im not even a gay man lool if fact im a str8 woman bt i just love watching u guys, lisin 2 u guys haveing the power stuggle and even the same "colour"( yes im english i didnt spell colour wrong) as str8 realtionships its just nice 2 hear a sexy masculin man say the same things as us women often say or feel as the smaller ( in most cases) person in a realtionship
I'm an extemely masculine bottom who usually ends up being the top, because, like Ryan, I'll only allow a really masculine guy to ride--very disappointing! Most of my gay aquaintances are white, like me, and almost invariably versatile. But I've heard that in the black, gay community, more people choose to be either/or. Is that true? It would make a good topic for a show. Anyway, I'm now looking for that fearless, brown stud who knows how to drive a big, manly car. Btw, Derrick your gorgeous!
Shit, I'm a total top, I wake up thinking about ass and go to sleep thinking bout ass. Now, if I'd say I'll bottom for the right guy, that for me would mean a guy that I'm in a relationship with, if he'd like to play or feel me a bit then I probably would let him as long as it's a one or two time thing. In truth, everyone has tried a bit of everything, but whatever u do the most then that's what you are. As for me, I always go straight for that ass. It's just what I do, I never bother to ask.
okay Auden is my dream come true ... seriously i would be a TOTAL BOTTOM if he asked me but i would seriously want to top him as well ... and Derreck and Ryan LOVE yall too :)
It depends on the guy some guys bring out your feminine side and some bring out your masculine side. I dress and act fem but I'm a top so when around my friends I say I'm a fem top and my friend is a butch bottom. It really doesn't matter shit in the end we all gone have some dick on us, in us or in our hand...lol
There is only two roles top or bottom...there u have it! this versatile shyt is confusing a nigga. If u like dick, u a bottom, if u like booty, u a top, if u like both u r confused lol
i consider myself a top becuase thats what i love. i don't care too much for dick, i luv da booty. i have no desire to bottom. i like to date strictly bottoms. i'm a boyish guy who prefers fem boys. but also find masculine bottoms sexy sometimes. i have a homo side like every other gay guy. i can't help who i like, and sometimes that person is verse, so in time they want to top me. i refuse for months then may let them have it once. i've bottomed 4 times in the 4 yrs i've been sexually active
and c im the outher way around i love btm but the guy haz to turn me on or ill just roll over lol but ill top a fine azz niggie 4 realz but i think y i like btm iz b-cuz no one could ever take my d***
so i was allwasy stuck on btm so .yeah lmsao now u all no damnit
I think some people think that by saying someone is bottom it equates them with being "weak" which is really not true, i know some so-called bottoms who are mentally stronger than the top and i know some tops who act just like women. So yeah for some reason the bottom is suppposed to be the weaker person, how that got started i haven't a clue.
I love the new format of the show because you spend more time discussing the topic and your co-host Ryan is the hottest. What's with your leg on top of the big redbone Derrick?!?
Hi, I'm a woman that for some reason loves watching your videos. Someone commented and said they are just not into penatration. I'm a bit confused b/c as gay men if you don't penatrate what do you do(just have oral?)
I gotta topic.. Y do guys try to b so masculine and claim to B tops in front of everyone and in the bed room They r the biggest bottoms... or so i call them "Stone Cold Ladys" if u use my topic shout me out in a video lol
OK, I'm looking back and see that my post was not finish,YOUTUBE FUCKING UP, any ways I also think that it deals with emotion. now im trying not to say the same thing but, for example if to tops was get together, if the love is there, somebody or both of them is going to give in. Whether or not its going to det tired over time you never know.
It's silly to me that anyone would classify their ability to be with someone else based upon their sexual position. If you are consentual and close with the person you are with, you should enjoy discovering your 'positions' together. There are some things I did with my ex that I couldn't do with anyone else.
Top, bottom, vers.top or vers.bottom,these descriptors not only reference sexual roles, but represent the behavior in gay relationships. Gay men prefer to identify themselves by these labels, when others prefer a more loose interpretation of their sexual preferences & relationship roles. Despite the many generalizations about gay sex, there is only one way to find out your potential partner's sexual role-ask him! Do not assume unconfident individuals can get offended & take it the wrong way.
