Dear 18andup1780: Decide what you want to do about the baby, and then talk to your ex-bf about it. He'll freak out less if you have a plan or at least show that you've thought about it.
how long they had actually been dating. She replied that she could remember hearing about me when I was like, eight... Meaning that basically my dad has been having a relationship with another woman for the majority of my life. My question is, how can I keep this from effecting my behavior towards this woman, seeing as I'll be living with her for another year?
OKAY! So... I'm 17. A few months ago I decided to move in with my Dad. My Mother and Father have been seperated for about two years., at which time my younger Sister and I moved to South Dakota with my Mom. Before I got to settle into my new home we took a trip to California, stopping in Boise on the way for my Dad's-Girlfriend's-Daughter's wedding (mouthfull!). After hearing a few conflicting bits of information about my Dad and his Girlfriends relationship, I asked her daughter about ...
I know you don't like this subject ABORTION but my mom ABORTED 2 of my brothers or sisters and i can't stop thinking about them i am very unstable i get really mad and cut my self when i think of what happen to them but my mom don't know that i am mad at her about it i am never happy just very sad they go out to the movies and they ask me if im going i say no i stay locked up in my room and eat very little don't talk much i feel very bad it happen when i was about 8 and now im 20
Hey there buck and anyone who reads this I want to study abroad in japan I've wanted to do this a summer before the earthquake and tsunami not like meaning last somer I told me mom about it a month or two befor the earthquake and she said no but I kept asking her and she said maybe I'll think about it now think you should no I'm the baby of a big italian family so I'm ether treaded like a baby or haled to high expectation so I'm watched very closely well anyways I want to no how to c
My name is Alex and I'm 17 (junior in HS) and I've been having strong feelings for a friend of mine for what feels like nine months. I love her a lot,and she rocks my world. But recently,she's been talking about a friend from England she likes a lot. (and I just found out today they started dating) I keep saying her happiness is my happiness,but idk it still hurts. Should I just try to get over her (if so,how) or should I wait like I have been (and failing) and hope for the best? :\
@TheElectricDreamer93 the same thing happened to me exsept i was on the other side of it eventuraly i found out my friend liked me and i dumped my current boyfriend straight away even tho im not with my friend anymore he was worth me ending it with the other guy so tell her how u feel and see if she jibbs him for you
I am bisexual and I have a girlfriend. She is very suicidal she's attempted it twice and she cuts herself. She says she loves me and without me she'd kill herself, I've watched my love for her fade slowly and I don't wanna be with her any longer. I want to break up with her but I love her as a friend and I don't want her to kill herself. Please help
What can i do to stop an ugly annoying bitch at my school . She walk's around telling every body that she's my girlfriend BUT IT'S NOT TRUE . How can i stop her?
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Everything's been wonderful except recently he's been in contact with his ex. He asked me if it was okay if he went out with his ex and another friend of his to a hookah bar. I didn't know what to say so I just told him he could do whatever he wanted to. I don't know if I should be worried about him going out with an ex. I've told him I'm not happy about this but he still went ahead with it. What should I do?
@TheKurauchiha thanks. He told me that it was upsetting because he's trying to be a positive person and I guess my negativity isn't good for him. I get that but I still think that he should let it go and forgive me. The first time I told him about it he said he was there for me so I tried to talk to him about it again and then he got mad at me and told me about my whole negativity thing. So I think that's kinda dumb. So you think I should contact him or wait for him to contact me first?
BUCK I'M SIERRA I NEED YOUR ADVICE! I told my friend something I never told anyone. He was good about it at first. He tried 2 help me out. When I brought it up again I could tell he was annoyed & mad @ me. We just stopped talking & I think he hates me 4 bringing it up. It's been 2 months. Should I contact him & just ask if he totally hates me? I really miss him cause I don't have anyone else close 2 me. I wanna go back 2 how we were before.
@krazyglitterdust well Sierra i think you should try and ask him why hes so mad about it. Try and figure out whats upseting her so much and forcing him not to want to talk to you. If i were him id try and help you more then ever. you should contact him because if he doesnt care about you enough to help you and not get mad hes not a really good friend
Dear Buck, Im 15 and my dad has drinking issues it's tearing my family apart emotionally and afraid it's going to be physical separation like a divorce. We've given him chances to change his ways but he's failed every time. I love him dearly and he's a really good person, but I'm leery on trusting him to be able to drive me to a practice or other things. I know there's not much I can do, but what do you think I could do? I luv you and your show, please help.
Great advice as always! Kids don't realize until they are older that parents aren't always right. In most cases parents are hardly ever right and most of them Are a-holes. The younger these kids learn the great things you are telling them the better their lives can be! (favorite moment in buck history?) "you get a sister! You get a sister". I think I peed a little, laughing
I had been dating the guy on and off for the past couple of years and now that we've officially broken up, all he seems to do is constantly remind me about how much he wants me or wants to be with me, but I just don't feel that way about him. How can I tell him to back off without coming across as a total jerk?
Dear Buck, I had a boyfriend for year now and the relationship ended. Within a week he was dating another girl. Now I've settled my issues with that and all I really want is my best friend back. He thinks talking to me will ruin his new relationship. There's also the problem that all my guy friends think I'm open for sex or something. Last night one tried putting his had down my pants in a large group of people. I'm starting to feel like a meaningless piece of ass...
I am 16 years old & there is this guy that i have liked for quite a while. We have been friends for like 3 years & i have liked him for about the last 2. but last year i found out that he is gay. before you go all "you cant have him, get over him" i have, well at least i know that i can never date him & he will never feel the way i do, but the feelings are still there. even though we are just friends i want to be closer to him. (continued)
@jagage07 (continued) we used to txt all the time & talk in class. i thought he really cared me & that we were starting to get closed as friends. but lately he has been acting really distent & he hasnt answered my txts in like a month & i really dont know what to do! i am now starting to wonder if all the things he said before was all a lie & idk, im just really confused & i want my friend back!
Please help me out, i dont know what to do. love Jazmin
I'm 16 yrs old and i had a boyfriend for about 8 months.
one day i sent him nude pics.
after i broke up because he doesn't want me to go to a outstanding good school in oxford he is blackmailing me and says he will send the pics to everyone he knows if i'll go to oxford.
i'm so concerned about that.
that would be so shameful.
i'm afraid to tell it to my parents because they might think i'm a slut :(
@forca55 I would advise you to check the laws in your area. since your only 16, your underage, and therefore him showing those pictures around could be considered child pornography. it may seem like a drastic option, but I know that in the area I live in, him showing your pictures around is against the law.
I am a 13 year old girl and there is a boy who is the same age as me that is stalking me. He texts and calls and messages me constantly. He told me he wrote two songs about me and he sent me the lyrics to one of them. Honestly, it scared me. He also told me he has had re-occurring dreams about me, in which we are in a field and he is chasing me, then there is a flash and I am gone, then he looks down and sees my dead body. Nothing i do makes him stop. Please help me. Love, Jess
I am in a long distance relationship right now with my boyfriend of 8 months. I'm in college 1000 miles away and he's at home. I know long distance isn't easy, but recently it's been really tough. I don't party since I know he and I would fight about it, he got upset at me for walking to the gym by myself at 8:00pm even though it is well lit and a 5 minute walk. I'm worried he might get more controlling as the relationship goes on. He says he's not controlling, just protective ): AHHH
dear buck iliked this guy for 5 years then he startd to like me. But the other week he tried to rape me. I freaked and havent called him since. He sends cards and emailks and fones but i dont know what to do... help
@ciarayoo Tell your friend that you are concerned/scared/worried for their safety, and then take a step back. It might be painful to watch a friend do something that you think is bad, but remember its not your life. Remind them that you are their for them and that you care, and are worried for their safety. But its not your life its theirs. Its hard, but keep your distance, and be ready to come in with a hug. <3 Sugar
@VanceChristopher24 don't let them get to you. You are who you are no matter how big or small you are. It's up to you to figure out what your sexuality is, it's not up to them. Keep you head up high and know that you are fabulous. If it turns out you are gay, then hey more power to ya. If not then that's good too. But just like someone else said (another youtuber that I want to give credit but I can't c the name due to me using a mobile phone) it's up to you and you are beautiful just the way y
Now, normally I would just go ahead and tell my parents that I just don't want to play anymore, but I have about 200 dollars over my head...my dad just bought me brand new spikes and shinguards and i'm afraid to tell them because i just wasted 200 bucks...my boyfriend says he's going to talk to my parents for me...but i feel like i'm hiding behind him...i can't keep up anymore and i just want to stop playing...what should i do? :(
I'm a junior in high school and only 3 days into my JV soccer season. It only took me the first day to realize that I just don't have the heart to play soccer anymore. It's different from being lazy and out of shape. The last two years I was out of shape, but I still smiled during practice. This year, I'm way out of my league. I don't know any of the girls and it's just wearing me out to no extent...I'm always tired and dreading for school to end because practice is right afterwards
i recently created a website that allows people to give each other advice, much like this. it would mean a lot to me if you went on, shared a problem, or helped someone else. Thanks.
i recently created a website that allows people to give each other advice, much like this. it would mean a lot to me if you went on, shared a problem, or helped someone else. Thanks.
dear buck, i am 14 and i am going to high school in the fall and i have four friends that i have been friends with for like ever and all of them are going to different high school then me except one and we arnt close and i dont really like her that much but im scard to go into high school with no friends and i dont know how to make new onescan you help me? thank you!
