Just Ask Momo - Help !! I Need Social Skills

[sniperfire95]

Thank you.....

You really have no idea, thank you.

[gailaroonie]

Dear mr momo, i am a social puddle. Yikes. How does someone stop being afraid or just be afraid and go there (where) anyhow. It is hard to be passionate when you are hiding behind the furnace. And, yes, when you try too hard things dont work. However, waaahaaagggaaah. Sometimes it feels like the tap is turneoff or on. And Momo, its ok, it weighs on you, but, it is so good to talk to a fallible human and we do appreciate you not being perfect because we feel so crappy and yikes!

[iHackZz055]

I just can't say this too much. You really are an amazing person. You're a great inspiration to me and plenty of others out there. Keep up the great work! I just love your videos. I only watched 4 of your videos and I think you're a great inspiration already. You rock!

[BrunoKoveras]

when your mind waonders to disaster or anxiety, shut you mind focus on the now, of what you see and feel notice what is around you and whithin

[alehax27]

HOLY CRAP!

I was blown away by how insightful this video was. I'm going to watch all of your videos.

[112mazo]

Thxxx this video help me.. im going out there andtry and practicee,

[112mazo]

Thxxx this video help me.. im going out there andtry and practicee

[IMnotSAS]

Hey mommo you sound a lot like bas rutten, search it on youtube

[TheMomoZone]

@IMnotSAS Thanks ,just checked it out, insane, Have a great new year..see ya Momo

[SaypheZonE]

wow I just saw your video for the first time and you def know what you are talking about. I used to be all shy in high school but now as a 4th year undergraduate in college all this shyness just went away because I'm always working on my career and my passion for architecture. I have met some amazing people that also share my passion and I am no longer the same person I was in high school. Shyness is just a phase that most people get over.

[whooperpooper86]

i love you. u just gave me hope

[Dexochex]

"just do something." some of the most helpful words i've ever heard

[AaronTrutsJC]

wow once again a good video. i commented on another video but my problem is expectations and paranoia. like a mix. Like we have school sponsored housing and i feel like if i go over someones house to socialize i won't come back. i know its weird. I feel like if i socialize people will want me to do something.

for example i was asked to go down to an ice cream shop but im scared to go outside sometimes and wat do u know we almost got robbed. iunno, im always scared which is getting on my nerves.

[EsotericAdept]

Expectations with BELIEF, simply repel!

Expectations are neediness and have to's!

Expectations are basically FEAR, hiding under uncertainties and doubts!!

Do something, anything, that is of passion, love, desire, a hobbie, or even a charity(helping others), but the KEY is to EXPECT NOTHING IN RETURN, sounds contradicting huh?? "Expect nothing", it even sounds ironic, lol! but actually its a way of LETTING GO or SURRENDERING to the divine, thus the manifestation is the BENEFIT!! You'll C

[BakuraFox]

Thanks momo that vid helped alot

[nenaaaland]

this shit was beautiful, thanks Momoo!

[warlord0Dan]

life isn't easy like you state. what you say lacks substance. you always give these trite pieces of advice. you probably have no idea what's it like to have social anxiety. I can summarize it for you: it destroys you. It makes you feel like a inferior human being, like you're worthless and that the world would be a better place without you in it. atleast that is what I feel. I came to realize that social skills are EVERYTHING-one is nothing without them.

[JasminePulse]

Nice ^^

Good job ..

[andyantivirus]

Your videos are great, glad to have stumbled across them here. I admire what you do and think lots of people, including myself, will become more by listening top them and applying them. I particularly like the way you present in a conversational and non-patronising style, this puts people at ease.

[JinzoNarkoza]

These videos are truly brilliant. The fact you're willing to answer personal questions and help people (unlike most internet personalities) is fantastic.

[almtonmak]

Momo,It is so true that once you better yourself,people will gravitate towards you.You helped open my mind to,not caring what people think.That is truly the answer to overcoming Social phobia.

[TheMomoZone]

Hey almtonmac thank you so much for these awesome words....you rock and go for it and never look back...you rock..See ya Momo

[KennethFoo]

totally agree with the dr phil thing. His much more better than phil's pil

[TheMomoZone]

Hey Kennethfoo thanks for the back up you rock Peace Momo

[spamenot]

lower expectations.

keep busy.

thanks

[TheMomoZone]

Hey Spamenot ...you rock go for it..thanks Momo

[erimilla]

Love You for doing this Momo! You are inspirational. What you do makes a difference.

[TheMomoZone]

Hi erimilla thank you so much YOU ROCK mOMO

[vigoesandleos]

I just love your advice you need your own show

[TheMomoZone]

Hi vigoesandleos Thank you so much . Ive started a new radio show called the momo show with my buddy erick remy available on itunes every week for free..check it out and let me know what you think.You rock Momo

[MrCranky20]

lol this guy should take over dr phils show

[EsotericFantasy]

hes a million times as better then dr phil! lol

[TheMomoZone]

Hi Esoteric thanks dude i really appreciate it..phils got his thing and ive got mine...id love to get in a room with him and one of his subjects and see what happens..you rock

Momo

[TheMomoZone]

Hi Mrcranky20 thanks im working on it haha by the way i just bought this really cool wind up thing that jumps around and its called mr cranky..it really makes me feel happy...you rock Momo

[feuersteinad]

Hey bro, you are an amazing person I must say. As I am an inspiration to many, you are one to me. This is a journey we must all walk together in. You have a gift of verbalization to express your self realization. You rock! Keep up the good work your doing for the universe and you are certain to receive all the gifts this life has to offer.

