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  • Pretty much everything related to energy is deadly serious matter. I don't dismiss some point of view because it is "new age" or in conflict with psychology and other cognitive sciences. I don't have any reason to question the sincerity of Dr. Judith either, but be careful: ego can make you believe that you are "special" when in fact you are just weak. An empty life can make you "sensitive", and human traits become "negative". The solution is never run away in despise of others. We are all one.

  • I identify with this but I'm also thinking, aren't we all, as human beings, sensitive?

  • Thank you for this short video. Like you I find crowds (depending on the location) can be overwhelming. I not only pick up energy from others but also can feel if they are ill. Just standing in line in a grocery store behind someone with negative energy has made me tired. At 46 I am still working on this. Knowing that other people experience the same things, crave alone time etc is very helpful. Namaste

  • i've always thought I was an empath but never knew much about it, just started seeing a new therapist (after many years of therapists who didn't get me at all) and after 15 min. she told me to check out Dr. Judith Orloff on youtube and I am already blown away at the thought that someone else out there understands exactly what I'm feeling every day, I'm 32 and finally realizing I'm not alone! I wish there was a weekly group meeting for this.

  • thank you!so much x

  • i cant even go in the supermarket anymore, the lights alone make me wilt like a dying flower. they sting my eyes, the chemicals give me a headache, the people make me cringe, the poor excuses called food make me feel sick. the queuing checkout process bores me to tears. its all so tough in this chemical toxic whirlpool of negative stagnant energy.

    and yes i do psychic protection techniques x100..

  • Good video. I am an empath and Medium. If you would like to check out my vids, feel free to subscribe as there is a contest for a free reading.

  • All this resonates with me. Thank you, Judith.

  • I don't become exhausted, I become angry and want to lash out towards my significant other. This only happens when we have sex, then the next couple days I feel though as if she better stay away from me for a couple days. All I see is darkness in her, I'm not able to see light in her, I've tried and get this anger in return. I really don't like when she forgets to remember, my space is my space or she interrupts me when I'm meditating, she cares less about keeping the balance. I get overwhelmed.

  • brilliant advice - will use it when my soul-sucking selfish 'pal' repeats herself for the 79th time about her boyfriend.! Will give her 0- 3mins on the subject then TIME-OUT. over, no more. take it or leave it. Thank you.

  • i never really got why people immediately and ignorantly dismiss such things like this, saying "thats not possible". Meanwhile, were all on a huge biological spaceship thats spinning around this huge fiery gas ball in the middle of nowhere..... how's that possible?

  • I understand totally.

  • This video is so me! Especially the part about getting out of places quickly. I'm known for randomly leaving on nights out my own and like to know how I can get home. Also the part about absorbing others negative energy, I work with a few folk who leave me feeling uneasy about myself and drained even though their words aren't directed at me. I hate incessant talking and clocks ticking. My place to escape for quiet is in a country park. I often feel the need to be in fresh (open) air :)

  • You need to do protective meditations for yourself and wearing Ametist helps a lot too,walking by the water cleans you from the negative enrgy as well.But reallyworks best is to go out to nature :)

  • Haha.. I took her advice, listening to this crap.. But breathing out does not make it any less stupid.. Sorry! :p

  • I hope for all of mankind that we can learn to understand that we won't ever truly understand everything and to approach others with kindness and compassion. This message board is disheartening. Its the freaking internet, go watch something that interests you and spread your positivity rather than attacking others for what they believe in.

  • @janelletw well spoken, friend.

  • omggg!!! i've been doing these things without knowing!!! yayy!

  • This is what i have and i cant control it. I was at work and my boss was reading out a suspension letter i was fine at first but as i starting talking i started crying and i cant control it as much as I'd like to even though I've done nothing wrong. If something is directed at me negatively i feel very emotional and its only when i start talking that i cry but i do fight it when i don't say anything and just swallow the emotion if that makes sense.

  • I've experienced all of what she said, the discomfort in crowds, being able to smell things other's can't, intolerance of loud voices and so on. I love being alone, it's the only time I feel myself, and feel peaceful. I can stay in a bar for just so long, then suddenly I HAVE to leave! I wanted to add, I feel that we can be sensitive not only to living beings around us, but to those beings we cannot see, as well (ghosts). I do meditate, and spend alot of time alone.

