Sir I'm going through the same thing right now lol I have a friend that wanted me to move with them and what I mean them I mean him and his girlfriend. So anyway she thinks the apartment have to be her way if not she will bitch about if for 1-2 hours. Now I'm looking for another place because this is too much and too stressful. but anyway I understand what you going through just that I feel sorry for you because you went through it a year before I did, but anyway stay up.
@Claytonsaiyan I'm sure I maker it sound much more troubling than it actually was, though that could be me still trying to be nice about the situation. We hardly talked, and when we did talk it was never really civil. We're better off apart as it stands, though it does suck I can't be on good terms with my friend's girlfriend, which is now his wife. :(
she's probably not immature or selfish. Women tend to have a real problem expressing themselve EFFICIENTLY verbally.. MEN are analyrical and capable of that much more than women... she probably see MESS everywhere... she sees mess you don't. She probably SMELLS things that she doesn't like. She probably WOULD be better off living by herself.... just keep in mind that everyone has different standards... standards.. mine are def high just cuz she can't live w YOU doesn't mean she can't live w any1
@sugarcane2013 but I'll also keep in mind that I don't know her or her situation.... anyway.. but it's never a good idea to move in with a COUPLE. .... She probably also didn't like you because she wanted her HOME with her man... I'm sorry you had to live there with those circumstances. Just always keep in mind.... when a woman makes a decision its generally based on an overwhelming amount of information so when she says "Just because" she's saying...it's way 2 much for me to tlk about right no
I'm sorry, but "just because" is demeaning, immature, selfish, snobbish, irresponsible, and a whole bunch of other words that make a person unbearably vulgar. If someone needs to talk to you, and how you respond is going to irreparably make or break your future relationship, you're not going to say "just because" and blow it off. If you ever wish to be a functioning member of society, you will never...ever...use those words in such a circumstance. Final. :(
@JoeSomebody2 Yes men and women have their own strengths and their own differences. Men are more rational and analytical (left brain) so communicating EFFECTIVELY and direct is easier for them. Women are better with instincts, and abstract things and we take everything into consideration which is often times considered "over analyzing" so my point is that alot of times women aren't all that crazy they just can't effectively showcase WHY lol it's a hard trait to learn... but I did it so if...
@sugarcane2013 part II sorry.... so IF a woman REALIZES this and calms down long enough to really organize their thoughts it's more than capable...... it does wonders... I've taught alot of men alot of things...lots of mysteries solved if you will lmao. Ive only met one other woman who can manage the overwhelming assessments that come to mind that are related to EVERYTHING.... we're just programmed to understand every tiny aspect of everything and it's frustrating... which is y women bug out lol
I find it hard to accept. If you're going to discuss important issues (which the majority of such thoughts that deal with feelings and interaction are), you need to be civil about it. No one will take you seriously. In that thought, thank you for taking the time. ;)
Also, I know a guy who breaks out emotionally all of the time, running on pure gut feelings. So even though he claims to be "alpha man", he's really just a woman? Certainly puts it in a whole new perspective. :S
@JoeSomebody2 "So even tough he claims to be "alfa man" he's really just a woman?"
Ok about ur first point.. you say you find it hard to accept.. accept WHAT? how it IS?? I agree with what you said however it's irrelevant to the point. The point is that men and woman are wired differently (in GENERAL: SO jumping ahead to your very last point "i know a guy..." tha's also irrelevant... ) then you say "thank you for taking the time." that's almost like when Christians HAULT a convo because they.
@JoeSomebody2Christians HAULT a convo because they have no real defense and just shut the other side up before it makes them look bad.. when it comes to your second point.... there's two thing... the 1st i already addressed the second... "alpha man" , he's really a woman? When you reach a specific stage *male stages, you'll realize that alfa female is higher than alfa male... if he is feminine he's already more higher up on the hierarchy. the feminine is ERRONEOUSLY associated with weakness...
@JoeSomebody2 I mean think about it.... women FEEL more.... we STRESS more that way... it's exhausting and frustrating and traumatic and some turn into bitches some turn into incredible women... you can hurt your body... ok ya been there done that...women have twice as many pain receptors as men... so TELL me we don't feel more in general... men tend to use outside reassurance more seriously. where men need approval women need devotion. where she looks for loyalty he looks to be accepted BY her.
