You know...sometimes being the one that has to let go hurts a lot, too. A LOT of times, I think the person doing the dumping is hurting just as much as the "dumpee." Can you do a video on that? Like...getting over a circumstance breakup?
2nd day of break up, 9years 5months relationship. I have never cried so hard before.. I have so much pent up stress I cant sleep. I am to graduate in 2 days. took me 6 years to finish college. I dont know who I am or going to be anymore. I have always had this plan in my head of where I was going to go. The 2 things that were a constant in my life; school and her are gone now. Added on to this stress is student loans and poor job market. I have but 100 to my name.
@1k098 The key is to stop looking, and one will come. Well that's how it was with my last girlfriend. She split with me after a year and a half on Sunday. Thus why I am here. Chin up :)
My guy and I have just went through a break up and I'm feeling every thing you are talking about. I'm hurting so bad and wish he would call. The advice you are giving is great. We should tell ourselves that we love ourselves and are a good person and maybe the person we were with was not a good person. I have always been looking for my Prince on the white horse and wonder when he will ride up and save me and let me love him, unconditionally.
This is actually very helpful! I just recently went thru a hard break-up and it just tore me apart, heart ripped apart. It hurts, it really does. This stuff really helped, it just makes me think everything is gonna be ok :) Thank you!
@HakuUzumaki333 - glad this video helped you. check out the video on my channel too if you want more advice on how to get over a break up and heal a broken heart.
@MsVivianscorpion my girlfriend broke up our relationship of almost one year. and i feel like crap. i think about the things i didnt do with her. if i read her letter more then once. if i try to change her, the things i did wrong. i feel like i make a zone that only we could enter. she wants to go to be a marine and even though she is having her bootcamp in 7 months she wants the time to calm down.
@crypto113 hey bro tell me how you doing now. after 2 months of your break up. its been 2 weeks closed to 3 that my girl broke with me. she told me that she loves me and want to be with me at the end. but she want to make something of herself in the marines. she still in town, her bootcamp is in 7 months, but she want to get over the feelings so she can focus on her goal. i told her to kept the relationship while she is in the marines because i know she is going to need someone.
For anyone who is missing their ex lover and going through a hard time with their breakup, I'd recommend that you check out the "ex back system" from..
Breakups2Makeups (dot) com
The advice in there helped me get through a really hard time in my life..
You know what makes me feel better after a break up? Buying a small cute animal and killing it with a hammer. That way I'll feel like "why should someone love me? I kill small innocent animals. I deserve this pain." Works everytime.
i just dumped my gf because i didnt want to get in any problems w/ my fam and she understood and then jus fliped out left me so it fells like she broke up w/ me :'c
I like it how he says don't chase after them it will turn out disastrous. I am 22 went out with a 42 year old and I do miss her I tried to just be friends with her 1 week ago but she said no and we hadn't seen each other for 2 months. I am looking at girls my age now and trying to reprogram my mind that it is ok that the breakup happened, because the age gap was too big and she isn't 22 anymore like myself. I am going to get stronger from this experience I have had.
I wish I would have seen this about two months ago then I wouldn't have made the mistakes I did since breaking up with my girlfriend. Thanks a lot for this video, the advice will help a lot!
Also. if you text each other still. STOP. Texts don't mean near as much as a phone call. You want her to call you not respond meaninglessly to a text. Just send that one text and to call you if she wants to talk. Thanks again!!
She told me how much she loved me and how no other guy could ever compare, I logged off of AIM so I couldn't constantly talk to her. Now I'm sure she's thinking about me constantly, even with the other guy. Just don't do it if you don't mean it. You really do need to work on yourself and gain self-respect before the relationship can even work. Don't sit around, go out to eat, go for a drive, goto the gym, talk to your friends, play games w/ friends, don't dwell on it and get drunk it wont work.
