@TheGhostOfPainsey - While some may laugh, the nature and extent of pornography and sexual addiction is growing exponentially. In fact, the DSM-IV lists over 80 sexual paraphilias. Watching the front lines of the thousands of those truly struggling with these addictions is no laughing matter. Both the addicts and their loved ones suffer.
Mister i really liked that part about directing the "energy" to somewhere more usefull.If i can direct my lust to where i want i can pretty much use the force.
Can masturbation lower testosterone afffecting the devlopment of your body during puberty? Also are there any permanent affects or damage to the mind if it's abused and with pornography?
I really like your positive approach. There is another and better thing to do than masturbate. Find out something that gives you pleasure, not sexual, but a new sort of activity, as for example, a thing that is noble & pleasurable. These acts must be 'concrete'. If you love to work with youth, or some other noble & pleasurable activity, turn your thoughts to this pleasurable activity. As a celibate priest I find youth work very fulfilling. Maturbation = a betrayal of the youth I 'work' with!
@watchful38 - The "Limbic" or instinctual part of the brain has a need for activity that produces and fires the chemicals needed for survival. Today's paradigm is one of immediate pleasure and media saturation. Delayed gratification is a thing of the past. Hard work, tending farms. working a family business, deep education pursuits are now being replaced by "how can I do that faster and easier."
@watchful38 - (cont.) Of course there are still many hard working people out there but the trend of complacency and entitlement is alarming. When one strives for all things easy and has no purpose and goals, addictive and compulsive behavior can all too easily become the way the brain seeks survival. The natural chemicals the brain needs come to those who lead a busy and fulfilling life.
@111kevinlim Just Try To think of something else when it pops in ur mind , Remember that masturbation affects ur brain memory and u will suffer from knees Problems .
@MrEgyMiro thats not alot thats a normal amount for young males. 18 years old is the sexual peak/prime for males and your almost their so no need to worry son
@MrEgyMiro Hi, I am a Catholic priest in Canada. To help you to be pure, remember 'purity' is not a negative thing. Phillip Rivers, the Quarterback of the San Diego Chargers in the NFL, has several videos that give his personal experience. Before marriage he & his girlfriend had great times together & with friends. Yes, holding hands, hugging each other, some 'chaste' kisses, but no sex. Once married they both had sex for the first time! What a fantastic experience for both! Thanks.
@MrEgyMiro watch my video called HOW TO STOP MASTURBATING, it will motivate you to stop, you have to believe in Heaven, that Jesus's Halo was Kundalini enlightenment, and that masturbation depletes kundalini, you need kundalini in order to go to heaven, a lot, it worked for me, once you master this, all other addictions will go away.a, women will no longer be objects to you, don't believe me? Watch my video it worked for me.
The 4th Qtr was here and he says to the speaker on this video..... "Get right with God before he shows you what he thinks about this. Sexual Immorality is ok huh? It is "ok" ro go to hell and burn for eternity... because masturbation is ok? Really? I bet u may not even believe there is a God too huh?
I have masterbated in my whole life about 20 times, so if I stop right now everything will be alright? please reply back and for some reason after watching this video my urge for masterbating has stoped! :P
So basically what you are doing is literally quoting free, 12 step program's literature and selling it as your program with a focus on masturbation. Anyone reading this know that there are free Twelve step programs out there that will do just as much if not more for you than what a professional selling you a program can. To follow with this joker's scheme of quoting AA/NA literature - "The relationship between one addict helping another is without parallel". Search for sex addicts anonymous.
I've been masturbating ever since I've got erections as a kid. Even when I have girl-friends, I still do it when they're not available. Otherwise I may be cheating on them. Us men are hard-wired like that. It's normal. If it's unhealthy, then so is sex. If you're masturbating multiple times a day, that's probably an issue, though. You have to give your sperm enough time to regenerate. Also, try to use your imagination more instead of porn. You may develop unrealistic standards.
@FuIIOfFaiI - Humans are hard-wired as sexual beings. This is what makes living in today's age so confusing. What's unhealthy, are addictive behaviors that are effecting quality of life an individual is living. Whether that be physical, emotional, spiritual, or relationship/sexual quality of life. Our purpose is to help those who are experiencing the effects of addiction, something that one has committed to stop doing multiple times and continues to come back, despite negative consequences.
@modjrisawesome - We do not feel it is good to masturbate anytime. There are many individuals that are struggling with this issue and it interferes with the rest of their life.
This it not about God, Jesus or what the bible says is a bad thing. Masturbation, porn and sex addiction can ruin your real sex life, it's a chemical thing and has nothing to do with religion and morality.
@TheDon233F9F - Thank you for your thoughts. Addictive use of any substance, material, or action will in consequence effect quality of relationships. The reason we as humans participate in compulsive actions is to find an 'escape' from the pains that life brings. The result in compulsively numbing the emotional pains of life is further emptiness and distant relationships.
Of course one could say that people or I watch porn because it's a distraction from not having love or a compassionate relationship in my life, but like I said the truth is that those things cannot be found in it, ever. I don't know really, but I would suggested looking at it with your heart not with your head, and actually think about what you see. Peace out. :)
I think when you look at it for what it really is, sort of stop yourself from that automatic impulse action, that dives you into it. And instead before that think about the way it's marketed, the way it's a fake reality, the way it has no love in it, there's no caring in it. I started to care about a porn star in her films and after that porn has just changed for me. I see clear now that the things we need in life, love, friendship, compassion, company, these cannot be found porn.
I'm obsessed with porn 13 years. But I've had a huge break through a few days ago.I deleted all of it, but then I got some of it back on to my computer. I think the thing to remember is that none of this is wrong, this is a natural thing, we have sexual thoughts because we have a dick not because of porn.I think someone like me should still use some sort of porn because of sexual needs,but there's a truth in porn that I think once seen & once thought about starts to remove some of the obsession.
