Steve Harvey tears up about the current state of YOUNG BLACK MEN

[2012lacruz]

Steve Harvey having a mentoring program for young black men living with single moms is commendable!

[SamanthaS893]

he met her over 15 years ago and said he will marry her. she ended up marrying someone else, and he did. There was never a right time for them to be together. i don't care how much you love someone, but if there is someone in the back of your head you should of been with; you gonna be with them eventually.

[ninuxy]

Harvey is an avid anti-atheist, just like some atheists who are fervently anti-religion.

And what's with one-way highway mentality? A woman and a man give and receive. He's making it as such that only a man is flawed and must correct himself.

[junetynf]

Good work Steve,this makes up for that disrespectful

perfomance at radio city(K.O.C. tour).

[MrROTD]

What a douche, all men are in a bad state because of pussies like him, if men were allowed to behave like men and women stopped acting like they entitled to everything it would improve overnight

[bados1213]

In USA they always showing how BW are the victims and the BM are the victimizers. Never the other way around. NO MAN want to come home to a lot of bitching . By nature men wants PEACE in their house. Men Leads by nature, just look at the other countries in the world where divorced is extremely LOW!.Nature does not give 2 cents about we humans are thinking.or what religion you belongs too. It knows one thing..Procreation! ALPHA MALES always mate with more than 1 female in this world !!

[MrROTD]

@bados1213 it's true, women need to be quiet sometimes, put out without complaint, and take care of the house, that way the man would never be angry

[policechaser]

According to Steve Harvey being a real man includes cheating on your wife. Steve Harvey is full of shit.

[bados1213]

@policechaser We are all Human. People make mistakes and they GROW from them. That's the problem with OUR people always trying to Bring another down on your Miserable Life. I bet you are a Negative Lonely Azz black woman..He's standing UP to help others Black Young Men to be men. That is POSITIVE. How many Young Black People have you Help RECENTLY?? The Black Man Got 2 enemies he have to fight daily. 1is white people and the 2nd is his Pseudo Queen or Diva Bitch !!!!

[policechaser]

@bados1213 Fuck you asshole, you're nothing but fucking Jesus freak racist, eat shit.

[realtalk293]

how about the way a women should treat a man... u dnt hear much of that

[blueeyebabygirl]

if steve harvey and marjorie are the answer to today's family problems, i choose the devil.

[blueeyebabygirl]

"real men" don't leave their wives and children over the prospect of new vagina, either. the ways of a whore always lead to hell. and i didn't say that! God did!

[TheFlutevisions]

Steve is a good brother

[floridaboy22]

Can't sit and act like i'm perfect and point fingers. It's cool to see someone doing things for young black men but if that stuffs true about his ex I hope he's asked for forgiveness from God and made things right with her.

[meandmyself364]

A real woman doesn't mess around with married men, Marjorie!

[kg062007]

This old faggot has no idea what a real man is. Its not 1950 anymore.

[orlanduce]

real men don't up & leave their wives

[meandmyself364]

@orlanduce

THANK YOU!!!!!

[churchladyrachel]

I don't believe nothing come out of his mouth.

[nancysjourney]

Go Steve~!!!! work it...! Loves how God is using you~

[miamisteele]

@FuckTheNewWorldOrde1 Learn to spell...Idiot

[producer4real]

I'm not a Steve Harvey fan and I find him to be a hypocrite and a fraud but this is a good thing that he's doing and I do respect him for it.

[nancysjourney]

@producer4real why do u find him a hypocrite.....God aint done with any of us yet!~ Stones need to be dropped. -

[ThinkingAgent12]

@nancysjourney Hes a mangian aka caters only to womens needs, he doesnt give two shits about african american males, hes an agent hired by the feminist movement to degrade ''black man are loses'' slogan parade.

[impatientwithdesire]

i like this title. THIS is what we need to talk about - instead of blaming black women for men who refuse to be there but want to be treated like they are

[randyjsing]

Nigg* please. I know what a real man is. I didn't leave my wife for another woman and then blame the previous wife. That's just being a b**** nigg*. Straight up. That's real talk. No chaser either.

[divalizzous]

He needs to go play in heavy traffic. He's a fake piece of worthless shit.

[7A35]

@divalizzous I despise this guy. He is so fake it feels almost physical.