Love the videos Derrick. I started out as a bottom and it was ok but it didn't really set off any fireworks. So then I thought, well maybe I'm a top! So I topped for a couple of years and you know what I realized? I am just
not into penetration. And there's a lot of folks out there who are not into penetration either. You left us out man. LOL It was an oversight I'm sure. So please make sure we have a place at the table too! Keep on keepin' on!
(Versitle Top) is a fare assesment I think you can't find people who are so much of a top that even some tops find themselves wanting to be a bottom so for me if he is more butch then me in bed he can have the top but he must fight for it.
Please keep the topics coming... I definitely look forward to the next episode every time I see you guys. I honestly think you finally have the chemistry just right this season. All three of you are phenomenal! I think the topic at had today is one I'll have to let marinate. lol Nothing but love!
Can I just say that I love me some ADtv! The series and topics seem to get better each episode! I wish you ALL THE SUCCESS life can offer! Maybe one day ADtv will make it to real TV, it would have to be cable of course. Derrick, you in my opinion are SOOO FINE! Keep up the great work!!!
hey.. im not a man or gay but i love ur show. I think once everyone becomes comfortable with who they are and what they like no one can be insulted.. (is insulted even a word?) lol N E Wayz you should check out my channel and tell me what you think. LOVE YA!!
!. I think I am gonna start the Ryan Fan Club D. I am sure you have a club already...lol Plus I am from the South. SO we got this connection...lol. On this topic my thought is for me being vers is the key is the key to more than a one night stand! I so love yall man man AUden I still got my eye on you too...lol I am just in e-love with Ryan...lol I cant believe I am typing this and leaving it up oh well...lol
I'm Still learning what i like but so far I love to be the Bottom!!! I like to satisfy my man! and knowing that he is enjoying my cakes is a wonderful thing!!
Oh and Derrick I noticed that the camera angle has uhhh, lowered a tad now that the abs are oven poppin' fresh. Yeah I see you daddy and you lookin' damn good.
Uh, Ryan comes off a bit contridictory when he says, "No ma'am Pam," as it would pertain to the refusal of being topped by a dude whom he deemed too feminine, when Ryan himself has said that he has climbed the back of a bitch or two - and Ryan seems VERY..."Pam-ish" in my opinion. I don't get it. You can top but no fem is allowed to top you???
YEEEES! Ryan 4 that "you need me" I say that alot...but IMO it's mostly "tops" that down the bottoms, they talk about the bottoms but secretly they think they can do it better & i'm a power bottom BUT not in that sense because from my understanding I thought a power bottom was a bottom who took control during sex & was on the more aggressive side..& my voice isn't THAT deep but i REFUSE to let a nigga who's voice is higher than mine climb my back (feel like i'm being strapped by a dyke)
(con't) whether it because your with that person emotionally as a partner or he fine as hell and that earned the right to let him get some if he wanted.[ also if you guys is at stalemate as tops and you love or really like him or he fine ass hell(marcus patrick, terrance howard,DERRICK,AUDEN,LOL. Your give in just get it either way for some.
i agree with atlantatrade,even though im a virgin I also have something to with dominating your partner. GAY or bi men including women say they will let the right person do it because its a privliege or honor to let somebody top you. whether it because your with that person emotionally as a partner or he fine as hell and that earned the right to let him get some if he wanted.
I think people need to stop lying about what they are really into. If your vers, say it, don't claim "top" and then btm for the "right top". When I go on a search, I will drill there asses with all types of questions. 95% of the time the truth comes out and I cancel them out and move on to the next. I'm a masculine btm and I want a true masculine top.
masculinity then some people who "say" are tops will think of themselves higher than those who say they are bottoms because like I said earlier they believe that masculine is better than feminine because that is what America tells them, this really applies to those who may be on the down low or still in the closet...that's my opinion, I don't do it...And although I don't know this for sure then I bet that it could be the same thing with lesbians, you know the whole masc/fem thing, anyways peace!
