WHITE MEN GO FOR PERSONALITY WHEN BECOME TO WOMEN BUT BLACK GUYS IN THIS COUNTRY GO FOR SKIN COLOR WHEN IT BECOME TO WHITE MEN THEY DONT GO FOR LOVE ARE ANYTHING AS LONG SHE WHITE THEN SHE GOOD
Seriously cecinia, who are you trying to kid with this lame ass argument? There are a lot of BW, if not more, who are just as COLOR STRUCK as the BM you're PUTTING DOWN. I know, you don't want to believe this, because somewhere in that dim-witted head of yours, you've convinced yourself that ALL BM who date/marry IR are either SELF-HATING or COLOR STRUCK.
@MAJESTY357 no i dont date out my race for color i go look there way they talk act personality sweet romantic treat me good tjat what i look for in i love all race men in my race men as well
I’m sorry but i must say there is no way in hell i will let a white man mistreat me. Hell no! And especially if i know he's doing it because I’m black please!
"More black men white women relationships fail because their is more of them"
1st of all, we are talking about percentages not quantity. Even if we were talking about quantity, that would not explain why BM/WW marriages fail more because they are even more WM/AW IR marriages that BM/WW yet BM/WW still fails more.
And if you have the money to pay for counseling, counselors will counsel you. Has nothing to do with hate.
@UHeardMe1stTime Why is always about white people with you Black Americans? Are there not other races to always compare to and discuss? Also, the root of all of your idea/ videos is the simple fact that most black people(from around the world) tend to find white people more attractive. Both male and female. A lot of Asians do as well but I have a feeling the % is lower. You can't teach people what to find attractive so nature has dealt us this card. Simple as that.
"Why is always about white people with you Black Americans?"
Because we live in a majority white country. This country used to be only blacks & whites. I'm from the south & there are still places in the south where there are only white and black people.
@UHeardMe1stTime You still have Asians and East Indians. Anyway, fair enough, so they are the majority. I gather you are in agreement with me about the interracial attractiveness point I made in my last two comments. I am a mixed race person myself, so do not feel as if I am some white person trying to boost my own ego hehe! Another point worth noting - in your country, being mixed race = being black 100%. In Europe, mixed race is a class of it's own which is more genuine I think.
"In Europe, mixed race is a class of it's own which is more genuine I think."
Europe does not have the racial history the USA has. The country used to be black and white and the blacks were slaves/ 2nd class citizens. Mixed race people weren't accepted as white so they got thrown into the black category. I agree with Europe's classification of mixed race pople.
I know but they are only 4% of our population. They are a much bigger percentage of the population in certain places in Europe like the UK. We rarely have Asian characters on TV shows here & I have only seen TWO shows with a majority Asian cast. Margaret Cho's sitcom & "Outsourced" from earlier this year. Both shows were very short-lived.
I agree that we have been dealt a card that probably with never change, but you CAN teach people what to find attractive. I'm not saying this is being done, I'm saying it CAN be done.
In places where there are no media yet people still prefer light skin, you have to ask if whites every conquered/ colonized that place even f it was hundreds on years ago. IF whites dominated those people they are going to see them as superior & will favor their look. This will get past down from generation to generation so media would not be necessary to spread the preference for light skin.
If there were never any whites there and there still is a preference for light skin, you would have to ask the people why they prefer light skin. It may have nothing to do with beauty. It may have to do with some ancient beliefs or maybe at one point nature selected for lighter people so they were healthier. You can automatically assign a westernized reason to why they prefer light skin.
There was a tribe in Africa, can't think of the name, but they had never seen white women before. They showed pictures of white women who are considered very beautiful to the tribesmen & they all thought the women were ugly. So again, I think your analysis is incomplete.
@UHeardMe1stTime Deep down you know I am right. It's just a very uncomfortable thing to admit. Life is not fair and we all have to deal with it. As far as the one tribe you mentioned,I am certain that's not common. I have spent months in about 7 African countries and I know that they find white people very desirable. This is not my fault, your fault or anyone else's. It's just the way it is. Actually, they are not not to desire white people and are veyr encouraged to be with their own..
Right about what? I agreed that it's the hand black people were dealt & I'll also agree whites are seen as the most attractive race. But if you're trying to say that is fact rather than opinion, you're wrong. it doesn't matter how many people believe one thing is better than another, it's still an OPINION.
@UHeardMe1stTime Races have been conquering each other for centuries. The Arabs do not believe they are inferior to the Jews, in fact they think they are superior. The Romanians do not feel inferior to the Turks(despite Turkish dominance over them for ages). This is not about superiority. One can find another race superior to them but still not find them more sexually attractive than their own. This is about what humans, in general, find to be the most common most desirable features.
@UHeardMe1stTime If you are going to reply by saying that it's the media and what not that teaches black people to find white people more attractive then I will rubbish that idea quickly! The media can not teach people that obese persons are more attractive or toothless and hairless people are more attractive either. Black people naturally find(in general)lighter skinned person more desirable media or no media. There are villages in countries with no tv and influence and this still holds true.
@UHeardMe1stTime ..and it still fails to make them consider their fellow black people as more attractive. Anyone that says, that black people find other black people equally or more attractive than whites is being naive or self deceiving. The evidence is overwhelming. In countries where whites are the majority and hold power, it rings true; in countries where whites are the minority and have power, it rings true;in countries where whites are the minority and hold no relevant power, it rings true
@UHeardMe1stTime in countries where there are hardly any whites at all, it still rings true. The media and public pressures do not stop people being liberal or conservative etc..That is a very flimsy excuse for this very real phenomenon. Let's just accept it. Your mindset is not consistent.Most black Americans are into hip hop culture. Why are they not into other cultural art forms, cause they are more promoted and encouraged than the one the follow? There are no excuses here.
@UHeardMe1stTime Race does not even really exist - it's a social construct. It's just phenotypes. If one trait is more apparent in one group than it is only logical to assume that, that particular trait can fall into the desirable or undesirable category. You said yourself that black American males will go for fat white woman, thereby admittinfg that fat people are generally less desirable. If fat people can be less desirable than why can't black people? If you think you teach people what to..
@UHeardMe1stTime find attractive then you have lost the moral ground. Who has the right to imprint their own ideas of what is attractive into others. The whole point is to let the individual make his or her choice. The bottom line is that people have a right to find their own race more attractive; they have a right to find other races more attractive; they even have a right to be racist(which I find repugnant).
@UHeardMe1stTime Perhaps we should continue this over PM. No need to bore your viewers. Btw, my points are 1. It appears universal that Caucasians are more desired than any other races. This is true for countries/races they conquered and countries/races that conquered them. It is certainly very true for black persons. 2. It is not a problem, just reality. 3. It should not matter if all black men want white women provided the white women want them back and if all black women want white men
I never argued against #1. For #2, it's not a problem in the grand scheme of things but it is a problem for people who are less likely to be selected. #3 is a problem when people don't to admit their preference to they bash whomever they are no selecting. 4. That's the same idea as number one. In the grand scheme of things it's not a problem (the world is not going to end), but it's a problem for people for people who don't get selected.
We never had any points of disagreement except you may the claim that it's natural to prefer white people. Based on the arguments you're giving, it's not a problem if 1 race conquers another because it's survival of the fittest. Just because something is bound to happen doesn't mean we necessarily should accept. I get you point but it sound like you're saying there's nothing you can do so just lay down & take it. I don't agree and never will agree.
@UHeardMe1stTime Perhaps you should add me as a friend for the purpose of private messaging and not clogging up your channel with this particular issue? Alert me if you choose to do so please. Anyway, you have missed the core of my argument. I will rephrase. Race does not really exist. Our social construct of race is based on phenotypes. Having dark skin and smaller/larger noses is a phenotype. Scientist do not have a definition of race and have stopped using that term 40 odd years ago.
" you have missed the core of my argument. I will rephrase. Race does not really exist. "
I have not missed your argument. You keep changing it. You laid out a list of 4 things. I responded to each 1. It's like you keep changing your argument looking for a debate.
@UHeardMe1stTime Commenting on a channel is inefficient. As a result, you thoughts become fragmented due to the 50 word limit. I sent you a friend request and am still waiting, My last few comments are just clarifying my points. I don't know how much clearer I can be.
Race does not exist was not the core of your argument. You have changed your argument several times. Again i am not sure what you are arguing for. I do not accept friend requests. I don't want people sending me long emails that I don't have time to answer.
@UHeardMe1stTime The race does not exist statement was needed to explain the point further. It was not the message. The message was, that it appears finding whites more desirable is mostly a natural phenomenon(mostly, not entirely) Even if the entire black people are attracted primarily to whites then it is not a negative cause it's aN attraction a to a phenotype within ones own race. The only race; the human race. How much clearer that that possibly be?