I logged on just to say I appreciate this guys advice. It's really encouraging watching these videos coming from a guy who's been through it. My ex wanted to take a break for a few months. I acted like a complete loser, tried to fight a guy that was spending the night at her place, telling her how i was sorry, loved her, etc. I watched these videos this morning. I sent her a text saying that I couldn't see her or talk to her for a while, I needed some time to think clearly. She called 3 times :)
why is it when you break up you always think of the good times even though there was more bad times? wish i could get over the good times, but i will do
I'm in a hot mess right now. It's a long distance thing for me. He tells me that he loves me, but goes back to his stupid ex-girlfriend. It's been 3 months since I've seen him, and he gives me this crap about being "vulnerable". Like it doesn't hurt me that I had to fly back home from Long Beach to Chicago? I love him and I just don't know what to do. I pray that God can give me the strength to get through this. PLEASE HELP ME!
@LatinaChef1986 I know you love him and he says that he loves you too but you have to look at his actions, not his words. What his actions are communicating is that you are not the only woman he is interested in and he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend. In other words, he is not fully available to you emotionally OR physically since you guys are on opposite sides of the country. I know all of this makes sense logically but it's just so damn hard to move on cuz you still love him.
Man your good. I can't begin to express my gratitude for your articulate advice. It's exactly what I needed to hear. I feel it wasn't just something that everyone already knows and wants to hear. Its original. Bravo man. Bravo.
My girlfriend said to me on saturday night that she wants space...even though its only been 3 days i feel so empty right now..not knowing what shes doing or thinking is driving me crazy.she was the love of my life and has been since we first met 16 months ago.
my girlfriend of over 4 years just had an intense change of heart literally over night....one morning shes telling me she wants to move in together ...that following night she turns her phone off and doesnt return my calls for a week...now 2 weeks later were broken up..
..i feel so fucking devastated by this...i tried no contact for a few days and it was brutal...i was prob making some progress and then she called me and we met up...she loves me but needs space ..blah blah blah...now im back in the super raw mindstate.
..i realized yest after no answers to my texts that i need to respect my self....i took a stance...i called and left a voicemail ..."im not your fall back plan...im so confused right now and i cant do this...goodbye"...now this is day 2...im fuckin scared man....but i gotta do this.
@toolkills it fuckin sucks man i know. im 5 weeks after my girlfriend of 2 years dumped me out of nowhere the minute i returned after my uncles funeral. 2 weeks before we were talking about living together. all ill say is its a tiny bit easier now than 5 weeks ago. you did the right thing by saying goodbye and it is so fuckin scary cos the future you had built is gone and the past now doesnt make sense. saying goodbye was right but now you have to properly try to let go. does she deserve you?
Me and my exx broke up at least 5 months ago and I still really like him. Last night he told me he never wants to talk to me and get and that I get on his nerves. He kept calling me crazy. Maybe I am crazy. I keep loving him when he doesn't love me. I don't know where I went wrong. We had such great times.
me and my girlfriend broken up. its been almost 2 weeks we havent been seeing each other. and i still really deeply love her. but i think she is over me. what do i do? i far from over her. i really want her back so bad. we split up because of arguments and pressure. but i want her back. and i learnt from my mistakes. i still belive we can work out in the end. but im not sure she wants a second chance. please can anyone help. its tearing me up. i really want her back. she was the love of my life.
think you got it bad.. about 2 weeks ago my girl was talking about kids with me and how she knows what she wants and now she's blocked me out her life... the worse part about this is i work offshore for two weeks at a time 14-7 and im isolated from the word.. so i have alot of time to think about shit i don't want to. im with 5-6 people that i hardly like... so my situation is kinda like getting dumped. then going to prison... i leave out tomorrow.. man this shit is depressing..
What;s perplexing is the notion of 'breaking up', which in our time means, 'no longer physical with one another and on to the next person.' Relationships don't end so to speak because you can never 'un'know someone. - Careful what you do.
Im 12 and i broke up wit my gf cause she made oit wit my friend and i loved her. I never knew it would hurt but it does. It really does. I cant forget about her i cried all day. I cant forget the sight of them kissing. I wanna die. But i dont. Dont know. I feel like shit. Fuking bitch. Pinche puta.
@MrWhatthefunk69 you every right to want to leave her. Whether you should is another matter. Look around your relationship and ask yourself "can I continue living like this?" this advice comes from a 16 year old so you have every right to completely ignore it.
ok so i dated this girl for 11 months, loved her so so so much, cant live without her, but... she cant tell me the truth. a couple times i find out she is hanging out with this guy alone, and not telling me over and over. she doesnt think its wrong, keeps saying just friends... is it wrong for me to want to leave her?