@vaf25 Wow. Ok, I'm in actually in a similar situation, (well I was 5 monthes ago)
You need to join a club, or actually just walk into to class with a smile on your face. Talk, ask to sit with people at lunch. Hang out in the morning around school, thats always a fun way to meet people, sports, music, anything that has people. I'm in Amadeus Club (music club), Anime Club and Dance Club (the seniors teach us tango, salsa and other stuff) I love it and I've met a ton of people. Message me 4 more.
BUCK I LOVE YOU!!!!! your sooooooooo funny and i say this from the very depth of my heart that i am your BIGGEST EVER FAN!!!!! i get home from school and watch what the buck fo hours its ssooooooooo funny and your advice can even brighten someone day! love you!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi! My name is Christopher and I'm 14. i think i might be gay. everybody calls me that, just because I'm more flamboyant other guys. but, this is the problem. I'm fat (i don't hate myself, truth is just truth) and i don't know if I'm just jealous that other people look better than me, or if i actually am. HELP!
@VanceChristopher24 Hey, it's you not those jerk-offs that call you a faggot, that really knows what you are, and what you will be. It's a mental thing, are you attracted to boys? Your sexuality is you, not what other people tell you it is. If that's you.. then I love you. If that isn't you and you just feel like you are because THEY TOLD you.. I still love you. And about the self confidence thing... put your head up and smile because your beautiful just the way you are.
DB, I am an all honor class student, all grades 96+ I want to be a scientist but 1 that is going to be very hard to find jobs -- this isn't why I'm asking you tho-- 2 the big problem, I am a Christian. I don't believe in evolution, many science careers you kinda need to believe in evolution , so can I be a scientist and be a Christian and what kinda can I be? *** please dont reply saying I am wrong and shouldn't be a Christian, you aren't going to change what I believe*** thanks in advance
My name is Lizz.I need help. I am always the person people come to when they need advice or help. I get mad and emotional easily, but when it comes to my own problems I don't know what to do.People hate me for no reason people think I'm ugly, I do to.They tell me I'm beatiful and they are jealous of me and lie straight to my face. I don't know weither people hate me or are just jealous of me. I dont think what-so-ever they are,Why be jealous of me?
@MsNinjaGirl237 It sounds like you not the people who are acting this way are, as you put it: "get mad and emotional easily, but when it comes to my own problems I don't know what to do.People hate me for no reason people think I'm ugly I do to." Everything is a mirror. If some tells you they hate you, they may hate you but they also have issues with themself. If they think you're ugly they want someone else in the room to feel worse. Trust me I was basically suicidal from 5-7 grade. Message me!
My dad died last year and my mom is already dating. The boyfriend she has now moved in with us last month. When she is gone he hits me and makes sexual advances towards me. Even if she is there he calls me hurtful things and touches me inappropriately. She says she loves him and knows I don't like him so she might think I am lying if i told her. I'm only 13 and scarred for my life. What do I do?
@LlamaMonsterLove OMG! TELL SOMEONE AT SCHOOL AND TELL YOUR MOM YOU CAN'T LIVE LIKE THAT! email me if you need some advice, i'm 14, i understand. (i'm not a creeper, trust me.) my email: svancechristopher@gmail.com
@LlamaMonsterLove dont b afraid a mother should never choose any1 over her child tell (teacher/some1 like that) some1 who knows how many other girls hes hurt
@LlamaMonsterLove oh my god you have to tell her. your mom doesnt deserve someone who is a pedofile and abuser, get her out of that relationship right now! trust me she wont love him if she knows what hes doing to you and dont feel bad about it, you must get ride of him before he gets worse. Please! im worried for you :(
@LlamaMonsterLove ok im ganna try and help you.Well maybe you should lock your bedroom door at night if you have no lock tell your mother whats going on because i think your mom picked the wrong man to date and move in with.why dont you tell someone close to you move in with one of closets friends if you feel uncofertable i just dont wanna find out you were found raped and murdered in your house and your moms bf was the only person there andyour mom doesnt belive he didit and thinks its ur fault
@LlamaMonsterLove If your mom isn't going to listen to your problems with him, move in with a friend until she gets the point. If you don't feel safe at home and your mother isn't listening, tell someone. A teacher you trust, a best friend's parent. You shouldn't feel like you have to go through this alone. <3
That is awful im so sorry but you need to tell your mother. Your mom is your mom and she knows you wouldn't lie like that do whatever you can to prove your point leave when he's over.
I suggest going to a school counselor, priest, close friend's mother, an adult you REALLY trust. I know confronting this kind of thing can be hard and she's your mother but ignoring this won't help you at all. The only way to make this stop is telling someone. If she doesn't believe you, make her believe. I HIGHLY doubt she won't believe you. Tell someone and get someone else involved. Please, tell me if this helps you!
I keep having this nightmare about being called at school and being told my mother is dead via stroke. I consulted my friend who has an uncannily acurate sixth sense and she says I'm having premonitions. My father died two years ago of cancer and my mom is a heavy smoker and drinker. My father and I were never very close,so I wasn't as upset when he died.No one in my family has died of a stroke as long as I can remember. You may not believe in this but I do and I need help.
@startrekmakesmehappy Maybe you should try talking to your mum about your fears. It's not good to be a heavy smoker or drinker. Whether or not you are having premonitions your fear for your mum's health is clearly affecting you and maybe if you talk to her you can help her quit. I hope this helps :)
@balletbaby329 you need to call the child protective agency and tell them everything you know. They can walk you through what needs to be done. They will most likely intervene... and I hope they do. Good luck.
Hi, I'm Sarah! When I was growing up, my dad physically abused my sister. He hit her in front of me and I never got over it. I'm 16 now and my sister's in college. He's never hit me but I'm afriad one day he will.He yells hurtful things to me all the time. I love my mom but I'm afraid for my safety. I've considered moving out, but I have no where to go. Should I stay at home for 2 more years and just "toughen up" or should I try to find somewhere to go?
@BallettBaby329 Is there a way you could talk to them before you talk to the parents. Try to find out what is going on in her home and if necessary call a social worker before you call the parents so that they are present and can see the reaction of the father. This is not a easy situation but you need to make sure she is safe because the parents DO need to be notified in BOTH cases. Good luck :)
i can definitely relate to the shy thing. i might be the shyest person on the planet and because of this it takes me really long to be comfortable with people too. the best thing to do is to just be open minded and try finding people with common interests and you'll definitely be fine.
You have to tell your friend that you like him, if he asks her out, and she is a true friend, she will say no. If she says yes, don't try to break them up, or do anything to hurt their relationship, because you could hurt them both, and that could lead to fights, and other bad things..
please.. dont do anything that you aren't comfortable doing... if you do things that your uncomfortable with , you may regret it, your friend could tell everyone and then rumors could start. please dont do anything that you dont want to do, no one can force you. Dont feel bad if you want to make him wait, just sit him down calmly and tell him. he will understand, if he doesn't, then he isnt the right person for you!
@12851991 that does not mean you are bisexual your only attracted to her right? If you are, you're just a little curious. That's totally normal. A lot of gay people will find the occasional person of the opposite sex they are attracted to.
Dear Buck, A few months ago I just got out of an on and off relationship with a total whore. Since then, I give myself little pep-talks telling myself that next time I meet a guy, I won't put up with ANY CRAP, and that I'll drop out of the relationship the moment something goes wrong. But I'm afraid that this would just make me a heartless girl friend. I was "the perfect gf" to my last bf. I seemed desperate.
How can I find a happy medium between strong and independent and a compassionate gf.
@edwrdz14 Nobody can be the "perfect gf" to every guy. Independence is good, but that doesn't mean you cant be compassionate. Love is about balance, the trick is to find yours. And yeah, some relationships wont work out, but learn from them. And remember, if it feels wrong, it probably is. Compassion and Independence can go hand in hand. <3 Sugar
Im in middle school and I have a circle of friends that i have been close with for a long time. Suddenly i realized that they have broken my trust. But i honestly cant leave them. They pull me back in with guilt and THREATEN to tell people everything i have told them. Im really confused because my parents even feel that they are keeping me from my full potential. But they r my friends. I seriously love thise people and i really dont know what i shluld do.
For the racist parent problem, a good technique is to speak to someone about racism being wrong, but speak to them when you're near the parent so they hear what you have to say but aren't offended by you going up to them and tellin them they are wrong
I am an openly gay 16 year old and my best friend is a lesbian girl who is extremely masculine. we have always hung out but recently when we go alone places we end up hooking up. I'm really confused because i have never been attracted to any females but her and she says the same thing about me, does that mean im bi or something else cause to be honest i never thought bi people existed. sorry all of you bi people :(
can you not say my username please ok i have a friend and i really like him but we are really good friends and i know he kinda likes me too i dont know if i should ask him or just stay friend s please helpme buck can you thumbs up so he can read this
@helengagaloo This is a situation to follow your heart. If you think that your friendship is the most important thing then dont go for it. If however you think that there may be a chance for something more then by all means. The most important thing is to follow your heart and listen to it. It will tell you where to go! <3 Sugar
DEAR BUCK, im 15 yrs old and i want to get a guy back! a couple months ago i was dating an 18 yr old boy whos a senior (in my brothers grade) my brother doesnt like him so he told my dad bad things about this boy like the fact that he does drugs and doesnt get along well with a lot of people. my parents got mad & made me break up with him. even though all the things my bro told my parents are true i dont really care and still want him back. do u think there is any way that we could go out again?
This isn't really an advice question but I'm genuinely curious; you're intro to Dear Buck says you have a PhD in Degrassi, I know you're being facetious but are you watching the new episodes? If you are, what do you think about them? :}
When I was 18 I was going out with this guy who used me, I had depression and was really dependant on alcohol.
