@MtthwSmmns There are 2 serious issues I have with your statement. One, you want to reframe the debate to an issue that is opinion based, which is if parents should be able to do what they wish regardless of whether it has been proven harmful to children or not simply because they are parents. Two, with regards to the hypothetical you gave about standing in the corner. I have a hard time understandin why you believe that if a child disobeys your command, that the logical next step is to hit him.
IT REALLY DEPENDS ON THE KID, PERIOD. SOME CHILDREN CAN ONLY BE DISCIPLINED WITH SPANKING, AND SOME ONLY WITH PRIVILEGES BEING TAKEN AWAY. IT COMES DOWN TO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD TO BE DISCIPLINED...SHOWS LIKE SUPERNANNY WERE MADE BECAUSE SO MANY PARENTS DON'T WANT TO DISCIPLINE THEIR CHILDREN.
I've heard spanking is actually alright, as long as its in a case of danger or disobediances, and done softly with the hand or a paddle on the buttocks or thigh.
I don't agree with spanking. The grounding and time outs worked for me as a kid, and the parents have to be consistent, must follow through, and be firm
I love all these people attempting to push their own views about the topic of spanking, & then reverting to insults because they can't change someone else's opinion. There is a difference between spanking (popping a child on the rear through clothes bare handed) & beating a child (using whatever is in arm's reach because you're pissed). To be honest, by my own definition, I was beat. I don't support beating a child. But I do support a parent's right to spank a child.
Children are little people with feelings that need to be considered. This doesn't mean that we give them everything they want and spoil them. Though sometimes it's helpful to see things from their point of view, to gain understanding.
@rtpb1234 i am longer answering questions on this topic. i have answered many spanking questions on different videos, check out my playist for more videos, or research the issue independently. i encourage education.
people who spank are abusers, because they were abused too, their neurosis do not let them realize their pathology, from victim they become abusers of her own children... that the cyicle of violence
What we see is clapping idiots every time the pastor is talking about how right it is to abuse children- sad! sa! sad! these people arent intelligent, cause if they were they wouldnt sit there clapping every time they hear the words whipping children is ok. Its very sad and these clapping idiots need a school education and learn how to deal with normal things in life, with other words they need to learn how to see right from wrong.
@sw20008 ur pathetic excuses of hitting is ok if u use time outs first and hitting is ok because non spanked children can end up in jail isnt gonna fly. u r now partly responsible for increasing this cycle of stupidity for another generation. ur daughter will grow up and hit her kids because her father didnt have the intelligence to discipline her without violence!
@sw20008 since u were spanked and u think u turned out fine, i guess all the thousands of doctors and researchers who criticize spanking dont know what they r talking about. ur the genius. if u spank ur child, at least admit that ur a moron and dont try to rationalize ur behavior.
@omgtaylorswift01 i turned out perfectly fine their is a difference between a spanking an physical abuse.my siblings and myself are fine and all my friends so dont you dare say something does not work when it has for me and the majority of ppl i know.you know nothing bout it every1 is different
From Wikipedia, 'Physical abuse is abuse involving contact intended to cause feelings of intimidation, injury, or other physical suffering or bodily harm.' You can call it spanking or whatever prissy little term helps your conscience but spanking is intended to HURT the child. You are deliberately inflicting harm on a CHILD. It does not matter if it worked for you or your friends, if I starved my child it would stop them from becoming obese. Does that mean it's ethical to starve...
@ScouseCaspaXS Yes! you are right it hurts the child! But it also teaches them right from wrong! If you do not spank your child THEY WILL RUN OVER YOU! They will see that their "punishment" doesnt hurt in any way and therefore will be like " Well, this wasnt that bad, I think I will do it again!" Hey how about this, LEts not punish our criminals by locking them up because this has been proven to be bad on the psyche! Lets just let them run around and do what they want! Sounds good
Which is why every child who has been spanked is perfectly well behaved and every child who wasn't is an absolute bastard? Oh wait...What do you do when your child is big enough to hit you back? What do you do if your child has smacked another child, smack them to show them how bad smacking is? If there was another method to prevent criminals re-offending/stop them being a danger others, that didn't involve psychologically harming them, I'd choose that option.
@ScouseCaspaXS First off! I know many parents whos children are grown up and the child of those parents never tried to hit them back because they had respect for their parents. Why did they have respect? Because the parents spanked them while they were younger! I now see parents in public places letting their kids just run wilded and they parents kept say "No, dont do that." "You are being bad dont do that." Guess what? The child still acted wild! Pain teaches!
And don't start with the, 'they won't know right from wrong' bullshit. If you're unable to teach your child right from wrong w/o physically hurting them then that just tells me that you're a poor parent. There are plenty of parents who can teach a child right from wrong w/o spanking them, it isn't impossible, it just takes work and commitment.
@ScouseCaspaXS Please tell me! I dont want to spank my child, but its called tough love! You must be able to talk in child langauge because most children do not understand your words alot of the time! Spanking works! Face it! You have no children and have no right, to tell me how I should and shouldnt punish my child! If you want to use words that do not work alone! then fine! that is your way to dealing with things!
@ScouseCaspaXS You obviously dont have children and if you do I bet they are the ones that are running around on the streets doing whatever they like because they feel that there are not real consequences to life! They life is all gravy! That if they do happen to do something wrong then there "punishment" will not be that bad.
I don't have children, but I am a fully qualified childcare professional. That means I am actually trained to meet the needs of children, unlike you, a parent, who simply learns to care for their child by imitating their parents and trial and error.
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL are you kidding me?! You were trained! You mean you wanted to get paid to deal with children unlike me, a parent, which chose to do it for free! Just because you are Qualified childcare professional doesnt mean anything! You can still do as much wrong as a parent can! LOL like that title makes you perfect! If you are such a trained pro. then you should know that children learn from pain! Well you should know that because the average idiot knows this!
Yes I do know children learn from pain, I bet they'd learn a lesson if I beat them unconscious too, does that make moral or acceptable? Do you hit your dog if it does something wrong? Your wife? Your mother? Your father? Your siblings? Your extended family? Your friends? Your colleagues? No, but you think it's acceptable to do it to a child that can't defend themselves. It makes you no better than a bully.
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL you are comparing a child to adults! Children are not adults! I dont hit anyone because my mom that if i hit someone out of just wanting to hit someone that there are punishments for such crimes. Its weird how it works! I was taught by spanking that if I got out of line and broke the rules that I would be punished in a way that is not so easy! A punishment that taught me not to hit others! Not a punishment that just made me think, gosh, is this all i get?
@ScouseCaspaXS because my mom taught me that if I hit someone out of just wanting to hit someone that there are punishments for such crimes. Sorry had to fix that.
@MtthwSmmns The time out method does work, children learn from repetition and consistency. If you give a child a warning and they continue misbehaving, you place them in time out and explain to them why you're doing it, if they get up you put them back however many times it takes, you then leave them there until the time has run out and ask them to say sorry, if they don't say sorry or if you feel it's insincere you repeat the process until they apologize. Fucking rocket science isn't it!
@ScouseCaspaXS Whoa.... you kiss your mom with that mouth? Hope you dont use that langauge around kids! Looks like someone hasnt been spanked as a child! LOL anyways, the child will never learn anything from being put in the corner over and over again. He or she will just learn repetitiveness is annoying! LOL I guess you just stand there all day long putting kids in the corner over and over and over again because like I said a kid has more energy than your grown self does!
The time out method works because it gives children time to understand and reflect on what they did wrong, deprives them of play and attention - when done correctly - and helps them to understand that you will follow through with what you say. It can, especially when used with strategies like positive reinforcement, teach a child right and wrong *WITHOUT* using the fear of being hurt to scare them into doing what you want them to,
@MtthwSmmns I do have the right to say you shouldn't punish your child by spanking, by the way, it's called freedom of speech and no-one forced you to respond to me. My bet is that you were spanked as a child by your parents, and you spanked your own children, so instead of admitting that you and your parents were cruel bastards - who are no better than wife-beaters - you have to come here and justify your cruelty and your parents cruelty.
@ScouseCaspaXS Wow I would hate to live in a world of your making because there would be criminals everywhere! They would kill someone and just get put in the corner. You "Now, dont do that again because killing is bad, do you understand?" Killer "Yes, I understand that if I kill someone then I will be put in the corner which is such a bad place to be, so (lie) I will not do it ever again because the corner is so bad........." LOL nice make believe world of chaos you have there.
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL Yea my Parents were such cruel bastards that I would do anything for them! They were so cruel that I respect them so much! My parents are so cruel that I am a law abiding citizen for now anyways until my freedoms are all taken away from which I will rise up and take them back! Oh, yea, my kids have no freedoms until grown up and out of my house. When being a child and living under my roof, you will obey my rules of the house! They are reasonable rules as well.
@ScouseCaspaXS oh and if you say that a child should have freedom, well then you might as well just throw your child to the wolves! By putting a child in the corner you are teaching them that if they break the rules then the punishment will be minor! Me however, Teach my kids that if I have to ask 3 times, then the punishment will not be something to be enjoyed or so minor. Your one of the reasons the murder rate is up. Keep teaching your minor punishments.
I, however, have nothing to justify because I'm not a cruel bastard and I don't hurt children. I know how to raise a child w/o resorting to the easy option of inflicting pain on them because I'm not an idiot, not a bully and I want my children to respect me, not be scared of me - like yours probably were and still are.
@ScouseCaspaXS You dont have children! You get paid to let other pples children run all over you because you dont know how to punish a child. My children respect me, but also fear me as well, you are right about that. BTW, trust me, dont have children because you wouldnt be able to handle them day and night. Oh, yea, and I also dont really believe that you are a "trained professional". Just a lying person that does not really understand what having children really mean.
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL try putting a kid in the corner and see what happens! He will just walk away and be like yea whatever. Then what are you going to do? Tell him to get in the corner again? Yea because that worked so well the first time! Take away their toys and hear them cry on and on and on which btw is neglect! LOL, you think you know but unless you have kids you dont know!