My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a week ago. One day he was talking about buying a house and the next he said that we weren't right for each other. I miss him and love him so very much. At the same time, I do not want him to be with me if it is not what he wants. I feel so sad.
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this is what i call community service. God bless you brother for taking the time and effort to help those of who have no idea how to climb out of the hole in relationship breakups. Thanks
you are so right she dumped me for some douchebag who uses her and i only respected her but she still wants to be with me but we talk on a daily basis but now i think im just going to limit myself or even cut myself off from contacting her its to painful to go on like i am now this vid helps alot
she dumped me for one of my best friends... i havent talked to her for like a month and one night she called me crying so hard saying she wants me back and the hardest thing was saying no
my problem is i work with my ex.... i see him every single day and he's always saying hi and trying to be "just fucking friends" and want to lay down and die
i broke up with my girlfriend, but shes done so much to me in the past that im basically traumatized from it and cant get over her. I tried getting back with her recently but says its all my fault that I shouldnt have broken up with her. She blames every single thing on me. So i blew up and did some shit that i regret. But maybe we can finally have some peace.
me and my first ever love ..gf of 6 months broke up.. she doesnt want to get back anymore..or maybe somewhere deep inside she does but she doesnt show it... i see her every saturday... its been almost a month since we broke up, but im still depressed and have mood swings and lost interest in many of my hobbies.... my heart still wants to be with her but brain says no..its unrealistic... sweet thoughts and memories come to my head i cant stop thinking about it.. ANYONE HELP?! :(
my girlfriend's controlling mom tore us apart,and i seriously want to die,i see where you're coming from though. 3 years of love down the drain, i cannot stop crying. her mom's crazy she's making her transfer colleges.
dude I am in the same situation , even the same time of relationship , I even feel huge jealousy and pain to think of her with someone else , the only solution I find is to find someone else to be with
yeah same here... people tell me that i can get a good looking girl or maybe even better then my ex... but i still think she is really cute and cant stand to see guys hitting on her and her smiling to them.... .. i think so too man.. its either u gota find something to distract u.. like a hobbie..something that u r really pationate about like a sport or find a new girl... but its risky.. ive been hurt already and it will take me a while to recover and want someone else again..
im just gona take care of myself now... start working out and make money.. stuff like that. .. . maybe she will be the one to chase me around in couple months or so lol
listen ilikeyoutube07, I was thinking about this cortex of pain I can't get out of it , the problem is we associate a lot of the beautiful memories and moments with our ex , and we think she was the only good thing good in our life , sometimes its because of low self steem , I saw guys break up easily with their ex because there self steem was rocket sky to the average of ego , its not good but it magicaly work, they think that their lover is the loser from the breakup not them .
yeah true ... when i remember us together i only remember the good things that happen and i dont think about things i didnt like about her back when we were going out... its so wierd..
I know , try to think of 6 billions human on earth , think of your ex as one dot among 6 billion dots , how many options of connections you can make and many other experiences you can have ?
wow you know it almost makes me happier seeing other people in the same situation as me and reading about how they are gonna move on gives me the strength to truly feel like i can. i mean i dont know anyone here, but like he said about the whole friend thing, i feel like you guys are helping me and i dont even know you. Great video, im gonna watch it every day until im over this 5*****
i was helping someone, after she said goodbye and had her closure she contacted him again and now losing her mind over it cuz he didn't reply and is ignoring her. how to undo this...
i broke up with him but only in anger then of course i want things to work im trying to be happy but its hard to be away from him, i know we can make it. but Yes i need to find myself. but three weeks is a long freaken time !!!
Thank you for the vid i will be trying these tips, ive just lost my girl friend of four years, we have been through so much and its like she dosent even care. i have friends to talk to but it just seems like im just taking my mind off it and when it comes back into my mind it hits me even harder, i realy don't know how im gona get through this, life just seems pointless
@PrototypeAL I feel you bro i was with mine for 5 years we just recently broke up...but once i actually put the whole relationship in perspective i feel it was headed this way either way you are not alone in how you feel i know what helps me is to talk about it.....feel free to send me a message man.....Peace!