  • @grannynara I'm the same way. It can be hell.

  • Hi judith.You know,,your very close to truth in your ideology.If you could just allow someone to stear you into a direction that would help you make sense of what you know already.We live in a world FULL of spiritual influence.When we become influenced by certain spirits we seem to get steared into a strange direction and lose footing.But it can be regained if we have a more complete understanding of what reality is about.We live in a sea of spiritual influence.Have you ever picked up the Bible?

  • wow, I've been told I'm crazy , by a guy....yeah right.........Thanks for sharing , very helpful!

  • I have several of these signs. Wow, it's nice to know what is happening...oh the chatter of my daughter drains me. I love being alone with my own thoughts!!! I do like having my own car. I do need to be alone to recharge.

  • Judith ....Has...changed my mind towards Psychiatry. a Psychiatrist with

    a Soul....and with Soul...from a Highly Intuitive Empath...Composer/Guitarist/Ar­t Director/ Meta Poet ...Blessings of Harmony!!! Roger Klosterman......Wholeness, Love, Light..

  • @useeunext2uesday yes it would include those numbers. each of those numbers would appear once.

  • During my kundalini awakening I was absorbing energy like wildfire, and could feel it in the room when I'd first walk in. It was unfortunate because I was thrown into a psychiatric ward when my entire class was laughing at me for a response I made about the great depression... "People are a lot like pennies." hahahaha the whole room cracked up laughing in my AP history 2 class. It was terrible. I was tortured. I am going to write a book about this, but I need help liberating myself from others.

  • @mikeweckstein I hope you have since come to realize that people are not like pennies. you should not treat another human being like a penny.

  • @pistraurder Noooooooooooooooooo. That's not what I'm saying. What I mean, is that is how people WERE being treated during the great depression. But... I would never! It is just an advanced metaphor I was using in depth and of explanation and I am not ever going to treat anyone like a penny. That sounds so stupid hearing a response telling me not to treat other people like pennies. You didn't even have to bother telling me that. I'm going to go eat ice cream now. Bye.

  • @useeunext2uesday Yes mine contains 5 and 8........why do you ask that, thank you

  • Thahk you! I am an empath.

  • this is totally me, every aspect. i've been thinking about meditation

    omg drama queen, overtalker.......i get hit with all that at work. i can feel the flow when someone gets close to me. i can't help but absorb their energy like a sponge but somehow it ends up draining me.....i need more positive people so we can share the positive stuff!

  • @tastedabjful he probably just writes a perscription filled with chemicals

  • Energy exists. And it's the same for me. I feel and pick up other's energy. But if you Study Human Dynamics. you will then learn and understand wgy it is that you pick this type of energy. Others are programmed differently, some don't pick it up because they are a different dynamic, or they process information way differently. I have been able to pick it up and control energies and omit my own energy to others. Understanding this can change your life and those around you.

  • Sounds just as High Sensitivity, (sensitive nervsystem!) (HSP).

    good advice

  • Thank you for this video!

  • Hi and thank You for this video. You have helped me a lot this day! :)

  • oh dear

  • I'm a veteran family therapist. Dr Orloff misses mis-advises her viewers. People who "absorb other's energy" (what does THAT mean?) are psychologically wounded from early-childhood trauma, and are ruled by a protectrive "false self." Assdess yourself for wounds, and learn how to communicate (assert) effectively!

  • Who here has ever absorbed from a stone? Yesterday, I went to a mineral shop, and oh my god, it was like a buffet!

  • E = mc2. What's that bitch talking about?

  • Cheers! :D

  • this is beautiful

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  • @IDM011 I think your typing in caps is probably representative of the kind of overbearing energy you exude in real life and the kind of person empaths would need to remove themselves from fairly quickly. I guess I could be wrong, and it could be that your caps lock is stuck, but from the tone of your comment, I think not. Of course its OK to absorb the energy of other people if its positive energy and there is consent, but often there is not and those who are sensitive feel it as an attack.

  • you leave at 3 hours. wow makes me jealous because I can only last 15 minutes. 30 minutes if I really push myself.

