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  • I'm bisexual and Proud. if you have a problem with it, shove them up your ass... Cause... I've been bi since I was born and I'm accepting it, it's me. Deal wit it.

  • LOL, I did the SAME thing. Only with my sister.

  • Im technically bisexual I have always loved females at a very early age but the guys I like are few and far between. Being a female people think im just doing it for attention and its stupid

  • I think bisexual guys have it in their heads that they're more masculine than someone like myself who is completely gay, I really hate that. 

  • @pf008 So, we dont have to be feminine and go to the mall with girls and shit, not all gays do that either, stereotype.

  • its because of people like u that we bisexuals, suffer bisexual erasure!!

  • You know, it doesn't help anyone when you claim you're bisexual and you're not. People who do that are the reason people like me have to explain that we do exist dammit.

  • so is he gay or bi?

  • The problem I have with bisexuality is I think that everyone must have a preference. The two are so different that it is very unlikely to want both equally. Every individual knows who they could see themselves spending the rest of their lives with. *Not who you could see yourself sexually experiment with* who you would *be* with. Mentally, physically, and everything else, the differences are so great.

  • @sonotquiet bisexuality doesn't imply that you want both sexes equally. it just means that you are attracted physically/emotionally to people of both sexes. you may prefer one over the other, but that doesn't mean you don't like the other one as well

  • @paaaaaaaaaaaaaul but it boils down to who you would be in a long term committed relationship with. and I don't think it's possible to be in a long term committed relationship with both because of preference. (which most all people have one.) I think everyone in the world at one point has been attracted to at least one person of the same and opposite sex. But that doesn't refute the fact that the sex they are more attracted to in all ways will be the one that they spend their life with.

  • @sonotquiet it's not the person's sex they're attracted to, it's the person. it's their personality. just because you're in a long term committed relationship with someone, it doesn't mean that you're suddenly not attracted to the other sex. and as i said before, having a preference for one sex over the other does not erase the attraction for the other sex

  • @paaaaaaaaaaaaaul yeah but EVERYONE is attracted to people's personality, reguardless of gender. We are talking ROMANTICALLY and SEXUALLY. If you believe that someone is capable of being in a happy long term relationship with both, we can agree to disagree. They are too different. Not saying you can't be attracted to both, but I'm talking commitment, relationships, etc. Men and woman are verrrrrrrry different and there's no way you can't have a preference. Preference= what you are.

  • @sonotquiet yes, sexual/romantic attraction can also be attributed to personality. and yes, we can agree to disagree. in this age, i really see no differences between the gender roles in a relationship. man or woman, we're all people with similar emotions and desires and what not. sure, men and women are physically different but emotionally, i think they're very similar.

  • @sonotquiet also, i don't believe that i stated that one couldn't have a preference. i think i said quite the opposite, actually, that if a bisexual did have a preference then that doesn't erase his or her attraction to the other sex. also, thank you for being very civil and polite. it's too often that discussions on youtube turn into total wars.

  • @paaaaaaaaaaaaaul Oh no problem, thanks to you too. Did you see my last comment? I think everyone is attracted to personality, reguardless of gender. I'm talking romantically and sexually. If you believe that someone is capable of being in a happy long term relationship with both, we can agree to disagree. They are too different. Not saying you can't be attracted to both, but that's normal. IMO, a preference= what you are. That's what your always gonna deep down want. That's why It's your pref.

  • Please people, if you are gay or straight please, PLEASE do not call yourself bisexual because you a)think it softens your coming out or b) makes you 'cool'. I'm bisexual and I've dealt with lots of discrimination from gay and straight people who think I'm lying about my 'true' sexuality or that I'm just a poser, or experimenting and am actually straight. Bisexuals exist and as long as people who are not bisexual abuse our label we will continue to be marginalised. Thank you for reading this :)

  • Non pc..."cross orientation sexual behavior" is just that...a behavior. A warping, for various reasons, of your inborn gay or hetero orientation. Doesn't mean I wanna take away anyone's rights or pass laws against them or their behavior. But I'm not gonna lie or equate issues that are NOT the same for the sake of a destructive "It's all good" ideology. That behavior is not an orientation, it is just what BECAME of whichever orientation you were born with.

  • Honestly, I never understood the whole "greedy" thing. This says holds very true. "Bisexual Blues: We love everybody but nobody loves us."

  • Moral of the story - be yourself :-)

  • Bisexual people aren't greedy, dirty whatever you want to label them. If I'm in a relationship with one person (either boy or girl) I'm going to respect that relationship. Just because we find people from both genders attractive does not mean we are into more people that a gay or straight person. It also doesn't mean that we are twice as likely to cheat. Bisexualism is real, and we need to be understood just like all other sexualalities.