Interesting topic...I think still because of the current state of most gay men in America(I did say most) that some gay men think they are better than others because they are more masculine or at least appear to be. Because being masculine is more acceptable of a "man" in the US than being feminine then a lot of gay men tend to conform to this social structure and ridicule others who don't. And to answer your question since 9 out of 10 times people relate bottoming to femininity and topping to..
Well here is my perspective. I am somewhat closeted (meaning that I go to clubs but if asked in the street I'll say that I'm straight) and consider myself to be masculine. I never got the impression that masculine or masculine acting dudes thought that they were better than the more effeminate ones. The ones that do think like that are usually conceited and think that everyone wants them. I personally would not fool with someone that is excessively feminine, meaning that they tote (cont...
...purses, sport heels, and wear makeup. And this is only because of my personal preference. It doesn't mean that I think I am above them in any way. This post was intended to be a direct response to AtlantaTrade's comment, but apparently Youtube has screwed up the order of the posts. Oh well.
im not even a gay man lool if fact im a str8 woman bt i just love watching u guys, lisin 2 u guys haveing the power stuggle and even the same "colour"( yes im english i didnt spell colour wrong) as str8 realtionships its just nice 2 hear a sexy masculin man say the same things as us women often say or feel as the smaller ( in most cases) person in a realtionship
leirhsy 6 months ago
I love these shows...You guys are funny. By the way,I'm a bottom.
RellRell36 1 year ago
Aping Heteros! Why do you have to choose? Sex is fluid! :-) flux! Can I get an amen? lol
jgmilner 2 years ago
@jgmilner
Amen!
tigger500 1 year ago
they all can get it,top,btttm,or vers ha!
scoobyisthetruth 2 years ago
dope mean i like the questions
purexpression 2 years ago
dis waz done on mah birthday
blueburry91210 2 years ago
6:49 "I'm not gonna throw my business out in the street. I don't know who the hell is watchin' this" .... I laughed at that for about 3 minutes!!
kevrevx 2 years ago
Ima bottom and who talks about versatile's anyway their confused anyway.Lolz
DakotaSutan 2 years ago
light skined look fuckable!:] and dude in the ny hat . . . i can bounce on him:] hola baQ
edawqqq94 2 years ago
@edawqqq94...lol u silly
scoobyisthetruth 2 years ago
love it, r u on myspace?
stutoure 2 years ago
I'm an extemely masculine bottom who usually ends up being the top, because, like Ryan, I'll only allow a really masculine guy to ride--very disappointing! Most of my gay aquaintances are white, like me, and almost invariably versatile. But I've heard that in the black, gay community, more people choose to be either/or. Is that true? It would make a good topic for a show. Anyway, I'm now looking for that fearless, brown stud who knows how to drive a big, manly car. Btw, Derrick your gorgeous!
dakotaleedakotalee 2 years ago
did you just say "plunged"?
markgaelynn 3 years ago
the dude in the middle is fucking stud, i bet hes a freak
stellarsimplicity 3 years ago
im negligeble, ill do either - depends on the partner
tdottle246 3 years ago
Omg. Im so glad I found this show. I can truly relate to your discussions.
oak82 3 years ago
I love this show. I no it doesn't matter cause I am a verse femme female but i just think you guys are so cool.
Yaz1980 3 years ago
im a proud bottom
dbones1984 3 years ago
my question is if a guy wears 2 earrings in his ears is he gay?
supasexxy08 3 years ago
not always
kickback4me 3 years ago
Shit, I'm a total top, I wake up thinking about ass and go to sleep thinking bout ass. Now, if I'd say I'll bottom for the right guy, that for me would mean a guy that I'm in a relationship with, if he'd like to play or feel me a bit then I probably would let him as long as it's a one or two time thing. In truth, everyone has tried a bit of everything, but whatever u do the most then that's what you are. As for me, I always go straight for that ass. It's just what I do, I never bother to ask.