  • I "cured" my over-sensitivity by learning to deliberately direct my perceptual senses and my attention. Learning Alexander Technique helped immensely. Of course I used isolation as self-protection at first, but trained myself to draw the boundary closer by degrees, until I could direct willing contact deliberately. Now I extend my empathetic sensitivity at will, and draw it back at my command - as a skill. Being in contact with people no longer drains me, in fact - I now enjoy it.

  • people who aren't empaths probably think this all a bunch of new age bull. but seriously, it's freaking real. I had no idea what the hell was wrong with me all my life. so much is now explained. why I had to constantly run away from people and be alone all the time. why am I so goddamn sensitive to everything and everyone. it wasn't even what they were doing necessarily, it was just there and I felt it, either I stayed there and it affected me or I would have to go somewhere and avoid it.

  • @pistraurder you couldnt of said this better!

  • @pistraurder sounds like you're just a faggot. you should kill yourself.

  • @valdezmiguel2 you seem to piss everyone off judging from your site. yeah, no. not the case. you don't know what you are talking about. there is a lot new age bullshit surrounding it, granted, but there's a core truth to it that will be verified by science in due time. there's just no scientific language to talk about it so everyone sounds like some new age bullshitter when they do. if you were an empath and felt what people like me feel you wouldn't be throwing around these flippant insults.

  • @pistraurder are you stupid?

    that is the definition of new-age bullshit.

    I am legitimately unsure if you are fucking with these sheep.

  • @valdezmiguel2 sounds like that because there is no scientific language as of yet to talk about what she is talking about. in due time neuroscientists will substantiate what this person is talking about, ground it concretely in hard science. they have already identified what may be causing this in some people, an abundance of a certain type of neuron, mirror neurons. no I am not stupid, I am extremely intelligent. don't you have to go somewhere and do some fucked up bullshit for no reason?

  • @pistraurder you seem to lack a fundamental understanding of what science is.

    Also you seem to have below average intelligence, as evidenced by the above misunderstanding.

    Also 'mirror neuron'? seriously? do you know anything about the nervous system at all?

  • @valdezmiguel2 no I do not have a "lack of a fundamental understanding of what science is". I am very familiar with and fond of the scientific method. francis bacon is one of my heros. no I do not have below average intelligence. and, yes, mirror neurons. neuroscientists have apparently done some studies and concluded that an abundance of this type of neuron may potentially cause people to be hyper-sensitive. look it up asshole.

  • @pistraurder are you really that dense? how can you both make a generalization without evidence and claim to be moved by the scientific method in the same paragraph?

    the scientific method has nothing to do with the language it is expressed in. this is simple fucking logic, which I guess is above your head. You do everyone a disservice by propagating this claptrap bullshit. You should feel shame and disgrace every day of your life, you loathesome sack of filth. fuck off and die.

  • @valdezmiguel I stated there were STUDIES done by NEUROSCIENTISTS which concluded that mirror neurons may cause hypersensitivity. did that register? or no? I stated there are no scientific terms to use (yet) to fully describe this phenomenon, because there is little science on it as of now. no, I will never feel shame or disgrace. disgusting wretched troglodyte. you responded to my comments, why don't you fuck off and die. fucking psychopath. and I mean that in the scientific sense.

  • @pistraurder nice... appeal to authority and attack ad hominem in 2 seconds flat.

    A sure sign of solid reasoning.

    Please remove this video and chane your wrong thinking before you hurt more people. You will have to be modest for this one time in your life and realize that you are NOT ALWAYS RIGHT. I don't know what your gameplan is, but you are causing people in a vulnerable place to suffer needlessly. You are probably one of the worst people in the world right now. asshole.

  • @pistraurder so true! i was labeled socially anxious and given mood stabilizers to become as numb as those around me. everyone wondered why i was so nervous around parents who without exaggeration did nothing but fight physically or passive aggressively, but i was the one with the problem. geeez! being sensitive is indeed a great quality to possess, not something to be ashamed of as most of society would like us to believe.

