19 and still trying to escape my past with various guys that treat me like shit... becuase I ask them to... I have a feeling I'm going to be running from my past for the rest of my life.
13 sucks. 8th grade was horrible for me and I did a lot of things that I'm not too proud of. The drinking and the smoking. Just because a guy says he loves doesn't mean you can let him take advantage of you. Freshman year I lost my virginity at school and got suspended. That will always be on my school record. So now as I'm looking into colleges I want to go to, I'm scared I'm going to be asked about that. My little sister turns 13 this year and I'm scared for her. I want her to make better dec
im 13 now, and my life does seem like a nightmare. i seem happy and hide my pain behind laughter and smiles but I'm hurting so bad inside. thank you pink :,(
hay!!!!!!!!! iamgrrification i will get better i know it will i am liveing tho the same thing we can do it when you do it know life better cos you know that you can make it tho any thing
I'm 13 life's getting better but with arguing parents and being invisible and misunderstood life's hard. Wasn't it easier when u were little and everyone believed in u and the worry u had was losing your teddy?? Yeah life was good back then but there's no going back now... *sigh* I just hope life gets better...
so many artists have done so many things but i believe pink has done the most because she sings real and she allows people to see tht they will get through it
I know that people say your 13 and you shouldn't be feeling like killing yourself, or being angry, or knowing much, but that's wrong!!! It's so wrong!! We feel!! We're human!!! They were 13 too!! They should know!!!!! We're 13, but age doesn't count in suffering. We suffer, no matter what age we are and we can't help it if we can't tell you! Because you're going to push it off!!! WE'RE 13!! TAKE US SERIOUSLY!!
I'm 13 at this moment. This song makes me cry every time. This song is my inspiration. Now I know that it WILL get better. My life does seem like a nightmare. I do laugh to hide my pain. My parents think that I'm depressed. I am. But I've learned how to hide it. Thank you Pink. You've showed me that it's okay to be sad now. That everything gets better over time.
I've I could talk to my 13 year old self... I would tell her to speak up, that bullying and eating disorders are something that can be solve. And that though I thought so, I wasn't alone..
Funny thing, my life wasn't as messed up as it is when I was 13; but if I could go back in time, I'd tell myself: Life is more than getting straight A's, so don't worry about grades. Yes, you'll fall in love, though it will break you and the pain will be unbereable, but you'll get through it. You'll finally figure out what you want to be when you grow up. Those who you call friends, aren't really your friends, so beware. Shit happens, but you have to experience it to learn and enjoy life.
I'm 19 as of now and I wish I could go back to comfort myself. I would stop me from doing so many things. I guess, if I did change what happened, I wouldn't have learned though. I'm proud of who I am today. I'm very happy where my turn of events, good or bad, have placed me. Remember where you are today and what lead you to get there. Sometimes SHIT IS ROUGH, but people have to go through shit to get truly appreciate what they have. Otherwise, they're spoiled. Everyone goes through hell.
I remember when I was 13. I'm 14 now. I use to reckless sometimes. I felt like I wanted to kill someone. I was really depressed. Attempted suicide a few times... I still feel the same way /:
i remember being 13. the toughest time ever. actually, 13 until 16. im 17 now and it gets better. everything is the same tho, still tough, but i can deal with it better now. first rule, never EVER gives a single sh*t. you are welcome :)
At thirteen, I was an empty shell of what I once was after being put though relentless emotional and physical bulling by others for two years because I acted different to most people. All I wanted at thirteen was to be like everyone else, thirteen is an age you can't see past, an age of change, of awaking and of pain. A big part of things changing is accepting who you are and finding real friends. This song made me realise that there are so many things I would tell like to tell my younger self.
Everyone who have been through difficult times at any age, specifically 13 (I was on a dark path at this age myself). We all must keep our heads up above water and if one is getting weaker we must work together to help them. Talk to someone, anyone who is willing to take the time. If they are willing to listen, that is your strength. This is just a moment in one life that is a block. Don't let this wall beat you. Be strong, hold on and take every positive moment and embrace it.
My Dad And Sister Moved Away , People Make It A Joke everyday . They Call Me Names , My Mom Doesn't Care About Me , My Aunt Passed YESTERDAY . I'm 13 . This Has To Be The WORST Year Of Anyone's Life <|3
My life as a kid was the worse. My rl mother died in a fire. Foster homes. Abuse for everything and nothing. Finding out my real father a meth addicted. And being tease cause I am gay. I never much liked my life. I still struggle to breath under this icy water in hope of salvation from my monster. But like many things. I am trap here clinging to my sanity.
I wish I knew this when I was 13, so I could live the way I wanted instead of trying to be so perfect.. I feel so old now to try again..
When my kids turn 13 and say "Mom, I hate my life" I'll show them this song and give them a hug, and tell them to live their life they want to at the moment, don't take everything so serious like I did at that age till now. "Don't try to grow up yet, just give it some time."
being 13 was definatly hard, backstabbers, heartbreakers, wrong places at wrong times, "no teachers or guidance", thank you P!nk for explaining what we cant put into words </3
@cowjam98 I found that 13 years into my life has made it turn down a different direction i chose who i was living with i started rebelling and now im STILL 13 and since i turn3ed 13 in August i have gotten in more fights and went to more partys then i have my entire life 13 is that age that we seem to choose the road were going down lets hope yours is good
The pain of a little girl.. A normal thing for this world. Children learn how to get though it in the hard way. Im 13. I am cold. Life let me be like that. I dont share a tear to anyone. I dont let my feelings hurts me. If youre cold, you survive. Thats my model. But anyway this song describes me from the deep.. the me i always hide...
She really understands how a 13 year old feels, I'm 13 myself, and when I first heard this song, I almost cried because this is exactly how I feel and it's wonderful to know that someone understands you.
I think most of what's hard about being 13 is 7th grade. This is the hardest grade I've ever been in, it sucks and there's nothing you can do about it.
