling for you and hope you stick around. You just need to ignore the trolls or block them, you can't allow them to sabotage your success. Remember this is about YOU, your happiness, health & future, DON'T let them bring you down! :)

  • Do NOT listen to the negativity. You know what you need to do, so just stick to that and shut out the rest :)

  • An idea is reducing your calorie intake. I cut mine down to 1500 a day. Started off using the Smart Ones dinners by Weight Watchers to teach me portion control. Now I cook my meals to those portion sizes. Also bought a treadmill because I wont do the gym. I do 30 minutes on that at a 3mph pace each night & do Wake Up &Go w/ Denise Austin in the morn, Those15 minute segments are on YouTube.They are fun and challenging without killing you. I'm down 29lbs since Oct 1st.That's what has worked for me

  • Please believe that you have far more love here than hate! I'm a member of a FB weightloss group and we watch your videos all the time for inspiration, keep doing what you do!

  • Simply put... Misery loves company. Please don't continue to let the non-factors a.k.a. "internet gangster's" affect your life, mood or progress. You are now in the public eye, so you MUST develop a thick skin (quick) & let the negativity roll off your back. Much Luck to you!!!

  • Girl were u at???? Wanna make sure u doing good :) don't let dumb people get to u! Don't let them get u down and mess with ur success u need to do more videos :)

  • HEY THEY TALKED ABOUT JESUS SO WHO ARE WE!!!!! ALL I CAN SAY IS I ENJOY YOUR VIDEO'S YOU HAVE HAVE ENCOURAGED ME TO CONTINUE ON MY WEIGHT LOSS JOURNEY SO FAR I HAVE LOSSED 27 POUNDS!!! SO BIND UP THE HATERS & KEEP IT MOVING GOD BLESS U!!!!

  • I'd rather keep a man next to me because of my personality, rather than him stay next to me cause of looks..

  • Honestly I would not let it phase you. Lots of trolls online hiding behind a computer

  • I know how hard it can be when you feel you are doing something good, trying to inspire others and someone comes and tear you down. But out of those few negative people who comment look at all the positive comments. that helps me. the good out weighs the bad. some people think its so easy to lose weight. if that was the case there wouldnt be an obesity problem here in america. instead of pulling people down lets lift and encourage each other bc losing weight is hard and the support really helps.

  • People will judge, but dont like to be judge. most people are unhappy, and looking to spread their evil spirit. just do you. vent and get it out, and keep it moving. and if people want to hate let them block them and keep your page filled with positive vibes. i love my black people, the way i look at it. you have good, and bad people in all colors. people will be who they are no matter what.

  • hey, dont take it to heart what people say, white people treat me bad and im white...its the same with every race....watch my videos...i commented you in one of my videos!! <3 love ya.

  • I subscribed to you a few weeks ago because I could see your bright spirit while watching your videos. Chin up :)

  • I fully understand what you are trying to say in this video! And I find it to be somewhat true that African American people hate on one another so BAD! I don't know why and I am not saying every black person is that way because I am not, my family is not and there are a lot of people I know who are not that way. When we start these channels and we chose to open our lives up to the public, a little "hateration" comes with it. Just keep doing you because clearly there are 2000 PEOPLE who love you!

  • Also, when you decide that your thought and needs are as equally important as others, then you will make the decision to not let what someone else thinks or says to/about you affect and your eating. Let that burden go b/c it's not yours to carry. Ignorance is not respective of race, age, weight, education or financial status. If you dislike what's being said or done to you don't "carry the weight" of it but also don't feed it to others and create a domino effect.

  • Well I would just like to say that even though you experience negativity with AA, don't stereotype one race of people based upon the ignorance of a few. Your question of "why are only black ppl negative" even though that has been your experience is only the flip side of the same coin. You're pointing the same finger of negativity that you are obviously upset about being done to you and hun in a nutshell, we all reap what we sow.

  • I get crap too..I normally get it from young people who find it easy to make fun of people online because they don't have to be face to face with someone. I made my videos have comments that have to be approved by me so that way if they say something that is just rude they don't get the satisfaction of being able to announce it to the world that watches my videos. I'm sorry people are hating on you but just remember, its because they don't have anything better to do with their time!!