@UHeardMe1stTime As far as overweight women being considered more attractive in the west in the past. That's an exaggeration. Women with a bit more curves and a little weight is more accurate. Overweight is stretching it. Don't forget, being overweight is not really fat. There is a roughly accurate indicator in what people find mostly attractive throughout modern history with little, not major, variances as would be expected. My point is still valid.
" Don't forget, being overweight is not really fat.
I didn't say fat you did, but either way it's a semantic argument. They still preferred people who were had more weight on them than would be ideal into today's society. That's the point. Call it fat, overweight, chunky, thick, whatever. The point still stands.
@UHeardMe1stTime I will be off now. I apologize if I unintentionally made you feel bad. I saw your picture just a few minutes ago. Gorgeous woman. Take care and God Bless!
@UHeardMe1stTime... if white men want them back. 4. If there is an imbalance and black women or men find themselves without partners due to their race mates desires for other ethnic groups, the natural selection will sort it out like it has done throughout our evolution as a species.
@UHeardMe1stTime You will never win a campaign to alter something as basic and primitive as basic desire. No matter how many talk shows or self help books one reads or uses to try and convince others.
@UHeardMe1stTime There are features that human beings find more attractive than others as a natural evolutionary development. There is no difference(scientifically) in a white person not finding a large hipped white woman or anY Asian woman more attractive than a slender white woman. The features/bodies are just phenotypes. I just gave you some examples of white people being conquered while they were intellectually and developmentally inferior. They had no influence but were still considered..
You may have a few white ethnicities who are not winning, but overall whites are "winning" in the world to their phenotype is still favored. Overweight people used to be more desirable in western societies because it was a symbol that the person was well-to-do (eating well). What's desirable changes & varies from culture to culture.
@UHeardMe1stTime more desirable by the occupiers and overlords. So are obese people suppose to be naturally desired by others? I think you know the answer. Is it right to manipulate people into believing that they should be with overweight persons? Sexual desire can not be altered to any significant degree. You might as well be saying that homosexuality is a choice! Do you know that East Asians are considered the most intellectually evolved group of all? Even the racist scientists...
@UHeardMe1stTime agree with that. The East Asians are also aware. That still does not stop them elevating Caucasians on the attraction meter. Try watching Japanese television. If anything, it teaches Japanese superiority and the schools and universities back this up hard core! That still does not change the desire.
@UHeardMe1stTime The whys are natural. What's the difference between a large group of black people being left single a large group of white big eared, big nosed, big head people being left single. It's the same thing. The phenotypes just vary - but they are phenotypes within the same human race. If not finding black people attractive not natural than is not finding big nosed, big eared, big headed, big handed people also not natural Madam?
@UHeardMe1stTime I think we are having a comprehension issue here my dear. 1. You have not proved that finding white people attractive is not mostly natural cause the evidence indicates that it is. I have given numerous examples and the statistics indicate the same thing. You have made a few un supported statements which I answered. 2. Yes(like in the case of the overweight women in the past) the variation with today's idea of weight preference is not that drastic.
"Yes(like in the case of the overweight women in the past) the variation with today's idea of weight preference is not that drastic."
I didn't say anything about drastic. The point is the standard for ideal weight changed. I'm not arguing degree. You're trying to argue to degree to keep from conceding the point. The point is the standard change & you have already confirmed that so that point goes to me. We're done with that debate.
"You have not proved that finding white people attractive is not mostly natural cause the evidence indicates that it is."
"Mostly" natural does not help your argument. Either it's natural or it isn't. If you have to say the word "mostly", then that means you are admitting that you agree that it is at least partly not natural. Furthermore in your previous posts you did not use the word 'mostly'. This is a new addition. you keep changing your argument to keep the debate going.
@UHeardMe1stTime The difference between an overweight white woman in the past and a non overweight healthy white woman in the present is not as severe as the difference between a normal weight Chinese woman and a normal weight black woman today. The features are highly dissimilar. Remember, most men do not find curveless thin women verry attractive today anyway. This is a fantasy of the media. Women think they do.
@UHeardMe1stTime As far as you stating that race does does not exist is just semantics - That's completely false. I am talking from the authority of modern Biology and genetics. It's just a fact.
"As far as you stating that race does does not exist is just semantics - That's completely false."
As I said this is not a point I am interested in arguing. I didn't say I agreed or disagreed. But it's semantics because you said race doesn't exist but then turn around & say it's a social construct. It can't be a social construct if it doesn't exist.
@UHeardMe1stTime Look, forget about the concept of race for now cause it's just confusing and distracting you. Read my last two comments on your channel.
@UHeardMe1stTime Yes a slight change has occurred within the same 'race'. You are still missing the point. I articulated it very well when I was comparing differences within the same race and outside the race.Your basis is very weak because you are equating changes of desirability on weight with desirability between completely different groups of humans.
@UHeardMe1stTime Whatever they found attractive in the past, there is a logical range of weight that people could not manipulate society into finding attractive. The range was within the same ethnic group. They could not have made 700 pound woman to be appreciated. The point is there is a limit to the influences of culture on ones desires. As far as ,e using the world mostly. Of course its mostly. There is no absolute natural factors in psychology, but, the dominant component will manifest more
Again, ALL of this is irrelevant because my point is simple. What is considered ideal can change. Change is change. You're now trying to argue degree to keep from conceding the point. I will not argue degree. It's irrelevant.
@UHeardMe1stTime I am using race in the way you understand it. Yes, surely it can change but within limits. Can you make 700 pound, short legged, hairless women attractive to society to the point where they are desired above all else?Answer please.
@UHeardMe1stTime What are you talking about? Of course the degree is relevant. It's incredibly relevant. The degree from white to black is considerable! It's the entire point.
@UHeardMe1stTime You are not listening! What you are really saying(I guess) is that since changes can occur, then black people can be made to find their own equally or even more attractive than other groups. What I am saying is that the differences in features of the other races are such that it falls outside the limit of shifting attraction value. So the degree is KING! Why don't you understand this? Lol!! Bloody hell!
"What I am saying is that the differences in features of the other races are such that it falls outside the limit of shifting attraction value."
No, you're arguing that preferring whites is natural. Do not bait & switch. And you continue to speak of race though you say it does not exist. You are recognizing something as race because you keep referring to it. You are defeating your own argument.
@UHeardMe1stTime OH MY GOD! OF COURSE IT'S NATURAL! Nothing I have said negates the fact that it's natural! The natural desire for whites can not be altered to focus on other races because the level of attraction is such that you can not shift it. Why does this confuse you? I am not defeating my own argument and I TOLD YOU I will use the word race the way you understand it. I personally use ethnic groups.
"I will use the word race the way you understand it. I personally use ethnic groups."
This is exactly why i won't do the "race doesn't exist" debate. It's SEMANTICS & you just proved it's semantics. Instead of calling ti race, you call it "ethnic group". You're just changing the name which is SEMANTICS.
@UHeardMe1stTime From now on I will use ethnic groups because you did not comprehend the nature of the non existence of races in the classic sense. Why are you giving me a hard time on this?
@UHeardMe1stTime FINE IT'S SEMANTICS! I do not want to waste any more energy on this.That does not change anything. My point still stands about attraction.
@UHeardMe1stTime I am beginning to think you are playing with my head love lol! So every time I use the word natural; you want me to state mostly first? That's ridiculous! There are no absolutes and many things that are deemed to be natural have other factors at play that are not as dominant. You understand perfectly..
@UHeardMe1stTime Primarily naturally driven with artificial influences playing a very minor role. Not enough to sway the sexual drive to a significant degree in most cases.
@UHeardMe1stTime There also appears to be a differential in black women and black men. It appears that other races are more prone to finding black women more attractive than black men. I personally like every race aside Easy Asians. I mean sexually that is not as friends, brothers or whatever.
@UHeardMe1stTime I am beginning to feel guilty. Have I upset you? Sometimes I get so lost in the debate that I forget that I might hurt someone's self image or feelings. I really hope not!
" Sometimes I get so lost in the debate that I forget that I might hurt someone's self image or feelings."
Nice try. This is just a backhanded way to get me to acknowledge your point. The only way you could hurt my feelings is if I believe your argument which I don't.
Also we are talking about groups, not individuals & not me. The reality for a group does not dictate the reality for an individual within that group.
Mighty full of yourself to assume your words hurt my self-image
(ladruner) Your rant about black women I have yet to find that many attractive white women thier pale flesh and red faces are not that attractive . These poopoo brothers that makes a B line for white women can have my share ! That just mean more sweet sisters that are on the menu.