I have put children on timeout and, actually, they stayed there because it we'd consistently used the method with them and they knew if they got up we'd put them back. They also apologized, unprompted, and then altered their good behavior charts to reflect what had happened and show they understood they'd behaved badly. Taking away a child's toys isn't neglect you numpty, are they gone forever? No. Is any court going to criminalize it? No. I don't need to be a parent to know...
....as I've already pointed out, childcare facilities can have strong and successful discipline systems w/o resorting to corporal punishment and they can do it whilst looking after 10+ children. If they can, there's no excuse for you not to, aside from pigheadedness, laziness and ignorance.
@ScouseCaspaXS Sounds like bullshit to me! I have 3 children! I know by experience what they will and willnot do. Yes, you do need to be a parent to fully understand because you are not with that child 24/7! When you have kids then get back with me. If you put a child back into the corner, he or she will come back out! You will then go through an endless loop of putting them in the corner, them coming out, and so on and nothing is accomplished! Please dont lie just to make........
@ScouseCaspaXS yourself look good. You said you dont have to be a parent to know, but who's kid did you put into the corner? You must work at a daycare or something and if so, again, you are not with that child 24/7 and dont know if the parents spank that child or not. The only reason why a child would stay in that corner is if they were afraid of a worse punishment likea spanking! Without this no child has any reason to stay in the corner! If so you must have a child that was....
@ScouseCaspaXS born perfect and never needed to be told what to do and therefore wouldnt be in the corner in the first place. LOL so you told me you put a child in the corner which you dont really know that well because you are not around them 24/7 and they went to the corner with no thought about it and then when they came out, they said, "Im sorry for my mistakes and it will never happen again." WOW you have just met a perfect child! He acts better than some adults do. Get real!
....my child? No. Spanking may well work, that doesn't make it okay to use it as a discipline method. There are other way to discipline children that do not involve inflicting harm on them, that work. Why then would you still resort to hitting your child to get them to listen to you? Aside from the fact you are too ignorant to take a second to look at these alternatives and use them.
@ScouseCaspaXS So you are telling me that putting a child in the corner works? OR telling me that taking their toy away works? Im sorry to say, but no it does not. I put my child in the corner and you know what he would do? Walk out of the corner. I would put him in the corner again! What does he do walk away again! Really? Yea that works well!
Just because you were unable to implement it correctly doesn't mean that the method does not work - as with every aspect of raising children you have to be *consistent* which means that every-time the child gets up they are placed back into timeout, until they stay there and do the full time. You think that doesn't work? Well, the majority of nursery schools will disagree with you since that's one the methods of discipline they use.
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL Consistent? You mean a never endless loop of putting a child in the corner, them coming out, putting them back in the corner, them coming out, putting them back in the corner, them coming out, putting them back in the corner, them coming out, putting them back in the corner, them coming out, and so on and so on! This is a never endless circle without anything coming out. Im sorry but that child has more persistance than you will ever have because its a child!
@rtpb1234 lol im lazy to find alternative methods its how i was raised and it did me fine why should i change it? im not saying kill the child but you dont know me and if you dont wana spank you kids fine... but respect the choice of others
@omgtaylorswift01 LOL really? How about the experience of parents? You know the ones that actually raise their children! PArents have more experience on this subject that many of those childless researchers! I have 3 children and putting them in the corner works like this! "Son go to the corner." Child stands there. "Son go to the corner now!" Child goes to corner for 2 seconds and leaves." What do you do now? Use more harsh words? You obviously dont have kids you dumbass!
I was spanked as a child & im fine. I spank my daughter ONLY when she needs it. I do use the timeout first but if she fights me about it i spank her on the butt. Weather u spank ur child or not, there is a possibility they can end up doing &/or selling drugs going 2 jail or whatever. It also depends on what type of people they hang out w/ & who they let influence them into doing things they know that are wrong. When she's 11, the spankings will stop & shell get grounded & her stuff taken away.
My father has been abusing me since i was 3 yrs old, up until now at age 17. As a person that is going through this situation RIGHT NOW, i can assure you that beating your child does NOT work! My situation with my father has escalated to a point where i ended up retaliating both verbally and physically because i just couldn't take it anymore.
The pain i'm going through right now is so deep, that i honestly feel like Killing myself and ending my life.
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wife is an adult... Jesus would recommend spanking , do not spear the rod!!!! yall forgot that... God is not against spanking a child however there is a limit
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wife is not an adult... Jesus would recommend spanking , do not spear the rod!!!! yall forgot that... God is not against spanking a child however there is a limit
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the psychologist guy just proved that there are at lot of ways to discipline ur kids. he got beat when he was a kid and guess what, he is a physiologist, author, and he is on television. if hitting ur kid is ur way to discipline in ur house by all means do it; its not wrong. if ur kid doesn't need to be spanked then don't do it. spanking is not wrong just as long as u don't abuse the kid.
You guys want to know what abuse is? Read the book "A Child Called IT." A quick little spank done with no anger is not abuse. Hitting for no reason is abuse. The child brings fourth his own undoing; consequences follow.
@AsILayDyingOWNS77 Exactly. These people see spanking = abuse. When its NOT. So because of people like them, kids nowadays run WILD and RUN their parents.
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@DeadSleepers Exactly! I've also notice that whenever someone posts a comment about spankng being okay when needed, they receive too many negative votes and the comment get hidden. I've seen so many little bratty kids talking back to their parents so disrespectfully, and all they do is talk to them and tell them they won't be going to MacDonalds, but the child continues to bad mouth the parent. Too many parents nowadays are complete idiots. Just wait till their child grows up; future jailbirds.
I agree with the pastor 'Spare the rod spoil the child' that is so true because more and more people are noticing kids these days are acting wild and beating on their mama thinking they should get WHATever they want or they'll act a fool being disrespectful like saying 'I hate you' in your face and parents are just taking it and like all they can do is say 'Go To Your Room' and then the same things happen over and over again.
Why should it be OK to whip little children, but not one's spouse for behavior one doesn't like? Do children have less right to dignity and freedom from physical assault? Why is sadomasochism considered perverted between adults, but the same type of dominance/obedience punishment is "not" perverted between adult and child? Why do many parents fail to research punishment before they resort to hitting their child? Ignorance is forgivable, but avoidance of illumination is not. Stop the hitting!
@ReNuriche i know they should but alot of parents think it is ok but at the same token wat if u hit them really hard and leave a mark and they tell a teacher or someone that works at a school then wat u know wat i mean
@ReNuriche What a lot of nonsense. Hitting a child is appropriate only under certain conditions anyway. It has nothing to do with masochism it's just disciplining.
In the case of the adult it's different for obvious reasons. Adults are mature enough and too old to be disciplined in this way. If children are to be treated exactly the same way as adults then let's allow kids to go and buy alcohol or smoke. Adults can do that, so kids should as well, right?
@ReNuriche It works though, No matter what research you do. Its perfectly legal in Florida as long as you dont leave bruises, My cousin called the police on his parents and the police came and let his mom beat his ASS right in front of the police...Because is she didn't do it they would......So just because you feel its wrong does not make people who feel its right idiotic ")
@ReNuriche You are an idiot! Adults and children are obviously different! If they were not then children could drink, have sex, live and work on their own, which obviously they cant at a young age accept in some rare cases! Children need guildance more than an adult which has "grown up", understand? You dont have children obviously! Telling a child to sit in a corner is like telling a criminal just to write a note and say "I am sorry for what I have done." It doesnt work! Face it!
@schneke1 The fact that you spank your kids is NOT more about you than your child. It's teaching your child right from wrong. It's perfectly legal to physically discipline your child as long as it's below the belt line. Educate yourself.
***learned all of the values a grown, responsible, career minded, educated, family-oriented adult should possess! And to answer that man's question abt Jesus and whipping children, all i know is the bible say spear the rod spoil the child. Hello somebody!!!
Why does every1 think they knw the best way 2 raise some1 else child? All those books listed up top is nothing but some1's meal ticket and/or opinion.The world as we know it today is a messed up! Raise your kids as u see fit...as long as the child is not being abuse I believe it is up to the parent on how to raise their child. But as 4 me & mine, u act up you getting it. That's how I was raised and out of that I learned all of the values a grown, responsible, career-minded adult should possess!
In hebrews 12:09-10 we see a comparison being done between the chastising of our flesh by our earthly fathers and the non-violent chastising of God unto his children. in verse 10 it shows that the only form of chastisment that is profitable to the one receiving it is that which comes from God while that done unto our flesh by our fathers is not profitable to us but only feeds the pleasures of those that inflict it !
People used to think it was necessary to "spank" adult members of the community, college students, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual battery if a person over the age of 18 is "spanked", but only if over the age of 18.
For one thing, because the buttocks are so close to the sex organs, anal region, and so multiply linked to sexual nerve centers, striking them can trigger powerful and involuntary sexual stimulus in some people. There are numerous physiological ways in which it can be intentionally or unintentionally sexually abusive, but I won't list them all here. One can read the testimony, documentation, and educational resources available from the website of PTAVE.
The US states with the highest crime rates and the poorest academic performance are also the ones with the highest rates of child corporal punishment.
There is simply no evidence to suggest that child bottom-slapping/battering instills virtue.
Stupid and violent kids are more likely to get sent to prison. Sending stupid violent criminals to jail is not what causes them to be stupid or violent. Crazy kids are more likely to see psychotherapists. Does psychotherapy cause kids to act crazy? Well, of course psychologists make money from that unlike spankings.
Parents beat because its the quickest thing to do. no one wants to take the time to learn to be a parent. wat is wrong with u ppl? Super nanny shows ppl how to discipline without hitting and yelling yet ppl dont want to take the time to learn those tactics. Spanking obviously is a cycle,...how many ppl say they spank their children and were spanked themselves? Why is this violence okay? Why can a man hit a woman without leaving bruises and we call it Domestic Violence? Yet hitting kids is ok?
