I was tested late last summer and they just told me my results, they didn't give me any papers..... is that unusual? It was neg. thankfully and I think I'd like another test soon, but normally do they give you papers or what? I was tested in Canada also, does that make a difference? I'm only going to get another test because I think maybe I should do it once or twice a year, not because im worried about having anything
@hitcan79 No its not unusual to not get any papers showing your results but from what I understand you can request to get papers showing your results.
yeah, you cant trust a man, you got to almost hold their hand into the doc's office to get the true answer, b/c some of them will do anything to have sex
@NBeasl095 Yup! But I mean... couldn't he have just told the truth and used a condom? I mean... I'm sure raw-dogging is what got him in this position in the first place.
@ebonycutie84 that's my point, he could, but chooses not to because he is morally deficient. he just has sex and finding a way to please himself at the expense of someone else. he doesn't appreciate life obviously, to be in that predicament, and if he really didn't care for his own safety by protecting himself from other STDs, he couldn't possibly care for her. excuse: not using a condom feels better so my conclusion is, they prefer better sex over the safety of the women of this world.
thats why you have to go get tested with your partner I dont care if im paranoid you get tested with the person and you show each others test results at the doctor office!
You can't assume anything, Women you can't think with your heart, you have to think with your head. Black women have the highest infection rate for newly diagnosed cases of HIV. We have got to protect ourselves and use wisdom. Sex is good, but it is not worth risking my health. You have to remember there are othe STDs out there also. Please be more careful people.
@Greencloud8 Hi, I didn't do my Psych degree online I went to Carleton U. That sounds like a great paper! I was just talking about the same topic the other day with a few of my friends.
A condom would have alleviated all of this. Like someone said, I dont feel 100% sympathy. If you dont have respect and care for your body then who will?
@lindsey2021 I agree with you to a certain extent. We need to remember that condoms are not 100% effective. There's a possibility that they could have used condoms and she fell in the small percentage where HIV was passed on. My issue is the lies. Everyone's getting on the girls case when the man blatantly lied about his status. That's foul.
it's kind of hard for me to feel completely sorry for the woman because it's up to you to protect yourself. I've had friends that would leave it up to the man on rather or not they used a condom and that's just retarded. If you wants to have unprotected sex with someone at least be smart enough to go with the person to the clinic and get tested together and know for a fact that the results are real.
People didn't really wait until marriage in the olden days either. They probably did more than ppl wait now, but the major difference is that there's less of a stigma.
In keeping with what Kimmaytube said, I don't agree that she did her "due diligence". A series of HIV tests is more effective - we don't know how many ppl he's been with since the test was administered or since they've been together. She should have used a condom. But of course I still feel bad for her.
However, I disagree about abstinence. Waiting until marriage isn't stopping the spread of HIV. Marriage doesn't make u immune to the disease, folks are still getting it.
Unless celibate people are going to refrain from sex their entire lives, eventually HIV is still going to be an issue.
Here's how I see it. We're all responsible for our health. U have to respect yourself & your partner must RESPECT him/herself & you in order to prevent HIV.
This is delusional, HIV is a benign gene that in no way is transferred through sexual contact.
The Western Blot and the Eliza test, test for antibodies only, not the actual virus itself. Antibodies are evidence of the immune systems' recovery from dis-ease.
Stop reacting to propaganda shown on TV, and begin to do your own research! HIV is meant to scare victims into taking AZT drugs which is actually the true cause of Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome.
Just goes to show to what lengths nasty, disgusting, filthy, trashy people will go in order to satisfy them selves getting what they want. They'll fuck up some ones life in the selfish persuit of self gratification.
I was tested late last summer and they just told me my results, they didn't give me any papers..... is that unusual? It was neg. thankfully and I think I'd like another test soon, but normally do they give you papers or what? I was tested in Canada also, does that make a difference? I'm only going to get another test because I think maybe I should do it once or twice a year, not because im worried about having anything
hitcan79 8 months ago
@hitcan79 No its not unusual to not get any papers showing your results but from what I understand you can request to get papers showing your results.
ebonycutie84 8 months ago
yeah, you cant trust a man, you got to almost hold their hand into the doc's office to get the true answer, b/c some of them will do anything to have sex
NBeasl095 9 months ago
@NBeasl095 Yup! But I mean... couldn't he have just told the truth and used a condom? I mean... I'm sure raw-dogging is what got him in this position in the first place.
ebonycutie84 9 months ago
@ebonycutie84 that's my point, he could, but chooses not to because he is morally deficient. he just has sex and finding a way to please himself at the expense of someone else. he doesn't appreciate life obviously, to be in that predicament, and if he really didn't care for his own safety by protecting himself from other STDs, he couldn't possibly care for her. excuse: not using a condom feels better so my conclusion is, they prefer better sex over the safety of the women of this world.