It's your body do whatever you want with it. I believe in god that doesn't mean masturbation must not be done. This is the 21st Century get real, masturbating is fine and a healthy, natural occurrence of every day life. There is nothing wrong or unhealthy about it, and you will not burn in hell for it. Keep on keeping on
@innergold1000 How do I stop masturbating? What are the techniques? I am really religous and by committing this sin it has sent me to deep depression and even suicidal thoughts. Please sir give me your best methods on how to stop, I think my life might depend on it.
@jkl9093 - Please visit our website. We are all sexual beings by nature and a majority struggle in learning to manage their sexuality in a way they view "healthy" to them. Although this has created deep emotional pains, there is always hope. Life is supposed to have its struggles as that is how we grow and progress. You are not alone and you certainly are not a bad person for struggling...many many have learned to manage their emotions and behaviors.
@jkl9093 if u are religious than don't go to this guy cuz he's just gonna give u some scientific psychological thing go ask some better people that will give u advice and therapy that will cut it from the root. It is not the masturbation it is the root of it?
Too much of anything is not healthy. Chronic masturbation may led to addiction to pornographic media to increase pleasure, loss of romance in relationships, loss of desire for sex with others and health problems.
@Ciukatheman - It is a plague and that is what we have invested so much to helping people. We have seen many individuals use our system and find much happiness and joy that they did not know existed. Our whole purpose is to help people understand this addiction, educate them on how to manage it and provide a healing system that works. We have created a system that is changing the world.
Masturbating is normal and healthy, releases hormons that builds up in your body. Masturbation isn't bad, it's ust a way to relieve stress and feel better about life. Masturbating is fun, and I don't plan on stopping any time soon! :D
I encourage you to think through what you're promoting man. In every other physical area of life, we condition our bodies, and do exercises over and over and over again, so it reacts to a certain type of response, without thinking about it. Thing is, men can become so conditioned to making love to their hands, that they can't respond to a real woman. It is addicting, and isn't helpful. It is not healthy. You can train your body to that arousal, which is harmful.
@MrClockWK - Go to our site and get all of our free materials to help out. We have many resources that can help you get your life back. You are not alone in feeling like your life is ruined.
@Abdulmalik773 - You're recognizing the need for help now, which is good. We recommend going to our site and taking advantage of all of the free materials we offer to individuals.
@Futurefilm101 - Congratulations on trying to manage this before it becomes a full fledge addiction and starts to impede your life. We wish you the best.
@Futurefilm101 Ok dude, this is what you have to do. Every time you get the urge, you have to focus your mind into other activities. Don't get bored, and don't give up. You really can't ignore the urge. You have to re-route the libido behind your lustful thoughts and feelings into something else. You get this sort of tender feeling in your leg and pelvic region,I'm sure you know, and you have to shift that feeling away from the lower body toward the heart. I hope that helps.
Those urges you get have a lust behind them, and you have to confront those lusts and let go of them. Rather than acting on the urge to gain fulfillment, you should seek fulfillment through God. Ask him for forgiveness, and you should be on your way to stopping it. That libido gets wasted through masturbation too. That's powerful energy that you could be putting into chores, physical activity or school work. Best of luck to you.
Everytime you get any type of lustful thought, you have to confront it and let it go. If you let these thoughts build up in your mind, you'll fail. If you accidentally come across an arousing image online or on tv, you should try to let it go. Sometimes it'll take 10 minutes just to let lustful thoughts and urges pass, but its well worth it.
@iSachihiro Yah, I've found meditating on the holy spirit very useful. You have to tune your mind onto the wavelength of God's infinite love and maintain it. Its like a feeling of love for everyone and everything, including your enemies and yourself. A lot of times we rely on habitual pleasure to support ourselves and get through life, but those behaviors are really weak, finite pretenses to live life through. Its much better to live through more eternal, cosmic, divine principals.
@Futurefilm101 - We would recommend speaking to your parents and a school counselor, if you are needing additional support. You can also learn more on how to manage this addiction on our site.
@LegitScience - We have found that many people do best by just stopping but implementing the language of recovery. You can learn more about it by watching our videos and checking out our site.
@greenghost2008 - We have had many individuals ask this question and feel like there is nothing wrong with it. There are many differing views but one thing we have noticed is that several people who have posted about it being ok, are now using our system to learn how to manage it because we were the only voice saying to not do it.
@austin2460 - We believe there is a since of what's right and what's wrong in all of us; some call this sense, the spirit, others call it intuition, others call it the light of Christ. Whatever you want to call that feeling, it exists.
@innergold1000 yes but, one thing about this whole thing really annoys me is the side effects, anxiety, elbow pains, well not pains but cramps and the most annoying one, thinking I put this is my life and I always need it, is there anything I can do for these side effects to go away, if there was I could stop this addiction most easily, I do it because I feel lonely and want the effects to go away and they do, until I wake up the next morning moaning and growning
The best way to stop urself from masturbation is to read and watch more and more anti-mastubation content,,,,,try to read the adverse effects of masturbation after every few hours,,,,Believe me it works.
Pakistan is the numeber one country to search for porn on internet,,,,according to google and fox news,,,ultimately u can say that pakistan is the country where masturbation is highest in numbers,,so plz translate ur lecture in their language,called Urdu.
I am going to try to get into my religion more practice more of it my religion is Hellenic polytheistic a pagan religion so i will try to stay clean by praying and worshiping my gods
Thanks a lot guys, I just wanted to share part of my testimony. I've been praying and I picked up a hobbie, I'm playing guitar and singing. So far I've been clean for a whole week without getting the urge to masturbate, this used to be impossible for me, I couldn't go three days without doing it. I don't care what my sex ed teacher said, masturbation made my life very unhappy and miserable, I am now more optimistic and happier.
first i want to say that this a very beautiful video in ways of instructing us that well that feeling of arousal comes into place, can be directed in to something else than rather using it for pevertion like porn and fantasies with other people. it can be used as a moment to play a guitar, or a physical activity etc. well that is what i understood so far about what the gentlemen said. it needs to be accepted, comprehended and used in a matter of a healthy way in your life. may god be with you.