After about a year I went to the doctors and got myself sorted out. Now I'm 21 very happy.
Here's the thing he got in contact with me and he said he had changed.
He wants to get back together, in a way I don't want to not give him a chance but theres also that chance that he will hurt me and i will go back to being the horrible person i use to be. What should i do?
I'm 17 and I've liked this one guy for almost three years. I always hoped something would happen but he's been leading me on this whole time! I recently found out that he really likes my best friend and she likes him back. I don't want to tell her not to date him but when I see them flirting together it really hurts. What should I do?
@DancerluvJB I think that if you really like this guy you should talk to your best friend and tell your best friend that you like this guy and talk things out. But if you decided to do this dont act all dramatic just be calm and say it calmly otherwise she might get upset if you make a dramatic confession. I think that your bestfriend will understand :). Btw im 12 and i might not be right :).
I am currently 21 years old. (And from MA! Hi neighbor!) Anyway, I have only had one serious boyfriend. We were together for 2 years and were each others firsts. We broke up 2 years ago and have moved on with our lives. Tonight, he came out as being openly gay via facebook. I am at a total loss of what to do. What do I say to him? Anything? Should I be hurt and upset? I really hope you see and answer because I have no idea what to do with myself. Thanks.
@mbee89 Oh my dearie! Honestly, if you have truly moved on then he is your past, and although you are connected to him it doesn't need to affect your present life. If you are still friends, then support him. If you have parted ways, then I say live and let live. If it becomes a major problem then talk to someone (or the guy) about it. Talking may seem weird but it helps. Cyber hugs <3 Sugar
I am a 19 year old girl, and I had this crush on this guy from my school (I go to "continued secondary" school. For dropouts). We had a couple of dates. Lunch, drinks (I'm Canadian) we hung out and watched a couple movies. But I thought he was 25 or something. That wouldn't be a problem for me. But he's turning 29. Normally age wouldn't bother me. But, he is just not my type to begin with. I mean he's really cute and sweet and nice but... I just don't feel right. Help?
I am thirteen years old and have a wierd relationship with my friend that I have been friends with for years. We both like each other and he asked me how far I wanted to go (bases). I told him to tell me first, and he said he wants to go to third. I don't feel comfortable going this far because I am too young and I havent even started in on the bases yet( but I have had my first kiss) I feel bad makin him wait. Wht do I do??
It is your life. It is your body. Do NOT feel bad for making him wait. If he truly treasures you, he will wait until you genuinely want to go that far, and he will learn that the wait was worth it.
@megy3773 Honey, if he truly cares about you he will wait! You are WAY too young to be going that far that fast. It also may help to talk to him about it. Tell him how you are feeling. Keep your head up and your heart strong. <3 Sugar
@megy3773 I hope Buck answers your question, but if he doesn't.... my advice is to wait. I know it's kind of cliche to say that if he really loves you, he'll wait, but it's true. It's alright to fool around a little, but consider the cons.... do you think you'll regret it? If you say no, do you think he'll ditch you? Because if he does, he really wasn't worth it. I say take it a little slow and if it goes well, then do it IF you want to. Hope this helped :)
@megy3773 A guy whose trying to rush you obviously doesn't deserve you. Please stay strong and don't fall for a guy who just wants to get into your pants. You'll regret it later.
@megy3773 if your are not comfortable going that far then don't. It's your body and your choice for how far you want to go in anything. If he keeps pressuring you, he is not a very good friend and he obviously doesn't repspect you. YOU deserve someone who respects you. Don't feel bad for makng him wait, he should understand. Your also thirteen ... you shouldn't go past first. You still young.
@megy3773 from what you wrote the only advice i can give is this, if a guy is wanting to go straight to third base, and you dont want to do it, then dont feel guilty, if he is forcing, or arguing because you wont, then leave him, no girl should put up with a male like that, and im a 17 year old guy with a beautiful girlfriend, i hope you can work everything out (: x
@megy3773 I am fourteen so I can kinda relate even though I've never had that problem. Guys our age are supposed to be nervous and dorky. Lol If he is so young and wants to go that far then... ewww... lol it just shouldn't happen. It is your decision though and you say you don't want to go that far. Then don't. Don't feel bad about making him wait because it's not up to him. Hope everything works out. <3
@megy3773 hmm... well honestly I dont think you should go that far yet and on top that your not in the relationship (you said FRIEND) So stick with you heart and brain that your too young. Tell your friend nicely that your simply not ready :) hopefully this helps you!
ur 13 if you guys are close and known each other for so long then he should understand that your not comfortable going that far and should wait til ur ready cuz it will be better if your both ready to go that far instead of you being pressured into doin somthing your not ready for. @megy3773
@megy3773 you should never ever EVER feel bad for making any one wait! it is your body and you need to do what you feel is right and you are right about being way too young! though i do not discriminate against premarrital sex, i do believe you should wait A LOT longer. NEVER let any one pressure you into doing any thing you dont want to do! it ends badly and you will only feel regret! wait until you are older, in love, and prefferably married.
@jaschacko If you want to date casually, then make that known up front. Try group dates at first, then move on to the more intimate (non-sexual) dates. Casual dating is a good way to get to know yourself in the dating scene. So my advice is go for it Honey! There's nothing stopping you now! Go get em'! <3 Sugar
dear buck,the guy I like likes the girl im sitting next to in school and I really like him but the other day he was hugging her and he like didnt want to let go so im really depressed so idk what to do i need help what should i do??
Dear Buck, I live with my parents and autistic brother. I love my brother and I do anything for my brother.
My dad and I dont get along at all he calls me names (like cunt and whore) and threatens to kill me. Im really sick of it and I want to file a restraining order on him, but I think its going to lead to the court making leave my house, because Im of age.
Dear Buck, I'm 13 years old and have a crush on a guy in my class. I've had crushes before, but this is different. Whenever I see him I get this weird feeling that I can't explain, but I'm not obsessed or anything, but when I see him I feel happy yet weak, and all tingly. I'm friends with some of his friends. I'm a VERY shy person, so it's a bit hard to talk to other people. Maybe that's the problem? How can I get him to notice me so we could possibly start a friendship? Love- Jamie
@killertiger909 Although Im not Buck, my advice is to hang out more with him and him friends. Also do little things to get his attention, smile more. But things take time.
I hope this helps you (at least) a little. I hope things work out between you two. :)
I'm 16 and I recently realised that I was in love with my friend, Tom. I had been struggling to get over my ex and finally felt ready to ask Tom out, until last week when he started dating one of my best friends, Kerry. I hadn't told her how I felt about him but now I don't know what to do. I know that I should be happy for them but it hurts so much to see them together that I've been avoiding them both. Should I tell her how I feel? I'm so confused!!! Please help!
at 9:35 when buck raises his left hand he has a ring on his finger- am I behind or something? is he engaged/ married?? I remember a few months ago of him talking about his bf but I didn't know anything about them getting marreid :O if they are then congratz!
Plus I don't have any Dear Buck questions, I just enjoy hearing you sharing your wisdom with us :D Thanks Bucky!
dear buck i 8 i am so cute but are you are hot and how do you be hot and what do you think about born this way being your kind anthem xoxo love b@#!# this is my moms channal
dear buck i 8 i am so cute but are you are hot and how do you be hot and what do you think about born this way being your kind anthem xoxo love b@#!# this is my channal
Two years ago I was in a relationship where I was sexually abused. I was 16 at the time and a virgin. The boy who I dated lied to me numerous times, cheated on me and I sadly lost my virginity to him. I can still vividly see in my head the things he forced me to do with him and it still haunts me. I've been to a therapist, I have a new lovely boyfriend who has captured my heart but I still cry all the time I can't get those awful memories out of my head. I don't know what to do...
@sarahdgaff Poor Baby! The only thing that will heal a broken heart is time and communication. You are definatly on the right track, but it still will take time. You have got to let yourself heal! Try and keep your spirits up babe! Keep you head high and your heart strong!!!
DB, my fiancé is cheating on me with a girl that until yesterday didn't know I existed. When I found out I left him, but I took him back when they got back together. I'm in love with him, he is everything to me. I feel so stupid. He said he did it because he needed sex (we're in a long distance relationship). Now he's going to keep dating her for a week so she wouldn't get hurt. I can't leave him. We've been through a lot in the past year, and we're best friends. I don't know what to do. -Saga
@appelsintred i have something to tell you.. and you probally wont like it.. if he is cheating on you before you guys have even got married.. do you think he will contiue to cheat on you after you have gotten married...? do you want to keep going through hurt.. think about that.
@appelsintred I hate to say it but you're obviously not that good of friends if he couldn't manage to if not stay faithful then at least tell you about what he did before you found out on your own. And you're saying that as soon as you broke up with him he was all out in the open with this other girl, so he really didn't even care whether you were there or not because he had this other girl and you took him back b/c why? because he moved on easily and u didn't ..anyways it's not going to work ..
Dear Buck, I am 17 and highly intelligent...I know this and others do to. I feel sometimes that I am too smart for some of the students at my school. At times my friends get mad that I use a larger vocabulary and that I don't gossip like they do. Sometimes I feel like they only keep me around for homework help.I want to keep my friends but I don't want to change who I am or my interests for my social life. What should I do: Find different friends or dumb myself down and find different interests?