  • @mrsbabyfat People are ALWAYS going to hate whether you're 90 or 500 pounds! Girl you need to keep your head up and don't let people you don't even know get you down. I just recently found your channel and watched some of your videos and you have a really warm personality. You CAN loose the weight and I KNOW you will. It is going to be hard and you might feel like you want to quit because I've been there. I'll pray for you. I wish you the best luck on you're wonderful journey!

  • You are an inspiration and we know what you are going through and we can relate to you. Other people love being negative to make themselves feel better. You are always in a upbeat positive mood and people are threatened by that. They are jealous and wish they was like that. They are only saying mean things to make themselves feel better. You are awesome. Keep up the hard work. I love watching your video's no matter what the topic is.

  • 2. What is wrong with you negroes? For real?! Mrsbabyfat, how do you even know these are truly black people? Have you ever heard of TROLLS who take random pictures, put them up and take on different personas? Think for a minute! I am so sick of this sh.. You know what I am going to curb my language and not really get crazy like I can and normally do. So much for positivity on your part! Epic failure! Bye!

  • @lnm00996 Sorry for offending you, and I never want to lose a subscriber. However, you threatening to go crazy like you "normally do", shows your character. You being a subscriber KNOW that I'm a Christian and do not curse, so to curse me out because you disagree with my video is not going to be tolerated. I stand by my content. It was what I was feeling at the time, and I needed to vent. You not being able to express yourself like an intelligent adult is the true epic fail!

  • @MrsBabyfat Wow! Could not have said that better myself! lol :)

  • @lnm00996 omg can you not, stop bringing drama on here, if you dont like it dont come on here. go get a life gurl

  • @lnm00996 excuse me? but there’s nothing wrong with this lady. she’s trying her best unlike you. so back off.

  • @lnm00996 i can actually say that u are a disgusting human being for trying to bring others down and by the way everyone in this world is stereo typed no matter what race you are or who are

  • Well I love you and keep up the work xoxox

  • Hey girl sorry to hear about all the haters. Stay positive ! I subbed to your channel and I know you can overcome all of your obstacles !

  • You can't control what people say, the devil is working, but you can control how you react because god is working

  • okay so next wed. Well I weighed in and I am up two pounds so 316.0 so yeah you won! That's what I get for bragging about them damn boots.

  • Hey Sis, as your sister in this journey, I say"Let your Stumbling blocks Become your Building Blocks."Let the negative energy be the push to bring positive results. I also think you did an wonderful job at bringing awareness to this issue concerning our children and pple in general. I commend you for standing up, and staying in the race; that says a lot about your dedication. You had a bad day but there are more good ones that will outweigh it.LET'S DO THIS ON YA MARK, GET SET, REEEEADY, GO :)))

  • Let your haters, be your motivatiors!! First, it is not just your personality, You are a beautiful woman. Who appears to have a beautiful heart. You inspire me. The first time I saw your video I was on team Chandra. To share your weight and weight loss journey with the world makes you nothing short of a WARRIOR! What you do take courage. As much as I love my husband and loves me, he as no ideal how much I weigh. Therefore you are my hero and dont't you let a few stupid people take away your joy.

  • you are so pretty you actually look like one of the braxtons..

  • That sounds like a hater i would block her and keep it moving,she obviously took the time to watch all your videos so what does that say about her...

  • I love you girl! You are so brave to do what you do! I love your videos!!

  • Inferiority complex.. If we feel insecure, we try to pull each other down to be one top of the "lower class".

  • your channel your style undeniably beautiful keep shining!

  • your so beautiful....dont let them upset you, everyone has an opinion!!!

  • Don't let them get you down. Ur a beautiful black woman and dnt ever let anybody tell u otherwise. Da negative comments were made by narrow minded ppl who wish dey hd da same determination u do. Keep up da his work. Xoxoxoxo Athena

  • Okay darlin, you can't correct STUPID OR IGNORANCE they will always be that. You continue doing what you do and let them continue to make themselves look like they look. JEALOUSY RULES them they are mad because they don't have 2000 people following them. I know it is hard to shake it off but it can be done and I have myself started my vlog and trust me I noted in my video don't put no hurtful, rude or nasty comments because I tend to go off and defend myself. SO KEEP IT UP you got us behind u.