Corporal punishment is full of hipocracy and is not peacful or merciful and definitley not gentle so it can not be considered wisdom according to the new testiment's definition of wisdom. james 3:17-18 but the wisdom that is from above is first pure,then peaceable, gentle,and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hipocracy. and the fruite of the riteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
@schneke1 I'm the kind of person who would rather avoid spanking. If were a parent, I would rather discipline my child with kind and insightful words. I would travel alone with my child to many different areas. That will enrich her life and I can teach her what are the goods/bads of life. Spanking hurts the parents more than the kid. What sort of parent who loves their children would hurt their child for joy? Spanking takes all the strength in you. I know because that's how I educated my bro.
@schneke1 Why, thank you. I feel like I am talking to a mirror though. You seem just as intelligent as I am, if not more. I say, everybody is different and spanking will not work on everyone. What I'm saying is that spanking should not be looked down upon just because there are bad parents out there who abuse their kids. People need to see the true effects of spanking. And the only reason spanking works sometimes is because of diverse neighborhoods.
@schneke1 It wasn't that bad. While I didn't have a father, my mom took both roles. My mom kept me off the streets, away from drugs, drinking and smoking. I owe my life to her for raising me into one fine, young man. My only fault is that I use profanity, but never to hurt people's feelings. I curse out of necessity and sometimes out of comedic relief. And you are most right. I am not a violent man. I gave up fighting years ago mate. It's not in me to hurt another person who wields life.
@schneke1 While I'm not a parent, my mother did discipline me by hitting my hands with a heavy, large and hot spoon when I did foolish things. When I crossed the line, my mother would have a 1 minute session of belt>ribs. That REALLY taught me. Sometimes tough love is the best medicine that a parent can give. I still remember seeing the frown on my mother's face when she beat me. That taught me a good lesson. I turned out to be a very spiritually enlightened person.
i was spanked (not all the time but when it was the only remaining resort) and i would never hit a person in an abusive manner. I turned out ok and i give all the credit to my parents because they disciplined me the way i needed. Every child is different. Therefore, every child requires a different type of discipline spanking may work for one and not work for the other. Time outs may work for one and not the other. Ok.. off my soapbox...
Psychologists studied a group of sixteen fourteen-month-olds playing with their mothers. When one group of toddlers tried to grab a forbidden object, they received a slap on the hand; the other group of toddlers did not receive physical punishment. In follow-up studies of these children seven months later, the punished babies were found to be less skilled at exploring their environment. Better to separate the child from the object or supervise his exploration and leave little hands unhurt.
@agirlinglass 7 months =/= equal a lifetime. Even though everyone is different, I believe those who are physically punished have a better mentality. We have more moral values, creativity and certain other traits. That is just from experience. Most people I know/don't know have proven this for me.
demanding respect from a child by physical abuse never worked n it will not work from now on.. parents need to knw that ur kids will fear and hate u if put ur hands on them.just educate them show them u love thm n communicate with them clearly, explain to them their mistakes, they will undertsand u 100%..
@Falisia11 That is foolish. It may work with white children because they grow up in good neighborhoods, but where I come from, beating your kid teaches them morals and values. If you try that sissy-style way of raising your kids, they'll never respect you and they'll laugh/spit on you. Trust me, I grew up in the slums of New York so I've seen it happen daily. You don't beat your kid out of spite but by giving him tough love. No pain, no gain. Your kid will look up to you in his later years.
@Atma01 i dnt knw what ur life is like or those white kids u talkd bout in america. but i knw that in my childhood i have seen war, migration to 4 diferent nations to 2 continents n yet never had any1 put thr hand on me.. am 21 now at university n hve my own goals in life. its ok to displicine ur kids but there is diference between abuse n displining.. bunchin a child in the face, hitting them with strong object wil hv unhealthy impact on thr emotions n mentality later at adulthood.
@Falisia11 Most of us have seen war. The environment you grow up in does affect how you live. You are fortunate enough to see so much of life and learn from it. Many aren't that lucky. there are those who are spoiled and those who don't know right from wrong. But I think you may be confused about something. Spanking/whooping your child is not the same as physical abuse. Punching your kid in the face is abusive. That is not spanking. Spanking is a corrective punishment.
@Falisia11 When you spank your child, you don't throw fists or kicks. You get your corrective tool (belt, spoons, whatever you use) and you correct your child. And people should not be making a big deal out of this. Only real parents discipline their children with spanking. But it's not as tough on the kids as it in on the parents. Real parents feel hurt when they hurt their kids. Those abusive parents feel joy when they hit theirs. That's not love.
i was spanked as a child and it made me enjoy them in my later years soo maybe its not soo good but it is fun well to be spanked now that is not so much when i was young
People that spank their children are iggnorant. Spanking a child teaching child that hitting is okay because they are mimicking our behavior. Spanking leads to hitting others, which can be a greater problem when they start going to school. Transitioning from hitting to time out is difficult and hard work, but IS effective in the long run. Kids needs to be tought with love not anger or fear.
@srh1502 spanking is not hitting. Hitting is out of hatred, spanking is out of correction. The skin is an instrument of caution to the body, mind and brain. You take care when picking broken glasses, you take care when dealing with fire, because you have been warned by the pain you got from those things. So is spanking. Kids think twice before doing something if they have been spanked on that issue.
hittinga child is a larger person inflicting pain in a display of power. it is more often lashing out in anger, so is a way to dispel anger for the adult. So, what you teach your child is to be and do as you have 'taught' them.
I hear so often, but "I " turned out ok. Well, maybe you didn't. Perhaps you also hit your children and continue the abuse cycle. Perhaps you are too aggressive... or a bully boss or you can't display emotions or dispel anger without lashing out.
hittinga child is a larger person inflicting pain in a display of power. it is more often lashing out in anger, so is a way to dispel anger for the adult. So, what you teach your child is to be and do as you have 'taught' them.
I hear so often, but "I " turned out ok. Well, maybe you didn't. Perhaps you also hit your children and continue the abuse cycle. Perhaps you are too aggressive... or a bully boss or you can't display emotions or dispel anger without lashing out.
hittinga child is a larger person inflicting pain in a display of power. it is more often lashing out in anger, so is a way to dispel anger for the adult. So, what you teach your child is to be and do as you have 'taught' them.
I hear so often, but "I " turned out ok. Well, maybe you didn't. Perhaps you also hit your children and continue the abuse cycle. Perhaps you are too aggressive... or a bully boss or you can't display emotions or dispel anger without lashing out.
I believe that there is anything wrong with a spanking. My mother spanked me, with a belt, and I am a straight A student, excellent behaivior in school and all of my teachers like me. I am not saying that a spanking is the way to solve all discplinary problems within child, but it helps emensely. There is a fine line between spanking and abuse.
my parents used to say.. " i whop u bcz i love you" or its gona hurt me more then it will hurt u'... i thought it was lies.. but infact its true.. althought i dont hav children. my neices & nephews are close enough. i hate to discipline them. but i have to ( when parents arent around) bcz of whats being done. whoopns ARE NOT THE ONY WAY!!!!
The pastor said Jeffery Dahlmer's mom never beat him. What about the dad? He might've beaten him. Adolf Hitler's father beat him as a child, and look what happened to him.
@MermaidRam yeah, if going back as far as king saloman in the old testiment bible who clearly beat his son. The bible records of how horrible his son rehoboam turned out. he was a cruel and selfish king that lost all his father had for being such a brat and had to leave his throne to keep from getting assasinated. The lesson to learn from the bible on this matter is that it did not work.
When it comes to the husbands abusing his wives, the wife has a choice. She CHOSE to marry that man. She can choose to leave him if she wanted. Children don't have that choice. Children have to stay with their parents no matter what.
It seems to be like all of the parents on that stage that are spanking or whipping their children have anger issues. especially the black woman with no fair or little hair. whatever. she looks like the kind of woman that would break her kids nose without a doubt.
I'm Black. In the Black community, most parents like her & the pastor justify their whipping their children by six words: SPARE THE ROD, SPOIL THE CHILD!
The pastor also said he would never hit is 5' mother. I can tell she taught him to fear her. That's what most parents like them do to their kids: teach them to fear them. She's lucky her son still wants her in his life; lots of parents like that aren't.
Can't beat the Bible for wisdom. If more psychologists, like James Dobson, went by it, we'd have a lot better society. It commands us to beat our children for discipline. It also says that having a temper is wrong. We spank them on the behind because we love them, and don't want them to really hurt themselves later on. If spanking my child keeps them from playing in the road, guess what I'm gonna do.
if spanking work you will spank the kid ones and he will stop misbehaving. If giving the child a time out worked you would have to give one time out and thats it?
im not an aggressive person at all. im actually a very calm person i hardly ever raise my voice to my children. i just simply tell them one time and one time only to do something when asked.
this is called Obey thy father and thy mother its in the bible so is spare the rod spoil the child.
if they listen to me then i won't spank them if they don't listen to me then they get a spanking.
spitting is actually nasty and spitting can carry germs spanking doesn't
Scheneke1: Thankyou! my kids are well educated, show respect to their teachers, police, us and especially elderly. How often do you see a 7 year old boy hold the door open for 2 old elderly women walking into a store using a cane. Both women thought he was a complete gentleman and said you are a nice young man holding that door open for and you also said your welcome.
Whenever i see my kids do something for someone from their heart and its a good cause they are rewarded.
Spanking a child for doing something wrong will always be here so GET OVER IT....
Kids Right Now all Over the World are being SPANKED as you are reading this
EVERY SINGLE DAY.... LMAO i think its funny when a kid gets spanked for doing something wrong.. they should mind their manners and respect their parents.
my husband & I will always spank our children for something they do wrong. i will never let anyone take my children away from me because they love us and we love them. Spanking Will Always Be Here Nobody Can Stop It. So i don't care what any of you think if you want to give me thumbs go for it Millions of Kids get their ass spanked every single day and there is nothing you, or anyone else can do about it If they don't get spanked in public they will get their ass spanked when they get home
So explain to me what do you do to these kids who are
Tagging freeway fences, throwing rocks at cars, throwing tantrums in stores, cutting school, using foul language, smoking under age, using illegal drugs, driving without a lic, selling their body for money, getting preg at 14 to 15, not cleaning their room, not doing their homework, being disrespectful to their parents etc
Everyone has tried Counseling that SHIT don't work!!!
if you see a child disobeying their parents, throwing a tantrum on the floor in the store causing a scene and making the parents embarassed then yes the child deserves a butt spanking so he or she doesn't do it again
This is called parenting and punishing your child
your not killing your child your not putting fresh bruises on your child I bet if you pull your kids pants down when you get home there is not even a red mark on his or her ass....