Dear Buck, i have a problem with my family. my dad gets angry very easily. my brother does very stupid things that make my dad angry, and i'm afraid he's going to get hurt. my mom has a seizure disorder and has to take medicine that makes her have to take long naps in the middle of the day, so she's not really there to help. i love my brother and my dad both very much, i'm just nervous about this. tell me if you have any suggestions! that you so much,
There is a guy at school who has been bugging me for a couple years now. He always calls me emo or a whore, or anything else he can think of. Whenever i go to my parents to get them to help they say go to the school counsellor. but i have already done that and it just made it worse. i try to make it look like he doesnt bother me, but it makes me really upset. i am scared to go to school now and i dont leave my bedroom. im not sure what to do now. Please help.
@IonaIsEpic You're the only one so far who spelled my name right. ^_^
Mom says that bucks's idea is a good one, but doesn't want to put me out and would rather keep to the couch. Apparently she's in the process of helping her bf get her a room ready in his home. Yay! she's moving out sooner than i thought!
thanks to everyone who tried to help, but in the end the situation worked itselfout! ^-^
My name is Kayla and I live in Modesto,California,
and my father who I have never been around till i was 13,which was last year, still doesn't believe or act like I am his daughter because he never knew my mom was pregnant with his kid,I have no clue in how I am going to be able to get him to see me as his child,Please Help Me!!!!
@malabuegirl Kayla, you should spent some quality time with him possibly do something nice for him you could also talk to him maybe he will understand how you feel sincerely ~ fashionlover5 (my names Kayla too :D)
Im in middle school and am recently going out with this girl who I really like! The problem is that lot of people hate her and now they are starting to hate me to! I don't want break up ith her but I dont want to be hated eather! What should I do?
My name is Markie.Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year.We are both 19.His parents kicked out of the house when he's in army training,so now he has nowhere to after it is done.I have been trying to get my mom & stepdad to let him stay with us for atleast a few weeks or till he finds a place of his own.They keep telling me they'll think about it,I even told them he would pay rent while he stayed with us.But still no answer and i ask again and again .Please help.
Dear Buck, I am a 19 year old sophomore in college, and over the past year or so, I've been questioning my sexuality. I think I may be bi-sexual, but I'm not really sure, so maybe I should classify myself as bi-curious? I feel like I can't talk to any of my friends about how I'm feeling, and I know I definitely like men, but I've wondered what it would be like to date another woman (no one in particular, just in general). I'm really not sure how to handle myself in this situation. Any advice?
@LionPhantom At this age, it is natural to be curious about your sexuality. Bisexuality isnt just about who you sleep with or date, but by who you are atracted to. if you feel attracted to a woman, then go for it. If not, then learn to love who you love. And curiosity with sexuality isnt a sin, its natural. Follow your heart, thats my advice. keep your head up and your heart strong. <3 Sugar
Girl who is pregnant from boyfriend who lives in europe: NEXT TIME WEAR A CONDOM YOU STUPID BITCH! are you really surprised that this happened? this is how it works!
ok, that was some tough love, it's over. take care <3
@pete275 Or you could wait untill you are old enough and responsible enough to take care of a possible baby because condoms don't always work... THEY CAN RIP!
@thejosh51720 lol yeah they can there's nothing you hate hearing more than 'oh sh** my condom broke...i don't have another...' just breaks my heart and by the way never fall for the old i don't have a condom but i'm clean/never had sex/a thousand other excuses.
I have a sister that hordes, has a problem with people touching her, ALWAYS has to have the last word and ATTACKS not physisal but scoams at me and my family. ALL the doctors she went to wants to put her on meds but she denies that she has a problem and attacks when we mencn her problem. My dad has grade 4 brain cancer and she just stresses him and takes years off his life. PLEASE help me get her on those pills!!!!!!!!
Dear Buck I am scared, I don't know what to do I think I am losing my best friends for a group of people that aren't the brightest of kids. Most of them drink and get into a lot of bother around my area. It is not just that we are best friends, we have both formed a relationship were it has growing in to we like each another. She asked me out recently, I said no for the reason of her hanging about with people that she shouldn't. I can accept change and all that, but what shall I do to stop her!
For the 16 and pregnant girl, please keep the baby. My friend had to make the same decision. She had the baby and gave it to our band teacher who has spent over $300,000 trying to get pregnant and trying to adopt. Really, find a couple who is infertile and work out an agreement. My friend has full visitation rights, she can take the baby to doctor's appointments. It really is a great thing to do. My friend says it is the best decision she has ever and will ever make Thumb this so she can see it
I suffered from depression for many years. I am now happy and medicine free. my brother works and lives 4 hours away and only comes home every so often. my problem is every time he comes home the depression and self-harming thoughts come back. I don't know how to deal with him and his ass hole negitivity. Please help
My sister suffers from anxiety and she recently had an attack during her hockey game. She doesn't like people knowing about her condition because she feels she gets treated differently for it. But after this attack my parents began to tell the other parents at the game ALL about her condition (including intimate details) without her consent. I told my sister this and she was very upset! now I am in trouble for with my parents was what I did wrong??
Dear 18andup1780: Decide what you want to do about the baby, and then talk to your ex-bf about it. He'll freak out less if you have a plan or at least show that you've thought about it.
Chimaera435 3 months ago
Also I just realized that I posted this on the wrong video.... -_-
SongsAboutBirds 7 months ago
how long they had actually been dating. She replied that she could remember hearing about me when I was like, eight... Meaning that basically my dad has been having a relationship with another woman for the majority of my life. My question is, how can I keep this from effecting my behavior towards this woman, seeing as I'll be living with her for another year?
SongsAboutBirds 7 months ago
OKAY! So... I'm 17. A few months ago I decided to move in with my Dad. My Mother and Father have been seperated for about two years., at which time my younger Sister and I moved to South Dakota with my Mom. Before I got to settle into my new home we took a trip to California, stopping in Boise on the way for my Dad's-Girlfriend's-Daughter's wedding (mouthfull!). After hearing a few conflicting bits of information about my Dad and his Girlfriends relationship, I asked her daughter about ...
SongsAboutBirds 7 months ago
@gothicbeeoch just message him. don't post it on his wall. it will probly make you feel better. just if you see him on chat then tell him.
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where did u gt the glee hand?
alice89is 9 months ago
where did u gt the glee hand?
alice89is 9 months ago
I know you don't like this subject ABORTION but my mom ABORTED 2 of my brothers or sisters and i can't stop thinking about them i am very unstable i get really mad and cut my self when i think of what happen to them but my mom don't know that i am mad at her about it i am never happy just very sad they go out to the movies and they ask me if im going i say no i stay locked up in my room and eat very little don't talk much i feel very bad it happen when i was about 8 and now im 20
ak47killer200 9 months ago
my mom waked into my room right at 4:19 when he yelled "CAUSE THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU!!!" we had a very awkward descusion...
america123jeff 9 months ago
@america123jeff hahaha funny i had that discussion at school 0.0 with my whole class and my nurse told us 0.0 *cough cough* AWKWARD
kaykayj07 7 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
Dear buck,
Hey there buck and anyone who reads this I want to study abroad in japan I've wanted to do this a summer before the earthquake and tsunami not like meaning last somer I told me mom about it a month or two befor the earthquake and she said no but I kept asking her and she said maybe I'll think about it now think you should no I'm the baby of a big italian family so I'm ether treaded like a baby or haled to high expectation so I'm watched very closely well anyways I want to no how to c
MsILOVEmilk 10 months ago
Dear Buck,
My name is Alex and I'm 17 (junior in HS) and I've been having strong feelings for a friend of mine for what feels like nine months. I love her a lot,and she rocks my world. But recently,she's been talking about a friend from England she likes a lot. (and I just found out today they started dating) I keep saying her happiness is my happiness,but idk it still hurts. Should I just try to get over her (if so,how) or should I wait like I have been (and failing) and hope for the best? :\
TheElectricDreamer93 10 months ago
@TheElectricDreamer93 the same thing happened to me exsept i was on the other side of it eventuraly i found out my friend liked me and i dumped my current boyfriend straight away even tho im not with my friend anymore he was worth me ending it with the other guy so tell her how u feel and see if she jibbs him for you
bekkihalle 10 months ago
Dear Buck, my name is becca.and the guy i want to date got kicked out of school and im
afraid to tell him on facebook becuse other people might read it wat do i do
my mom tells me if i tell him i feel better but im not sure wat do u think
gothicbeeoch 10 months ago
Dear Buck,
I am bisexual and I have a girlfriend. She is very suicidal she's attempted it twice and she cuts herself. She says she loves me and without me she'd kill herself, I've watched my love for her fade slowly and I don't wanna be with her any longer. I want to break up with her but I love her as a friend and I don't want her to kill herself. Please help
XxSuicidalDuckyxX 10 months ago
Dear Buck
What can i do to stop an ugly annoying bitch at my school . She walk's around telling every body that she's my girlfriend BUT IT'S NOT TRUE . How can i stop her?
Please help,Derrick
mrraichu1314 11 months ago 12
Dear Buck,
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Everything's been wonderful except recently he's been in contact with his ex. He asked me if it was okay if he went out with his ex and another friend of his to a hookah bar. I didn't know what to say so I just told him he could do whatever he wanted to. I don't know if I should be worried about him going out with an ex. I've told him I'm not happy about this but he still went ahead with it. What should I do?
nibblesxsips 11 months ago
GO GOLF FUCK YEAH!!!
