Why 70% of Black Woman in The USA are single Part 5-5

[lgbizzmann]

@iamtheemighty1 NOT BEING MARRIED IS SINGLE! WHETHER YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND. IF YOU DIE, WILL THEY GET YOUR BENEFITS OR LIFE INSURANCE? NO.

[bootiack]

ugly with major atttiude = no man bothers lol, also massively goddy and wont have abortion n love welafre cash for baby

[MrLawrence7777]

Great video brother!!!

[princeofthepen]

This message needs to be heard!!!

[MushadX]

cant say no to penis wow

[PositiveBlackImages1]

I don't think 70% of black women are single; unmarried maybe, but not single single as in alone lol. Maybe if more black couples actually tied the knot instead of shacking up the high unmarried statistics between black men and women will decrease. I hate that people are making this bigger than what it is and using statistics to try to bring somebody down.

[CpsLock3]

@PositiveBlackImages1 Unfortunetly the statistics have some truth in it (unless a feminist starts giving out statistics).

[PositiveBlackImages1]

@CpsLock3 I never said they were false.

[tuki1boo]

I think its alot of factors alot of them dont have God or they were not raised with two God fearing parents it just depends. I am a happliy married black man and my wife is black also what makes us a perfect couple is both of us having Jesus Christ in our lives.

[ajfsSr31]

@tuki1boo And this Jesus and God u speak of? Is Jesus the true name of YHWH? is Jesus the name of the Christ? Would u feel disrespected if I decided to translate your name to fit my language? Of course u would, and you would correct me too! So Y are u calling the Christ by a name his father doesn't call him nor did he name him? & don't give a crap ans. cause I speak/read/write greek and there was no English bible until 1611! and even then there was no Jesus, but Iesus!!!

[tuki1boo]

@ajfsSr31 I don't understand where you are cumming from? I don't argue with others I praise God and am a witness to his works in my life. So many people are focused on everything but serving God and saving lost souls. My mission is to preach the gospel and how I have a personal relationship with God. I don't like to argue but Jesus is my lord and savior.

[ajfsSr31]

@tuki1boo I think I made it clear up front that I wasn't trying to argue. I said go ask your pastor. If there is only one name under heaven given by which men are saved, why would u allow yourself to use another name is all I am asking? The word is clear, once you have been warned, your blood is on your own head! Take heed less you fall brother! Stay Blessed

[ajfsSr31]

@tuki1boo Not trying to start a fight with you, just trying to tell the truth. Ask your pastor. Would u let a school teacher call your son by a name u didn't name him? Y would YHWH allow you to call his son out of his name? remember what the Christ actually said: Mat 7:21-23, and Acts 2:21, Joel 2:28-32, Acts 2:36,38, Acts 3:16; LASTLY and MOST Importantly ACTS 4:12; No Other Name! Jesus is another Name! It's time to wake our Christians up! the devil is a liar! John 8:44-47.

[mba2ceo]

WELFARE !!!! take away welfare & Females will marry !!! Take away plush child support & reduce divorce !!!

[92680BOYD]

black or not, when it comes to a relationship period. you either, have to compromise and focus on each other as a couple or the sh*t will not work. plus, you have to be honest with yourself first, as to why your really even taking the time to be with someone.

and some people, know why there really with someone and try to cover it up with the old "love" excuse, instead of being real about it and dealing with it on a personal level.

[Dreadd313]

u know for someone to come on here and blame black men for anything u look really petty and close minded, im a black man who never been to prison, no kidz, and if i had them i would try me best to support them, all i have to say is black women dont be supportive untill he get to tha prime of his success then she wanna be a good woman, i love everyone but as a black man im very fed up wit tha preception that is forced on black men its bigger than race its economics!

[lamareaton]

You pulled the old "I can't say no to penis" card huh?

[dezapples]

When are the sorry, uneducated, physco black men going to finally stand up and accept the responsibilies of their actions as well???? Instead of blaming the white men and the black women for all of the horrible, mistakes???? Is it truly a woman's fault that you will never accomplish anything in this life or the next???

[drummer86ify]

black women in the usa are single because you are flogging a dead horse...the blk american men. there are blk men in jamaica, africa, barbados own business goodlooking and unmarried. spread your wings....u dont have to date outside look for normal blk male elsewhere.

