Single women go to hell, and take your bastard kids. I've been rejected by women, even ones that were set up by their moms cause I'm a nice guy. Only to be rejected for being "too nice" then learn she chose the "bad guy". Then when she got ditched by her "bad guy" she comes back trying to score points and sucker me into raising her brats. Even their moms who tried to set me up with them say "sorry my daughters so stupid." I tell their daughters to find another sucker.
I really don't think that people expect to be single parents and if you really want to be so mean about why dont you be a single parent, work go to school and look after a child all full time.
What do you mean "expect"? That's about as ridiculous as saying that I didn't expect to get addicted to crack if I tried it.
Pregnancy isn't magic. You know what happens if you have unprotected sex or do not follow the rules of your birth control.
Furthermore, you DON'T have kids until you are married for at least 2 years and you've VETTED the person. You procreate with persons of character and intelligence.
Single mother here, thank you so much for posting this. It was very well spoken, and I think all single parents out there are sick of getting sympathy just because of their situation. We work hard, do what we do, and we go on with our lives. We are not victims, maybe we were before we became single, but no longer. :)
Most American men are single fathers, just because the mothers are present it doesn't mean they work or clean the house, so basically men, even if they're married have to take on the tasks of single mothers every day.
Wow, great video!! This guy nails it to the roof!! Some single moms just love to have kids so they can get welfare and benefits and milk whatever they can from hardworking people using sympathy!! For real, here is an idea, get a job and provide for kids if you plan on having them!!!!!!
dude im a masculinist and I think both sexes should be equal, you should not call yourself a feminist based on your views, that carries alot of baggage. Feminist guys are usually putting women on a pedestal and very whipped/emasculated
.... that said "single mothers". What they need isn´t sympathy but better jobs, parental obligation to pay for child support, some consideration for things like taxes and utility payments, etc. How do I know this? Because I´m a single mother, and 14 other people who are not my children depend in part on my "help". I´m all for massive contraception. You know what would happen if we force people to not have children if they can´t feed them? We´d be THE BAD ONES, just ask Human Rights.
You speak of the problem as "cultural" when its financial. Extended familes are a problem for the 1 or 2 primary moneymakers who in turn provide in whole or in part for all of those family members who aren´t making enough money. Single moms just add to the burden. You have one person paying, wiring or giving money for 3 or 4 households for things like utliities, accidents, college education. The way I see it, someon drew their hand in a hat containing social problems and drew out the one that
Hi Johnny, pls note that women are always the weaker partner than man. Besides coping with work stress, they have to handle emotional, mental and physical stress eg. monthly pre menstruation syndrome, etc. In addition, they have to take care of their kids' welfare and other responsiblities eg. housework. So, I really do empathize with all single mothers and may God bless them.
You don't see a whole lot of single fathers getting time off of work to go pick their kids up from school because they don't share the same hardships as female parents. At least, that's the attitude that goes around it seems. But single mothers on the other hand, take off time at work all the time, use their former wombs as weapons basically.
I think that sometimes (not always) people make a correlation between the average income of men vs women to sexism, without ruling out the other variables. As I hope everyone realizes, men are commonly seen by society as the provider. Men HAVE to find a job to support their wife and kids simply because they are men. Can't you see how that can affect the likelihood of men earning more money, because there are more men that "have to provide" for their family because that's just what men do?
Anyone that is unwillingly forced into a terrible financial situation is a victim, man or woman, but because sexism is a real thing that still exists all over the world, and because of the nature of child-bearing in women, women are usually the ones left to care for children by themselves, and they are also more financially oppressed.
Despite your "feminist" view, the fact is that sexism DOES EXIST even if you're not sexist. Women still make less money in the workplace and aren't trusted as much, so whenever a woman gets knocked up and is left to take care of the child by herself, it's much much more of a financial burden. I don't think that a woman being single by choice is a victim (usually), but like I said, it's not single women that are victimized, it's single women coming from a certain circumstance (getting knocked up)
Reality is that for every single man out there there are like 20 single moms. Though I don't have time to research it, but i'd say that the vast majority of single dads are single dads becasue of divorce and death of partner, while women are single mothes becasue they get knocked up and the dad dosn't give a shit. The two situations are rather different, since the man is usually established with work and what not and the woman is usually young and unemployed. That's y they get sympathy.
6 mil of the entire population isn't the relevant percentage. It should be 6 mil of all mothers of dependants. That should put you somewhere around 15 to 20 percent which is nothing to sneeze at. When it comes to raisin kids, two parents doing it together will still live on the cusp of losing their minds. It isn't about women needing a man. It's about a parent needing a partner. One person doing it alone is incredibly unfortunate. Cont'd...
