I agree completely on how a lot of women, especially this generation, do disrespect themselves. But on the opposite side of the same coin, you still play devil's advocate by taking advantage of the obvious insecurities of women who DO degrade themselves. Even if a man doesn't encourage that behavior, he's still wrong if he indulges in it. You can't play devil's advocate and avoid the consequences
A lot of Women grow up without Fathers and don't know what love is. They aren't taught to value their Sexuality or themselves. It does make me sad. Men could help women see their value if they wanted by not going for Sex until after the Wedding. Guys take the lead for once and quit blaming girls for being Ho's. WHERE'S THE HEADS OF THE HOUSES?
Majority of women now a days have multiple sex partners before they are married, It is relationship corruption. But the truth is endured. There is still REAL WOMEN out there who only have slept with 1 man their entire lives. not like many these days who sleep with more than 1 man. same with guys. I'm a guy and have only slept with 1 woman my entire life. same perspective for her. I'm the only person she's had. we love our relationship.
AT THE END OF THE DAY AFTER ALL IS SAID AND DONE, AFTER ALL HIS OPINIONS ARE PUT ON DISPLAY, THE ONE THING THAT WAS SAID HERE THAT IS ABSOLUTE TRUTH IS THAT IT'S OFFENSIVE FOR A WOMAN TO GIVE IT UP ON THE FIRST NIGHT BECAUSE BEING A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS WHAT GOOD MEN MOST DESIRE A WOMAN TO BE.
ONE THING WHERE U WENT WRONG HERE BROTHER CELEBRATING YOUR MANY CONCUBINES WHEN THIS VIDEO WAS MADE TO POINT OUT WHATS WRONG WITH BEING A CONCUBINE OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
AT THE END OF THE DAY AFTER ALL IS SAID AND DONE, AFTER ALL HIS OPINIONS ARE PUT ON DISPLAY, THE ONE THING THAT WAS SAID HERE THAT IS ABSOLUTE TRUTH IS THAT IT'S OFFENSIVE FOR A WOMAN TO GIVE IT UP ON THE FIRST NIGHT BECAUSE BEING A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS WHAT GOOD MEN MOST DESIRE A WOMAN TO BE.
ONE THING WHERE U WENT WRONG HERE BROTHER CELEBRATING YOUR MANY CONCUBINES WHEN THIS VIDEO WAS MADE TO POINT OUT WHATS WRONG WITH BEING A CONCUBINE OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
To add my 2 cents: first off, thank you for being COMPLETELY honest about what men think on this issue; My only question though: when us women are being virtuous, then why do you diss us still? i had a "friend" that i used to sleep with, then when i got saved and became celibate (been so for over a year now), he tried to get me to continue sleeping him and when i wouldn't, he stopped talking to me. He made me realize that for the almost year or so we saw each other, that was all he wanted.
@ninamos30 I was saved at 23 and am a female. I always wanted to get Married even before I was saved and it seems like an impossible task. In a way I gave up finding a guy. It does seem that most Women want relationships and guys just want a Body and it really hurts.
I personally think that any woman or man that gives it up on the first night is a hoe. I personally think that you should get to know your partner inside and out before you have sex with the opposite sex if you want it for the longterm because most relationships will never last if you have sex the first time you meet. I think about women a lot because I am a man,but I just think you should till it is the right moment to have sex with your partner. It is just wrong to have sex immediately
I've been on dates with women where my intentions as a man and her's as a woman were totally 'clean' - I promise you that.
But, as someone else said on here, maybe humans can be naturally horny and fancy each other. And yes, I have had sex quite a few times on the first night. Women do like sex you know !
You are a hypocrite and should stop trying to make ANYONE - man or a woman feel guilty about a natural activity.
there's only one flaw with ur views... if the woman is the whore than what was the man? did he not give it up on the first niite? and if you don't give it up.... and you wait.... well he was going to give it up riite? so he is still a whore so y would a good woman want him anyway? when he is obviously blind that he is as much of a ho as the girl he is calling one... and say that girl wasnt a ho and just really liked u, well too bad cuz she is gone now huh? and what are u ?- the ho& she moves on
@Alaina777 hes not saying there is no flaw with what he's saying... he knows its a double standard; he's just saying how things are these days and its not going to change anytime soon. Most guys will sleep with anything at anytime whether they are looking for something serious or not because they can... they use the double standard to their advantage. If u want to find a committed relationship u just have to be aware of this double standard and that alot of guys u may date may think like this
love a women who have sex on the first date she know she wants that dick and she takes it.only insecure women want dick on the first date and dont take it cuz they worried about the slut label or think he gonna leave.fact is you can have that nigga wait for the pussy but a real nigga going to have another chick to screw so you think you doing something but you really not
Hey Christian, I ve watched a lot of your videos and I really like them. I ve heard they just want sex thing a lot. But I ve got this situation were the guy and me were in constant communication, phone, email, texting all daily, all the time (for 4 months and generally in contact for a year before it started to pick up) . I finally asked what was up and he didnt want to date me? Can you explain why he was putting in so much effort if he didnt like me? I am sooo confused. no sex involved.
You shouldnt be out there havin sex with all these men on first dates , but i thinnk once in awhile if thats all your lookin for , Peferably someone whos "fwb"(friends with benefits) material
You would be dumb to expect ANY respect from a man you put out to on the first date. He is gonna see you as a quick lay and move on with his life. Hell you will be lucky if he lets you get dressed in his crib before kicking you out.
@Mokurentate WRONG! You might as well get paid if you're going to be spreading your cooch around. Women have no self respect these days. The notion that acting like men means equality is so stupid. It's more bondage than freedom and it seems many will never get it.
i personally can't FATHOM having a one night stand, I don't understand how some women do it (cause alot DO!), like how can you DISRESPECT ur body like that??? why would u want to live with that regret????(if they regret it at all) sometimes I feel like I'm a rare breed cause I'd rather TRY to get to know a man first, for me to have sex with a man, I have to give u my heart and u have to give me urs.....