[TheMomoZone]

Hi Feuersteinad thanks so much for the heart felt vibes you rock Momo

[meekachan]

Thank you. I know all of these things to be

absolutely true and whenever I remember

this and actually ACT on it, life is so much

better.

[slicksullivan]

oi momo mate! can you tell me how to get my lightsaber spoon working again?LOL the bloody light stopped 'n' there dont seem to be a replace batteries spot on the spoon! mate im desperate ! i cant eat breakfast without it!

[LiLsNiP3]

I hope this helps other people i have the same problem, unfortuatly this hasn't worked for me. God having no social skills is just a pain. Like i just don't know what to even say and when i do say something it usually just kills the moment =/

[xXelcabronXx]

MOMO RULES ;D ill suscribe.

[yortusmaximus]

hello momo. you are such a well natured guy. its so good to see. your videos are such a great help and influence to people around the world.

May peace and everything that is well be around you at all times.

[TheMomoZone]

Thank you so much for these beautiful words..you rock..Peace out

momo

[OneSearchingForTruth]

Momo...You rock!

[TheMomoZone]

Thanks my friend..right back at ya.PEACE OUT Momo

[EpicSumo]

Thanks Momo, this has seriously helped.

[TheMomoZone]

Your welcome my friend..NOW GO FOR IT you rock

Momo

[unicef58]

wow man. after 4 years of felling f*cked up, i understand it more. your the first person who makes sense of things, in a way that other people can understand so easily

[TheMomoZone]

YOU ROCK DUDE..GO FOR IT

PEACE OUT

MOMO

[ssips720]

MOMO URE THE BEST!!!!

[missuscake]

Nicely done good advice

[xPaRiShx]

Ugh...hopefully this video will help me also. I've been feeling very depressed lately, most likely because there's this girl I really like and I can't really connect with her, or at least it seems like I can't. Anyways, thanks Momo! Your videos are truly inspiring.

[ginstar03]

More people need to see this video!!!!!

Thanks for this one, I know it wasn't for me but it has helped me anyway. 

Keep up the awesome work!!!!! :D

[mystermy]

Thanks, I needed this video.. badly.

[TheLatasia]

Awesome video!

Thank you for posting it.

[capslock86]

This guy is a prophet. Whenever I need help or am confused, he makes a video! That's amazing, I can't explain the perfect timing.

[1981z28camaro]

I think it's the Law of Attraction, maybe that's why he always makes a video about what's concerning you, right after you think about it, lol

[187beyond]

MOMO beautiful video i needed this when i was in high school very perfect advice real indeed.. but hey the best way to be soical is to be yourself and not care about trends and things that society tells you to be .. you talk to people as people regsardless what they do becuase in the end and begiing where all people... you just got be in this world .. it's the natrual way to be so be natural and things will role your way socilay and everything else .. it's better to be you mr.x and everybody..

[Alvette]

Another really really important thing is; make peace with your parents! Lots of people hold great anger towards their parents for their wrongdoings that has affected their lives and caused them problems. parents arent perfect, but you cant hold on to the anger forever, it will give you more problems!! write some letters to them, get ALL the anger out, you dont have to send them, and by the end of it, you wont have the anger inside of you anymore, and you can open up and be happy again! It works!

[capslock86]

depends on the type of parents you have though.

[FonkyLynx]

Bless...

BR/The Ghost of Elvis Video

CANADA, eh...

[newpixeldude]

AMEN Momo. Always great stuff. It may sounds repetitive, but what you are doing with this videos is priceless. There are so many people out there who need some guidance, I am one of them. Just keep up. What you´ve done already is just awsome. Greetings from Mexico City.

[LeadersCare]

You're one of the reasons I am doing what I'm doing online now and I have you to thank for doing videos like these and giving me the confidence I needed at the time to start something up and rock at it. Thank you!

Love & Light,

Jen

[amjPeace]

5 stars to you, Momo,for making this video and for your willingness and great ability to mentor your fellow man.

Mr.X, hang in there. I hope you find your passion and pursue it, and the rest will follow, like Momo said. Try a few interests, and I'm sure you will find your niche.

[XthunderA]

You've done great Man.I love this new kids,they fill me with hope.o yeah,..young dudes,there's shit coming down the road...don't let loose, question everything.

[MonkeyFCoconut]

I'm taking away from this something that I've come to learn in time... managing expectations, of myself, and of others. I really dig your advice on this... "just relax" ... "don't expect anything". You know what, that's hard to do when someone doesn't just say... "hey, don't expect anything... just be yourself". Thanks.

[TranceCreations]

Momo, you've got wisdom. That's the truth.

[LTBL88]

great vid as always

[booya62056]

Great words Momo! You really know how to put things into prespective for people! Great video!

Blair

[itsthebean]

This advice is for anyone - not just grade 9ers - it applies always...stand with you head held high, and sometimes you just gotta relax and let things happen naturally. Momo - another fine delivery dude. Love ya xo

[JasonMelancon]

Beautiful words, Momo! I hope you don't get weighed down by the heaviness of the responsibility you feel.