Its sad to see parents lose their children because someone else STICKS their NOSE into other people's Buisness instead of worry about their own PROBLEMS!
Ever Heard of the old saying : MIND YOUR OWN BUISNESS!
Now if you see someone who is beating their kid with a hanger, board, or hiting them in the face with their fist and you see fresh bruises on their body then yes then you do something about it... thats called ABUSE!
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I spank my kids when they cross the line and they know their getting spanked before i even spank them
List of things i spank my kids for:
BACK TALKING!
Not Doing Homework
Foul Language
Not Cleaning Your Room
Failing in School
Not Doing Thier Chores
i was raised in a strict house and my parents raised me not give in to your kids all the time love your kids your kids will love you back. Correct your kids teach your kids. punish/spank your kids your kids will never turn against you.
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There word Assulted is abuse!
Defintion
1. a sudden, violent attack; onslaught: an assault on tradition.
2. Law. an unlawful physical attack upon another; an attempt or offer to do violence to another, with or without battery, as by holding a stone or club in a threatening manner.
Spanking:
1. to strike (a person, usually a child) with the open hand, a slipper, etc., esp. on the buttocks, as in punishment.
So, when you "spank" an adult it is against the law, but you "spank" a child and it is okay? You are a hypocrite and insanely unfit to be a parent.
Actually, you are obviously a troll I have said what I need to say. You are 100% wrong and if you actually do research you will find that you are wrong. Enjoy a life of ignorance and hate.
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Our Taxes Pays for your STUPID SON who got a 14 TO 15 year old girl Preg...who can't keep their dick in their pants
so they File for WELFARE!
You Parents are at FAULT when this type of shit happens!
TEACH YOUR KIDS! Don't Let your Kids Teach Themselfs
If your kids don't listen to you then how do you expect them to listen? SUREEEEE REWARD THEM WITH SOMETHING go out and buy them something. ALL they are doing is LAUGHING IN YOUR FACE!Because they know they can get by with it
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These Kids Now a Days Need to Learn RESPECT! Need To Learn Don't Take Things That Don't Belong To You!
i Bet My Life On It They Won't Back Talk a Sargent in those Correctional Schools where they make you get up at 5:00am and SCREAM into your FACE to start moping the floors and cleaning dishes
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You Better Just face the fact that MILLIONS OF PEOPLE including myself SPANK our CHILDREN (NOT IN PUBLIC) but when they get home they know their getting a spanking
ALL KIDS WHO THROW A TANTRUM Not getting what they want! DESERVES to have their ASS Spanked..You sound like you Never had your ass spanked when you were a KID YOUR PROBABLY one of those RICH KIDS who got by with Everything CHILDREN are Destructive BY THROWING ROCKS TOYS ETC you as a PARENT should CONTROL THE FREAK OF NATURE
Pretty bad strawman argument, you might wanna work on that. Each *misbehavior* you listed is nearly totally different than the other. Also, the cause of all of those *misbehavior's* is not "the lack of discipline".
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my wife works for junvenile hall behind a desk in a office you cant believe how many young kids ages 8 through 16 are coming in for getting in trouble with the Law Mostly from Stealing Breaking Windows Graffiti Cutting School Under age Smoking Drinking Driving with no License or Parents Tired of their Foul Mouth Disrespectful Behavior
These Kids don't need to be loved
These kids need BOOT CAMP
these kids need to see how it feels to wake up every morning at 5 am
Uh wrong, kids in juvenile hall are from abusive families or families where they don't care or love their child. Kids that act out in the way you are describing are neglected, not loved and respected.
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What part of the sentence didn't you understand i said my WIFE works for Juvenile Hall and knows why they are in there.
NEGLECTED MY ASS!! I have a little asshole next door to my house throws rocks at cars driving down the street, blows a fucking AIR HORN at 2:00am in the morning while people are sleeping.
The other day he tied a fucking cat to a tree
And you say this little pricks that do shit like this NEED TO BE LOVED? THEY ARE SOOOOOO NEGLECTED they get toys candy ice cream etc
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UnschoolingEagle
Work on what? The Things i said is true? How Children Disrespects Parents Teachers Police Elderly... etc
Im sorry i don't let my kids go around using foul language and throwing things around the house. This is a House not a PlayGround!
If you want your TV, Computer, Car smashed with a baseball bat or anything else because your child is using it as a punching bag inside the house or near your car then go for it you can handle the cost of buying/fixing it...
You really lack much knowledge on parenting and children. Just because you don't punish or reward to manipulate your child, doesn't mean you let them run around and do what they want. Besides the fact that children are not destructive by nature.
Kids don't respect their parents, teachers police, and most of all ELDERLY....
i saw a old lady with a cane she must have been in her 80's she was walking down the sidewalk then a group of teenagers came up walking past her and one of the teenagers yelled & said "MOVE B*TCH" these kids were white kids they were around 12 to 14 yrs old
i couldn't believe kids that old would use foul language and say that to a elderly woman. People around her shook their heads in and said disrepectful
@MtthwSmmns There are 2 serious issues I have with your statement. One, you want to reframe the debate to an issue that is opinion based, which is if parents should be able to do what they wish regardless of whether it has been proven harmful to children or not simply because they are parents. Two, with regards to the hypothetical you gave about standing in the corner. I have a hard time understandin why you believe that if a child disobeys your command, that the logical next step is to hit him.
omgtaylorswift01 1 month ago
IT REALLY DEPENDS ON THE KID, PERIOD. SOME CHILDREN CAN ONLY BE DISCIPLINED WITH SPANKING, AND SOME ONLY WITH PRIVILEGES BEING TAKEN AWAY. IT COMES DOWN TO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD TO BE DISCIPLINED...SHOWS LIKE SUPERNANNY WERE MADE BECAUSE SO MANY PARENTS DON'T WANT TO DISCIPLINE THEIR CHILDREN.
UrbanDecayLova247 4 months ago
@UrbanDecayLova247 THIA IS NOT A BLACK AND WHITE ISSUE WHATSOEVER
UrbanDecayLova247 4 months ago
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I've heard spanking is actually alright, as long as its in a case of danger or disobediances, and done softly with the hand or a paddle on the buttocks or thigh.
ryukXsayu27 5 months ago
I don't agree with spanking. The grounding and time outs worked for me as a kid, and the parents have to be consistent, must follow through, and be firm
MrCherryCola 6 months ago 6
I love all these people attempting to push their own views about the topic of spanking, & then reverting to insults because they can't change someone else's opinion. There is a difference between spanking (popping a child on the rear through clothes bare handed) & beating a child (using whatever is in arm's reach because you're pissed). To be honest, by my own definition, I was beat. I don't support beating a child. But I do support a parent's right to spank a child.
krazyknva78 6 months ago
Children are little people with feelings that need to be considered. This doesn't mean that we give them everything they want and spoil them. Though sometimes it's helpful to see things from their point of view, to gain understanding.
PurpleShades1 7 months ago 5
@rtpb1234 i am longer answering questions on this topic. i have answered many spanking questions on different videos, check out my playist for more videos, or research the issue independently. i encourage education.
omgtaylorswift01 7 months ago 5
so many pretentious blowhards!!!
sailornaruto39 8 months ago
people who spank are abusers, because they were abused too, their neurosis do not let them realize their pathology, from victim they become abusers of her own children... that the cyicle of violence
marisolitafr 9 months ago 7
@marisolitafr then what do you do to fix it?
sailornaruto39 8 months ago
@sailornaruto39 Read ORIGINS OF VIOLENCE, see the site: violence dot de
marisolitafr 8 months ago
@marisolitafr so does that imply that people who are spank become vilonet?
sailornaruto39 8 months ago
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Psychologists are a bunch of nutjobs who need more mental help that the average Joe.
goov47 9 months ago
What we see is clapping idiots every time the pastor is talking about how right it is to abuse children- sad! sa! sad! these people arent intelligent, cause if they were they wouldnt sit there clapping every time they hear the words whipping children is ok. Its very sad and these clapping idiots need a school education and learn how to deal with normal things in life, with other words they need to learn how to see right from wrong.
globe255 10 months ago 7
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@globe255 He said spankings..not abuse. Learn the difference.
DeadSleepers 9 months ago
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@DeadSleepers OMG! cant you understand there is NO! difference.
globe255 9 months ago
@sw20008 ur pathetic excuses of hitting is ok if u use time outs first and hitting is ok because non spanked children can end up in jail isnt gonna fly. u r now partly responsible for increasing this cycle of stupidity for another generation. ur daughter will grow up and hit her kids because her father didnt have the intelligence to discipline her without violence!
omgtaylorswift01 10 months ago 6
@sw20008 since u were spanked and u think u turned out fine, i guess all the thousands of doctors and researchers who criticize spanking dont know what they r talking about. ur the genius. if u spank ur child, at least admit that ur a moron and dont try to rationalize ur behavior.
omgtaylorswift01 10 months ago 20
@omgtaylorswift01 i turned out perfectly fine their is a difference between a spanking an physical abuse.my siblings and myself are fine and all my friends so dont you dare say something does not work when it has for me and the majority of ppl i know.you know nothing bout it every1 is different
rtpb1234 7 months ago
@rtpb1234
From Wikipedia, 'Physical abuse is abuse involving contact intended to cause feelings of intimidation, injury, or other physical suffering or bodily harm.' You can call it spanking or whatever prissy little term helps your conscience but spanking is intended to HURT the child. You are deliberately inflicting harm on a CHILD. It does not matter if it worked for you or your friends, if I starved my child it would stop them from becoming obese. Does that mean it's ethical to starve...
