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  • u r so cute...boo....do u

  • @trinabaxter1989 Well thank you!!

  • Mad props to you kind sir. I wish I could do that but I'm scared to death. I sometimes hate myself for these feelings and attractions I can't help. I didn't ask for them, they just are there. No one chooses to have these feelings I think. I'm scared of what family and friends will say or do if I say something. You're awesome for being bold and honest about who yu are. (You're super cute by the way....lol. If you've got a beau they're real lucky)

  • You inspire me, keep strong oh and btw u are very handsome.

  • i love this video because you look just like my bf. your integrity and your honesty comes through in the glow of your personality and your smile. i wish you love and happiness..

  • @nextmind Wow, thank you so much, and I wish you the same!!

  • Beautiful story! when more parents of gays realize their not losing a child, but

    the only difference is that the son or daughter just happen to be attracted to the same Sex.

    Whats so tradgic or shocking about that.

  • @globehunter2 Exactly man, that's what I'm saying...Were the same person!! And thanks for the comment and watching!

  • @crossworlds1 Your welcomed my handsome brother! my mother accepted

    me for being who I am as a gay man too. Glad your mother finally realized

    you were not a bad person or criminal for being Gay. Take care

  • i bet ur dick would hurt the guy no offence but like 4rel ur black

  • respect from Amsterdam dude! You're a cool, calm dude who knows what your talking about..

  • @MultiJoshua911 Thank you dude, I  respect that.

  • smh its such a fresh air to see gay coming out stories from us black ppl. been tired of seeing only white gays all over youtube i mean no hard feelings to white ppl but i wish there was more gay ppl from other races out there more visibility

  • @thugz00 Thank you bro!!!

  • @thugz00 Don't wish things like that....

  • @Crime998 and why not?

  • Thank you so much for posting this. I remember my first time coming out, It's hard. Keep on inspiring people.

  • @CROSSROADS: I am not against you, but all I want you to know is that Jesus saves and He is way more bigger than you think, challange Him and you'll see what change he will make in your life and very soon, you will make a video to share your testamony with all the youtubers, God bless you my friend and may God be with you!

  • @Baybeeka16 Thank you so much, and god bless!!!

  • C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S you are gay and you should always be proud of who you are,you are not the only one who is gay..............

    Merry Christmas,please set aside time to view all of my videos and comment on them. find me on face book and maybe we can chat.

  • @TheGoldenEyedboy Thanks for watching my video!!!

  • @crossworlds1 you are very welcome just be sure to visit my page and watch my videos of my feet

  • Congrats on your comin gout because most black males be on the down Low and have grls looking crazy....

  • Lol i love these videos one day i watched like 20 of them and told my mom but she like freaked out and i got ignored by them for 2 weeks then i had to lie and say i wasnt which is stupid that they believe it cuz they check my computer and well saw stuff lol

  • It was funny how your mom was like why didn't you tell me, and you were like well you aren't really the easiest person to tell. I'm glad she came around in the end! Thanks for sharing your story!

  • Fuck no he's gonna be my boy friend not yours

    Right babyy?;)

  • @patoteto2 lol this is not a fight! you sound desperate lol

  • Boy, you need to be my boyfriend! lol you are cute message me :-)

  • aha kinda cute story, if that's you then keep it real...and that's just what yu did GOOD LUCK!!!

  • you are too cute ot be gay, bt anyways.. i guess!

  • @MsRachelRaee Hahaha thanks lol

  • You are very cute! :)

  • I bet your parents a proud the raised a pole smoking homo.

  • @Boog2200 They sure are dude...what are your parents proud of ....it can't be because your a complete jerk...sounds to me that you smoke pole better then me, because you watched my video, but thanks for watching, your great!!!!

  • @crossworlds1 Yu betta say dat lmao! .......... Yessss he's a jerk & your response had me gaggin lmao!

  • @Boog2200 They sure are dude...what are your parents proud of ....it can't be because your a complete jerk...sounds to me that you smoke pole better then me, because you watched my video, but thanks for watching, your great!!!!