illj30 3 years ago
okay Auden is my dream come true ... seriously i would be a TOTAL BOTTOM if he asked me but i would seriously want to top him as well ... and Derreck and Ryan LOVE yall too :)
pjynr 3 years ago
It depends on the guy some guys bring out your feminine side and some bring out your masculine side. I dress and act fem but I'm a top so when around my friends I say I'm a fem top and my friend is a butch bottom. It really doesn't matter shit in the end we all gone have some dick on us, in us or in our hand...lol
aubrey1015 3 years ago
Labels should be thrown out!!! it's 2008
Demismyname 3 years ago
Ryan is fiiiiiiiine
15725linwood 3 years ago
There is only two roles top or bottom...there u have it! this versatile shyt is confusing a nigga. If u like dick, u a bottom, if u like booty, u a top, if u like both u r confused lol
masculine31 3 years ago
bu i love both!but i'm a botom bu when i see a guyhe has to have a booty!,ilove the bubble butt ..and yet im the bottom
FriedChicken53 3 years ago
OMG auden....I almost missed half the episode starring at this guy, what a work of art!
Noface0110 3 years ago
derreck you is fine as hell ill bottom for you anyday
rteeter1992 3 years ago
i consider myself a top becuase thats what i love. i don't care too much for dick, i luv da booty. i have no desire to bottom. i like to date strictly bottoms. i'm a boyish guy who prefers fem boys. but also find masculine bottoms sexy sometimes. i have a homo side like every other gay guy. i can't help who i like, and sometimes that person is verse, so in time they want to top me. i refuse for months then may let them have it once. i've bottomed 4 times in the 4 yrs i've been sexually active
dotcom88101 3 years ago
and c im the outher way around i love btm but the guy haz to turn me on or ill just roll over lol but ill top a fine azz niggie 4 realz but i think y i like btm iz b-cuz no one could ever take my d***
so i was allwasy stuck on btm so .yeah lmsao now u all no damnit
starcholo 3 years ago
i can't take my eyes off of ryan...fo real.
godasmyself 3 years ago
that ryan is freakin beautiful.
godasmyself 3 years ago
what's up with the string on his arm
Daganta3 3 years ago
Im a vers/btm.....but prefer to btm...rexxx
rextrek 3 years ago
"No ma'am, Pam" LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
Ebdiggity 3 years ago
I am masculine dude who is VERSITILE.I Can get equally turned on by a phat azz as well as a nice di**! Why miss half the fun?
david2407 3 years ago
lol. "That was DEEP!"
amac390 3 years ago
i will love to bottom for autum
jmstrib 3 years ago
why is there so many thugs say there straight but have boyfriends and will bottom in a minute.
jmstrib 3 years ago
Now that is true I am a completely bottom but I have topped be4
silkyblack2006 3 years ago
ومسمي نفسك احمد يا خنيث يا خرا شكلك لبناني ممحون زب
uarhara 3 years ago
Interesting and insightful...but Ryan I wish u wuz "MYBOTTOMDAILY"...Kiss Kiss ya'll and peace until. kbtp
MiLegend69 3 years ago
Ryan is sooo freaking HOT!
Love,
XO
:)
haalord 3 years ago
i love ryann so much! he cracks me up with his country behind.
princesspink75 3 years ago
Well put Slam, thank you for clarifying that.
StanleyT123 3 years ago
I think some people think that by saying someone is bottom it equates them with being "weak" which is really not true, i know some so-called bottoms who are mentally stronger than the top and i know some tops who act just like women. So yeah for some reason the bottom is suppposed to be the weaker person, how that got started i haven't a clue.