@MegaFunsies I can totally relate.. I hated the world when I was 13 and I thought that my life sucked.. Now, 7 years later at 20 I still feel like that
We are all different I am 13 and all I have to say is I can relate ....... For me it will always be difficult and I fake thr smiles and laughs and happiness to make sure no one can see me......it is the only way I don't have to deal with other peoples shit! All I am saying is I am who I am and we all are different people think they can relate but they cant
ok guys, we've all been threw these difficult times but expecting ppl to make you better is pointless. I'm not trying to be mean but these ppl here, dont know what you're going threw. Thew think they do but they truely dont. The best they can do is give advise. So please dont get hurt by what ppl say on here. They dont know
I'm 14. When I was 12-13 years old, I hated my life. Now everything is something better than fine. Every one of you out there...remember...everything will get better sooner as you think!!!! Just be yourself and smile! Laugh...Dance...Be happy, even if you are actually not....And someday you will have more happiness that you could ever ask for. Just give it some time......
The instrumental is so powerful, it makes me cry every time :'c When I get back to school, I'm going to suggest this to my concert band teacher-- of course it'll require lots of practice, but for this song I'd be determined.
When I was around thirteen, I fell in love with my best friend. It was then that I realized that I was a lesbian. It was the hardest thing. I thought I was dirty and gross, and my family would hate me, basically drop me off at a christian school to try and "cure" me and never come back. I still haven't told them. I wish I could go back and tell myself to wait, tell myself that those who hate or don't like me just don't know me, or understand me. And "don't try to grow up so fast"
@tinagirl1992 i felt the same way and i fell in love with my bestfriend than notice how culd i when shes a girl and im a girl then i found out i was bisexual just hang in there
@xxwunderfulxx Thankx. I'm 19 now, but it's nice to know that I'm not the only one. I've had multiple burns with relationships and hopefuly that perfect person is out there somewhere for me.
@tinagirl1992 i have acouple cousins who lesbians and theyre awesome and you wouldn't think they were just tell those haters that they can burn in hell this is my life not yours so stay the hell out
Hi, i'm 13 and i'm a terrible friend (well i'm a terrible person to), and i've never kissed a boy, i'm very weird and i'm not popular at all, know it's kinda small problems but i'm heard this song and was wondering if it's worth it. Is it really gonna be any better?
@Newyorknoneliver to answer you: yes. it really does. i was exactly like you when i was 13. except i was a boy. and gay. i had to deal with that on top of being the social outcast. but then you appreciate your friends that much more. believe me, it gets so much better :)
Well I'm 15 (almost) and it's not like I don't have those problems too.I,as a girl,also haven't kissed a boy and I'm also pretty weird (being into manga,animals and literature;not waring make-up) but don't worry.After only a few years you'll see that there are people in life that will make things worth it.No,the pain won't go away,it'll always be there somewhere,but it will be replaced by happy positive moments that will lock it up and you won't remember it.
@Newyorknoneliver Yes it will. Teenage years are full of challenges and heartaches. When you rise above it all, it's an indescribable feeling. I can say that now that I'm 23. 13-19 was hell for me. I overcame it. What happened is in the past. And sweetie, I've never kissed a boy either. When you're older and confident, you'll say "Who cares if people don't like me?! It's their problem." There will always be pain but it's how you deal with it all that matters.
I love that part in the begin when she sings the word 'heartbroken' when her voice crackes. Usually, that makes a song drown, but that was just perfect. It just fit for her voice to break there. <3
I'm 13... This really made me realize who I really am at the moment . . . a shell broken without my friends. But I'll be singing this to myself when I'm older someday. I may at this moment be a shell, but my friends will fix that, I'm sure of it. :}
i had no idea this song exsisted until i watched "13 Year Old Me {Finished!}" im really happy i found this song. this song speaks wonders! i love this song
im 14 and i love this song and my life was like this i was just like this song me and my best friend but a family friend that me and her both know took his life and his note had described his life and he said it was just like this song but he didnt know things would get better and now my life is changed for ever i dont hold on to any anger i just let it all go and enjoy this life because you never know how many days you have left on this earth. Enjoy it(:
@Jenniferx97 stand up for your self u should tell a teacher & so what if they call u a snitch im going to a new school and i will tell a teacher if people keep verbally/physically abusing me and i'll tell my parents dont hide who u r say it proud im jennifer and b who u wanna b dont let people tell u who 2 b ok?
Conversation with my 14 year old self. I still feel this way most of the time. 13 was one hell of a year. I just wish I found this before I turned 14.
im 13 and i agree with this song i have moved from the school i have been at since i was 5 lost all my friends school is harder theres more drama i think my boyfriend hates my guts but i love him so much and i have no
I love this song. Not the stuff I usually listen to, but it's really good. The lyrics give me a feeling...I don't know what feeling...They don't apply to me, but I know they apply to a lot of people out there. For these people: just stay strong! It will get better in time!
This is why I love P!NK-> she sings about real life not fantasy! Her songs talk about growing up, loving yourself the way you are and getting by in life WITHOUT needing a boyfriend! :)
well i'm 16 now but i feel terrible when i listen to this even now... when you're teenager it doesn't matter if you're 13 or 14 or 15... u just feel like trush... i just wanna wake up and be 18... only then i will leave my life the way i wanna and only then i will be happy... just 2 years more... i can wait... i'm waiting so much years... and u girls who are reading to this just have hope and everything will work out fine...:)
EVERYONE, i promise it will be ok. I was just like you, but i promise it turns out ok in the end. please, know that it will be ok, nothing is your fault.
This song made my cry... It reflects on so much that I've been feeling. So much pain in life we could do w/o.... The love woes, the friends, I've been through them a lot.. But I'll always smile through my tears and be a little optimistic. I mean, we're still young.
This song is about loving yourself and learn that life keeps going on, despite all the pain we might feel. She is talking to her 13 year-old self, telling her that there's someone who loves her: a mature, stronger version of herself.