[JGvisions]

i must admit, i hate his guts and all that for being a certain type of sell out......But the fact that he is doing something like this with kids and mentoring him is deep, i give him props for that!

[MsSooobless]

STEVE HARVEY IS FULL OF SHIT... AND KARMA IS A BITCH!

[theright1allthetime]

THIS IS THE MOST BIASED SPEAKING NIGGUH...

I EVER SAW IN MY LIFE. ALWAYS TEARING DOWN MEN IN GENERAL

CHECK YA BALLS STEVE CUZ I DON"T BELIEVE NOTHING THERE SIS!!!

[karlsmith00]

i guess since this is steve harvey's third wife, he should know about it. what's going on with the kids that he had with his first two wives that he doesn't live with anymore?

[miamisteele]

@karlsmith00 Gotta love you internet judge committees....For what's known of them,Steve's Kids are healthy,productive citizens.What's going on with YOUR kids? Nobody on this planet is perfect,not even YOU jerk.I know that must be shocking to you..What's him having ex-wives have to do with his point in this video?! Just because he has had failed marriages..It doesn't reflect on him as a man,father or mentor and what he's doing for these young men. What are YOU doing for the youth?ASS

[nancysjourney]

@miamisteele word!

[GodL0vsu]

@karlsmith00 ur a hater. black ppl always trying to pull each other down just stop the negativity bull.

[PhazonElitist]

How the fuck do people need "mentors?"

[rickybarningham]

i can tell you as a 25 year old white guy that is influenced both by rap and even more so by metal, the type of black guys i look up to ARENT the thugged out dudes that are glorified now a days, its the black guys that are intellligent, well spoken, and show more positivity in their actions, i listen to tupac, i can see where that mentality comes from, yes there are things in place to keepblack men down, but you are also making your own decisions to pick up that gun and live that life, ive had

[rickybarningham]

@rickybarningham ive had enuff of a taste of that life to be gladd im not surrounded by it, enuff to learn from others mistakes instead of having to learn the hard way, instead one day when im 40 years old in a prison cell with scars on my chest finally realising that lifestyle gets you nowhere, now a day most people (even black urban youths) arent real gangsters, they just front becuz its the cool thing to carry a gun and be a "strait G" it hasnt been legit since the mid to late 90s, its just

[rickybarningham]

@rickybarningham its just as much a joke when urban kids do it as it is when suburban kids do it, its a fad, real gangsters are either dead or in prison, when i was a teenager i tried being that way (it was a little more legit then usual when most white teens try it) im glad i grew out of that phase, i still listen to tupac but only songs like "ghetto gospel" or "changes" or "keep ya head up" ...no more "breathin" or "fuckin wit the wrong nigga", we all (not just blacks) need to get over that

[ejarridcw]

@rickybarningham y did u think we needed to hear this from u?

[rickybarningham]

@ejarridcw im sorry i didnt realize white people couldnt give any advice to a black person, i didnt realize that there werent any white people in the same situations, i didnt realize that every white person grew up with alot of money and a perfect family with both mom and dad, my bad, i didnt know white people didnt care about our black brothers, 

[vanaphil]

Why is this video backward?

[BabyGirlGoddess]

@vanaphil

copyright.

[lamarjlp914]

I didn't mention your dad (that's wierd, anyways). But you're not challenging me, because you're not responding to any of my points, you're just rambling and making ad hominem statements. Secondly, you're not going to get me to defend rappers, for the record I want them all dead, they're baffoons and traitors to our race. As for Oprah I don't really care for her either I look up to Aliko Dangote (networth $13.8 billion).

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Honey I have dated like 10 BM and only 1 was worth my time…. I married that BM and he died ….so don’t go there. I married him because he does not talk like you….he encouraged me to be my best! He was loyal and did not make excuses like you are doing! But I have not found another BM since my husband died it seems most of them sound like you.

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf I make no excuses because I have no excuses to make. I'm an engineering student at the top of my class and my future looks great. I accomplished all I have do to my willpower and through hard work. I owe no one anything. I'm defending my fellow intelligent black men who are doing their thing from people like you who hate them simply because they're black. WE are not drug dealers and I would appreciate it if you would stop calling me one.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 I’m not talking about Africans (I would never date one of them)…I’m talking about African American men…..single parent households because you guys flaked out on us….period….black on black crime…..black men on black men crime….look I’m not backing down so waste your time is you want…. I know what I see at my job and in class…. 7 BW in my class 1 BM…..whose fault is that! You are making Excuses!