Why are you against black men that have white girlfriends. Good luck to both of you ! I wont date a white woman period. Your mouth is nasty as crap! white tone and cursing is still nasty as crap. If you are so smart and intelligent notify your mouth !
Marital stability studies published on the Education Resources Information Center found that White female-Black male unions are more prone to result in a divorce than White-White marriages are, while Black female-White male marriages show substantially lower rates of divorce than White-White marriages.[7]
btw. I was the one who said I thought for some reason you'd have a "sensible bob". I've thought about this all afternoon, and I've come to one conclusion. Did it ever matter what you looked like in the first place? I keep trying to figure out how it came about that there needed to be a "big reveal" in the first place. Were you goaded? You don't seem like the "get-goaded" type. So what was the point? :Yes, pleased that you're cute (who would be?), but why was that needed?
BW are NOT at the bottom of the race hierarchy; they are much less desired! BW and WM are one and the same for 200% different reasons and BM and WW are one and the same, but WW will yell "rape" and BM will put WW in they place! IDK! Light-Skinned BM are at the BOTTOMMOST of the race hierarchy, PERIOD!
all us black people need to start with stoping these dum as videos . i realy done have enouph . I JUST CANT TAKE IT ANY MORE . DAM ! THEY SAY WE GOT PROBLEMS . NOW WERE SAYING THAT WE GOT PROBLEMS . NOW THE BLACK KIDS THATS GROWNING UP IS GONNA THINK THEY GOT PROBLEMS TO . I DONT GIVE A ADAM WHO,S RIGHT OR WRONG STOP THE DAM VIDEOS ! THIS ANT GONNA GET NUN OF US ANY RESPECT . STICK TOGETHER THEN YOU WILL GET THE RESPECT ! SO JUST STOP IT YOU GOT THE SLAVES TURNING IN THERE GRAVES .
I think if it's true that women file for divorce more frequently it probably has to do with the fairytale of marriage being hoisted on to women from the time they're in the womb and once they do get married they feel- 'this ain't the bizness...'
I ment to say "instinct" and "Wayyy" Just so angry right now, I didn't have time to spell. Sorry for the type-o though.Please for the love of everything!! These men are LOSERS!!! Let swp and the other morons commit suicide already.
I love black girls but no disrespect sis. Your nuturing instint is whyyyy out of wack. I mean stop explaining all this shit to grown ass men!!! If they don't want to grow up, prison or some other unfortunate happenings WILL! It sooo time for you to have kids now lol! I see it in your hundreds of vids trying to explain something to these knuckle heads. I'm only saying this because you need something to nurture. Your to good of a women and I hate seeing good women like you wasting time with sissys
loool ur so funny, i can't remember all u said but i did want to say that in england, black men (originally caribbean not african) are not seen at the bottom of the hierarchy, (in the main cities) but at the top, they are most desired by women, and men will go so much out of their way to befriend them for the reputation, ww will do ANYTHING to get her self a a bm generally.. i cant say the same 4 bw, we definitely are the lowest of the low alongside muslims.
@UHeardMe1stTime I don't doubt that I have other races in me. B4 I went bald I could get waves in my hair from just spitting in my hand, & patting my hair down or w/ vaseline & everyone would accuse me of using relaxer, but maybe I am wrong. I finally saw my angel whose been making his presence known over 13months, in a vision 2 months ago. His hair looked like a black womans looks when she presses it with a hot iron.. Maybe my hair is how it use to look in Jesus day and I am not mixed.
@BarabbasLove "I don't doubt that I have other races in me." "Maybe my hair is how it use to look in Jesus day and I am not mixed." hypocritcal, much?
@UHeardMe1stTime God told me I was Benjamin (so called West Indians R Benjamin. We fit da prophecy of Gen 49:27. Reggae music chanting down Babylon fits da prophecy of ravin.. Ravin means2 utter harsh noises.).Rihanna,Bob Marley, Lenny Lenny Kravitz & Frederick Douglass R Edomite devils. I have black Edomites in my family. Most of us R not Edomites. God protected us from that=Rom11:29/Deu28:30. Now if U continue mixing w/ gentiles, thats on U. We not under da curse of Deu 28:30 anymo
@BarabbasLove Using religion to justify racial politics. That's very intelligent. U sond like those Black Isrealites that I can't stand. Get a life man.
@YoungnRomantic Let me guess. Another angry inter-racialist who actually borrowed their neighbors Bible B/C they don't have their own, r they went & bought 1 & read it 2C if they could contradict me & realized they couldn't so they pulled out their emotional voodoo stick & thought 2themselves, " this guy is a Bible Bruce Lee, so I should just pour on da voodoo ".. No thank U. I don't debate politics, history r knowledge of da Bible. Understanding & wisdom comes from God = Job32:8/ Ps119:18
@BarabbasLove I'm not angry. I'm just a person who can think for themselves and don't use religion to disciminate against things that I don't like or disagree with. That's the problem with religion. Its social psychology designed to control the masses. U canave spirituality without religion. Native Americans taught us that.
@BarabbasLove This is y the world is so fucked up. We have so many people who let religion divide them and tell them to hate each other. ie: Americans hating Muslims after 9/11. That ring a bell ? This proves my point. Learn to think for yourself and u will see that religion is part of government propaganda. Just for the record, I have read the Bible and in never has stated to hate people because they are different from u. It says to love thy neighbor as thy love thyself.
So are some African Americans. Remember slavery? Remember the Masters who impregnated black slaves? If you do a DNA test you might find some white DNA
@UHeardMe1stTime Look... Divorce your slave ( Lev 25:44-46 / Zephaniah 2:9 / Jer 48:42 ).. Stay single or marry any Israelite you like. U can date Native American, Latino or black.. W/ my gift ( 1 Cor 12:10 discerning of spirits), I can look in2 da soul of a person & tell U what kind of spirit they have. Here go a white guy whose not an Edomite, but is carrying around an Israelite spirit of many generations = Desmond Harrington of Shotimes Dexter. So is Hayden Panettiere & Carmen Diaz
Leave the " - " out in da link.. No spaces // Plus,I saw a picture of U.U fine as hell.. Ain't no reason why U can't find a compatible brotha... I figure if a woman as yourself ain't w/ a brotha, its B/C they don't want1... If U had the courage to converse w/ me about the Bible, I would show U that U are an Israelite & that your Moabite ( Chinese= Jer 48:47) / Ammonite ( Japanese= Jer 49:6 ) husband is going in2 slavery when Christ returns & U will be put down4 treason (Isa 13:15/Mal 2:11-12)
I am sorry but you are not qualified to talk about black people where love is concerned if you are not with a black man. You can talk about black issues being that you are black but because you sold out, you are not qualified to talk to us about black love. Same thing goes for black men who are dating Shedomite devils. ( In case you don't know Esau / Edom is the seed of Satan in the Bible. They are the progenitors of whites w*w*w*DOT*flickr*DOT*com/photos/50908442@N03/5310272279/
@UHeardMe1stTime I know your husband is not white. You said he was Asian. Elam, Biblical name for East Indians = Jer 49:39; are going in2 slavery under us when Christ puts us in our Kingdom ( Dan 2:44 / Isaiah 54:3 / Gen 27:29/ Rev 2:26 / Amos 9:11-12, Israel " are those who are called by my name in Amos 9:12 = Num 6:27 / 2 Chr 7:14 ) / Moab = Chinese - Jer 48:47 / Ammon = Japanese - Jer 49:39... All Asians which are not of these 3, China, Japan or India are bastards of any of the three.
@UHeardMe1stTime Asians are a bastard race.. Those names I mentioned, Moab, Ammon & Elam were black gentile nations, but they mixed with Esau / Edom who were the only non black people in the Bible... After Edom began mixing with the other black nations, he changed the landscape of the table of nations in Genesis 10... The different races did not come about through climatic evolution.. All those prehistoric bones Esau loves to talk about were from the first world before Adam & Eve.
Willie pete dumped a ww b/c she said blk people voted for Obamba b/c he was black. I rest my case, I always said these bm WILL dump a ww as soon as she decide to have an opinion of her own. WW you shl understand these bm are extremely insecure and are with u not out of love, but for a need to feed all of his insecurities.