[thesouthrapsucks]

@NaturallyCurly1990 wash that stink pussy fuck blk american women ..drama queens

[azar78345able]

@NaturallyCurly1990 Because some black women don't appreciate me I have thought about just disappearing forever from this world. I am tired of feeling like I am nothing when I am around pretty girls. No matter what I do they just don't find me attractive. Plus I have some family issues. My mom gets mad for no reason and I don't get along with some of my brothers. I wish that I could just end it all.

[azar78345able]

@NaturallyCurly1990 Some black women are mean and selfish. This one black girl told me that I was ugly and unattractive in front of alot of people when I was in adult school. She was very disrespectful to me and that made me really angry and frustrated. I punched a hole in a wall when I was sleeping in my mother's bedbroom because I was very angry with that girl. There are alot of rude black people and I hate them.

[azar78345able]

@bisman85 If black women continue being mean and selfish, the black race might not exist anymore. I see some billboard signs on the streets saying that the black race is an endangered species. That is not a good sign for the black community. This looks pretty scary. If we don't get our act together, we won't exist as a people anymore. The black race will die out. Alot of Black men are dating white women now.

[326Ka]

you videos are the truth i remember growing up a young girl pregnant was big mews back then.if you knew a young black lesbian that was a big deal back then now its normal boys want to be criminals today instead of being doctors and lawyers.this is the world we live in.

[Chicago1SilkyBaby]

PART 3 Basically, this can be characterized by a simple algebraic formula:As the “percentage represented by X” decreases, Y’s percentage increases.

X= children produced by Black married couples.

Y= children produced by non-married individuals.

Thirty years ago, Black married families (like Whites and other groups) had 4 or more children.Today, such couples are only having one or two.Hence, that 72% is generated by the “decrease in child production by Black married couples.”

[Chicago1SilkyBaby]

PART 2 In order for a Black woman to hold any of the preceding statuses (married, divorced, widowed)….she had to be married, right?!Hence, that 42% are having more children than the Black women who are either “married, divorced, or widowed.”

[Chicago1SilkyBaby]

We know that “42% of Black women have never been married,” which is a statistic provided on CNN’s “Black in America” last year or you can simply get that info from the U.S. Census.If 42% of Black women have “never been married,” what does that mean?!IT MEANS THAT 58% OF BLACK WOMEN ARE EITHER MARRIED, DIVORCED, OR WIDOWED.HENCE, THE MAJORITY OF BLACK WOMEN ARE OR HAVE BEEN MARRIED.

[juseph29]

i have found that most BW are just whores.they spread their legs so quickly.no condoms and no knowledge of the person they are screwing.real talk

[whitfield136]

Sorry about the typos. hahahha. Sometimes when i get so passionate i type fast and make lots of mistakes in my spelling. I should have proof read, eh? Anyhow, Id like to leave with this. Its so much easier to say things than to put things into action. Im completely aware of that.Its easy for people to come online and have solutions to problems that seem so easy to solve, but in reality its all about putting good behavior into practice. Making it apart of daily life is the key.

[whitfield136]

And really, I hope that no one takes offense at my words because for the most part its my opinion, but if more women talked with real men, they will find that what ive typed here i pretty much true. Again, its hard to accept truth; we all have to do it, but as the saying goes, the truth will set you free. If you like being in the same situations making the same silly choices in life, then keep doing what you're doing. If you want better for yourself, its out there waiting to be discovered.

[whitfield136]

And in accepting that person as he is, you have now taken the responsibility of being responsible for the choice you have made. You can go around saying he's this or that when you are the one who chose him. I could go on and on about this topic for such a long time because there are so many aspects as to why women do what we do and im sure there are aspects as to why men do what they do, but i just had to drop a few words. Please women; lets get smarter. lets make better choices. We are the ones

[whitfield136]

And when people show you who they are, its best to believe them. Instead of trying to change a person to see your point of view, its best to accept that person as they are and decide if you can handle that person as your mate or not. Now, thats not to say that compromises cant be made, but for the most part, people are who they are. Women are always thinking that we can change a man and its pointless. Accept him as he is and then decide if you will put up with how he is or not.. and...

[whitfield136]

And in making that choice, we also have to take responsibility for the outcome of how the situation may end up becoming. We have to start with the source and women are the source. How can a man have sex with a woman if she doesnt agree? How? Besides rape of course, but I mean, he cant proceed if the woman doesnt allow it and for whatever reason she agrees to let him proceed, she must be ready for the consequences and not blame him or others for bad judgement. People show you how they are....