  • @Boog2200 LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • Congrats

  • It's sad to hear how your mom reacted, but I'm glad that your parents still love you for who you are. =)

  • fag

  • OMG!HES CUTE TOO BE GAY

    BUT DNT NOBODY WANNa Here yo personal life like meeetin a DUDE

  • How's it going, crossworlds1? Just wanted to say your vid's an inspiration dude. I'm also a blk guy, thinking about coming out to my mom. My dad's passed on, so thankfully i don't have worry about him. I pretty much know how my mom feels about being gay in general, I just don't know how she'd feel about her son being gay. I'm hoping to find the courage to tell her one day in the near future. But yeah... enjoyed the vid man.

  • @PrettyShamma because if you were to teach a newborn born without arms that having no arms was a sin,its wrong, have your peers and family members make slurs when they see other people alike theres an obvious reason as to why people have a hard time admitting it. its also because when people come out, EVERYONE judges them. i hate when people say that gay people are fake because they waited all of this time to come out.Its because of people like YOU that they stay in.

  • @PrettyShamma you know when ppl have that mentallity that you have it makes it soooo much harder for the gay persons around you to feel comfortable with themselves. that thinking causes gay children to develop self hating mentalities, abusive behaviour, putting themselves at risk to health, sexual and predatory issues.

    i hope you really do have nothin against gay people for the sake of one day you possibly having kids.

  • @PrettyShamma is because were scared of getting kicked out of our homes,bullied,killed .! Just answered you question.!

  • It's nice to see a black man coming out story on youtube. And I added black cause it's not everyday you will see one. My family is disgusted by gays but I don't give a fuck. Some accept it while others do not. Well anyway it was a nice story and you are very cute btw.

  • @ItzDatGuyJ Thank you very much, Yeah that is true man, some people accept it and some don't, my moms side of the family look at me as a disgust, I don't give a fuck as well lol, wow I made the coming out story when I was 18, I'm turning 21 lol, I should make another video...Thanks for the complement too!!! :)

  • smdh...thats all i got to say.

  • Hahaah, thanks :)

  • I LOVE GAY PEOPLE BUT I ANT GAY BY FAR

  • @2011THICKandJUICY Hahahaha thanks :)

  • gay wing-mans are the best

  • why do you have to be gay causee niqqa you ihs fine as fuck

  • its usually the mom thats understanding nd the dad thats not.

  • WHY ISZ EVERY HELLAH BOMB BLACK BOY EITHA GAY OR TAKEN..?! Ohh Well I'm Happy Fa You Hun..(:

  • Omgosh my mom acts the same way about gay ppl and im gay...and im 15 and black too so yeah but nice video man :)

  • Keep strong <3

  • I rate you for that. hard times tho i bet.

  • Well Honesty Is The Best Way. ! = ) (Nicee Story)

  • As long as you love and understand yourself is all that matters.

  • @xIAZAZIx HUH? Well....you took time to watch my video, thanks :)

  • @crossworlds1 aye mann keep ya head

  • Thanks for posting this. I came out to my parents at 21 and didn't regret it and never looked back. A famous writer wrote "There is survival in visability." Thanks again.

  • Crossworlds1: I wonder whether we could start corresponding by e-mail? I like your video, esp your mother's reaction...not to mention your dad's! It's not often that I can talk to a Black guy like yourself. no obligation at all! my e-mail is pie.score@yahoo.ca

    Thanks. Peter.

  • Thanks for your reply! I phoned "Vincent" just yesterday.He's Black. I've never told him because I don't want to lose him as a loyal friend. In 1993 I revisited the island. He told me two things about being a father: "The greatest thing a woman can give you is a child," & "Every brick I pick up is for my son." We met; he was 18, me 39 in 1978. He was a boxer; lost his 1st fight! I kid him! It's been 18 years I have not seen him! We phone! I live in a "White Getto" xD in Canada. I miss Blacks!

  • i have the same coming out story as you :)

  • @mimbis18 That's so awesome man, love to hear yours!!! =)

  • I'm a Catholic priest. And gay, but non-practicing! I like myself. My only regret was that I didn't tell my mother. I was afraid and I thought she would be so disappointed. But I use my gayness to help strait people because, paradoxically, I have a real compassion for them. Yes, I love myself; I like being myself! I really liked your video and your personality. I like Blacks because they tell me things no White has told me. I like the difference. My Black friends are special in my eyes. Thanks!