Like SwashYourBuckle said, it's not good for the kids, either. The only thing that makes it a gender issue is that it affects far more women than men. Don't be mistaken. A single father is AS unfortunate.
A suggestion on another note: I am a humanist. If there is a belief about feminism that isn't already well covered by calling myself a humanist, then I probably don't ascribe to it. So I just call myself a humanist. If pressed, I'll say I am a feminist in as much as I'm a humanist.
When married couples are given tax breaks and single mothers don't, then take off your hyperbolic representation and recognise they do have it worse.
The man analogy isn't a poor victim is an awful analogy and you should be able to work out why. A single person working and raising children is more work than two people.
Do you want to know why people take single mothers are a considered problem? Look at the stats concerning their children.
Empowerment is ace, I'm for it, but it's still unfair.
i was born into a very disfunctual family when i was young my father spent most of the time in jail and everything in the house was fine. when he was out, everyone wished for the days when he would go back. after the divorce we were back to happiness until my mother remarried then all her attention went to support my stepfathers alcoholic tendencies; we were completely ignored.
the best days of my childhood were when my mother was single, since her only concern was raising her children.
I agree for the most part, but please refrain to say stuff like a small percent of a country's population is insignificant. That's like saying minorities are insignificant. And that's just ignorant. I'm not giving you hate, I'm making you realize that you have to take care of what you say, because people will interpret. :-)
I Know a woman who basicly went out of her way tobe a single mom. Her independant streak gets her into trouble sometimes. Now that she is a Single mom she plays the victem card like you would not beleive. men are scum because she does it all on her own...Her employers are assholes "because they dont know what it's like" the goverment doesnt care......and apparently I'm a bitch because I told her she walked into this situation knowing full well she would be doing this on her own.
This was a fine video but I think you missed one very important point. There are many single women who CHOOSE to have children. While that's all fine, but let's please stop treating them as victims.
The current militant feminists who push the idea that we live in a patriarchal society where women are victims (in all freaking circumstance and at all times) makes people like you (and many others) to feel uncomfortable saying "I'm a feminist". And I don't blame you one bit.
The victimization of single women who chose to have kids (even when knowing they won't have "the man" to depend on) is ridiculous. We are not children. And as adults, we are caring the responsibility of our decisions.
Anyone watching MTVs 16 and pregnant. Can see that these women are victims of their own stupidity. Every time you watch that show. Just look at the tax portion of your paycheck and remember that is where some of your money is going to.
Life is hard on anyone who has to face it alone. It is harder when you are the sole responsible adult in a household.
Divorce is sometimes necessary but it is not the sign of a healthy society. In a healthy society, children grow up with their natural mothers and fathers and they have the care of an extended family that loves them.
In a healthy society, people are kind to each other and are willing to make the necessary personal sacrifices needed for the smooth running of a congenial family.
all of the single MUMS i know are single by choice.
mc803066 2 months ago
your rambling, good concept but your not staying on track......ok try though!
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Single women go to hell, and take your bastard kids. I've been rejected by women, even ones that were set up by their moms cause I'm a nice guy. Only to be rejected for being "too nice" then learn she chose the "bad guy". Then when she got ditched by her "bad guy" she comes back trying to score points and sucker me into raising her brats. Even their moms who tried to set me up with them say "sorry my daughters so stupid." I tell their daughters to find another sucker.
capnhands 3 months ago
I really don't think that people expect to be single parents and if you really want to be so mean about why dont you be a single parent, work go to school and look after a child all full time.
Then come back and do another video.
JayandKay2511 5 months ago
@JayandKay2511
What do you mean "expect"? That's about as ridiculous as saying that I didn't expect to get addicted to crack if I tried it.
Pregnancy isn't magic. You know what happens if you have unprotected sex or do not follow the rules of your birth control.
Furthermore, you DON'T have kids until you are married for at least 2 years and you've VETTED the person. You procreate with persons of character and intelligence.
RBG02005 2 months ago
many women are obnoxious annoying manipulative bitches, then when the man leaves her for that, he's a deadbeat.
plus giving government money to women and the ex husbands money to them is terrible for the economy, look at teh black community
MGsven 5 months ago
Single mother here, thank you so much for posting this. It was very well spoken, and I think all single parents out there are sick of getting sympathy just because of their situation. We work hard, do what we do, and we go on with our lives. We are not victims, maybe we were before we became single, but no longer. :)
BaileyJameson 7 months ago
Awesome video, glad to FINALLY see someone speak up about this in this particular way.
BreakerInc 8 months ago
Most American men are single fathers, just because the mothers are present it doesn't mean they work or clean the house, so basically men, even if they're married have to take on the tasks of single mothers every day.
