You are exactly right! I believe that the marriage license is an unconstitutional violation of the Rights of Association and Assembly. The legal problem isn't 'no licenses for gay couples', it's that govt pretends (and too many people accept) that govt has ANY right to "license" ANYone's marriage.
As with all your videos, you have an understanding, intelligent, and mature approach to a topic which many are never comfortable to freely talk about. Excellent as always; keep up the great work! ^_^
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I ended up showing this to my friends....I adore your videos so much....
especially the end. I was taught "Go to where you are appreciated, not tolerated" and I completely agree. I like the neutrality of the video as well, easy to listen to and unbiased to the viewer. I only wish I could explain as clearly. Thank you for your videos!
I have no idea how i came upon your channel..but I just wanted to say I appreciate you for voicing ur opinion on sexual diversity. Im 26, since I was 16 yrs old, I've been really involved in the community to bring the awareness of acceptance, understanding, love, and sexual diversity education to those around me in my life. It's been a rough road..but glad to plant the seed. You girl, are planting the seed for many others who watch this video. muCh love, light and blessings to you girl!
If people are citizens, they should be able to marry whoever they choose and get the legal benefits of it.
No matter their lifestyle as long as it is not criminal.
I feel like all the people not allowed to get married because of their sexuality should get their taxes lowered because their rights are being withheld. No taxation without representation right?
@kicesie You do me too much justice my lady. I enjoy seeing someone like yourself who believes that people should be allowed to be happy in their own skin.
"Tolerance" is a bad word, because it implies that someone is doing something "wrong," but you're tolerating it anyway. When it comes to sex, Idon't think there can be anything wrong between them if they are fully informed and consenting.
Forget marriage! The government shouldn't marry ANY couple, same sex or opposite sex. Marriage is a religious institution that should be entered into by religious people and should offer no legal rights. Separation of church and state baby!!! Civil unions should be the new "marriage" and offer the LEGAL rights to ALL couples that marriage offers now.
Well I view it as marriage is the ceremony, the legal union has to be obtained via paperwork and registration. They are two separate acts even now in society. Just as gay couples can have the ceremony, just not the paper work... they should be allowed the legal rights of a marriage.
I do believe the gay people can have a union that is equal to a Marrage but most people believe that marrage was set for a man and a woman. If you call it a union then people will accept them more. If you call it marage then you have just right there said that entire religions are wrong that is not an easy thing to do. The last time something like that was done it split a religion and made an entire new section of it.
There's significance behind "distinctions" when it come to race, creed because there are cultural, religious and ideological differences which make people unique. While it's popularly common to blame government, remember our government strives and has made major strides to serve it's public in regards to recognition AND health/sex education. Our gov't is great, a work in progress, but great!
It's great to see someone like you who is open-minded about sex and sexuality. It's not very common for an American, is it? I agree, of course gays should be able to get married and enjoy any benefits of it.
this video was really good, and i'm going to try make a video reply, but in case it just doesn't work (haven't tried before) i want to say thank you for focusing on this subject.
i'd sometimes tell people that i'm queer because i'm not a lesbian, i'm not straight and i don't like the word bisexual, i like anyone, not just anyone from two specific genders. so there's one reason its used, maybe its stuck in the LGBQT list for other non-specifics like me?
I really like your videos, which is why I hope you don't mind me suggesting a way to make your videos better; have you ever thought of a co-host? someone to ask questions or you ask questions of? I think that debating sex and discussing it with another person might help the topic go deeper and maybe explain things better, or things that you might not have thought about. Just a thought, but definately keep doing what you are doing if it works for you! I'll watch and learn from them either way!
its good when people like you,or even when they hate you,because it means that oyu are doing something right,if people dont notice you or just tolerate you it means that you dont get their emotinos going,that you are just tolerated... its like you there but nobody notices you,any kind of emotion,love or hate is better than being tolerated...
how did you become the sex god. You almost blush when you say "oral". How do you know whats best for the country(just tell us Obama or Hillary)? No harm intended, thanks for alowing the post.
I thought about it and ok. How about a topic or two to choose from. I doubt I can do better but I cant resist a challenge. You remind me of Drew Barrymore(Im sure you get that alot).
I really appreicate all the support you have give to us, the gay community. It's great and I truly wish more people thought like you do and could express their thoughts in such a tactful and articulate manner. I thank you so much! I'm so glad you have taken the time to try to educate people. As for your next video I think you might want to focus on some stereotypes like gay men and AIDS. Its still widely misunderstood, and try to touch on the gay community and STD's in general. Again, thank you!
I totally share your view on tolerance. I usually front it but people dont seem to understand that its better to educate and understand one another than to simply preach tolerance!
I would like to say that despite your youth, you display a wonderful amount of insight, compassion and understanding with regards to the human condition and the gift of human sexuality. I encourage you to continue to work, grow, learn and share, by utilizing the talent that you have to speak with candor and kindness about this subject, regardless of any opposing feedback you might receive. You are intelligent and articulate. Congradulations and cheers!
you wont like or love everybody, some people (maybe me) will just be tolerated, but who cares, variety is the spice of life, no? your vids are interesting, if a touch dawsons creek!! x x x
im a consenting adult, does that mean i can smoke crack? anyone who votes, allows the government to dictate their life in a democracy, do you vote? the government clearly has a say in it. if you want to change things, youll have to get a much wider platform than youtube.... theirs nothing wrong with the term tolerance as long as its used in the proper context. some people wont love, embrace or understand you, but thats the great thing about life, everybodies different...
But are you serious about youtube not being a wide enough platform? I have over 39 million views on here. That's more than many successful movies, many TV shows, etc etc. Plus, my voice isn't the only one. It's about the combination of voices... and it's about working with congressional representatives and being the change you wish to see!
Shes not saying the government dosent have a say in the way we live our lives, shes saying that people who are 'different' should be allowed to live there lives in the way that they want, so long as it isnt hurting anyone else (okay possibly its slightly presumptuous of me to say that, but thats what I got from the video) and that just by changing the way we view gay and lesbian marriages and relationships is the way to get the law changed.
The language we use to refer to things is very important as it shapes our views and perceptions on an almost subliminal level. The law isn't necessarily the most important issue here. As a consenting adult, you could indeed choose to smoke crack, but this would be harmful to yourself and others. There is a good reason for the laws against drugs, there is not a good reason for the laws against gay marriage.
I love how you explaim the part about tolerance and I just have to agree completely with what you say, people sholdn't be just tolerated, they should be accepted and in a way embraced, not only for who they are but for their force and courage.
I am a hetero man. Married for 17 years to the same woman. In school I played football, hockey, and lacrosse. I was a paratrooper, a veteran of two wars. I also hate the term "tolerance". I tolerate the lines at the DMV. I accept people for who they are. Someone's sexual preference should not be a factor of freedom. If two people, gay or straight, want to get married...go for it! I personally disagree with homosexuality, however, I have shed and given blood in the name of freedom. Let them marry
I have to disagree. "Tolerance" is a great word. While philosophically I understand what you were saying, it isn't reality. As a gay man, I would love for everyone to understand my sexuality. But reality is that I know not everyone is going to understand me. So in this reality, I would be ore than happy with just tolerance, and perhaps respect. You don't have to understand my sexuality, just don't try to take away my right to exist and live a happy life.