I do not think that Black women have less options than other women. If a Black woman was actually interested in dating out, she could find so many different races that would love a Black woman. There is no need for Black women to only look to white men. Other men of color are in love with black women. In fact men are in love with women. period. regardless of race.
but this is bullshyt, why r u guys fighting so hard to please the white guys.damn its as if u r at war with each other, nowonder ur such a retarded race.jews want to marry jews, asians want to marry asians, indians want to marry indians, whites want to marry whites, but afro americans want to marry everyone else apart from themselves.wtf!!!!!
the situation is quite the opposite with black men,.its the highly successful black men who opt not to marry african american, n/b, i said african american, ladies.just coz a white guy has a black woman in very few cases does it translate to being african american, but i agree wth everything else that u said.i mean, am black, and my mom warns me against dating african american ladies.
i seriously doubt highly successful white men opt for black women. its only a desperate white man who will end up marrying a black woman, just vice versa, on the situation u just explained about women not needing men.if they do, veruy few of them go for african american ladies, a majority go for african africans, or caribbean african ladies.very few date/marry african american women.however, the situation is quite the opposite with black men,
08:45 reminds me of a Japanese term I learned about recently called "amae", which basically refers to a relationship between people who are totally dependent on each other, for whatever reasons they have established.
Black women r deserate to hold on to that white boy and will put up with a lot of shit when it comes to a man of another race.I agree with pete on that one.
@Dreadman4040 You believe the worst because you want to but have nothing to back it up. However you don't believe BW/Wm relationships last the longest even though it's a proven fact. Even your boy SWP acknowledges it. You believe what you want to believe.
@UHeardMe1stTime they are kind of desperate have u seen all the videos of black women promoting interracial relationship, it kind of sad because it seems like they are begging for men of other race to date them. this shit just look interesting to me because i'm african and never experience such division in my ethnic group, maybe the problem is u guys are in a white majority country.
Are you serious??? You need to give Taye more credit than that. If that's the case so same goes for any couples that still together today. And Taye and Idina have been together since 1996. 14 years. So are you gonna tell that to BW and WM that have been together for 14 years. Come on now. LOL.
No, only 7 years count. We don't count the years of shacking up & playing house. I mentioned 20, 30 year marriages. I'm talking 'til death do us part type of stuff. Taye & homegirl are still young. A lot could still happen. You can add them to the list if they're still together when they're old.
@UHeardMe1stTime LOL, wow. Gimme a break. It's still 14 years the hell with that marriage death us part crap. Thought you were more open-minded and logical than that. Young doesn't mean nothing. From the things and issues you were discussing wasn't pertaining to just old people, hardly the elderly at all. Seems like your just biased towards Taye. About time the 2 of them turn 45 that will be 20 years, that's not old. LOL, so like I said it doesn't just pertain to old people.
Actually people who co-habitate for long periods of time are more likely to divorce. So the 7 years Tay & homegirl spent playing house was actually counter productive. Check the research & you'll see what I'm saying is true.
Are you serious??? You need to give Taye more credit than that. If that's the case so same goes for any couples that still together today. And Taye and Idina have been together since 1996. 14 years. So are you gonna tell that to BW and WM that have been together for 14 years. Come on now. LOL.
LOL, I thought many BM/WW stay together longer cause of the hate they face it makes their love stronger and stick together. There's tons of BM/WW still married. Taye Diggs and Idina Menzel are a prime example of a loving couple.
Taye got married in 2003. Seven years is NOT long enough to say they have stood the test of time. This video is about relationships lasting. 7 years ain't nuthin'. You'll have to come with 20+ year marriages before you prove anything. James Earl Jones is a better example. I think Sidney Poitier also qualifies.
@UHeardMe1stTime Are you serious??? You need to give Taye more credit than that. If that's the case the same goes for any couples that still together today. And Taye and Idina have been together since 1996. 14 years. So are you gonna tell that to BW and WM that have been together for 14 years. Come on now. LOL.
@UHeardMe1stTime Are you serious??? You need to give Taye more credit than that. If that's the case so same goes for any couples that still together today. And Taye and Idina have been together since 1996. 14 years. So are you gonna tell that to BW and WM that have been together for 14 years. Come on now. LOL.
@UHeardMe1stTime Excuses. Who cares if Taye and Idina got married in 2003, they've been together since 1996 and that 14 years. LOL. That's what should matter, they didn't get married until 2003 and didn't have a baby until 2009, which proves that love , being responisble and taking the steps to have a great relationship, so if that doesn't qualify i don't know what does. So 14 years ain't nuthin, cause you say so??? LOL.
...Give it time, he's been caught cheating on her with blondes for years. Guess she' not "white" enough for him either which speaks volumes about him.
"Taydina"...little effeminate there aren’t we buddy. Why can't I stand "Taydina" exactly? You’re the one that stated that their “happily” married, I countered with his infidelities so drop the bitchery maybe and deal with fact that you picked a bad example, especially since we wanna label people as ignorant.
@Yolandra101 LOL, hey that what they're called and I wanted to type it together so that's irrelevant unless you're intimidated by them. And yes are you ignorant, you just wanted to be negative to Taye & Idina or BM/WW anyway. Typical.
...that's what their called by who? Why would anyone be intimidated by them, sounds as childish as someone being inspired by them (lefts eyebrow). Where and how am I ignorant exactly? Honestly, if you know enough about this couple to refer to them by a pet-name, how could the reports of his infidelity be new to you. Defensive, effeminate, out of context and childish...not typical of a heterosexual man anyway. (O_o)
@Yolandra101 Look at all the videos and tributes to them on youtube, alot of people call them that. So being inspired is childish? LOL. Idina's an award winning Broadway actress and had a hit song out for awhile & alot of young girls look up to her. The couple had many interviews on shows, so the ONLY one that doesn't know enough is U. Gimme a break. It's best do your research next time. I bet you wouldn't say that about Will & Jada, or other SAME race couples. So yes you are ignorant. Typical.
"So being inspired is childish?" No, being inspired by the Obama's wouldn't be or the Gates for that matter wouldn't be, but be inspired not by a couple's accomplishments but the fact that he married a "White female" is akin to and as childish as "picking the 'White' doll".
"& alot of young girls look up to her."
Really, I have a score of niece's and goddaughters and none of them know her...she's not Millie Cyrus.
Give yourself a break by not acting like a teenaged female.
PS-Taye and his wife are nowhere on the same level as Will and Jada or Brad and Angelina for that matter.
So yes, you're effeminate. And trying to out bitch a female especially when the female can present a more sound argument makes you all the more tragic. Find a therapist.
@Yolandra101 LOL, like a teenaged female???? You're the one that said I didn't now enough about the couple. Don't even try it. You just have a problem with the truth. The only reason I used Tayedina was to reduce space on typing simple as that. I proved my point. Trust some BW like you will never present a better argument cause of your ignorance and belligerent ways. i make many valid points in my videos. So tell that to someone else. You can't debate me.
"You're the one that said I didn't now enough about the couple."
No, what I said was "if you know enough about this couple to refer to them by a pet-name, how could the reports of his infidelity be new to you". Which is a valid question. Another valid question would be why your following celeb couples like a...yes, teenaged girl in the first place (O_o) you haven't presented the truth...so don't even try it. Get Therapy!
@Yolandra101 Who cares if I call them a pet-name. Really are you serious?? You don't have to but other people can. LOL. You don't know how I'm talking or the way my VOICE presents it, I'm not saying it in a girlie way crazy. I keep proving you wrong. I'm done.
Then by all means forget the pet-name and what its use implies. Why are you labeling and showing off while referring to some as ignorant. Substantiate the ignorance and/or belligerence. I can substantiate the effeminism. When a man labels or names calls in a conversation with a female that doesn't look good. If you where confident in you stance (especially as a man) that would be the last thing you'd do out of respect for yourself if nothing else.
@Yolandra101 So I shouldn't debate with a woman? LOL, so what? Aren't we all human and EQUAL. So I'm not lookning bad in anyway. I stand up and speak my mind simple as that.
White women be with black me when they are looking for real love !
halffead 2 months ago
Gawd, you're awesome. XD
Mokurentate 3 months ago 3
WHITE MEN GO FOR PERSONALITY WHEN BECOME TO WOMEN BUT BLACK GUYS IN THIS COUNTRY GO FOR SKIN COLOR WHEN IT BECOME TO WHITE MEN THEY DONT GO FOR LOVE ARE ANYTHING AS LONG SHE WHITE THEN SHE GOOD
cecinia23 4 months ago
@cecinia23
Seriously cecinia, who are you trying to kid with this lame ass argument? There are a lot of BW, if not more, who are just as COLOR STRUCK as the BM you're PUTTING DOWN. I know, you don't want to believe this, because somewhere in that dim-witted head of yours, you've convinced yourself that ALL BM who date/marry IR are either SELF-HATING or COLOR STRUCK.
MAJESTY357 3 months ago
@MAJESTY357 yeah alot of black guys say that on youtube
cecinia23 3 months ago
@cecinia23
Odd, you date IR and you don't see yourself as being COLORSTRUCK, do you?