[whitfield136]

And I dont mean to nag and pick and women, but its so important that we do nag to women because we are the ones who make the choice to say yes or no. We are the ones who have the power to make monumental decisions in our lives that lives of our children. We are the ones who bring life into this world and yet we just stand aside and allow someone else who cant imagine what its like to have a life grow inside of us to make all the choices. I cant get this. It makes no sense. We make the choice

[whitfield136]

And again, Im not trying to offend anyone. Im so sure that there are many families where men where in the home caring and providing for their families. Im just speaking for myself, so, I hope no one gets too sensitive. Sure, no one wants to be alone, but is this now a reason to just get with any man that will do? Any man with a pulse? I cant understand this. I cant understand how its not important for any person to be as cautious as they can be about who they lay with. Male or female

[whitfield136]

But Im hearing from women and the ones in my own family even that they dont want to be alone. Its almost a desperate yearning to be with a man. Any man for that matter. Just to say that a woman has a man no matter his attributes takes priority in many women's lives. I grew up without a father and so for me, it was just normal to not have a man around. All the women in my family did the raising, the working, the educating. Not, by choice, but it was a reality in my life.

[whitfield136]

There are actually women out there who think that they can. I find this ludicris. Did i spell that right? ahhaha. Anyway, now that women have been given the resources and tools to avoid the crazies out there, the former excuses arent being accepted any more. Its high time to learn from our mistakes, from our mother's mistakes, our grandmother's and break the chain and stop allowing things to happen to us that we have total control over to not happen in the first place.

[whitfield136]

It bothers me incredibly that with all the resources out there for women to better themselves that we arent taking advantage of what our options are. I dont understand that. There is no excuse for such behavior now except for its a personal choice for these women to continue to allow men to do the things that they do knowing well that women cant change men. Thats another thing that I notice about women. We want to always change a man. This is folly. Its a fantasy. Its not going to happen..yet..

[whitfield136]

Ive always believed in the fact that women should think like men and act like ladies. There are all kinds of books and artists out there who are always trying to educate women about how to seek out a good man and yet for some strange reason, we keep finding ourselves in these situations where we figure we can change a man or be like a man when we cant. And in no way am I the kind of woman who falls for some of these men's tactics, but i include myself because I am a woman and it concerns me

[whitfield136]

This particular reality doesnt give any woman to use it as an excuse. In no way is it okay or fine. Its not the way a lady should represent herself. Personally, I believe in having a man respect me as a human being first and foremost and I dont give a damn if he leaves just because i didnt follow him to the bed immediately. But, I can only speak for myself not wanting to offend anyone. To each his own, but if this kind of behavior continues, its what women have to look forward to.

[whitfield136]

Its not always that a woman is so sexcrazed that she just has to have the cock. It has a lot to do with pleasing the surface needs of a man's sexual side. Be honest.. who wants someone who isnt bringing it in the bedroom? I sure as hell dont and Im a woman so I can just imagine what its like for a man. Now, thats not to say that a woman cant please her man in other intellecutal ways, but men and women are different creatures and there are different things that peak our interests.

[whitfield136]

In saying this, I dont mean to say that the only say to please a man is just sexually, but we all know that its damn important to keep the fires burning once they've started. Now, believe it or not men, this is a huge problem for women and its an enormous reason as to why women feel the need to sleep with a man so easily; even the first time shes met him just to prove herself to him sexually that she can keep his interest. This is sad to admit, but nonetheless, it is a reality.

[whitfield136]

I dont mean to offend anyone out there who is respects himself or herself when i share this, but I think that its time to get real. Sex is a huge part of a relationship and in our society its something that takes priority in most people's lives and if a woman isnt up to keeping her man satisfied sexually, then guess what? She'll be on the chopping block because the competition out there is fierce and what this woman wont do another woman will

[whitfield136]

As a woman myself, ive experience with this and really sometimes as people we are always looking from the outside in and not always understanding of how we affect each other and in typing this i mean to say that men sometimes arent aware how monumental sex is in relationships. Its colossial and men just cant see that when a woman is interested in a man most likely shes already thinking to herself that the issue of sex will rear its head and in most cases its on the man's mind to bed her....

[whitfield136]

Really, Im not the kind of person who likes to make excuses for people, but some things are reality whether we choose to believe them to be or not. There was a comment about the fact that women are addicted to penis. Id just like to say that im sure there are some women out there who are sex addicts; but for the most part, this isnt so. I would however like to interject that its well known that men love sex and need it and in most cases, women cant even get a man or the man she wants without it

[whitfield136]

If the guy was a moron when you met him most likely that wont change once everything is said and done. When someone has power, its wise to act on it. To be in control of it. Women have the power to stop these kinds of things from happening and im well aware of the reasons as to why we havent tapped into stopping such things from being a huge reality for a majority of females.