  • @watchful38 Thank you so much, that's really good that you like yourself, that's a great way to live life, always love yourself. Me and you would get alone well, I really like my white friends!!!!

  • im not gay, but i think gay people are awesome!

  • @beastaboy100 I'm glad you feel that way, not much straight people do ;)

  • I feel sorry for gays but I don't think in a patronizing manner in the sense that heterosexuality is already pretty complicated and because gay people will have to face a lot of prejudices. I don't think that people should define themselves uniquely by their sexual preferences either. I also know several gay women who seem to become lesbian by default. Freud's theories of fear of difference might be correct but no-one really knows for sure.Anyway all the best young man may you have a great life!

  • @satchelthief Wow man

  • @satchelthief do you mean you fucked him?

  • @satchelthief or do you mean you beat him ?

  • You are welcome sexy!!

  • Very handsome young man. Someone I would date.

  • @OneNU2009 Thank you for the complement =)

  • I'm a childless (so far, anyway) bi guy. I'd be proud to have u for a son. U're certainly not only very handsome, but personable, and, seemingly, both quite sensitive and intelligent. What's not to love!? Best wishes always...

  • @MCP2012 tHANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! 

  • Dang, you dont even seem gay, dude r u sure?

  • Your dad sounds cool coz he realises that having more grandchildren [if you was straight] would make him age faster with all the worry that dads worry about. Your mom may be thinking the same thing to. lol

    Never forget that your mom is your best friend! ;-)

  • @SteeveeStrange  Hahah, yeah I know right, that's exactly what they are thinking lol. Yeah my dad is really cool!! Thanks for watching.

  • you're a cutie =)) gay is normal, god loves gays :)

  • thank you so much.

    your heart came out in those words and touched mine.

    got moved to tears right here in front of a computer in the kitchen. (!)

    so thank you. i wish you all the best in life, love and happiness.

  • @potopototenzu Your very welcome, I'm glad you really enjoyed my video!!!

  • you dont sound gay by any means. but your definitly a looker lol

  • @strapason Thanks man ^_^  !!!!!!!!!

  • gay black guys are cute... just sayin

  • @XxSceneHavokJonasxX Hehehe, thanks ^_^ !!!

  • @northllstr....and yess heaven is guaranteed to those who do so...but no1 dose no1 follows 100% in his ways like i said every1 sins this and ur right we shuld try not 2 but we do and im sure u have a sin that u carry with u everyday jus like i do and guess what we all have 2 live 4 ourselfs and will all be judged separately...so there is a point believe'n that u will be 4givin will that day cums throughout all the wrong u've done

  • @PuDouBLes I know its not easy by any means.Trust me,Im not sayin otherwise.Athough I have pointed out the biblical view here,I dont hate or think Im any better than a homosexual.

  • @northllstr...Caps dosnt mean anything that was merely an assumption but newho...how so were jus merely wanting what is giving 2 heterosexual people everyday movies,marriage etc...and also no1 makes any1 do anything u dont have 2 view this things jus like u didnt have 2 view this video..if every1 in this world stop'd doing what made sum1 uncomfortable there wuld be no individuality the world probably wouldn't even not exist...and sexuality has none 2 do with ur morals...

  • @PuDouBLes ..we arent influenced by what we allow ourselves to see,or listen to,is bunk.

    I know there are certain things I have at one time I viewed as immoral,(like swearing,as example)..I worked in a factory at one time,and I swore the odd time,the worst word may have been shit or the "f" word.As the first 2 years wore on,I was cursing everything that moved,grabbing my bag like M jackson,tossing around sex jokes,you name it..I could keep up with the filthiest of 'em.(Ive long since changed)

  • @PuDouBLes If caps mean nothin,then what was your intention typing out a paragraph full of them?

    WAS IT AN ACCIDENT?I GUESS THAT CAPS DO LOOK COOL,YOUR RIGHT.I THINK I WILL POST LIKE THIS FROM NOW ON!