  • If God loves you and will never hate on you regardless of shape or size then no one matters but Him. Love you and God bless.

  • I KNOW how you feel love!!.... Here on youtube anonymity rules and cowardice people hide behind their computer screen and talk heck-a junk! I've been called all sorts of names and have had my character questioned and defamed... all in a days work... just take comfort in knowing these lames would not look at you twice in the streets!

  • @destinygodley LOL, I know they wouldn't!! I've had that same woman come to my BLOG and still attack me AFTER seeing this video! She's reminding me of a stalker! My goodness, pathetic..smh

  • Dang thats sad that someone same race or not have anything supportive or positive to say after seeing you out here exposing ur life & trying 2better yourself. it hurts & saddens me unfortunately there will be people like that everywhere just know that negativity hatred jealousy& all the bad things people feel or do are not of God but that they r controlled by satan. When u come across people like that just pray 4 them n understand that it is not them but da devil working thru them 2attack u.

  • hmm true that there are WAYYYY to many haters on you tube...they have nothing better to do with their lives!!!! well im going to send u a private msg cuz i got some very helpful info for ya!!!!!

  • Girl that is YOUTUBE! People be doing too much on here. If you don't like what you're watching then move on to another video. It's just that simple. But for whatever it's worth, I love your videos. I think you're doing a great job. Keep up the good work.

  • I have ran into the same issues you are speaking about. I do notice that Black women in particular have more issues with jealousy and negativity with each other and it really is sad. Even though you have a point I just cringe when I see titles like this is a "public" form where other races see us airing our dirty laundry. Our history as a people have a lot to do with the self-hate we have today, thats just a fact. So I try to be more understanding focus on the positve sisters more than the negat

  • Ms Babyfat please please please do yourself a favor and watch "The Secret" or read it. It will change your world. The main thing to focus on is the positive ignore the negative. Please don't give any energy to negative things. Take care of yourself and ignore those that are unhappy and don't know what Love truly is.

  • Omg u are sooooo beautiful! Haters should be your motivaters! :-) I started Plexus Slim Monday and it is working wonderfully for me!

  • dont let these ppl bother u !! u already know that if u r doing something to better urself ppl dont like it ppl like seeing u down etc .... keep doing ur thing and dont worry abt ignorance !!keep on eating them salads girl ....and do u .i know negative comments hurt i can understand that .... but we here to support u !!! so keep on keepin on .....

  • Do not be discouraged by the words of one. Evidently 2000+ subscribers want to see your videos. In the words of Jill Scott "Hate on me haters. Now or later cause I'm gonna do me." Keep doing you! You're like the sister I wish I had. I think you're real unlike a lot of things seen on YouTube. Keep you chin up!

  • YouTube is always full of haters. I admire the fact that you are being so open. Many people use the internet to feel important by putting others down. As difficult as it is, try and disregard them. As far as the large amount of black people being negative, unfortunately, we often have a bad case of the "crabs in a bucket" syndrome. Many times when we see one trying to do better we pull them back in the bucket. Keep your head up though.

  • You wouldn't have even had to tell me that the individuals that are harassing (and yes, that's exactly what it is) you are black. As a people, blacks have always spent more time putting each other down than any other race has done to us. The individuals who are doing this have weaknesses in themselves that cause them to put others down in an effort to make themselves feel better. I'm fat, I deal with it, and my hubby loves it!!! I'm losing weight because I want to travel. Blow them off!!

  • I get encouraged by watching videos like yours..what people say & do behind closed doors show their true self. Im on my own weight loss journey & I can't bring myself to do videos. So I just wanted to say your doing great & don't let others tell you differently.

  • @m30wn3ss I was pretty much where you are. I am trying to force myself out here by doing response videos, but it's time to stand up to the fear. I'm getting on here and I don't care who doesn't like it. We make these videos because we WANT to, not because we HAVE to, if someone doesn't like it.... unsubscribe or I'll block you because I'm not the one.... 