  • @BleednEden yeah. that's what they do. pump people they don't understand full of drugs to make them docile and manageable. yeah my family was the same way with me. attacking me all the time, physically, verbally. they went as far as mutilating me and am pretty sure they are going to murder me soon. I may have said too much. just search the following terms if you want to know what the hell I am talking about. gangstalking, targeted individuals, bio ethics commission march, V2K, silent sound.

  • @pistraurder omg ... thank you for stating that now my life is starting to make some sense this is soooooooooooo real people have no idea .. namaste

  • @sexy690722 it is real. it has something to do with possessing an abundance of a certain type of neuron. mirror neurons. scientists don't really understand it yet, but these specific neurons seem to be a primary cause.

  • this was very helpful thank you soo very much i appreicate it

    ... : )

  • @pistraurder You just described yourself as autistic and pretentious. Very nice.

  • @SevereMalfunction7an autistic person wouldn't have been able to write what I wrote. pretentious? neuroscientists have identified the type of neuron they think is responsible; a mirror neuron. some people who aren't autistic, have no cognitive disabilities, and possess normal or above average intelligence also seem to have an abundance of these peculiar neurons, which can make modern life a living hell. this will be validated by science and people like you will shut their traps and disappear.

  • @pistraurder I have felt this way all my life too. I always pick up on the most subtle things that no one else seems to notice and I am always telling my husband I hate loud noises or I can smell things strongly and I hate large groups of people for too long. This video makes sense of it all.

  • @pistraurder owh wow people finaly wake up.....

  • @pistraurder same..

  • @pistraurder Being able to identify the problem is wonderful. Now, what to do about it. For me it's been meditation, which cleanses my "aura" or whatever from all the negative energy. I've learned to block some of it, but I've got a long ways to go. Also, how can I allow my positive energy to affect others, as their negative energy affects me? Lots to work on.

  • @pistraurder i can't even deal with my neighbors on the opposite side of the duplex going in and out a lot of the front entrance when i'm in the room right next to it. especially because i can sense when they're in hostile/agitated/on-edge moods.

  • @tygersflowerz this happens with me too sometimes, just a persons presence in another room can set me off.

  • durp

    

  • This is so good, just dealing with that and learning how to keep my self clean.

  • Thank you!!!!

  • Oh, Los Angeles is possibly the worst place for sensitive folks.

  • in a day I encounter so many angry and rude people, it can be very draining to me as an empath. even going to the grocery store can be draining. what can we do before going out to help with this?

  • @Ladyhawkwright , she said in her other video to wear an energy jacket(virtual) before you go out.

  • thank you maam

  • Judith, i would love to see more of your wonderful videos on this topic. thank you.

    best wishes to you. :-)

  • Min 1:21 , of course, every decent person is sensitive to: smell, laud sounds, excessive talking ..these aren't particular sings. Anyways, thanks for this posting.

  • I fit her description...but only since Iraq. I wonder if becoming empathetic is a maturity thing or a defense thing...I wasn't always this way. I miss being able to enjoy large group activities like church, fairs, carshows...etc. They are just too overwhelming to be enjoyable anymore...

  • Claiming vampirism is a way of avoiding self responsibility for volunteering to be a victim. It just puts a pretty sophisticated wrapper on an obvious self-issue. Meditate, use the violet flame, sage, salt, and be strong and self-determined in what is Your life and no one else's. It's all energy and it's all love.

  • i never get to relex it feels like .i only have engery when im alone and the kids r asleep :)

  • the sooner American Popular Culture dies and is dead, the world can become a more positive and peaceful place to live in.

  • @kalai131 Really? Is it because of all the public stonings, beheadings, rapes, woman oppression, child prostitution, and murders that result from American pop culture? Grow up. Why don't you elect your own culture to die? It produced you and you're extremely negative and maybe shouldn't exist. BTW try hoping for something that might happen in your life time. USA movies, tv, music, and fashion with continue to be loved and preferred by the rest of the world for at least 2 more generations.

  • Needed to hear your message. I just left a toxic message board. I felt guilty, now I feel free of their bindings. Goodbye Toni you allowed the board to become toxic. Hope that doesn't spread to rest of the network. Showtime here I come.

  • that describes me exactly. i'm an intuitive empath ... not just sensitive.

  • That's me!

  • wow so me always!!!!!!!

