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  • the boyz that dont have dad either turn out this way

  • man you get the education, you act right and have a good life, i don't know about thugs but you get all my respect. keep it going. they just jealous.

  • You got every word right, I agree...

  • Nothing bothers me more than when a person speaks on a subject without doing their due diligence. How many gay man have you actually sat down to talk to @nowman48? Are you walking in their shoes everyday? Do you know what it's like to be a black gay male? Their are far more pressures they face than you will ever know. Most black gay men are shunned initially from their families, many friends, and yes even society at times. Automatically labelled and talked about by their own ppl.

  • nice one!

  • You dont Choose to be gay mate ....

  • Jew man, you've created a big problem. After the problem is rectified you know whats next.

  • I don't know how old you are, but if youre an educated black man, which you don't really sound like one, you wouldn't have such an ignorant view of things. Although what you say about thugs may be true in a lot of ways, what you say about gay men is completely off base. I'm glad you admitted at the end that you don't know what it is to be a gay person and know what they go through because that was obvious from the beginning. Gay people come in all types of character and stature. But, I digress.

  • I'm sorry but you are retarded. Nobody turns gay. Actually, I'm not sorry. You're just retarded.

  • you need to do your research and further educate yourself... and stop voicing your opinion on irrelevant shit.... ok our society is set up so that black men can fail ! gay or thug it dont matter even if they str8.. the white man sees them all the same.. all your doing is creating war in the community with your segragating topic.

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  • Black brothas yall gotta recognize the fact that war has been declared on your minds. Reject these freaky ass clothes they be putting out and stop wearing your pants off your ass showing your booty to other dudes. Get into a gym and learn how to box and defend yourself. Stop following these sell-out rappers who are set ups from your enemy. These rappers job is to mislead yall into this bullshit. Many of them gay and that's where that term "GAY THUG" came from. Don't buy their dvd and cds.

  • These young Black brothas have become fem as shit....i ain't never see nothing like it. Dudes can't even defend themselves and it makes me feel so ashamed. Blackmen acting like females is not cute and these corrupt ass females be ecouraging that behavior. I see videos where dudes playing booty popping games and they think that shit is funny. We are being programmed to accept this shit as normal but it isn't. Gotta watch what you take in your head and spirit because it will rest there. Wake Up!

  • @DaOrigTruthSeeker Being Gay is normal! I have been Gay all my life, and it is not a choice! Black people are always talkin shit about Gay people! They are silly ass shit!

  • This is why i be telling them hardheaded ass Black women to STOP playing that fruity ass Tyler Perry bullshit in front of their young sons. They think that shit is cute but it is programming their sons. One day yall ignorant ass Black females gonna see that Tyler was a agent for our enemy. A lot of these Black dudes have become relaxed by seeing a man in drag and this makes our race look so weak. Go look at videos of Mexicans beating the shit out of these soft ass Black dudes across this nation.

  • I live in New York City, I am Same Gender Loving, I am masculine, I have a doctorate from Columbia University where I also teach and notice that when I'm dressed for work in a suit and tie, I get mad respect as opposed to when I dress down in Timz, sweat shirt and jeans, I'm invisible to the world. So part of what you say is true but a lot of what you assert is totally off base.

  • But that's true I have that happen to me to

  • Wow ignorant ass southern black man. Who are you to judge or make ignorant hypothesis you sound dumb and you need speech class smh

  • @getwitsheem hes from Oakland Genius.

  • Boo, you have been hurt. it is obvious. Just do not be discouraged about what you have gone through and vcontinue to do you. No need to put other black man, thugs, or gays into the equation. See the Lord first and His righteousness and He will give you any other desires for a relationship you may have. Be blessed!

  • Thug is a lifestyle issue--a choice-- but gay is who you be, period.

  • FUK EDUCATION AS LONG AS U KNOW HOW TO READ WRITE AND DO MATH U GOOD..............FUK COLLEGE AND SCHOOL..............D BEST AND HIGHEST A LATINO HISPANIC OR NEGRO CAN GET IS THE BIBLE AND FINDN WHO THEY ARE THE TRUE HEBREW ISRAELITES AND FINDN OUT WHO YOUR ARCH ENEMY IS AND DATS D SO CALLED WHITE MAN AND DEM UTHER HEATHEN NATIONS .....................FUK ERTHING ELSE UTS 2011 AND U STILL CALLN URSELVES AS A COLOR U FOOLISH AS HELL