NBeasl095 9 months ago
The real question is what is the urgency of having unprotected sex? Especially between two unwed people?
motelcalifornia 11 months ago
That sucks what that horrible person did
AnnisaAyana 1 year ago
anybody who purposely spreads hiv should be shot
david121170 1 year ago
thats why you have to go get tested with your partner I dont care if im paranoid you get tested with the person and you show each others test results at the doctor office!
tine864 1 year ago
Key Words: Wisdom, Self-Control, Self-Love
You can't assume anything, Women you can't think with your heart, you have to think with your head. Black women have the highest infection rate for newly diagnosed cases of HIV. We have got to protect ourselves and use wisdom. Sex is good, but it is not worth risking my health. You have to remember there are othe STDs out there also. Please be more careful people.
sherrosgirl 1 year ago
I wrote a paper in my online psychology class about making "sex ed in school and how to present it you do online psychology?
Greencloud8 1 year ago
@Greencloud8 Hi, I didn't do my Psych degree online I went to Carleton U. That sounds like a great paper! I was just talking about the same topic the other day with a few of my friends.
ebonycutie84 1 year ago
A condom would have alleviated all of this. Like someone said, I dont feel 100% sympathy. If you dont have respect and care for your body then who will?
lindsey2021 2 years ago 2
@lindsey2021 I agree with you to a certain extent. We need to remember that condoms are not 100% effective. There's a possibility that they could have used condoms and she fell in the small percentage where HIV was passed on. My issue is the lies. Everyone's getting on the girls case when the man blatantly lied about his status. That's foul.
ebonycutie84 2 years ago
wooow thats so sad.....makes me rethink things in life and how i should so them
MxdNativeBeauty 2 years ago
it's kind of hard for me to feel completely sorry for the woman because it's up to you to protect yourself. I've had friends that would leave it up to the man on rather or not they used a condom and that's just retarded. If you wants to have unprotected sex with someone at least be smart enough to go with the person to the clinic and get tested together and know for a fact that the results are real.
SEXYNDA07 2 years ago
People didn't really wait until marriage in the olden days either. They probably did more than ppl wait now, but the major difference is that there's less of a stigma.
In keeping with what Kimmaytube said, I don't agree that she did her "due diligence". A series of HIV tests is more effective - we don't know how many ppl he's been with since the test was administered or since they've been together. She should have used a condom. But of course I still feel bad for her.
Brynne87 2 years ago
Also, I'm disgusted by the fake HIV test. I agree with u , the woman probably gave HIV more thought than most do.
However, she made the mistake by choosing to have unprotected sex with him. He didn't rape her. She took his word for it. THAT was a huge mistake.
Also, I believe couples should go on "testing dates" & get tested more than once w/results given together. At least then, risk can be minimized.
I believe HIV tests should be mandatory for everyone. To help remove the stigma.
kimmaytube 2 years ago 4
I appreciate your opinion & mostly agree.
However, I disagree about abstinence. Waiting until marriage isn't stopping the spread of HIV. Marriage doesn't make u immune to the disease, folks are still getting it.
Unless celibate people are going to refrain from sex their entire lives, eventually HIV is still going to be an issue.
Here's how I see it. We're all responsible for our health. U have to respect yourself & your partner must RESPECT him/herself & you in order to prevent HIV.
kimmaytube 2 years ago
u are so right man people always bash people with hiv and stds
blackdurga87 2 years ago
This is delusional, HIV is a benign gene that in no way is transferred through sexual contact.
The Western Blot and the Eliza test, test for antibodies only, not the actual virus itself. Antibodies are evidence of the immune systems' recovery from dis-ease.
Stop reacting to propaganda shown on TV, and begin to do your own research! HIV is meant to scare victims into taking AZT drugs which is actually the true cause of Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome.
raisismith 2 years ago
Good work! Did you 1 out of every 4 teenage girls has a STD!!!
NaibunCreative 3 years ago
Just goes to show to what lengths nasty, disgusting, filthy, trashy people will go in order to satisfy them selves getting what they want. They'll fuck up some ones life in the selfish persuit of self gratification.
carbin16 3 years ago
People really can't be trusted these days. Protect yourself!
CASHIEM2009 3 years ago
Urges LOL
shameoncanada 3 years ago