Locks are NASTY !!! DISGUSTING !!! And just so VILE... Ladies leave your hair NATURAL, clean and healthy. You would CERTAINLY attract more men with the natural hair. What does she expect from a group of dumb-ass-niggas rolling DICE on a corner. Take those dreads out your head girl, PLEASE !!!
I swear if more sisters looked natural and beautiful as you do, I wouldn't have a white girl this very moment. In Richmond Va I don't think you can vote, get a drivers license, or have a bank account without wearing a weave. The sistas here are making the non hood dude here look at women from different races. Its like why be with someone who has to try that hard to look pretty, when they are covering up the things that make them pretty?
MORE TRUTH!!! AND IT IS JUST THAT WE AS A NUBIAN RACE NEED TO START FIRST LEARNING WHO WE REALLY ARE AND START LUVING WHO WE ARE. KEEP UP THE TRUTH MY SIS-STAR.
Yes, i agree some BW have weaves etc because they are influenced by a few BM who prefer eurocentric hair. However, many BW do it out of freewill; nobody puts a gun to their head.
If one has knowledge of "self", and understands that whomever created us didn't make a mistake; then nothing on planet Earth could make you change anything that you were naturally born with.
Our skin and hair are like spacesuits to protect us from the Sun. Our skin and hair are that way for a reason.
Your hair is so pretty and it is even. LOL! My mothers dreads are crimpy because she wet it and braided it. She gave it a read rinse which looks very pretty..Do you cut them or you going to continue to let it grow?
I'm a Hispanic male and I can just say this. You ain't getting play if you look like Whoopi Goldberg. Like in the movie with Adam Sandler, "You Don't Mess With The Zohan". Sandler's character sees a wig with dreads and jumps on it because he thinks it's a living creature trying to attack him. Christ Rock talked about good hair for a reason.
Hay baby woman I LOVE you just the way you are, you blow my mind! All this is you question is for the same reason why woman do the same for guys that have money and flashy things...
Every1 is has "MONKEY VISION"® and cant get past what they see 2 feet in front of themselves.
You didnt look any better Im sorry. The weave thing made you look easy-er not bett-er (easier not better babes...) If you look like a ho you will get the ho responce from most men black and white. And which one of your videos show that booty you talking about?
I will say that I know for a fact if I did not have a relaxer and have hair past my shoulders, I highly doubt I would attract as much attention without it. I've met guys of all races, and black men (NOT ALL) have been the only one to bring up hair length and my skin color as why they like me. Of course when I find this out, I keep it moving along. But this type of thinking goes both ways, as I've heard black women brag about having a light skinned mate with curly hair.
@corcovadoquelindo btw, i will not be responding to any comments telling me that I hate myself b/c I have a relaxer. Its my personal choice, and all the white girls I know, except one, dye their hair blonde, and one has gotten plastic surgery. So If I hate myself then I guess most American women do. I think it becomes an issue when you are damaging your body or your hair. If you are healthy, then do you. If you hair is breaking off, your hairline receding, & u still do it then u got issues...
I like the point you make, but hate how you conduct the video with the little sound-effects. Nice point though, I honestly find natural hair on the woman more attractive regardless of the race. I don't have a superficial attraction to exotic women outside of my own race. I'll date any woman who appeals to me regardless of religion, color, or creed. I believe it's a little bit silly to try to turn a woman from her natural beauty. It's honestly a bit sickening, but what can ya' do, right?
I think many women just want longer hair and really don't know how to grow and so hey let's get a weave I think many say. But I'd prefer to wear a weave if I'm doing any sort of modeling or anything that requires some strange person to style my hair. But the point I guess the guys I know truly appreciate natural hair and prefer it over a few tracks, but Idk I don't have those experiences I guess maybe my input was pointless I don't know..
I'd say that was a terrible experience but I don't know I am a lighter tone than you but I must say with or without weave nothing ever changes. At least the people I'm around see me the same. I feel black women should just focus on what makes them happy and who ever appreciates that is who you should chose to acknowledge and put in your life.
I did a study back in 06 on myspace,and the same thing happen to me.No views for my natural hair but the microbraids gave me 1000's of views!Now , i don't care!Shallow men and women only care about hair!Sadly but true ,there are bigger fish to fry,like these children killing each other and how to end it!Secondly, I'm more upset that we don't control that billion dollar hair industry as we once did.But my gripe is not hair but who profits off it!Personally , I let it all go.I wear my natural hair
So many judgmental people think that because some Black women wear weaves, they're self-loathers. Although that can be possible, most of the time that's not the case. I know plenty of Black women (myself included) who like to switch up their style. One week I'll wear my hair natural, then maybe next week i'll put in a weave. It depends on how I feel. Nowadays more BW are wearing their natural hair, and there's nothing wrong with that, as well as wearing weaves. It's all a matter of taste.
