Mystery Pick Up Artist Debrief, With Matador Clip 2

[TuesdaySexual]

Women aren't cats or fish or any of the retarded shit he spews out of the godforsaken lob of his. If he used any of this shit on me I would laugh in his face.

[HeatherMarie8888]

he sounds like he has a lisp here....

[jellyboy123]

so much information to take in. Wish i known about this years ago.

i really want to be a player but i don't want to lose my nice guy personality and become a jerk.

the question i want to know why do girls like jerks? being a nice guy don't work i been a nice guy all my life only ever had 2 girlfriends and i'm 30.

[zamrock20]

@jellyboy123 because with a nice guy there is no chase. They do basically everything the girl wants and rarely do anything to displease her, that sounds good in theory but in practice its boring. Essentially they project beta male characteristic such as neediness and always seeking a girls approval.

[MrAudacia]

@jellyboy123 late reply to your comment but, the idea is to be assertive, not a jerk. assholes cross the assertive line and take it to far, nice guys are not assertive. there is a big difference between, (nice guy) here i can share this with you, (assertive) this is mine, (asshole) this is mine, that is mine, whats yours is mine, fk you.

[myfavoritejuice]

Yo acabo de terminar de leer el libro de Mystery y creo que mas o menos ya se lo basico. el problema es que hay veces que cuando, por ejemplo, la tia me salta con un IDI o un test, me hago la picha un lio y termino por soltar algo como : "me gusta tu vestido, es bonito (pausa) es de dolce o te lo has comprado en los chinos?" jajaja asi q por lo general siempre tardo un rato, pero acabo jodiendola como sea!!... jajajaja

[rishie2002]

dude all these people talking about mystery is a god....

mystery gets rejected too, and did you think every set he opens he kiss closes ?

there are naturals who never heard of pick up and can still beat him.

i like the guy, but he ain't a god. just watcch holy grail of pickup. you'll see.

[cr7it]

they don't really seem like they get girls they look mora like weird guys...even though I like mystery's works I don really see the attractive part on them, maybe cuz I'm a guy, but I'm far more attractive than them just with my personality

[Truetoc]

People like you cr7it will never,ever come close to havin as many women as them,because u r stuck on phase 1!how many good-looking singers u know?and how many women do you think they sleep wiith?guy or not,,,being unique with a twist of ur own style...will always draw more attention,,,women like a man who has attention on them,would you date an ugly woman no1 wants???mannn some of you need to think before you talk!they got more pussy than you'll ever IMAGINE!DEAL WITH IT!

[cr7it]

you're getting all offensive back there.

those guys get more pussy than me, but that's because they know their stuff and how to do it.

I'm not goofy like them but that's all I meant

[ChErRyaVe20pK]

watch mystery's montage of women here on youtube

[amunneheh]

mystery isnt having such a good day in this one i think

[manwiththeplan123]

apparently hes hung over. but if he can still remember good negs like that when hes drunk then hes a champ. theres a new one for my arsenal.

[EmmottKelsey]

MPUA-"what nationality are you?"

HB10-blahblahablah

MPUA-"so you're father must've gotten around"

Me- HOLY SHIT! AHAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHHAHAH!!!

[pauloabelha]

His theory is only empirical...

So it is not scientificaly reliable

[alisgood2]

its reliable because i do it and it works

[BadCamera32]

I think it ironic this guy is giving guys advice to pick up chicks when he looks and acts like he is not exactly a "ladies man"

[calctmnt]

youre right he doesnt look like a ladies man, but he is one, i dont know how he does it lol

[sayfaylo]

Nice...

[c00lwatter]

The reason she was insulted by that is because her father, assuming she ever knew him, was a hustler, or possibly did something horrible to herself or the rest of her family.

[bittiker]

Mystery seems like a cocky shallow asshole with underlying stupidity. His methods work though

[system0system]

cats string theory sound like a physics theory

[Josephmgo]

PUA scam artists are starting to become exposed. Look up "Dimitri the lover."

[DanielleLowe]

the hat is so cute, if I saw him a club, I'd be trying to take it off his head so I could wear it.

[kirmokin]

thats one of the reasons he wears it, an interesting item which allows a girl who wants to approach have something to ask about

[Taxxxim]

Haha these guys are genius but they have just let this consume their lives.

[DanielleLowe]

they have a skill, now they should spend their life helping others improve their social lives and helping people feel adequate about themselves.