@indefenseofourdream :) smile :D I'm thirteen too, and the only thing you can do is SMILE and let those people know that they can't hurt you, no matter what they say... My best friend just slapped me yesterday... It hurts, but u get over it... :) so SMILE... just remember, U R BEAUTIFUL! and the person who loves u more than anyone else in the world, is walking this planet right now, feeling a ssad and lonely as you are. And one day, its all gonna be better. :D
this song has helped me so much .. when your 13 you don't see what life can bring you... i was 13 when i walked i away from home and wanted to play suicide my mom found the letter i wrote and came after me and was hartbroken that i cried for hours in her hands... sometimes does feelings come back buth when you get older you learn to handle those feeling better and try 2 enjoy little things and live your live...
I turned 13 about 3 months ago. My life changed when i was 12, but i swear i'm glad to know that i'm not the only one who is going though this; growing up. Right now I don't care who you are; Over weight, skinny, color of skin, short/tall, bisexual, gay, or whatever! All I wanna say is whatever your story is... I'm here for you guys and always will.<3
even though i didnt have anyone when i was 13 and it gave me serous issues when it came to feeling good about myself (to the point i used to puke out ALL my meals and sometimes i still do) i know theres no point giving up. like pinks other song fucking perfect i may be screwed up but life goes on and i'm perfect only for myself. in the end thats all that matters btw if youre 16 listen to 16 at war
i used to be 13. i'm turning 18 this year and although i wish i could say things change and get better its not always true. i can say though that at 13 this is EXACTLY how i was as well and even though my lifes not perfect i know that it gets worse if you let yourself trip and stray i was never pretty ether and i was the fattest of my friends as well until i stopped feeling sorry for myself and did something about it. this song is such an inspiration because it shows us we aren't alone anymore
I'm thirteen, and this song just is making me cry so much! Everything she's said applies to me. I have friends, but they're all so beautiful and I'm so fat! I've been through so much drama this year, my best friend/boyfriend hates me for no reason, and I don't have anyone who cares. No one understands! I just keep my smile on because I have to be strong, everyone expects this from me! And this song did NOT make me feel better about myself. If anything, I hate myself even more now!
To everyone who is having a rough time. It may not seem like it right now, but things do get better. I'm 18 right now. I've got so much shit going on, but I try not to let it bother me. Just think about this. P!nk got through it, so can we.
I'm 16 now and I can honestly say that this song reflects exactly how I felt when I was 13 xD Even now, three years later, I can see how I took everything so negatively and how it wasn't really all that bad. It kinda sucks that teenagers are so hormonal and affected by what goes on around them, I wish that this whole period of self hatred and 'life sucks' could just be eliminated from our life, but it makes us who we are, so I guess it's not all bad.
@imaginationroxmysox I agree with you I'm 12 and I'm turning 13 in a couple of weeks and honestly I always kept telling myself how I hate my life and how I hate myself and how I look. Since I'm a diabetic it's worse I: Sometimes I would wanna kill myself or cut myself and I feel like I'm in a colorless prison. Honestly I hate this stage sometimes i think 'If this is what it feels like turning 13 then I wanna be 14 already so I can escape from this shit'
I'm fourteen now and, looking back at last year, things weren't as bad as they seemed at the time. I'm sure that when I'm fifteen, this year won't seem so bad either. Basically, what I'm saying is, stay strong, the sun will come out tomorrow, and never lose sight of what's important. Only change things about yourself for you, not for anyone else.
basically being a teen seems so screwy for any girl. the fairytale loves you think you have will end. but there is only one relationship that works out for everyone. PMS you eventually find to be a great excuse for being a bitch and eating loads of calories:P but every girl needs to stay strong. no matter how many problems you have make the best of your life dont dwell on the past dont regret anything just live your like to the fullest.!
Im fifteen, and all these people watching this and thinking "my life sucks" BELIEVE me. It will get better. Right now your thinking on the recent things or the things that have happened and hurt you in the past, but think to the future and how you can make it be a hella lot better. and YES, i still PMS big time and wish i werent alive either. e___e every girl does.
@19peaches94 Although i did say all that comforting stuff to her, which i meant. I still agree with your comment. People think having no friends and not liking school real problems.The amount of shit that i have been through, and im still going through in my life is fucking crazy. And people still tell me that i need to get over myself and only complain when i have 'real' problems. As you said, everyone! Goes through the problems she mentioned.
@indefenseofourdream honey, I'm fifteen right now and my life has already gotten better. Trust me, when I was 13- my life was the hardest than ever before. My uncle died, everyone in school found out I was gay, my aunt disowned me, and my mom got very sick. But, two years later, I'm in a better place. I promise you things will get better.
If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here to listen hun.
@aelita0hopper0 im only 11 n my mother died when i was 9. i was abbused by my stepfather n stepmother. n now im with my aunt. when does my life get better?????
@bridgemunky731 Well, how does your aunt treat you?Also, on top of this- I know it seems like a long time but when you become 18 you can get away from it all. My dad and I have an unhealthy relationship- it's along the lines of we don't understand each other and we fight a lot. I know I'm not abused- and I sincerely wish I could take the pain away from you. But, I want you to know that no matter what things will get better dear. Just give it some time, alright hun? I'm sorry that's all I can say
i want to cry so much. every night. i'm thirteen at the moment, and this has been the most dramatic year of my life. ive lost friends, i've fallen hard in love, watching the love of my life walk past me and never noticing me once. i'm the fattest of my friends. i honestly think i'm the ugliest person out there. sigh. i wish all of it would end.