[mylokaf]

@mylokaf I’m done with you another BM putting down BW and can’t even acknowledge that we even tried to hold up our end of the bargain ....instead of appreciating the BW who hung around all you guys do is put us down...listen to you…every time I try to talk to a BM is the same thing excuses and blaming us.....you just reminded me of why I don’t date BM ....you guys take us for granted and don’t appreciate us! I'm done talking to you! Go find a WW maybe she will let you dominate her!

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf well of course you wouldn't date a black man, I could tell by your comments. There is no difference between African blacks and blacks in American, we are of the same race period. I do not see myself as different from my bretheren abroad especially if they are doing well. I take it you're not taking any engineering courses, because I see 20 BM and NO BW, what's YOUR excuses for that?

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Engineering ......nursing not a lot of men...the overall numbers are what they are 4 to 1 you can ignore the numbers if you want honey.....You keep mention African men……I don’t date African men….I only date Americans …..hell you guys are sexist enough as it is (black or white).

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf excuse me in all the engineering and high level mathematics courses I've taken there were very few women yet alone black women and all the major engineering and academic authorities attest to this point. Your numbers are simply wrong on that one. As for nursing, it's not a field that men prefer to go into so naturally you wouldn't find many of them there.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Of course there are certain fields where there are more men and vice versa that is not a racial thing it’s a gender issue....Ebony magazine article had the info that black colleges reported 4 to 1 and 7 to 1....BW are from the same households as BM! Again I’m sick of BM and the excuses...everything is somebody else’s fault! I still don't hear any responsibility and accountability coming from you...we can go on for days honey...I'm not letting bad behavior in my race go unchecked.

[lamarjlp914]

I'm not blaming BW for anything I'm merely asking you questions (none of which you've answered) and siting statistics and history. You said bm did not stand by you, that is a bold face lie and you know it. Mostly all of the leaders who fought bled and died for this race in this country were men. I didn't see bw being lynched, burned, tortured and the like during that time. As for the college thing, I'm studying applied math and environmental engineering so what's your point?

[cul2cat]

how could anyone not like steve harvey

[janespeaks]

Real men don't take mistresses. Real men don't cheat on their wives & real men don't MAKE THEIR WHORES their wives!

Steve states the obvious about fatherhood & the need for men making babies to step up & be active in their childrens' lives, but it does not take away from the fact that as a husband he was lousy. Part of being a "real man" is being a good companion/husband/provider to your wife! If you're a good father but you're creating adversity in your home, then how good are you really??

[southpaw2k1]

@janespeaks Thing I want to know is...why the boys have a boot camp, but girls are told they rule the world to build their egos? So even when the boys do well, they're still being told that they still ain't shit, when compared to girls.

[iloveumyra]

Please come to Trenton NJ...we need you bad....

[Conspiracyknowledge]

these young boyz....may God have mercy on them, they really are trying

[CarlaMills]

I teared up just watching This..I want to help !!!!!

[SEFYH]

Steve Harvey is an arrogant, self centered, HYPOCRITICAL piece of shit!! He phoney crocodile tears mean NOTHING to me! Fuck you Steve Harvey!!!

[CarlaMills]

Great job Steve !

[suchafool990]

screw Steve Harvey. men are not robots or slaves. what about how women should treat and respect men?? Oh whats that? I couldnt hear you over all those chirping crickets

[mylokaf]

@suchafool990 Women should respect men too, but u are ignoring that fact that there is a problem with black men...... "Black on Black crime" please....u mean "Black Men on Black Men" crime! Men and women both have their issues but come on..... sounds like you are little bitter towards women...its not black women fault that we will make more money than you guys soon.....why.....BW out number BM in college enrollment 4 to 1.......why? Is that BW fault too.....Im so sick of BM and their excuses!

