weight loss is so hard!! feeling the pressure blog 08/08/11

[WWXperience]

You are definitely not alone!!! I feel that way all the time and when I get ready to go out and as I stare at the clothes in my closet I want to scream! And yes it is hard but if we stick to it the end results will be so much better! Hope u feel better soon!

[justlosingit1]

i know what you mean when you say you feel like you dont notice a difference in your shape. i have to look back at previous videos to see the slight changes. you always see yourself so it is hard to see the small differences unless you were to compare it to something from the beginning of your journey.

[MsWatchmeshrink]

I know how you feel xxx

It didnt notice any change until I lost my second stone and still now about 32-33 lbs lighter,I still compare myself to others here on youtube,I wish I was more toned,I wish I had a smaller waist but just stick with it girl and you should definately start noticing a difference in your clothes!!

[AnnJulia1983]

@MsWatchmeshrink thanks for your words of wisdom.it does erk me alot that I can't see a diff personally. close friends commented that I didn't look as though I was carrying that much weight in my body shots!! I am glad that others have felt that way because it shows that I am not alone or going Mad!I do compare myself at times to others on youtube, esp when they look smaller at the same weight I am,but I need to get into a good head space to achieve my goals. at least i didn't comfort eat!

[mrstlovely]

Pick up that beautiful head! this is your journey its your time! "speak it as though it were!" postive self talk until you belive it! best of luck to you! you've got this!! i have faith in you :):)

[mrstlovely]

i understand exactly what your saying and i know that i have to push pass it.. my body fights me, sometimes the mental negativity tries to get to me but when you set out to acheive nothing is going to hold you back. You are doing well dontt be so hard on your self, as i always say "remember this is a lifestyle change and you have a lifetime to get it right!" dont expect lifetime results in a short amount of time" also as my WW leader use to say " Weightloss is a process, not a result"

[AnnJulia1983]

@mrstlovely thank you so much for that. I do understand that it is a challenge and I am adapting to a new way of life. for some reason I couldn't get out of it and was so emotional it was consuming me. I have a negative view of myself and I know it's going to take time but I can't see the results much of what I have lost and when I talk to my boyfriend, he doesn't notice the change!! that's whats so hard. thank you for your lovely comments. I am getting stronger with help from friends y/t ones2.

[mrstlovely]

@mrstlovely Somtimes its hard for us to see what others clearly see :) im glad your picking yourself up..the first step is to deal with that negativity, things will be so much better once you tackle that demon so to speak :) glad to hear your on the mend..remember postive self talk always :):)