DivorceCare.org: How to heal from the pain of divorce

[lynnbowen]

sooper2dooper3 your words portray a heart and a life that is desperate and in desperate need of a teaching series like Divorce Care. More than that, the Gospel of Christ can set you free from the things you experience.

[sooper2dooper3]

Best recipe for recovery after divorce.

1. Tell your ex you love him/her and you look forward to sharing your future together.

2. Find a new bitch/bastard

3. Tell your ex you made a mistake...you no longer care about him/her

4. Tell your new bitch/bastard you only want sex

5. Run away alone and have a holiday and drink a lot

6. Accidentally fall in love with someone new.

[dlhermes]

my wife told me that because I look a pornography it was adultery but I don't know how many time I heard her say she liked a movie acter so that is lust in her hart and then on top of all this we where never was as one flash .the martial bed room was not as our place the child was all way there is that right? now she told me she repent on the lust

[lastblast7]

The problem is not in teaching one how to be Christ-like during a divorce, the problem with DivorceCare materials is that they avoid the commandment given to Paul by Jesus: "if she does depart, she is to remain umarried or be reconciled to her husband."  They also do not deal with: "whosoever marries her that is DIVORCED, commits adultery." That says divorce does NOT dissolve the union God joined together for life. DivorceCare encourages adultery. :(

[squirrellady2]

@lastblast7

My mother left my father after he tried to kill her by strangling her in front of us as small children. He already had shoved her down the stairs while she was 6 months pregnant. My little sister to be died. We had our names changed and moved to another state. I don't regret her leaving, nor her remarrying a kind man without mental issues. Frankly, God is the final judge of our choices.

[lastblast7]

@squirrellady2 I understand the evil nature of some human beings, SL. However, DivorceCare deals with professing CHRISTIANS, not the world, so our mindset/outlook/actions are not to reflect what the world would do (or what feels good to us) but we follow the Lord and obey Him---even in the very difficult things. His heart would be for you all to be praying for your father to repent and come to faith--to be a new creation. God is a God of reconciliation/restoration, not replacement. Blessings.

[MarkT2]

Helpful material for those dealing with difficulties in marriage or dealing with divorce are available by searching for New Growth Press. They have minibooks for many issues that you may be dealing with. Discounts are available for churches, military, or other groups looking to help by calling (877)647-2233.