I think I should have clarified that I think it'd be great if everyone had tolerance... and it's needed. But I guess I'm pushing for even more than that. I'm a idealist. It's both an asset and a drawback to being me. I simply want more than tolerance. And in some ways I think we're beginning to enter a time in our society where we can begin to demand more of people. Plus, if one doesn't ask for more one's unlikely to get it.
I've just started listening to your series, and I think that you are very good. They few "episodes" I have seen seem very insightful. I am a psychology student, so I appreciate how they are presented (as facts instead of to try to turn people on or shock people). The one thing I could comment on in the end is your tolerance comment. I agree that tolerance is almost a negative word. But I think that there are people who all they can do is tolerate, not accept, and that is I think most important.
"That the government thinks that they can dictate what two consenting adults want to do with their lives is ridiculious"
lol this needs to be carved into the front of the white house, or the statue of liberty or something, cuz it applies to government in general, too. not only the marriage thing.
I'm not gay, but i have 2 homosexual friends who are partners, 3 of my other friends are lesbians.
I totally agree about the marriage part, i think they should be able to be married and make it legal.
Only people i see hating this kind of thing are in 2 groups christianity & governement, i'm not against other things with most christians this would be the only thing.
The whole argument reeks of semantics. The term "Gay marriage" is an unfair affront to tradition. Use another term to describe that bond... problem solved. Same rights. Same love. Same responsibility. Different word. The powers that be simply don't want to give gays the rights. They could care less who does who and how. Trying to use the word marriage simply helps their case.
Sex can be love or selfish.When sex is love than its meaningful. You got to have nature-flowers,trees,tropics,etc. Trees will give oxygen to your blood,but find out what gives sex energy-herbs,etc. Being healthy increases sex drive. Now thats the best sex I can ever imagine, its almost like the garden of eden.
I could not comment in your best sex ever!!! video because it has been disabled. I'm am a virgin.Sex is energy, but the best sex I can imagine is when you can have an orgasm forever, that means sex minutes,hours,years,forever,you never get tired,but I dont think anyone can last that long.
I hope a few bad comments doesn't discourage you from continuing to make videos. I imagine that you get a lot of them which is why you disable comments. Good luck with your v-blogs.
I'm just dreaming about sex, my girlfriend is kind of crazy, i dont know, she is not even talking on that topic however she is not a shy person... ah i hate that ;( is she waiting the marriage??? i know that i am a right person for her, that's what she tells me everytime, i study in private school, i am not a kid with silly thoughts, I love her i always tell her that, i am right one, i am 15 and still didnt have it, i want to spend my life with her...
yes.. it may sound silly, but i heard on tv that the younger the girl will loose virgnt. -the faster and stronger orgasm she may have.... ah just dont laugh, you know how i feel telling these things((
That's pretty much the opposite from the truth. A woman orgasms most easily and most quickly around the age of 30. The younger she is the less likely she'll even be CAPABLE of having an orgasm.
These are all cliches. If you want to be an effective commentator on moral/political topics you'll need to spend a lifetime learning the many sides to the difficult issues you raise. Consider studying the history of philosophy and theology. This will give you a stronger basis for your opinions than your feelings. Having worthwhile opinions on difficult issues is a lifelong pursuit that must begin with humble questions, not strong opinions.
I've devoted several videos to asking questions that viewers can relate to and answer. Also, I know that I likely won't have anything earth shattering to share until I'm pretty old (if ever), but I'm not going to say nothing until then. Sometimes the important thing to do is repeat things you believe in... use words and actions to support what you believe is good. The more we put it out there the more we change the world.
The government wants to control your life because religion controls the US government. These people, yes, will dictate to you how to live you're life.
We are swingers and no one will tell us how to live our life. In the US or anywhere else.
Thankyou for your response. I am only a newcomer to your subscription, and I think it's fantastic what your doing. Your views and ideology regarding sexuality are also thankfully very well-rounded.
Thanks so much for being supportive of the LGBTQ community --- your videos are also great because they're accurate & comfortable. Keep up the good work :)
That was great. How do your Lecturers view your passion for the topic of sexuality.? Do they feel this time consuming endeavour is to the detriment of your other subjects areas? Particularly when some areas, such as spirituality, the subtle anatomy, yin / yang mind-body therapies, TCM, are all integral to the topic of sex which are not recognised my schools of mainstream psychology.
The Canaidian government has legalized gay mariage which i think was a good idea because i agree there is absolutly nothing wrong with gays, yes i may use the term gay to say something is retarded but i'm not targeting it at gays, good video
No offense, but I hate it when people do that. They say that the support gays, but then use gay as a synonym for "stupid" or "lame". "Retarded" is an offensive word as well, so please don't use that either.
I for one, considers gay sex very much mutual. I've had had sex with girls but feel that its very one sided. when i have sex with guys though, its very much mutual, very much more intimate. Us gays need to continue that mutual trend, we need to eliminate just TOPS and BOTTOMS. being gay is not all about one sided sex.
also, guys who call themselves "straight" but look for sex with guys, are gay. as soon as u get a hard on from looking at a guy, you're gay. theres nothing wrong with being gay.
This is the very best of your videos especially when you talk about the word "tolerance." I never viewed the expression in quite this manner, but you are absolutely right. Who wants to be merely tolerated.
Those of us who are "intolerant," are truly the ones at risk of losing our souls, however. God is not only tolerant but loving. If we are to attempt to emulate God, anything short of this is moving away from him no matter how pious we try to be.
for starters ,i'm not gay and also i'm not homofobic. I will not get into the hole religious/moral discussion.
The problem that i can see is this. Any child, in order to develop well balanced, needs 2 models - father figure and mother figure. My problem is if a gay couple can provide that, especially in the difficult years of childhood and adolescence (especially in 5-9 years, when sexuality realy comes in front and the child has a lot of questions)
The entire field of psychology was worried about this very thing, and so many many studies have been done recently to observe children of same-sex parents. And though we cannot explain why, we are finding the children to be just as adaptable, just as mentally healthy (or unhealthy), just a likely to have any given sexual preference as children of duel-sex parents. Many further studies need to be done to isolate what characteristics are necessary in parenting and less assuming needs to be done.
i am a litle suspicious about the studies, because, same sex parents families only started not many years ago, with the restricted area of nord europe (denmark, sweden).Therefore, a study like this, wich takes many years, are pretty young. Also, must be considered the impact and pressure that society will put upon this childrens (in sweden the society are in full acceptance of this families, kids are not subject of gossip/laughter) Is america ready ? I know that "moral majority" is still strong
It's really that sort of attitude that brings out the problems. It's not about being ready, but accepting the children as just children and their parents as acceptable human beings. What you're really saying is that society says those children won't grow up socially well-adjusted and it will reinforce that by discriminating against the children. Shouldn't we work toward accepting the children instead of automatically thinking them inferior?
Just wanted to chime in a comment that I've seen a good few of your sex ed. videos tonight (as I can't sleep).