    

  • hahahahaxD this didnt help me at all am still stealing redbull

  • Asking people to set the boundaries with the endless talker is not exactly giving us a technique to use ....

  • Thank you1 i love your massage.

    Much Love.

  • The breathing technique helps alot, I find meditation atleast 20 mins a day very very helpful.

  • Wow. Being a really sensitive person and energy aware, I am just blown away by the previous two comments. Some people are clearly further along in evolution then others. It makes me wonder why they would even view this video... May you see the light you poor souls.

    Thanks so much for this Judy. Love your energy and wisdom.

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  • @Vincentmahone evolution can be defined as awareness, maturity, respect, and compassion. I am just referring to the unnecessary negativity and disrespect in a couple comments.

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  • Tip for an Empath: DON'T TRIP ACID.

  • pseudoscience bollocks

  • Thanks for putting this video up :)

  • you need a guy like me to keep you in check

  • Sound like a form of high functioning autism. Yeah for autism ! 

    It also seems like introverts. Yeah for introversion!

    Environmental sensitivities? Boo for that but its goes with this stuff

  • !!!! This is what I did, but in reverse. I thought I was an energy vampire, at one point. I have changed this phenomenon with the knowledge that all energy of this sort is infinite, and so there is no finite supply, and I needn't do such things, to others.

  • All the signs fit me PERFECTLY.I always absorb energy and it makes me crazy.I will have to get this book.I always have to atleast have my door closed to make a barrier for all the negative energy when Im at home. Thank you for this video Dr.Orloff

  • just love this! Thank you Dr. Orloff!

  • Wow. I answered 'yes' to EVERY one of her questions of "Are you an Empath"

  • @LadyCastus Hey, me too! :0o

  • I think it would be really helpful to meditate and go to the spiritual realm and I practice and do my best to get there, but I just cant focus for some reason. Do you have any advice for something like that?

  • What if you are empathical but its not so called "negative energy" that gets you down. What if your sensitive to people being emotional in any way especially positively makes you have a need to run away as fast as possible. Also being able to read and hear other peoples emotions doesn't make it energy, just means your doing it naturally.

  • All this time. I thought something was wrong with me. Why didn't I see this before (more than 20 years) this is real! Now, I have to learn to "control" this, my son is 7 and he is the same. I look forward to learning more! I truly do!

  • Every talks about protecting from absorbing..how does one try to stop stealing everyones energy???? I do not mean to but can not stop. Help.

  • @funnygirl4advice U have taken the big step in seeing. Come in to your own sweet self & begin starting your day with a few minutes of meditation, watch yourself breath, then bring your breath to your heart, then see your breath going down thru your body, out the bottom of your feet & to the center of the Earth. The next breath draw up from the Earth in to your heart & out thru the top of your head & in to the Heavens, bring that energy down again thru your heart. Your sweetness gives all day.

  • @funnygirl4advice Come in to your own sweet self & begin starting your day with a few minutes of meditation, watch yourself breath, then bring your breath to your heart, then see your breath going down thru your body, out the bottom of your feet & to the center of the Earth. The next breath draw up from the Earth in to your heart & out thru the top of your head & in to the Heavens, bring that energy down again thru your heart. Your sweetness gives all day

  • @funnygirl4advice How do you know when you are stealing energy?

  • Great lady, I identify with just about everything she said that describes me. I dislike noisy crowds, (sports is a turn-off!), 'I feel your pain' is not just empty words, and too many negative or violent emotions makes me almost physically ill. God, I love being am Empath. I'm sure there's a lesson here I have to learn, somewhere.

  • I'm finding that the more centered I am & balanced my life is, the more I'm flooded with signals & unexplained emotions.This was very helpful. Thanks for posting.

  • hehehe this is rediculous xDD

    im an energy sponge i soak up all yalls energy

    oh and im the illuminati

    theres no such thing as the moon

    i have a human charger

    i can fly but only when nobody is looking

  • @PinkFloydFan95 you write that comment and you call yourself a pink floyd fan? hmmm strange.

  • i been called a sensitive motherfucker. i have all the listed symptoms of empathy. what is bad about it-i could never stop bad energy raging through me no matter what methods i used. it drives me to extreme depression &thoughts of suicide. what do i do??