  • @northllstr...........Ummm well if thats if thats the case as 2 what u wrote me then why is it that homosexuals get the most judgement and grief u shuldnt be worried about the next persons sins cuz we all sin everyday shuld focus on yourself and where u will be going after this life bcuz heaven is guaranteed 2 no1 and we can all be 4givin so i thank u 4 ur opinon but there is wayyy worst things out there like world hunger and ppl dying 4 it 2 b so much grief on who someone chooses 2 love!!!thnx

  • @PuDouBLes ..Its not that I attack homosexuals,but that I defend heterosexuals..they attack heterosexual values and promote their lifestyle,wanting everyone to accept it.Gay marriage,in films,through music,its like its pushed on us..what about morals?And sure,we all sin,but shouldent we try to avoid doing so?

    Heaven is guaranteed to those who accept the Lord and follow his ways,if this was not the case then why bother serving God at all?No point,right?

  • TOO ALL THESE PEOPLE REFERRING 2 GOD OR ANY SORT OF RELIGIOUS THING ABOUT THIS VIDEO 1ST NEEDS 2 CHEQ THEMSELFS BCUZ THE LORD ALSO SAYS NO1 IS 2 JUDGE..AND ITS ABSOLUTELY GR8 U TOLD UR MOMZ ITS NOTHING BETTER THAN A MOTHERS SUPPORT IN UR DECISION NO MATTER WHAT IT IS.....MUCH LOVE KYDD!!!!!!!!!!

  • @PuDouBLes Wow, thanks!!! ^_^

  • @PuDouBLes Christians are often accused of "judging" whenever they speak out against a sinful activity. However, that is not the meaning of the Scripture verses that state, "Do not judge." There is a righteous kind of judgment we are supposed to exercise—with careful discernment (John 7:24). When Jesus told us not to judge (Matthew 7:1), He was telling us not to judge hypocritically.

  • You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye." What Jesus was condemning here was hypocritical, self-righteous judgments of others.

    with great patience and careful instruction." We are to "judge" sin, but always with the goal of presenting the solution for sin and its consequences—the Lord Jesus Christ (John 14:6).

  • @PuDouBLes P.S...I hate caps.Do you realize that it means your literally yelling at the top of your lungs?

    If someone says something and you do not agree do you shout as loud as you can into their face trying to make your point?I didnt think so....Dont be offended by this please,if I were you and I was reading this,I would be thankful someone cared enough to point this out to me,instead of looking like an arse every time I post yelling my point accross.

  • @SunCaniglia agreed! ^_^

  • Awesome Story... Keep your head up and stay strong. Being Gay in the black community in a really hard thing. I hope if my son has to come to me one day he knows that I would be accepting.

  • may God have mercy on your soul.

  • @northllstr  Ummm....THANKS...I guess

  • Do you have a facebook?

  • dude your awesome

  • at 0:44 it blanks out watch it!what the (beep)happened

  • damn gay black people are sooo cute!

  • GHEY PPL R SCUM! M4Y ALLAH KEEL U WIF F1R3 F4GGIT!

  • @TheHomophobicOtaku OKAY. TALK ENGLISH FIRST THEN COMMENT PLEASE, DID SOMEONE FORCE YOU TOO WATCH A VIDEO THAT SAYS GAY COMING OUT, JUST COME OUT ALREADY AND STOP TRYING TO MAKE EVERYONE'S LIFE HELL!!!!!

  • @crossworlds1 I'M STR8 F4GGIT!

  • @TheHomophobicOtaku What ever floats your boat man, but get off mines.

  • Damn but you so cute thoughhh! be prouddd honeyy!

  • im glad ya mom understood! x gd luck u seem like a wise young man

  • im glad ya mom understood! xxx

  • i aint gay but if i was yo friend i probably still chill wit ya bruh...good for ya tho

  • @jmoneyboy08 Thanks bro, that means a lot!!!

  • My father who fought in the Navy in WW2 spent 15 years telling me how much my house needed a woman, and it broke my heart that it'd break his if I told him I was gay, and he died not knowing. You did what alot of us never got the chance to do - that makes you a hell of alot of a man in my opinion. Best wishes in all you do.