I don't know if it's been brought up to you yet, but as far as I can remember, the term "queer" means not straight, wavering, or even circular. I tend to use this term generally to address all other sexualities other than heterosexual, and that "2" and "4" on the sexuality scale you were talking about in Part 1 can really be summed up by using the term.
Well a sex therapist would be ideal. But if you don't have access to one than anyone with a psychology degree. Just make sure that your personalities and methods are a good match. :-)
Damn, I must say, about time you addressed this in your videos. As always, everything you say comes across as enlightened, educated and well-intentioned. You are both a shining example of the progressive and open-minded attitude that our society as a whole should be working towards, and just a genuinely good person. I'm lucky enough to live in Canada, where gay marriage is a legal (if not entirely accepted) practice. I especially liked how in the first episode you described sexuality as 'fluid'.
i think u make a very good point as usual...& not to question u or n-e thing b cuz i am a fan but wat about the young children wat r they gonna think wen they see 2 gay men in the grocery store holding hands & kissing wont this affect them? i also had gay friends that say they want 2 addopt a child & rays it.how will this affect them either not having a mom or dad but to parents of the same gender? i hope u understand the point im trying to make & like i said im a fan & not a hater
Many people, psychologists included, were unsure of what the effects of having gay parents would be. What we're finding is that their kids are just as emotionally healthy (or unhealthy) as children of heterosexual couples... and that the children of homosexual parents are no more likely to, themselves, be straight or gay. In other words, the kids are the same as any other kids.
I disagree with your statement about Gay Marriage. It has been voted down by a 70% margin in public state voting. Dictated acceptance is wrong. All people should be able to have a legal union and calling themselves "married" that is up to them. But dictating to society they be referred to as married is the same thing you are accusing the Government of. This has been going on since the beginning of time. That does not make it right or wrong, nor the fault of Government.
the rule we chouse to live by may not be the same i am sixty years old can we have a relationship that includes living together i don't think so we are to differant. our rules lead us in daily lives that may not parrellal each other but you have aright just like me to go on liveing. we do have common rules that we fallow we have to pay for food, shalter and drink, i cannot kill someone because i don't think they the right to live. just like you wont an apology. these are the common socity rules.
Wow, that is so wrong. The idea that our government could find some sort of common ground or cohesion is ludicrous. The culprits here are the people. Every law that has been put up for referendum (voted on by the peoplein state), has been defeated. The only way things are going to change is through dialogue; with your neighbors, co-workers and friends; something the LG community steers away from!
WOw I didn't know u wore specs! But u look beautiful all the same. Been watchin ur vids for sum time and they are really helpful and useful! I'm really glad that there is sum1 out there like you and I believe that u help a hell of a lot of people around the world. Great job. Keep it up and all the best. Merry Xmas and seasons' greeting ;)
Gay marriage is soo stupid not cuz its gay but cuz marriage its stooped, soon u'll see ppl in a bar going "my first wife ran off with the mail man, my first husband ran off with my new mail man, my second wife ran off with my 3rd husband" marriage is almost as ridiculous as religion,
one of the main points of Marriage is to start a family. you can not start a family with the same equipment. yes we humans made it possible with science but that is not natural. i do not agree with the marriage of gays or the gay parade. that is fine if you are but why do you have to have a parade about it???? why is there not a straight parade? i would like to show off that I am straight on tv and with floats and dancing...etc.
My political views and opinions don't matter.But I must say..Wow...nothing hotter than an attractive, intellectual, sexually outgoing woman! Great vids and lucky fiance!
i agree with you. i think that if people want 2 give their life 2 someone of the same sex, other people shouldnt have a problem with that. I mean, its not like same sex marriage is going 2 really effect another person's life. I also hate when people are afraid of a gay or a lesbian. Why do u need 2 be afraid???? Just 4 the record im not gay these are just my views on these subjects.
I live in a country that has legalised homosexual "marriage", only its called a civil union. The Christian Fundamentalist's threw such a wobly about the sacrament of marriage that they gave it a different name. I'm heterosexual and I hate the fact that everytime i have to answer questions on marital status the words "married or in a civil union appear". I dont personaly find homosexuality healthy, but if your gonna give them the same rights please call it by the same name!
im not gay, but i think people should choose what they want to do with their life, don't let the government tell you what to do. And you look pretty good in glasses. lol
Yes, tolerance is a lame word. As a Christian, my faith tells me to love all people no matter what. However, love doesn't mean approval. By the same token, disapproval does not mean judgement. It's a delicate balance that most Christians (including myself) find difficult.
I don't have any problem with legal gay marriage. It's just a piece of paper that gives people a bunch of rights. The sacrament of marriage is a whole different story because it is a religious event. Churches should withold the sacrament from anyone they don't approve of, which includes heterosexual couples who aren't getting married for the right reasons. "Judging" would be trying to withold legal marriage which is not the church's issue.
LOL! Totally feel ya there. Except I DO vote only for those who support 'gay marriage'. And I try to talk about it and support groups that work with politics to make it possible... but I don't know what more I can do beyond that. I'm doing everything I can with my one, equal but small voice.
Because the "gov" is part of the problem. yes we voted for a "gov" but every option for a "gov" is a bad choice. what we vote for is the better of the bad "gov"s.
it's amazing you can say all this with a smile on your face. You are one of the good ones. I get angry when I have to talk to people (at work etc.) that don't even tolerate (much less accept) certain people.
all i can say is it is america right? then wheres are freedom? i think we should have are choice on who we love. oh and love ya girl your so awsome. and loved the pimp vidio. tell it to them haters. luv ya. peace:)
As I was saying, it was very thought out and is true to the extent that it makes one think they have to personally "define" themselves FOR themselves when it's really (in most cases) for society. Agree? Disagree?
How so? I mean, I guess. I say 'I identify as a sexual person. That's all'. So yeah, I'm defining myself, but I'm not exactly boxing myself in... if that makes sense.
I believe that "gay marrige" and all the rest of those terms put up by the media are just as medialy (probably not a word but there you go) hypnotising as the word "terrorism". Especially since 9/11 it has been popping up in the papers, news, and on the radio so much that one hears it and thinks what the media/government wants you to.
Also, did you come up with the idea (i think in part 1) of society pressuring you to define yourself sexually? That seemed very well thought out.
I just wanted to say, you are a very charismatic person and I really admire what you're doing here! I imagine it'd be really easy to talk to you -- you should consider a career where you help people, talk to people, or where you're on camera because you look good and seem so natural!
Wanted to post a reply to what someone said about the symposium and your response to there being research "proving" that sexual preference was genetic/biological. An attempt to cut the response into three parts to make it fit failed since you approve comments. :)
Oh well.
I guess I'll just have to dig up the cam and make a video reply. :)
First of all, science can never 'prove' anything... we only have evidence/data that we interpret for or against a theory. That said, many genetic indicators have been found for homosexual preferences. If you need/would like the author's name who I met at the symposium, I'll look it up for you.
I am very against females being the leader of the country I live in- and I am a female, bu if you ever ran in a presidential election, I would definitely choose you :) You're very open-minded, and that's a sensational quality. If someone told me I couldn't marry my fiance, I'd be PISSED too.
you dont understand Kicesie, Tolerate just means they will never accept it as "alright thing to do" themselves. You cant make THEM think its ok any more than they can make YOU think its not okay (aka: we have to just agree to disagree) its a stalemate. please reply to this
Difference being I have a basic respect and love for everybody that goes beyond tolerance. In 40 years we'll look back on this the same way we look back on the civil rights movement. Our kids will say, 'are you serious? you were alive when they discriminated against people of different sexual preferences? That's crazy!!! you must be so old!'