[kc4rill]

I'm all for a little peacocking, but that hat looks totally ridiculous!!!

[kirmokin]

its cool man

[kc4rill]

I would not be able to aproach a girl wearing a hat like that cause it would totaly destroy my confidence, in fact anyone who is confident in a hat like that is crazy!

[kirmokin]

no, a person confident wearing a hat like that doesn't care what others think -> making him valuable not thinking others opinions matter cause they are low value compared to him.

[kc4rill]

Well he can pretend he doesn't care but we both know he does, this is a good example of peacocking gone wrong, and there are plenty of girls that just won't talk to a guy that dresses like that, so it doesn't matter how good his game is if he is already benched because of his hat, if you ask me he is not confident he is airagent and secretly trying to cover some insecurities!!!

[moderjoker]

we can bet 50 million dollars. Girls will talk.

[Cinderelephant]

Just because YOU'D be insecure because of your clothes doesn't mean everybody would in the same situation. Stop applying your own insecurities to other people - that's what a loser does.

[iviasterb8s]

You're right, but there's one thing you're missing. He's not trying to get EVERY girl. He has calibrated his look and whatnot to hone in on girls he's more likely to find interesting. He obviously is more drawn to girls who are drawn to his look and personality. It's not about having sex with everything that moves- it's about developing yourself, having an interesting life, and finding someone who excites you.

[ulsternative]

I can see a potential problem for me with regards to not drinking. You see I come from Ireland and live in England and the drinking culture is very prominent in both these places. Its really hard to interact with people in clubs over here if your one of the only people not drinking.

Can any Irish or British PUAs offer me advice?

Is there such a thing as 'drunk game'?

[pitlee]

I'm @ Cardiff. U could Start by drinking lagger Shandy. Imagine if ur friends offer u beer, you can allways drink half of it and go quickly into the bar and ask the Barman to top it with Lemonade, no one will tell. It's easyer if u go out without your regular friends. Try to find a wingmen that also want to really Sarge without drinking. Because if u don't drink u'll remenber alot more of what's happening in ur game and can calibrate for other times u aprouch a set.Here The girls love Lagger;(

[ulsternative]

Cheers for the advice dude.

[Paddehj]

Dude im from the UK and I can tell you you don't want to drink much anyway cos it will work negatively against your game. Have a couple of pints to make you feel a bit more fun and energetic, but dont get pissed because unless you can handle yourself well and not look like a dick. So overall, just get tipsy, not paraletic.

[ulsternative]

Yea good advice but you know when you're a student getting paraletic is inevitable sometimes.

[Paddehj]

Hah yeah mate getting paraletic is great but you will look like a complete bell end. If its you and a group of mates just having a lads night out then get really pissed but if your looking for more than that then just steer clear.

[martingiven0001]

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[knullabulla]

Never drink and game.

One of the best pieces of advice.

In such situations, you need your wits about you at all times.

[rsaini1]

Cat-string-theory is the most deadliest weapon ever developed by the PUA community.

[jpuav]

i think that vest mystery i wearing is the least cool of his "outfits". anybody agree??

[anottakenusername]

LOL... i love and respect Mystery but i couldn't help but laugh a little when he says "you can learn a lot from cats". usually he sounds so smooth, but for some reason the way he said it just made him sound funny.

[juhzizkassad]

!

People who think they need 'tricks' to get a woman have a Low Self Esteem, because they don't think they are interesting enough without their tricks.

[forestskog]

Thanks juhzizkassad for the psychology lesson. Is that what your Mommy told you after she told you how s.p.e.c.i.a.l. you are?

[juhzizkassad]

Thanks for your reply. You totally convinced me of the 'fact' that those tricks and techniques make you more interesting as a person.

(yeah right)

[commercep]

Problem juhzizkassad is that you put the pussy on the pedestal. Women don't care about things in common or if you are naturally interesting. Women are biological beings that are still stuck in the ways of attraction from evolution. You play the game, or you don't get a chance to fuck. Mystery and Matador, have some wise words, biggie up!

[juhzizkassad]

What you say is true. Mystery and Metador play into these evolutionary desires. But the way they do it are like cowards. They are affraid of rejection and therefore they play indirect. They should take a Badboy lifestyle workshop or read some David DeAngelo stuff, because THAT are real men, who concentrate on getting a life and being a powerful person.