HunterBudy12 11 months ago
@TheKurauchiha thanks. He told me that it was upsetting because he's trying to be a positive person and I guess my negativity isn't good for him. I get that but I still think that he should let it go and forgive me. The first time I told him about it he said he was there for me so I tried to talk to him about it again and then he got mad at me and told me about my whole negativity thing. So I think that's kinda dumb. So you think I should contact him or wait for him to contact me first?
krazyglitterdust 11 months ago
BUCK I'M SIERRA I NEED YOUR ADVICE! I told my friend something I never told anyone. He was good about it at first. He tried 2 help me out. When I brought it up again I could tell he was annoyed & mad @ me. We just stopped talking & I think he hates me 4 bringing it up. It's been 2 months. Should I contact him & just ask if he totally hates me? I really miss him cause I don't have anyone else close 2 me. I wanna go back 2 how we were before.
krazyglitterdust 11 months ago
@krazyglitterdust well Sierra i think you should try and ask him why hes so mad about it. Try and figure out whats upseting her so much and forcing him not to want to talk to you. If i were him id try and help you more then ever. you should contact him because if he doesnt care about you enough to help you and not get mad hes not a really good friend
TheKurauchiha 11 months ago
Dear Buck, Im 15 and my dad has drinking issues it's tearing my family apart emotionally and afraid it's going to be physical separation like a divorce. We've given him chances to change his ways but he's failed every time. I love him dearly and he's a really good person, but I'm leery on trusting him to be able to drive me to a practice or other things. I know there's not much I can do, but what do you think I could do? I luv you and your show, please help.
Averymeg10 11 months ago
Great advice as always! Kids don't realize until they are older that parents aren't always right. In most cases parents are hardly ever right and most of them Are a-holes. The younger these kids learn the great things you are telling them the better their lives can be! (favorite moment in buck history?) "you get a sister! You get a sister". I think I peed a little, laughing
XtremeBlzr575 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I had been dating the guy on and off for the past couple of years and now that we've officially broken up, all he seems to do is constantly remind me about how much he wants me or wants to be with me, but I just don't feel that way about him. How can I tell him to back off without coming across as a total jerk?
Love and Cyber hugs!
Tianna
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MissLovelyA 11 months ago
Dear Buck, I had a boyfriend for year now and the relationship ended. Within a week he was dating another girl. Now I've settled my issues with that and all I really want is my best friend back. He thinks talking to me will ruin his new relationship. There's also the problem that all my guy friends think I'm open for sex or something. Last night one tried putting his had down my pants in a large group of people. I'm starting to feel like a meaningless piece of ass...
domesticbark 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I am 16 years old & there is this guy that i have liked for quite a while. We have been friends for like 3 years & i have liked him for about the last 2. but last year i found out that he is gay. before you go all "you cant have him, get over him" i have, well at least i know that i can never date him & he will never feel the way i do, but the feelings are still there. even though we are just friends i want to be closer to him. (continued)
jagage07 11 months ago
@jagage07 (continued) we used to txt all the time & talk in class. i thought he really cared me & that we were starting to get closed as friends. but lately he has been acting really distent & he hasnt answered my txts in like a month & i really dont know what to do! i am now starting to wonder if all the things he said before was all a lie & idk, im just really confused & i want my friend back!
Please help me out, i dont know what to do. love Jazmin
jagage07 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm 16 yrs old and i had a boyfriend for about 8 months.
one day i sent him nude pics.
after i broke up because he doesn't want me to go to a outstanding good school in oxford he is blackmailing me and says he will send the pics to everyone he knows if i'll go to oxford.
i'm so concerned about that.
that would be so shameful.
i'm afraid to tell it to my parents because they might think i'm a slut :(
PLEASE HELP ME <3
forca55 11 months ago 2
@forca55 if theyre real friends then theyll stick wit u plus it doesnt matter ur goin 2 oxford mayb get somethin on him
imah8er4life 11 months ago
@forca55 I would advise you to check the laws in your area. since your only 16, your underage, and therefore him showing those pictures around could be considered child pornography. it may seem like a drastic option, but I know that in the area I live in, him showing your pictures around is against the law.
Ounja93 11 months ago
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Dear Buck,
I am a 13 year old girl and there is a boy who is the same age as me that is stalking me. He texts and calls and messages me constantly. He told me he wrote two songs about me and he sent me the lyrics to one of them. Honestly, it scared me. He also told me he has had re-occurring dreams about me, in which we are in a field and he is chasing me, then there is a flash and I am gone, then he looks down and sees my dead body. Nothing i do makes him stop. Please help me. Love, Jess
2laugh2love2live 11 months ago
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2laugh2love2live 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I am in a long distance relationship right now with my boyfriend of 8 months. I'm in college 1000 miles away and he's at home. I know long distance isn't easy, but recently it's been really tough. I don't party since I know he and I would fight about it, he got upset at me for walking to the gym by myself at 8:00pm even though it is well lit and a 5 minute walk. I'm worried he might get more controlling as the relationship goes on. He says he's not controlling, just protective ): AHHH
lamenessxperfection 11 months ago
dear buck iliked this guy for 5 years then he startd to like me. But the other week he tried to rape me. I freaked and havent called him since. He sends cards and emailks and fones but i dont know what to do... help
vickybabe101112 11 months ago
@ciarayoo Tell your friend that you are concerned/scared/worried for their safety, and then take a step back. It might be painful to watch a friend do something that you think is bad, but remember its not your life. Remind them that you are their for them and that you care, and are worried for their safety. But its not your life its theirs. Its hard, but keep your distance, and be ready to come in with a hug. <3 Sugar
sugarhigh10 11 months ago
@VanceChristopher24 don't let them get to you. You are who you are no matter how big or small you are. It's up to you to figure out what your sexuality is, it's not up to them. Keep you head up high and know that you are fabulous. If it turns out you are gay, then hey more power to ya. If not then that's good too. But just like someone else said (another youtuber that I want to give credit but I can't c the name due to me using a mobile phone) it's up to you and you are beautiful just the way y
MsWeeBeast 11 months ago
Now, normally I would just go ahead and tell my parents that I just don't want to play anymore, but I have about 200 dollars over my head...my dad just bought me brand new spikes and shinguards and i'm afraid to tell them because i just wasted 200 bucks...my boyfriend says he's going to talk to my parents for me...but i feel like i'm hiding behind him...i can't keep up anymore and i just want to stop playing...what should i do? :(
animefreak71394 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm a junior in high school and only 3 days into my JV soccer season. It only took me the first day to realize that I just don't have the heart to play soccer anymore. It's different from being lazy and out of shape. The last two years I was out of shape, but I still smiled during practice. This year, I'm way out of my league. I don't know any of the girls and it's just wearing me out to no extent...I'm always tired and dreading for school to end because practice is right afterwards
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64lundyco 11 months ago
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64lundyco 11 months ago
Buck, you would make the best father.
LeahBBanayan 1 year ago
dear buck, i am 14 and i am going to high school in the fall and i have four friends that i have been friends with for like ever and all of them are going to different high school then me except one and we arnt close and i dont really like her that much but im scard to go into high school with no friends and i dont know how to make new onescan you help me? thank you!
vaf25 1 year ago
@vaf25 Wow. Ok, I'm in actually in a similar situation, (well I was 5 monthes ago)
You need to join a club, or actually just walk into to class with a smile on your face. Talk, ask to sit with people at lunch. Hang out in the morning around school, thats always a fun way to meet people, sports, music, anything that has people. I'm in Amadeus Club (music club), Anime Club and Dance Club (the seniors teach us tango, salsa and other stuff) I love it and I've met a ton of people. Message me 4 more.
BatmansFavoriteGirl 1 year ago
BUCK I LOVE YOU!!!!! your sooooooooo funny and i say this from the very depth of my heart that i am your BIGGEST EVER FAN!!!!! i get home from school and watch what the buck fo hours its ssooooooooo funny and your advice can even brighten someone day! love you!!!!!!!!!!!
misstinnou 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
Hi! My name is Christopher and I'm 14. i think i might be gay. everybody calls me that, just because I'm more flamboyant other guys. but, this is the problem. I'm fat (i don't hate myself, truth is just truth) and i don't know if I'm just jealous that other people look better than me, or if i actually am. HELP!
VanceChristopher24 1 year ago
@VanceChristopher24 Hey, it's you not those jerk-offs that call you a faggot, that really knows what you are, and what you will be. It's a mental thing, are you attracted to boys? Your sexuality is you, not what other people tell you it is. If that's you.. then I love you. If that isn't you and you just feel like you are because THEY TOLD you.. I still love you. And about the self confidence thing... put your head up and smile because your beautiful just the way you are.
BatmansFavoriteGirl 1 year ago
I just think dear buck is so good
toto11card 1 year ago
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Love the "My Life" reference!!
dancinERB 1 year ago
DB, I am an all honor class student, all grades 96+ I want to be a scientist but 1 that is going to be very hard to find jobs -- this isn't why I'm asking you tho-- 2 the big problem, I am a Christian. I don't believe in evolution, many science careers you kinda need to believe in evolution , so can I be a scientist and be a Christian and what kinda can I be? *** please dont reply saying I am wrong and shouldn't be a Christian, you aren't going to change what I believe*** thanks in advance
jjgirl122 1 year ago 2
Dear Buck,
My name is Lizz.I need help. I am always the person people come to when they need advice or help. I get mad and emotional easily, but when it comes to my own problems I don't know what to do.People hate me for no reason people think I'm ugly, I do to.They tell me I'm beatiful and they are jealous of me and lie straight to my face. I don't know weither people hate me or are just jealous of me. I dont think what-so-ever they are,Why be jealous of me?