@JayJayGrady4U Yep...I agree and I am a man. But if you're going to do all that, then why not wait till marriage? If you're waiting till you give your heart, then marry the guy. Trust me, some men are good at running "drip campaigns". They will keep you warm on the side and keep working at you while they do their dirt on the low. Eventually you give in, thinking you have his "heart", while all you really have is his PENIS.
THIS, dear sir, is some real talk. THANK YOU for making this video. I've been telling my female friends this for ages, and few listen. (Enter the heartbreak.) I'm surprised you didn't have a mob of dudes just waiting to snatch away your player's card for giving away their secrets, lol!
...men who can delay gratification and have successfully practiced self control. Not all men are slaves to testosterone. The idea of putting their penises in any and every woman who gives freely is actually a real turn off to some men out there. These men don't do it for the sake of getting some .They have no time to waste emotional nor physical energies with women of a lesser value and both have no appetite to have intercourse with such women, nor do they want to be vulnerable to STDs.
There are men out there who definitely have the let me get-to-know-her more aspect on lock and aren't the least bit interested in getting in her panties. I know you asked for perspectives on women who put out on the 1st date but I had to get that in!
Just want to restate the obvious on this video just to make certain that we do not misguide any young viewer (s) who may be tuned in to this segment or any grown woman who has a tainted and/or unfair mind towards men (thinking ALL men are sex crazed dogs) let me just stand in defense of some men out there who do not have sex as his primary objective/ulterior motive/number one priority on a 1st date, or subsequent dates after.
This coming from an aries woman. Aries women are said to understand men. lol. Seems that is true. Okay, women do things that they think that will draw a man in. Especially when it comes to sex. I have heard from somewhere that women think of sex as the beginning. Men think of sex as the end. If you are good enough in bed, you will become a booty call.
Well a man can't get any unless the woman puts out, and if the woman decides to put out on the first date that's her choice, not the man's. If that happens, that woman should not expect to receive a whole lot of respect. No man would wanna wife a woman who puts out on the first date, she will gain more respect holding out.
ho ho ho is right!! thats so nasty. i would never give it up on the first date. sex is something intimate and I cannot understand how sex can be casual and that applies to both men AND women. I have yet to meet a guy who has not had a one-night stand, it makes me cringe and I just avoid that convo and practice safe sex. I've only been with 3 men and they both have been with over 20 girls...and thats a scary thought to me but men are ho ho hoes too though
lol UR FUNNY!! i like how u kanye west urself! lol oh my gosh, a few jokes along the line always keeps it interesting i aint even watched it all yet i got it one pause and reply just to see u pose at teh beginning! lol gosh too funny
men will treat you in wateva way u put it our there. so if u freakin off on the 1st nite then thats all u will ever be to that man. u cant be mad at him for how he then treats u wen u put yaself out there u dont even know dude n u opening up ya legs. ive never slept with a man b4 at least a few months time n we have to be 2getha hav 2 hav decided on being 2getha or being more all of which resulted in serious/long-term relationships. u nt respectn yaself lyin on ya back like that hows he spose 2
@MRbossman1982 I completely agree with you. If she has to bear the brunt of criticism from society for who she sleeps with, then so does the man. I agree.
@MRbossman1982 I agree, and I wasn't implying you were condoning such behavior, but modern-day society no longer appreciates a woman who will guard and respect her body. You're either giving it up or people are waiting for you to slip up so they can say you are. Double standards are man-made tools of oppression. But it's been a fair argument. :)
Dude, you sound like you love the Lord! I do too! But, real talk, you speak so much wisdom. I'm seriously going to use you as a reference when I am working with my teen girl's group. I've only seen 2 or 3 of your videos, but I would like to hear you mention a woman's worth every now and then.
Women that suck/fuck on the first date/visit are easy,standardless and gullable regardless of how many times they spoke on the phone or wrote to each other,the guy is a no good DOG that sweet talked the woman out her draws or she was just being a skeezer. You could catch something or get involved in some drama and have it affect you negatively for a loooong time.
It's affected me and it will never stop hurting. You're just gonna wish to GOD it NEVER HAPPENED!
lol i watch a couple of your videos.. and im not going to lie that aren't to bad. some very interesting facts you got. Well anyway i really enjoyed in this video how you were entertaining yet serious....
you should think being a speaker to young adults and out in the public about these issues.
I strongly agree to what he stated, majority of the time...men think women are easy!!! when they get it on the first night. Now as far as sistah gur...who met her man on the first night and are happily married.....lets see how long that last? and lets hope he's not creeping..
Not every woman wants a relationship so they can go do whatever makes them happy as far as I'm concerned.
What I can't stand are the women who swear that they want husband material but play musical beds. You wont find a husband when you're on your knees bobbing up and down. Sure, you'll get men who may break you off some change to get your hair done but he'll give his all to the woman that he feels is only his. You can have sex without losing your dignity.
He actually spoke the truth. Whenever a chick gives it up on the first night as a dude I instantly think she is a whore(95% of us do). I might try to "get it in" whenever the opportunity presents itself but I will respect a woman who has some self control .
Me either lol! The brother starts off with his "conquest" which means he's a player. Then he goes into why women should hold back on the first date, AS IF holding back is going to make the man hear wedding bells. So what happens if you both have that affect on each other??? Its gonna happen, and when it does the man shouldn't think the woman is a ho unless other men are frequenting her. Knocking the boot the 1st night can also mean that you're into each other so much you take the chance.