  • Being bi does not mean that your greedy it just means gender doesnt matter to you just like age, or color. I'm bi and the way i see it that love is love. NO matter if your straight, gay, les, or bi (etc).

  • I don't want to gripe because I know coming out is hard, but I wish gay people wouldn't do this. It perpetuates the "Bi now, gay later" myth that real bisexuals then have to put up with.

    Furthermore, I can tell you up front that claiming to be bi isn't going to help you any,. You're going to face the same discrimination as if you say you're gay and on top of that you'll get extra flak from those who don't understand bisexuality.

    I understand why people do this, but seriously, please don't.

  • Yeah. When I came out, I didn't go the bisexual route. It's so much more difficult to do it that way because then you have to come out a second time.

  • ya. its a very common story. you did nothing wrong kid. defense and protection

    are a natural human reaction. and you were also protecting the ones you love.

    by the way, with those eyes and that smile.??? who couldnt love you?

  • u got a cute face, i am bi. Were just like gays and straights, were born that way. I get turned on by girls but also guys, and were not confused.

  • I understand how scary coming out can be, so idc when gays pretend 2 b bi. But the thing that annoys me is when people say bi doesn't exist. It does! I'm bi, I would know! And it's NOT just being greedy. Also what is up with the whole "being bi is fashionable" thing? I find it insulting to real bi peeps.

  • lmao

    Bisexual is just being greedy?

    I dont agree

    but Some people can be greedy

    my 2 best friends are bisexual and they both got tewgeder wen they both had boyfriend and i thought that was fuked up what they did because that is being greedy

  • Why couldn't I meet someone like him? Young ... hot. I'm not openly gay, so I never really meet anyone gay (that I know of), but I wish I could.

  • its funny that some gay ppl come out as bi to make it easier... i come out to ppl as gay to make it easier for me lol.. i hate the whole stereotype out there abt bi ppl.... and its not like im lying.. i am still part of the gay community so i dont care...and greedy ?? most girls would never date a bi guy.. so the most i get is boys..

  • @Concept3601 Thats not true :) I have a friend thats a guy and hes bi, hes had 4 girlfriends and 2 boyfriends since he came out nd i would go out with him to (:

  • i hate people who say that they are bisexual and they know that they are gay.. just tell your family the truth! if you firt came out as bisexual is not good for the real bisexual people!! because if a boy or girl tell here/his family that they are bisexual and later they say: no i;m lesbian/gay. no ones believe real bisexual people anymore.

  • @pietje164 I know! It makes my life 1,000 times harder being authentically bisexual because now I don't know what the fuck to do. If i say I'm bi, gays think Im just gay, and straight people think im just straight cause i have a girlfriend. I wish ALL people would just be fucking honest upright, and then deal with it. Because of these situations nobody believes in anyone anymore, and people are writing off not being friends based on something that isen't true. Horrable.

  • @ckinch Frankly, I've just stopped telling anyone. I let gay partners assume I'm gay and let straight partners assume I'm straight, and I keep the family out of the loop altogether. It's not easy living with so many secrets, but it's not easy putting up with society's bullshit either, so I went with what seemed like the lesser of two evils.

  • @endersgame55 actually when I told and explained it to my family it actually made my relationships with them stronger. I'm almost 25. My girlfriend knows so do my best friends, and i have it down as that on facebook. Honestly the only people i got judgement from were people from high school that have been out of my life for many years. That and people who have any type of homosexual feeling themself and haven't dealt with it. And when i went public i actually made a new friend whos Bi.

  • bisexuality is not greedy and it does exist i have liked boys before aswell as girls

  • because of this new trend that ppl have...even straight ppl ! that being bi is "cool"

    i'd rather come out as gay now rather than bi..

    thanks alot ;)

  • At least you finally admitted the truth, not like most "Bi's" out there.

  • Your a fagbeast full of shitacid! Do you have aids yet?

  • @DavidBergstein Fail troll has failed.

  • Bisexual does exist obviously if ur bi ur attracted to both sexes it is possible some may think that they r using that to hide tha fact that they r gay but if ur straight then of course u have no clue bout a bisexual person and if ur gay u also have no clue about a bisexual person women obviously are attracted to men but if they feel the same way bout women then thats a bisexual cus she has the hots for them equally same thing wit men

  • @8lanc0 I feel that a hetero can have sex with a hetero and bi, a gay can have sex with a gay or bi, and a bi can have sex with a hetero, gay or bi. But under no circumstance can a hetero have sex with a gay, or vice versa. I also think that a hetero & gay can be bi-curious, but a bi(bisexual) cannot be bi-curious. I believe once sex happens you will fall in a category. I believe once a hetero or gay follows through their bi-curiousity they are bi, and once they are bi they can not go back.