@JoeSomebody2 and I KNOW you're going to say "NUH UHU!" and pout. Oh and I know everyone is different. I'm AWARE that things can always get more complicated ;) however im speaking in generalities... I'm also speaking about the average american within the "critical thinkers" category... I'm finally going to bed noe. :) lol I jut moved into new place... I found THE BEST roommates.. both guys... and It's awesome. Another lesson most women need to learn: CHOSE YOUR BATTLES. LMFAO! :)
I find your assumptions to how I'll react a little confusing, but I smile and shrug all the same. And please don't think I'm trying to halt conversation. Having only 500 characters to work with doesn't make for a lot of room to say much, and I usually don't post multiple comments to say what I need to. Tend to summarize a lot. Perhaps I should expand via letters? ;)
I hope it works out with you and the other roomies. Nothing feels better than feeling at home IN your home. :)
@JoeSomebody2 im sorry I confused you. Sorry for replying so much too. It's just that the English language is HORRIBLE at effectively describing abstract and complicated things. There's always a ton of holes and misunderstandings. I was stoned when I wrote all those too btw and I was goofin off and in a good mood haha lol just to let u know :)
@JoeSomebody2 I don't think I replied too much at all.. I had a point.. and I made it... lol haha I think you think I replied "too much" because it's "too much" for you to process at once... it's ok I get it lol :)
Respond to this video... OH! and I literally moved into my new place on the 19th. I live with two guys. One is 22 and the other 25. They leave the toilet seat up and I don't care lol cuz I actually like who they are as people. I respect them as individuals and it doesn't gross me out as much as someone else's ya know? Just thought I would let you know that there are def women who can room w 2 guys. she was just ready to play house with her man ya know? HER family etc... diff stages
You have to realize that the most comments I ever get from any one person is at most a few, and they usually post just one and respond after I do. So yes, you have replied a lot. And no, it wasn't "too much" to process. ;)
@JoeSomebody2 wow whatever. I stopped caring about this along ass time ago but if it means that much to you yes YOU'RE right ...some how some way... lol you win. There :) Have a nice day :)
Madam? I'm confused at what you say I'm "right" about or what I've "won", turning my demeanor towards you from appreciation to utter confusion and concern. I thought we were having a pleasant conversation with each other, but it seems you've made it out to be something else. :(
But as you say, you really don't care, so I will not either. All the same, I thank you for your words, because it was refreshing, regardless of what you think. ;)
@JoeSomebody2 ***sigh... no I just really don't care lol and we were having a decent conversation but you're going to analyze and knit pick at everything I say we could do this until the end of time and I'm just uninterested in this topic now. I haven't "turned" it into anything. I'm sorry that you catastrophize what I said. Look I told you what I thought I explained my opinion... there's nothing else to talk about. Stop being a girl :P haha ;) xox :)
@sugarcane2013 and when you say "regardless of what you think" wow that's really biased and proves my point that it doesn't matter what I say you're going to hold a certain amount of intellectual materialism and be biased which yes is normal but hinders real progress. I've met way too many people that THINK they're open minded yet in reality are nothing but biased and push away whatever they don't understand. *which btw is exactly how fascism WANTS people to be. like i said it could go 4evr
@JoeSomebody2 wow... and when I wanted to end the convo you had to say something smart... so I continued and now u want to b a dick anyway...... like I said you win lol
That's the hope I have to hold onto, since I really wonder if I ever do enough. Survey always points to "No" in regards to everything, but I'm pretty sure there was nothing I could have done to make things better. Other than be her bitch, which wasn't happening. :(
I'm like you, Joe- I tend to be pretty laid back and friendly to everybody, and then when I encounter somebody who blanks me and who obviously just plain doesn't like me, it plays on my mind and I end up obsessing over it and wondering what I must be doing wrong.
But then I think - nah! Fuck that shit! I'm not the one with the problem here. This Ashley sounds like a total twat and not worth the hassle.
Hey Joe, I'm looking for a room-mate. Shame you live thousands of miles away!
Sounds very akin to what I went through alright (going through?). Also to note, I get very apprehensive (I think that's the word) when people use such words in regards to her. Sure, one could draw such a conclusion from my descriptions, but I don't like to think of people in such light (or pretty much anyone). Just a thing about me I suppose. :(
wow that was personal and she doesn't seem to be a nice person....reminds of something that happend between me and a firend once he moved together with his girlfriend. She literally thought I would hate her because she stole him from me - yeah, she thought I loved him like that, which wasn't true. I love my friends but not like that.
Sir I'm going through the same thing right now lol I have a friend that wanted me to move with them and what I mean them I mean him and his girlfriend. So anyway she thinks the apartment have to be her way if not she will bitch about if for 1-2 hours. Now I'm looking for another place because this is too much and too stressful. but anyway I understand what you going through just that I feel sorry for you because you went through it a year before I did, but anyway stay up.