Ricodn 3 years ago
I love the new format of the show because you spend more time discussing the topic and your co-host Ryan is the hottest. What's with your leg on top of the big redbone Derrick?!?
strongforu 3 years ago
Ahh! I was resting my leg there...can a brother be tired?
dlbbco 3 years ago
Uh huh, I guess. No mam Pam! For the record, I'm a social bottom and proud of it!!! Lol.
strongforu 3 years ago
HA HA, Once you go red... LOL
grinerr 3 years ago
yall can GET IT
alonzolerone 3 years ago
Hi, I'm a woman that for some reason loves watching your videos. Someone commented and said they are just not into penatration. I'm a bit confused b/c as gay men if you don't penatrate what do you do(just have oral?)
rosieparez 3 years ago
I gotta topic.. Y do guys try to b so masculine and claim to B tops in front of everyone and in the bed room They r the biggest bottoms... or so i call them "Stone Cold Ladys" if u use my topic shout me out in a video lol
Kevla09 3 years ago
OK, I'm looking back and see that my post was not finish,YOUTUBE FUCKING UP, any ways I also think that it deals with emotion. now im trying not to say the same thing but, for example if to tops was get together, if the love is there, somebody or both of them is going to give in. Whether or not its going to det tired over time you never know.
masterdoa 3 years ago
It's silly to me that anyone would classify their ability to be with someone else based upon their sexual position. If you are consentual and close with the person you are with, you should enjoy discovering your 'positions' together. There are some things I did with my ex that I couldn't do with anyone else.
PaSmithEnt 3 years ago
Derrick, I have a topic for you: 'Would you sleep with the boyfriend of your ex'?
Truthn08 3 years ago
Did the ex and boyfriend part ways?...give me some bullets supporting your topic
dlbbco 3 years ago
I think that you should talk about it both ways...them together or not...i think it'd be interesting to see what yall had to say
sweetadenhonee 3 years ago
Top, bottom, vers.top or vers.bottom,these descriptors not only reference sexual roles, but represent the behavior in gay relationships. Gay men prefer to identify themselves by these labels, when others prefer a more loose interpretation of their sexual preferences & relationship roles. Despite the many generalizations about gay sex, there is only one way to find out your potential partner's sexual role-ask him! Do not assume unconfident individuals can get offended & take it the wrong way.
csupernature 3 years ago
Love the videos Derrick. I started out as a bottom and it was ok but it didn't really set off any fireworks. So then I thought, well maybe I'm a top! So I topped for a couple of years and you know what I realized? I am just
not into penetration. And there's a lot of folks out there who are not into penetration either. You left us out man. LOL It was an oversight I'm sure. So please make sure we have a place at the table too! Keep on keepin' on!
Hugz!
Calvin
sfcalvinaz 3 years ago
(Versitle Top) is a fare assesment I think you can't find people who are so much of a top that even some tops find themselves wanting to be a bottom so for me if he is more butch then me in bed he can have the top but he must fight for it.
coystorm 3 years ago
Please keep the topics coming... I definitely look forward to the next episode every time I see you guys. I honestly think you finally have the chemistry just right this season. All three of you are phenomenal! I think the topic at had today is one I'll have to let marinate. lol Nothing but love!
valentez 3 years ago
Can I just say that I love me some ADtv! The series and topics seem to get better each episode! I wish you ALL THE SUCCESS life can offer! Maybe one day ADtv will make it to real TV, it would have to be cable of course. Derrick, you in my opinion are SOOO FINE! Keep up the great work!!!
Goodymeluva 3 years ago
Sexy Redbone :P
gdogg2000 3 years ago
hey.. im not a man or gay but i love ur show. I think once everyone becomes comfortable with who they are and what they like no one can be insulted.. (is insulted even a word?) lol N E Wayz you should check out my channel and tell me what you think. LOVE YA!!
sultrysound 3 years ago
Ryan your facial expression KILLS me! So funny. But I would let your sweet southern self top me yes ma'am Pam
HardSoul2 3 years ago
!. I think I am gonna start the Ryan Fan Club D. I am sure you have a club already...lol Plus I am from the South. SO we got this connection...lol. On this topic my thought is for me being vers is the key is the key to more than a one night stand! I so love yall man man AUden I still got my eye on you too...lol I am just in e-love with Ryan...lol I cant believe I am typing this and leaving it up oh well...lol
nvncyble 3 years ago
I'm Still learning what i like but so far I love to be the Bottom!!! I like to satisfy my man! and knowing that he is enjoying my cakes is a wonderful thing!!