@indefenseofourdream You've got plenty of years ahead of you in which you can make new friends, fall in love all over again, lose weight, and you think you're ugly? I bet you're absolutely beautiful, but if you still say you're not, people often get more attractive as their bodies mature. :) Oh, and in the future, it's you who will be doing the walking...The new love of you life will watch you walk down the aisle towards him, he won't be walking past you at all. :)
19 and still trying to escape my past with various guys that treat me like shit... becuase I ask them to... I have a feeling I'm going to be running from my past for the rest of my life.
darkndecay2 1 day ago
I'm only 11 and this is what my life is like right now . WHATS 13 GONNA BE LIKE? cant stop crying D*X
BrainFREEZEx21 3 days ago
13 sucks. 8th grade was horrible for me and I did a lot of things that I'm not too proud of. The drinking and the smoking. Just because a guy says he loves doesn't mean you can let him take advantage of you. Freshman year I lost my virginity at school and got suspended. That will always be on my school record. So now as I'm looking into colleges I want to go to, I'm scared I'm going to be asked about that. My little sister turns 13 this year and I'm scared for her. I want her to make better dec
torreymarie456 1 week ago
im 13 now, and my life does seem like a nightmare. i seem happy and hide my pain behind laughter and smiles but I'm hurting so bad inside. thank you pink :,(
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babelovehasnolimits 1 week ago
hay!!!!!!!!! iamgrrification i will get better i know it will i am liveing tho the same thing we can do it when you do it know life better cos you know that you can make it tho any thing
BrisingrBlueSword 1 week ago
i feel the same way niceone009xx
BrisingrBlueSword 1 week ago
I'm 13 life's getting better but with arguing parents and being invisible and misunderstood life's hard. Wasn't it easier when u were little and everyone believed in u and the worry u had was losing your teddy?? Yeah life was good back then but there's no going back now... *sigh* I just hope life gets better...
Niceone009xx 1 week ago
Here is my shitty life:
•My boyfriend asked out my best friend while he was dating me, she said no and told me so I dumped him.
• I still love him.
• he got expelled.
• I haven't seen him since.
• My best friend got expelled yesterday.
• I cut myself.
• I don't think I will be able to get up in the morning.
Anyone have some pills I can overdose on?
iamgrrification 1 week ago
@iamgrrification it'll get better, just give it some time.
pixiehollowlol 4 days ago
I'm 14 turning 15 this year...it's a liveing hell for me.......
Flippy19951 2 weeks ago
Summary of every comment: I had a sucky life. Reply from me: Everyone has. :P
littlelovebuggies 2 weeks ago
so many artists have done so many things but i believe pink has done the most because she sings real and she allows people to see tht they will get through it
FoodGroupp 3 weeks ago
I know that people say your 13 and you shouldn't be feeling like killing yourself, or being angry, or knowing much, but that's wrong!!! It's so wrong!! We feel!! We're human!!! They were 13 too!! They should know!!!!! We're 13, but age doesn't count in suffering. We suffer, no matter what age we are and we can't help it if we can't tell you! Because you're going to push it off!!! WE'RE 13!! TAKE US SERIOUSLY!!
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esposa13 1 month ago
I'm 13 at this moment. This song makes me cry every time. This song is my inspiration. Now I know that it WILL get better. My life does seem like a nightmare. I do laugh to hide my pain. My parents think that I'm depressed. I am. But I've learned how to hide it. Thank you Pink. You've showed me that it's okay to be sad now. That everything gets better over time.
GOCLORAL 1 month ago 4
I've I could talk to my 13 year old self... I would tell her to speak up, that bullying and eating disorders are something that can be solve. And that though I thought so, I wasn't alone..
MissLongroad 1 month ago
This fits my adolescence to the letter
NiyuAruProductions 1 month ago
Funny thing, my life wasn't as messed up as it is when I was 13; but if I could go back in time, I'd tell myself: Life is more than getting straight A's, so don't worry about grades. Yes, you'll fall in love, though it will break you and the pain will be unbereable, but you'll get through it. You'll finally figure out what you want to be when you grow up. Those who you call friends, aren't really your friends, so beware. Shit happens, but you have to experience it to learn and enjoy life.
TsukiHiProductions 1 month ago
I'm 19 as of now and I wish I could go back to comfort myself. I would stop me from doing so many things. I guess, if I did change what happened, I wouldn't have learned though. I'm proud of who I am today. I'm very happy where my turn of events, good or bad, have placed me. Remember where you are today and what lead you to get there. Sometimes SHIT IS ROUGH, but people have to go through shit to get truly appreciate what they have. Otherwise, they're spoiled. Everyone goes through hell.
Dr3amstate 1 month ago 2
I'm only 11 and I cried when I heard this song ssssssoooooo true thank you for telling mr the truth!!!!
Lilmadonna1980 1 month ago
I'm 13 and i'm gonna turn 14 next month....this songs basically expresses how i feel
LizzyTorres13 1 month ago
im 14 and i feel this exact way lolz XD
XxanimechikxX 1 month ago
I'm only 12 and I'm gonna turn 13 in a few months and this is exactly how I feel.
igotlovebuglike123 1 month ago
I'm 13 now and this is,, exactly what's going on
TheSlikchic 1 month ago
I remember when I was 13. I'm 14 now. I use to reckless sometimes. I felt like I wanted to kill someone. I was really depressed. Attempted suicide a few times... I still feel the same way /:
xxRedInkxx 2 months ago
i remember being 13. the toughest time ever. actually, 13 until 16. im 17 now and it gets better. everything is the same tho, still tough, but i can deal with it better now. first rule, never EVER gives a single sh*t. you are welcome :)
TheFallingAutumn 2 months ago
I didn't actually get this song at thirteen. Now it seems crystal clear. Funny how time does that to you.
ryllie32 2 months ago in playlist :)
from 13 on wards life just gets worse and worse...FACT!
MarshallMathersBaby 2 months ago
At thirteen, I was an empty shell of what I once was after being put though relentless emotional and physical bulling by others for two years because I acted different to most people. All I wanted at thirteen was to be like everyone else, thirteen is an age you can't see past, an age of change, of awaking and of pain. A big part of things changing is accepting who you are and finding real friends. This song made me realise that there are so many things I would tell like to tell my younger self.
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Rubix07Cube 2 months ago
Everyone who have been through difficult times at any age, specifically 13 (I was on a dark path at this age myself). We all must keep our heads up above water and if one is getting weaker we must work together to help them. Talk to someone, anyone who is willing to take the time. If they are willing to listen, that is your strength. This is just a moment in one life that is a block. Don't let this wall beat you. Be strong, hold on and take every positive moment and embrace it.