Wow I wasnt offended at all and I am glad I dont give it up at all lol...jus hard finding guys okay with that...I want more than one night and no I wont call you hun lol
This guy is so wrong. I care very much about what she says, in fact that is the thrill of the chase. I do assure you Sex is on my mind but it is getting there what's fun.
haitians are the worst they flee work under their their desks.. they shouldnt exist black men have corrupt america by their lazyness get rid of them now its not too late.
I wouldn't do that on the first date that is slutty! I'm old fashioned and I have no desire to do that until I'm married. I notice that women who sleep with men never marry the men they put out for because the men weren't gonna marry them in the first place. Women who wanna fool around however aren't lookin' for marriage or aren't marriage material in the first place!
F virtue. I am a woman who is not interested in being in a relationship but do
need some sex on a regular basis. So I feel like if I meet someone who im attracted to sexually, and he's down and im down, then its going down. I guess if that makes me a hoe, then we just going to be hoe's together for the night. Ive never understood why a man can be about sex but a woman cant, and when she is, shes a hoe. Hell im just trying to get a nut just like you are.
on point and real...also a man who pressures a woman into goin there so soon shows himself to be a non virtuous man too...sooo it works both ways depending on what ur out there huntin or breezin for
Women you can change the game in the next 5 seconds by changing your standards in this relationship game.Alot of dudes will front and try to be what you want them to be,and stop telling what kind of man you want.Alot of you women out there are good and the bad ones are making it bad for you by being too damn easy and loose.
Back in the day, Mamma said, Rule #1: Never have sex on the first date or the second. Do not go to a man`s crib if you are not ready for sex. You all know what`s going to happen. If he really wants to know you, he will wait or move on to screw someone else. You will have your self-respect and your dignity!
some of the women commenting on this video are KILLING me......whats is this we are hip to the games that men play bs??? really....if women were hip to them there wouldnt be so many SINGLE ANGRY BITTER women. i dont care if its the year 3000 women need to learn to hold out on giving a man EVERYTHING.
read sherryl argov book why men love bitches.
and for JacqueMay81 you really do come on all of his vids saying that hes wrong if you feel that way... STOP WATCHING THEM!!!
first off u funny as shit but i agree but i think it goes wit the guidance and selfesteem of a female but i mean REAL SHIT if she not really and truely confident wit herself she gon do watever she gotta do to feel like she is unlike us females who value ourselves...we really dont have time to think of wat other ppl think of us or how they gon look at us ya dig we jus do us point blank period
well i know that some ppl pressure u into it, or lie to u about things. i mean putting their hands in ur pants and u have to tell lies to get them to stop, and they'll do anything... for some of us late bloomer, we don't know the game that well and would like to think this is a nice guy and maybe we could be friends, but i can now honestly say. i've given up cuz even when u don't sleep w/ them, they still give u a level of disrespect that make u feel like a whore. I'd rather date my shower head
ha ha u're so funny, but seriosly everything u jst said is true some girls out there don't think or they jst don't care about their self respect. keep doing wat u doing boyyyyyy. peace
I personally like women who get really horny towards me. Feels like the relationship has a lot more future than if she is hard and full of difficult (and hostile) attitude. Then again that is only my opinion.
You are really good! You are funny and now how to say the truth. May be it wasn't as respectful as it should be, but it wasn't that disrespectful neither. I'm glad you did this video... Is good for them to know that... For them to wake up from that dream in wish all men that act like gentlemen once... Won't be like that forever... That why they need to get to know each other. But enough... You already said the message. Thanx for that great video, great job. Laters and good luck. Sayo!
the only way someone could get offended by this is if they are stupid. i gotta say...he's right! open your eyes! im a woman and i learned that shit when i was 15!
but here's the funny part instead of the guy just saying "hey can we just have a lil booty call thing" he will try and pretend that he wants you to be his girl?? see i already knew that the damage was done as soon as i spent the night..so when i get up to leave why lie to me? its just corny!
Oh yeah, and NEWS FLASH!!! If we have sex with you on a first date chances are we don't want to marry you anyway. It goes both ways. Most times you guys never live up to our expectations anyway. Especially, if you have nothing more than any average man that we can pull anywhere at anytime. If you were an EXCEPTIONAL man then maybe we would really consider respecting you men from the beginning. Temp, tell us something we don't already know. It's 2008, and we are already hip to the games men play.
It is rather comedic that you say if a woman wants to "marry" a man she should not sleep with him on the first date. I find that interesting because men like you usually portray a representative of who they aspire to be for at least the first 3 months. My point is it is highly doubtful that any self-respecting woman would know if they are interested in marrying a man on the first date. That is ridiiculous.
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and if its only sex they want, why the hell wont they mess with a prostitute? Its the same thing. I guess its costs to much to fork over money. I see no difference in paying or phucking on the first date. Both are deplorable. For some women (those with no self-respect) men will never give them the respect they so call desire. They will always be pieces of quick easy ass.
only trash sleep with men on the first date. I know of no respectable woman that has slept with a man on the first date. And then these same black women have the nerve to complain about getting HIV or "my baby daddy wont take care of his kid". Stuff like this are things that black women ask to happen to them. So many women have low standards.
You have alot of time on your hands.TOO MUCH DAMN TIME.You got all these female friends.Go spend some time with them.You must not be getting no pussy.
Truth is I never know on the first date if I wanna marry a guy. It takes A LOT for me to fall for someone.
I have fucked on the first date. I'm still seeing the guy and we spend a lot of time together, not just having sex, but doing things together as friends. I don't love him, but I like him a lot. He is good to me and he definitely respects me and cares about what I have to say.
My life is good.
I handle my business and get to where I wanna go. =]
Although I sort of agree with both your videos (part 1 and part 2), I think men must understand that the times are definitely changing though. And more women are not really caring to date you nor marry you. They just want you in their vagina and then out the door. Sounds bad...but it is the truth. Shut up and take off your clothes! And please see your way out when this is over.