ScouseCaspaXS 7 months ago 2
@ScouseCaspaXS Yes! you are right it hurts the child! But it also teaches them right from wrong! If you do not spank your child THEY WILL RUN OVER YOU! They will see that their "punishment" doesnt hurt in any way and therefore will be like " Well, this wasnt that bad, I think I will do it again!" Hey how about this, LEts not punish our criminals by locking them up because this has been proven to be bad on the psyche! Lets just let them run around and do what they want! Sounds good
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns
Which is why every child who has been spanked is perfectly well behaved and every child who wasn't is an absolute bastard? Oh wait...What do you do when your child is big enough to hit you back? What do you do if your child has smacked another child, smack them to show them how bad smacking is? If there was another method to prevent criminals re-offending/stop them being a danger others, that didn't involve psychologically harming them, I'd choose that option.
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS First off! I know many parents whos children are grown up and the child of those parents never tried to hit them back because they had respect for their parents. Why did they have respect? Because the parents spanked them while they were younger! I now see parents in public places letting their kids just run wilded and they parents kept say "No, dont do that." "You are being bad dont do that." Guess what? The child still acted wild! Pain teaches!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns
And don't start with the, 'they won't know right from wrong' bullshit. If you're unable to teach your child right from wrong w/o physically hurting them then that just tells me that you're a poor parent. There are plenty of parents who can teach a child right from wrong w/o spanking them, it isn't impossible, it just takes work and commitment.
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS Please tell me! I dont want to spank my child, but its called tough love! You must be able to talk in child langauge because most children do not understand your words alot of the time! Spanking works! Face it! You have no children and have no right, to tell me how I should and shouldnt punish my child! If you want to use words that do not work alone! then fine! that is your way to dealing with things!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS You obviously dont have children and if you do I bet they are the ones that are running around on the streets doing whatever they like because they feel that there are not real consequences to life! They life is all gravy! That if they do happen to do something wrong then there "punishment" will not be that bad.
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns
I don't have children, but I am a fully qualified childcare professional. That means I am actually trained to meet the needs of children, unlike you, a parent, who simply learns to care for their child by imitating their parents and trial and error.
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL are you kidding me?! You were trained! You mean you wanted to get paid to deal with children unlike me, a parent, which chose to do it for free! Just because you are Qualified childcare professional doesnt mean anything! You can still do as much wrong as a parent can! LOL like that title makes you perfect! If you are such a trained pro. then you should know that children learn from pain! Well you should know that because the average idiot knows this!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns
Yes I do know children learn from pain, I bet they'd learn a lesson if I beat them unconscious too, does that make moral or acceptable? Do you hit your dog if it does something wrong? Your wife? Your mother? Your father? Your siblings? Your extended family? Your friends? Your colleagues? No, but you think it's acceptable to do it to a child that can't defend themselves. It makes you no better than a bully.
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL you are comparing a child to adults! Children are not adults! I dont hit anyone because my mom that if i hit someone out of just wanting to hit someone that there are punishments for such crimes. Its weird how it works! I was taught by spanking that if I got out of line and broke the rules that I would be punished in a way that is not so easy! A punishment that taught me not to hit others! Not a punishment that just made me think, gosh, is this all i get?
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS because my mom taught me that if I hit someone out of just wanting to hit someone that there are punishments for such crimes. Sorry had to fix that.
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns The time out method does work, children learn from repetition and consistency. If you give a child a warning and they continue misbehaving, you place them in time out and explain to them why you're doing it, if they get up you put them back however many times it takes, you then leave them there until the time has run out and ask them to say sorry, if they don't say sorry or if you feel it's insincere you repeat the process until they apologize. Fucking rocket science isn't it!
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS Whoa.... you kiss your mom with that mouth? Hope you dont use that langauge around kids! Looks like someone hasnt been spanked as a child! LOL anyways, the child will never learn anything from being put in the corner over and over again. He or she will just learn repetitiveness is annoying! LOL I guess you just stand there all day long putting kids in the corner over and over and over again because like I said a kid has more energy than your grown self does!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns
The time out method works because it gives children time to understand and reflect on what they did wrong, deprives them of play and attention - when done correctly - and helps them to understand that you will follow through with what you say. It can, especially when used with strategies like positive reinforcement, teach a child right and wrong *WITHOUT* using the fear of being hurt to scare them into doing what you want them to,
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS oh, hey you posted this twice! Must have done it out of rage or just impatience! Must be that trained professional coming through.
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns I do have the right to say you shouldn't punish your child by spanking, by the way, it's called freedom of speech and no-one forced you to respond to me. My bet is that you were spanked as a child by your parents, and you spanked your own children, so instead of admitting that you and your parents were cruel bastards - who are no better than wife-beaters - you have to come here and justify your cruelty and your parents cruelty.
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS Wow I would hate to live in a world of your making because there would be criminals everywhere! They would kill someone and just get put in the corner. You "Now, dont do that again because killing is bad, do you understand?" Killer "Yes, I understand that if I kill someone then I will be put in the corner which is such a bad place to be, so (lie) I will not do it ever again because the corner is so bad........." LOL nice make believe world of chaos you have there.
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL Yea my Parents were such cruel bastards that I would do anything for them! They were so cruel that I respect them so much! My parents are so cruel that I am a law abiding citizen for now anyways until my freedoms are all taken away from which I will rise up and take them back! Oh, yea, my kids have no freedoms until grown up and out of my house. When being a child and living under my roof, you will obey my rules of the house! They are reasonable rules as well.
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS oh and if you say that a child should have freedom, well then you might as well just throw your child to the wolves! By putting a child in the corner you are teaching them that if they break the rules then the punishment will be minor! Me however, Teach my kids that if I have to ask 3 times, then the punishment will not be something to be enjoyed or so minor. Your one of the reasons the murder rate is up. Keep teaching your minor punishments.
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns
I, however, have nothing to justify because I'm not a cruel bastard and I don't hurt children. I know how to raise a child w/o resorting to the easy option of inflicting pain on them because I'm not an idiot, not a bully and I want my children to respect me, not be scared of me - like yours probably were and still are.
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS You dont have children! You get paid to let other pples children run all over you because you dont know how to punish a child. My children respect me, but also fear me as well, you are right about that. BTW, trust me, dont have children because you wouldnt be able to handle them day and night. Oh, yea, and I also dont really believe that you are a "trained professional". Just a lying person that does not really understand what having children really mean.
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL try putting a kid in the corner and see what happens! He will just walk away and be like yea whatever. Then what are you going to do? Tell him to get in the corner again? Yea because that worked so well the first time! Take away their toys and hear them cry on and on and on which btw is neglect! LOL, you think you know but unless you have kids you dont know!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns
I have put children on timeout and, actually, they stayed there because it we'd consistently used the method with them and they knew if they got up we'd put them back. They also apologized, unprompted, and then altered their good behavior charts to reflect what had happened and show they understood they'd behaved badly. Taking away a child's toys isn't neglect you numpty, are they gone forever? No. Is any court going to criminalize it? No. I don't need to be a parent to know...
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS
....as I've already pointed out, childcare facilities can have strong and successful discipline systems w/o resorting to corporal punishment and they can do it whilst looking after 10+ children. If they can, there's no excuse for you not to, aside from pigheadedness, laziness and ignorance.
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS Sounds like bullshit to me! I have 3 children! I know by experience what they will and willnot do. Yes, you do need to be a parent to fully understand because you are not with that child 24/7! When you have kids then get back with me. If you put a child back into the corner, he or she will come back out! You will then go through an endless loop of putting them in the corner, them coming out, and so on and nothing is accomplished! Please dont lie just to make........
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS yourself look good. You said you dont have to be a parent to know, but who's kid did you put into the corner? You must work at a daycare or something and if so, again, you are not with that child 24/7 and dont know if the parents spank that child or not. The only reason why a child would stay in that corner is if they were afraid of a worse punishment likea spanking! Without this no child has any reason to stay in the corner! If so you must have a child that was....
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS born perfect and never needed to be told what to do and therefore wouldnt be in the corner in the first place. LOL so you told me you put a child in the corner which you dont really know that well because you are not around them 24/7 and they went to the corner with no thought about it and then when they came out, they said, "Im sorry for my mistakes and it will never happen again." WOW you have just met a perfect child! He acts better than some adults do. Get real!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@rtpb1234
....my child? No. Spanking may well work, that doesn't make it okay to use it as a discipline method. There are other way to discipline children that do not involve inflicting harm on them, that work. Why then would you still resort to hitting your child to get them to listen to you? Aside from the fact you are too ignorant to take a second to look at these alternatives and use them.
ScouseCaspaXS 7 months ago 3
@ScouseCaspaXS So you are telling me that putting a child in the corner works? OR telling me that taking their toy away works? Im sorry to say, but no it does not. I put my child in the corner and you know what he would do? Walk out of the corner. I would put him in the corner again! What does he do walk away again! Really? Yea that works well!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@MtthwSmmns
Just because you were unable to implement it correctly doesn't mean that the method does not work - as with every aspect of raising children you have to be *consistent* which means that every-time the child gets up they are placed back into timeout, until they stay there and do the full time. You think that doesn't work? Well, the majority of nursery schools will disagree with you since that's one the methods of discipline they use.
ScouseCaspaXS 1 month ago
@ScouseCaspaXS LOL Consistent? You mean a never endless loop of putting a child in the corner, them coming out, putting them back in the corner, them coming out, putting them back in the corner, them coming out, putting them back in the corner, them coming out, putting them back in the corner, them coming out, and so on and so on! This is a never endless circle without anything coming out. Im sorry but that child has more persistance than you will ever have because its a child!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
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@rtpb1234 lol im lazy to find alternative methods its how i was raised and it did me fine why should i change it? im not saying kill the child but you dont know me and if you dont wana spank you kids fine... but respect the choice of others
rtpb1234 6 months ago
@omgtaylorswift01 LOL really? How about the experience of parents? You know the ones that actually raise their children! PArents have more experience on this subject that many of those childless researchers! I have 3 children and putting them in the corner works like this! "Son go to the corner." Child stands there. "Son go to the corner now!" Child goes to corner for 2 seconds and leaves." What do you do now? Use more harsh words? You obviously dont have kids you dumbass!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
ricky didn't like the pastor saying the name of JESUS did she?