KBright2012 2 months ago
My Dad And Sister Moved Away , People Make It A Joke everyday . They Call Me Names , My Mom Doesn't Care About Me , My Aunt Passed YESTERDAY . I'm 13 . This Has To Be The WORST Year Of Anyone's Life <|3
TheyCallMeJoelle 2 months ago
My life as a kid was the worse. My rl mother died in a fire. Foster homes. Abuse for everything and nothing. Finding out my real father a meth addicted. And being tease cause I am gay. I never much liked my life. I still struggle to breath under this icy water in hope of salvation from my monster. But like many things. I am trap here clinging to my sanity.
NepillimWitch18 2 months ago
What I wouldn't give to be 13 again. When I was that age I couldn't wait to be 16, then 18...now here I am 24 like damn where the hell did time go???
MosDef871 2 months ago
I wish I knew this when I was 13, so I could live the way I wanted instead of trying to be so perfect.. I feel so old now to try again..
When my kids turn 13 and say "Mom, I hate my life" I'll show them this song and give them a hug, and tell them to live their life they want to at the moment, don't take everything so serious like I did at that age till now. "Don't try to grow up yet, just give it some time."
P!nk really knows how to tell the truth <3
ThisIsLove94 2 months ago
and now i'm just the shell...
sweetgingerbreadx3 3 months ago
3 days after my 13th birthday, my life started falling apart.
My mom was diagnosed with Breast Cancer.
My friends started cutting themselves.
My best friend got an eating disorder.
My dad started avoiding me.
My brother started abusing me.
This song gives me a tiny bit of hope to hold on to...
emmabuggxo 3 months ago 2
@emmabuggxo Always keep your head up because its those who've had a hard life that come up on top
krya1887 2 months ago
being 13 was definatly hard, backstabbers, heartbreakers, wrong places at wrong times, "no teachers or guidance", thank you P!nk for explaining what we cant put into words </3
pixiehollowlol 3 months ago
Well ive just turned 13 so wonder if it will be as bad as everyone says, then again 13 is an unlucky number...oh well take life as it comes.
cowjam98 3 months ago
@cowjam98 I found that 13 years into my life has made it turn down a different direction i chose who i was living with i started rebelling and now im STILL 13 and since i turn3ed 13 in August i have gotten in more fights and went to more partys then i have my entire life 13 is that age that we seem to choose the road were going down lets hope yours is good
krya1887 3 months ago
I'm 14, this song...fits me so well....as well as when I was 13...
Not a fun part of life...these early teen years...
2011hellomynameis 3 months ago
The pain of a little girl.. A normal thing for this world. Children learn how to get though it in the hard way. Im 13. I am cold. Life let me be like that. I dont share a tear to anyone. I dont let my feelings hurts me. If youre cold, you survive. Thats my model. But anyway this song describes me from the deep.. the me i always hide...
Fatha281009 3 months ago
Explains me.
RebeccaBlackTroller 3 months ago
She really understands how a 13 year old feels, I'm 13 myself, and when I first heard this song, I almost cried because this is exactly how I feel and it's wonderful to know that someone understands you.
rhiantheninja987 3 months ago 4
i hate being 13... i love this song so much <3 u p!nk
omazing28 4 months ago
I think most of what's hard about being 13 is 7th grade. This is the hardest grade I've ever been in, it sucks and there's nothing you can do about it.
prettygirlswag007 4 months ago
.....Is it OK to still feel like this aged 18? :/ Things have improved dramatically since my horrendous 13-year-old days, but I'm still hurting....
MegaFunsies 4 months ago
@MegaFunsies I can totally relate.. I hated the world when I was 13 and I thought that my life sucked.. Now, 7 years later at 20 I still feel like that
mar91a 4 months ago
We are all different I am 13 and all I have to say is I can relate ....... For me it will always be difficult and I fake thr smiles and laughs and happiness to make sure no one can see me......it is the only way I don't have to deal with other peoples shit! All I am saying is I am who I am and we all are different people think they can relate but they cant
raven21991 4 months ago
@raven21991 omg where have u been all my life finally another person just like me i say the same thing & im 12 my name is kara wow this is awsum lol
MriluvJordanJansen 4 months ago
@MriluvJordanJansen NO WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE !!!!
raven21991 3 months ago
ok guys, we've all been threw these difficult times but expecting ppl to make you better is pointless. I'm not trying to be mean but these ppl here, dont know what you're going threw. Thew think they do but they truely dont. The best they can do is give advise. So please dont get hurt by what ppl say on here. They dont know
pinksfan4ever 4 months ago
I've found that this song can really apply to anybody from 12-19 years old. It doesn't magically get better at 14.
SouthPark4Evea 4 months ago 6
who else can relate?
1997emolove1 4 months ago 3
I sobbed when I heard this because I wish it could be better right now so I wouldn't have to hide my tears.
PeaceLoveIce 4 months ago
who hasnt cried over this one?
123enadiotria 4 months ago 5
I'm 13, this explains my life.
SmilingBobProduction 4 months ago
13 was one of my worst years ever. I hated my life. The next year and on, everything seemed to get better.
Now I'm 16, and my life feels broken again... But I know I can get through it easy.
IkazuchixSasori 4 months ago 35
@IkazuchixSasori you just summed up my life...
LightningStrikes56 3 months ago
@IkazuchixSasori i.m 13 now and my mom thinks she can just buy me a buritto and everything will be better. WELL I'M A F*CHIN VEGITARIAN
number1fattyFU 3 weeks ago 3
I'm 14. When I was 12-13 years old, I hated my life. Now everything is something better than fine. Every one of you out there...remember...everything will get better sooner as you think!!!! Just be yourself and smile! Laugh...Dance...Be happy, even if you are actually not....And someday you will have more happiness that you could ever ask for. Just give it some time......
smoudily 5 months ago
I cry myself to sleep everynight singing this song... I love you pink!
deathskull1100 5 months ago
I turn 14 tomorrow :'(
0141Angel 5 months ago
The instrumental is so powerful, it makes me cry every time :'c When I get back to school, I'm going to suggest this to my concert band teacher-- of course it'll require lots of practice, but for this song I'd be determined.