[lamarjlp914]

Did it ever occur to you that the vast majority of black men in prisons are raised by single black women, the vast majority of black men today ( the one's you are ranting and raving about) are raised by single black women. Also the majority of black men who leave black women with those kids are raised by guess what, single black women. If you don't believe my look of the stats of children raise by single black fathers vs single black mothers. Believe me we black men will rebuild ourselves.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 You just proved my point......."raised by single black women"...yeah because the fathers are not there.....and the mother is "stuck" raising the kids.....shameful!

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf well who do you think raise these dead beat dads? Single black women. Second I would like for you to tell me why is it that you don't hear about a large portion of the prison population being raise by single fathers (and 16% of single parents are men). Tell why in 1968 when 72% of black children had a father in the home, there wasn't as much disfunction in our communities as their is now and why after black women decided to join white feminists these problems arouse. Simple questions

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Typical of BM.....blaming BW for everything.....now you blame feminists.....well part of the criticism of the civil rights movement was that black men do not help us either....no WW or BM has stood by us.....BW are raised in the same homes...... but we out number BM in college enrollment 4 to 1 ......I went to college.... a BM can go if he wanted to..... Yes that’s it.... don’t hold BM accountable.....blame the mothers who stay...figures!!

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf The fact of the matter is things have not gone very well having bw as the so called leaders of the community and households. When we were the heads of things we built townships, universities, businesses and the likes right out of the reconstruction era. We were at the forefront of the civil rights and black nationalist movements in this country and fought, died and bled for this race and (sad to say) country.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 BW were not being so called head of households….they were hold up what you guys fucked up....You were at the forefront the same reason whites were ……because blacks were not allowed.....the same way women did not get opportunities....see there you go another BM not acknowledging discrimination against women…you only prove that BM are no better...you are looking to do nothing more than oppress BW.

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf Oh come on get real, ok it appears above all you just hate black men. I merely responded to your bashing of black men with some actually facts and data. Question, where did we fuck up? (outside of getting on the integration band wagon and not remaining the pillar of strength in the household and community). Are we really like white men? Were we the one's to deny you your rights despite being the one's fighting and dying for them? We're we the one's raping you in the night?

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Nope I have a great dad....that’s it every time a BW challenge you guys its...you hate BM...I’m sick of fighting and defending you guys and BW don’t get it in return.....where did you go wrong....stop selling crack and leaving your kids....stop hating on BW who are successful....and get your buts in school....those dumb ass rappers treat Oprah worse than white folks ...meanwhile she send more blacks to college than any of those rappers.

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf "....stop hating on BW who are successful....and get your buts in school" I just sited that black men make up the race's majority of engineers and that black men from Africa have the highest levels of academic achievement of any group. It's funny you should go back to the leaving kids thing. Read the book entitled "The myth of the missing black father" by Roberta Coles. So being that you want us back in the homes are you admitting that you're too weak to do it alone?

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Majority of engineers you guys are also majority of crack dealers too and commit most of the homicides in our community ….are you going to act like that is false....maybe one of these days you will stop making excuse....again I don’t hear any accountability from you...this book ….let me guess it will blame the WM and BW for all of you guys issues right?

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf so you are comparing black scientists and engineers to drug dealers and rappers, WOW that's some serious issues. That's like me comparing all black women to video hoes. Ok, for one I am a member of intelligent black society. I have no children, I work and go to school. I only associate with intelligent black people so I'm not exposed to the drug dealers and crazy people you refer to. Every black person I know is successful especially black men it associate with.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 My late hubby is the only supportive BM I ever dated……In no way I'm I comparing black scientists and engineers to drug dealers and rappers...I only want you to understand that there are some issues that you are ignoring...BP will not get better unless we acknowledge all of our problems...don’t just talk about the good....we must also deal with the bad!

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf In fact my best friend is a black woman who is a nuclear engineer. I nor any other intelligent black person is accountable for the rif raff because we did not create them. We don't have kids out of marriage and we dont produce or support bastard baby makers, super whores, drug dealers, rapper and haters of intelligent and productive black people (especially men). So no I dont make excuses for the rif raff, my job is to exterminate them. Have I made myself clear as to where I stand?

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Just sitting around pointing fingers is not going to accomplish anything….I hope you find you a submissive, obedient, brain dead BW….I’m not your girl! What a shame…. who knows how much money a black couple like you and me could make…. I guess we will never find out! Peace ...I have to get some sleep!