Nope, but the Pastor is exactly right.. Disipline isn't abuse if it is then it's not disipline.. But a good spanking isn't going to kill a child..
mddale31 10 months ago
I was spanked as a child & im fine. I spank my daughter ONLY when she needs it. I do use the timeout first but if she fights me about it i spank her on the butt. Weather u spank ur child or not, there is a possibility they can end up doing &/or selling drugs going 2 jail or whatever. It also depends on what type of people they hang out w/ & who they let influence them into doing things they know that are wrong. When she's 11, the spankings will stop & shell get grounded & her stuff taken away.
sw20008 10 months ago
Spanking doesn't work. Getting hit on the butt by someone's hand doesn't hurt that much, so it won't do anything.
Hitting a child with a belt is abuse. It will "work" but only because the child is in serious pain or fear.
If it leaves a bruise your kids can get taken away and you can get arrested.
framptonorchablis 10 months ago 2
The rev. is the only one with sense. Its amazing how many people don't care about the big brother/nanny effect our government has.
DeadSleepers 10 months ago
My father has been abusing me since i was 3 yrs old, up until now at age 17. As a person that is going through this situation RIGHT NOW, i can assure you that beating your child does NOT work! My situation with my father has escalated to a point where i ended up retaliating both verbally and physically because i just couldn't take it anymore.
The pain i'm going through right now is so deep, that i honestly feel like Killing myself and ending my life.
Parents, don't hit your kids, please....
R0b0mammal 11 months ago 11
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wife is an adult... Jesus would recommend spanking , do not spear the rod!!!! yall forgot that... God is not against spanking a child however there is a limit
laffy 11 months ago
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wife is not an adult... Jesus would recommend spanking , do not spear the rod!!!! yall forgot that... God is not against spanking a child however there is a limit
laffy 11 months ago
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the psychologist guy just proved that there are at lot of ways to discipline ur kids. he got beat when he was a kid and guess what, he is a physiologist, author, and he is on television. if hitting ur kid is ur way to discipline in ur house by all means do it; its not wrong. if ur kid doesn't need to be spanked then don't do it. spanking is not wrong just as long as u don't abuse the kid.
gavidia1991 1 year ago
You guys want to know what abuse is? Read the book "A Child Called IT." A quick little spank done with no anger is not abuse. Hitting for no reason is abuse. The child brings fourth his own undoing; consequences follow.
AsILayDyingOWNS77 1 year ago
@AsILayDyingOWNS77 Exactly. These people see spanking = abuse. When its NOT. So because of people like them, kids nowadays run WILD and RUN their parents.
DeadSleepers 10 months ago
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@DeadSleepers Exactly! I've also notice that whenever someone posts a comment about spankng being okay when needed, they receive too many negative votes and the comment get hidden. I've seen so many little bratty kids talking back to their parents so disrespectfully, and all they do is talk to them and tell them they won't be going to MacDonalds, but the child continues to bad mouth the parent. Too many parents nowadays are complete idiots. Just wait till their child grows up; future jailbirds.
goov47 9 months ago
i love that reverend haha
wammybar4ever 1 year ago
I agree with the pastor 'Spare the rod spoil the child' that is so true because more and more people are noticing kids these days are acting wild and beating on their mama thinking they should get WHATever they want or they'll act a fool being disrespectful like saying 'I hate you' in your face and parents are just taking it and like all they can do is say 'Go To Your Room' and then the same things happen over and over again.
skategoddess123 1 year ago
@skategoddess123 Well said.
DeadSleepers 10 months ago
Why should it be OK to whip little children, but not one's spouse for behavior one doesn't like? Do children have less right to dignity and freedom from physical assault? Why is sadomasochism considered perverted between adults, but the same type of dominance/obedience punishment is "not" perverted between adult and child? Why do many parents fail to research punishment before they resort to hitting their child? Ignorance is forgivable, but avoidance of illumination is not. Stop the hitting!
ReNuriche 1 year ago 30
@ReNuriche i know they should but alot of parents think it is ok but at the same token wat if u hit them really hard and leave a mark and they tell a teacher or someone that works at a school then wat u know wat i mean
honor21221able 1 year ago
@ReNuriche What a lot of nonsense. Hitting a child is appropriate only under certain conditions anyway. It has nothing to do with masochism it's just disciplining.
In the case of the adult it's different for obvious reasons. Adults are mature enough and too old to be disciplined in this way. If children are to be treated exactly the same way as adults then let's allow kids to go and buy alcohol or smoke. Adults can do that, so kids should as well, right?
camaranina 1 year ago
@ReNuriche Have you ever been spanked before?
musicluver85 10 months ago
@ReNuriche don't you know certain forms of punishment won't work on others?
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@ReNuriche It works though, No matter what research you do. Its perfectly legal in Florida as long as you dont leave bruises, My cousin called the police on his parents and the police came and let his mom beat his ASS right in front of the police...Because is she didn't do it they would......So just because you feel its wrong does not make people who feel its right idiotic ")
austinfrombustop 5 months ago
@ReNuriche You are an idiot! Adults and children are obviously different! If they were not then children could drink, have sex, live and work on their own, which obviously they cant at a young age accept in some rare cases! Children need guildance more than an adult which has "grown up", understand? You dont have children obviously! Telling a child to sit in a corner is like telling a criminal just to write a note and say "I am sorry for what I have done." It doesnt work! Face it!
MtthwSmmns 1 month ago
@schneke1 The fact that you spank your kids is NOT more about you than your child. It's teaching your child right from wrong. It's perfectly legal to physically discipline your child as long as it's below the belt line. Educate yourself.
LADiiSOULJA3 1 year ago
***learned all of the values a grown, responsible, career minded, educated, family-oriented adult should possess! And to answer that man's question abt Jesus and whipping children, all i know is the bible say spear the rod spoil the child. Hello somebody!!!
savoy81 1 year ago
Why does every1 think they knw the best way 2 raise some1 else child? All those books listed up top is nothing but some1's meal ticket and/or opinion.The world as we know it today is a messed up! Raise your kids as u see fit...as long as the child is not being abuse I believe it is up to the parent on how to raise their child. But as 4 me & mine, u act up you getting it. That's how I was raised and out of that I learned all of the values a grown, responsible, career-minded adult should possess!
savoy81 1 year ago
@savoy81 i couldnt have said it better .
LADiiSOULJA3 1 year ago
@savoy81 I agree!! same here!!
crypla7 1 year ago
@savoy81 you need more thumbs up. Deserve it more than the pretentious wipes that think they know everything because of some study.
sailornaruto39 8 months ago
In hebrews 12:09-10 we see a comparison being done between the chastising of our flesh by our earthly fathers and the non-violent chastising of God unto his children. in verse 10 it shows that the only form of chastisment that is profitable to the one receiving it is that which comes from God while that done unto our flesh by our fathers is not profitable to us but only feeds the pleasures of those that inflict it !
guidav123 1 year ago
Whipping a child has been in the black community since forever u cannot tell a person how to raise a child
alonzo21100 1 year ago
People used to think it was necessary to "spank" adult members of the community, college students, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual battery if a person over the age of 18 is "spanked", but only if over the age of 18.
MMino1000 1 year ago
For one thing, because the buttocks are so close to the sex organs, anal region, and so multiply linked to sexual nerve centers, striking them can trigger powerful and involuntary sexual stimulus in some people. There are numerous physiological ways in which it can be intentionally or unintentionally sexually abusive, but I won't list them all here. One can read the testimony, documentation, and educational resources available from the website of PTAVE.
MMino1000 1 year ago
The US states with the highest crime rates and the poorest academic performance are also the ones with the highest rates of child corporal punishment.
There is simply no evidence to suggest that child bottom-slapping/battering instills virtue.
MMino1000 1 year ago
@MMino1000 more people,more everything.
sailornaruto39 8 months ago
Stupid and violent kids are more likely to get sent to prison. Sending stupid violent criminals to jail is not what causes them to be stupid or violent. Crazy kids are more likely to see psychotherapists. Does psychotherapy cause kids to act crazy? Well, of course psychologists make money from that unlike spankings.
Texasjim2007 1 year ago
Parents beat because its the quickest thing to do. no one wants to take the time to learn to be a parent. wat is wrong with u ppl? Super nanny shows ppl how to discipline without hitting and yelling yet ppl dont want to take the time to learn those tactics. Spanking obviously is a cycle,...how many ppl say they spank their children and were spanked themselves? Why is this violence okay? Why can a man hit a woman without leaving bruises and we call it Domestic Violence? Yet hitting kids is ok?
lovelyvelyfe 1 year ago
Corporal punishment is full of hipocracy and is not peacful or merciful and definitley not gentle so it can not be considered wisdom according to the new testiment's definition of wisdom. james 3:17-18 but the wisdom that is from above is first pure,then peaceable, gentle,and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hipocracy. and the fruite of the riteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
guidav123 1 year ago
@schneke1 I'm the kind of person who would rather avoid spanking. If were a parent, I would rather discipline my child with kind and insightful words. I would travel alone with my child to many different areas. That will enrich her life and I can teach her what are the goods/bads of life. Spanking hurts the parents more than the kid. What sort of parent who loves their children would hurt their child for joy? Spanking takes all the strength in you. I know because that's how I educated my bro.
Atma01 1 year ago
@schneke1 Why, thank you. I feel like I am talking to a mirror though. You seem just as intelligent as I am, if not more. I say, everybody is different and spanking will not work on everyone. What I'm saying is that spanking should not be looked down upon just because there are bad parents out there who abuse their kids. People need to see the true effects of spanking. And the only reason spanking works sometimes is because of diverse neighborhoods.
Atma01 1 year ago
@schneke1 It wasn't that bad. While I didn't have a father, my mom took both roles. My mom kept me off the streets, away from drugs, drinking and smoking. I owe my life to her for raising me into one fine, young man. My only fault is that I use profanity, but never to hurt people's feelings. I curse out of necessity and sometimes out of comedic relief. And you are most right. I am not a violent man. I gave up fighting years ago mate. It's not in me to hurt another person who wields life.