<333
alg1234567890 5 months ago 2
im 16 and i can sing this to myself when i was 13
sasuke1on1 5 months ago 2
I'm 13 years old now. I wonder what I'll think when I'm older....O_O
DisneyLover022 5 months ago
i wish a me from the future would come back to the past and tell me that everything will work out fine..
cousins4everily2 6 months ago
When I was around thirteen, I fell in love with my best friend. It was then that I realized that I was a lesbian. It was the hardest thing. I thought I was dirty and gross, and my family would hate me, basically drop me off at a christian school to try and "cure" me and never come back. I still haven't told them. I wish I could go back and tell myself to wait, tell myself that those who hate or don't like me just don't know me, or understand me. And "don't try to grow up so fast"
tinagirl1992 6 months ago 64
@tinagirl1992 i felt the same way and i fell in love with my bestfriend than notice how culd i when shes a girl and im a girl then i found out i was bisexual just hang in there
xxwunderfulxx 3 months ago
@xxwunderfulxx Thankx. I'm 19 now, but it's nice to know that I'm not the only one. I've had multiple burns with relationships and hopefuly that perfect person is out there somewhere for me.
tinagirl1992 3 months ago
@tinagirl1992 i have acouple cousins who lesbians and theyre awesome and you wouldn't think they were just tell those haters that they can burn in hell this is my life not yours so stay the hell out
krya1887 3 months ago
@tinagirl1992 That's basically... my story... right now... O-O Wow. Small world.
FrankandJoe3 1 week ago
Story of my fucking life.
DividedEntity 6 months ago 2
this song describes me perfectly (im 13) and then i see that this vid was up on my birthday, and its just all to perfect...
TDG183 6 months ago 2
if you want this video to repeat itself put 'repeat' between tube and .com X3
NarukeUzchihaZexion 6 months ago
P!nk sings about real life. Not shit like alien sex. *Cough, cough* Katy Perry *Cough, cough, cough*
XxGothLolixX 6 months ago in playlist BA Music Mix
Hi, i'm 13 and i'm a terrible friend (well i'm a terrible person to), and i've never kissed a boy, i'm very weird and i'm not popular at all, know it's kinda small problems but i'm heard this song and was wondering if it's worth it. Is it really gonna be any better?
Newyorknoneliver 6 months ago 3
@Newyorknoneliver to answer you: yes. it really does. i was exactly like you when i was 13. except i was a boy. and gay. i had to deal with that on top of being the social outcast. but then you appreciate your friends that much more. believe me, it gets so much better :)
DegratheFallen 6 months ago
@Newyorknoneliver
Well I'm 15 (almost) and it's not like I don't have those problems too.I,as a girl,also haven't kissed a boy and I'm also pretty weird (being into manga,animals and literature;not waring make-up) but don't worry.After only a few years you'll see that there are people in life that will make things worth it.No,the pain won't go away,it'll always be there somewhere,but it will be replaced by happy positive moments that will lock it up and you won't remember it.
shadowwolfcat13 6 months ago 4
@shadowwolfcat13 that is all soo true xx
SallyCharters 6 months ago
@shadowwolfcat13 wow, it's like you can read my mind... your post helped me to just be happy with who i am. And I do hope it'll get better....
TheDudettte 6 months ago
@Newyorknoneliver Yes it will. Teenage years are full of challenges and heartaches. When you rise above it all, it's an indescribable feeling. I can say that now that I'm 23. 13-19 was hell for me. I overcame it. What happened is in the past. And sweetie, I've never kissed a boy either. When you're older and confident, you'll say "Who cares if people don't like me?! It's their problem." There will always be pain but it's how you deal with it all that matters.
danjigirl88 6 months ago
Beautiful Abosolutely Beautiful
ilikesanything1 6 months ago
I love that part in the begin when she sings the word 'heartbroken' when her voice crackes. Usually, that makes a song drown, but that was just perfect. It just fit for her voice to break there. <3
princesshairston 6 months ago 2
I'm 13... This really made me realize who I really am at the moment . . . a shell broken without my friends. But I'll be singing this to myself when I'm older someday. I may at this moment be a shell, but my friends will fix that, I'm sure of it. :}
princesshairston 6 months ago 3
i had no idea this song exsisted until i watched "13 Year Old Me {Finished!}" im really happy i found this song. this song speaks wonders! i love this song
134dancergirl 7 months ago
@134dancergirl thats how i found it too :')xx
SallyCharters 6 months ago
@SallyCharters yay! i love that video!
134dancergirl 6 months ago
@134dancergirl me too :°)x
SallyCharters 6 months ago
@SallyCharters isnt it awesome??? hahaahahah
134dancergirl 6 months ago
@134dancergirl yepx
SallyCharters 6 months ago
I find no words to describe her.She is unique
aidakiful 7 months ago
i love p!ink she is my role model
SuperKeirsten123 7 months ago
I Spend My Life In A Living Hell. this Song Gives Me Hope.
redsoxfan132 7 months ago
Im 13. and I know how you seniors feel.
You sometimes get mistreated from your friends.
and you feel like there's no hope for you guys to keep on.
right now , what Im facing is the worst.
you might think that you see yourself as the same person in grade 6 . but no , you're grown up and changed alot.
sincerely .
any 13 year old .
sayukpopfreak 7 months ago
Almost cry with this...
HopePrincess7 7 months ago
I needed this.
dancingprincess1697 7 months ago
i cried
doodleorme 7 months ago
im 14 and i love this song and my life was like this i was just like this song me and my best friend but a family friend that me and her both know took his life and his note had described his life and he said it was just like this song but he didnt know things would get better and now my life is changed for ever i dont hold on to any anger i just let it all go and enjoy this life because you never know how many days you have left on this earth. Enjoy it(:
letsbehappy4today 7 months ago
@Jenniferx97 stand up for your self u should tell a teacher & so what if they call u a snitch im going to a new school and i will tell a teacher if people keep verbally/physically abusing me and i'll tell my parents dont hide who u r say it proud im jennifer and b who u wanna b dont let people tell u who 2 b ok?