MAJESTY357 3 months ago
@MAJESTY357 no i dont date out my race for color i go look there way they talk act personality sweet romantic treat me good tjat what i look for in i love all race men in my race men as well
cecinia23 3 months ago
women have money without the man, when they are employed, self employed, educated and earning a decent salary!
SuperTruthful 5 months ago
I’m sorry but i must say there is no way in hell i will let a white man mistreat me. Hell no! And especially if i know he's doing it because I’m black please!
betterunited 5 months ago
"More black men white women relationships fail because their is more of them"
1st of all, we are talking about percentages not quantity. Even if we were talking about quantity, that would not explain why BM/WW marriages fail more because they are even more WM/AW IR marriages that BM/WW yet BM/WW still fails more.
And if you have the money to pay for counseling, counselors will counsel you. Has nothing to do with hate.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Why is always about white people with you Black Americans? Are there not other races to always compare to and discuss? Also, the root of all of your idea/ videos is the simple fact that most black people(from around the world) tend to find white people more attractive. Both male and female. A lot of Asians do as well but I have a feeling the % is lower. You can't teach people what to find attractive so nature has dealt us this card. Simple as that.
EarlRegent 5 months ago
@EarlRegent
"Why is always about white people with you Black Americans?"
Because we live in a majority white country. This country used to be only blacks & whites. I'm from the south & there are still places in the south where there are only white and black people.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime You still have Asians and East Indians. Anyway, fair enough, so they are the majority. I gather you are in agreement with me about the interracial attractiveness point I made in my last two comments. I am a mixed race person myself, so do not feel as if I am some white person trying to boost my own ego hehe! Another point worth noting - in your country, being mixed race = being black 100%. In Europe, mixed race is a class of it's own which is more genuine I think.
EarlRegent 5 months ago
@EarlRegent
"In Europe, mixed race is a class of it's own which is more genuine I think."
Europe does not have the racial history the USA has. The country used to be black and white and the blacks were slaves/ 2nd class citizens. Mixed race people weren't accepted as white so they got thrown into the black category. I agree with Europe's classification of mixed race pople.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@EarlRegent
"You still have Asians and East Indians."
I know but they are only 4% of our population. They are a much bigger percentage of the population in certain places in Europe like the UK. We rarely have Asian characters on TV shows here & I have only seen TWO shows with a majority Asian cast. Margaret Cho's sitcom & "Outsourced" from earlier this year. Both shows were very short-lived.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@EarlRegent
I agree that we have been dealt a card that probably with never change, but you CAN teach people what to find attractive. I'm not saying this is being done, I'm saying it CAN be done.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@EarlRegent
"most black people(from around the world) tend to find white people more attractive."
You have to remember that whites conquered half the damn world. Light skin & certain features are associated superiority, prestige, wealth etc.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@EarlRegent
In places where there are no media yet people still prefer light skin, you have to ask if whites every conquered/ colonized that place even f it was hundreds on years ago. IF whites dominated those people they are going to see them as superior & will favor their look. This will get past down from generation to generation so media would not be necessary to spread the preference for light skin.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
If there were never any whites there and there still is a preference for light skin, you would have to ask the people why they prefer light skin. It may have nothing to do with beauty. It may have to do with some ancient beliefs or maybe at one point nature selected for lighter people so they were healthier. You can automatically assign a westernized reason to why they prefer light skin.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
There was a tribe in Africa, can't think of the name, but they had never seen white women before. They showed pictures of white women who are considered very beautiful to the tribesmen & they all thought the women were ugly. So again, I think your analysis is incomplete.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Deep down you know I am right. It's just a very uncomfortable thing to admit. Life is not fair and we all have to deal with it. As far as the one tribe you mentioned,I am certain that's not common. I have spent months in about 7 African countries and I know that they find white people very desirable. This is not my fault, your fault or anyone else's. It's just the way it is. Actually, they are not not to desire white people and are veyr encouraged to be with their own..
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"Deep down you know I am right."
Right about what? I agreed that it's the hand black people were dealt & I'll also agree whites are seen as the most attractive race. But if you're trying to say that is fact rather than opinion, you're wrong. it doesn't matter how many people believe one thing is better than another, it's still an OPINION.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"It's just a very uncomfortable thing to admit."
You're projecting.
"I have spent months in about 7 African countries and I know that they find white people very desirable."
I never argued against this. The issue was the reason why.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Races have been conquering each other for centuries. The Arabs do not believe they are inferior to the Jews, in fact they think they are superior. The Romanians do not feel inferior to the Turks(despite Turkish dominance over them for ages). This is not about superiority. One can find another race superior to them but still not find them more sexually attractive than their own. This is about what humans, in general, find to be the most common most desirable features.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"This is about what humans, in general, find to be the most common most desirable features."
Again changing your argument. We were talking about why.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime If you are going to reply by saying that it's the media and what not that teaches black people to find white people more attractive then I will rubbish that idea quickly! The media can not teach people that obese persons are more attractive or toothless and hairless people are more attractive either. Black people naturally find(in general)lighter skinned person more desirable media or no media. There are villages in countries with no tv and influence and this still holds true.
EarlRegent 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime ..and it still fails to make them consider their fellow black people as more attractive. Anyone that says, that black people find other black people equally or more attractive than whites is being naive or self deceiving. The evidence is overwhelming. In countries where whites are the majority and hold power, it rings true; in countries where whites are the minority and have power, it rings true;in countries where whites are the minority and hold no relevant power, it rings true
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
You're changing your argument. We were talking about the WHY'S.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime in countries where there are hardly any whites at all, it still rings true. The media and public pressures do not stop people being liberal or conservative etc..That is a very flimsy excuse for this very real phenomenon. Let's just accept it. Your mindset is not consistent.Most black Americans are into hip hop culture. Why are they not into other cultural art forms, cause they are more promoted and encouraged than the one the follow? There are no excuses here.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Race does not even really exist - it's a social construct. It's just phenotypes. If one trait is more apparent in one group than it is only logical to assume that, that particular trait can fall into the desirable or undesirable category. You said yourself that black American males will go for fat white woman, thereby admittinfg that fat people are generally less desirable. If fat people can be less desirable than why can't black people? If you think you teach people what to..
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime find attractive then you have lost the moral ground. Who has the right to imprint their own ideas of what is attractive into others. The whole point is to let the individual make his or her choice. The bottom line is that people have a right to find their own race more attractive; they have a right to find other races more attractive; they even have a right to be racist(which I find repugnant).
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
You're all over the map. I'm not sure what your argument is anymore or why you are disagreeing with me.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Perhaps we should continue this over PM. No need to bore your viewers. Btw, my points are 1. It appears universal that Caucasians are more desired than any other races. This is true for countries/races they conquered and countries/races that conquered them. It is certainly very true for black persons. 2. It is not a problem, just reality. 3. It should not matter if all black men want white women provided the white women want them back and if all black women want white men
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
I never argued against #1. For #2, it's not a problem in the grand scheme of things but it is a problem for people who are less likely to be selected. #3 is a problem when people don't to admit their preference to they bash whomever they are no selecting. 4. That's the same idea as number one. In the grand scheme of things it's not a problem (the world is not going to end), but it's a problem for people for people who don't get selected.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
We never had any points of disagreement except you may the claim that it's natural to prefer white people. Based on the arguments you're giving, it's not a problem if 1 race conquers another because it's survival of the fittest. Just because something is bound to happen doesn't mean we necessarily should accept. I get you point but it sound like you're saying there's nothing you can do so just lay down & take it. I don't agree and never will agree.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Perhaps you should add me as a friend for the purpose of private messaging and not clogging up your channel with this particular issue? Alert me if you choose to do so please. Anyway, you have missed the core of my argument. I will rephrase. Race does not really exist. Our social construct of race is based on phenotypes. Having dark skin and smaller/larger noses is a phenotype. Scientist do not have a definition of race and have stopped using that term 40 odd years ago.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
" you have missed the core of my argument. I will rephrase. Race does not really exist. "
I have not missed your argument. You keep changing it. You laid out a list of 4 things. I responded to each 1. It's like you keep changing your argument looking for a debate.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Commenting on a channel is inefficient. As a result, you thoughts become fragmented due to the 50 word limit. I sent you a friend request and am still waiting, My last few comments are just clarifying my points. I don't know how much clearer I can be.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
Race does not exist was not the core of your argument. You have changed your argument several times. Again i am not sure what you are arguing for. I do not accept friend requests. I don't want people sending me long emails that I don't have time to answer.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime The race does not exist statement was needed to explain the point further. It was not the message. The message was, that it appears finding whites more desirable is mostly a natural phenomenon(mostly, not entirely) Even if the entire black people are attracted primarily to whites then it is not a negative cause it's aN attraction a to a phenotype within ones own race. The only race; the human race. How much clearer that that possibly be?