Mystery and Metador are pussies who use canned material and lame routines to impress ladies. They are no real men.

[commercep]

I respect DeAngelo as well, but what DeAngelo is doing is like Shaolin Kung Fu, and Mystery is Wing Tsun. It is all Kung Fu. I'm like Bruce Lee and take my tactics from both like Style did. The evolution theory is the basis of both Mystery and DeAngelo.

[resen420]

BRUCE LEE BRILLIANT

[Paddehj]

Dont say your not afraid of rejection, everyone is afraid of rejection, David DeAngelo has a fake confidence to overcome this, but he still has approach anxiety. So, besides the fact that im pretty much 100% sure you dont get laid as much as either of them, Does it matter how they do it? Oh and by the way, im sure DeAngelo didnt come up with everything he does like cocky comedy without using some of mysterys method. And your grammar sucks ass by the way.

[FANTOMASXXX69]

PARTE 2: El vendedor usa tecnicas EXTERNAS (material enlatado) e INTERNAS (confianza) y VENDE MAS que el vendedor que se acerca timidamente y habla de la operacion de su suegra... Mystery enseña tecnicas que a su vez fortalecen el juego INTERNO (porque la accion repetida sigue a la emocion, y esta modela el caracter) No existe lo que se llama UNO MISMO...Somos la sumatoria de elecciones y acciones en un momento dado y cambiamos SEAMOS POR LO TANTO DE LA MANERA QUE HAY QUE SER P/CONSEGUIR MUJERES

[anottakenusername]

casi nadie te puede entender.

[FANTOMASXXX69]

Todo es cuestion de OBJETIVOS. Sea quien sea el Guru TODOS se basan en la teoria evolutiva y la premisa de que nuestro objetivo es la reproduccion y supervivencia (Mystery hace mas hincapie aun en esto que DEANGELO) Considerando que este es el objetivo MAS IMPORTANTE de la existencia cuanto mas lo llevemos a cabo mas felices seremos. Y asi como existen tecnicas para por ej vender existen tecnicas para reproducirse con exito... Nadie le dice al vendedor bueno que tiene que SER EL MISMO...

[veteranofthepsyche]

Omg, that cat analogy was brilliant!

[sce6dej]

No man its Mike Long, funny that ross Jeffries is working a bit for Style Life now on the inner game NLP stuff, Style life is Neil Strauss' training program.

[biffu08]

That sounds like Ross Jeffries interviewing them. I thought they were rivals.

[tonks021194]

mystery is so sweet!!!

[fireinyoursoul]

fluffy hatt XD

[firetrojano]

it's not about how many girls,

it's about the quality.

he'd never get the girls I had.

believe me

[purplehazer42]

Sorry dawg but this is newbtube we don't believe you.

[NameoCeo]

hate to say it, but he would :P lol he has dated 3 playboy models and numerous other super models...

[uklondon10]

and did u have pigs?

[uklondon10]

he'd take ur girl from u in about a second guvna, Mystery cld get any chik he wants.

[TotalAFC44]

Damn staqte. Ya herd

[OOOJimPanseOOO]

@firetrojan

Hehe, yeah sure. You are the man.

[BigMilan]

WAAAAA mystery will make my head explode into candy!!!! ^,^

he;s so good at story telling

[firetrojano]

those guys are both under drugs,

just look at them, their nerds!

[lkcjai]

the guy on the right is a pua guru, his probably slept wit more women u've ever dreamed of ur whole life dude...

[ShinogiKosho]

I dunno.. i'vd had sum crazy dreams y'know what im saying!

[microphonejones]

Well, If you're really hungry... fish at a market is fine!

[MMA3013]

I say give me the fucking fish now! lol.

[microphonejones]

bahaha, whoa there spike.

[jimib5863]

DUDE MORE VIDS ! PLEASEE :

[K4Pete]

Negs too early? Iv open with negs, it depends how you do it more then when for negs.

[K4Pete]

Negs too early? Iv open with negs, it depends how you do it more then when for negs.

[sneakysnakey10]

'keep your friend's close but your enemies closer.' you are the opposite of that towards 'mystery!'

[kjbmurray]

I soo need a debrief of my field work from Mystery or crew, it would advance my game at lightspeed. I have learned to avoid advice from friends who are not in the know they mean well but are blind to what's going on. I just go on feel now!