Ive been trying to stop masturbating for a long time, and i hate it when i masturbate because it makes me feel like my ex girlfriends are laughing at me for not getting some snatch. I dont know how to fix this, because even when i dont masturbate i ejaculate in my sleep which creates that strong urge in a day or two again. I guess my superego just isnt as effective as i want it to be.
It's normal to do it ppl, we are all human who make mistakes!!! God will forgive us, we just got to ask him for forgiveness!! If it's an ADDiiction, and you tell God ur going to stop and u fail, then do what I do! Try and ease it up day by day n week by week. Soon it will be month by month
From personal testimony I can tell you that masturbating is a way for Satan to open you up to some not-so-fun side effects. These side effects include: (1) Dangerous imbalances in body chemistry (2) Psychosomatic illnesses (3) Self-pollution
Examine your thoughts so that the quality of your thoughts lines up with what is right. Allow the Lord to fill your need for love. If you do slip up, a bout of good exercise can help you feel right again. God bless you.
@SylentIntensity1122 - We would recommend watching out how to prevent a slip video. The Lord wants us to increase our education so that He can help us more.
@innergold1000 ? what lord? oh you mean the biblical mythology god yes i have diverted that path along time ago because my Hellenic Polytheistic or Greek gods have shown me too live in a better way
@zombiecrowtv - It is important to learn the language of recovery and utilize the tools that we have put out there. Check them out on our site, they're free.
@zombiecrowtv you feel guilty because christianity makes you feel guilty =) come join us atheists! we have no guilt no shame :D and we fap everyday heck even five times a day!
I'm tired of this! I just want to live a normal life! And every time I do it I feel ashamed in myself, like I'm depressed, and when I do it twice I get lightheaded! I just can't live with my life I wanna be normal(crying).
From personal testimony I can tell you that masturbating is a way for Satan to open you up to some not-so-fun side effects. These side effects include: (1) Dangerous imbalances in body chemistry (2) Psychosomatic illnesses (3) Self-pollution
Examine your thoughts so that the quality of your thoughts lines up with what is right. Allow the Lord to fill your need for love. If you do slip up, a bout of good exercise can help you feel right again. God bless you.
@iiSaiNtZxD - Read the Language of Recovery and then implement the things you learn, go to our site and download the daily sheet and start putting some discipline in your life to help you.
Innergold please help me I masturbated 2 times today I couldn't help myself I read the whole book and know the 3 step it's just that I'm trying to stop but I have all these other things that bother me.. I get "boners" and I look stupid, I also always think I can't breathe, I have leg cramps ever since I did it the first time it ruined my life please HeLP!!! I'm begging you!
@1cambiamos Masturbation is extremely unhealthy to the body and the mind. Go to reg6(dot)com and click to bottom and order the book Secret Sin of Foolish Virgins.
@innergold1000 - "Educating yourself and learning is always good. However, be careful to not get so deep you shame yourself. This is a process and you are young. Dont let that fact be an excuse to not try or give up but in our experience shame does not help. You are a good young man. You are trying. Just keep going and don't give up."
@13Xanadu - Masturbation is all about self gratification and many people have trained their brain to utilize self gratification, which is damaging to many individuals. We are not scamming anyone. We are offering a money back guarantee because we know our system works.
I couldn't help it my brain took over it was done. Although I feel ashamed I kinda feel good in my self, for making it for three weeks, maybe I could double it next time
@iiSaiNtZxD - you need to learn how to manage the addiction. We are offering a free book that will help you understand this addiction. You can visit our site to receive it.
@iiSaiNtZxD It's not good to feel bad about yourself, to have a "low self esteem" when you finish masterbating. It's Satan's work. Satan wants you to feel less than a human being. Say to God, "That felt good; I'm not sure if it was the best thing to do. You, Lord, have to show me the way out of masterbating. True, I could do worse things. Lord, inspire me to replace it by something better. I am a slow learner! I'm a good person. Masterbation is a fault, but not the end of the world!
Can you get a seizure from not doing it, is it just like drugs/drinking if you don't do it/have it you can have one? Because I think I had one the first day I tried stopping
@iiSaiNtZxD you think you had a seizure? I'm sorry to say it be it's almost impossible. describe your symptoms, I have had a seizure before and am almost positive it is impossible to get from not masturbating...
@innergold1000 dude, I don't know how i couldn't do this without you. It's been 1@ a half weeks , and I haven't been worried at all! I think it's getting easier every day! I hope I never come back! Thanks! -Ryan
@iiSaiNtZxD - The more you learn to manage the prefrontal cortex the easier it does get. Don't let your guard down and keep using the things you have learned.
@yiannis562 - Yes, we feel it is wrong to do and that is why we posted this video. There are a lot of people trying to stop but don't know how. After they learn about the brain and how it reacts, several have sent emails expressing a lot of gratitude because they feel like they will be able to learn how to stop.
@iiSaiNtZxD - The brain is used to getting a quick fix and just like coming off of any addictive behavior, there will be some anxiety associated. This will decrease over time. The Limbic part of the brain does not understand what is going on and it will complain and scream at you like you explained. That is why gently dealing with each trigger is the best method. This is where the Pre-Frontal becomes a powerful ally in helping calm the mind and find something else to do. Keep it up!