MriluvJordanJansen 7 months ago
@Vampyre like me
MriluvJordanJansen 7 months ago
feels like she is talking to me most of her songs sound like they're about me
MriluvJordanJansen 7 months ago 4
i luv this song so much!
MriluvJordanJansen 7 months ago
pink just speaks the truth..
weehollydolly 7 months ago
I am 15 but I feel like this cuz im lesbian and i dunno how my parents will react on that...
macedonianlezbian 7 months ago
@macedonianlezbian Its nothing to be ashamed of x
0141Angel 7 months ago
Feels like Pink is talking to me.
galaxybabecute 7 months ago 2
i want a hug from P!nk REALLY bad. I love you P!nk
pinksfan4ever 7 months ago
FML
meghanmccumbers1998 7 months ago
Conversation with my 14 year old self. I still feel this way most of the time. 13 was one hell of a year. I just wish I found this before I turned 14.
Vampyre97 7 months ago
@Vampyre97 it doesn't matter how old you are, what matters is the meaning of the song. It's meant for all those who feel this way.
iluvchoclate001 7 months ago
p!nk had such a hard life , and its amazing how she has come to be so famous.
mooniedaisy 8 months ago
im 13 and i agree with this song i have moved from the school i have been at since i was 5 lost all my friends school is harder theres more drama i think my boyfriend hates my guts but i love him so much and i have no
pjhsband11 8 months ago
im 13 and i just got busted for smoking. i feel so bad for hurting my mom.
But this song describes everyday in my life.
sasmsung951 8 months ago
I love this song. Not the stuff I usually listen to, but it's really good. The lyrics give me a feeling...I don't know what feeling...They don't apply to me, but I know they apply to a lot of people out there. For these people: just stay strong! It will get better in time!
XChocolateCuttieX 8 months ago
This is why I love P!NK-> she sings about real life not fantasy! Her songs talk about growing up, loving yourself the way you are and getting by in life WITHOUT needing a boyfriend! :)
P!NK is my role model! <3
GO P!NK YOU ROCK!!!!
sokkacool 8 months ago 63
I ALWAYS cry when I listen to this song
GhostKitten92 8 months ago
well i'm 16 now but i feel terrible when i listen to this even now... when you're teenager it doesn't matter if you're 13 or 14 or 15... u just feel like trush... i just wanna wake up and be 18... only then i will leave my life the way i wanna and only then i will be happy... just 2 years more... i can wait... i'm waiting so much years... and u girls who are reading to this just have hope and everything will work out fine...:)
tralalaVacw 8 months ago 2
EVERYONE, i promise it will be ok. I was just like you, but i promise it turns out ok in the end. please, know that it will be ok, nothing is your fault.
i love you, no matter who you are. <3
chichiLovesAleco 8 months ago 3
I am not alone! :')
MissyDiomand13 8 months ago
Im 13 <3
Caty123Caty 8 months ago
This song made my cry... It reflects on so much that I've been feeling. So much pain in life we could do w/o.... The love woes, the friends, I've been through them a lot.. But I'll always smile through my tears and be a little optimistic. I mean, we're still young.
mysterygxp 9 months ago
This song is about loving yourself and learn that life keeps going on, despite all the pain we might feel. She is talking to her 13 year-old self, telling her that there's someone who loves her: a mature, stronger version of herself.
Love this song.
Shinuze 9 months ago
p!nk <3
acirne9 9 months ago
this is a sad song...
Adnilrocks101 9 months ago
@indefenseofourdream :) smile :D I'm thirteen too, and the only thing you can do is SMILE and let those people know that they can't hurt you, no matter what they say... My best friend just slapped me yesterday... It hurts, but u get over it... :) so SMILE... just remember, U R BEAUTIFUL! and the person who loves u more than anyone else in the world, is walking this planet right now, feeling a ssad and lonely as you are. And one day, its all gonna be better. :D
rglsiscool 9 months ago
i'm 18 right now, but i remember being 13 and listening to this song over and over and over again.
anime4u1999 9 months ago
13 was hard. But everything basically smooths down by highschool
GardenGrenade 9 months ago
this song has helped me so much .. when your 13 you don't see what life can bring you... i was 13 when i walked i away from home and wanted to play suicide my mom found the letter i wrote and came after me and was hartbroken that i cried for hours in her hands... sometimes does feelings come back buth when you get older you learn to handle those feeling better and try 2 enjoy little things and live your live...
lurlingsukkeltje 9 months ago
I turned 13 about 3 months ago. My life changed when i was 12, but i swear i'm glad to know that i'm not the only one who is going though this; growing up. Right now I don't care who you are; Over weight, skinny, color of skin, short/tall, bisexual, gay, or whatever! All I wanna say is whatever your story is... I'm here for you guys and always will.<3
TheBunnehBear 9 months ago 2
This song gives me chills, especially @3:13
foolsivorywings 9 months ago
even though i didnt have anyone when i was 13 and it gave me serous issues when it came to feeling good about myself (to the point i used to puke out ALL my meals and sometimes i still do) i know theres no point giving up. like pinks other song fucking perfect i may be screwed up but life goes on and i'm perfect only for myself. in the end thats all that matters btw if youre 16 listen to 16 at war
GettingDeleted 9 months ago
i used to be 13. i'm turning 18 this year and although i wish i could say things change and get better its not always true. i can say though that at 13 this is EXACTLY how i was as well and even though my lifes not perfect i know that it gets worse if you let yourself trip and stray i was never pretty ether and i was the fattest of my friends as well until i stopped feeling sorry for myself and did something about it. this song is such an inspiration because it shows us we aren't alone anymore
GettingDeleted 9 months ago
I'm thirteen, and this song just is making me cry so much! Everything she's said applies to me. I have friends, but they're all so beautiful and I'm so fat! I've been through so much drama this year, my best friend/boyfriend hates me for no reason, and I don't have anyone who cares. No one understands! I just keep my smile on because I have to be strong, everyone expects this from me! And this song did NOT make me feel better about myself. If anything, I hate myself even more now!