MsNinjaGirl237 1 year ago
@MsNinjaGirl237 It sounds like you not the people who are acting this way are, as you put it: "get mad and emotional easily, but when it comes to my own problems I don't know what to do.People hate me for no reason people think I'm ugly I do to." Everything is a mirror. If some tells you they hate you, they may hate you but they also have issues with themself. If they think you're ugly they want someone else in the room to feel worse. Trust me I was basically suicidal from 5-7 grade. Message me!
BatmansFavoriteGirl 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My dad died last year and my mom is already dating. The boyfriend she has now moved in with us last month. When she is gone he hits me and makes sexual advances towards me. Even if she is there he calls me hurtful things and touches me inappropriately. She says she loves him and knows I don't like him so she might think I am lying if i told her. I'm only 13 and scarred for my life. What do I do?
Please Help; Brittany
LlamaMonsterLove 1 year ago 97
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@LlamaMonsterLove OMG! TELL SOMEONE AT SCHOOL AND TELL YOUR MOM YOU CAN'T LIVE LIKE THAT! email me if you need some advice, i'm 14, i understand. (i'm not a creeper, trust me.) my email: svancechristopher@gmail.com
VanceChristopher24 1 year ago
@LlamaMonsterLove dont b afraid a mother should never choose any1 over her child tell (teacher/some1 like that) some1 who knows how many other girls hes hurt
imah8er4life 11 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove oh my god you have to tell her. your mom doesnt deserve someone who is a pedofile and abuser, get her out of that relationship right now! trust me she wont love him if she knows what hes doing to you and dont feel bad about it, you must get ride of him before he gets worse. Please! im worried for you :(
JHandcock1111 11 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove ok im ganna try and help you.Well maybe you should lock your bedroom door at night if you have no lock tell your mother whats going on because i think your mom picked the wrong man to date and move in with.why dont you tell someone close to you move in with one of closets friends if you feel uncofertable i just dont wanna find out you were found raped and murdered in your house and your moms bf was the only person there andyour mom doesnt belive he didit and thinks its ur fault
TheKurauchiha 11 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove CONTACT POLICE! SCHOOL PRINCIPAL/COUNCELER/TEAHCER
515NeNe 11 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove If your mom isn't going to listen to your problems with him, move in with a friend until she gets the point. If you don't feel safe at home and your mother isn't listening, tell someone. A teacher you trust, a best friend's parent. You shouldn't feel like you have to go through this alone. <3
XxXMusicWorldXxX 11 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove Dear Brittany,
That is awful im so sorry but you need to tell your mother. Your mom is your mom and she knows you wouldn't lie like that do whatever you can to prove your point leave when he's over.
I hope that helped :)
webkinzrule84 11 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove
I know I'm not Buck but maybe I can help?
I suggest going to a school counselor, priest, close friend's mother, an adult you REALLY trust. I know confronting this kind of thing can be hard and she's your mother but ignoring this won't help you at all. The only way to make this stop is telling someone. If she doesn't believe you, make her believe. I HIGHLY doubt she won't believe you. Tell someone and get someone else involved. Please, tell me if this helps you!
Kitsie.
Kitsune1414 11 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove tell your mom if she doesn't do anything go to the police and make a plan on who you can stay with if she refuses to leave him.
PessimisticAshley 10 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove call police
TheDoctorWholigan 10 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove O my god that's awful. I am sorry for you. If you want to let her know you are serious maybe you should run away for a day or two.
MasterYodaPuppet 9 months ago
@LlamaMonsterLove i reckon you should tell your mum, and if she denies it try and get some proof :) hope this ends well for you <3
Jakiladd 5 months ago
Dear Buck,
I keep having this nightmare about being called at school and being told my mother is dead via stroke. I consulted my friend who has an uncannily acurate sixth sense and she says I'm having premonitions. My father died two years ago of cancer and my mom is a heavy smoker and drinker. My father and I were never very close,so I wasn't as upset when he died.No one in my family has died of a stroke as long as I can remember. You may not believe in this but I do and I need help.
startrekmakesmehappy 1 year ago
@startrekmakesmehappy Maybe you should try talking to your mum about your fears. It's not good to be a heavy smoker or drinker. Whether or not you are having premonitions your fear for your mum's health is clearly affecting you and maybe if you talk to her you can help her quit. I hope this helps :)
allieamy0208 1 year ago
@balletbaby329 you need to call the child protective agency and tell them everything you know. They can walk you through what needs to be done. They will most likely intervene... and I hope they do. Good luck.
hisapprentice 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
Hi, I'm Sarah! When I was growing up, my dad physically abused my sister. He hit her in front of me and I never got over it. I'm 16 now and my sister's in college. He's never hit me but I'm afriad one day he will.He yells hurtful things to me all the time. I love my mom but I'm afraid for my safety. I've considered moving out, but I have no where to go. Should I stay at home for 2 more years and just "toughen up" or should I try to find somewhere to go?
CocaColaDrinker14 1 year ago 33
@BallettBaby329 Is there a way you could talk to them before you talk to the parents. Try to find out what is going on in her home and if necessary call a social worker before you call the parents so that they are present and can see the reaction of the father. This is not a easy situation but you need to make sure she is safe because the parents DO need to be notified in BOTH cases. Good luck :)
gabbysway2 1 year ago
"i'm not talking about sex" *awkward pause* hahaha
KaykayShanaynayShow 1 year ago 2
I'M A YOUTUBE GOLFER!!!! love you buck thnx fr the shout out!!!
totalglambert0115 1 year ago
i can definitely relate to the shy thing. i might be the shyest person on the planet and because of this it takes me really long to be comfortable with people too. the best thing to do is to just be open minded and try finding people with common interests and you'll definitely be fine.
lilmonstahh23 1 year ago
@killertiger909
If your shy, ask your mutual friends to introduce him to you...
also, i was really shy when i was younger ... so all you have to do is place yourself out of your comfort zone...
hope this helps !
OliviaCandace 1 year ago
@DancerluvJB
You have to tell your friend that you like him, if he asks her out, and she is a true friend, she will say no. If she says yes, don't try to break them up, or do anything to hurt their relationship, because you could hurt them both, and that could lead to fights, and other bad things..
hope this helps
btw ive been through this.
OliviaCandace 1 year ago
@OliviaCandace
Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it :)
DancerluvJB 1 year ago
@megy3773
please.. dont do anything that you aren't comfortable doing... if you do things that your uncomfortable with , you may regret it, your friend could tell everyone and then rumors could start. please dont do anything that you dont want to do, no one can force you. Dont feel bad if you want to make him wait, just sit him down calmly and tell him. he will understand, if he doesn't, then he isnt the right person for you!
hope this helps !
OliviaCandace 1 year ago
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airinity 1 year ago 2
@12851991 that does not mean you are bisexual your only attracted to her right? If you are, you're just a little curious. That's totally normal. A lot of gay people will find the occasional person of the opposite sex they are attracted to.
BeatlesSeinfeld123 1 year ago
Dear Buck, A few months ago I just got out of an on and off relationship with a total whore. Since then, I give myself little pep-talks telling myself that next time I meet a guy, I won't put up with ANY CRAP, and that I'll drop out of the relationship the moment something goes wrong. But I'm afraid that this would just make me a heartless girl friend. I was "the perfect gf" to my last bf. I seemed desperate.
How can I find a happy medium between strong and independent and a compassionate gf.
edwrdz14 1 year ago
@edwrdz14 Nobody can be the "perfect gf" to every guy. Independence is good, but that doesn't mean you cant be compassionate. Love is about balance, the trick is to find yours. And yeah, some relationships wont work out, but learn from them. And remember, if it feels wrong, it probably is. Compassion and Independence can go hand in hand. <3 Sugar
sugarhigh10 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
Im in middle school and I have a circle of friends that i have been close with for a long time. Suddenly i realized that they have broken my trust. But i honestly cant leave them. They pull me back in with guilt and THREATEN to tell people everything i have told them. Im really confused because my parents even feel that they are keeping me from my full potential. But they r my friends. I seriously love thise people and i really dont know what i shluld do.
thanks,
Alex
SecretChannel111 1 year ago
"Leave Grandma alone!"
notveganyet 1 year ago
For the racist parent problem, a good technique is to speak to someone about racism being wrong, but speak to them when you're near the parent so they hear what you have to say but aren't offended by you going up to them and tellin them they are wrong
Sumair792 1 year ago
Dear buck,
I am an openly gay 16 year old and my best friend is a lesbian girl who is extremely masculine. we have always hung out but recently when we go alone places we end up hooking up. I'm really confused because i have never been attracted to any females but her and she says the same thing about me, does that mean im bi or something else cause to be honest i never thought bi people existed. sorry all of you bi people :(
12815991 1 year ago 3
i love you giant glee hand in the backround buck!
welshguy94 1 year ago
Dear buck
can you not say my username please ok i have a friend and i really like him but we are really good friends and i know he kinda likes me too i dont know if i should ask him or just stay friend s please helpme buck can you thumbs up so he can read this
helengagaloo 1 year ago
@helengagaloo I'm not Buck, but seriously, just ask the friend.
PierreChaqueJour 1 year ago
@helengagaloo This is a situation to follow your heart. If you think that your friendship is the most important thing then dont go for it. If however you think that there may be a chance for something more then by all means. The most important thing is to follow your heart and listen to it. It will tell you where to go! <3 Sugar
sugarhigh10 1 year ago
DEAR BUCK, im 15 yrs old and i want to get a guy back! a couple months ago i was dating an 18 yr old boy whos a senior (in my brothers grade) my brother doesnt like him so he told my dad bad things about this boy like the fact that he does drugs and doesnt get along well with a lot of people. my parents got mad & made me break up with him. even though all the things my bro told my parents are true i dont really care and still want him back. do u think there is any way that we could go out again?