Cutting your hands would be the best solution ;)
HumanOrange 19 hours ago
if i stop masturbating my nuts will explode
loudpipesavelives69 20 hours ago
sexual addiction ? lmfao
TheGhostOfPainsey 2 days ago
@TheGhostOfPainsey - While some may laugh, the nature and extent of pornography and sexual addiction is growing exponentially. In fact, the DSM-IV lists over 80 sexual paraphilias. Watching the front lines of the thousands of those truly struggling with these addictions is no laughing matter. Both the addicts and their loved ones suffer.
innergold1000 7 hours ago
Mister i really liked that part about directing the "energy" to somewhere more usefull.If i can direct my lust to where i want i can pretty much use the force.
temiel202 3 days ago
Can masturbation lower testosterone afffecting the devlopment of your body during puberty? Also are there any permanent affects or damage to the mind if it's abused and with pornography?
ewenson111 3 days ago
Is it bad if I masturbate 1-2 times a day? :x
EpicSwagocorn 1 week ago
@EpicSwagocorn No, its your body, do what you wish. If you are asking for health reasons, well don't worry, there are no negative health defects.
shinokiba 3 days ago
I really like your positive approach. There is another and better thing to do than masturbate. Find out something that gives you pleasure, not sexual, but a new sort of activity, as for example, a thing that is noble & pleasurable. These acts must be 'concrete'. If you love to work with youth, or some other noble & pleasurable activity, turn your thoughts to this pleasurable activity. As a celibate priest I find youth work very fulfilling. Maturbation = a betrayal of the youth I 'work' with!
watchful38 1 week ago
@watchful38 - The "Limbic" or instinctual part of the brain has a need for activity that produces and fires the chemicals needed for survival. Today's paradigm is one of immediate pleasure and media saturation. Delayed gratification is a thing of the past. Hard work, tending farms. working a family business, deep education pursuits are now being replaced by "how can I do that faster and easier."
innergold1000 1 week ago
@watchful38 - (cont.) Of course there are still many hard working people out there but the trend of complacency and entitlement is alarming. When one strives for all things easy and has no purpose and goals, addictive and compulsive behavior can all too easily become the way the brain seeks survival. The natural chemicals the brain needs come to those who lead a busy and fulfilling life.
innergold1000 1 week ago
can any body help me to stop masturbating
111kevinlim 2 weeks ago
@111kevinlim - yes. The InnerGold system is helping many individuals learn how to manage their sexual addiction. Learn more on our site.
innergold1000 2 weeks ago
@111kevinlim Just Try To think of something else when it pops in ur mind , Remember that masturbation affects ur brain memory and u will suffer from knees Problems .
wtfblaze1 2 weeks ago
@111kevinlim the only way is through jesus
brodieheg 2 days ago
subhanallah (glory to god) good knowlege this guy got
hassan333wa 2 weeks ago
@hassan333wa - thank you.
innergold1000 2 weeks ago
lol
igamer247 3 weeks ago
I am 16 and I really suffer from masturbating like 3 to 4 times a week since I hit puberty :S. Can someone just tell me here , how do I stop ?
MrEgyMiro 3 weeks ago
@MrEgyMiro thats not alot thats a normal amount for young males. 18 years old is the sexual peak/prime for males and your almost their so no need to worry son
11lolsauce 2 weeks ago
@MrEgyMiro yeah try 3-4 times a day once you hit 18....
mattman696 2 weeks ago
@MrEgyMiro '
if you get laid you will probably less sexually hungry
tbone81395 2 weeks ago
@tbone81395 I Wish I can Get Laid :/
I live in an arab country :/ So Its hard you know what i am saying :P
MrEgyMiro 2 weeks ago
@MrEgyMiro Hi, I am a Catholic priest in Canada. To help you to be pure, remember 'purity' is not a negative thing. Phillip Rivers, the Quarterback of the San Diego Chargers in the NFL, has several videos that give his personal experience. Before marriage he & his girlfriend had great times together & with friends. Yes, holding hands, hugging each other, some 'chaste' kisses, but no sex. Once married they both had sex for the first time! What a fantastic experience for both! Thanks.
watchful38 1 week ago
@watchful38 Jerkin off is better then fucking little boys in the ass.
stone8675309 1 week ago 16
@MrEgyMiro watch my video called HOW TO STOP MASTURBATING, it will motivate you to stop, you have to believe in Heaven, that Jesus's Halo was Kundalini enlightenment, and that masturbation depletes kundalini, you need kundalini in order to go to heaven, a lot, it worked for me, once you master this, all other addictions will go away.a, women will no longer be objects to you, don't believe me? Watch my video it worked for me.
TheUglyPaperBagMan 1 week ago
The 4th Qtr was here and he says to the speaker on this video..... "Get right with God before he shows you what he thinks about this. Sexual Immorality is ok huh? It is "ok" ro go to hell and burn for eternity... because masturbation is ok? Really? I bet u may not even believe there is a God too huh?
butlerty27 3 weeks ago
@butlerty27 - We don't have a clue what you are saying with this comment? Are you asking a question, venting or just sharing your thoughts?
innergold1000 3 weeks ago
@innergold1000 butlerty has lost his coconuts? lol
spunky232 3 weeks ago
I have masterbated in my whole life about 20 times, so if I stop right now everything will be alright? please reply back and for some reason after watching this video my urge for masterbating has stoped! :P
ExpertNAS 3 weeks ago
@ExpertNAS - Yes everything will be fine. You will have withdrawal symptoms just like anyone struggling with any addiction, but you will be fine.
innergold1000 3 weeks ago
The answer is in the question? Am not following.
TheRealMisterSunny 1 month ago
So basically what you are doing is literally quoting free, 12 step program's literature and selling it as your program with a focus on masturbation. Anyone reading this know that there are free Twelve step programs out there that will do just as much if not more for you than what a professional selling you a program can. To follow with this joker's scheme of quoting AA/NA literature - "The relationship between one addict helping another is without parallel". Search for sex addicts anonymous.
quaze13579 1 month ago
I've been masturbating ever since I've got erections as a kid. Even when I have girl-friends, I still do it when they're not available. Otherwise I may be cheating on them. Us men are hard-wired like that. It's normal. If it's unhealthy, then so is sex. If you're masturbating multiple times a day, that's probably an issue, though. You have to give your sperm enough time to regenerate. Also, try to use your imagination more instead of porn. You may develop unrealistic standards.