  • I HATE ALL SO CALLED WHITE PPL AND FAGGOTS AND LESBIANS

  • fuk dem gay niggas dey will die ........IMA SAY DIS HOW D FUK CAN EVERY OTHER MAN ON DIS EARTH CAN B A MAN BUT WEN IT COMES TO THE LATINO HISPANIC OR NEGRO MAN BN A MAN ..........WE WRONG AND HATED FOR DAT FUK OUTA HERE ...BEEN HATED BY ESAU AND DEM UTHA NATIONS SINCE I BEEN BORN FUK DEM EDOMITES FUK ALL DEM OTHER NATIONS AND FUK OUR OWN SIMPLE ASS PPL DAT WANA B SELLOUTS...........CHIST IS BLACK FROM THE TRIBE OF JUDAH D NEGORS N AMERICA ARE THE REAL JEWS.....ISRAELITES ARE D HISPANCIS

  • You're smart? hahahahaha

  • Gay men dont compete? Your a fuckin idiot and cant even postulate a complete thought. Us gay black men (non ghetto) have to work extra harder to combat you ridiculous thug types that dont know how to carry themselves. In the workplace or otherwise. Why would you allow anybody to bring you down period. Know they self (African Proverb). Stop whining and handle your Fuckin business. Have confidence in self. You will attract the same. There is dignity in all work. Shuddup already. I hate whiners.

  • @theslabbxxx Thanx for your comment! I appreciate the knowledge you kicked out, because us Gay Black men have always held our own and have always shown oursleves to have great integrity.Stay True.

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  • You have got to be one of the most ignorant person alive...! I can agree with you on the thug part but gay men!!! Really.. Listen to yourself women are what a black educated man and a thug competed over... So ya kill ya selves over pussy. Black Gay Men 89% of all gay men regardless to race are highly Smart, Educated, Great Careers, Great Jobs.. You damn right we don't have to compete because we're in our're own class and see thing totally different then straight men regardless of education

  • Stop complaning and just live for you and be a role model

  • Gay men are Real men.

  • @rbkiggreen you fagget go to hell

  • @rbkiggreen Right On! Gay men are the only real men! Women love us! We dont like women intimately and sexually, but they love our company because we know how to entertain.

  • Turn gay? Man, you are ignorant LOL!!!

  • IT'S A SAD SONG BROTHA....THIS WORLD IS BACKWARDS LIKE CRAZY...AND BLACK MEN HAVE BEEN TARGET SINCE FOREVER. I REALLY WISH THERE WERE MORE BROTHAS LIKE YOU MAN. IT'S SO SAD...

  • OMG you do not become gay, you either are or you're not. Gay animals exist. Homosexuality is found in all aspects of the animal kingdom. And many young people turn thug because many of them come from single mother households and are looking for love and find it in gangs ect, but most just like to be a "fake" thug because it is glorified and perpetuated in the media. These are the spoiled black kids who lack wisdom. Do some research. Hotep!

  • I have to tell you that as a black, gay, well-educated man, your views are reprehensible. I am a double major (Biology and Mathematics), a U.S. Army veteran, I work at a hospital, and my prospects for professional school are numerous. I have fought to earn my keep and my household though poor is not one that conditioned me to be gay; I just am. Being gay is not an EASY way out of anything, it just makes me thrice marginalized. Words are powerful, but REAL knowledge gives you authority.

  • IMMA GAY THUG, BOO! WHY YU DIZ ME LIKE DAT?

  • SHUT THE HELL UP I DONT EVEN CARE JUST STOP TALKIN I HATE GHETTO PEOPLE THAT TALK LIKE THAT GOD SHUT UP! thank you

  • Black guys that try to do good in school are looked down on by other black guys. Its a shame but thats the way it is. Why is that? It was that way when i was in school and its the same when my son was in school. I am a white man and have seen this 1st hand. Why i ask? The other blacks accuse them of trying to be white and that is so damn stupid. He is just trying to make it in this world. Dont you see?

  • YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THE FUCK YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. YOU ARE NOT GAY ( I THINK) AND A THUG. SO YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THE FUCK YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET BETTER EDUCATED AND MORE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT IT.

  • Things are never this black and white. We have generations of African American and Hispanic American males who are desiring guidance and are in need or strong role models of color. And to be honest, the African American community struggles with allowing men to be vulnerable and explore how they feel about many different areas that don't just include sexuality. Men struggle with education, employment, relationships, the church, and more. I would love to see a town hall mtg on this topic!

  • @nowman48 I am a black woman and I have my opinions. Some bm are just gay and others turn gay because they have been to jail/prison and become thugs because they grew up around other black men who were thugs and picked it up. Especially if they grew up in an urban environment and saw other bm who were thugs. Some don't grow up in stable environments. It has nothing to do with competing against other races of men. It's their upbringing.

  • @gmcmim1 like i said, being a blk man i think i know a little bit more about this than you.. but like you said, its your opinion.