  • How about why are we! Not all black people! All black is rather broad! White people say mean things as well! Now with that being said you are "Gorgeous" and the fact that you are working on being healthy and living longer for your family, is a great thing. As the true body of Christ we stand with you n faith. I decree that you shall stand after doing all you have done to stand! We love you! Keep on keeping on! Again we love you!

  • if you going to piggy out go a simply salad or fruit

  • Being a Christian, you know that the enemy is BUSY!!! If you allow her comments to drag you down, you may leave the door open for the enemy to creep in and cause destruction. You know (deep down), you know exactly how much your videos are helping others. You don't get 2K subscribers putting out "nothing" videos. Misery LOVES company! Keep your light shining, hold your head up & keep making vids!!

  • TRY WATCHING MY SLOW CARB DIET VIDEO FROMT HE BOOK 4-HOUR BODY! It's simply a low carb diet and it's amazingg! I love it (:

  • I feel sorry for people who are negative to others because it means they have low self esteem themselves. Try to rise above it. I'm trying to thicken my own skin honestly, I take everything personally.

  • you really have to have touch skin on YT! I have seen a lot of negative comments on people pages. what I would do is simply block those negative people and let your haters be your motivators and keep doing you!!!!! you are doing a fantastic job!!! ((huggs))

  • Maybe you need more fiber in your diet to get "things" moving ;-).

    Try Metamucil

  • Maybe you need more fiber! Metamucil gets "things" moving faster... I'm starting a low carb journey tomorrow.

  • They are a bunch of haters!!!

    I'm black. A Christian. And also overweight... love ya!

  • Never get DISCOURAGE! Take it one Day at a TIME!!!

  • Gurl forget stupid people ,people say and do things to make themselves feel better ur a beautiful mother, wife etc , and also people in this world don't want to see other people a step ahead of the game than they are , just keep doing u gurl and just pray to the lord when dumb people get to you the lord can bring u out of anything u are having a problem with I promise u that sweetie god bless u p.s read the bible nothing is better than the bible

  • And the last thing, I'm here and going to keep doing Weigh in Wednesday. And you, don't worry about those people who say things about you. They don't even know you like that. You are an inspiration, and you show what people really struggle with. Not just the Before and After pictures. That doesn't mean anything if you don't know how they got there. Blessings to you and your family, MrsBabyfat, because they are going through this journey with you.

  • Also, You just keep your head held high and know that God loves you, period! And another thing, Don't think "Diet", think "Life Style Change". Remember, that whatever you do to lose the weight, you are going to have to keep doing to keep the weight off. So, you will have to change your life "of food" forever. I have been told that by the end of the week "Weigh in Wednesday", you should have a calorie deficit. 1 lb = 3500 calories. Eat more but less, smaller meals more times a day. And exercise

  • MrsBabyfat, Girl do yo thang and keep it movin. No matter what we do, there is going to be negative people. So, I'll have to agree with Mowet100, Brush It Off! I am still trying to lose weight, I haven't entered a video lately because on Nov. 11 my nephew passed away and I had to go out of town and deal with that. So, I have fallen off a little, but I haven't gained any of the weight that I have lost here with you back.

  • Girl don't let them get u down.......stay focus and do you.

  • Don't let the ignorance of others pull you down! You know who you are inside. You don't have to answer to anyone! If there is anyone who doesn't like what they see, when they see you tell 'em..get to steppin'! Simple as that! When things like this happen, you learn VERY QUICKLY who your TRUE FRIENDS are! Remove the negative people from your life. As for the people here on YT.......just BLOCK 'EM! The next time someone gets to you, pick up a piece of fruit! LOVE YOU SIS! BE BLESSED! {{HUGS}} ♥

  • Hi I am Mex and its the same for me 2 3 and be strong

  • 4)It will be difficult in the beginning however, as time progresses it becomes easier because these new behaviours become habitual. This is what renders weight loss and weight maintenance sustainable and therefore permanent.

  • @missysmithy25 Yes, that makes sense, and I know this but I just want to see some fast results already! Then maybe I can work out the other things later?