FuIIOfFaiI 1 month ago
@FuIIOfFaiI - Humans are hard-wired as sexual beings. This is what makes living in today's age so confusing. What's unhealthy, are addictive behaviors that are effecting quality of life an individual is living. Whether that be physical, emotional, spiritual, or relationship/sexual quality of life. Our purpose is to help those who are experiencing the effects of addiction, something that one has committed to stop doing multiple times and continues to come back, despite negative consequences.
innergold1000 4 weeks ago
@innergold1000 is it ok to master if u r 13 just asking that is it just asking nothing else
modjrisawesome 3 weeks ago
@modjrisawesome - We do not feel it is good to masturbate anytime. There are many individuals that are struggling with this issue and it interferes with the rest of their life.
innergold1000 3 weeks ago
This it not about God, Jesus or what the bible says is a bad thing. Masturbation, porn and sex addiction can ruin your real sex life, it's a chemical thing and has nothing to do with religion and morality.
rodolfostanic 1 month ago
@rodolfostanic - You are correct. We are talking about the destructive nature of addiction of any substance.
innergold1000 4 weeks ago
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TheDon233F9F 1 month ago
@TheDon233F9F - Thank you for your thoughts. Addictive use of any substance, material, or action will in consequence effect quality of relationships. The reason we as humans participate in compulsive actions is to find an 'escape' from the pains that life brings. The result in compulsively numbing the emotional pains of life is further emptiness and distant relationships.
innergold1000 1 month ago
how to stop jerking off? cut your penis off.
ProphetRay 1 month ago
Of course one could say that people or I watch porn because it's a distraction from not having love or a compassionate relationship in my life, but like I said the truth is that those things cannot be found in it, ever. I don't know really, but I would suggested looking at it with your heart not with your head, and actually think about what you see. Peace out. :)
AlltimeTrance 1 month ago
I think when you look at it for what it really is, sort of stop yourself from that automatic impulse action, that dives you into it. And instead before that think about the way it's marketed, the way it's a fake reality, the way it has no love in it, there's no caring in it. I started to care about a porn star in her films and after that porn has just changed for me. I see clear now that the things we need in life, love, friendship, compassion, company, these cannot be found porn.
AlltimeTrance 1 month ago
I'm obsessed with porn 13 years. But I've had a huge break through a few days ago.I deleted all of it, but then I got some of it back on to my computer. I think the thing to remember is that none of this is wrong, this is a natural thing, we have sexual thoughts because we have a dick not because of porn.I think someone like me should still use some sort of porn because of sexual needs,but there's a truth in porn that I think once seen & once thought about starts to remove some of the obsession.
AlltimeTrance 1 month ago
A healthy person should have at least one orgasm each day.
luvdomus 1 month ago
It's your body do whatever you want with it. I believe in god that doesn't mean masturbation must not be done. This is the 21st Century get real, masturbating is fine and a healthy, natural occurrence of every day life. There is nothing wrong or unhealthy about it, and you will not burn in hell for it. Keep on keeping on
GrimReefah16 1 month ago
@GrimReefah16 - Those who are seeking help. Help is available by using InnerGold's proven system. It works!
innergold1000 1 month ago 2
@innergold1000 How do I stop masturbating? What are the techniques? I am really religous and by committing this sin it has sent me to deep depression and even suicidal thoughts. Please sir give me your best methods on how to stop, I think my life might depend on it.
jkl9093 3 weeks ago
@jkl9093 - Please visit our website. We are all sexual beings by nature and a majority struggle in learning to manage their sexuality in a way they view "healthy" to them. Although this has created deep emotional pains, there is always hope. Life is supposed to have its struggles as that is how we grow and progress. You are not alone and you certainly are not a bad person for struggling...many many have learned to manage their emotions and behaviors.
innergold1000 3 weeks ago
@jkl9093 if u are religious than don't go to this guy cuz he's just gonna give u some scientific psychological thing go ask some better people that will give u advice and therapy that will cut it from the root. It is not the masturbation it is the root of it?
djt241 2 weeks ago
@GrimReefah16 Masturbation is sin. If you believe in God, you should start following what the bible says.
janniee1012 1 month ago
@GrimReefah16 why would you watch this? are you really that bored? go away man.
TankTysonFan 1 month ago
@GrimReefah16 masturbation is everydays aperance in teen life
Gytis123able 1 month ago
@GrimReefah16 does is shrink a males sex organ?(penis)
purplerain6789 1 month ago in playlist More videos from innergold1000
56,528 people wants to stop masturbating...108 succeeded...29 are devils :)
7mooDxPROx 1 month ago
Too much of anything is not healthy. Chronic masturbation may led to addiction to pornographic media to increase pleasure, loss of romance in relationships, loss of desire for sex with others and health problems.
curtisb3000 1 month ago
@curtisb3000 - You're correct. Many individuals find loss of desire for real romance because of their addiction.
innergold1000 1 month ago
Masturbation is only good for you however use it dont abuse it :)
Ciukatheman 1 month ago
@Ciukatheman - With all of the differing opinions out there, we are here to provide healing for those who are seeking help.
innergold1000 1 month ago
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Ciukatheman 1 month ago
It´s just another good cause that wont do any good, sorry but today´s world is just swarmed with that.
Just saying...
