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  • Hey Ashley, I've been watching these types of videos for over a year and most of it was about the same thing which is no contact and blaa blaa blahh..But this one video has really thought me something new and really relative to my situation. Thank you :)

  • Of course, I want to still elevate the feelings my ex has gone through or is it better to leave her alone? I at least want her feelings reconciled within herself before moving on.

  • I totally evaluated my relationship the wrong way. I was in this situation and I think you're completely right. Thanks so much Ashley. When I look back I realize that I was putting way too much pressure on the person I cared for without realizing it. I was getting so worked up over the break up but now it has become much clearer. I definitely need this break up to develop myself and look ahead. This is a good way for me to become a better person and learn to balance a relationships. Thank you!

  • ashley, my prob is that my hubby is putting a front by acting really cool in front of me and kids while messaging the girl in the background : it makes me angry. we're going to start the official counselling soon, and after that prob will go to court. i want to do the healthy myself thing but i'm really pissed that he knows we know and yet he is still texting/going out with gf.

  • Hi Ashley! I started using your ebook this weekend and I'm feeling so much more confident in the chance I may get my ex back. There are times that I am miserable without him and these videos really help me to clear my head and think properly to work on my plan. You're great. Thank you.

  • This is sooo what I needed to know. I've put my daugthers mother on so a high that she's just rubbing it all in my face.

  • my bf just broke up with me :(

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  • hmm interesting, i like the advice i always treated women too good and never got 1 EVER ! my friends who used to lie cheat and humiliate girls got LOADS HUNDREDS ahahhaah this is why, its too late for me now because im a jobless, poor, 30+, live with my mom hahaha its funny because people always told me to treat women as if they are the centre of your world, i wish id met this woman first. Though i would probably not have believed womeon wanted to be treated bad !

  • hmm well my ex is fucked up, hurt me super bad, dated sum guy who she said she loved then they broke up , kept trying to get my attention, n every time i gave ut to her shewent distant and rubbed shitin my face foranother couple weeks , she gave me a million excuses why she dumped me, she said, i didnt do n e thing its just her, then she said, blah blah im so young, thenshe went n got married two another guy, and we were together for 5 years nhava kid, n eways , shes a hoe, n i gots a new girl

  • ooooooooh kay... theres one good thing a bout the pedestal.... if you put her up there on a good pedestal with a sofa and feed her grapes..... then u get her down she will not like the standing around shes gona miss her sofa.... then she will kinda look for u to get her up there... and when she looks for u thats what u want... then u treat her nicely and slowly start showing her that u care dont get her up there right away... its a tricky move but it works.. a one time move.. ^^

  • but i like when shes in a pedestal.. she always wears skirts..... okay jk.. what if she likes the pedestal thing... like her being the only one... and if thats the reason why she let u go... because u didnt biuld that pedestal she needed/wanted?

  • @SigiFF dood the first line was good, LOL

  • wow you read my mind but can I ask you something? I told my ex that I wouldn't bother her and that I would give her the space and that when I see her again I would tell her how sorry I am and the feelings I have for her and that after that I wouldn't bother her anymore that if she wanted to move on it was fine and to have fun

    any ways I know I did right in giving her the space and not going over the top like you just explained but did I ruin it by saying that I still have feelings for her?

  • I am so guilty of this and this must have been one of the biggest factors of my breakup. Is it still possible to get her back now that I committed this mistake? How can I re-attract her if she feels I already think like this about her?

  • Thanks, I see what i did wrong now, if i've watched this before "it" happened

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  • Could you make one about long-distance relationships if possible please? Would help me greatly, thank you! :)

  • Or at least PRETEND that you're not putting them on a pedestal, and that you wouldn't do anything to get them back…I know you'd probably say I'm completely missing your point lol, but that's ok. After almost 10 years of pining after the only girl I've ever loved, I've learned a lot of things; like, girls don't like to be smothered, and are attracted to the unavailable guy. But at the same time, I could never say this and MEAN it; I would murder a billion worlds to be with her again, if I had .

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  • I can so relate to this video.

    It's been almost 2 months since my partner suggested we break up. And I still think of him as this person I can't live without. I do feel at times that I would rather die than spend the rest of my life wanting him back.

    But I'm going to start channelling all my energy into me I think. I need to start focusing on bettering myself.

    Then maybe one day in the future, he may just notice how much I've changed; and we could give it another try.

  • Thank you...very true. I just had someone break up with me and having a hard time excepting it. I think I was putting them on a high pedestal and not thinking of myself more.

  • Your a freaking genius.

  • oh just get to the point - will ya!

  • love the money making....

    anyway im only here so i can see your beautiful face and hear your beautiful voice....untill you get to a topic i want to hear then i watch your video twice. once to see and hear you, and the second to actually listen to what your saying

  • This is so true. I have done this. I still am doing this. I need to stop...lol..

    I never put myself on the other end. I thought he would feel flattered. I guess it just ultimately made him freak out. You are really wise, Ashley.

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