  • @MrsBabyfat

    sweetheart, trust me, I see where you are coming from. But it did not take you short period of time to gain the weight. so what makes you think that it should take a short period of time to lose it?

  • 3)When one decides to lose a significant amount of weight, it should be understood that it is not as superficial as people think it is. It is really a metamorphosis. You are replacing old habits and old behaviours- all of which have been cultivated and entrenched into our way of thinking for years (probably since childhood), with healthier, more productive habits.This takes time and self- discipline.

  • 2)This is the consequence of dieting. Within two years I gained back the weight. Now, I have came to the inevitable realization that weight loss and weight maintenance is achievable and sustainable if you are able to first, re-establish a healthy relationship with food. Food is meant to enjoy. However, many individuals use to food to feel a emotional void. When this occurs, eating in moderation is virtually impossible because that emotional void will never be satisfied.

  • 1) No!!! no!!! no!!! no slim fast!!! No diets!!! No prepackaged food!!! Weight loss is a lifestyle change. The objective to is develop long-term healthy habits throughout this weight loss journey. Please take it from me. I was 240lbs and I lost 80lbs with fad diets. However, this was a two year process because I would continually fluctuate in weight. As soon as I felt, sad, depressed, anxious, or fearful or deprived of food, i would over indulge.

  • I agree with @Mowet100; PLUS, It's easier to talk a lot of crap on the net than face to face! Their life is so empty and bitter, they feel the need to boost there low self esteem by criticizing someone who is trying to do right and bettering themselves......It happens all the time...Can't please no one but yourself. Regardless of race, people do it all the time... even on there own family.... SO, with all that being said, "SHAKE DEM' HATERZ OFF BABY!!!" DO YOU!!! <3

  • @SuperLOLO143 I'm shakin I'm shakin!!!! :)

  • but after about 14 years i just don't give a shit what shes says i Just Need To Do what i need to do

  • Do NOT let ANYONE bring you down and make you feel low, even though ppl act like it doesn't but words do hurt but you have to be strong enough to keep doing you. Use the negativity as fuel for success on your journey. I wish you the best of luck :)

  • I, too, have a weight loss channel where I've discussed exactly what you mentioned in tonight's video. This expectation that fat somehow diminishes a person's need for love, affection, and intimacy. There are actually folks out there that think fat people should be miserable. They, literally, despise seeing an overweight person happy. It takes a significant amount of self-hatred to want to harm a person that's done nothing to you. Keep your head up & stay focused! It's only a test...

  • ok now i'm waiting for this video to load but what have seen I KNOW how that feel but its my sister who is being a bi*ch shes always telling me i can't do it, i'm just going to end like one of those people who can't even get out of bed , ect..... -_-

  • I DEFINITELY understand what you're going through. I've been doing YT videos since 09 (about ALL kinds of controversial topics) and I've gotten some of everything. In fact, I think the person that told you to go kill yourself left a similar comment on one of my videos. What I can tell you is that over time, you develop some pretty thick skin. Now, NOTHING and I mean NOTHING negative that's left for me on YT bothers me. In fact, I laugh at most of it and pray for the folks that leave it.

  • Most people talk bad about other people to make them feel better about themselves and its sad. Delete the ignorance and keep it movin' honey. You are not here for them. I'm a new subbie and when I came across your videos, the first thing I thought was "She's such a breath of fresh air." I think you are awesome for sharing your story here.

  • Your personality is attractive and people are drawn to that.... expect haters who would love to have 2000 subscribers. Whomever that was is enjoying all the time you devoted to her comment rather than focusing on your journey. Stay positive so that you can be successful on your journey. PKizzm

  • This is my first video that I've every seen. I see you have wonderful comments my some loyal supporters. I would focus on the positive. Although Lawd knows I understand your point. Needless to say I'm a subbie now: )

  • I guess some people never learned "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all". I love your videos they always put a smile on my face!! Keep them coming :)

  • The reason you revert to negative things is you are taking it to heart. If you are alittle soft yt will be tough. Don't let people who don't matter dictate what matters in your life. You only have to do two things take care of your family and complete your weight loss goal and forget the rest. Use operation block and don't give them no shine.