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"The message was, that it appears finding whites more desirable is mostly a natural phenomenon(mostly, not entirely) "
Yes that was your original argument & I disagreed.
The "there's no such thing as race" argument is just semantics so I don't argue that point with anyone.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime As far as overweight women being considered more attractive in the west in the past. That's an exaggeration. Women with a bit more curves and a little weight is more accurate. Overweight is stretching it. Don't forget, being overweight is not really fat. There is a roughly accurate indicator in what people find mostly attractive throughout modern history with little, not major, variances as would be expected. My point is still valid.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
" Don't forget, being overweight is not really fat.
I didn't say fat you did, but either way it's a semantic argument. They still preferred people who were had more weight on them than would be ideal into today's society. That's the point. Call it fat, overweight, chunky, thick, whatever. The point still stands.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I will be off now. I apologize if I unintentionally made you feel bad. I saw your picture just a few minutes ago. Gorgeous woman. Take care and God Bless!
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime... if white men want them back. 4. If there is an imbalance and black women or men find themselves without partners due to their race mates desires for other ethnic groups, the natural selection will sort it out like it has done throughout our evolution as a species.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime You will never win a campaign to alter something as basic and primitive as basic desire. No matter how many talk shows or self help books one reads or uses to try and convince others.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime There are features that human beings find more attractive than others as a natural evolutionary development. There is no difference(scientifically) in a white person not finding a large hipped white woman or anY Asian woman more attractive than a slender white woman. The features/bodies are just phenotypes. I just gave you some examples of white people being conquered while they were intellectually and developmentally inferior. They had no influence but were still considered..
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
You may have a few white ethnicities who are not winning, but overall whites are "winning" in the world to their phenotype is still favored. Overweight people used to be more desirable in western societies because it was a symbol that the person was well-to-do (eating well). What's desirable changes & varies from culture to culture.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime more desirable by the occupiers and overlords. So are obese people suppose to be naturally desired by others? I think you know the answer. Is it right to manipulate people into believing that they should be with overweight persons? Sexual desire can not be altered to any significant degree. You might as well be saying that homosexuality is a choice! Do you know that East Asians are considered the most intellectually evolved group of all? Even the racist scientists...
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime agree with that. The East Asians are also aware. That still does not stop them elevating Caucasians on the attraction meter. Try watching Japanese television. If anything, it teaches Japanese superiority and the schools and universities back this up hard core! That still does not change the desire.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime The whys are natural. What's the difference between a large group of black people being left single a large group of white big eared, big nosed, big head people being left single. It's the same thing. The phenotypes just vary - but they are phenotypes within the same human race. If not finding black people attractive not natural than is not finding big nosed, big eared, big headed, big handed people also not natural Madam?
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I think we are having a comprehension issue here my dear. 1. You have not proved that finding white people attractive is not mostly natural cause the evidence indicates that it is. I have given numerous examples and the statistics indicate the same thing. You have made a few un supported statements which I answered. 2. Yes(like in the case of the overweight women in the past) the variation with today's idea of weight preference is not that drastic.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"You have not proved that finding white people attractive is not mostly natural cause the evidence indicates that it is."
You have not proven it is natural. You just gave reasons why you believe it is. i told you why i believe it's not when I mentioned the African tribe.
"You have made a few un supported statements which I answered."
What do you mean unsupported? Neither one of us has provided links/ references, so you comments are unsupported as well.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"Yes(like in the case of the overweight women in the past) the variation with today's idea of weight preference is not that drastic."
I didn't say anything about drastic. The point is the standard for ideal weight changed. I'm not arguing degree. You're trying to argue to degree to keep from conceding the point. The point is the standard change & you have already confirmed that so that point goes to me. We're done with that debate.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"You have not proved that finding white people attractive is not mostly natural cause the evidence indicates that it is."
"Mostly" natural does not help your argument. Either it's natural or it isn't. If you have to say the word "mostly", then that means you are admitting that you agree that it is at least partly not natural. Furthermore in your previous posts you did not use the word 'mostly'. This is a new addition. you keep changing your argument to keep the debate going.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime The difference between an overweight white woman in the past and a non overweight healthy white woman in the present is not as severe as the difference between a normal weight Chinese woman and a normal weight black woman today. The features are highly dissimilar. Remember, most men do not find curveless thin women verry attractive today anyway. This is a fantasy of the media. Women think they do.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime As far as you stating that race does does not exist is just semantics - That's completely false. I am talking from the authority of modern Biology and genetics. It's just a fact.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"As far as you stating that race does does not exist is just semantics - That's completely false."
As I said this is not a point I am interested in arguing. I didn't say I agreed or disagreed. But it's semantics because you said race doesn't exist but then turn around & say it's a social construct. It can't be a social construct if it doesn't exist.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Look, forget about the concept of race for now cause it's just confusing and distracting you. Read my last two comments on your channel.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Yes a slight change has occurred within the same 'race'. You are still missing the point. I articulated it very well when I was comparing differences within the same race and outside the race.Your basis is very weak because you are equating changes of desirability on weight with desirability between completely different groups of humans.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
Why are you using the word race if it doesn't exist?
"I articulated it very well when I was comparing differences within the same race and outside the race."
That's irrelevant. My point is that what's considered ideal can change. PERIOD. Again, that point goes to me.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Whatever they found attractive in the past, there is a logical range of weight that people could not manipulate society into finding attractive. The range was within the same ethnic group. They could not have made 700 pound woman to be appreciated. The point is there is a limit to the influences of culture on ones desires. As far as ,e using the world mostly. Of course its mostly. There is no absolute natural factors in psychology, but, the dominant component will manifest more
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
Again, ALL of this is irrelevant because my point is simple. What is considered ideal can change. Change is change. You're now trying to argue degree to keep from conceding the point. I will not argue degree. It's irrelevant.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I am using race in the way you understand it. Yes, surely it can change but within limits. Can you make 700 pound, short legged, hairless women attractive to society to the point where they are desired above all else?Answer please.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"Yes, surely it can change but within limits. "
I am NOT arguing degree with you. You have conceded by saying yes it can change so we're done with that debate.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime What are you talking about? Of course the degree is relevant. It's incredibly relevant. The degree from white to black is considerable! It's the entire point.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
It IS irrelevant to MY point which is that what is ideal can change.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime You are not listening! What you are really saying(I guess) is that since changes can occur, then black people can be made to find their own equally or even more attractive than other groups. What I am saying is that the differences in features of the other races are such that it falls outside the limit of shifting attraction value. So the degree is KING! Why don't you understand this? Lol!! Bloody hell!
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"What I am saying is that the differences in features of the other races are such that it falls outside the limit of shifting attraction value."
No, you're arguing that preferring whites is natural. Do not bait & switch. And you continue to speak of race though you say it does not exist. You are recognizing something as race because you keep referring to it. You are defeating your own argument.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime OH MY GOD! OF COURSE IT'S NATURAL! Nothing I have said negates the fact that it's natural! The natural desire for whites can not be altered to focus on other races because the level of attraction is such that you can not shift it. Why does this confuse you? I am not defeating my own argument and I TOLD YOU I will use the word race the way you understand it. I personally use ethnic groups.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"I will use the word race the way you understand it. I personally use ethnic groups."
This is exactly why i won't do the "race doesn't exist" debate. It's SEMANTICS & you just proved it's semantics. Instead of calling ti race, you call it "ethnic group". You're just changing the name which is SEMANTICS.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"OH MY GOD! OF COURSE IT'S NATURAL! "
Is it natural or "MOSTLY" natural? You can't seem to decide.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime From now on I will use ethnic groups because you did not comprehend the nature of the non existence of races in the classic sense. Why are you giving me a hard time on this?
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime FINE IT'S SEMANTICS! I do not want to waste any more energy on this.That does not change anything. My point still stands about attraction.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I am beginning to think you are playing with my head love lol! So every time I use the word natural; you want me to state mostly first? That's ridiculous! There are no absolutes and many things that are deemed to be natural have other factors at play that are not as dominant. You understand perfectly..
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
"So every time I use the word natural; you want me to state mostly first? That's ridiculous! There are no absolutes"
No, I'm just trying to figure which is your argument. Natural or mostly natural? Those are 2 different things.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime East Asian I mean
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Primarily naturally driven with artificial influences playing a very minor role. Not enough to sway the sexual drive to a significant degree in most cases.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime There also appears to be a differential in black women and black men. It appears that other races are more prone to finding black women more attractive than black men. I personally like every race aside Easy Asians. I mean sexually that is not as friends, brothers or whatever.