Atma01 1 year ago
@schneke1 While I'm not a parent, my mother did discipline me by hitting my hands with a heavy, large and hot spoon when I did foolish things. When I crossed the line, my mother would have a 1 minute session of belt>ribs. That REALLY taught me. Sometimes tough love is the best medicine that a parent can give. I still remember seeing the frown on my mother's face when she beat me. That taught me a good lesson. I turned out to be a very spiritually enlightened person.
Atma01 1 year ago
i was spanked (not all the time but when it was the only remaining resort) and i would never hit a person in an abusive manner. I turned out ok and i give all the credit to my parents because they disciplined me the way i needed. Every child is different. Therefore, every child requires a different type of discipline spanking may work for one and not work for the other. Time outs may work for one and not the other. Ok.. off my soapbox...
Brysonmdulack 1 year ago 3
@Brysonmdulack absolutely correct..I have seen kids raised in the same home and all have turned out differently.
ntihata 1 year ago
@ntihata well thank ya
Brysonmdulack 1 year ago
Psychologists studied a group of sixteen fourteen-month-olds playing with their mothers. When one group of toddlers tried to grab a forbidden object, they received a slap on the hand; the other group of toddlers did not receive physical punishment. In follow-up studies of these children seven months later, the punished babies were found to be less skilled at exploring their environment. Better to separate the child from the object or supervise his exploration and leave little hands unhurt.
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@agirlinglass Bullshit. You can flang your object to be leaked by your kid. Not mine
ezeimo 1 year ago
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@agirlinglass Bullshit. You can flang your object to be leaked by your kid. Not mine
ezeimo 1 year ago
@agirlinglass 7 months =/= equal a lifetime. Even though everyone is different, I believe those who are physically punished have a better mentality. We have more moral values, creativity and certain other traits. That is just from experience. Most people I know/don't know have proven this for me.
Atma01 1 year ago
demanding respect from a child by physical abuse never worked n it will not work from now on.. parents need to knw that ur kids will fear and hate u if put ur hands on them.just educate them show them u love thm n communicate with them clearly, explain to them their mistakes, they will undertsand u 100%..
Falisia11 1 year ago
@Falisia11 That is foolish. It may work with white children because they grow up in good neighborhoods, but where I come from, beating your kid teaches them morals and values. If you try that sissy-style way of raising your kids, they'll never respect you and they'll laugh/spit on you. Trust me, I grew up in the slums of New York so I've seen it happen daily. You don't beat your kid out of spite but by giving him tough love. No pain, no gain. Your kid will look up to you in his later years.
Atma01 1 year ago
@Atma01 i dnt knw what ur life is like or those white kids u talkd bout in america. but i knw that in my childhood i have seen war, migration to 4 diferent nations to 2 continents n yet never had any1 put thr hand on me.. am 21 now at university n hve my own goals in life. its ok to displicine ur kids but there is diference between abuse n displining.. bunchin a child in the face, hitting them with strong object wil hv unhealthy impact on thr emotions n mentality later at adulthood.
Falisia11 1 year ago
@Falisia11 Most of us have seen war. The environment you grow up in does affect how you live. You are fortunate enough to see so much of life and learn from it. Many aren't that lucky. there are those who are spoiled and those who don't know right from wrong. But I think you may be confused about something. Spanking/whooping your child is not the same as physical abuse. Punching your kid in the face is abusive. That is not spanking. Spanking is a corrective punishment.
Atma01 1 year ago
@Falisia11 When you spank your child, you don't throw fists or kicks. You get your corrective tool (belt, spoons, whatever you use) and you correct your child. And people should not be making a big deal out of this. Only real parents discipline their children with spanking. But it's not as tough on the kids as it in on the parents. Real parents feel hurt when they hurt their kids. Those abusive parents feel joy when they hit theirs. That's not love.
Atma01 1 year ago
That pastor has a big mouth! I was spanked twice in my life and I remember both times vividly.
Nine00 1 year ago
i was spanked as a child and it made me enjoy them in my later years soo maybe its not soo good but it is fun well to be spanked now that is not so much when i was young
Babybambambabybambam 1 year ago
People who Spank their Children making me Mentally ill!!!
:(
Littleboazfly 1 year ago
People that spank their children are iggnorant. Spanking a child teaching child that hitting is okay because they are mimicking our behavior. Spanking leads to hitting others, which can be a greater problem when they start going to school. Transitioning from hitting to time out is difficult and hard work, but IS effective in the long run. Kids needs to be tought with love not anger or fear.
missypoopoo101 1 year ago
@srh1502 spanking is not hitting. Hitting is out of hatred, spanking is out of correction. The skin is an instrument of caution to the body, mind and brain. You take care when picking broken glasses, you take care when dealing with fire, because you have been warned by the pain you got from those things. So is spanking. Kids think twice before doing something if they have been spanked on that issue.
ezeimo 1 year ago
@ezeimo yeah thats true.. i been spanked before and i turned out juss fine
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hittinga child is a larger person inflicting pain in a display of power. it is more often lashing out in anger, so is a way to dispel anger for the adult. So, what you teach your child is to be and do as you have 'taught' them.
I hear so often, but "I " turned out ok. Well, maybe you didn't. Perhaps you also hit your children and continue the abuse cycle. Perhaps you are too aggressive... or a bully boss or you can't display emotions or dispel anger without lashing out.
kittyspurrr 1 year ago
hittinga child is a larger person inflicting pain in a display of power. it is more often lashing out in anger, so is a way to dispel anger for the adult. So, what you teach your child is to be and do as you have 'taught' them.
I hear so often, but "I " turned out ok. Well, maybe you didn't. Perhaps you also hit your children and continue the abuse cycle. Perhaps you are too aggressive... or a bully boss or you can't display emotions or dispel anger without lashing out.
kittyspurrr 1 year ago 3
hittinga child is a larger person inflicting pain in a display of power. it is more often lashing out in anger, so is a way to dispel anger for the adult. So, what you teach your child is to be and do as you have 'taught' them.
I hear so often, but "I " turned out ok. Well, maybe you didn't. Perhaps you also hit your children and continue the abuse cycle. Perhaps you are too aggressive... or a bully boss or you can't display emotions or dispel anger without lashing out.
kittyspurrr 1 year ago
I believe that there is anything wrong with a spanking. My mother spanked me, with a belt, and I am a straight A student, excellent behaivior in school and all of my teachers like me. I am not saying that a spanking is the way to solve all discplinary problems within child, but it helps emensely. There is a fine line between spanking and abuse.
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children have to respect their parents all the time and never hit them
if the child is scared of the parents when they yell at him thats the way the children is gonna understand
but if the parents talk and yell all the time but the child dosent care theres a probleme, now the parents are alowed to whip them or spank
sakowade3 1 year ago
my parents used to say.. " i whop u bcz i love you" or its gona hurt me more then it will hurt u'... i thought it was lies.. but infact its true.. althought i dont hav children. my neices & nephews are close enough. i hate to discipline them. but i have to ( when parents arent around) bcz of whats being done. whoopns ARE NOT THE ONY WAY!!!!
MsVarrie85 1 year ago 2
The pastor said Jeffery Dahlmer's mom never beat him. What about the dad? He might've beaten him. Adolf Hitler's father beat him as a child, and look what happened to him.
MermaidRam 1 year ago 3
@MermaidRam yeah, if going back as far as king saloman in the old testiment bible who clearly beat his son. The bible records of how horrible his son rehoboam turned out. he was a cruel and selfish king that lost all his father had for being such a brat and had to leave his throne to keep from getting assasinated. The lesson to learn from the bible on this matter is that it did not work.
guidav123 1 year ago 7
Not to sound smart, but I've never heard of 'SoloMAN'. I've heard of 'SoloMON'.
MermaidRam 1 year ago
@MermaidRam yeah i must have accidentally misspelled it. however i dont think " Not to sound smart" is proper english either
guidav123 1 year ago 4
When it comes to the husbands abusing his wives, the wife has a choice. She CHOSE to marry that man. She can choose to leave him if she wanted. Children don't have that choice. Children have to stay with their parents no matter what.
MermaidRam 1 year ago 2
I agree with the Psychologist.
anime1217 1 year ago 2
What do you agree with the Psychologist on?
MermaidRam 1 year ago
@MermaidRam
everything.
anime1217 1 year ago
Can you please explain what you mean?
MermaidRam 1 year ago
@MermaidRam
It seems to be like all of the parents on that stage that are spanking or whipping their children have anger issues. especially the black woman with no fair or little hair. whatever. she looks like the kind of woman that would break her kids nose without a doubt.
anime1217 1 year ago 5
I'm Black. In the Black community, most parents like her & the pastor justify their whipping their children by six words: SPARE THE ROD, SPOIL THE CHILD!
The pastor also said he would never hit is 5' mother. I can tell she taught him to fear her. That's what most parents like them do to their kids: teach them to fear them. She's lucky her son still wants her in his life; lots of parents like that aren't.
MermaidRam 1 year ago 3
no fair or little hair!! that funny as hell!!!
MsVarrie85 1 year ago
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Can't beat the Bible for wisdom. If more psychologists, like James Dobson, went by it, we'd have a lot better society. It commands us to beat our children for discipline. It also says that having a temper is wrong. We spank them on the behind because we love them, and don't want them to really hurt themselves later on. If spanking my child keeps them from playing in the road, guess what I'm gonna do.
olalor 1 year ago
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the law cannot tell a pareent how to raise there child.they gave birth no the law
lilnana1108 2 years ago
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if spanking work you will spank the kid ones and he will stop misbehaving. If giving the child a time out worked you would have to give one time out and thats it?
D34NM4CH1N3 2 years ago
Child buttock-battering vs. DISCIPLINE:
Child buttock-battering for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit.
Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit.
Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals:
Plain Talk About Spanking
by Jordan Riak,
The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children
by Tom Johnson,
NO VITAL ORGANS THERE, So They Say
by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D.