I should know. I've played a few guys who wanted more than just sex. But they weren't boyfriend material to me. Not smart and interesting enough, so they had to go.
I have pretty high standards on my boyfriends. Very few guys meet those standards. But hey, I'm not gonna live in celibacy because of that. If I see a hot guy and I'm in the mood, then why not?
It's my body and my life. Can't nobody tell me shit.
and the real screwed up part about it is that when you do hold onto your virtue you're a bitch or a tease. what do i do then? go live in a cave?
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Pastryloverschef 7 months ago
I agree completely on how a lot of women, especially this generation, do disrespect themselves. But on the opposite side of the same coin, you still play devil's advocate by taking advantage of the obvious insecurities of women who DO degrade themselves. Even if a man doesn't encourage that behavior, he's still wrong if he indulges in it. You can't play devil's advocate and avoid the consequences
SaturnPhase 8 months ago 2
Women give it up on the first date because they think sex is going to keep the dude around lol
thickjai18 8 months ago
A lot of Women grow up without Fathers and don't know what love is. They aren't taught to value their Sexuality or themselves. It does make me sad. Men could help women see their value if they wanted by not going for Sex until after the Wedding. Guys take the lead for once and quit blaming girls for being Ho's. WHERE'S THE HEADS OF THE HOUSES?
OingoBoingoMe 9 months ago
Majority of women now a days have multiple sex partners before they are married, It is relationship corruption. But the truth is endured. There is still REAL WOMEN out there who only have slept with 1 man their entire lives. not like many these days who sleep with more than 1 man. same with guys. I'm a guy and have only slept with 1 woman my entire life. same perspective for her. I'm the only person she's had. we love our relationship.
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AT THE END OF THE DAY AFTER ALL IS SAID AND DONE, AFTER ALL HIS OPINIONS ARE PUT ON DISPLAY, THE ONE THING THAT WAS SAID HERE THAT IS ABSOLUTE TRUTH IS THAT IT'S OFFENSIVE FOR A WOMAN TO GIVE IT UP ON THE FIRST NIGHT BECAUSE BEING A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS WHAT GOOD MEN MOST DESIRE A WOMAN TO BE.
ONE THING WHERE U WENT WRONG HERE BROTHER CELEBRATING YOUR MANY CONCUBINES WHEN THIS VIDEO WAS MADE TO POINT OUT WHATS WRONG WITH BEING A CONCUBINE OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
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Exile101882 11 months ago
AT THE END OF THE DAY AFTER ALL IS SAID AND DONE, AFTER ALL HIS OPINIONS ARE PUT ON DISPLAY, THE ONE THING THAT WAS SAID HERE THAT IS ABSOLUTE TRUTH IS THAT IT'S OFFENSIVE FOR A WOMAN TO GIVE IT UP ON THE FIRST NIGHT BECAUSE BEING A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS WHAT GOOD MEN MOST DESIRE A WOMAN TO BE.
ONE THING WHERE U WENT WRONG HERE BROTHER CELEBRATING YOUR MANY CONCUBINES WHEN THIS VIDEO WAS MADE TO POINT OUT WHATS WRONG WITH BEING A CONCUBINE OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
neeci718 1 year ago
To add my 2 cents: first off, thank you for being COMPLETELY honest about what men think on this issue; My only question though: when us women are being virtuous, then why do you diss us still? i had a "friend" that i used to sleep with, then when i got saved and became celibate (been so for over a year now), he tried to get me to continue sleeping him and when i wouldn't, he stopped talking to me. He made me realize that for the almost year or so we saw each other, that was all he wanted.
ninamos30 1 year ago
@ninamos30 I was saved at 23 and am a female. I always wanted to get Married even before I was saved and it seems like an impossible task. In a way I gave up finding a guy. It does seem that most Women want relationships and guys just want a Body and it really hurts.
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JakseUksar34 1 year ago
I personally think that any woman or man that gives it up on the first night is a hoe. I personally think that you should get to know your partner inside and out before you have sex with the opposite sex if you want it for the longterm because most relationships will never last if you have sex the first time you meet. I think about women a lot because I am a man,but I just think you should till it is the right moment to have sex with your partner. It is just wrong to have sex immediately
jernizzle4591 1 year ago
What utter crap
I've been on dates with women where my intentions as a man and her's as a woman were totally 'clean' - I promise you that.
But, as someone else said on here, maybe humans can be naturally horny and fancy each other. And yes, I have had sex quite a few times on the first night. Women do like sex you know !
You are a hypocrite and should stop trying to make ANYONE - man or a woman feel guilty about a natural activity.
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miri0020 1 year ago
Powder your Nigger balls.
gozuichi 1 year ago
there's only one flaw with ur views... if the woman is the whore than what was the man? did he not give it up on the first niite? and if you don't give it up.... and you wait.... well he was going to give it up riite? so he is still a whore so y would a good woman want him anyway? when he is obviously blind that he is as much of a ho as the girl he is calling one... and say that girl wasnt a ho and just really liked u, well too bad cuz she is gone now huh? and what are u ?- the ho& she moves on
Alaina777 1 year ago
@Alaina777 hes not saying there is no flaw with what he's saying... he knows its a double standard; he's just saying how things are these days and its not going to change anytime soon. Most guys will sleep with anything at anytime whether they are looking for something serious or not because they can... they use the double standard to their advantage. If u want to find a committed relationship u just have to be aware of this double standard and that alot of guys u may date may think like this
afrochick2000 1 year ago
Hahaha!!! I love this video. The truth hurts girls lol
chchris25 1 year ago
True. but some women are not like that tho..