Almost like a plague :)
Ciukatheman 1 month ago
@Ciukatheman - It is a plague and that is what we have invested so much to helping people. We have seen many individuals use our system and find much happiness and joy that they did not know existed. Our whole purpose is to help people understand this addiction, educate them on how to manage it and provide a healing system that works. We have created a system that is changing the world.
innergold1000 1 month ago
Masturbating is normal and healthy, releases hormons that builds up in your body. Masturbation isn't bad, it's ust a way to relieve stress and feel better about life. Masturbating is fun, and I don't plan on stopping any time soon! :D
bagelkel00 1 month ago
@bagelkel00 - It is our purpose and mission to provide understanding, education, and healing to those seeking help.
innergold1000 1 month ago
@bagelkel00
I encourage you to think through what you're promoting man. In every other physical area of life, we condition our bodies, and do exercises over and over and over again, so it reacts to a certain type of response, without thinking about it. Thing is, men can become so conditioned to making love to their hands, that they can't respond to a real woman. It is addicting, and isn't helpful. It is not healthy. You can train your body to that arousal, which is harmful.
LivingHopeWorshiper 1 month ago
It's ruining my life!!!!!!
MrClockWK 1 month ago
@MrClockWK - Go to our site and get all of our free materials to help out. We have many resources that can help you get your life back. You are not alone in feeling like your life is ruined.
innergold1000 1 month ago
I think masturbating is giving me acne. I really hope this video works...
astropop2 1 month ago
@astropop2 - Masturbation causing acne is a myth.
innergold1000 1 month ago
@innergold1000 And you get this from?
astropop2 1 month ago
@astropop2 - If anything the research has shown that testosterone increase is slight, and no evidence giving credit to the acne myth.
innergold1000 1 month ago
im 19 and im from saudi arabia and as you know we have no woman to staring them
and i watch porn almost daily and i feel so bad and guilty after i finished .And i masturbate during studying for exams .
im so shamed for keep thinking about girls and stuff
oh god i need help
Abdulmalik773 1 month ago
@Abdulmalik773 - You're recognizing the need for help now, which is good. We recommend going to our site and taking advantage of all of the free materials we offer to individuals.
innergold1000 1 month ago
@innergold1000 I am so thankful for you sir
Abdulmalik773 1 month ago
@Abdulmalik773 - thank you. Don't give up!
innergold1000 1 month ago
ok i am only 11....this might sound wierd but yes....i do masturbate and i am going through puberty...but yes..i am indeed trying to stop.
Futurefilm101 1 month ago
@Futurefilm101 - Congratulations on trying to manage this before it becomes a full fledge addiction and starts to impede your life. We wish you the best.
innergold1000 1 month ago
@Futurefilm101 Ok dude, this is what you have to do. Every time you get the urge, you have to focus your mind into other activities. Don't get bored, and don't give up. You really can't ignore the urge. You have to re-route the libido behind your lustful thoughts and feelings into something else. You get this sort of tender feeling in your leg and pelvic region,I'm sure you know, and you have to shift that feeling away from the lower body toward the heart. I hope that helps.
JNathanK2011 1 month ago
Those urges you get have a lust behind them, and you have to confront those lusts and let go of them. Rather than acting on the urge to gain fulfillment, you should seek fulfillment through God. Ask him for forgiveness, and you should be on your way to stopping it. That libido gets wasted through masturbation too. That's powerful energy that you could be putting into chores, physical activity or school work. Best of luck to you.
JNathanK2011 1 month ago
Everytime you get any type of lustful thought, you have to confront it and let it go. If you let these thoughts build up in your mind, you'll fail. If you accidentally come across an arousing image online or on tv, you should try to let it go. Sometimes it'll take 10 minutes just to let lustful thoughts and urges pass, but its well worth it.
JNathanK2011 1 month ago
@JNathanK2011
Wow! Cool! :D
iSachihiro 4 weeks ago
@iSachihiro Yah, I've found meditating on the holy spirit very useful. You have to tune your mind onto the wavelength of God's infinite love and maintain it. Its like a feeling of love for everyone and everything, including your enemies and yourself. A lot of times we rely on habitual pleasure to support ourselves and get through life, but those behaviors are really weak, finite pretenses to live life through. Its much better to live through more eternal, cosmic, divine principals.
JNathanK2011 4 weeks ago
@Futurefilm101 - We would recommend speaking to your parents and a school counselor, if you are needing additional support. You can also learn more on how to manage this addiction on our site.
innergold1000 1 month ago
what if you started quite awhile ago and its a part of ur life. wouldn't it be unhealthy to just stop. like still keep masturbating but less
LegitScience 1 month ago
@LegitScience - We have found that many people do best by just stopping but implementing the language of recovery. You can learn more about it by watching our videos and checking out our site.
innergold1000 1 month ago
@innergold1000 Why is it bad to masturbate? Why shouldn't I masturbate daily? The energy argument is hard to buy.
greenghost2008 1 month ago
@greenghost2008 - We have had many individuals ask this question and feel like there is nothing wrong with it. There are many differing views but one thing we have noticed is that several people who have posted about it being ok, are now using our system to learn how to manage it because we were the only voice saying to not do it.
innergold1000 1 month ago
Why do you all care?
austin2460 1 month ago
@austin2460 - Because we want to help individuals who feel like there is no hope. We want to see joy returned to everyone that we possibly can.
innergold1000 1 month ago
@innergold1000 Why do people feel guilty? We are only human.
austin2460 1 month ago
@austin2460 - We believe there is a since of what's right and what's wrong in all of us; some call this sense, the spirit, others call it intuition, others call it the light of Christ. Whatever you want to call that feeling, it exists.
innergold1000 1 month ago
This was really helpful.