I understand that but you just said you dont like the word tolerate, you can still be accepted and tolerated at the same time, I'm just saying you cant make somebody think its ok if their morals are completely against it Religious core as well)
Why would you want to? What's in a name? Love who you love, and to hell with what anyone would call it. And when you don't love them any more, love someone else. So what if they might be of different sex? -- What does it mean that I like sweet food? Oh my god, am I a Sweeteater? Can I never eat salty snacks?!? Poppycock. Forget the label, be who you are whoever that is.
This also got me thinking about Specific breed legislation BSL that the Government places on Dogs. Soon the American Pit bull terrier will be banned in every state. SUCKS!!
You are exactly right! I believe that the marriage license is an unconstitutional violation of the Rights of Association and Assembly. The legal problem isn't 'no licenses for gay couples', it's that govt pretends (and too many people accept) that govt has ANY right to "license" ANYone's marriage.
steve66oh 6 months ago
i like when women speak their mind
ultimoguerrero1973 7 months ago
As with all your videos, you have an understanding, intelligent, and mature approach to a topic which many are never comfortable to freely talk about. Excellent as always; keep up the great work! ^_^
CoolIizard 7 months ago
Your GREAT ! I just stumbled across your channel while watching videos about sexuality from a Spiritual Perspective, you may enjoy this video '' Sexual Energy - Freeyourmind4evr '' Type that in... it'll come up first... !!!
Keep being you no matter whut !!!
G0LDENL0VEMUSIC 8 months ago
:) thank you so much
ashied13 10 months ago
@kicesie do you have to be a certian age or have someone with you of a certain age to buy a pregnacy test?
zoekat99 11 months ago
I ended up showing this to my friends....I adore your videos so much....
especially the end. I was taught "Go to where you are appreciated, not tolerated" and I completely agree. I like the neutrality of the video as well, easy to listen to and unbiased to the viewer. I only wish I could explain as clearly. Thank you for your videos!
megiko99 1 year ago
I have no idea how i came upon your channel..but I just wanted to say I appreciate you for voicing ur opinion on sexual diversity. Im 26, since I was 16 yrs old, I've been really involved in the community to bring the awareness of acceptance, understanding, love, and sexual diversity education to those around me in my life. It's been a rough road..but glad to plant the seed. You girl, are planting the seed for many others who watch this video. muCh love, light and blessings to you girl!
sunshyne83 1 year ago
@sunshyne83 Thank you so much for that comment. It means a lot to me! :-)
kicesie 1 year ago
you're right. "tolerated" is a horrible word. I love your videos
sosaidshe 1 year ago
r you virgin??
metalfuckinhead1 1 year ago
@metalfuckinhead1 I'm married. And since some people think that's not an answer enough, then no, I'm not a virgin, nor was I when I made this video.
kicesie 1 year ago
If people are citizens, they should be able to marry whoever they choose and get the legal benefits of it.
No matter their lifestyle as long as it is not criminal.
I feel like all the people not allowed to get married because of their sexuality should get their taxes lowered because their rights are being withheld. No taxation without representation right?
And I am dissing on the government.
nichirenx 1 year ago
@nichirenx Seriously! No taxation without representation! I love it!!!!!
kicesie 1 year ago
@kicesie Absolutely. Liberty and Justice for all. All who fit certain preconceived ideas and 'boxes'. Thank you for inspiring the idea.
Will mention it at my next meeting.
nichirenx 1 year ago
@nichirenx I'm honored. Thank YOU for watching!
kicesie 1 year ago
@kicesie You do me too much justice my lady. I enjoy seeing someone like yourself who believes that people should be allowed to be happy in their own skin.
nichirenx 1 year ago
agreed :)
beautifulpaperflower 1 year ago
"Tolerance" is a bad word, because it implies that someone is doing something "wrong," but you're tolerating it anyway. When it comes to sex, Idon't think there can be anything wrong between them if they are fully informed and consenting.
Jackcabbit 1 year ago
Forget marriage! The government shouldn't marry ANY couple, same sex or opposite sex. Marriage is a religious institution that should be entered into by religious people and should offer no legal rights. Separation of church and state baby!!! Civil unions should be the new "marriage" and offer the LEGAL rights to ALL couples that marriage offers now.
FM897 1 year ago
Well I view it as marriage is the ceremony, the legal union has to be obtained via paperwork and registration. They are two separate acts even now in society. Just as gay couples can have the ceremony, just not the paper work... they should be allowed the legal rights of a marriage.
kicesie 1 year ago
Too beautifull <3
snakeman0889 2 years ago
I do believe the gay people can have a union that is equal to a Marrage but most people believe that marrage was set for a man and a woman. If you call it a union then people will accept them more. If you call it marage then you have just right there said that entire religions are wrong that is not an easy thing to do. The last time something like that was done it split a religion and made an entire new section of it.
Wolfbaneproductions1 2 years ago
There's significance behind "distinctions" when it come to race, creed because there are cultural, religious and ideological differences which make people unique. While it's popularly common to blame government, remember our government strives and has made major strides to serve it's public in regards to recognition AND health/sex education. Our gov't is great, a work in progress, but great!
xman4un 2 years ago
This isn't a diss on the government, it's a critique. And as to race and religion, I put 'other' every time I'm asked. I don't fit in a check-box.
kicesie 2 years ago
It's great to see someone like you who is open-minded about sex and sexuality. It's not very common for an American, is it? I agree, of course gays should be able to get married and enjoy any benefits of it.
bacabu30 2 years ago
this video was really good, and i'm going to try make a video reply, but in case it just doesn't work (haven't tried before) i want to say thank you for focusing on this subject.
i'd sometimes tell people that i'm queer because i'm not a lesbian, i'm not straight and i don't like the word bisexual, i like anyone, not just anyone from two specific genders. so there's one reason its used, maybe its stuck in the LGBQT list for other non-specifics like me?
bethslifebeforedeath 2 years ago
Pansexual? Just throwing that out there.
hotpotatoes1 2 years ago
I really like your videos, which is why I hope you don't mind me suggesting a way to make your videos better; have you ever thought of a co-host? someone to ask questions or you ask questions of? I think that debating sex and discussing it with another person might help the topic go deeper and maybe explain things better, or things that you might not have thought about. Just a thought, but definately keep doing what you are doing if it works for you! I'll watch and learn from them either way!
nodkid88 3 years ago
Transexual: One person who has chosen to undergo sexual-reassignment surgery to change their biological gender. Ex: MTF;FTM;Pre-Op;Post-Op.
Transvestite: One person who wears the clothes stereotypically associated with the opposite gender, usually for sexual pleasure.
Crossdresser: One person who wears the clothes stereotypically associated with the opposite gender.
bjjowett 3 years ago
Lesbian
Gay
Bisexual
Transgender
Questioning/Queer
LGBTQ
Homosexual: One person being attracted to another person of the same gender.