Jazzmen63 3 years ago
Oh and Derrick I noticed that the camera angle has uhhh, lowered a tad now that the abs are oven poppin' fresh. Yeah I see you daddy and you lookin' damn good.
loveNcolor 3 years ago
Uh, Ryan comes off a bit contridictory when he says, "No ma'am Pam," as it would pertain to the refusal of being topped by a dude whom he deemed too feminine, when Ryan himself has said that he has climbed the back of a bitch or two - and Ryan seems VERY..."Pam-ish" in my opinion. I don't get it. You can top but no fem is allowed to top you???
loveNcolor 3 years ago
lol, no comments
YoBoiNewnue 3 years ago
YEEEES! Ryan 4 that "you need me" I say that alot...but IMO it's mostly "tops" that down the bottoms, they talk about the bottoms but secretly they think they can do it better & i'm a power bottom BUT not in that sense because from my understanding I thought a power bottom was a bottom who took control during sex & was on the more aggressive side..& my voice isn't THAT deep but i REFUSE to let a nigga who's voice is higher than mine climb my back (feel like i'm being strapped by a dyke)
SODA601 3 years ago
(con't) whether it because your with that person emotionally as a partner or he fine as hell and that earned the right to let him get some if he wanted.[ also if you guys is at stalemate as tops and you love or really like him or he fine ass hell(marcus patrick, terrance howard,DERRICK,AUDEN,LOL. Your give in just get it either way for some.
masterdoa 3 years ago
i agree with atlantatrade,even though im a virgin I also have something to with dominating your partner. GAY or bi men including women say they will let the right person do it because its a privliege or honor to let somebody top you. whether it because your with that person emotionally as a partner or he fine as hell and that earned the right to let him get some if he wanted.
masterdoa 3 years ago
I think people need to stop lying about what they are really into. If your vers, say it, don't claim "top" and then btm for the "right top". When I go on a search, I will drill there asses with all types of questions. 95% of the time the truth comes out and I cancel them out and move on to the next. I'm a masculine btm and I want a true masculine top.
blatin 3 years ago
I LOVE Ryan!!! Everything he said in this episode was SO true, especially about bottoms taking sex seriously!!!
Represent Ryan........BOTTOMS UNITE!!!
elteddy27 3 years ago
masculinity then some people who "say" are tops will think of themselves higher than those who say they are bottoms because like I said earlier they believe that masculine is better than feminine because that is what America tells them, this really applies to those who may be on the down low or still in the closet...that's my opinion, I don't do it...And although I don't know this for sure then I bet that it could be the same thing with lesbians, you know the whole masc/fem thing, anyways peace!
AtlantaTrade 3 years ago
well conveyed!
loveNcolor 3 years ago
Atlanta trade: I totally agree.
MrJSays 3 years ago
Interesting topic...I think still because of the current state of most gay men in America(I did say most) that some gay men think they are better than others because they are more masculine or at least appear to be. Because being masculine is more acceptable of a "man" in the US than being feminine then a lot of gay men tend to conform to this social structure and ridicule others who don't. And to answer your question since 9 out of 10 times people relate bottoming to femininity and topping to..
AtlantaTrade 3 years ago
Well here is my perspective. I am somewhat closeted (meaning that I go to clubs but if asked in the street I'll say that I'm straight) and consider myself to be masculine. I never got the impression that masculine or masculine acting dudes thought that they were better than the more effeminate ones. The ones that do think like that are usually conceited and think that everyone wants them. I personally would not fool with someone that is excessively feminine, meaning that they tote (cont...
bidlbruh 3 years ago
...purses, sport heels, and wear makeup. And this is only because of my personal preference. It doesn't mean that I think I am above them in any way. This post was intended to be a direct response to AtlantaTrade's comment, but apparently Youtube has screwed up the order of the posts. Oh well.
bidlbruh 3 years ago