  • @bshainhunter agreed 100%

  • @8lanc0 I also feel that you cannot go from straight to gay, or vice versa, but only to bi. I say that because once there has been sex between both same and opposite sex you are bi. because hetero only have sex with the opposite, and gay only have sex with the same sex. Thats why I feel you can start off as hetero or gay, but once you are bi, you can never go back to being hetero or gay, because you have had sex with both the same sex and the opposite sex, and it will never go away.

  • @bshainhunter true! I'm glad u established that cus some ppl dont understand why would they think like this "Oh he/she is using bisexual to hide that they're gay" that pisses me off bcus they dun know that humans can be attracted to both male & female not everyone but alot of humans can, bisexual is not straight or gay it's simply bisexual!

  • I'm bisexual. I don't mind that gay people use bi as an icebreaker for coming out I understand it's very scary. But it is SOOOO annoying for us because people accuse us of being gay and too afraid to admit it or straight and just curious or confused w/e.

    I don't know why so many people can't understand that, but I guess I can't understand being attracted to only one gender.

  • @Khyrid by all means i m not offending you, my comment pretty much defends bisexual ppl bcus first of all how f*ck do ppl know if ur using bisexual to hide that ur gay nobody knows that I do believe that humans could b attracted to both sexes absolutly! what I admire bout bisexuality is that u ppl admire both beauty and charm u c how charming a man is and how beautiful a woman is, I do believe it that there is such thing as bisexual!

  • @8lanc0 Damn straight, no pun intended. 

  • you shoulda just told them that you were gay because alot of bi people get crap about just hidding homosexuality soo thanks lol

  • This has actually happened to me...a guy said some people are bisexual,,,well, that just doesn't hold water, it is a cop out to I am GAY or I AM A SLUT .

  • bisexual is beautiful, join in on the fun, whether you are man or woman. Who wants to be normal?>that's just boring.

  • LOL THAT'S SOOO FUNNY! :P

  • hey im bisexual...i get an erection by seeing both of them >.>

    im not a part of mythology !!

  • @bhimz2 right on!- from another mythological creature!!( we're unicorns of course!)

  • Man watching all these vide have helped me realize that I am comfotable with my sexuality and I have Learned that having a lot if bothers can give u a better chance of being bi or gay by this whole biological thing in the womb lol food for thought =)

  • DAMN he is just adorable!

  • lol. Yeah, I can totally see how that would work against you. Unfortunately for me, I can't just say, Ok, really I'm Gay. *sighs*

  • ohhhhhhh,soooooooo cuuuuuuuteeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

  • <--is bi) well, its not really being greedy and it does exist....your brothers are wrong.....

  • No one can decide "OH okay tomorrow i wanna be gay then the next day i wanna be bisexual!" I can see what you are talking about. it's like being straight you don't like the same gender. why? because you don't! same with being Bi you like boys and girls why? because you do! you can't choose that. the same with me I don't choose to be bi i just am!

    :)

  • I second the comment below this one. Bisexuality does exist and is a valid sexuality. Gays and lesbians should understand this. It's not too hard of a concept. I am very proud to be bisexual and I love it. For example I kissed a girl last month and now next week me and my friend are heading to the mall to pick up some cute boys! :D

  • that's unfair... u think that gays and lesbians would actually be open minded bout this.... bisexuality DOES exist... it's not my fault, I mean, I am attracted 2 both! why is it such a big deal? does it hurt to love both? I think not I mean it's not my fault that I'm attracted to both Eva Longoria AND Taylor Lautner (he plays as jacob in movie twilight series)....

  • Very cute!

    Big hug from Rome, Italy ;-)

  • Chur Cute :D

  • perfect!

  • Well done! Terrific! It is wonderful that you are sharing this very personal story!

    God Bless,

    A Gay Christian Pastor

  • "bisexual, thats just being greedy" ahahah. its the best of both worlds! (not a hannah montana pun)

  • He is married to Luka Magnotta I read.

  • thanks for sharing your story. :D

  • soo nice !

  • what a cutie!

  • beautiful

  • You're adorable...:)

  • im bi and its so hard to keep secrets from your family i think my friends knew i was bi but any1 give me advice i really need it

  • donadoo, type "gaygod coming out" into the youtube search, and click on the third video. i hope this helps! i'm bisexual, and i'm wating until i move out before i tell my parents, so they can't kick me out. (they are christians) best of luck!

  • I'm not always gay; depends what mood I'm in.

  • bisexual people do exist just by the way... they're not mythical creatures!!