Bisexual: One person being attracted to either genders.
Asexual: One person not being attracted to another gender.
Transgender: One person identifying as the oppostite of their biological gender.
bjjowett 3 years ago
it is the worst thing being tolerated
its good when people like you,or even when they hate you,because it means that oyu are doing something right,if people dont notice you or just tolerate you it means that you dont get their emotinos going,that you are just tolerated... its like you there but nobody notices you,any kind of emotion,love or hate is better than being tolerated...
joe902k 3 years ago
you should try the movies. i will definitely watch your movie.
mon9inch 3 years ago
Not quite sure what you mean but... I've never wanted to be an actress or anything...
kicesie 3 years ago
how did you become the sex god. You almost blush when you say "oral". How do you know whats best for the country(just tell us Obama or Hillary)? No harm intended, thanks for alowing the post.
oldschoolwc 3 years ago
I'm not a sex god. And I haven't decided on a political candidate (there are still more than those two anyway).
If you think you could do a better job discussing sexual issues, please make a video on it and send it in as a video response....
kicesie 3 years ago
I thought about it and ok. How about a topic or two to choose from. I doubt I can do better but I cant resist a challenge. You remind me of Drew Barrymore(Im sure you get that alot).
oldschoolwc 3 years ago
are u married?
ktuugur 4 years ago
If that question is directed at me, I'm engaged...
kicesie 3 years ago
he must be a very lucky boy...:) could you please make a video about tips for normal sex?
ktuugur 3 years ago
The only place I really talk about technique is in my DVDs... otherwise I enjoy focusing on the psychology of sexuality.
kicesie 3 years ago
reaalllyyyy very very beautiful women:)
ebrar87 4 years ago
wowee very beautiful girl...and very sugar..:)I listening you :):)
hwoarang58 4 years ago
I really appreicate all the support you have give to us, the gay community. It's great and I truly wish more people thought like you do and could express their thoughts in such a tactful and articulate manner. I thank you so much! I'm so glad you have taken the time to try to educate people. As for your next video I think you might want to focus on some stereotypes like gay men and AIDS. Its still widely misunderstood, and try to touch on the gay community and STD's in general. Again, thank you!
WifeOfAGayHusband 4 years ago
where is part 1?
nxnx777 4 years ago
Called Shades of Sex. It's in the 'more from kicesie' list.
kicesie 4 years ago
I totally share your view on tolerance. I usually front it but people dont seem to understand that its better to educate and understand one another than to simply preach tolerance!
veranasti 4 years ago
you are a pro and are cool
mafyady 4 years ago
I would like to say that despite your youth, you display a wonderful amount of insight, compassion and understanding with regards to the human condition and the gift of human sexuality. I encourage you to continue to work, grow, learn and share, by utilizing the talent that you have to speak with candor and kindness about this subject, regardless of any opposing feedback you might receive. You are intelligent and articulate. Congradulations and cheers!
velvetenigma 4 years ago
all your videos are asinine
(my opinion)
Mike8064566 4 years ago
you wont like or love everybody, some people (maybe me) will just be tolerated, but who cares, variety is the spice of life, no? your vids are interesting, if a touch dawsons creek!! x x x
jayinkent 4 years ago
im a consenting adult, does that mean i can smoke crack? anyone who votes, allows the government to dictate their life in a democracy, do you vote? the government clearly has a say in it. if you want to change things, youll have to get a much wider platform than youtube.... theirs nothing wrong with the term tolerance as long as its used in the proper context. some people wont love, embrace or understand you, but thats the great thing about life, everybodies different...
jayinkent 4 years ago
I do vote. Just about every chance I get.
But are you serious about youtube not being a wide enough platform? I have over 39 million views on here. That's more than many successful movies, many TV shows, etc etc. Plus, my voice isn't the only one. It's about the combination of voices... and it's about working with congressional representatives and being the change you wish to see!
kicesie 4 years ago
Shes not saying the government dosent have a say in the way we live our lives, shes saying that people who are 'different' should be allowed to live there lives in the way that they want, so long as it isnt hurting anyone else (okay possibly its slightly presumptuous of me to say that, but thats what I got from the video) and that just by changing the way we view gay and lesbian marriages and relationships is the way to get the law changed.
sorrelish 4 years ago
The language we use to refer to things is very important as it shapes our views and perceptions on an almost subliminal level. The law isn't necessarily the most important issue here. As a consenting adult, you could indeed choose to smoke crack, but this would be harmful to yourself and others. There is a good reason for the laws against drugs, there is not a good reason for the laws against gay marriage.
sorrelish 4 years ago
hey boo im gay and i totally agree check out my youtube show
theconfusedlife 4 years ago
I love how you explaim the part about tolerance and I just have to agree completely with what you say, people sholdn't be just tolerated, they should be accepted and in a way embraced, not only for who they are but for their force and courage.
ninitobeyo 4 years ago
good
olaantonio 4 years ago
I am a hetero man. Married for 17 years to the same woman. In school I played football, hockey, and lacrosse. I was a paratrooper, a veteran of two wars. I also hate the term "tolerance". I tolerate the lines at the DMV. I accept people for who they are. Someone's sexual preference should not be a factor of freedom. If two people, gay or straight, want to get married...go for it! I personally disagree with homosexuality, however, I have shed and given blood in the name of freedom. Let them marry
2fnbad 4 years ago
i totally agree with u.. u go girl!
todd18901 4 years ago
I have to disagree. "Tolerance" is a great word. While philosophically I understand what you were saying, it isn't reality. As a gay man, I would love for everyone to understand my sexuality. But reality is that I know not everyone is going to understand me. So in this reality, I would be ore than happy with just tolerance, and perhaps respect. You don't have to understand my sexuality, just don't try to take away my right to exist and live a happy life.
circuitboyscott 4 years ago
I think I should have clarified that I think it'd be great if everyone had tolerance... and it's needed. But I guess I'm pushing for even more than that. I'm a idealist. It's both an asset and a drawback to being me. I simply want more than tolerance. And in some ways I think we're beginning to enter a time in our society where we can begin to demand more of people. Plus, if one doesn't ask for more one's unlikely to get it.
kicesie 4 years ago
I've just started listening to your series, and I think that you are very good. They few "episodes" I have seen seem very insightful. I am a psychology student, so I appreciate how they are presented (as facts instead of to try to turn people on or shock people). The one thing I could comment on in the end is your tolerance comment. I agree that tolerance is almost a negative word. But I think that there are people who all they can do is tolerate, not accept, and that is I think most important.
chibiloki88 4 years ago
u r sexy
gooziddaiejoon 4 years ago
"That the government thinks that they can dictate what two consenting adults want to do with their lives is ridiculious"
lol this needs to be carved into the front of the white house, or the statue of liberty or something, cuz it applies to government in general, too. not only the marriage thing.
AlTheChemist5 4 years ago
I completely agree. Thank you so much.
devilcat66 4 years ago
I'm not gay, but i have 2 homosexual friends who are partners, 3 of my other friends are lesbians.
I totally agree about the marriage part, i think they should be able to be married and make it legal.
Only people i see hating this kind of thing are in 2 groups christianity & governement, i'm not against other things with most christians this would be the only thing.