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djkalja 1 year ago
love a women who have sex on the first date she know she wants that dick and she takes it.only insecure women want dick on the first date and dont take it cuz they worried about the slut label or think he gonna leave.fact is you can have that nigga wait for the pussy but a real nigga going to have another chick to screw so you think you doing something but you really not
MrLeatherface2783 1 year ago
lol... at 2:17. u iz crazy!! ;)
bkliin 1 year ago
Seems like we need to talk more about how to avoid players, hustlers? Effective, and quick ways to reject a man while still respecting him.
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Astuch818 1 year ago
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LAGurlzRock 1 year ago
LMAO @ 2:17
eMCee92501 1 year ago
your alright brother... your a real funny dude u need your own tv show no bullshiting!
carlon51 1 year ago
wow...i'm newly single after 9 years. Not really looking forward to the whole dating thing again for this reason.
essenceofsoul27 1 year ago
Sighhh...wish i had an older brother to explain that to me.
jessweetca 1 year ago 2
Ladies yall need to listen to this nigga. He speaking some REAL shit lol
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TheDJSTALKER 1 year ago
Hey Christian, I ve watched a lot of your videos and I really like them. I ve heard they just want sex thing a lot. But I ve got this situation were the guy and me were in constant communication, phone, email, texting all daily, all the time (for 4 months and generally in contact for a year before it started to pick up) . I finally asked what was up and he didnt want to date me? Can you explain why he was putting in so much effort if he didnt like me? I am sooo confused. no sex involved.
sunshineysharon 2 years ago
You shouldnt be out there havin sex with all these men on first dates , but i thinnk once in awhile if thats all your lookin for , Peferably someone whos "fwb"(friends with benefits) material
LaceyAikens 2 years ago
Sex on first date = no respect from the man.
You would be dumb to expect ANY respect from a man you put out to on the first date. He is gonna see you as a quick lay and move on with his life. Hell you will be lucky if he lets you get dressed in his crib before kicking you out.
mistamac123 2 years ago 2
There's nothing wrong with being a slut. We all have needs. It becomes a problem when you start charging money though. XD lo
Mokurentate 2 years ago
@Mokurentate WRONG! You might as well get paid if you're going to be spreading your cooch around. Women have no self respect these days. The notion that acting like men means equality is so stupid. It's more bondage than freedom and it seems many will never get it.
thetruthbringer 2 years ago
Having someone tell you what you should and should not do is more bondage than freedom, "truth" bringer.
Mokurentate 2 years ago
I totally agree with you!!! This is on point and you kept it real!!!
05Godschild 2 years ago
i personally can't FATHOM having a one night stand, I don't understand how some women do it (cause alot DO!), like how can you DISRESPECT ur body like that??? why would u want to live with that regret????(if they regret it at all) sometimes I feel like I'm a rare breed cause I'd rather TRY to get to know a man first, for me to have sex with a man, I have to give u my heart and u have to give me urs.....
JayJayGrady4U 2 years ago
@JayJayGrady4U Yep...I agree and I am a man. But if you're going to do all that, then why not wait till marriage? If you're waiting till you give your heart, then marry the guy. Trust me, some men are good at running "drip campaigns". They will keep you warm on the side and keep working at you while they do their dirt on the low. Eventually you give in, thinking you have his "heart", while all you really have is his PENIS.
thetruthbringer 2 years ago 5
This wax good. if ladies hear this from a man, it might give wake up calls.
tallnicegyal2die4 2 years ago
THIS, dear sir, is some real talk. THANK YOU for making this video. I've been telling my female friends this for ages, and few listen. (Enter the heartbreak.) I'm surprised you didn't have a mob of dudes just waiting to snatch away your player's card for giving away their secrets, lol!
coconisha85 2 years ago
LMFAO!
bubblebooty1989 2 years ago
...men who can delay gratification and have successfully practiced self control. Not all men are slaves to testosterone. The idea of putting their penises in any and every woman who gives freely is actually a real turn off to some men out there. These men don't do it for the sake of getting some .They have no time to waste emotional nor physical energies with women of a lesser value and both have no appetite to have intercourse with such women, nor do they want to be vulnerable to STDs.
hugandkissme33 2 years ago
There are men out there who definitely have the let me get-to-know-her more aspect on lock and aren't the least bit interested in getting in her panties. I know you asked for perspectives on women who put out on the 1st date but I had to get that in!
hugandkissme33 2 years ago
Just want to restate the obvious on this video just to make certain that we do not misguide any young viewer (s) who may be tuned in to this segment or any grown woman who has a tainted and/or unfair mind towards men (thinking ALL men are sex crazed dogs) let me just stand in defense of some men out there who do not have sex as his primary objective/ulterior motive/number one priority on a 1st date, or subsequent dates after.
hugandkissme33 2 years ago
LMFAO....give me da pussy!!!!!!!!
ballin1822 2 years ago
LMFAO. Dude is crazy Good Shit son.
az514433 2 years ago
True DAT! And it goes without saying...YOU ARE HILARIOUS!
1prettytoya 2 years ago
55,196 are stupid
aaronlikesalex 2 years ago
This coming from an aries woman. Aries women are said to understand men. lol. Seems that is true. Okay, women do things that they think that will draw a man in. Especially when it comes to sex. I have heard from somewhere that women think of sex as the beginning. Men think of sex as the end. If you are good enough in bed, you will become a booty call.