  • @Imyourcounciousness i happen to be the same way, so you need not worry, sensitive simply means you can feel someone's energy right away, many sensitive people are incredibly strong, Mike Tyson and Bruce Lee were very sensitive people and became the best fighters in the world, you may want to consider doing martial arts, it releases a lot of tension, and also stay away from negative people, I have to stop being on youtube one of these days, it is difficult for me now because i'm in a small town.

  • Your wonderful! Thanks for this.

  • Thank you for this!! I have been wondering if i am somehow a sponge for others' energy because i seem to match the energy of everyone i am around.. The symptoms fit me exactly! Yay, moving forward again! Thanks again!

  • @Happygoluckyman222 Leave this beautiful spirit alone. I happen to be an empath you filthy shmuck.

  • @Happygoluckyman222 Leave this beautiful spirit alone. I happen to be an empath you filthy shmuck. Don't forget that I am watching you.

  • @Happygoluckyman222 wow this video is about you, energy drainer/sucker. No wonder youre having such a strong reaction.

  • I miss my yoga classes! Energy is so wonderful especially when it is good! This stuff is really interesting!

  • I miss my yoga classes! Energy is so wonderful especially when it is good!

  • I have a huge problem with this. I just dont know how to block it. its as if im too sensitive. the anxiety that takes over me everyday leaves me feeling weak and overwhlemed. i had a friend in which i parted ways from. just talking on the phone with her (or should i say, listening bc god knows i couldnt get a word in) for however long and when i would hang up, i quite literally felt as if i had ran 5miles. thank god for jk rowling, i now call these ppl DEMENTORS, not psychic vampires

  • Yes I am definitely an intuitive empath as she describes. Yoga does wonders as well. Talk about get very frustrated when I'm around negative people... I quit my waitressing job because of all the negative energy that I couldn't figure out how to tolerate weekly.

  • i can't stop absorbing other peoples energy , i must refill my mana bar

  • thank you so much for this.

  • Thank you, Dr. Orloff, for posting this...I've been this way my whole life, and have always been told "you're too sensitive!" until it was coming out of my ears! I felt very poorly about myself for way too long, thinking there was something wrong with me, since the people around me were all extroverted chatterboxes. I was always the odd person out. Now I accept myself as someone who would rather sit quietly, alone, and not be forced to be among energy draining people who exhaust me.

  • This is excellent. Thank you. It's good to be validated.

  • how do u block yourself it ppl always make literally sick

  • This is excellent. It is hard especially since I have a ten month old that is teething! =[

  • thank you..this is brilliant

  • energy? like the stuff in the wires? umm maybe noone ever told you but you cant just absorb electricity with your mind. sorry to spoil it for your special little minds.

    peace out whores

  • @TheChristisgreat  are you retarded dude your so closed minded you think energy just comes from mechanical propulsion systems god is energy, and you must be an extremist christian douche

  • @GuruGifter lmao. ive always wondered why the hell ppl cannot see god as the ultimate scientist.

  • @GuruGifter Christians are not douches (that'd be ironic). And your comment charges negative "energy".

  • AWESOME!!!! Thank you! I needed this sooooooooooo!

  • U just described me. My wife loves u for explaining why I cringe everytime she gets hyper. Why I am the way I am.

  • You are sooooooooo awesome!

  • Sorry for my last comment. iPhone tends to change my words. Sorry if it didn't read correctly.

  • What I feel concerned about is why WE need to sort ourselves out when it's others who need sorting out giving up the crap we don't need and the laziness to say 'how are you?' once in a while. If you step away from people who claim they adore you, and close yourself away for a day without talking to them they disappear - offended! When all you want is a little hello back now and then instead if being this sucker accepting and giving the listening. Anyone agree?

  • @sezums We cannot change the world for the better by " sorting out " others. Focussing on purifying and healing ~ Yourself, is the ~ Only way, to effect real positive change, in the world about you.

  • The examples she gives had me laughing because I have a few people close to me who are VERY much like that. I'm kind of the opposite. I do notice things going on around me but I feel like there's an invisible wall around me where I just let things bounce off it that I don't welcome into my life. Most of the time anyway.

  • Answer pleas..