  • @nowman48 exactly. so is yours. it's not facts, it's opinion. to me it has nothing to do with black men not wanting to compete with other races of men. cause if that was the case then you wouldn't have middle class black men growing up successful or even some bm who stayed away from the hood dudes when they lived in the urban environments. men regardless of race should want to do good. it is not even about competing. everything is not a competition, lol.

  • Wow. We have different views on how some bm become thugs or turn gay. They turn thug because they grew up around other thugs. Or they turn gay because they went to jail and had sex with other men. It has nothing to do with competing against other races of men, lol. You make bm sound weaker and more ridiculous than what they really are. BM are not that pathetic.

  • How do you "TURN" gay?

  • Black men across the board, catch a lot of hell but it's worse when they get it from their own kind!

  • News flash! There are a lot of very intelligent gay men and gang members. A lot of them are very competitive! The gangs rule and run the streets and the gays are starting to run and rule powerful positions in society. Your views are plausible but doesn't explain why these two extremes have so much power and influence in the world if they aren't competing with straight men. The most competitive and most intelligent person I know is a gay man and trust me, MANY are threatened by His power.

  • NO THOSE BLACKS TURN THUG BECAUSE THEIR FATHERS WERE ABSENT/NON-EXISTENT IN THEIR CHILDHOODS SO THEY GO ON LOOKING FOR THAT FATHER FIGURE THROUGH GANGS AND MALE BONDING JUST SO THEY CAN FEEL THE SENSE OF BELONGING THEY LACKED WHEN THERE WERE LITTLE

  • I agree with u a 100%.

  • I completely agree with you and there's to many single mothers raising black males when only a man can teach a man how do be a real man.

  • This makes no logical sense. Plenty of gay men are competitive. I am gay and am always looking for a challenge

  • I'm not a 100% about the gay community but being a thug community is definitely the easy way out for a lot of black men. To fully attract the love AND respect of black women in general, you have to fit the thug-like/baller standards or be a sweet guy they think they can walk all over and never have to worry about things like him cheating or dumping THEM for cheating. If you don't fit in these categories, then your only options for a love life are hope to find a woman of another race or turn gay.

  • Nothing and I mean NOTHING is more intimidating than a educated black man. A SHITLOAD of brothas are trying to better themselves through education and they are the favorite targets of people. Why? As much as anyone even black women "complain" about the status of black men receiving an education, they LOVE it that way. A perfect scapegoat created by the lies of society. They base their entire egos off of false superiority than black men and should he defy the lies, their pride's in danger.

  • spit the truth man. you aint stupid or wrong.

  • Good vid dude.. I can promise you that everything you said is 200% truth!

  • I'm black and i will never be a thug or turn gay.

    sad thing is the only way imma lose my virginity is to a prostitute or

    get raped in prison... that's why I'm a loner.

  • @zztopis2

    Nigga you must be young ass a motherfucker or just a retard.

    hahahahahahahaha

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  • @zztopis2

    hahahahahaha

    You think ''they'' will ever look up to your black ass??

    You forget ''they'' created these words.

  • Why many Black men turn thug or Turn Gay? The answer is they have an reprobate mind. In the Bible, Roman 1:28-32.

    If You don't agree with God Word, please don't reply-you won't understand God Word until you become His Servant.

  • No on "turns gay". If you talk to a gay person they will tell you that they have felt that way from childhood, for as long as they remember. BM become thugs because that's the stereotype of the "ultimate macho BM". I've met Black guys that that come from wealthy upbringings and think the only way they can be a "real nigga" is by being a thug. They dumb themselves down and start speaking with ebonics and "thuggin' out". Dumb as hell.

  • Gay people will tell you that they felt that way since childhood, they dont choose it, its in their nature, just like a straight person

  • @MANDAWAH But if you listen to the media everybody is gay

  • i think black people need to stop feeling like it's us against the world. that time is over. remember our history, but stop thinking u have to fit into what other black ppl feel like u're supposed to be. as a smart black female, the only ppl who ever told me i was wrong for being intelligent or having goals are OTHER BLACKS. if we had the courage to thrive instead of dumbing ourselves down so we're "acting black" & fitting stereotypes, black men AND women would be 1000X better off.

  • @EbunnyEthereal Agreed, good post!!!

  • People do not choose to be ostracized being gay is not a choice if it was most people would be straight.

  • You make your city sound like it's the worse place to be...

  • @lemonlime1192 I'm not sure about that. Most Asian and Hispanic girls go for white guys. Just look up IR statistics

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  • If you ask me I think it's more because of peer pressure to do what's cool and trrendy like being a smooth talking wannabe thug gangsta than them not wanting to compete against each other. I think that would apply to educated BM who's not trying to compete against the thuggish niggas for women and is more concerned about getting his shit together.

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