@PrototypeAL How have you done in this last 11 months? My ex walked out on me after 8 years and 2 children. That was 3 years ago. Yet he would phone mostly angrily, almost every night. Then he would say he couldn't get me off his mind. Then he would ignore me. Then recently he finally went with the most horrendous woman just for affection and a cheap dirty grope. Now he is asking me out again!! I am just reeling with pain and confusion. I need strong tips. Dammit I need strength, period! x
amazing words dude, thank you so much! I am in that situation right know... is very painfull! but life goes on.... thank you again!!!! you are so right!!!
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TrAkMan83 3 weeks ago
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DosMef 1 month ago
You know...sometimes being the one that has to let go hurts a lot, too. A LOT of times, I think the person doing the dumping is hurting just as much as the "dumpee." Can you do a video on that? Like...getting over a circumstance breakup?
tisgemuh 2 months ago
2nd day of break up, 9years 5months relationship. I have never cried so hard before.. I have so much pent up stress I cant sleep. I am to graduate in 2 days. took me 6 years to finish college. I dont know who I am or going to be anymore. I have always had this plan in my head of where I was going to go. The 2 things that were a constant in my life; school and her are gone now. Added on to this stress is student loans and poor job market. I have but 100 to my name.
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shinaz000 3 months ago
i broke up with my girl, i was with her for ten years i was 13 at the time now im 23 it sux and i dont know how to deal with it!
kindabum420 3 months ago
Are there any good guys left? I sure can't find one :(
1k098 4 months ago
@1k098 The key is to stop looking, and one will come. Well that's how it was with my last girlfriend. She split with me after a year and a half on Sunday. Thus why I am here. Chin up :)
thephaze3 3 months ago
Man I just got dumped too and man this sucks.
gabelopez82 4 months ago
My guy and I have just went through a break up and I'm feeling every thing you are talking about. I'm hurting so bad and wish he would call. The advice you are giving is great. We should tell ourselves that we love ourselves and are a good person and maybe the person we were with was not a good person. I have always been looking for my Prince on the white horse and wonder when he will ride up and save me and let me love him, unconditionally.
lindalovesmusic1 5 months ago 2
This is actually very helpful! I just recently went thru a hard break-up and it just tore me apart, heart ripped apart. It hurts, it really does. This stuff really helped, it just makes me think everything is gonna be ok :) Thank you!
HakuUzumaki333 5 months ago
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@HakuUzumaki333 - glad this video helped you. check out the video on my channel too if you want more advice on how to get over a break up and heal a broken heart.
HowToGetOverYourEx 5 months ago
My boyfriend just brock up with me.bot i dont have any friends to hang out with.What i my going to do???
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@MsVivianscorpion my girlfriend broke up our relationship of almost one year. and i feel like crap. i think about the things i didnt do with her. if i read her letter more then once. if i try to change her, the things i did wrong. i feel like i make a zone that only we could enter. she wants to go to be a marine and even though she is having her bootcamp in 7 months she wants the time to calm down.
arrn141516 3 months ago
Man I need to talk with this man personally! You live in Denver me too I bought you course hit me up!
Joeyvagneur1 6 months ago
My girlfriend of one year just broke up w/ me today :(
This video helped a lot though
crypto113 6 months ago
@crypto113 hey bro tell me how you doing now. after 2 months of your break up. its been 2 weeks closed to 3 that my girl broke with me. she told me that she loves me and want to be with me at the end. but she want to make something of herself in the marines. she still in town, her bootcamp is in 7 months, but she want to get over the feelings so she can focus on her goal. i told her to kept the relationship while she is in the marines because i know she is going to need someone.
arrn141516 3 months ago
First day alone today. Ex moved out yesterday. This video has helped so much. Thank you.
jamiealex12 7 months ago 6
this vid makes me feel so much better thanks
leeforlazy 7 months ago
For anyone who is missing their ex lover and going through a hard time with their breakup, I'd recommend that you check out the "ex back system" from..
Breakups2Makeups (dot) com
The advice in there helped me get through a really hard time in my life..
LadyboyHunter 7 months ago
i thought this was gona teach me how go insane :(
HOLYSHI100 7 months ago
Thx I fell better
XxUrbanKiddoxX 7 months ago
Thanks mate. Crying as I write this. You are a great man. Thank you.