Natural hair is beautiful. I find that A BW wearing an asians or caucasians hair is unnatural. I do not see them wearing kinky hair. We have something unique and we all should be proud of it. SIS Please do not take the reactions of BM who roll dice all day long to heart. peace
lol you telling the truth.... men look at me like a monster when I have my fro out ....but when I put in my remy weave they come up with stupid stuff to say jus to talk to me ! its crazy!!!!!! lol
@AirForceGirl05 Do you really believe that the majority of black men in america are street corner brothers? If you do than you are much dumber than i had originally thought.
I hear you Sis! U can think the "hey mama, hey shorty, dammn u look good& hey sexy" makes u feel special. BUT when u are naturally u &proud We hear, "OMG u are soo beautiful!, Hey Sis!, & Stay just the way you are" b/c we stand 4something just in our essence. I used to think weave made me prettier but once I woke up &really became proud of being An African Woman I realized that shined thru! I got / continue to get way more respect from brothas on a daily basis. & I agree w/ @dianesehoward
If blacks in brazil were like blacks in haiti. Brazil wud have been all black, and all black fast! There were tons ad tons of blacks populated in brazil.
No lie i have seen a document on brazil, and shockingly there is a high number of natural black women. And african brazilian women (not includin mulatas) are beautiful individuals. But they can sometimes be fooled by their eurocentric individuals.
I CAN NOT STAND SEEING A BLACK FEMALE WEARING SOME FAKE DEAD RAT ON HER BALD HEAD !!! I RATHER SEE A BLACK CHICK THAT CAN'T GROW HAIR WEAR A SHORT CUT !!! TO ME I RATHER GET ME A LATINA OR ASIAN OR CHICK THAT HAVE REAL HAIR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELL IN THE LONG RUN SHE WILL SAVE TIME AND MONEY !!! HELL FAKE BALD HEADED BLACK CHICK WHY WOULD I WANT THAT SHIT
When I wear a wig, people lose their minds at how nice I look. That I don't even look like the same person. They had to take a double take to make sure it was me. I find this more than disappointing. I like what God gave me. But as a natural, I'm imvissable. So then I go through the head trip of "well maybe if I had more length. Everyone's obsessed with length. Then I think screw them all.
You're topic should've been "Because weave attracts the WRONG type of men"..Once you left the salon and seen the reaction of these brothas, you should've ran back in the salon and had them take it out!..Sistahs pay over 10 billion dollars a year for fake hair. Thats a damn shame!
@ootonylongoo1231 I don't think that a man is the wrong type just because he dates a woman with weave. Not all men are into hair. Some men care more about your face, or your body, or your personality. But I do agree with you on the money part. Everytime I go into the beauty supply store, I'm the only black woman not buying weave. In class, I'm usually the only black woman without a weave. Some girls I know I've never seen their real hair.
Imagine this: if all Black women had the hair texture of Europeans. We'd be 2 much! We would surpass everyone & every race! We have the best bodies, strong, intelligent. You ever seen any non-BW w/ a bald head? Looks ridiculous right? But BW rock it. Same w/ BM- ran easily rock a bald head. WM- not so much. Its called leveling the playing field. We have all these other strong, powerful, beautiful traits. We just look better with our hair. Like a black person with blue eyes. Wouldn't look right.
@Thecraziestuser Well even more relevant and to the point of my original post- shave the hair off every woman in the world of all nationalities and who are the only ones that could actually rock a bald head?? You EVER seen any other women other than Black women rock a bald head?? Nope! Cause Our hair doesn't make us- it compliments us. Its a fashion statement to me. Also- I didn't say it was "good" hair. Black hair is strong and curly- it can go curly or straight.
@AtlantaITGirl - I'm not impressed with a bald head look at all on anyone. Sinead O'Connor went with it. Name one girl who looks great bald. I've never seen one, I said good hair referring to the Chris Rock movie. It's not my expression. Black people invented it.
Girl, you so for real putting your video on my FB.....i'm a white girl that does weave...growing my hair out. no one notices me until I get weave...know its like damn, hey shorty...you can ride in my car! whats up! its crazy. you can check my pic out...that is a weave, but girl went Rihanna red this time and men are tripping...so stupid, men!
this is so true..on 1 hand you diss weave but yr tongues hang out when you see black woman with straight long hair..bunch of hypcrites. i am natural cos iam self assured and dont need that adoration from those type of black men, my black husband appreciates and loves the TRUE beauty in me.
if a guy is attracted by your hair doesn*t tell much about his personality... especially some guys in the street rolling dices for 5 hours straight... i would want them to look at me at all!
@Tazaiyar1 Niggas still believing these cavemen lies,people who think that are still in the slave mindset,african aint even a nationality,neither is african american,but niggas still to stupid to see that,they think all black skinned people are the same.
i don't think men mind weaves as long as she doesn't wear it constantly and spends soo much money on it and can stick with her natural hair for once. Me personally i don't wear weves and i don't even like make up. every now and then i may wear some make up.