VictusDwayne 4 years ago
The whole argument reeks of semantics. The term "Gay marriage" is an unfair affront to tradition. Use another term to describe that bond... problem solved. Same rights. Same love. Same responsibility. Different word. The powers that be simply don't want to give gays the rights. They could care less who does who and how. Trying to use the word marriage simply helps their case.
dQuarters 4 years ago
Sex can be love or selfish.When sex is love than its meaningful. You got to have nature-flowers,trees,tropics,etc. Trees will give oxygen to your blood,but find out what gives sex energy-herbs,etc. Being healthy increases sex drive. Now thats the best sex I can ever imagine, its almost like the garden of eden.
jodjgdf 4 years ago
I could not comment in your best sex ever!!! video because it has been disabled. I'm am a virgin.Sex is energy, but the best sex I can imagine is when you can have an orgasm forever, that means sex minutes,hours,years,forever,you never get tired,but I dont think anyone can last that long.
jodjgdf 4 years ago
what an informative and useful and FUN channel you have!thanks!youre doing a great service!keep it up!thank you!
tomterahedrob 4 years ago
I hope a few bad comments doesn't discourage you from continuing to make videos. I imagine that you get a lot of them which is why you disable comments. Good luck with your v-blogs.
CloudCastChris 4 years ago
Wow, You are helping people, you have a really cool voice and you look beautiful. AND, you are smashing the system.
Wow.
Abandonedmachine 4 years ago
I'm just dreaming about sex, my girlfriend is kind of crazy, i dont know, she is not even talking on that topic however she is not a shy person... ah i hate that ;( is she waiting the marriage??? i know that i am a right person for her, that's what she tells me everytime, i study in private school, i am not a kid with silly thoughts, I love her i always tell her that, i am right one, i am 15 and still didnt have it, i want to spend my life with her...
polzowatel 4 years ago
If you're honestly going to spend the rest of your life with her, then there is no rush to have sex... or to get married.
kicesie 4 years ago
yes.. it may sound silly, but i heard on tv that the younger the girl will loose virgnt. -the faster and stronger orgasm she may have.... ah just dont laugh, you know how i feel telling these things((
polzowatel 4 years ago
That's pretty much the opposite from the truth. A woman orgasms most easily and most quickly around the age of 30. The younger she is the less likely she'll even be CAPABLE of having an orgasm.
kicesie 4 years ago
ahh girl, thank you, you brought the peace into my heart... *kiss*
polzowatel 4 years ago
These are all cliches. If you want to be an effective commentator on moral/political topics you'll need to spend a lifetime learning the many sides to the difficult issues you raise. Consider studying the history of philosophy and theology. This will give you a stronger basis for your opinions than your feelings. Having worthwhile opinions on difficult issues is a lifelong pursuit that must begin with humble questions, not strong opinions.
VitamAgere 4 years ago
I've devoted several videos to asking questions that viewers can relate to and answer. Also, I know that I likely won't have anything earth shattering to share until I'm pretty old (if ever), but I'm not going to say nothing until then. Sometimes the important thing to do is repeat things you believe in... use words and actions to support what you believe is good. The more we put it out there the more we change the world.
kicesie 4 years ago
I totally agree with you on the government and gay marriage idea
ruby071292 4 years ago
The government wants to control your life because religion controls the US government. These people, yes, will dictate to you how to live you're life.
We are swingers and no one will tell us how to live our life. In the US or anywhere else.
We love to party!
junebugboogie03 4 years ago
Thankyou for your response. I am only a newcomer to your subscription, and I think it's fantastic what your doing. Your views and ideology regarding sexuality are also thankfully very well-rounded.
gazatron1969 4 years ago
Thanks so much for being supportive of the LGBTQ community --- your videos are also great because they're accurate & comfortable. Keep up the good work :)
lia428 4 years ago
That was great. How do your Lecturers view your passion for the topic of sexuality.? Do they feel this time consuming endeavour is to the detriment of your other subjects areas? Particularly when some areas, such as spirituality, the subtle anatomy, yin / yang mind-body therapies, TCM, are all integral to the topic of sex which are not recognised my schools of mainstream psychology.
gazatron1969 4 years ago
I try to be well-rounded not only in psychology but the study of many things.
kicesie 4 years ago
Interesting, I've never looked at the way people use the word Tolerate like that. It doesn't work like that. Good Job! You've opened my eyes.
Lyravril 4 years ago
if i wasn't gay i would love you so much!
chad5161 4 years ago
The Canaidian government has legalized gay mariage which i think was a good idea because i agree there is absolutly nothing wrong with gays, yes i may use the term gay to say something is retarded but i'm not targeting it at gays, good video
RJRCh1ef 4 years ago
No offense, but I hate it when people do that. They say that the support gays, but then use gay as a synonym for "stupid" or "lame". "Retarded" is an offensive word as well, so please don't use that either.
lia428 4 years ago
I for one, considers gay sex very much mutual. I've had had sex with girls but feel that its very one sided. when i have sex with guys though, its very much mutual, very much more intimate. Us gays need to continue that mutual trend, we need to eliminate just TOPS and BOTTOMS. being gay is not all about one sided sex.
also, guys who call themselves "straight" but look for sex with guys, are gay. as soon as u get a hard on from looking at a guy, you're gay. theres nothing wrong with being gay.
Painislife28 4 years ago
A guy can easily be bisexual... so I disagree with your last part.
kicesie 4 years ago
but a bisexual guy is gay as well, he just likes girls too. he won't say that hes "straight" cause that will be a big lie.
Painislife28 4 years ago
This is the very best of your videos especially when you talk about the word "tolerance." I never viewed the expression in quite this manner, but you are absolutely right. Who wants to be merely tolerated.
Those of us who are "intolerant," are truly the ones at risk of losing our souls, however. God is not only tolerant but loving. If we are to attempt to emulate God, anything short of this is moving away from him no matter how pious we try to be.
Great job!!!
raggityman 4 years ago
Thanks for the great comment!
kicesie 4 years ago
nice...!
i like it...!
adhysurya 4 years ago
Thank you.
These words were so, wonderful and I agree with every single one!
You've made me smile & I feel a bit better.
:)
Keep it going strong.
sunshineandfriends 4 years ago
As long as someone can smile who should care the relationship type. You are a good woman and I hope you keep on keeping on:)
kaelomalota 4 years ago
you took my words out of my mouth and used them in this video, at least thats how it feels, youre amazing
sexychrisb 4 years ago
so nice ! :-)
sweetrock22 4 years ago
Thank you v_v
So, so, so much.
teganrules 4 years ago
You are absoulutly right. People cant help who they are attracted to/love. You are honestly one of my idols.
mrspeterwentz666 4 years ago
interesting
deldude369 4 years ago
i think youre great
mrnogngmi 4 years ago
hi
for starters ,i'm not gay and also i'm not homofobic. I will not get into the hole religious/moral discussion.