D22Responses 1 month ago
@D22Responses - Thank you!
innergold1000 1 month ago
@VRein00 - It is not impossible. It's possible but it takes learning the language of recovery and implementing the training.
innergold1000 2 months ago
@innergold1000 yes but, one thing about this whole thing really annoys me is the side effects, anxiety, elbow pains, well not pains but cramps and the most annoying one, thinking I put this is my life and I always need it, is there anything I can do for these side effects to go away, if there was I could stop this addiction most easily, I do it because I feel lonely and want the effects to go away and they do, until I wake up the next morning moaning and growning
iiSaiNtZxD 2 months ago
@TheMadHaatter lol Ben
mrbenman555 2 months ago
The best way to stop urself from masturbation is to read and watch more and more anti-mastubation content,,,,,try to read the adverse effects of masturbation after every few hours,,,,Believe me it works.
444glow 2 months ago
@444glow The best way to stop urself from masturbation is to read your Bible and pray everyday..
MrPinoyako1985 1 month ago
Pakistan is the numeber one country to search for porn on internet,,,,according to google and fox news,,,ultimately u can say that pakistan is the country where masturbation is highest in numbers,,so plz translate ur lecture in their language,called Urdu.
444glow 2 months ago
@444glow - Thank you for the suggestion. We take all suggestion very serious and we will put this on the list. Thanks.
innergold1000 2 months ago
@innergold1000 Thanks ....can i translate ur lectures,,,,,,if u allow me.
444glow 2 months ago
@444glow - Yes you may, as long as you add subtitles to the existing video. Please let us know where they have been uploaded.
innergold1000 1 month ago
I am going to try to get into my religion more practice more of it my religion is Hellenic polytheistic a pagan religion so i will try to stay clean by praying and worshiping my gods
Heylookatthisguy 2 months ago
@Heylookatthisguy - We have found that believing in a higher power helps accomplish the goals a lot faster. Best!
innergold1000 2 months ago
Thanks a lot guys, I just wanted to share part of my testimony. I've been praying and I picked up a hobbie, I'm playing guitar and singing. So far I've been clean for a whole week without getting the urge to masturbate, this used to be impossible for me, I couldn't go three days without doing it. I don't care what my sex ed teacher said, masturbation made my life very unhappy and miserable, I am now more optimistic and happier.
zombiecrowtv 2 months ago
@zombiecrowtv - Congratulations, that is wonderful. Just look at your day and don't try to focus on the future or the past. Fantastic!
innergold1000 2 months ago
first i want to say that this a very beautiful video in ways of instructing us that well that feeling of arousal comes into place, can be directed in to something else than rather using it for pevertion like porn and fantasies with other people. it can be used as a moment to play a guitar, or a physical activity etc. well that is what i understood so far about what the gentlemen said. it needs to be accepted, comprehended and used in a matter of a healthy way in your life. may god be with you.
dewitubeX1 2 months ago
@dewitubeX1 - Thank you for your comments. We appreciate it it. Your understanding is correct.
innergold1000 2 months ago
Thanks a lot,
Androidgbread 2 months ago
@Androidgbread - you're welcome.
innergold1000 2 months ago
i will stop looking ti the women in the right the first one :D
thanks doctor
ch99onpsp 2 months ago
Ive been trying to stop masturbating for a long time, and i hate it when i masturbate because it makes me feel like my ex girlfriends are laughing at me for not getting some snatch. I dont know how to fix this, because even when i dont masturbate i ejaculate in my sleep which creates that strong urge in a day or two again. I guess my superego just isnt as effective as i want it to be.
colinwar 2 months ago
thx gordon i think of you everytime i am about to masterbate now.
firstspar 2 months ago
He's really trying his best not to laugh... you can see it on his face. XD
lolikatu 2 months ago 13
It's normal to do it ppl, we are all human who make mistakes!!! God will forgive us, we just got to ask him for forgiveness!! If it's an ADDiiction, and you tell God ur going to stop and u fail, then do what I do! Try and ease it up day by day n week by week. Soon it will be month by month
john4Life11 2 months ago
I just started masturbating this year and my life is miserable, I can't go three days without masturbating and I want to stop because I feel guilty.
zombiecrowtv 2 months ago 16
@zombiecrowtv
From personal testimony I can tell you that masturbating is a way for Satan to open you up to some not-so-fun side effects. These side effects include: (1) Dangerous imbalances in body chemistry (2) Psychosomatic illnesses (3) Self-pollution
Examine your thoughts so that the quality of your thoughts lines up with what is right. Allow the Lord to fill your need for love. If you do slip up, a bout of good exercise can help you feel right again. God bless you.
SylentIntensity1122 2 months ago
@SylentIntensity1122 - We would recommend watching out how to prevent a slip video. The Lord wants us to increase our education so that He can help us more.
innergold1000 2 months ago
@innergold1000
Thank you
SylentIntensity1122 2 months ago
@innergold1000 ? what lord? oh you mean the biblical mythology god yes i have diverted that path along time ago because my Hellenic Polytheistic or Greek gods have shown me too live in a better way
Heylookatthisguy 2 months ago
@zombiecrowtv - It is important to learn the language of recovery and utilize the tools that we have put out there. Check them out on our site, they're free.
innergold1000 2 months ago
@zombiecrowtv HAHAHAHAH XD
MrBmantheman 1 month ago
@zombiecrowtv you feel guilty because christianity makes you feel guilty =) come join us atheists! we have no guilt no shame :D and we fap everyday heck even five times a day!
Jessevprince111 1 month ago
@zombiecrowtv If u do masturbation after three days then its normal man,,,,,this video is for those who do it three times daily
444glow 1 month ago
I'm tired of this! I just want to live a normal life! And every time I do it I feel ashamed in myself, like I'm depressed, and when I do it twice I get lightheaded! I just can't live with my life I wanna be normal(crying).
iiSaiNtZxD 2 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD
From personal testimony I can tell you that masturbating is a way for Satan to open you up to some not-so-fun side effects. These side effects include: (1) Dangerous imbalances in body chemistry (2) Psychosomatic illnesses (3) Self-pollution
Examine your thoughts so that the quality of your thoughts lines up with what is right. Allow the Lord to fill your need for love. If you do slip up, a bout of good exercise can help you feel right again. God bless you.