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You know what makes me feel better after a break up? Buying a small cute animal and killing it with a hammer. That way I'll feel like "why should someone love me? I kill small innocent animals. I deserve this pain." Works everytime.
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These are things i really like to hear I'm proud of you!
pearse984 10 months ago
i just dumped my gf because i didnt want to get in any problems w/ my fam and she understood and then jus fliped out left me so it fells like she broke up w/ me :'c
monkeyzrul77 10 months ago
Thanks! this helped so much1
hallomannen2 10 months ago
This was so so helpful, thank you so much!! you give such amazing advice,I'm really grateful for your videos.
IaccoAngel 10 months ago
fuck you have the same name as my ex.. wow reminder much :(
kawaiichie 10 months ago
I really like this advice.
azngurl760 10 months ago
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shannonlovsurscarf07 11 months ago
@shannonlovsurscarf07 me too bro me too :(
DjVader112 9 months ago
I am going to look in the mirror everyday and say that phrase ,"I love you" to myself, I think it will help. Thanks
day1531 11 months ago
I like it how he says don't chase after them it will turn out disastrous. I am 22 went out with a 42 year old and I do miss her I tried to just be friends with her 1 week ago but she said no and we hadn't seen each other for 2 months. I am looking at girls my age now and trying to reprogram my mind that it is ok that the breakup happened, because the age gap was too big and she isn't 22 anymore like myself. I am going to get stronger from this experience I have had.
day1531 11 months ago 2
I wish I would have seen this about two months ago then I wouldn't have made the mistakes I did since breaking up with my girlfriend. Thanks a lot for this video, the advice will help a lot!
bphibbs88 1 year ago
I just dumped my girlfriend :/ but I dumped her because she lost feelings in me so I really feel like she dumped me :( this sucks
DrumEmaHer0 1 year ago 3
Thanks
sperckensiedoitch 1 year ago
Thansk
sperckensiedoitch 1 year ago
Also. if you text each other still. STOP. Texts don't mean near as much as a phone call. You want her to call you not respond meaninglessly to a text. Just send that one text and to call you if she wants to talk. Thanks again!!
kcajla3 1 year ago
She told me how much she loved me and how no other guy could ever compare, I logged off of AIM so I couldn't constantly talk to her. Now I'm sure she's thinking about me constantly, even with the other guy. Just don't do it if you don't mean it. You really do need to work on yourself and gain self-respect before the relationship can even work. Don't sit around, go out to eat, go for a drive, goto the gym, talk to your friends, play games w/ friends, don't dwell on it and get drunk it wont work.
kcajla3 1 year ago
I logged on just to say I appreciate this guys advice. It's really encouraging watching these videos coming from a guy who's been through it. My ex wanted to take a break for a few months. I acted like a complete loser, tried to fight a guy that was spending the night at her place, telling her how i was sorry, loved her, etc. I watched these videos this morning. I sent her a text saying that I couldn't see her or talk to her for a while, I needed some time to think clearly. She called 3 times :)
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kcajla3 1 year ago
Good advice sweety:)
Mistizza 1 year ago
a guy doesn't get over a girl untill he gets a new one. and usually it takes the time of the relationship to get over it. emotions suck! ahaha
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chewa11 4 months ago
I'm in a hot mess right now. It's a long distance thing for me. He tells me that he loves me, but goes back to his stupid ex-girlfriend. It's been 3 months since I've seen him, and he gives me this crap about being "vulnerable". Like it doesn't hurt me that I had to fly back home from Long Beach to Chicago? I love him and I just don't know what to do. I pray that God can give me the strength to get through this. PLEASE HELP ME!
LatinaChef1986 1 year ago
@LatinaChef1986 I know you love him and he says that he loves you too but you have to look at his actions, not his words. What his actions are communicating is that you are not the only woman he is interested in and he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend. In other words, he is not fully available to you emotionally OR physically since you guys are on opposite sides of the country. I know all of this makes sense logically but it's just so damn hard to move on cuz you still love him.
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Goldmotherfunker 1 year ago
I LOVE MYSELF I LOVE MYSELF I LOVE MYSELF I LOVE MYSELF I LOVE MYSELF.