The problem that i can see is this. Any child, in order to develop well balanced, needs 2 models - father figure and mother figure. My problem is if a gay couple can provide that, especially in the difficult years of childhood and adolescence (especially in 5-9 years, when sexuality realy comes in front and the child has a lot of questions)
GorillazDoktor 4 years ago
The entire field of psychology was worried about this very thing, and so many many studies have been done recently to observe children of same-sex parents. And though we cannot explain why, we are finding the children to be just as adaptable, just as mentally healthy (or unhealthy), just a likely to have any given sexual preference as children of duel-sex parents. Many further studies need to be done to isolate what characteristics are necessary in parenting and less assuming needs to be done.
kicesie 4 years ago
i am a litle suspicious about the studies, because, same sex parents families only started not many years ago, with the restricted area of nord europe (denmark, sweden).Therefore, a study like this, wich takes many years, are pretty young. Also, must be considered the impact and pressure that society will put upon this childrens (in sweden the society are in full acceptance of this families, kids are not subject of gossip/laughter) Is america ready ? I know that "moral majority" is still strong
GorillazDoktor 4 years ago
It's really that sort of attitude that brings out the problems. It's not about being ready, but accepting the children as just children and their parents as acceptable human beings. What you're really saying is that society says those children won't grow up socially well-adjusted and it will reinforce that by discriminating against the children. Shouldn't we work toward accepting the children instead of automatically thinking them inferior?
terraminuit 4 years ago
you are sooooooooooooooooo amazing hot
sk88terkid4life 4 years ago
Just wanted to chime in a comment that I've seen a good few of your sex ed. videos tonight (as I can't sleep).
I don't know if it's been brought up to you yet, but as far as I can remember, the term "queer" means not straight, wavering, or even circular. I tend to use this term generally to address all other sexualities other than heterosexual, and that "2" and "4" on the sexuality scale you were talking about in Part 1 can really be summed up by using the term.
KingDusk 4 years ago
my ex told me that I am afraid of sex is there some psychological issue that has to do with fear of sex?
jle1981 4 years ago
There are many... and this is an ideal thing to explore with a counselor.
kicesie 4 years ago
like what kind of counselor?
jle1981 4 years ago
Well a sex therapist would be ideal. But if you don't have access to one than anyone with a psychology degree. Just make sure that your personalities and methods are a good match. :-)
kicesie 4 years ago
Damn, I must say, about time you addressed this in your videos. As always, everything you say comes across as enlightened, educated and well-intentioned. You are both a shining example of the progressive and open-minded attitude that our society as a whole should be working towards, and just a genuinely good person. I'm lucky enough to live in Canada, where gay marriage is a legal (if not entirely accepted) practice. I especially liked how in the first episode you described sexuality as 'fluid'.
girlwithoutsubstance 4 years ago
i have a question for "oursexjourney"
you said you don't find it healthy? why? what's unhealthy about it? there is nothing unhealthy about it.
BtBaM8 4 years ago
Honestly, I think you may be the Sexiest and most Hot nerd in the world. And I only call you a nerd because you seem very well educated.
Are you finished school yet and currently practicing psychology?
mattihavepolicies 4 years ago
Still in school. :-) And yes, I'm definitely a nerd/geek.
kicesie 4 years ago
Is it sex? really?
piafedith 4 years ago
i think u make a very good point as usual...& not to question u or n-e thing b cuz i am a fan but wat about the young children wat r they gonna think wen they see 2 gay men in the grocery store holding hands & kissing wont this affect them? i also had gay friends that say they want 2 addopt a child & rays it.how will this affect them either not having a mom or dad but to parents of the same gender? i hope u understand the point im trying to make & like i said im a fan & not a hater
SANCHABB15 4 years ago
Many people, psychologists included, were unsure of what the effects of having gay parents would be. What we're finding is that their kids are just as emotionally healthy (or unhealthy) as children of heterosexual couples... and that the children of homosexual parents are no more likely to, themselves, be straight or gay. In other words, the kids are the same as any other kids.
kicesie 4 years ago
I disagree with your statement about Gay Marriage. It has been voted down by a 70% margin in public state voting. Dictated acceptance is wrong. All people should be able to have a legal union and calling themselves "married" that is up to them. But dictating to society they be referred to as married is the same thing you are accusing the Government of. This has been going on since the beginning of time. That does not make it right or wrong, nor the fault of Government.
KMRS63123 4 years ago
thank you so much
mesut285 4 years ago
the rule we chouse to live by may not be the same i am sixty years old can we have a relationship that includes living together i don't think so we are to differant. our rules lead us in daily lives that may not parrellal each other but you have aright just like me to go on liveing. we do have common rules that we fallow we have to pay for food, shalter and drink, i cannot kill someone because i don't think they the right to live. just like you wont an apology. these are the common socity rules.
poptop909109 4 years ago
Wow, that is so wrong. The idea that our government could find some sort of common ground or cohesion is ludicrous. The culprits here are the people. Every law that has been put up for referendum (voted on by the peoplein state), has been defeated. The only way things are going to change is through dialogue; with your neighbors, co-workers and friends; something the LG community steers away from!
Fun247247 4 years ago
WOw I didn't know u wore specs! But u look beautiful all the same. Been watchin ur vids for sum time and they are really helpful and useful! I'm really glad that there is sum1 out there like you and I believe that u help a hell of a lot of people around the world. Great job. Keep it up and all the best. Merry Xmas and seasons' greeting ;)
Mire003 4 years ago
thank you so much! :-)
kicesie 4 years ago
i like the way you think. you're a very intelligent individual
1g9s9x0 4 years ago
I think you should be a teacher if you arent one...
milda101 4 years ago 2
Gay marriage is soo stupid not cuz its gay but cuz marriage its stooped, soon u'll see ppl in a bar going "my first wife ran off with the mail man, my first husband ran off with my new mail man, my second wife ran off with my 3rd husband" marriage is almost as ridiculous as religion,
CopyriteInfringement 4 years ago
Once again this is one
"hot"
lady. It is her personality and such that is the charm here.
Her guy is definately blessed.
Not a whole lote out there like this gal.
I am very happy I got to hear her.
Hope her married life if a joyful one.
MAc0ck 4 years ago 2
one of the main points of Marriage is to start a family. you can not start a family with the same equipment. yes we humans made it possible with science but that is not natural. i do not agree with the marriage of gays or the gay parade. that is fine if you are but why do you have to have a parade about it???? why is there not a straight parade? i would like to show off that I am straight on tv and with floats and dancing...etc.
999code 4 years ago
hey good advice your completely right
gaydan1 4 years ago
My political views and opinions don't matter.But I must say..Wow...nothing hotter than an attractive, intellectual, sexually outgoing woman! Great vids and lucky fiance!
BTW, keep the glasses ;)
aaron48219 4 years ago
i agree with you. i think that if people want 2 give their life 2 someone of the same sex, other people shouldnt have a problem with that. I mean, its not like same sex marriage is going 2 really effect another person's life. I also hate when people are afraid of a gay or a lesbian. Why do u need 2 be afraid???? Just 4 the record im not gay these are just my views on these subjects.
twofurryballs 4 years ago
You say you don't care whether people are gay or not.
But categorically state that your not gay... doe's it matter?
bigbadben 4 years ago
I agree. Furry, if it really didn't matter to you, why would you care what people thought about you?