111Treasury 2 years ago
Damn niggah that was mad truth! :-D
Ramsez 2 years ago
Amen brother...very well articulated and to the point without the P.C. bullshit or sugarcoating
keep it up and tell it like it is
PosholNahooy 2 years ago
i dont even kiss on the first date
but i love how honest you are. i wish a had a male figure like u in real life. Thanx
punkkimiko 2 years ago 3
y is it that the gurl is labeled as a hoe i mean if he give it up wouldnt he be a hoe 2 i mean damn...wtf
Ladyofficial18 2 years ago
Well a man can't get any unless the woman puts out, and if the woman decides to put out on the first date that's her choice, not the man's. If that happens, that woman should not expect to receive a whole lot of respect. No man would wanna wife a woman who puts out on the first date, she will gain more respect holding out.
mistamac123 2 years ago
ho ho ho is right!! thats so nasty. i would never give it up on the first date. sex is something intimate and I cannot understand how sex can be casual and that applies to both men AND women. I have yet to meet a guy who has not had a one-night stand, it makes me cringe and I just avoid that convo and practice safe sex. I've only been with 3 men and they both have been with over 20 girls...and thats a scary thought to me but men are ho ho hoes too though
MsIslandSpice 2 years ago 2
this is sooo fuckin true man my homies needa watch this
MiszBecca22 2 years ago
lol UR FUNNY!! i like how u kanye west urself! lol oh my gosh, a few jokes along the line always keeps it interesting i aint even watched it all yet i got it one pause and reply just to see u pose at teh beginning! lol gosh too funny
Sharleneg 2 years ago
hehe this is sooo true thanks for sharing!
MsWomba 2 years ago
i was surprised i enjoyed this as much as i did. message was very informative. and so true. women need to realize it. the sooner the better.
EbonyGirlSpeaks 2 years ago
i love you!!!!!!
DxNery 2 years ago
You are the bomb! Thank you for that. We women need to hear this. LOL...you cracked me up though...hahahahahaha...
LJ92075 2 years ago
men will treat you in wateva way u put it our there. so if u freakin off on the 1st nite then thats all u will ever be to that man. u cant be mad at him for how he then treats u wen u put yaself out there u dont even know dude n u opening up ya legs. ive never slept with a man b4 at least a few months time n we have to be 2getha hav 2 hav decided on being 2getha or being more all of which resulted in serious/long-term relationships. u nt respectn yaself lyin on ya back like that hows he spose 2
prettyladya87 2 years ago
bitches aint shit ..but hoes and tricks....lick on my nuts and suck da dick
navyseal100 2 years ago
Thats the truth mang.
PreCurSeD 2 years ago
i dont fuck no bitch unless we been together at least a month
PreCurSeD 2 years ago 4
@PreCurSeD lol you refer to women as bitches?
thickjai18 8 months ago
DAVE CHAPELLE You have just been replaced!
chonoe12 2 years ago
Dr. Phil WHO?
chonoe12 2 years ago
80% of females out there are hoes,
80% of men out there are hoes.
MRbossman1982 2 years ago 21
@MRbossman1982 Bullshit and I invite you to watch WHORES: Female vs. Male -GurlTalkkTV from GTV to the end
LorentJovet 1 year ago
@LorentJovet Human beings in generals are whores equally male and female i think.
MRbossman1982 1 year ago
@MRbossman1982 not in my reality 20 % if men are hoes
fee20luv 1 year ago
@MRbossman1982 Seems fair.I think your statistics may be a bit off, but nonetheless it's fair. :)
SaturnPhase 8 months ago
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MRbossman1982 8 months ago
@MRbossman1982 I completely agree with you. If she has to bear the brunt of criticism from society for who she sleeps with, then so does the man. I agree.
SaturnPhase 8 months ago
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MRbossman1982 8 months ago
@MRbossman1982 I agree, and I wasn't implying you were condoning such behavior, but modern-day society no longer appreciates a woman who will guard and respect her body. You're either giving it up or people are waiting for you to slip up so they can say you are. Double standards are man-made tools of oppression. But it's been a fair argument. :)
SaturnPhase 8 months ago
wow,, thanxx for the future refrence!
mcnice27 2 years ago
that was REAL talk there
lynn1916 2 years ago
preach nigga preach
hold2dez 2 years ago
funny and true
millardrd 2 years ago
Don't listen to this fool, give it up and get on this dick bitches.
mygaffer 2 years ago
Dude, you sound like you love the Lord! I do too! But, real talk, you speak so much wisdom. I'm seriously going to use you as a reference when I am working with my teen girl's group. I've only seen 2 or 3 of your videos, but I would like to hear you mention a woman's worth every now and then.
Billiams08 2 years ago 3
lol 0:26 is funny
3xquisit3 2 years ago
what if ur still a virgin????????????plz do a video on it
damaguerreira 2 years ago 5
yes that should be a topic
afterimage2 2 years ago
TC, I miss vids like this! Hope all is going well with you.
syckindahead 2 years ago
REAL TALK, LISTEN TO THE MAN!
jucybits4u 2 years ago
Women that suck/fuck on the first date/visit are easy,standardless and gullable regardless of how many times they spoke on the phone or wrote to each other,the guy is a no good DOG that sweet talked the woman out her draws or she was just being a skeezer. You could catch something or get involved in some drama and have it affect you negatively for a loooong time.
It's affected me and it will never stop hurting. You're just gonna wish to GOD it NEVER HAPPENED!
sadetwizelve 2 years ago
I can tell you sucked some dick on the first date in the past.
platinumrecluse 2 years ago
You're so judgemental. Too bad for you.
caramela24 2 years ago
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sadetwizelve 2 years ago
self control is for both sexes!
Everyone needs to do it for themselves. I think it reflects self respect whether we realize it or not!
lable87 2 years ago
lol i watch a couple of your videos.. and im not going to lie that aren't to bad. some very interesting facts you got. Well anyway i really enjoyed in this video how you were entertaining yet serious....
you should think being a speaker to young adults and out in the public about these issues.
keep it up :)
eastafr1ka 2 years ago 4
Anyone who has sex on first date, male or female, are sluts.
kuhen25 2 years ago 17
I agree with you 100%
alilake1 2 years ago
@kuhen25 Everybody don't necessarily evolve within the dating frame and labeling is gratuitious.
