You Haven't Heard Back

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love the advice you have to get over rejection if you can't there is a reason and you should look into why rejection bothers you

[torrid426]

Possibly she wants to be perused. Old school line of thinking for women, she can't accept a date until the third time you ask her out. Most likely she is not interested but even if she is old school move on, you don't want it any way.

[BayaniNx]

What about persistence?

[Evilinsane]

nowadays, money buys love.

[Wytchfinde]

@Evilinsane

It always has.

[mattmatt1102]

i love your channel i watch all your videos they're very informing and even when i'm not really able to relate to the topic of one of your videos i love watching how you explain things with your high enegry,and facial expressions, and to boot your "ridiculously good looking" (quote from zoolander) i'd watch a video of you brushing your teeth and rate it 5 stars haha

[bryant49]

shit if a chick dont answer my advances within a few minutes im on to the next im wondering how he waited a week

[TooheysGut]

It means the bitches and bastards are rejecting you.

the best way to solve such problems is

find out where they live and work,

approach with knife held at the ready,

now thrust that knife deep into their eye sockets,

repeat last step several times

and ask again.

[iliveinjersey]

@TooheysGut

[realtyboy2010]

if you haven't heard back then f em, ha ha.

[xxlonewolfxx37]

don't mean to sound creepy but damn i wish i can make love to you!

[thegozguy]

luv ya vanae!

[LoveLifeRadio]

Follow up with your date but don't be a stalker. Move on if they aren't returning your phone calls, emails, etc. So many people out there and you will find Mr. Right or Mrs. Wrong it's part of the dating game =)

[shadowsam619]

It means, I'm working, busy, tired, but I always make it a point to give a courtesy communica and let someone know what is going on. I hate games and tests, just give a strait answer and save us all time and it will stop someone from agonizing.

[paintballer7449]

ooooo! get a min. pin. they are soo fun when they get older and they are small

[imkilling09]

yup i agree :) 5* how do you cure shyness?

[Adveloq]

@imkilling09

You expose yourself. Over and over. Its hard in the beginning but gets a lot easier, and in the end you will be comfortable.

[imkilling09]

yup i agree :) 5* how do you cure shyness?

[qfruit]

@vanae12 thanks for the vid, but the truth hurts. maybe it's time for me to wake up.

[mysticality27]

if she does reply later than you expect, should you bring up why she took so long?

[claviertekky]

adopt a puppy.

so many dogs are killed every year because their owners didn't love them enough to be responsible.

[Guest1001]

This question has nothing to do with the video, other than the fact that Chris was from England but, Vanae, have you ever been to England? We'd love for you to visit and solve your UK V'stars dating problems. ^_^

[vanae12]

@Guest1001 hey dear, i haven't been to UK yet. but would love to! it's on my list

[carwashh]

@vanae12 You're welcome to come visit London any time! ;)

Cats are better than dogs though..

[J0J0Binx]

unless they are genuinely busy with something important, like exams or family stuff, take it that they're not interested. I mean its been a whole week!

[vanae12]

@J0J0Binx exactly :)

[metaleggman18]

It most likely means they're not interested. Some people must think it's fine to avoid or not reply to someone in a week or, in my case, two. So if a girl doesn't get back to you in a week, consider her officially not into you unless otherwise shown.

[brd203]

You have really helpful vids. I get alot of these types of questions from people thinking I'm some sort of expert in the field. This has helped me give out some sound advice. So thank you.

[sparkysports]

Guilty !

Yeah, am guilty that I want so much to make a call, but I don't always get it done. Then I torture myself because I know someone is waiting for me and they're probably having bad thoughts about me - shoot me.

But Vanae that's not what's really bothering me.

I always thought that I look good in blue and that blue is probably my color. Now I see you in that blue top and I know I don't compare.

Thinkin about yellow now....

[qfruit]

@sparkysports Are u a girl or a guy? Just wondering...

[HITCH1483]

Here is the bottom line...if you asked someone out..and you haven't heard back from them in a week...that person doesn't give a s*** about you. That person you are seeking is chilling with someone...that they really wanna be with. I wouldn't even sweat it. People get turned down daily...so its now on to the next one. Keep ya head up! I'm sure that you will find someone eventually.

[bkyee18]

i think it usually means you didnt impress the person you asked out enough for them to get back to you in a timely manner

[HarPlayer]

oio

[EppingForest304]

good advice :)

[LaborHours]

Please get the puppy from an animal shelter, not a pet store.

[heroineworshipper]

Was real lucky to get responses even if they were all negative. Getting no response is the worst. A good trick is instead of not responding, say "someday," not that that was what happened to us.

[yogi21thebear]

I see you have a chess board in the background, are you good at chess?

[yudy92]

that was really smart about what you said that if its a no "rejection" then it means that you and the other person is not a match... and its too bad that a lot of people dont get that. life would be much easier for people if they'd actually realize it. David Deangelo calls it the "pussy trance" youtube him if u want. =] again, great job Vanae. happy that i subscribed 2 ure channel. :D

[THAHITMAN509]

you're awesome. ;p

[thewewguy8t88]

thanks for actully pointing out that this may be something happens more then one time which is pretty much the case for me :/

[submitenter]

take it as a no lol

[jusblaze99]

Vanae- honestly your info is really interesting, a fresh perspective, but your vids would be 10X better if you slowly stripped while explaining... Dead serious, you'd be #1 on youtube in 10 secs flat!

[jakeywunderaura]

If I haven't responded in over a week it usually means that I didn't respond to the first message and completely forgot about it altogether... so I would need to be reminded xD

[kiaza70]

love u and i got a Q:how do i get my friend to break up with his boy friend and so i can go out with here

[mrck2005]

Speaking of puppies... Why are women attracted to men with puppies? Please answer vanae. You probably have some a wonderful explaination... THANK YOU;-)

[ChristopherJManess]

If I haven't contacted that person, I may have forgotten, in which case I am not that interested in them. If they spark my interest, I will obviously remember. To make myself stand out from the rest for my job that I recently got, I not only slapped a photo of myself on the portfolio, but I also showed up for the interview in a suit, tie and all. When making your first impression last for anything, you have to be different, but in a good way. I'm Chris Maness, and I approve this message.

[thewewguy8t88]

@ChristopherJManess yeah usally if someone forgets even though it was not ment to be a rejection its basicly a sign that deep down this person is not interested and it porably will not work out.

[FriscoDuck415]

Damn, Vanae. Almost did it; almost went the whole way w/no shoulder shrug. :-)

Have a good weekend.

[KOkingnufc07]

I'd fuck your vanae

[willchamb]

1st comment, i love u vanae!!!!!!!!!!!