SylentIntensity1122 2 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD - Read the Language of Recovery and then implement the things you learn, go to our site and download the daily sheet and start putting some discipline in your life to help you.
innergold1000 2 months ago
Innergold please help me I masturbated 2 times today I couldn't help myself I read the whole book and know the 3 step it's just that I'm trying to stop but I have all these other things that bother me.. I get "boners" and I look stupid, I also always think I can't breathe, I have leg cramps ever since I did it the first time it ruined my life please HeLP!!! I'm begging you!
iiSaiNtZxD 2 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD - Download the daily sheet from our site to help you start utilizing what you have learned.
innergold1000 2 months ago
@13Xanadu Because some guys don't want to deal with the materialistic women of this generation.
1cambiamos 2 months ago
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bornbythesea 2 months ago
You mean how you can stop.
1cambiamos 2 months ago
Ok I read the whole thing in 2-3 hours and I know the 3 ways, But I don't know the 20 steps how to stop
iiSaiNtZxD 2 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD - Can you clarify what you are requesting in regards to "the 20 steps?"
innergold1000 2 months ago
@innergold1000 - "Educating yourself and learning is always good. However, be careful to not get so deep you shame yourself. This is a process and you are young. Dont let that fact be an excuse to not try or give up but in our experience shame does not help. You are a good young man. You are trying. Just keep going and don't give up."
innergold1000 2 months ago
Can u read it on the website or do I have to send it to my house.. I don't wanna really do that
iiSaiNtZxD 2 months ago
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CAnnMAntarr 3 months ago
@CAnnMAntarr - thank you.
innergold1000 3 months ago
@innergold1000 I was being impulsive. I have respect for addiction, I shouldn't have said that.
CAnnMAntarr 2 months ago
@CAnnMAntarr - no worries. We just want to help those who are seeking help. Some need the help and others do not feel they need it. Have a great day!
innergold1000 2 months ago
@13Xanadu - Masturbation is all about self gratification and many people have trained their brain to utilize self gratification, which is damaging to many individuals. We are not scamming anyone. We are offering a money back guarantee because we know our system works.
innergold1000 3 months ago
Hahaha I'm stupid I didn't see "free"
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD - no you're not stupid, just struggling. Don't give up!
innergold1000 3 months ago
@innergold1000 I'm 13 u don't have money I can use though
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
@brokeandfixed - thank you for your comments.
innergold1000 3 months ago
I couldn't help it my brain took over it was done. Although I feel ashamed I kinda feel good in my self, for making it for three weeks, maybe I could double it next time
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD - never discount success and pick your self up and move forward with greater determination.
innergold1000 3 months ago
I failed I messed up! and now I started crying because I failed... I thought I could stop but I did it.. An I'm very dissapointed.
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD - you need to learn how to manage the addiction. We are offering a free book that will help you understand this addiction. You can visit our site to receive it.
innergold1000 3 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD It's not good to feel bad about yourself, to have a "low self esteem" when you finish masterbating. It's Satan's work. Satan wants you to feel less than a human being. Say to God, "That felt good; I'm not sure if it was the best thing to do. You, Lord, have to show me the way out of masterbating. True, I could do worse things. Lord, inspire me to replace it by something better. I am a slow learner! I'm a good person. Masterbation is a fault, but not the end of the world!
watchful38 2 months ago
But,.. Three weeks without it!! Only when o think about it I need it but I fight it off and do sething else :)
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
Can you get a seizure from not doing it, is it just like drugs/drinking if you don't do it/have it you can have one? Because I think I had one the first day I tried stopping
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD you think you had a seizure? I'm sorry to say it be it's almost impossible. describe your symptoms, I have had a seizure before and am almost positive it is impossible to get from not masturbating...
maxthebeast11 3 months ago
Thank you very much.
connatheairsofter 3 months ago
Thank you.
connatheairsofter 3 months ago
@connatheairsofter - you're welcome.
innergold1000 3 months ago
@prefuffle LMAO!!
mwsolja 3 months ago
@innergold1000 dude, I don't know how i couldn't do this without you. It's been 1@ a half weeks , and I haven't been worried at all! I think it's getting easier every day! I hope I never come back! Thanks! -Ryan
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD - The more you learn to manage the prefrontal cortex the easier it does get. Don't let your guard down and keep using the things you have learned.
innergold1000 3 months ago
SexualLobster brought me here
SheriffTJHooker 3 months ago 4
Pff, it's easy to stop - just chop off your balls and die (bombing the Russians is optional)
Smertn1k 3 months ago
I also feel dizzy at times, Is this good
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
is masturbating a bad thing then?
yiannis562 3 months ago
@yiannis562 - Yes, we feel it is wrong to do and that is why we posted this video. There are a lot of people trying to stop but don't know how. After they learn about the brain and how it reacts, several have sent emails expressing a lot of gratitude because they feel like they will be able to learn how to stop.
innergold1000 3 months ago
Today I don't right, I'm shaking sometimes, is this anxiety? I'm trying to make it past today by my brains telling me .. It's been a week now do it!
iiSaiNtZxD 3 months ago
@iiSaiNtZxD - The brain is used to getting a quick fix and just like coming off of any addictive behavior, there will be some anxiety associated. This will decrease over time. The Limbic part of the brain does not understand what is going on and it will complain and scream at you like you explained. That is why gently dealing with each trigger is the best method. This is where the Pre-Frontal becomes a powerful ally in helping calm the mind and find something else to do. Keep it up!
innergold1000 3 months ago
I masturbate 2-3 times a day, is that a lot?
36allah 3 months ago
@36allah - Yes, and the fact that you came here, says that you must have been wondering but knew the answer.
innergold1000 3 months ago