RachelBeatlesLove13 9 months ago
Im 16 .... N i still feel the same :S
thelilshoosh 9 months ago
there is always someone worse of then you. i feel sorry thats life is crapper then everyone elss though
confuzedbutknowing95 9 months ago
Goosebumps!
Brittneyxoxoxox 9 months ago
This song is all to real about what is happening to me right now,and then some.
DifferentTypeOfTeen 9 months ago
im 21 i was depressed suicidal insecure etc as a teen, but if i can survive any one can, i wish all you teens listeninig to this well
BananaSandwich1 9 months ago
To everyone who is having a rough time. It may not seem like it right now, but things do get better. I'm 18 right now. I've got so much shit going on, but I try not to let it bother me. Just think about this. P!nk got through it, so can we.
TomasJames93 10 months ago 3
WTF?!?!? WHY ISN'T THIS MORE POPULAR? EVERYONE, NOT JUST GIRLS, HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS.
CrisyMarie3 10 months ago
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kcels2 10 months ago
STORY OF MY LIFE THREE YEARS AGO..
lateisha141414 10 months ago
OMG whyyy didin't i find this song when I was 13...would have helped me soo much </3
xoxoThickgirlxoxo 10 months ago 3
Listening to this one last time before I turn 14 in several hours. This year, man. That's all I'm gonna say.
LovinJoeJonas1989 10 months ago
Chills through the whole song, love you pink(:
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Newyorknoneliver 10 months ago
I'm 16 now and I can honestly say that this song reflects exactly how I felt when I was 13 xD Even now, three years later, I can see how I took everything so negatively and how it wasn't really all that bad. It kinda sucks that teenagers are so hormonal and affected by what goes on around them, I wish that this whole period of self hatred and 'life sucks' could just be eliminated from our life, but it makes us who we are, so I guess it's not all bad.
imaginationroxmysox 10 months ago
@imaginationroxmysox I agree with you I'm 12 and I'm turning 13 in a couple of weeks and honestly I always kept telling myself how I hate my life and how I hate myself and how I look. Since I'm a diabetic it's worse I: Sometimes I would wanna kill myself or cut myself and I feel like I'm in a colorless prison. Honestly I hate this stage sometimes i think 'If this is what it feels like turning 13 then I wanna be 14 already so I can escape from this shit'
LifeOfMarissaPetal 10 months ago
I'm fourteen now and, looking back at last year, things weren't as bad as they seemed at the time. I'm sure that when I'm fifteen, this year won't seem so bad either. Basically, what I'm saying is, stay strong, the sun will come out tomorrow, and never lose sight of what's important. Only change things about yourself for you, not for anyone else.
TheYuriFreak 10 months ago
basically being a teen seems so screwy for any girl. the fairytale loves you think you have will end. but there is only one relationship that works out for everyone. PMS you eventually find to be a great excuse for being a bitch and eating loads of calories:P but every girl needs to stay strong. no matter how many problems you have make the best of your life dont dwell on the past dont regret anything just live your like to the fullest.!
11youcheekymonkey83 10 months ago
Im fifteen, and all these people watching this and thinking "my life sucks" BELIEVE me. It will get better. Right now your thinking on the recent things or the things that have happened and hurt you in the past, but think to the future and how you can make it be a hella lot better. and YES, i still PMS big time and wish i werent alive either. e___e every girl does.
thisallie 10 months ago
@19peaches94 Although i did say all that comforting stuff to her, which i meant. I still agree with your comment. People think having no friends and not liking school real problems.The amount of shit that i have been through, and im still going through in my life is fucking crazy. And people still tell me that i need to get over myself and only complain when i have 'real' problems. As you said, everyone! Goes through the problems she mentioned.
UzedChemicalzz 10 months ago
I love pink she sings about how everyone feels x
onedirectionfanx1 10 months ago
I'm almost 16, and I still feel this way. Society sucks
ssj4gogeta0 10 months ago
WOW THIS IS THE MOST DEPRESSING SONG EVA!!! its also my lyrical song 4 dance. sigh. cant wait till im 13!!!
Dancerchick10210 10 months ago
@indefenseofourdream honey, I'm fifteen right now and my life has already gotten better. Trust me, when I was 13- my life was the hardest than ever before. My uncle died, everyone in school found out I was gay, my aunt disowned me, and my mom got very sick. But, two years later, I'm in a better place. I promise you things will get better.
If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here to listen hun.
aelita0hopper0 10 months ago
@aelita0hopper0 im only 11 n my mother died when i was 9. i was abbused by my stepfather n stepmother. n now im with my aunt. when does my life get better?????
bridgemunky731 10 months ago
@bridgemunky731 Well, how does your aunt treat you?Also, on top of this- I know it seems like a long time but when you become 18 you can get away from it all. My dad and I have an unhealthy relationship- it's along the lines of we don't understand each other and we fight a lot. I know I'm not abused- and I sincerely wish I could take the pain away from you. But, I want you to know that no matter what things will get better dear. Just give it some time, alright hun? I'm sorry that's all I can say
aelita0hopper0 10 months ago
@aelita0hopper0 she treats me good. i get to move in with my blood father so im good. lol mkk thanks(:
bridgemunky731 10 months ago
i want to cry so much. every night. i'm thirteen at the moment, and this has been the most dramatic year of my life. ive lost friends, i've fallen hard in love, watching the love of my life walk past me and never noticing me once. i'm the fattest of my friends. i honestly think i'm the ugliest person out there. sigh. i wish all of it would end.
indefenseofourdream 11 months ago 67
@indefenseofourdream it will. i promise. pink promises XD
EdenSwisa 11 months ago
@indefenseofourdream You've got plenty of years ahead of you in which you can make new friends, fall in love all over again, lose weight, and you think you're ugly? I bet you're absolutely beautiful, but if you still say you're not, people often get more attractive as their bodies mature. :) Oh, and in the future, it's you who will be doing the walking...The new love of you life will watch you walk down the aisle towards him, he won't be walking past you at all. :)
UzedChemicalzz 10 months ago
@indefenseofourdream be my friend? :/ i think we might just have a lot in common...
katypuddifoot 10 months ago