I AM GOING TO KEEP SAYING THIS TO MYSELF, Thankyou so much for your advice :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
mark40221 1 year ago
My girlfriend said to me on saturday night that she wants space...even though its only been 3 days i feel so empty right now..not knowing what shes doing or thinking is driving me crazy.she was the love of my life and has been since we first met 16 months ago.
God i miss her.
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I just got dumped, HA HA. Man everyone in the world is getting dumped what is this dump your boyfriend or girlfriend month. Sucks though.
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77GSlinger 1 year ago
my girlfriend of over 4 years just had an intense change of heart literally over night....one morning shes telling me she wants to move in together ...that following night she turns her phone off and doesnt return my calls for a week...now 2 weeks later were broken up..
toolkills 1 year ago
..i feel so fucking devastated by this...i tried no contact for a few days and it was brutal...i was prob making some progress and then she called me and we met up...she loves me but needs space ..blah blah blah...now im back in the super raw mindstate.
toolkills 1 year ago
..i realized yest after no answers to my texts that i need to respect my self....i took a stance...i called and left a voicemail ..."im not your fall back plan...im so confused right now and i cant do this...goodbye"...now this is day 2...im fuckin scared man....but i gotta do this.
toolkills 1 year ago 25
@toolkills it fuckin sucks man i know. im 5 weeks after my girlfriend of 2 years dumped me out of nowhere the minute i returned after my uncles funeral. 2 weeks before we were talking about living together. all ill say is its a tiny bit easier now than 5 weeks ago. you did the right thing by saying goodbye and it is so fuckin scary cos the future you had built is gone and the past now doesnt make sense. saying goodbye was right but now you have to properly try to let go. does she deserve you?
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madonakuse 1 year ago
me and my girlfriend broken up. its been almost 2 weeks we havent been seeing each other. and i still really deeply love her. but i think she is over me. what do i do? i far from over her. i really want her back so bad. we split up because of arguments and pressure. but i want her back. and i learnt from my mistakes. i still belive we can work out in the end. but im not sure she wants a second chance. please can anyone help. its tearing me up. i really want her back. she was the love of my life.
samoa360able 1 year ago
Alco4ol + Drugz + Friend for about a month or so should help?
Dima202 1 year ago
Im so sad after my guy broke up with me. 3months and Im still depressed...I just want it 2 end!!
shyvirgo22 1 year ago
Dude, your a genius. GF broke up with bc I'm too focused with my job. Really?? I don't need that issshh!
WeHaveGoneGlobal 1 year ago
Just a small correction. Thoughts and emotions reinforce each other. One doesn't dominate the other.
twistedbydsign99 1 year ago
You would think i would be happy about myself right? but no, im not... ill try to love myself but its hard man... big thanks!
Flyingheart111 1 year ago
You would think i would be happy about myself right? but no, im not... ill try to love myself but its hard man...
Flyingheart111 1 year ago
think you got it bad.. about 2 weeks ago my girl was talking about kids with me and how she knows what she wants and now she's blocked me out her life... the worse part about this is i work offshore for two weeks at a time 14-7 and im isolated from the word.. so i have alot of time to think about shit i don't want to. im with 5-6 people that i hardly like... so my situation is kinda like getting dumped. then going to prison... i leave out tomorrow.. man this shit is depressing..
Jflawless6t9 1 year ago
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What;s perplexing is the notion of 'breaking up', which in our time means, 'no longer physical with one another and on to the next person.' Relationships don't end so to speak because you can never 'un'know someone. - Careful what you do.
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itstrueily 1 year ago
Help mr get my girl of over a year back. I'm losing my mind I need your help more than anything please email me. dubdub7@aol.com
hXcBlackheart 1 year ago
Makes complete sense i know the feeling you are talking about
xhen12 1 year ago
Great video! Helpful advice for both men and women. Thank you for having the fortitude to be real.
ceruleana1 1 year ago
Im 12 and i broke up wit my gf cause she made oit wit my friend and i loved her. I never knew it would hurt but it does. It really does. I cant forget about her i cried all day. I cant forget the sight of them kissing. I wanna die. But i dont. Dont know. I feel like shit. Fuking bitch. Pinche puta.