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@EarlRegent
Actually black men seem to be more popular aesthetically than black women. I'm not sure where you get your claim from.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I am beginning to feel guilty. Have I upset you? Sometimes I get so lost in the debate that I forget that I might hurt someone's self image or feelings. I really hope not!
EarlRegent 4 months ago
@Earl
" Sometimes I get so lost in the debate that I forget that I might hurt someone's self image or feelings."
Nice try. This is just a backhanded way to get me to acknowledge your point. The only way you could hurt my feelings is if I believe your argument which I don't.
Also we are talking about groups, not individuals & not me. The reality for a group does not dictate the reality for an individual within that group.
Mighty full of yourself to assume your words hurt my self-image
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
ur voice is annoying!!!!!!!!!!
togair9 5 months ago
(ladruner) Your rant about black women I have yet to find that many attractive white women thier pale flesh and red faces are not that attractive . These poopoo brothers that makes a B line for white women can have my share ! That just mean more sweet sisters that are on the menu.
andre12593 5 months ago
Why are you against black men that have white girlfriends. Good luck to both of you ! I wont date a white woman period. Your mouth is nasty as crap! white tone and cursing is still nasty as crap. If you are so smart and intelligent notify your mouth !
andre12593 5 months ago
Marital stability studies published on the Education Resources Information Center found that White female-Black male unions are more prone to result in a divorce than White-White marriages are, while Black female-White male marriages show substantially lower rates of divorce than White-White marriages.[7]
evileyez504 6 months ago
Black women still want to be slaves. And you prove it every day.
You're desperate to be like us, and thats why your men disrespect you.
WWHateWhiteMen 7 months ago
There are good Black men; you have to find the non thugs.
HoneiiDiiva 7 months ago
this dude is stupid lol but i dont hate black women they are some hot ones tho the majority of them are not good looking
ladruner 9 months ago
this dude is stupid lol
ladruner 9 months ago
btw. I was the one who said I thought for some reason you'd have a "sensible bob". I've thought about this all afternoon, and I've come to one conclusion. Did it ever matter what you looked like in the first place? I keep trying to figure out how it came about that there needed to be a "big reveal" in the first place. Were you goaded? You don't seem like the "get-goaded" type. So what was the point? :Yes, pleased that you're cute (who would be?), but why was that needed?
jonasalden29201 9 months ago
BW are NOT at the bottom of the race hierarchy; they are much less desired! BW and WM are one and the same for 200% different reasons and BM and WW are one and the same, but WW will yell "rape" and BM will put WW in they place! IDK! Light-Skinned BM are at the BOTTOMMOST of the race hierarchy, PERIOD!
WizzoPro9476 9 months ago
How many white people unabashingly voted for McCain because he was white? smh!
SuperTruthful 10 months ago
all us black people need to start with stoping these dum as videos . i realy done have enouph . I JUST CANT TAKE IT ANY MORE . DAM ! THEY SAY WE GOT PROBLEMS . NOW WERE SAYING THAT WE GOT PROBLEMS . NOW THE BLACK KIDS THATS GROWNING UP IS GONNA THINK THEY GOT PROBLEMS TO . I DONT GIVE A ADAM WHO,S RIGHT OR WRONG STOP THE DAM VIDEOS ! THIS ANT GONNA GET NUN OF US ANY RESPECT . STICK TOGETHER THEN YOU WILL GET THE RESPECT ! SO JUST STOP IT YOU GOT THE SLAVES TURNING IN THERE GRAVES .
thinkalott33 11 months ago
White men make better marriage partners than black men.
There, I just summed up a 14 minute video.
hermanglimsher 11 months ago 3
I think if it's true that women file for divorce more frequently it probably has to do with the fairytale of marriage being hoisted on to women from the time they're in the womb and once they do get married they feel- 'this ain't the bizness...'
officialmer 1 year ago
I ment to say "instinct" and "Wayyy" Just so angry right now, I didn't have time to spell. Sorry for the type-o though.Please for the love of everything!! These men are LOSERS!!! Let swp and the other morons commit suicide already.
seinfeildsucks 1 year ago
I love black girls but no disrespect sis. Your nuturing instint is whyyyy out of wack. I mean stop explaining all this shit to grown ass men!!! If they don't want to grow up, prison or some other unfortunate happenings WILL! It sooo time for you to have kids now lol! I see it in your hundreds of vids trying to explain something to these knuckle heads. I'm only saying this because you need something to nurture. Your to good of a women and I hate seeing good women like you wasting time with sissys
seinfeildsucks 1 year ago
loool ur so funny, i can't remember all u said but i did want to say that in england, black men (originally caribbean not african) are not seen at the bottom of the hierarchy, (in the main cities) but at the top, they are most desired by women, and men will go so much out of their way to befriend them for the reputation, ww will do ANYTHING to get her self a a bm generally.. i cant say the same 4 bw, we definitely are the lowest of the low alongside muslims.
kikijo92 1 year ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I think all of us Israelites
had hair like mine until we started mixing
with Africans... We are a separate nation
from them... Check this out... Look at
the definition for Ham and check out
" Not the Negroes "
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BarabbasLove 1 year ago
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BarabbasLove 1 year ago
@BarabbasLove "I don't doubt that I have other races in me." "Maybe my hair is how it use to look in Jesus day and I am not mixed." hypocritcal, much?
avastacia 10 months ago
@avastacia It wasn't my angel that I saw,,,,
The Don Cheadle looking man I saw was
Jesus,,,,,, How was I being hypocritical?
BarabbasLove 10 months ago
BarabbasLove 1 year ago
@BarabbasLove
Take a DNA test then. Just because you SAY you're not mixed doesn't mean you aren't.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 year ago
@BarabbasLove Using religion to justify racial politics. That's very intelligent. U sond like those Black Isrealites that I can't stand. Get a life man.
YoungnRomantic 10 months ago
BarabbasLove 10 months ago
@BarabbasLove I'm not angry. I'm just a person who can think for themselves and don't use religion to disciminate against things that I don't like or disagree with. That's the problem with religion. Its social psychology designed to control the masses. U canave spirituality without religion. Native Americans taught us that.
YoungnRomantic 9 months ago
@YoungnRomantic I heard a rumor that there are all kinds
of demons out there, " Murder demon, rape demon,
theft demon, lying demon, and it looks like you have
the love demon... Sorry, but I ain't loving my way to hell...
You can't love the things which God hates... It's as
simple as that.. God hates Edomites ( Malachi 1:4 /
Romans 9:13 ) so why should you or any person
who claims to love God ?
BarabbasLove 9 months ago
@BarabbasLove This is y the world is so fucked up. We have so many people who let religion divide them and tell them to hate each other. ie: Americans hating Muslims after 9/11. That ring a bell ? This proves my point. Learn to think for yourself and u will see that religion is part of government propaganda. Just for the record, I have read the Bible and in never has stated to hate people because they are different from u. It says to love thy neighbor as thy love thyself.
YoungnRomantic 9 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Your husband is
a bastard ( no disrespect ) to one of
those nations I mentioned. Asians
mixed with Edomites to get that
complexion... See RJ Rogers
( Superman to Man / Can't tell you
the page its been so many years )
BarabbasLove 1 year ago
@BarabbasLove
"Your husband is a bastard"
So are some African Americans. Remember slavery? Remember the Masters who impregnated black slaves? If you do a DNA test you might find some white DNA
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@BarabbasLove
This video is not about black relationships. Also, my guy is not white.
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BarabbasLove 1 year ago
@BarabbasLove
He is not East Asian. Asians are not in the Bible.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 year ago
BarabbasLove 1 year ago
Willie pete dumped a ww b/c she said blk people voted for Obamba b/c he was black. I rest my case, I always said these bm WILL dump a ww as soon as she decide to have an opinion of her own. WW you shl understand these bm are extremely insecure and are with u not out of love, but for a need to feed all of his insecurities.
totaly52 1 year ago
I do not think that Black women have less options than other women. If a Black woman was actually interested in dating out, she could find so many different races that would love a Black woman. There is no need for Black women to only look to white men. Other men of color are in love with black women. In fact men are in love with women. period. regardless of race.