NiveditaVidula 4 years ago
I live in a country that has legalised homosexual "marriage", only its called a civil union. The Christian Fundamentalist's threw such a wobly about the sacrament of marriage that they gave it a different name. I'm heterosexual and I hate the fact that everytime i have to answer questions on marital status the words "married or in a civil union appear". I dont personaly find homosexuality healthy, but if your gonna give them the same rights please call it by the same name!
oursexjourney 4 years ago
im not gay, but i think people should choose what they want to do with their life, don't let the government tell you what to do. And you look pretty good in glasses. lol
Freshbugerz 4 years ago
Yes, tolerance is a lame word. As a Christian, my faith tells me to love all people no matter what. However, love doesn't mean approval. By the same token, disapproval does not mean judgement. It's a delicate balance that most Christians (including myself) find difficult.
happyare 4 years ago
Interesting point.
kicesie 4 years ago
As a Christian, what are your views on legal gay marriage?
uni000ver000sal 4 years ago
I don't have any problem with legal gay marriage. It's just a piece of paper that gives people a bunch of rights. The sacrament of marriage is a whole different story because it is a religious event. Churches should withold the sacrament from anyone they don't approve of, which includes heterosexual couples who aren't getting married for the right reasons. "Judging" would be trying to withold legal marriage which is not the church's issue.
happyare 4 years ago 2
How come Americans always blame their goverment and not take responsability for their actions?
Who votes for your goverment anyway?
Please, don't blame this on Al Quaeda either!
uni000ver000sal 4 years ago
LOL! Totally feel ya there. Except I DO vote only for those who support 'gay marriage'. And I try to talk about it and support groups that work with politics to make it possible... but I don't know what more I can do beyond that. I'm doing everything I can with my one, equal but small voice.
kicesie 4 years ago
Because the "gov" is part of the problem. yes we voted for a "gov" but every option for a "gov" is a bad choice. what we vote for is the better of the bad "gov"s.
999code 4 years ago
So yeah, I basicly love you. Straight shooter keep shooting girl.
googita 4 years ago
it's amazing you can say all this with a smile on your face. You are one of the good ones. I get angry when I have to talk to people (at work etc.) that don't even tolerate (much less accept) certain people.
yaloopadoo 4 years ago
in brittian its legal to have gay marrages its good and people should not be told that they cant do somthing because of what other people say
fergus4000 4 years ago
all i can say is it is america right? then wheres are freedom? i think we should have are choice on who we love. oh and love ya girl your so awsome. and loved the pimp vidio. tell it to them haters. luv ya. peace:)
lezzy88 4 years ago 2
haha, thanks! I enjoyed making it!
kicesie 4 years ago
I like your videos.. Please make one about pubes.. ive always wanted to know if most women shave or keep hair. most aprecciated.
5149pow 4 years ago
I didn't know if you realized this..but the Q in LGBTQ doesn't stand for queer, it stands for questioning...
kkskrazy 4 years ago
Yeah, I've heard it both ways...
kicesie 4 years ago
Usually there are two Qs, so that you have both Queer and Questioning.
But Q represents both/either. It isn't really specific.
Rediahs 4 years ago
Thanks. That's what I've discovered. It seems appropriate. Do you have any idea what is unique to the 'queer' catagory?
BTW, I miss you! :-*
kicesie 4 years ago
dang 500 character limit
As I was saying, it was very thought out and is true to the extent that it makes one think they have to personally "define" themselves FOR themselves when it's really (in most cases) for society. Agree? Disagree?
almix12 4 years ago
I agree. Some find security in defining themselves. I find freedom in refusing to. *shrugs*
kicesie 4 years ago
By refusing to define yourself isn't that still defining yourself?
Temberlain 4 years ago
How so? I mean, I guess. I say 'I identify as a sexual person. That's all'. So yeah, I'm defining myself, but I'm not exactly boxing myself in... if that makes sense.
kicesie 4 years ago
I believe that "gay marrige" and all the rest of those terms put up by the media are just as medialy (probably not a word but there you go) hypnotising as the word "terrorism". Especially since 9/11 it has been popping up in the papers, news, and on the radio so much that one hears it and thinks what the media/government wants you to.
Also, did you come up with the idea (i think in part 1) of society pressuring you to define yourself sexually? That seemed very well thought out.
almix12 4 years ago
holy shit u see the guy under me.. I cant understand one word the person said!
hey buddy.. USE SMALLER words. there are alot of dumb ppl on youtube.. i should know (im one of them)
xthinspirationx 4 years ago
I just wanted to say, you are a very charismatic person and I really admire what you're doing here! I imagine it'd be really easy to talk to you -- you should consider a career where you help people, talk to people, or where you're on camera because you look good and seem so natural!
That's all :D
ashleythewriter 4 years ago 4
Agh! YouTube and its 500 char comment limit.
Wanted to post a reply to what someone said about the symposium and your response to there being research "proving" that sexual preference was genetic/biological. An attempt to cut the response into three parts to make it fit failed since you approve comments. :)
Oh well.
I guess I'll just have to dig up the cam and make a video reply. :)
TheAstroChild 4 years ago
First of all, science can never 'prove' anything... we only have evidence/data that we interpret for or against a theory. That said, many genetic indicators have been found for homosexual preferences. If you need/would like the author's name who I met at the symposium, I'll look it up for you.
kicesie 4 years ago
very very boring all ur videos, u r talking to much, the episodes could be shorter 10times although i appreciate wt u r talking
3edcvfr43edcvfr4 4 years ago
I am very against females being the leader of the country I live in- and I am a female, bu if you ever ran in a presidential election, I would definitely choose you :) You're very open-minded, and that's a sensational quality. If someone told me I couldn't marry my fiance, I'd be PISSED too.
qKayla 4 years ago
you dont understand Kicesie, Tolerate just means they will never accept it as "alright thing to do" themselves. You cant make THEM think its ok any more than they can make YOU think its not okay (aka: we have to just agree to disagree) its a stalemate. please reply to this
aladdin50313 4 years ago
Difference being I have a basic respect and love for everybody that goes beyond tolerance. In 40 years we'll look back on this the same way we look back on the civil rights movement. Our kids will say, 'are you serious? you were alive when they discriminated against people of different sexual preferences? That's crazy!!! you must be so old!'
kicesie 4 years ago
I understand that but you just said you dont like the word tolerate, you can still be accepted and tolerated at the same time, I'm just saying you cant make somebody think its ok if their morals are completely against it Religious core as well)
aladdin50313 4 years ago
and I still don't have to like the word. ;-)
kicesie 4 years ago
You look soooooooooo good in glasses Kicesie
dsr231 4 years ago
Why would you want to? What's in a name? Love who you love, and to hell with what anyone would call it. And when you don't love them any more, love someone else. So what if they might be of different sex? -- What does it mean that I like sweet food? Oh my god, am I a Sweeteater? Can I never eat salty snacks?!? Poppycock. Forget the label, be who you are whoever that is.
AmadanMath 4 years ago
u have helped my love life alot tyvm im actualy going to her house tonight!!!
richguy509 4 years ago
good.
catwork91 4 years ago
This also got me thinking about Specific breed legislation BSL that the Government places on Dogs. Soon the American Pit bull terrier will be banned in every state. SUCKS!!
kingryry911 4 years ago