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mindbank001 1 year ago
thank you. i still feel like shit...but i still appreciate your advice
leccaspecca 1 year ago
@MrWhatthefunk69 you every right to want to leave her. Whether you should is another matter. Look around your relationship and ask yourself "can I continue living like this?" this advice comes from a 16 year old so you have every right to completely ignore it.
loglog7 1 year ago
thats y god should be the otha part of ur heart he will neva stop loving u no matter wat
TheCrazyNinjaKid 1 year ago
ok so i dated this girl for 11 months, loved her so so so much, cant live without her, but... she cant tell me the truth. a couple times i find out she is hanging out with this guy alone, and not telling me over and over. she doesnt think its wrong, keeps saying just friends... is it wrong for me to want to leave her?
MrWhatthefunk69 1 year ago
My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a week ago. One day he was talking about buying a house and the next he said that we weren't right for each other. I miss him and love him so very much. At the same time, I do not want him to be with me if it is not what he wants. I feel so sad.
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xxxEndlessDarkxxx 1 year ago
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Nicolai1288 1 year ago
This is honestly exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you so much.
starscream69 1 year ago 2
@0:57 please don't stab yourself in the face your face looks horrible as it is
JDB1193 1 year ago
ok what if you dnt have any friends to hang with via living across the country?
i dnt have many friends out here i dnt know who to talk to.
kahdaffi 1 year ago
Thanks man
boarder1123 1 year ago
Thank you so much and This is some great advide.
tinagoble1 1 year ago
Thanks bro
ponarona 1 year ago
I am so glad there are people that actually understand.
mtvfan12345 1 year ago
Your a very wise person. Much appreciated
mendezN14 1 year ago
this is what i call community service. God bless you brother for taking the time and effort to help those of who have no idea how to climb out of the hole in relationship breakups. Thanks
LakersWON09 1 year ago 2
you are so right she dumped me for some douchebag who uses her and i only respected her but she still wants to be with me but we talk on a daily basis but now i think im just going to limit myself or even cut myself off from contacting her its to painful to go on like i am now this vid helps alot
subsaibot4512 2 years ago
she dumped me for one of my best friends... i havent talked to her for like a month and one night she called me crying so hard saying she wants me back and the hardest thing was saying no
Hugachuga5 2 years ago
omg it hurts soooo much.....thanks 4 the advice
vincetube11 2 years ago
very good advice. ive seen many vids like this on youtube. even some "experts" couldnt throw what this guy just said. good stuff. thanks a lot man.
havoc2431 2 years ago 2
my problem is i work with my ex.... i see him every single day and he's always saying hi and trying to be "just fucking friends" and want to lay down and die
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yamada12341 2 years ago
dude, you gotta act cool - if you can, next time you greet her - do it with one of your female friends with you, preferably someone she doesn't know.
good luck
ammusi 2 years ago
wow you hit the dot :)
Zub89 2 years ago
I dont have any more friends my last friend stole my girl is the reason im now single
bluestrapsify 2 years ago
Bro, i feel ya If you love her go after her but dot get mad
bluestrapsify 2 years ago
i broke up with my girlfriend, but shes done so much to me in the past that im basically traumatized from it and cant get over her. I tried getting back with her recently but says its all my fault that I shouldnt have broken up with her. She blames every single thing on me. So i blew up and did some shit that i regret. But maybe we can finally have some peace.
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Jackeezie 2 years ago
me and my first ever love ..gf of 6 months broke up.. she doesnt want to get back anymore..or maybe somewhere deep inside she does but she doesnt show it... i see her every saturday... its been almost a month since we broke up, but im still depressed and have mood swings and lost interest in many of my hobbies.... my heart still wants to be with her but brain says no..its unrealistic... sweet thoughts and memories come to my head i cant stop thinking about it.. ANYONE HELP?! :(
ilikeyoutub07 2 years ago
my girlfriend's controlling mom tore us apart,and i seriously want to die,i see where you're coming from though. 3 years of love down the drain, i cannot stop crying. her mom's crazy she's making her transfer colleges.