80kaylee08 1 year ago
You make good points and you're hilarious! Love that dry sarcasm. Can't wait to see your new channel!
likecrunchyness 1 year ago
While I normally agree with Seargant Willie Pete, I can see your point in this video. Keep on keepin on.
radiodriver10 1 year ago
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madscientistify 1 year ago
but this is bullshyt, why r u guys fighting so hard to please the white guys.damn its as if u r at war with each other, nowonder ur such a retarded race.jews want to marry jews, asians want to marry asians, indians want to marry indians, whites want to marry whites, but afro americans want to marry everyone else apart from themselves.wtf!!!!!
madscientistify 1 year ago
the situation is quite the opposite with black men,.its the highly successful black men who opt not to marry african american, n/b, i said african american, ladies.just coz a white guy has a black woman in very few cases does it translate to being african american, but i agree wth everything else that u said.i mean, am black, and my mom warns me against dating african american ladies.
madscientistify 1 year ago
i seriously doubt highly successful white men opt for black women. its only a desperate white man who will end up marrying a black woman, just vice versa, on the situation u just explained about women not needing men.if they do, veruy few of them go for african american ladies, a majority go for african africans, or caribbean african ladies.very few date/marry african american women.however, the situation is quite the opposite with black men,
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madscientistify 1 year ago
08:45 reminds me of a Japanese term I learned about recently called "amae", which basically refers to a relationship between people who are totally dependent on each other, for whatever reasons they have established.
SaiKoSeSu 1 year ago
Black women r deserate to hold on to that white boy and will put up with a lot of shit when it comes to a man of another race.I agree with pete on that one.
Dreadman4040 1 year ago
@Dreadman4040 You believe the worst because you want to but have nothing to back it up. However you don't believe BW/Wm relationships last the longest even though it's a proven fact. Even your boy SWP acknowledges it. You believe what you want to believe.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 year ago 7
@UHeardMe1stTime they are kind of desperate have u seen all the videos of black women promoting interracial relationship, it kind of sad because it seems like they are begging for men of other race to date them. this shit just look interesting to me because i'm african and never experience such division in my ethnic group, maybe the problem is u guys are in a white majority country.
evilmickey100 1 year ago
I disagree..i don't believe that Black Women/White Men,relationships last longer than any other relationships!
Dreadman4040 1 year ago
@Dreadman4040
There is nothing to disagree with. It's a fact. Look it up.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 year ago 6
I didn't know that Srgt WilliPete still makes videos.
mindyourbizok 1 year ago
Are you serious??? You need to give Taye more credit than that. If that's the case so same goes for any couples that still together today. And Taye and Idina have been together since 1996. 14 years. So are you gonna tell that to BW and WM that have been together for 14 years. Come on now. LOL.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
No, only 7 years count. We don't count the years of shacking up & playing house. I mentioned 20, 30 year marriages. I'm talking 'til death do us part type of stuff. Taye & homegirl are still young. A lot could still happen. You can add them to the list if they're still together when they're old.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 year ago
@UHeardMe1stTime LOL, wow. Gimme a break. It's still 14 years the hell with that marriage death us part crap. Thought you were more open-minded and logical than that. Young doesn't mean nothing. From the things and issues you were discussing wasn't pertaining to just old people, hardly the elderly at all. Seems like your just biased towards Taye. About time the 2 of them turn 45 that will be 20 years, that's not old. LOL, so like I said it doesn't just pertain to old people.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
Actually people who co-habitate for long periods of time are more likely to divorce. So the 7 years Tay & homegirl spent playing house was actually counter productive. Check the research & you'll see what I'm saying is true.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 year ago
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Are you serious??? You need to give Taye more credit than that. If that's the case so same goes for any couples that still together today. And Taye and Idina have been together since 1996. 14 years. So are you gonna tell that to BW and WM that have been together for 14 years. Come on now. LOL.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
LOL, I thought many BM/WW stay together longer cause of the hate they face it makes their love stronger and stick together. There's tons of BM/WW still married. Taye Diggs and Idina Menzel are a prime example of a loving couple.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
Taye got married in 2003. Seven years is NOT long enough to say they have stood the test of time. This video is about relationships lasting. 7 years ain't nuthin'. You'll have to come with 20+ year marriages before you prove anything. James Earl Jones is a better example. I think Sidney Poitier also qualifies.
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TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Are you serious??? You need to give Taye more credit than that. If that's the case the same goes for any couples that still together today. And Taye and Idina have been together since 1996. 14 years. So are you gonna tell that to BW and WM that have been together for 14 years. Come on now. LOL.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
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@UHeardMe1stTime Are you serious??? You need to give Taye more credit than that. If that's the case so same goes for any couples that still together today. And Taye and Idina have been together since 1996. 14 years. So are you gonna tell that to BW and WM that have been together for 14 years. Come on now. LOL.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Excuses. Who cares if Taye and Idina got married in 2003, they've been together since 1996 and that 14 years. LOL. That's what should matter, they didn't get married until 2003 and didn't have a baby until 2009, which proves that love , being responisble and taking the steps to have a great relationship, so if that doesn't qualify i don't know what does. So 14 years ain't nuthin, cause you say so??? LOL.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
...Give it time, he's been caught cheating on her with blondes for years. Guess she' not "white" enough for him either which speaks volumes about him.
Yolandra101 1 year ago
@Yolandra101 Gimme a break you just have a problem with Taydina's relationship and that's something you can't stand with your ignorance.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
"Taydina"...little effeminate there aren’t we buddy. Why can't I stand "Taydina" exactly? You’re the one that stated that their “happily” married, I countered with his infidelities so drop the bitchery maybe and deal with fact that you picked a bad example, especially since we wanna label people as ignorant.
Yolandra101 1 year ago
@Yolandra101 LOL, hey that what they're called and I wanted to type it together so that's irrelevant unless you're intimidated by them. And yes are you ignorant, you just wanted to be negative to Taye & Idina or BM/WW anyway. Typical.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
...that's what their called by who? Why would anyone be intimidated by them, sounds as childish as someone being inspired by them (lefts eyebrow). Where and how am I ignorant exactly? Honestly, if you know enough about this couple to refer to them by a pet-name, how could the reports of his infidelity be new to you. Defensive, effeminate, out of context and childish...not typical of a heterosexual man anyway. (O_o)
Yolandra101 1 year ago
@Yolandra101 Look at all the videos and tributes to them on youtube, alot of people call them that. So being inspired is childish? LOL. Idina's an award winning Broadway actress and had a hit song out for awhile & alot of young girls look up to her. The couple had many interviews on shows, so the ONLY one that doesn't know enough is U. Gimme a break. It's best do your research next time. I bet you wouldn't say that about Will & Jada, or other SAME race couples. So yes you are ignorant. Typical.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
"So being inspired is childish?" No, being inspired by the Obama's wouldn't be or the Gates for that matter wouldn't be, but be inspired not by a couple's accomplishments but the fact that he married a "White female" is akin to and as childish as "picking the 'White' doll".
"& alot of young girls look up to her."
Really, I have a score of niece's and goddaughters and none of them know her...she's not Millie Cyrus.
Yolandra101 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
contd.
Give yourself a break by not acting like a teenaged female.
PS-Taye and his wife are nowhere on the same level as Will and Jada or Brad and Angelina for that matter.
So yes, you're effeminate. And trying to out bitch a female especially when the female can present a more sound argument makes you all the more tragic. Find a therapist.
Yolandra101 1 year ago
@Yolandra101 LOL, like a teenaged female???? You're the one that said I didn't now enough about the couple. Don't even try it. You just have a problem with the truth. The only reason I used Tayedina was to reduce space on typing simple as that. I proved my point. Trust some BW like you will never present a better argument cause of your ignorance and belligerent ways. i make many valid points in my videos. So tell that to someone else. You can't debate me.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX,
"You're the one that said I didn't now enough about the couple."
No, what I said was "if you know enough about this couple to refer to them by a pet-name, how could the reports of his infidelity be new to you". Which is a valid question. Another valid question would be why your following celeb couples like a...yes, teenaged girl in the first place (O_o) you haven't presented the truth...so don't even try it. Get Therapy!
Yolandra101 1 year ago
@Yolandra101 Who cares if I call them a pet-name. Really are you serious?? You don't have to but other people can. LOL. You don't know how I'm talking or the way my VOICE presents it, I'm not saying it in a girlie way crazy. I keep proving you wrong. I'm done.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago
@TheDarkmaleX
Then by all means forget the pet-name and what its use implies. Why are you labeling and showing off while referring to some as ignorant. Substantiate the ignorance and/or belligerence. I can substantiate the effeminism. When a man labels or names calls in a conversation with a female that doesn't look good. If you where confident in you stance (especially as a man) that would be the last thing you'd do out of respect for yourself if nothing else.
Yolandra101 1 year ago
@Yolandra101 So I shouldn't debate with a woman? LOL, so what? Aren't we all human and EQUAL. So I'm not lookning bad in anyway. I stand up and speak my mind simple as that.
TheDarkmaleX 1 year ago