  • @WWU1979 You know it makes you a man as well to even confess to that and how it makes you feel, and he knows because he's watching you, and I bet he's not broken hearted, because I'm pretty sure he loved you, and thank you, best wishes to you as well my friend!! :))

  • hey thanks for sharing that... good luck in life.

  • @andrewrocks10 No prob, and good luck to you as well, hope everythings well!!

  • You are such an admirable young man, admirable and so very, very impressive. Congrats on having come out to your family. Each and every one of us who have come out to family understand and empathize with you over that frightening and uninsurable moment when we utter out loud those irretrievable words to a parent -- I am gay. Great good luck!!!

  • @pikebishop09 Thank you so much, good luck to you

  • you sexy ummm

  • awww..thats niice

  • u r so damn brave for this!! i admire u hun!!

  • @tylerthecool6 GROW UP, and go watch someone elses video

  • @tylerthecool6 Haha you obviously are interested in "liking penis in the butt" if you WATCHED THE FUCKING VIDEO TITLED MY GAY COMING OUT STORY!

    Considering that you have the IQ of a sewer rat, as an outsider what do you think of the human race? But hey, I'd like to help you out, which way did you FUCKING come in?

  • @Robin360

    ha i like that which way did you come in joke

  • man you really break the stereoptype, hah, but for real i cant imagine having to go through that. Good luck to ya man.

  • @MisterMinnesota HAHA, Wow thank you, I go through it but it's not bad, it's really gotten easier!!! :)

  • Every time I see so handsome, masculine and sweet gay guys like you, wow I feel happy and I feel good and give me hope to one day find someone like you. Thanks for your video!! I told my parents last year at age of 29, it was very hard as well. Relieved all that is gone.

  • @FABIANOGLOVES Thank you so much, you just made my day, No it's people like you that make me smile!!!

  • @FABIANOGLOVES I'm also very excited that you told your parents, I bet you feel free!!!!

    :)

  • Every time I see so handsome, masculine and sweet gay guys like you, wow I feel happy and I feel good and give me hope to one day find someone like you. Thanks for your video!!

  • wow, i would never expect you to be gay cos you're very masculine

  • @qawserftgyuh Hahaah, yeah I get that a lot lol :)

  • At least ur mom accept u. Sum of my family members dont rely accept me 4 who I am.

  • great video man, but for some reason you don't remind me of a gay... my brother is gay and he has a gayish face but you don't, but your lucky that your dad didn't kill you cause my dad nearly killed my brother (my dads arabic that explains why haha) but i do love gays though it confuses me how they can't like girls like kim kardashian and adrianna lima (sexyy)

  • arghhh! Your Gorgeous! =( ! So Handsome it's untrue! It's ashame that gay people have to have a coming out story. Straight people dont have to have a coming out story eurghh! You brave as hell!

  • @xMiNAxMiNAx Thanks for the complement, I never really thought about straight people have a story lol haha

  • (cry) y u got to be gay man...am tell u knw if u wasnt i would it u up like a cupcake fresh out da oven

  • @dehiso1 HAHAH Thanks

  • I kno my parents would kick me out. You really are brave to risk that man.

  • damn bruhbruh i feel u....u from here man..

  • lol this was a cute story and i like it, also your cute yourself........

    but you should hear my coming out story cuz its a little crazy but idk ppl may like it lol

    but keep up the good work

  • @FernandoSoto16 thank you so much, and will check out your coming out story to, take care.

  • you look too good to be gay. but your a brave man lol <3 God Bless.

  • @bonitafierce I've been told lol, your really pretty girl.

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  • Aww you're a sexy mother'fucka.

    marry me??

  • @xdeeshaax  AHAHAHH, lol Thanks

  • @crossworlds1 are you bi by any chance?

  • you cyuuuute!

  • You're a sweety. Thank you for sharing.

  • @steelepixie Your so welcome STEELEPIXIE

  • dayum u sexxy

  • @rzero890 Thank you

  • awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww­wwwwwwwwwwwww

  • ^_^ you're soo cute! :) I love your story, you were really brave!

  • AWWWW...Thats right...Im your momma thats how it should be

  • @Nenapeach , I know, your so right about that