[lamarjlp914]

No you are not a girl I would date. I prepare black women who loves black men and would she her mate as her partner not competitor. Someone who will not think of me as a drug dealer.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Yes a BW is always a competitor when she disagrees…I guess I’m a bad BW since I don’t know my place ….LOL! It was a joke honey I would never date you either! I did not call you a drug dealer so stop being silly…....I guess you did not read all of my comments about husband....whatever!

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Look it up ....its a letter from white racist to blacks.......Its called...... "A Salute to All Gang Bangers"

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf why am I not surprised that you would gleefully reference the works of white racists to enforce your view of black men. Have you not been reading my posts or did you miss the part where I said I wished to exterminate all deviants and their enablers from our race. I could reference you to many studies counteracting this stuff but that's a waste of time. You've shown where your alliances are. In the future we'll most certainly see each other across the battlefield.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 The article was meant to be sarcastic....duh. If you agree with me on enablers then what are you mad at me for LOL! Because I disagree with u about who is at fault now I'm gonna fight with the WM....hilarious. That is part of black folks problem the ones like u cant even take a disagreement, that's what the man wants! Now I'm the enemy, other side of the battlefield, I will take that as a threat, I want no parts of your violent rhetoric if u contact me again I will report you.

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf the hell if I care if you report me, I'll start another profile if they delete it. What are you afraid of? I don't know where you live or anything like that. You're a "strong black woman" stand up for yourself. The fact of the matter is it is a matter of life or death for black men (ask Sean Bell and Troy Davis) and I refuse to cower before anyone. So file your report, but this proves one thing, if you can't stand the heat stay the hell out the kitchen, peace out.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Im not bashing BM Im tired of you guys being pissed at us BW for doing well…..instead of being supportive and saying thank you for being loyal….what do you guys do ….put us down…and don’t show the same loyalty….why are most BW single because they are waiting on a BM…..so don’t talk to me about loyalty! We have been waiting on you guys to step up!

[lamarjlp914]

We're looking to oppress black women? When we're first established our colleges we were the first to encourage and educate our women, unlike white men with white women. Learn some history lady, even in ancient African civilizations women (that means black women) were allowed to own property unlike in white civilizations. The white feminist movement was born out of grievances that white women had with white men, it had nothing to do with us.

[mylokaf]

@lamarjlp914 Excuses….excuses….excuses…..I don’t want to hear it ….you guys blame the man…BW….no accountability at all…….we are the only culture where the women will make more money than the men soon…… college enrollment 4 to 1 and 7 to 1 and black colleges….so don’t blame the white man and his admissions standards…7 to 1 at black colleges…..I guess that is BW fault too!

[lamarjlp914]

@mylokaf Ok lets address this college thing. The vast majority of bw who go to college end up taking majors that have some of the least earnings potentials (psychology, education, the whole nine yards). Black men are more like to take up majors in a science or engineering related field than black women. Now in terms of the standard of highest achievements, they are african male immigrants, not asians or whites for that matter, so still we're doing our thing.

[dolemic000G]

@jayrilla4life and you must be a real intellectual lol, shows where you at in life when best you can do is insult cause you dont agree with my opinion, great way to prove your point big guy lol

[ReALiTeeChEkk]

@dolemic000G , If u dont want to be called an idiot then maybe u shouldnt make idiotic statements. The system works for any young black male who is willing to have goals and work hard to reach them. That's why there are many very successful black people in this country. You sound like the black dude that wants to blame "whitey" for your own failures in life.

[dolemic000G]

These boule frauds need to cut it out, all he's doing is teaching black men to conform and bow down to a system that IS NOT, i repeat IS NOT meant for us. No of these chumps wanna speak on that issue

[jayrilla4life]

@dolemic000G your an idiot! SMH

[good142608]

All you commenters must be piece of Shit black men lol

[airpowa]

why wont steve harvey just shut the fuck up and go away. fake ass doctor phil

[003bone]

steve harvey you are a fraud you don't speak for young black men you have been married three time and divorced . you treated your ex wife like shit beat her cheat on her with your current wife took all her money and turned her son against her. steve sit you big ugly ass down you are a fraud loser you need to teach your self on how to be a man first

[blackbolt75]

@003bone LOL, isn't that the truth.