Claytonsaiyan 3 weeks ago
@Claytonsaiyan I'm sure I maker it sound much more troubling than it actually was, though that could be me still trying to be nice about the situation. We hardly talked, and when we did talk it was never really civil. We're better off apart as it stands, though it does suck I can't be on good terms with my friend's girlfriend, which is now his wife. :(
JoeSomebody2 3 weeks ago
Milwaukee is the Modesto of the East Coast.
wastelandtv2 3 months ago
@wastelandtv2 Midwest Coast actually, which I can get away with because Milwaukee is nestled next to Lake Michigan. :P
JoeSomebody2 3 months ago
she's probably not immature or selfish. Women tend to have a real problem expressing themselve EFFICIENTLY verbally.. MEN are analyrical and capable of that much more than women... she probably see MESS everywhere... she sees mess you don't. She probably SMELLS things that she doesn't like. She probably WOULD be better off living by herself.... just keep in mind that everyone has different standards... standards.. mine are def high just cuz she can't live w YOU doesn't mean she can't live w any1
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013 but I'll also keep in mind that I don't know her or her situation.... anyway.. but it's never a good idea to move in with a COUPLE. .... She probably also didn't like you because she wanted her HOME with her man... I'm sorry you had to live there with those circumstances. Just always keep in mind.... when a woman makes a decision its generally based on an overwhelming amount of information so when she says "Just because" she's saying...it's way 2 much for me to tlk about right no
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013
I'm sorry, but "just because" is demeaning, immature, selfish, snobbish, irresponsible, and a whole bunch of other words that make a person unbearably vulgar. If someone needs to talk to you, and how you respond is going to irreparably make or break your future relationship, you're not going to say "just because" and blow it off. If you ever wish to be a functioning member of society, you will never...ever...use those words in such a circumstance. Final. :(
JoeSomebody2 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 I wasn't defending it.... I was just letting him know how it works psychologically.... but good job assuming... I DO agree with you. :)
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 Yes men and women have their own strengths and their own differences. Men are more rational and analytical (left brain) so communicating EFFECTIVELY and direct is easier for them. Women are better with instincts, and abstract things and we take everything into consideration which is often times considered "over analyzing" so my point is that alot of times women aren't all that crazy they just can't effectively showcase WHY lol it's a hard trait to learn... but I did it so if...
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013 part II sorry.... so IF a woman REALIZES this and calms down long enough to really organize their thoughts it's more than capable...... it does wonders... I've taught alot of men alot of things...lots of mysteries solved if you will lmao. Ive only met one other woman who can manage the overwhelming assessments that come to mind that are related to EVERYTHING.... we're just programmed to understand every tiny aspect of everything and it's frustrating... which is y women bug out lol
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013
I find it hard to accept. If you're going to discuss important issues (which the majority of such thoughts that deal with feelings and interaction are), you need to be civil about it. No one will take you seriously. In that thought, thank you for taking the time. ;)
Also, I know a guy who breaks out emotionally all of the time, running on pure gut feelings. So even though he claims to be "alpha man", he's really just a woman? Certainly puts it in a whole new perspective. :S
JoeSomebody2 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 "So even tough he claims to be "alfa man" he's really just a woman?"
Ok about ur first point.. you say you find it hard to accept.. accept WHAT? how it IS?? I agree with what you said however it's irrelevant to the point. The point is that men and woman are wired differently (in GENERAL: SO jumping ahead to your very last point "i know a guy..." tha's also irrelevant... ) then you say "thank you for taking the time." that's almost like when Christians HAULT a convo because they.
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2Christians HAULT a convo because they have no real defense and just shut the other side up before it makes them look bad.. when it comes to your second point.... there's two thing... the 1st i already addressed the second... "alpha man" , he's really a woman? When you reach a specific stage *male stages, you'll realize that alfa female is higher than alfa male... if he is feminine he's already more higher up on the hierarchy. the feminine is ERRONEOUSLY associated with weakness...
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 I mean think about it.... women FEEL more.... we STRESS more that way... it's exhausting and frustrating and traumatic and some turn into bitches some turn into incredible women... you can hurt your body... ok ya been there done that...women have twice as many pain receptors as men... so TELL me we don't feel more in general... men tend to use outside reassurance more seriously. where men need approval women need devotion. where she looks for loyalty he looks to be accepted BY her.