LorentJovet 1 year ago
@kuhen25 wrong
DavidTheCatholic 1 year ago
@kuhen25 there is no such thing as a male slut.
TheGharaballi90 1 year ago
I strongly agree to what he stated, majority of the time...men think women are easy!!! when they get it on the first night. Now as far as sistah gur...who met her man on the first night and are happily married.....lets see how long that last? and lets hope he's not creeping..
lovelyblackwoman26 2 years ago
that aint true.. i met my husband at a night club and we did it that same nyt... we are happily married..
brexy19 2 years ago
Ya'll probably swing!
sadetwizelve 2 years ago
Not every woman wants a relationship so they can go do whatever makes them happy as far as I'm concerned.
What I can't stand are the women who swear that they want husband material but play musical beds. You wont find a husband when you're on your knees bobbing up and down. Sure, you'll get men who may break you off some change to get your hair done but he'll give his all to the woman that he feels is only his. You can have sex without losing your dignity.
NOCDIB 2 years ago
He actually spoke the truth. Whenever a chick gives it up on the first night as a dude I instantly think she is a whore(95% of us do). I might try to "get it in" whenever the opportunity presents itself but I will respect a woman who has some self control .
seedofgreatness 2 years ago 5
doesn't that mean you are a whore because you gave it on the first night as well?
redstar33309 2 years ago 5
YAY!!!!
but men prolly gon say noo thats something different because this n this n that blabla...
kkookkoo16 2 years ago
Not sure I agree with really any of this.
Segtilt 2 years ago
Me either lol! The brother starts off with his "conquest" which means he's a player. Then he goes into why women should hold back on the first date, AS IF holding back is going to make the man hear wedding bells. So what happens if you both have that affect on each other??? Its gonna happen, and when it does the man shouldn't think the woman is a ho unless other men are frequenting her. Knocking the boot the 1st night can also mean that you're into each other so much you take the chance.
BennyCorleone 2 years ago 3
you are still the funniest nigga i know!!!! holla at me boy! 9733320402
CrackHeadsDVD 2 years ago
Wow I wasnt offended at all and I am glad I dont give it up at all lol...jus hard finding guys okay with that...I want more than one night and no I wont call you hun lol
MissCharityRose 2 years ago
This guy is so wrong. I care very much about what she says, in fact that is the thrill of the chase. I do assure you Sex is on my mind but it is getting there what's fun.
InnateNate 2 years ago 2
haitians are the worst they flee work under their their desks.. they shouldnt exist black men have corrupt america by their lazyness get rid of them now its not too late.
teutares 2 years ago
I wouldn't do that on the first date that is slutty! I'm old fashioned and I have no desire to do that until I'm married. I notice that women who sleep with men never marry the men they put out for because the men weren't gonna marry them in the first place. Women who wanna fool around however aren't lookin' for marriage or aren't marriage material in the first place!
peachblush8199 2 years ago
lmao
DaTrAgGeRnAuT 2 years ago
I like,I like.. this was funy and very true..lol
sheelamx 2 years ago
F virtue. I am a woman who is not interested in being in a relationship but do
need some sex on a regular basis. So I feel like if I meet someone who im attracted to sexually, and he's down and im down, then its going down. I guess if that makes me a hoe, then we just going to be hoe's together for the night. Ive never understood why a man can be about sex but a woman cant, and when she is, shes a hoe. Hell im just trying to get a nut just like you are.
916simone 3 years ago 5
Agreed 1000%
SweZiEnt 2 years ago
on point and real...also a man who pressures a woman into goin there so soon shows himself to be a non virtuous man too...sooo it works both ways depending on what ur out there huntin or breezin for
ReviveUK 3 years ago
stupid hoe
wayne2166 2 years ago
SO REAL!!!! Loved it man.
AnnaleishaMae 3 years ago
I loved it ! Real talk from start to finish
twheel8 3 years ago
what about men giving up their virginity on the first date?
handledare 3 years ago 2
i enjoy watching your videos
thickymicky1 3 years ago
man please men are hoes to that shit works both ways dude...
zionsgurl4u 3 years ago 4
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zionsgurl4u 3 years ago
Women you can change the game in the next 5 seconds by changing your standards in this relationship game.Alot of dudes will front and try to be what you want them to be,and stop telling what kind of man you want.Alot of you women out there are good and the bad ones are making it bad for you by being too damn easy and loose.
mightyblack1 3 years ago 2
Back in the day, Mamma said, Rule #1: Never have sex on the first date or the second. Do not go to a man`s crib if you are not ready for sex. You all know what`s going to happen. If he really wants to know you, he will wait or move on to screw someone else. You will have your self-respect and your dignity!
NubianLockedPrincess 3 years ago 5
totally enjoyed this
bxboo823 3 years ago
I throughly enjoyed the video. I laughed out loud. And I agree with your message
MsScorpio67 3 years ago 2
some of the women commenting on this video are KILLING me......whats is this we are hip to the games that men play bs??? really....if women were hip to them there wouldnt be so many SINGLE ANGRY BITTER women. i dont care if its the year 3000 women need to learn to hold out on giving a man EVERYTHING.
read sherryl argov book why men love bitches.
and for JacqueMay81 you really do come on all of his vids saying that hes wrong if you feel that way... STOP WATCHING THEM!!!
nylonsweet 3 years ago
lol kanye west-ing urself.....lol ur funny
ss789 3 years ago 2
This video is great, and every young woman should understand how guys really see women.
swissbank1m 3 years ago
first off u funny as shit but i agree but i think it goes wit the guidance and selfesteem of a female but i mean REAL SHIT if she not really and truely confident wit herself she gon do watever she gotta do to feel like she is unlike us females who value ourselves...we really dont have time to think of wat other ppl think of us or how they gon look at us ya dig we jus do us point blank period
csichick08 3 years ago
i think men are more ho's than women
Enriquelio 3 years ago 13
clap clap clapping hard.. wonderful video man..