PhDeverit 2 years ago 5
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im not an aggressive person at all. im actually a very calm person i hardly ever raise my voice to my children. i just simply tell them one time and one time only to do something when asked.
this is called Obey thy father and thy mother its in the bible so is spare the rod spoil the child.
if they listen to me then i won't spank them if they don't listen to me then they get a spanking.
spitting is actually nasty and spitting can carry germs spanking doesn't
good luck also merry christmas
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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Scheneke1: Thankyou! my kids are well educated, show respect to their teachers, police, us and especially elderly. How often do you see a 7 year old boy hold the door open for 2 old elderly women walking into a store using a cane. Both women thought he was a complete gentleman and said you are a nice young man holding that door open for and you also said your welcome.
Whenever i see my kids do something for someone from their heart and its a good cause they are rewarded.
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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Spanking a child for doing something wrong will always be here so GET OVER IT....
Kids Right Now all Over the World are being SPANKED as you are reading this
EVERY SINGLE DAY.... LMAO i think its funny when a kid gets spanked for doing something wrong.. they should mind their manners and respect their parents.
Spank that BRAT!!!!
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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my husband & I will always spank our children for something they do wrong. i will never let anyone take my children away from me because they love us and we love them. Spanking Will Always Be Here Nobody Can Stop It. So i don't care what any of you think if you want to give me thumbs go for it Millions of Kids get their ass spanked every single day and there is nothing you, or anyone else can do about it If they don't get spanked in public they will get their ass spanked when they get home
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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So explain to me what do you do to these kids who are
Tagging freeway fences, throwing rocks at cars, throwing tantrums in stores, cutting school, using foul language, smoking under age, using illegal drugs, driving without a lic, selling their body for money, getting preg at 14 to 15, not cleaning their room, not doing their homework, being disrespectful to their parents etc
Everyone has tried Counseling that SHIT don't work!!!
Answer to your Problem!
SPEAR THE ROD SPOIL THE CHILD
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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if you see a child disobeying their parents, throwing a tantrum on the floor in the store causing a scene and making the parents embarassed then yes the child deserves a butt spanking so he or she doesn't do it again
This is called parenting and punishing your child
your not killing your child your not putting fresh bruises on your child I bet if you pull your kids pants down when you get home there is not even a red mark on his or her ass....
because the pants has so much padding
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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Its sad to see parents lose their children because someone else STICKS their NOSE into other people's Buisness instead of worry about their own PROBLEMS!
Ever Heard of the old saying : MIND YOUR OWN BUISNESS!
Now if you see someone who is beating their kid with a hanger, board, or hiting them in the face with their fist and you see fresh bruises on their body then yes then you do something about it... thats called ABUSE!
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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i can just hear the 911 Call:
911: what is your emergency?
You: i was assaulted help me help me!!!
911: stay calm and tell me What happen & where your injured?
You: Ok Ok i was doing something i shouldn't have done so my friend spanked me on my ass and now i have a red hand print. What Should i do?
911: OK. Buy a bag of ice pour it into a bucket and sit on it bare ass.
You: What if that doesn't work?
911: Buy Covergirl and wait it out.
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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schneke1
Do you really think the police will listen to someone who is an adult (and someone spanked their ass from doing something wrong)
the police will say:
Are you seriously injured? Answer No
Are you Bleeding? Answwer No
Any Broken Bones? Answer No
Any Bruises? Answer No
Police will then say So what do you want to file assault for? if you are nto injured?
Your Answer
I Got a Red Hand Print on the Back of my Ass! (_(*_) <---your ass!!
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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Close Fist or using anything has a weapon is considered assault or abuse.
When people file a report with the police for assault usually its because someone used a weapon or a closed fist...
people don't call the police and file assault from getting their ass spanked LMAO The Police will laugh in your ear and hang up on you!
WTF who files assault from getting their ass spanked LOL
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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Open hand spanking is not assault because there is no Bruises, no broken bones, no blood,
It might show a red hand print if their wearing pants. Hand Prints go away in the matter of mins
Close hand using fist breaks bones, causes bruises, black eyes, busted lips, blood etc
If you a guy struck another guy on the butt for doing something wrong he would think is a QUEER/FAG LOL
If a woman struck a guy on the butt then it would be consider a tease
if a guy struck a woman its sexual harrasment
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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I spank my kids when they cross the line and they know their getting spanked before i even spank them
List of things i spank my kids for:
BACK TALKING!
Not Doing Homework
Foul Language
Not Cleaning Your Room
Failing in School
Not Doing Thier Chores
i was raised in a strict house and my parents raised me not give in to your kids all the time love your kids your kids will love you back. Correct your kids teach your kids. punish/spank your kids your kids will never turn against you.
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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There word Assulted is abuse!
Defintion
1. a sudden, violent attack; onslaught: an assault on tradition.
2. Law. an unlawful physical attack upon another; an attempt or offer to do violence to another, with or without battery, as by holding a stone or club in a threatening manner.
Spanking:
1. to strike (a person, usually a child) with the open hand, a slipper, etc., esp. on the buttocks, as in punishment.
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
So, when you "spank" an adult it is against the law, but you "spank" a child and it is okay? You are a hypocrite and insanely unfit to be a parent.
Actually, you are obviously a troll I have said what I need to say. You are 100% wrong and if you actually do research you will find that you are wrong. Enjoy a life of ignorance and hate.
UnschoolingEagle 2 years ago 8
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Our Taxes Pays for your STUPID SON who got a 14 TO 15 year old girl Preg...who can't keep their dick in their pants
so they File for WELFARE!
You Parents are at FAULT when this type of shit happens!
TEACH YOUR KIDS! Don't Let your Kids Teach Themselfs
If your kids don't listen to you then how do you expect them to listen? SUREEEEE REWARD THEM WITH SOMETHING go out and buy them something. ALL they are doing is LAUGHING IN YOUR FACE!Because they know they can get by with it
Lousy Parents
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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People who give in to their children 90% of the time those children will grow up and end up on the streets, jail, drugs, or DEAD.
These Kids don't know anything about the REAL WORLD outside your front door.
These teeange girls are getting Preg at the age of 14 15 16 yrs old and have NO IDEA HOW HARD IT IS TO BE A PARENT TO THAT CHILD...
insurance, food, diapers, medicine, etc How is a 14 year old girl going to support a baby she is to young to work!
WELFARE FOOD STAMPS WTF OUR TAXES
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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These Kids Now a Days Need to Learn RESPECT! Need To Learn Don't Take Things That Don't Belong To You!
i Bet My Life On It They Won't Back Talk a Sargent in those Correctional Schools where they make you get up at 5:00am and SCREAM into your FACE to start moping the floors and cleaning dishes
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
You need to learn proper grammar, or at least gain the ability to write a tad bit more legible.
UnschoolingEagle 2 years ago 7
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You Better Just face the fact that MILLIONS OF PEOPLE including myself SPANK our CHILDREN (NOT IN PUBLIC) but when they get home they know their getting a spanking
ALL KIDS WHO THROW A TANTRUM Not getting what they want! DESERVES to have their ASS Spanked..You sound like you Never had your ass spanked when you were a KID YOUR PROBABLY one of those RICH KIDS who got by with Everything CHILDREN are Destructive BY THROWING ROCKS TOYS ETC you as a PARENT should CONTROL THE FREAK OF NATURE
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
The Goverment is Corrupt!
when i say child i mean ages 7 - 14
Its ok for a Child to use foul language, use illegal drugs, Steal, carry a firearm knife to school, cut school and flunk.
but its not ok for a parent to spank a child when he or she is misbehaving.
wow what a great goverment we have we pay tax dollars but we can't correct our own child.
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
Pretty bad strawman argument, you might wanna work on that. Each *misbehavior* you listed is nearly totally different than the other. Also, the cause of all of those *misbehavior's* is not "the lack of discipline".
UnschoolingEagle 2 years ago 7
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my wife works for junvenile hall behind a desk in a office you cant believe how many young kids ages 8 through 16 are coming in for getting in trouble with the Law Mostly from Stealing Breaking Windows Graffiti Cutting School Under age Smoking Drinking Driving with no License or Parents Tired of their Foul Mouth Disrespectful Behavior
These Kids don't need to be loved
These kids need BOOT CAMP
these kids need to see how it feels to wake up every morning at 5 am
with a sargent in their face
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
Uh wrong, kids in juvenile hall are from abusive families or families where they don't care or love their child. Kids that act out in the way you are describing are neglected, not loved and respected.
UnschoolingEagle 2 years ago 11
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What part of the sentence didn't you understand i said my WIFE works for Juvenile Hall and knows why they are in there.
NEGLECTED MY ASS!! I have a little asshole next door to my house throws rocks at cars driving down the street, blows a fucking AIR HORN at 2:00am in the morning while people are sleeping.
The other day he tied a fucking cat to a tree
And you say this little pricks that do shit like this NEED TO BE LOVED? THEY ARE SOOOOOO NEGLECTED they get toys candy ice cream etc
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
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UnschoolingEagle
Work on what? The Things i said is true? How Children Disrespects Parents Teachers Police Elderly... etc
Im sorry i don't let my kids go around using foul language and throwing things around the house. This is a House not a PlayGround!
If you want your TV, Computer, Car smashed with a baseball bat or anything else because your child is using it as a punching bag inside the house or near your car then go for it you can handle the cost of buying/fixing it...
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
Work on your strawman argument.
You really lack much knowledge on parenting and children. Just because you don't punish or reward to manipulate your child, doesn't mean you let them run around and do what they want. Besides the fact that children are not destructive by nature.
UnschoolingEagle 2 years ago 8
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YOU need to work on your argument when it comes to parenting a child!
A CHILD doesn't get everything it wants... and when it wants something you have to earn it!
You get good grades in school then you get rewarded if you clean your room do your homework you get rewarded
if your throwing a tantrum not wanting to finish homeworkclean your room and you are failing in school then you Spanked!
I never said anything about spanking an Adult
i said Assult is Abuse! Spanking isn't!
READ!
insidetheredzone 2 years ago
Kids don't respect their parents, teachers police, and most of all ELDERLY....
i saw a old lady with a cane she must have been in her 80's she was walking down the sidewalk then a group of teenagers came up walking past her and one of the teenagers yelled & said "MOVE B*TCH" these kids were white kids they were around 12 to 14 yrs old
i couldn't believe kids that old would use foul language and say that to a elderly woman. People around her shook their heads in and said disrepectful
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