JettMane 2 years ago
dude I am in the same situation , even the same time of relationship , I even feel huge jealousy and pain to think of her with someone else , the only solution I find is to find someone else to be with
xexooo 2 years ago
yeah same here... people tell me that i can get a good looking girl or maybe even better then my ex... but i still think she is really cute and cant stand to see guys hitting on her and her smiling to them.... .. i think so too man.. its either u gota find something to distract u.. like a hobbie..something that u r really pationate about like a sport or find a new girl... but its risky.. ive been hurt already and it will take me a while to recover and want someone else again..
ilikeyoutub07 2 years ago
im just gona take care of myself now... start working out and make money.. stuff like that. .. . maybe she will be the one to chase me around in couple months or so lol
ilikeyoutub07 2 years ago
listen ilikeyoutube07, I was thinking about this cortex of pain I can't get out of it , the problem is we associate a lot of the beautiful memories and moments with our ex , and we think she was the only good thing good in our life , sometimes its because of low self steem , I saw guys break up easily with their ex because there self steem was rocket sky to the average of ego , its not good but it magicaly work, they think that their lover is the loser from the breakup not them .
xexooo 2 years ago
yeah true ... when i remember us together i only remember the good things that happen and i dont think about things i didnt like about her back when we were going out... its so wierd..
ilikeyoutub07 2 years ago
I know , try to think of 6 billions human on earth , think of your ex as one dot among 6 billion dots , how many options of connections you can make and many other experiences you can have ?
if u like add me
xexooo 2 years ago
When I called my friend, he called me a loser and said that I should have listened to him.
joleokach 2 years ago
wow you know it almost makes me happier seeing other people in the same situation as me and reading about how they are gonna move on gives me the strength to truly feel like i can. i mean i dont know anyone here, but like he said about the whole friend thing, i feel like you guys are helping me and i dont even know you. Great video, im gonna watch it every day until im over this 5*****
dmene5 2 years ago
Good Advice....
MsMickii 2 years ago
you want to stab yourself in the face..LOL
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pjmarc1 2 years ago
i was helping someone, after she said goodbye and had her closure she contacted him again and now losing her mind over it cuz he didn't reply and is ignoring her. how to undo this...
prettyspoken2007 2 years ago
thanks man! ur the shit!
my gf broke up with me for slaming the doore from her car over an argument, yeah i knoe stupid huh
lestat102786 2 years ago
i broke up with him but only in anger then of course i want things to work im trying to be happy but its hard to be away from him, i know we can make it. but Yes i need to find myself. but three weeks is a long freaken time !!!
rbloodflowers 2 years ago
everytime i see someone kiss, it makes me angry
Askelairlines747 2 years ago 23
@Askelairlines747 i feel your pain .. i feel your pain ...
MrLoverboy620 1 year ago
@Askelairlines747 EXACTLY. , hi 5!!
budahgirl9110 1 year ago
Thank you for the vid i will be trying these tips, ive just lost my girl friend of four years, we have been through so much and its like she dosent even care. i have friends to talk to but it just seems like im just taking my mind off it and when it comes back into my mind it hits me even harder, i realy don't know how im gona get through this, life just seems pointless
PrototypeAL 2 years ago 11
hey dude you will get through this trust me!
mrblondeno2 2 years ago 3
@PrototypeAL I feel you bro i was with mine for 5 years we just recently broke up...but once i actually put the whole relationship in perspective i feel it was headed this way either way you are not alone in how you feel i know what helps me is to talk about it.....feel free to send me a message man.....Peace!
exh6192 1 year ago
@PrototypeAL How have you done in this last 11 months? My ex walked out on me after 8 years and 2 children. That was 3 years ago. Yet he would phone mostly angrily, almost every night. Then he would say he couldn't get me off his mind. Then he would ignore me. Then recently he finally went with the most horrendous woman just for affection and a cheap dirty grope. Now he is asking me out again!! I am just reeling with pain and confusion. I need strong tips. Dammit I need strength, period! x
Samua3 1 year ago
@PrototypeAL happend 2 me 2-3 times its normal!
garyU6969 1 year ago
Thank you so much for this video! I'm going to try everything that you suggested on here :O)
amyovfw 2 years ago
So brilliant! You are one of the few who actually get to the point with very wise words... Thank you so much!
an9el20 2 years ago 2
amazing words dude, thank you so much! I am in that situation right know... is very painfull! but life goes on.... thank you again!!!! you are so right!!!
metamorphazised 2 years ago
wow your good !thanks
LalithaSr 2 years ago
thank you! thank you! thank you so much for this video.
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