[kjbmurray]

Great point on calibrating negs to S&R value of girl. Higher S&R value girls react far better to negs than do lower S&R value girls. Having the confidence to maintain my frame when a low value girl had a bad reaction took time a practice. If you can't hold the frame after a bad reaction move on to the next set quick.

[sweetheartbreaker666]

One point about negs, kjbmurray. Negs can be a double-edged sword and can even work against your game, particularly if they are done to early. If you neg a girl to early before you've built enough comfort and rapport with her, it's very likely you'll insult and offend her. Mystery made that mistake with the girl he targeted by negging her to early on in their meeting. Clearly She wasn't comfortable enough with Mystery to tolerate that type of back-handed humor, wise-crack, or joke.

[bboyCircus1]

All this venusian arts stuff is so hard.

[Degramke]

Is that lovedrop interviewing them?

[Degramke]

Actually nvm, it's not

[whyldephaier]

haha nah lovedrop is more "duuude" kinna like the turtle from finding nemo

[H6BFT4]

It's Mike Long.

[duvass]

aaaand he's drunk... I know it...we all P.U.A's finish being drunk guys...and wait till we have 40 years old... we will be the old punks with stupid 15 years old attached to us, and feeling the kings...thats what i'm afraid of... Mystery...you should stay with Neil...at least, he keeps he's feet on the ground... _JOu_

[whyldephaier]

if you didnt say that i wouldnt think it. maybe he is drunk

[michaelrobert1974]

Thanks for posting the video. The woman had issues clearly. But I still don't know how you handled her hostility. Did you laugh it off and continue with her or just walk away and statr fresh in another part of the club?

[swizzlemynizle]

NEGs are so weird because it really shows you who's mature enough to accept a little joke. and who has low self esteem. its a smart way of finding out if that person is worth messing with.

[shtzua]

totally agree. 100%. smartest tip on negs ive read in a long while. grats! :P

[whyldephaier]

very true thanks man. i always feel damn why are my negs not working on this one i need to try harder. but wow yeah soem girls arent worth the time. very few mpuas focus on teaching about skipping a girl who isnt worth the time.

[TRILIUS]

"hit and run,return" style babybaby

[cameoapperance]

i thought mystery didn't drink...... uh oh....

[urbangod84]

A) keep your intimidation frame.

B) Stop the B.S. jokes. Too many drops your frame, too little and your stuck up. trust your ability to understand this principle.

C) Get over this pickup cactus. Its just a conceptual 'idea' that these guys are sellin u on. Life is not linear. Meeting people may get linear with the same routines... but people... there is no secret. there is no game. it's in your head.

[toblakai]

Very good point Urbangod84.

I imagine once getting the main ideas, one will forget about the game.

The same lines and routines would simply just bore me.

[mikeabundo]

Come to the Philippines, guys! We have a lair! :)

[Adam62]

I wonder how many times Mystery gets laid a month so I can set a goal for what I should be shooting for.

[learnPUA]

as many times as he wants to.

with the skill set he can lay who he wants when he wants

ur goal should be feeling like u dont need to set a target number: at this point you'll be getting laid like a rockstar

[UrbanPoet]

oh come on he can't "lay who he wants when he wants"

whats all this hero worship

mystery strikes out too u know :)

[UrbanPoet]

fyi I know several rockstars, and some of them are really $#&ed up :-P

[rondeline]

Making someone work for something makes them appreciate it more when they get it. Just have to be careful not to frustrate someone.

Did the cat string like theory today and it worked very very well.

[iraq4real]

I got negs backfired most of the times that i don't want to use them anymore

[theDangerLover]

I know what you mean man. I call it the Accidental Asshole. Nowadays i only use negs on super hotties or when i get shittested. Otherwise i stick to cocky comedy.

[FearAcademy]

i face the same issues with negs, i think its cause i need more experience in knowing what is playful neg from asshole negs. considering my humor is sometimes crude. still practicing on hang outs with girls...

[trickofdisaster2]

its about how you do them.

Negs are seriously hard to pull off and you have to have a lot of calibration.

I used to always strike out with them... but lately they have been working better.

You only use them if you're getting bitch shield

[learnPUA]

I like to think of a neg as a statement 'that makes the girl feel awkward'

not something mean, condescending, or taking value...

hope this helps

[moonylighty]

Come to Belgium guys!