[whitfield136]

a lot of the women who are in situations where they have found themselves as single parents because the guy was not who she wanted him to be or not who she thought he was or whatever the reason, we as women still have the choice to proceed or cease to allow the person to envade our space and cause havoc in our lives. We cant then turn around knowing that the guy was a complete moron and blame him for being a moron.

[whitfield136]

Thats not to say that we shouldnt strive to seek out a mate who would best suit our preferences, but I do mean to say that we all take a gamble when it comes to who we choose as a mate. A person can seem perfectly suitable for you in the beginning and can turn for the worse during the course of the relationship. Thats just a generalization of what we all have as a possibility: man or woman. Now, I want to focus on women because we are the ones who hold the power of whats going down and whats not

[whitfield136]

As a woman myself and only representing myself only, I feel that a man cant do to you what you dont allow him to do. Before finding ourselves in relationships with the men we choose to be with, we know quite well who and what we're dealing with. Now, in that decision, we have to take responsibility for fact that in the decision to proceed with certain individuals is a choice and that with that choice there is no guarantee that with even the best of men, things will even work out for the positive

[whitfield136]

However, learning from our faults builds character. In retrospect, its how we learn in many ways how not to make the same mistakes again and learn how to avoid similar situations that can arise in the furture. There are many things I agree with when it comes to what was mentioned on this posting. What I's mainly like to focus on is the role of the woman in the many instances where females actually are in control of. Making the decisions as to who we choose as the fathers of our children....

[whitfield136]

At the same time, I believe that the hardest thing in the world for any person to do is to look in the mirror and be honest with oneself. Truth hurts and it needs to be acknowledged and accepted before anything can transpire. When a person makes a bad decision, the first thing that individual wants to do is to hurry up and forget about it. To move on to the next thing to hopefully forget what he or she has done wrong. As humans, we dont want to dwell on our faults.

[whitfield136]

Very interesting topic here. I was listening to this posting and wanted to add a little something to it. I'm so sure that we're all so sick and tired of hearing that its the responsiblity of both blackw and blackm to overcome whats been plaguing the black community for so many years and its true. We simply must stop blaming one another and just get to doing whats required of both parties. There isnt a way around it. Its time out for the excuses and blaming. This can go on forever.

[maverickent]

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[dxsmackdown8]

... being a so-called "strong" black woman is really an excuse to knock down,stomp on & demoralize your husband rather than honoring him/the role & office he occupies as the husband. if a woman treats her husband as nothing more than a doormat & a human ATM bank machine, then obviously somethings very skewed about that. if we would follow the biblical template as to our marital roles then strife would be gone & peace would be replete in marriages

[dxsmackdown8]

just do what Jesus told you to do in the bible & that resolves everything. either God is a liar or He told the truth when He told women to submit, honor & obey their husbands. not MY words folks, those are words inspired by the Holy Spirit of God. either you believe God is telling the truth/knows everything or that He's lying. you CANT have it both ways. black women emasculate & denigrate their husbands rather doing what the bible says

[watch2mefly]

Mrbossman1982 is probably in a mental hospital. Maybe its time for his meds.

[lyricaladaud]

The biggest problem with the black family is the weakness of the men, and fornication!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[llattisaw100]

I think we all play a major role because the women and men made a decision to have sex with each other and never consider that baby could come out this act.... Therefore, ladies and gentleman just hold yourself and wait until your responsible for making wise decision.. Have a great day... Black Men r kings and Black Women u r Queens, so lets make it happen...

[nahleejah]

I feel what you are saying. Its crazy to me that its okay for men in our community to have babies by multiple women and not take any responsibility for his choices, still he is respected. However, it is illegal for a man to marry multiple women and take full responsibility for these women and their kids! This is set up for the black family to self destruct.

[BES6003]

@nahleejah close but no ciggar! we as bm we are demmed IRRESPONSIBLE until we have a "job" wm dont take care of us..i just think some bw are pimps and some just havnt been informed that we cannot rely on other men too feed us and shelter us sadly some of our bw watch sooooooooo much t.v. they a very limited to conceptionalize and comprehend

[MetaSensuality1983]

Your right man. Woman are addicted to penis. That's all they think about 24/7. Point blank they worship dick. It makes it so easy to run game on these women.

[TechKnowStudio]

Interesting!