Andreeaa211 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
This isn't really an advice question but I'm genuinely curious; you're intro to Dear Buck says you have a PhD in Degrassi, I know you're being facetious but are you watching the new episodes? If you are, what do you think about them? :}
ourrein 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
When I was 18 I was going out with this guy who used me, I had depression and was really dependant on alcohol.
After about a year I went to the doctors and got myself sorted out. Now I'm 21 very happy.
Here's the thing he got in contact with me and he said he had changed.
He wants to get back together, in a way I don't want to not give him a chance but theres also that chance that he will hurt me and i will go back to being the horrible person i use to be. What should i do?
kirbe4yaa 1 year ago
Dear Buck
I'm 17 and I've liked this one guy for almost three years. I always hoped something would happen but he's been leading me on this whole time! I recently found out that he really likes my best friend and she likes him back. I don't want to tell her not to date him but when I see them flirting together it really hurts. What should I do?
Thanks :)
DancerluvJB 1 year ago
@DancerluvJB I think that if you really like this guy you should talk to your best friend and tell your best friend that you like this guy and talk things out. But if you decided to do this dont act all dramatic just be calm and say it calmly otherwise she might get upset if you make a dramatic confession. I think that your bestfriend will understand :). Btw im 12 and i might not be right :).
meow22345 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I am currently 21 years old. (And from MA! Hi neighbor!) Anyway, I have only had one serious boyfriend. We were together for 2 years and were each others firsts. We broke up 2 years ago and have moved on with our lives. Tonight, he came out as being openly gay via facebook. I am at a total loss of what to do. What do I say to him? Anything? Should I be hurt and upset? I really hope you see and answer because I have no idea what to do with myself. Thanks.
Cyber hugs,
Maribeth
mbee89 1 year ago
@mbee89 Oh my dearie! Honestly, if you have truly moved on then he is your past, and although you are connected to him it doesn't need to affect your present life. If you are still friends, then support him. If you have parted ways, then I say live and let live. If it becomes a major problem then talk to someone (or the guy) about it. Talking may seem weird but it helps. Cyber hugs <3 Sugar
sugarhigh10 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I am a 19 year old girl, and I had this crush on this guy from my school (I go to "continued secondary" school. For dropouts). We had a couple of dates. Lunch, drinks (I'm Canadian) we hung out and watched a couple movies. But I thought he was 25 or something. That wouldn't be a problem for me. But he's turning 29. Normally age wouldn't bother me. But, he is just not my type to begin with. I mean he's really cute and sweet and nice but... I just don't feel right. Help?
XOXO Spazzling
Spazzling621 1 year ago
Dear buck,
I am thirteen years old and have a wierd relationship with my friend that I have been friends with for years. We both like each other and he asked me how far I wanted to go (bases). I told him to tell me first, and he said he wants to go to third. I don't feel comfortable going this far because I am too young and I havent even started in on the bases yet( but I have had my first kiss) I feel bad makin him wait. Wht do I do??
Thanks -3
megy3773 1 year ago 53
@megy3773
It is your life. It is your body. Do NOT feel bad for making him wait. If he truly treasures you, he will wait until you genuinely want to go that far, and he will learn that the wait was worth it.
edwrdz14 1 year ago
@megy3773 Honey, if he truly cares about you he will wait! You are WAY too young to be going that far that fast. It also may help to talk to him about it. Tell him how you are feeling. Keep your head up and your heart strong. <3 Sugar
sugarhigh10 1 year ago
@megy3773 Please don't do anything that you're not comfortable with.
omglikewoahitssydney 1 year ago
@megy3773 I hope Buck answers your question, but if he doesn't.... my advice is to wait. I know it's kind of cliche to say that if he really loves you, he'll wait, but it's true. It's alright to fool around a little, but consider the cons.... do you think you'll regret it? If you say no, do you think he'll ditch you? Because if he does, he really wasn't worth it. I say take it a little slow and if it goes well, then do it IF you want to. Hope this helped :)
EarlyBirdie82 1 year ago
@megy3773 A guy whose trying to rush you obviously doesn't deserve you. Please stay strong and don't fall for a guy who just wants to get into your pants. You'll regret it later.
CombustableMuffin 1 year ago
@megy3773 if your are not comfortable going that far then don't. It's your body and your choice for how far you want to go in anything. If he keeps pressuring you, he is not a very good friend and he obviously doesn't repspect you. YOU deserve someone who respects you. Don't feel bad for makng him wait, he should understand. Your also thirteen ... you shouldn't go past first. You still young.
Stepherus 1 year ago
@megy3773 from what you wrote the only advice i can give is this, if a guy is wanting to go straight to third base, and you dont want to do it, then dont feel guilty, if he is forcing, or arguing because you wont, then leave him, no girl should put up with a male like that, and im a 17 year old guy with a beautiful girlfriend, i hope you can work everything out (: x
ABleedingRose 1 year ago
@megy3773 I am fourteen so I can kinda relate even though I've never had that problem. Guys our age are supposed to be nervous and dorky. Lol If he is so young and wants to go that far then... ewww... lol it just shouldn't happen. It is your decision though and you say you don't want to go that far. Then don't. Don't feel bad about making him wait because it's not up to him. Hope everything works out. <3
gl96 1 year ago
@megy3773 hmm... well honestly I dont think you should go that far yet and on top that your not in the relationship (you said FRIEND) So stick with you heart and brain that your too young. Tell your friend nicely that your simply not ready :) hopefully this helps you!
metalheadluvr555 1 year ago
ur 13 if you guys are close and known each other for so long then he should understand that your not comfortable going that far and should wait til ur ready cuz it will be better if your both ready to go that far instead of you being pressured into doin somthing your not ready for. @megy3773
megamusicgurl 1 year ago
@megy3773 DON'T DO IT! MAKE HIM KEEP HIS JUNK IN HIS PANTS! THAT'S GROSS! THINK ABOUT WHAT MAY HAPPEN HUNNN. please don't do it!!!!!!
VanceChristopher24 1 year ago
@megy3773 you should never ever EVER feel bad for making any one wait! it is your body and you need to do what you feel is right and you are right about being way too young! though i do not discriminate against premarrital sex, i do believe you should wait A LOT longer. NEVER let any one pressure you into doing any thing you dont want to do! it ends badly and you will only feel regret! wait until you are older, in love, and prefferably married.
ktmtjv080209 11 months ago
dear buck
im a junior in high school and i want to start causally dating but i DONT want a serious relationship any time soon
do you have any tips?(you don't have answer since there are other problems that are more serious than this)
jaschacko 1 year ago
@jaschacko If you want to date casually, then make that known up front. Try group dates at first, then move on to the more intimate (non-sexual) dates. Casual dating is a good way to get to know yourself in the dating scene. So my advice is go for it Honey! There's nothing stopping you now! Go get em'! <3 Sugar
sugarhigh10 1 year ago
dear buck,the guy I like likes the girl im sitting next to in school and I really like him but the other day he was hugging her and he like didnt want to let go so im really depressed so idk what to do i need help what should i do??
mimalolrox123 1 year ago
Dear Buck, I live with my parents and autistic brother. I love my brother and I do anything for my brother.
My dad and I dont get along at all he calls me names (like cunt and whore) and threatens to kill me. Im really sick of it and I want to file a restraining order on him, but I think its going to lead to the court making leave my house, because Im of age.
Idont know what to do anymore :(
Cyber Hugs love you Buck.
extremeenigma 1 year ago
Dear Buck, I'm 13 years old and have a crush on a guy in my class. I've had crushes before, but this is different. Whenever I see him I get this weird feeling that I can't explain, but I'm not obsessed or anything, but when I see him I feel happy yet weak, and all tingly. I'm friends with some of his friends. I'm a VERY shy person, so it's a bit hard to talk to other people. Maybe that's the problem? How can I get him to notice me so we could possibly start a friendship? Love- Jamie
killertiger909 1 year ago 3
@killertiger909 Although Im not Buck, my advice is to hang out more with him and him friends. Also do little things to get his attention, smile more. But things take time.
I hope this helps you (at least) a little. I hope things work out between you two. :)
extremeenigma 1 year ago
@extremeenigma Thank you for your advice! :)
killertiger909 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I'm 16 and I recently realised that I was in love with my friend, Tom. I had been struggling to get over my ex and finally felt ready to ask Tom out, until last week when he started dating one of my best friends, Kerry. I hadn't told her how I felt about him but now I don't know what to do. I know that I should be happy for them but it hurts so much to see them together that I've been avoiding them both. Should I tell her how I feel? I'm so confused!!! Please help!
Love Katie
MusicLove72 1 year ago
at 9:35 when buck raises his left hand he has a ring on his finger- am I behind or something? is he engaged/ married?? I remember a few months ago of him talking about his bf but I didn't know anything about them getting marreid :O if they are then congratz!
Plus I don't have any Dear Buck questions, I just enjoy hearing you sharing your wisdom with us :D Thanks Bucky!
