A Good Site (at least in terms of fulfilling the promise of sending the information for free ) I got sent a 30min talk and a number of pdf reports on the issues raised in the video above
Being a good or bad communicator has NOTHING to do with shyness. The key to being a good communicator is being a good LISTENER. People with ADD can not listen. That's why they are lousy communicators. The only way for them to function is to be shy. Medication can also help.
FYI, shyness, in most cases is caused by ADD. People who have even mild forms of ADD can not read other people. Therefore they don't know what other people want to hear from them. Shyness is a defence mechanism. If shy people try to talk like confident ones, they will only make fools of themselves. Shyness is a curse.
It is funny that you mention family.....I am almost 30 and now I can say without a doubt that my family is responsible for my weakness, but I AM responsible for not changing them. It is your life. One day you will have a family of your own, but only if you learn to separate yourself from the family you have now.....when you do that that is when you leave the nest.....
Before I follow your steps I first have to turn 21, go to a bar, get a little buzzed, talk to random people and see what they think of me FIRST! Then maybe I'll have to live away from my family for a while so I can change, because they still see me as the same person all along.
I felt alot better after i moved out of my house. but those feelings come out of the woodwork on you. It was bob marley who said. "running and your running and your running away. but you cant run away from yourself." Id say whats worked for me is changing that voice inside my head from saying "you cant" to "you can!" it sounds simple but its just as hard as talking shit to urself. Im here for u bud! and try smokeing weed before drinking. lol its better for you.
A Good Site (at least in terms of fulfilling the promise of sending the information for free ) I got sent a 30min talk and a number of pdf reports on the issues raised in the video above
raydeady 2 years ago
Being a good or bad communicator has NOTHING to do with shyness. The key to being a good communicator is being a good LISTENER. People with ADD can not listen. That's why they are lousy communicators. The only way for them to function is to be shy. Medication can also help.
juneride 2 years ago
I think its that they're lousy communicators because they're shy. not the other way around.
Ginne86 2 years ago 4
FYI, shyness, in most cases is caused by ADD. People who have even mild forms of ADD can not read other people. Therefore they don't know what other people want to hear from them. Shyness is a defence mechanism. If shy people try to talk like confident ones, they will only make fools of themselves. Shyness is a curse.
juneride 2 years ago
That's totally the wrong way to think of it! You seem very negative.
People who have ADD generally get medication for it and once they do they are fine- so you shouldn't blame it on that.
Yeah shyness is probably a defense mechanism but people can get over it- it's not a curse. You CAN change- if you really wanted to.
ChIcKiLoVe 2 years ago 5
It is funny that you mention family.....I am almost 30 and now I can say without a doubt that my family is responsible for my weakness, but I AM responsible for not changing them. It is your life. One day you will have a family of your own, but only if you learn to separate yourself from the family you have now.....when you do that that is when you leave the nest.....
rvabrsp 2 years ago 16
Before I follow your steps I first have to turn 21, go to a bar, get a little buzzed, talk to random people and see what they think of me FIRST! Then maybe I'll have to live away from my family for a while so I can change, because they still see me as the same person all along.
guerrald 2 years ago 21
I felt alot better after i moved out of my house. but those feelings come out of the woodwork on you. It was bob marley who said. "running and your running and your running away. but you cant run away from yourself." Id say whats worked for me is changing that voice inside my head from saying "you cant" to "you can!" it sounds simple but its just as hard as talking shit to urself. Im here for u bud! and try smokeing weed before drinking. lol its better for you.
daislor8675 2 years ago 3
Thank you. I agree xx
wafflerwaffles 2 years ago
I was too shy to watch.
Replayability 2 years ago
Thank you!!
artistdeterminedmsv 2 years ago
I think this is great advice. I think that as shy people we sometimes over-think things, mostly other people's intentions as being evil?
MiloandDaisy113 2 years ago 6
You can be shy without being anxious and insecure. Some people just are "put off" by forward loud in your face people.
rnstuffy 2 years ago 3
You are very welcome. Take a look at my other videos too.
communicationpower 2 years ago
thank you
SM062K8 3 years ago