ManofManyPasswords 9 months ago
Wow, great video!! This guy nails it to the roof!! Some single moms just love to have kids so they can get welfare and benefits and milk whatever they can from hardworking people using sympathy!! For real, here is an idea, get a job and provide for kids if you plan on having them!!!!!!
leightroiano 10 months ago
black women ARE MASTERS OF EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. BLACK MEN OR OTHER RACE MEN RUN dont date single black moms run run run.
MRbossman1982 10 months ago
Single mothers are the biggest producer of all types of criminals. How's that for a fact?
allfazeman 10 months ago
dude im a masculinist and I think both sexes should be equal, you should not call yourself a feminist based on your views, that carries alot of baggage. Feminist guys are usually putting women on a pedestal and very whipped/emasculated
chorizo1337 11 months ago
Amen. Thank you, sir.
VinnyCons 1 year ago
That's what you think douche bag ;{
Morethananoption 1 year ago
You're a fucking idiot.
scruethedemiurge 1 year ago
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M0US3P0T4TO 1 year ago
You, sir, have managed to change my view on the issue.
You, sir, rock.
amoxtlacatl 1 year ago
.... that said "single mothers". What they need isn´t sympathy but better jobs, parental obligation to pay for child support, some consideration for things like taxes and utility payments, etc. How do I know this? Because I´m a single mother, and 14 other people who are not my children depend in part on my "help". I´m all for massive contraception. You know what would happen if we force people to not have children if they can´t feed them? We´d be THE BAD ONES, just ask Human Rights.
OxOyunuen 1 year ago
why cant I post here.
OxOyunuen 1 year ago
You speak of the problem as "cultural" when its financial. Extended familes are a problem for the 1 or 2 primary moneymakers who in turn provide in whole or in part for all of those family members who aren´t making enough money. Single moms just add to the burden. You have one person paying, wiring or giving money for 3 or 4 households for things like utliities, accidents, college education. The way I see it, someon drew their hand in a hat containing social problems and drew out the one that
OxOyunuen 1 year ago
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OxOyunuen 1 year ago
Hi Johnny, pls note that women are always the weaker partner than man. Besides coping with work stress, they have to handle emotional, mental and physical stress eg. monthly pre menstruation syndrome, etc. In addition, they have to take care of their kids' welfare and other responsiblities eg. housework. So, I really do empathize with all single mothers and may God bless them.
loveagracean 1 year ago
You don't see a whole lot of single fathers getting time off of work to go pick their kids up from school because they don't share the same hardships as female parents. At least, that's the attitude that goes around it seems. But single mothers on the other hand, take off time at work all the time, use their former wombs as weapons basically.
anikinippon 1 year ago
Spot on bro, victimization is stupid and makes people weak.
anikinippon 1 year ago
Sorry to say that i dont agree with you .
cuz its really a fact that males can make more money than females>>
chenjirong 1 year ago
I think its tough being a single parent, be you man or woman. It sucks that the other person would fuck off without helping out, if even financially.
Nickodemusodurn 1 year ago
I think that sometimes (not always) people make a correlation between the average income of men vs women to sexism, without ruling out the other variables. As I hope everyone realizes, men are commonly seen by society as the provider. Men HAVE to find a job to support their wife and kids simply because they are men. Can't you see how that can affect the likelihood of men earning more money, because there are more men that "have to provide" for their family because that's just what men do?
flameroller 1 year ago
Agree with you. People generally likes to think of women as weak and defenseless and cant do anything by their own. Its stupid.
MajinVegeto89 1 year ago
it kinda IS a "qualifier" of poverty - not typically the case for single fathers.
KempsGrl 1 year ago
Anyone that is unwillingly forced into a terrible financial situation is a victim, man or woman, but because sexism is a real thing that still exists all over the world, and because of the nature of child-bearing in women, women are usually the ones left to care for children by themselves, and they are also more financially oppressed.
ONeilOrchestration 1 year ago
Despite your "feminist" view, the fact is that sexism DOES EXIST even if you're not sexist. Women still make less money in the workplace and aren't trusted as much, so whenever a woman gets knocked up and is left to take care of the child by herself, it's much much more of a financial burden. I don't think that a woman being single by choice is a victim (usually), but like I said, it's not single women that are victimized, it's single women coming from a certain circumstance (getting knocked up)
ONeilOrchestration 1 year ago
Reality is that for every single man out there there are like 20 single moms. Though I don't have time to research it, but i'd say that the vast majority of single dads are single dads becasue of divorce and death of partner, while women are single mothes becasue they get knocked up and the dad dosn't give a shit. The two situations are rather different, since the man is usually established with work and what not and the woman is usually young and unemployed. That's y they get sympathy.