    When i am in the same room with peoples i cant stay a long time i need to get out and rest or sometimes i can read mind to someones and when someone people are angry and i am angry too...

    am i empath?

  • is there any God anywhere in this "exercise"? and if so , where does he come into play in all this , "energy"?

  • @oomylanta Don't think of God as a "he" and separate from you. You are apart of everything and everything is a part of you. This may be a hard concept at first but do meditate on this or do some research and you will find answers :-)

  • wow this makes sense finally someone who understands......be my mom? lol jk

  • Judith: The title of this posting is wrong and should be: How to stop people exhausting you by absorbing all of your positve energy.

    What you say in this posting is right.

    Only the title of your posting is wrong.

    Thanks for posting so helping me out.

    Elton

  • this was very helpful.thanx!!  XXX

  • this was very helpful.thanx!! XXX

  • There are many ways to be human. What I dislike is when people tell me to be less thin-skinned. In order words, it's okay for them to be obnoxious, and I am the one who needs to change. I avoid giving such people the same type of treatment, say, pointing out their flaws, because I can't do that very well. I am a self reflective person, which some of my more obnoxious--for want of a better word--friends and aquaintances seem not to be. They don't question their own actions. I value this video.

  • DEFINITELY me! I always thought it was a weird duality. LOVE to be with people But NEED to disconnect afterwards.

  • I work for the Pakistani ISI which is the only force that is fighting CIA which manipulates the masses of my country through media,use of religion for negative purposes.Our agency found out that they use negative energy to dumb down the public.This is pathetic and it has also come to my knowledge that dese same people have used such tactics previously in other countries and even the USA.I ask for advise on how to cmbatting with this matter and please tell if we can fight such methods of control.

  • @rgrft There is a rapidly growing movement, which is rising , globally, via individuals who are awakening to their higher mind, whose sole purpose is to cancel out the effects of negativity on the planet and usher in the positive vibration of true freedom, love and harmony for all. We are, now, in the final ~ Critical, months toward this objective. Humanity's fate hangs, literally, in the balance, between the forces of ...... cont

  • @stormwings1 you can not have one with out the other ....

  • @TheIgnoramus Granted, as you state " you cannot have one, without the other " ~ yet, this seeming "Law " only holds true within ~ a particular frequency of reality, the lower worlds of ~ Duality.

    ~ BALANCE, is the ~Key, to true Mastery. The subtle tones of Light and Shade dance in perfect harmony with one another. Yet humanity has learnt to accept an ugly ~ SPLIT, within his own psyche, instead of the ~ Wholeness, which is his true state of Being.....

    

  • @TheIgnoramus ...Do you bathe in a tub filled only with hot water ? or do you add some cold for comfort ? On a midsummer's day, when the sun's rays beats down upon you, do you not sit under a large canopy of branches and indulge, also, the shade ? The * Powers* that be have crudely distorted and ensnared that which is ~ Natural, Beautiful and Wholesome, within man. Learn to think and thus ~ Create, for YOURSELF, and you will leave behind you the lower Dualistic Worlds ~ Forever.

  • @stormwings1 those words are hallow and only encourage illusion. "The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education."

  • @TheIgnoramus Look, what ~ EVER you want to believe is ok with me. There are many realities and belief systems out there. If you are ~ Happy with yours, that's all that matters. I do wonder, however, why you refer to yourself as " Ignoramus ", sounds like you don't have much respect for yourself, and that spells utter ~ disaster. No matter ~ What you believe in, if you don't value yourself, then you got nothing.

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  • @Vincentmahone Look, I would reply in depth, but we got a slight language barrier going on here. Frankly, I can't make out what you're on about !  but, no worries, I'm sure you can survive without my pennysworth : )

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  • @Vincentmahone Hey, I'm unique, and, admittedly, kinda cute with it, but " madame " is way off base , ducky !  As for the bee in your pretty bonnet, about vampires, perhaps you'd refresh my mind on what I said about them, and where 'd I say it !!! ? I've known a few Vamps, some the blood sucking variety, others psychic slurpers. If you don't believe, frankly, I couldn't give a monkies. If the thought of vampires or ghosts scares you then ~ DON'T watch psychic's videos, dick head !