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 and I KNOW you're going to say "NUH UHU!" and pout. Oh and I know everyone is different. I'm AWARE that things can always get more complicated ;) however im speaking in generalities... I'm also speaking about the average american within the "critical thinkers" category... I'm finally going to bed noe. :) lol I jut moved into new place... I found THE BEST roommates.. both guys... and It's awesome. Another lesson most women need to learn: CHOSE YOUR BATTLES. LMFAO! :)
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013
I find your assumptions to how I'll react a little confusing, but I smile and shrug all the same. And please don't think I'm trying to halt conversation. Having only 500 characters to work with doesn't make for a lot of room to say much, and I usually don't post multiple comments to say what I need to. Tend to summarize a lot. Perhaps I should expand via letters? ;)
I hope it works out with you and the other roomies. Nothing feels better than feeling at home IN your home. :)
JoeSomebody2 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 im sorry I confused you. Sorry for replying so much too. It's just that the English language is HORRIBLE at effectively describing abstract and complicated things. There's always a ton of holes and misunderstandings. I was stoned when I wrote all those too btw and I was goofin off and in a good mood haha lol just to let u know :)
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013
No worries about replying too much and whatever confusion occurred. You gave me something to think about, that is for sure. ;)
JoeSomebody2 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 I don't think I replied too much at all.. I had a point.. and I made it... lol haha I think you think I replied "too much" because it's "too much" for you to process at once... it's ok I get it lol :)
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
Respond to this video... OH! and I literally moved into my new place on the 19th. I live with two guys. One is 22 and the other 25. They leave the toilet seat up and I don't care lol cuz I actually like who they are as people. I respect them as individuals and it doesn't gross me out as much as someone else's ya know? Just thought I would let you know that there are def women who can room w 2 guys. she was just ready to play house with her man ya know? HER family etc... diff stages
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013
You have to realize that the most comments I ever get from any one person is at most a few, and they usually post just one and respond after I do. So yes, you have replied a lot. And no, it wasn't "too much" to process. ;)
JoeSomebody2 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 wow whatever. I stopped caring about this along ass time ago but if it means that much to you yes YOU'RE right ...some how some way... lol you win. There :) Have a nice day :)
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013
Madam? I'm confused at what you say I'm "right" about or what I've "won", turning my demeanor towards you from appreciation to utter confusion and concern. I thought we were having a pleasant conversation with each other, but it seems you've made it out to be something else. :(
But as you say, you really don't care, so I will not either. All the same, I thank you for your words, because it was refreshing, regardless of what you think. ;)
JoeSomebody2 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 ***sigh... no I just really don't care lol and we were having a decent conversation but you're going to analyze and knit pick at everything I say we could do this until the end of time and I'm just uninterested in this topic now. I haven't "turned" it into anything. I'm sorry that you catastrophize what I said. Look I told you what I thought I explained my opinion... there's nothing else to talk about. Stop being a girl :P haha ;) xox :)
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013 and when you say "regardless of what you think" wow that's really biased and proves my point that it doesn't matter what I say you're going to hold a certain amount of intellectual materialism and be biased which yes is normal but hinders real progress. I've met way too many people that THINK they're open minded yet in reality are nothing but biased and push away whatever they don't understand. *which btw is exactly how fascism WANTS people to be. like i said it could go 4evr
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
@sugarcane2013
I point to my last comment in response to you. I really don't need to say anything else other than that. :(
JoeSomebody2 1 year ago
@JoeSomebody2 wow... and when I wanted to end the convo you had to say something smart... so I continued and now u want to b a dick anyway...... like I said you win lol
sugarcane2013 1 year ago
At least you tried.
FrostfoxFilms 2 years ago 2
That's the hope I have to hold onto, since I really wonder if I ever do enough. Survey always points to "No" in regards to everything, but I'm pretty sure there was nothing I could have done to make things better. Other than be her bitch, which wasn't happening. :(
JoeSomebody2 2 years ago
I'm like you, Joe- I tend to be pretty laid back and friendly to everybody, and then when I encounter somebody who blanks me and who obviously just plain doesn't like me, it plays on my mind and I end up obsessing over it and wondering what I must be doing wrong.
But then I think - nah! Fuck that shit! I'm not the one with the problem here. This Ashley sounds like a total twat and not worth the hassle.
Hey Joe, I'm looking for a room-mate. Shame you live thousands of miles away!
FaxanaduJohn 2 years ago
Sounds very akin to what I went through alright (going through?). Also to note, I get very apprehensive (I think that's the word) when people use such words in regards to her. Sure, one could draw such a conclusion from my descriptions, but I don't like to think of people in such light (or pretty much anyone). Just a thing about me I suppose. :(
JoeSomebody2 2 years ago
@JoeSomebody2
You're a better man than I, Joe. Your unwillingness to label such obviously egregious individuals with negative slurs is a very commendable trait.
FaxanaduJohn 2 years ago
wow that was personal and she doesn't seem to be a nice person....reminds of something that happend between me and a firend once he moved together with his girlfriend. She literally thought I would hate her because she stole him from me - yeah, she thought I loved him like that, which wasn't true. I love my friends but not like that.
hubertcumberdale2008 2 years ago 2
For all I know she could be nice. But I never got to see that part of her. :(
JoeSomebody2 2 years ago
... was she on her rag the whole time?
gundamfreak2114 2 years ago
Okay, that was a little unnecessary. :D
But I suppose it's valid. One has to wonder why such attitude could be given. :(
JoeSomebody2 2 years ago