OriginalBeast 1 year ago
6 mil of the entire population isn't the relevant percentage. It should be 6 mil of all mothers of dependants. That should put you somewhere around 15 to 20 percent which is nothing to sneeze at. When it comes to raisin kids, two parents doing it together will still live on the cusp of losing their minds. It isn't about women needing a man. It's about a parent needing a partner. One person doing it alone is incredibly unfortunate. Cont'd...
YodanboogerLives 1 year ago
Like SwashYourBuckle said, it's not good for the kids, either. The only thing that makes it a gender issue is that it affects far more women than men. Don't be mistaken. A single father is AS unfortunate.
A suggestion on another note: I am a humanist. If there is a belief about feminism that isn't already well covered by calling myself a humanist, then I probably don't ascribe to it. So I just call myself a humanist. If pressed, I'll say I am a feminist in as much as I'm a humanist.
YodanboogerLives 1 year ago
Single moms are the easiest MILFs out there :-) ... Don't tell my fiancee.
I like the term "equalist" i'll adopt it and spread it around.
Joniversity 1 year ago
Well said bro...well said.
Coldsteel121 1 year ago
great video, equalist, or equal rights activist or something is definitely a better term than this ridiculous one sided feminist nonsense.
HugNow 1 year ago
When married couples are given tax breaks and single mothers don't, then take off your hyperbolic representation and recognise they do have it worse.
The man analogy isn't a poor victim is an awful analogy and you should be able to work out why. A single person working and raising children is more work than two people.
Do you want to know why people take single mothers are a considered problem? Look at the stats concerning their children.
Empowerment is ace, I'm for it, but it's still unfair.
SwashYourBuckle 1 year ago
i was born into a very disfunctual family when i was young my father spent most of the time in jail and everything in the house was fine. when he was out, everyone wished for the days when he would go back. after the divorce we were back to happiness until my mother remarried then all her attention went to support my stepfathers alcoholic tendencies; we were completely ignored.
the best days of my childhood were when my mother was single, since her only concern was raising her children.
xXDeadHorseXx 1 year ago
I agree for the most part, but please refrain to say stuff like a small percent of a country's population is insignificant. That's like saying minorities are insignificant. And that's just ignorant. I'm not giving you hate, I'm making you realize that you have to take care of what you say, because people will interpret. :-)
Be cool.
OkNowImWatching 1 year ago
I Know a woman who basicly went out of her way tobe a single mom. Her independant streak gets her into trouble sometimes. Now that she is a Single mom she plays the victem card like you would not beleive. men are scum because she does it all on her own...Her employers are assholes "because they dont know what it's like" the goverment doesnt care......and apparently I'm a bitch because I told her she walked into this situation knowing full well she would be doing this on her own.
Stacyont07 1 year ago
This was a fine video but I think you missed one very important point. There are many single women who CHOOSE to have children. While that's all fine, but let's please stop treating them as victims.
memonk11 1 year ago
you hit the nail on the head! I totally agree with you. I'm happier with out my baby's daddy, I AM NOT A VICTIM. I'm only a victim with him!
raindrop0005 1 year ago
i live with my dad he doesnt try to be a victim looking after 3 people, and my mom gets no shit for leaving us, and society doesnt care
lloyds30 1 year ago
The current militant feminists who push the idea that we live in a patriarchal society where women are victims (in all freaking circumstance and at all times) makes people like you (and many others) to feel uncomfortable saying "I'm a feminist". And I don't blame you one bit.
The victimization of single women who chose to have kids (even when knowing they won't have "the man" to depend on) is ridiculous. We are not children. And as adults, we are caring the responsibility of our decisions.
ZOMGitsCriss 1 year ago
@ZOMGitsCriss I agree. To label them as victims only belittles our sex as a whole.
simonemcfee 1 year ago
@ZOMGitsCriss Yes, exactly. I prefer the term Equal Rights and Humanitarian or something less one sided with "female" embedded into it.
HugNow 1 year ago
agree 100
IceysMoment 1 year ago
Anyone watching MTVs 16 and pregnant. Can see that these women are victims of their own stupidity. Every time you watch that show. Just look at the tax portion of your paycheck and remember that is where some of your money is going to.
statecensor 1 year ago
@statecensor
I know. It pisses me off.
NaomiChambers 1 year ago
Life is hard on anyone who has to face it alone. It is harder when you are the sole responsible adult in a household.
Divorce is sometimes necessary but it is not the sign of a healthy society. In a healthy society, children grow up with their natural mothers and fathers and they have the care of an extended family that loves them.
In a healthy society, people are kind to each other and are willing to make the necessary personal sacrifices needed for the smooth running of a congenial family.
SSanf 1 year ago
Would consider myself a feminist too, I'm all for equality across all fields
dugges 1 year ago