  • @ravlo2004 Agreed! In fact, I think the majority of people are bi or at least bicurious. Bisexuals just catch so much flack from both straight and gay people, and of course a lot of people are afraid to admit having same-sex attractions even just part of the time, so we'll never get an accurate estimate of which percentage of the population is bi.

  • @ravlo2004 is that supposed to be nice or mean

  • Bisexual being greedy? Fuck that! I can't help what i am attracted to no more than straight or gay people can!

    And i HATE when people who aren't bi claim that they are,it fucking pisses me off!

  • hes right,bisexual is considered gay.

    The word gay is so misunderstood these days...hahaha

  • HALF .

  • i sed i was gay even though i was bi lol

  • HA! Thats a new one!

  • lol I tried the same thing. Should have just said I was gay from the start would have been easier.

  • Bisexual is not greedy, okay? Trust me, I'm bi, and I would never have multiple relationships at one time.

  • @Liberalman35 Exactly ...Being bi requires the same relationship status Everyonne else has...Just because we as bisexuals like both does not mean we are going to have 2 relationships at the same time. One relationship at a time as so a straight or gay would have. :)

  • @Liberalman35 Right! we're neither understood or accepted even in our community! I stopped caring a while back but damn, it ain't fair!

  • @Liberalman35 totally agree! my parents are entirely convinced that if i were to be dating a woman, or a man, i would be SO INCREDIBLY SEXUALLY URGED that i would ABSOLUTELY have a side relationship with the opposite genter.... ummmmmmm... thats called cheating, not being bisexual.

    I would never even consider being with another person while i'm in a committed relationship just because i needed the satisfaction of both genders.

  • @Liberalman35 Neither would I. Such a stereotype.

  • i did this too

  • I never hid under bisexual idk why some people do it.

  • I understand your point, but I think it was tremendously brave of him to at least begin the process of revealing who he truly is to his brothers. While he didn't say he was gay, he did, in effect say he was not straight, which is something I think all bisexuals can identify with. I feel he meant no disrespect, but rather he wanted to begin living as who he is.

  • I hid under the bisexual safety net when I first came out to people. It just makes it seem easier.

  • im bi single looking for ab or gf

  • lol, that's hilarious.

    although, it probably would have just been better to tell them you were gay, just because either way, they're going to know that you have a different preference from them. and since they're your brothers, i doubt it's going to affect them anymore by telling them you're gay, then if you're bi.

  • somethime saying bi because it makes it easyer as there parents think its a faze and they will get gran children lol theres no such thing as gay its lazyness it takes time to find a women hiden tresures lol just joking! be what u need to be just dont mess people about! dont be a man that has a women and kids and has sex with men whilst she thinks u love her it happend to someone i know it distroyed her, if u do meet a women tell her your bi it could make things fun!!

  • comming out to your family is the hardest

  • come to uk your fit ;-p

  • I'm a bi female and I think ur sooooo fucking HOT...

  • I think you did the right thing by testing the waters with 'bisexual', it was a very brave thing that you have done. I also went through the fear of retaliation and abandonment

  • haha your really smiley =]

  • lololol

  • your HOTT !!

  • your adorable XD, its funny how people tend to say that they are bi-sexual instead of telling the truth.

  • ha ha I did the same thing! then my mom thought I was lying when I told her I was full lesbian.

  • bhahaha, fuck i said the exactly same thing, and i thought i was worse than just comming out and saying the whole thing

  • thts a awesome story! i told my family i was gay thru a txt message tht was actually like 20 messages long lol

  • phew at least dey din' like..FREAK OUT AND PUNCH YOU

  • being bisexual means more opportunities...

    just like your brother said.

    LOL!

  • aww that's so cute. ha ha "that's just being greedy"

  • Sweet. :)

  • im bi. and if a guy says ur greedy im like "should i save some guys for u?"

  • Ha, im going to use that one!

  • 1 year later lol

  • i totally understand. did the same thing. thought i'd keep my homies around, but, all i could think of was guys. and at the clubs, all i wanted to do was talk to cute guys. realized i was still in the closet. just a different closet. lol. cute story. hope your brothers accept u, totally, today. much luv n respect. b.

  • ohh im tOuch..

    but i want real lOve frOm bisexual toO..

    anyone want 2 give me a b!G huG..

  • THATS FUNNNY

    AHAHAHAHAH!

  • yeah, i understand what you're thinking. i originally came out as bi as well. didnt make it easier either. lol

    a cute story. thanks for sharing

  • That's a cute story. :]

  • that's just being greedy.... LOLLLLLLLL

    that was nice. Thanks for posting.

    Alexey

  • lol

  • This made me smile.

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