DEFACTO9 3 years ago 2
well i know that some ppl pressure u into it, or lie to u about things. i mean putting their hands in ur pants and u have to tell lies to get them to stop, and they'll do anything... for some of us late bloomer, we don't know the game that well and would like to think this is a nice guy and maybe we could be friends, but i can now honestly say. i've given up cuz even when u don't sleep w/ them, they still give u a level of disrespect that make u feel like a whore. I'd rather date my shower head
knickie1982 3 years ago 3
my high school was called Temple CHristian HIgh
in the 242 b-a-b-y!!!!!11
aaliyah172006 3 years ago
WOW! I thought the vid was funny and i have to agree with everything you said.
luv2hard 3 years ago 2
2 GIRLS 1 CUP, MAN, THAT ?&%@ UP! lol
brewcityuncut08 3 years ago
lol. All i was thinking at the start was wow you are such an ass, and then you turned right around. I have to say this was edited well, :) ,,,,
sexy1234 3 years ago
ha ha u're so funny, but seriosly everything u jst said is true some girls out there don't think or they jst don't care about their self respect. keep doing wat u doing boyyyyyy. peace
lidm09 3 years ago
I personally like women who get really horny towards me. Feels like the relationship has a lot more future than if she is hard and full of difficult (and hostile) attitude. Then again that is only my opinion.
Finn001abd 3 years ago 2
:D this is sum funni shytteee
Gurd video
just suscribed
Magiichands 3 years ago
You are really good! You are funny and now how to say the truth. May be it wasn't as respectful as it should be, but it wasn't that disrespectful neither. I'm glad you did this video... Is good for them to know that... For them to wake up from that dream in wish all men that act like gentlemen once... Won't be like that forever... That why they need to get to know each other. But enough... You already said the message. Thanx for that great video, great job. Laters and good luck. Sayo!
vampdude 3 years ago
the only way someone could get offended by this is if they are stupid. i gotta say...he's right! open your eyes! im a woman and i learned that shit when i was 15!
but here's the funny part instead of the guy just saying "hey can we just have a lil booty call thing" he will try and pretend that he wants you to be his girl?? see i already knew that the damage was done as soon as i spent the night..so when i get up to leave why lie to me? its just corny!
i wanted some
you wanted some..the end.
cognisun 3 years ago
Oh yeah, and NEWS FLASH!!! If we have sex with you on a first date chances are we don't want to marry you anyway. It goes both ways. Most times you guys never live up to our expectations anyway. Especially, if you have nothing more than any average man that we can pull anywhere at anytime. If you were an EXCEPTIONAL man then maybe we would really consider respecting you men from the beginning. Temp, tell us something we don't already know. It's 2008, and we are already hip to the games men play.
JacqueMay81 3 years ago 2
I agree completely girl.
communityhelp 3 years ago
It is rather comedic that you say if a woman wants to "marry" a man she should not sleep with him on the first date. I find that interesting because men like you usually portray a representative of who they aspire to be for at least the first 3 months. My point is it is highly doubtful that any self-respecting woman would know if they are interested in marrying a man on the first date. That is ridiiculous.
renay1978 3 years ago
I double that!
ariannahiggins 3 years ago
Ariannahiggins I didn't ask for you opinion and obviously you don't have one of your own.
renay1978 3 years ago
does anybody have temple christian's e-mail address
Splashysplash90 3 years ago
lol i love this vid....funny and thoughtful!
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and if its only sex they want, why the hell wont they mess with a prostitute? Its the same thing. I guess its costs to much to fork over money. I see no difference in paying or phucking on the first date. Both are deplorable. For some women (those with no self-respect) men will never give them the respect they so call desire. They will always be pieces of quick easy ass.
lindsey2021 3 years ago
only trash sleep with men on the first date. I know of no respectable woman that has slept with a man on the first date. And then these same black women have the nerve to complain about getting HIV or "my baby daddy wont take care of his kid". Stuff like this are things that black women ask to happen to them. So many women have low standards.
lindsey2021 3 years ago
You have alot of time on your hands.TOO MUCH DAMN TIME.You got all these female friends.Go spend some time with them.You must not be getting no pussy.
thabaddest1984 3 years ago
I'm glad I don't date men like you.
Truth is I never know on the first date if I wanna marry a guy. It takes A LOT for me to fall for someone.
I have fucked on the first date. I'm still seeing the guy and we spend a lot of time together, not just having sex, but doing things together as friends. I don't love him, but I like him a lot. He is good to me and he definitely respects me and cares about what I have to say.
My life is good.
I handle my business and get to where I wanna go. =]
SupaAmi 3 years ago
Although I sort of agree with both your videos (part 1 and part 2), I think men must understand that the times are definitely changing though. And more women are not really caring to date you nor marry you. They just want you in their vagina and then out the door. Sounds bad...but it is the truth. Shut up and take off your clothes! And please see your way out when this is over.
veronicaburgess 3 years ago 2
Very true.
I should know. I've played a few guys who wanted more than just sex. But they weren't boyfriend material to me. Not smart and interesting enough, so they had to go.
I have pretty high standards on my boyfriends. Very few guys meet those standards. But hey, I'm not gonna live in celibacy because of that. If I see a hot guy and I'm in the mood, then why not?
It's my body and my life. Can't nobody tell me shit.
SupaAmi 3 years ago 3
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nothingbutdabest22 3 years ago 3
Not sure what you mean, but celibacy isn't my thing.
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