Even if you have triggered other peoples emtions, your feelings are totally vaild and important to share. Thank you for your strength in putting those thoughts and feelings out there!
This video comes at a perfect time considering I am dealing with accepting who I am and the end of the road in terms of physical transition. I must accept things the way they are or continue living in struggle, pain and hatred of myself.
This really makes me want to do a documentary on the two of you over a two weeks period just conversing about this topic. Amazing views and such valid points.
great video! it's interesting, i've always imagined that i would have been born with a below average penis lol. Carson seems like a really cool person, and you gave out an awesome response. it helped me out a bit so cheers dude :)
this video brought up a lot of valid points and made a lot of sense..once again charles you have managed to help me out with some of my own insecurities so thank you again :)
I think most bio men want to the tall, muscular, athletic, big dick dude. Not all are...Men like women come in different shapes, sizes and builds. I agree with acceptance of yourself. The men in my family on mom's side is not very tall. 5' 8" is the adverage height. I agree with you about enjoying being short nerdy guy...I enjoy hanging out people like that than super jocks...LOL
@kelleyroo2 it's not even just always about being muscley but more just filling out your body. i need bigger BONES, you know. i don't want to have this feminine frame. it's almost seeming not worth it to build myself up to "pass" as a natural born MAN all the time. i fucking hate these doubts tho. i am a writer and i am sensitive and short lol so maybe it's just a grass-is-greener outlook. i just wish someone would appreciate me and validate me for the traits i DO have not the ones i dont.
Every word you say is so inspirational, mature and supportive of all those who struggle with insecurities of their who they are both inside and out (like me!). Thanks for your dedication.
I tried so hard to think how to describe that and you've just hit the nail directly on the head - you feel 'a balance of energies' from Carson. Perfect. I also think what you said about playing a female role is insightful.
For me, it was never hard to accept that I was a man. I always knew that I was supposed to have these parts. What's been really hard for me to accept was, when I eventually started having sex, what I don't have. My limitations are what's been the hardest part for me to deal with. Not being able to do some things with my own body really makes me upset.
And I'm a Professor-type, by the way. Math professor, actually. So there you go. HAHA!
SO much truth here..!
senseofvertigo 2 weeks ago
can somebody give me a link to carson's video charles is responding to?
teaganlovesfood 1 month ago
i am actually thinking about making a video on some of my own doubts right this second, interesting that this would pop up.
BonesDGAF021 7 months ago
@BonesDGAF021 interesting. do it!
charlesasher 7 months ago
is that video still up? carson's detransitioning video?
adcrash 1 year ago
reading, PhDs, intelligence, nerds are all sexy! sexier than any 6ft tall, dark, handsome, masculine, big dicked man!
eawass 2 years ago
Even if you have triggered other peoples emtions, your feelings are totally vaild and important to share. Thank you for your strength in putting those thoughts and feelings out there!
KrisES46 2 years ago
Well done!
xgraywaterx 2 years ago
People will like others who are being themselves because that's really the only thing we're actually good at.
johnsmithingtons 2 years ago
Charles,
This video comes at a perfect time considering I am dealing with accepting who I am and the end of the road in terms of physical transition. I must accept things the way they are or continue living in struggle, pain and hatred of myself.
BradinMe 2 years ago
that kicks that you are taking care of your friend
becksimmons89 2 years ago 2
This really makes me want to do a documentary on the two of you over a two weeks period just conversing about this topic. Amazing views and such valid points.
sidian3 2 years ago
great video! it's interesting, i've always imagined that i would have been born with a below average penis lol. Carson seems like a really cool person, and you gave out an awesome response. it helped me out a bit so cheers dude :)
JunkpileJ 2 years ago
this video brought up a lot of valid points and made a lot of sense..once again charles you have managed to help me out with some of my own insecurities so thank you again :)
ThatPunkBrent 2 years ago 2
I think most bio men want to the tall, muscular, athletic, big dick dude. Not all are...Men like women come in different shapes, sizes and builds. I agree with acceptance of yourself. The men in my family on mom's side is not very tall. 5' 8" is the adverage height. I agree with you about enjoying being short nerdy guy...I enjoy hanging out people like that than super jocks...LOL
kelleyroo2 2 years ago 2
@kelleyroo2 it's not even just always about being muscley but more just filling out your body. i need bigger BONES, you know. i don't want to have this feminine frame. it's almost seeming not worth it to build myself up to "pass" as a natural born MAN all the time. i fucking hate these doubts tho. i am a writer and i am sensitive and short lol so maybe it's just a grass-is-greener outlook. i just wish someone would appreciate me and validate me for the traits i DO have not the ones i dont.
BonesDGAF021 7 months ago
Every word you say is so inspirational, mature and supportive of all those who struggle with insecurities of their who they are both inside and out (like me!). Thanks for your dedication.
MeredithLockwood 2 years ago 2
Carson is so lucky to have your support.
tobyr3 2 years ago
You've put up quite a few good videos, but this one was just wonderful. Well put.
SoxAsh0810 2 years ago
I tried so hard to think how to describe that and you've just hit the nail directly on the head - you feel 'a balance of energies' from Carson. Perfect. I also think what you said about playing a female role is insightful.
rivenrock 2 years ago
hey sweetie! Just a quick hey. Thanks for being so good to me recently! You're totally my favorite person in the world!
TheKylarose 2 years ago
This is a great video response. Your a good friend. Carson is lucky to have your support.
XYinside 2 years ago
So true that women have a lot more power than given credit for.
Especially with love and happiness.
Darrelkun 2 years ago
Do you have the link to the original video?
ledzep4090 2 years ago
For me, it was never hard to accept that I was a man. I always knew that I was supposed to have these parts. What's been really hard for me to accept was, when I eventually started having sex, what I don't have. My limitations are what's been the hardest part for me to deal with. Not being able to do some things with my own body really makes me upset.
And I'm a Professor-type, by the way. Math professor, actually. So there you go. HAHA!
LukeMonaco 2 years ago
Yes well said Charles.
musely81 2 years ago
well said Charles
screenshotdesign 2 years ago