Teencat 1 year ago
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CEBLUE27 1 year ago
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CEBLUE27 1 year ago
@CEBLUE27 sweetheart, you arent supposed to be hot at 8 :)
extremeenigma 1 year ago 2
dear buck i 8 i am so cute but are you are hot and how do you be hot and what do you think about born this way being your kind anthem xoxo love b@#!#
CEBLUE27 1 year ago
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breel75 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
Two years ago I was in a relationship where I was sexually abused. I was 16 at the time and a virgin. The boy who I dated lied to me numerous times, cheated on me and I sadly lost my virginity to him. I can still vividly see in my head the things he forced me to do with him and it still haunts me. I've been to a therapist, I have a new lovely boyfriend who has captured my heart but I still cry all the time I can't get those awful memories out of my head. I don't know what to do...
sarahdgaff 1 year ago
@sarahdgaff Poor Baby! The only thing that will heal a broken heart is time and communication. You are definatly on the right track, but it still will take time. You have got to let yourself heal! Try and keep your spirits up babe! Keep you head high and your heart strong!!!
sugarhigh10 1 year ago
@sugarhigh10 Thanks, that's really sweet of you. I'm trying! :)
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sarahdgaff 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My friend recently broke up with a guy and he just asked me out. I really don't know what to do because I kinda like him!! Please help!
Readerrose67 1 year ago
@Readerrose67 I'm not Buck but I have a few pointers for you:
1) Do you know WHY did your friend break up with the guy? If it's cause the guy was a bad bf then you shouldn't waste your time on him either.
2) Do you think your relationship will last long??
3) How did the guy treat your friend throughout the relationship? Was he a good bf?
Teencat 1 year ago
DB, my fiancé is cheating on me with a girl that until yesterday didn't know I existed. When I found out I left him, but I took him back when they got back together. I'm in love with him, he is everything to me. I feel so stupid. He said he did it because he needed sex (we're in a long distance relationship). Now he's going to keep dating her for a week so she wouldn't get hurt. I can't leave him. We've been through a lot in the past year, and we're best friends. I don't know what to do. -Saga
appelsintred 1 year ago 2
@appelsintred i have something to tell you.. and you probally wont like it.. if he is cheating on you before you guys have even got married.. do you think he will contiue to cheat on you after you have gotten married...? do you want to keep going through hurt.. think about that.
limergreenlover 1 year ago
@appelsintred I hate to say it but you're obviously not that good of friends if he couldn't manage to if not stay faithful then at least tell you about what he did before you found out on your own. And you're saying that as soon as you broke up with him he was all out in the open with this other girl, so he really didn't even care whether you were there or not because he had this other girl and you took him back b/c why? because he moved on easily and u didn't ..anyways it's not going to work ..
simystic7 1 year ago
Buck I love you to absolute pieces. But sort your hair out babes!! :D. Not being a bitch I'm a hairdresser
MarkDavidRaford 1 year ago
Abortion, religion... Madonna - tough dinner topics.
BlastItWithRain 1 year ago
Dear Buck, I am 17 and highly intelligent...I know this and others do to. I feel sometimes that I am too smart for some of the students at my school. At times my friends get mad that I use a larger vocabulary and that I don't gossip like they do. Sometimes I feel like they only keep me around for homework help.I want to keep my friends but I don't want to change who I am or my interests for my social life. What should I do: Find different friends or dumb myself down and find different interests?
TurtlesGoRawr2012 1 year ago
@TurtlesGoRawr2012 do you actually like your friends? because if you don't you need to get new ones you shouldn't dumb yourself down.
xharry4ginnyx 1 year ago
@TurtlesGoRawr2012 If they were really your friends, they would like you weather your a genious or the dumbest person on earth!
Kelsie0505 1 year ago
Dear Buck, i have a problem with my family. my dad gets angry very easily. my brother does very stupid things that make my dad angry, and i'm afraid he's going to get hurt. my mom has a seizure disorder and has to take medicine that makes her have to take long naps in the middle of the day, so she's not really there to help. i love my brother and my dad both very much, i'm just nervous about this. tell me if you have any suggestions! that you so much,
sarah
sc1592 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
There is a guy at school who has been bugging me for a couple years now. He always calls me emo or a whore, or anything else he can think of. Whenever i go to my parents to get them to help they say go to the school counsellor. but i have already done that and it just made it worse. i try to make it look like he doesnt bother me, but it makes me really upset. i am scared to go to school now and i dont leave my bedroom. im not sure what to do now. Please help.
sodapop737 1 year ago
@IonaIsEpic You're the only one so far who spelled my name right. ^_^
Mom says that bucks's idea is a good one, but doesn't want to put me out and would rather keep to the couch. Apparently she's in the process of helping her bf get her a room ready in his home. Yay! she's moving out sooner than i thought!
thanks to everyone who tried to help, but in the end the situation worked itselfout! ^-^
-A. Ashida
only1ofme382 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My name is Kayla and I live in Modesto,California,
and my father who I have never been around till i was 13,which was last year, still doesn't believe or act like I am his daughter because he never knew my mom was pregnant with his kid,I have no clue in how I am going to be able to get him to see me as his child,Please Help Me!!!!
Love,Kayla
malabuegirl 1 year ago
@malabuegirl Kayla, you should spent some quality time with him possibly do something nice for him you could also talk to him maybe he will understand how you feel sincerely ~ fashionlover5 (my names Kayla too :D)
fashionlover5 1 year ago
Dear Buck
Im in middle school and am recently going out with this girl who I really like! The problem is that lot of people hate her and now they are starting to hate me to! I don't want break up ith her but I dont want to be hated eather! What should I do?
Ps None of my friends hate me though
DarkSlayer00001 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My name is Markie.Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year.We are both 19.His parents kicked out of the house when he's in army training,so now he has nowhere to after it is done.I have been trying to get my mom & stepdad to let him stay with us for atleast a few weeks or till he finds a place of his own.They keep telling me they'll think about it,I even told them he would pay rent while he stayed with us.But still no answer and i ask again and again .Please help.
ChristinaDeath666 1 year ago
it always hurts when your 16...LOL
ShePIXonline 1 year ago
you should have a live show where you answer all of the questions on here.
NrdsWthGns 1 year ago
7 people ar racist -.-
cassandrastorer 1 year ago
Dear Buck, I am a 19 year old sophomore in college, and over the past year or so, I've been questioning my sexuality. I think I may be bi-sexual, but I'm not really sure, so maybe I should classify myself as bi-curious? I feel like I can't talk to any of my friends about how I'm feeling, and I know I definitely like men, but I've wondered what it would be like to date another woman (no one in particular, just in general). I'm really not sure how to handle myself in this situation. Any advice?
LionPhantom 1 year ago
@LionPhantom At this age, it is natural to be curious about your sexuality. Bisexuality isnt just about who you sleep with or date, but by who you are atracted to. if you feel attracted to a woman, then go for it. If not, then learn to love who you love. And curiosity with sexuality isnt a sin, its natural. Follow your heart, thats my advice. keep your head up and your heart strong. <3 Sugar
sugarhigh10 11 months ago
@sugarhigh10 Thank you so much for the advice!! <3
LionPhantom 11 months ago
Girl who is pregnant from boyfriend who lives in europe: NEXT TIME WEAR A CONDOM YOU STUPID BITCH! are you really surprised that this happened? this is how it works!
ok, that was some tough love, it's over. take care <3
pete275 1 year ago
@pete275 Ot they could have not had sex...
thejosh51720 1 year ago
@thejosh51720 sex is awesome, why would you not have sex? you just have to be careful about it, that's all
pete275 1 year ago
@pete275 Or you could wait untill you are old enough and responsible enough to take care of a possible baby because condoms don't always work... THEY CAN RIP!
Sorry i'm too old fashioned, even though i'm 14.
thejosh51720 1 year ago
@thejosh51720 lol yeah they can there's nothing you hate hearing more than 'oh sh** my condom broke...i don't have another...' just breaks my heart and by the way never fall for the old i don't have a condom but i'm clean/never had sex/a thousand other excuses.
simystic7 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I have a sister that hordes, has a problem with people touching her, ALWAYS has to have the last word and ATTACKS not physisal but scoams at me and my family. ALL the doctors she went to wants to put her on meds but she denies that she has a problem and attacks when we mencn her problem. My dad has grade 4 brain cancer and she just stresses him and takes years off his life. PLEASE help me get her on those pills!!!!!!!!
PLEASE thumbs this up so Buck can see this!!! :)
cammaster50 1 year ago 2
Dear Buck I am scared, I don't know what to do I think I am losing my best friends for a group of people that aren't the brightest of kids. Most of them drink and get into a lot of bother around my area. It is not just that we are best friends, we have both formed a relationship were it has growing in to we like each another. She asked me out recently, I said no for the reason of her hanging about with people that she shouldn't. I can accept change and all that, but what shall I do to stop her!
LeeVlogs 1 year ago
For the 16 and pregnant girl, please keep the baby. My friend had to make the same decision. She had the baby and gave it to our band teacher who has spent over $300,000 trying to get pregnant and trying to adopt. Really, find a couple who is infertile and work out an agreement. My friend has full visitation rights, she can take the baby to doctor's appointments. It really is a great thing to do. My friend says it is the best decision she has ever and will ever make Thumb this so she can see it
YeahCarlPrductions 1 year ago 65
Dear Buck,
I suffered from depression for many years. I am now happy and medicine free. my brother works and lives 4 hours away and only comes home every so often. my problem is every time he comes home the depression and self-harming thoughts come back. I don't know how to deal with him and his ass hole negitivity. Please help
ninaelle2003 1 year ago
Dear buck
My sister suffers from anxiety and she recently had an attack during her hockey game. She doesn't like people knowing about her condition because she feels she gets treated differently for it. But after this attack my parents began to tell the other parents at the game ALL about her condition (including intimate details) without her consent. I told my sister this and she was very upset! now I am in trouble for with my parents was what I did wrong??
help!