I believe it is in our human nature to want similarity or to be jealous of someone and not in a mean way. I am a European American with stick straight honey blonde hair. I understand somewhat because in my community blonde haired white girls were a dime a dozen. I always wanted to have African hair. I think it's beautiful and you can style it. I can't style my hair it falls even with spray. I think African women and all women should embrace their natural beauty. I have a hard time doing i
AFRICANS CAME HERE WITH LONG HAIR. SLAVE MASTERS CUT THEIR HAIR
OUR ENEMY IS OURSELVES. STUDY THE HISTORY MANY BLACK FOLK DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE BLACK PLANTATION OWNERS WHO OWNED SLAVES. ANGER AND DELUSION KEEPS ALL PEOPLE FROM LEARNING THE TRUTH.
Well non- black women with so called good hair is wearing weaves now. So black men and their ignorance on what beauty is might just get a hand full of weave with his non- black woman. So what does it matter they gonna get a weave with or with out a black woman. More Black women are educated than black men, Black women make more money than black men. So if black men want to stay down leave 'em there. When they learn respect 4 black women is when I will give 'em a chance. Study the history here
Honestly as a man it does not matter to me how long a females hair is. That thought process is stupid as hell. Thats for the lame ass dudes who think they will get a "Beyonce Type'...But guess what guys: YOU NEVER WILL. Please continue chasing your "dreams" and all the other beautiful black women can be left up to me and me alone.....
You're really young, but back in the 70s a black man wouldn't be caught dead with a woman unless she had a fro or wore afro puff poneytails. I was really young then, but I remember the love and ethnic pride from those days.
Whether nappy or straight: Long Hair=Femininity & Short Hair=Masculinity. A lot of guys just think that we women who have long hair are sexier and more attractive than short haired women . Black women are already viewed as being too strong/masculine, so anything that the Black female can do to achieve a more feminine look is great.
There's a difference between being natural and getting your hair done. You described that you hair wasn't done when you first walked by. It had nothing to do with your natural texture. I've seen tons of black men fall over black women with their natural texture when their hair is styled. It had nothing to do with your weave/caucasian hair texture. Now, just image the girls with tore-up weaves walking passed them, they probably got ignored, too. Styled hair turn heads. Jacked up hair, don't.
I agree. i remember when I started 6th form I wore my hair in puffs when I started and no-one made a big deal but then I got single braids and everyone went on about how much they loved my hair. However, when I started my job I wore single braids and no-one paid attention then I took them out and everyone went on about how much they loved my hair! People always make a big deal when you change your style and it's noticeable; whatever it is. It's not always hate on natural hair.
Boy I remember a time if a woman wore a weave she was corny, all of a sudden it just change when Janet Jackson wore hers, it was crazy. I hate weaves. give me a sista with the locs, afro, braids, even cut low as long as it's neat we good, I HATE MAKEUP! African descent women spend a billion dollars a year on that crap!
weave attract men cuz they dont like the natural look, sooo i believe that goes back to black men dating white women, long flowing hair that can be maintained and pulled. but in all its too each his own liking
Plus Black women have to stop blaming Black men for liking these nasty weaves. It was the Black woman that wanted to have hair like the white woman in the first place. If you would've just been happy with the natural hair God gave you , you wouldn't be in this position where African American males now shun the natural look. Black women in America were rocking the afro in the 60's and 70's so what changed?
@SewenamiAhosu Your an African American pretending to be White. Sorry but in Africa we don't say "nigger". That's for you slave children. You've followed me to 3 or 4 videos now. I feel for you, your obviously mentally unhinged.
@SoulfulLova im sorry but i have to disagree. again personally speakin i know SOO many AA women that want to be natural and embrace themselves but once they take out that weave the fellas say time for a perm boo or you need to do somethin with that. im natural and i love it but i get soo much flack from men and women of my own race
It happens with longer locs as well. When my locs grew long I got more attention from black men (as well as men of other ethnicities) verus when my locs were shorter or is worn in a bun. Hair in a bun I get: "beautiful", loose locs I get: "sexy". All this to say I don't let other people influence how I wear my hair. As you get older you learn to get better at silencing other people's opinion.
"We have BOTH" been bamboozled" ABSOLUTELY! Nobody knows the before an after effect/perspective like a sistah who's gone to the salon. I have hear black men's accusations about black women getting weaves to attract non black men but I know they're worn primarily to attract black men. I think we ALL, black men and black women alike have to admit that we do carry some forms of self hate around rather than just accuse our counterparts of it. We've all "inherited" some of the bull over generations
That weave shit is for suckas', any babe wearin' a weave is pretty much a sucka' in my eyes and many brothas now are saying that too. I love going to Brasil, Bahia/Salvador where you see the natural type black woman with natural type hair. The videos of black women in the USA are getting down there with all of these weave bitches prancin' around and i hate that shit. The black woman in the USA is basically self loathing deep down inside, that is why they love that weave booleshyyt! VIVA BRASIL!!
What makes me laugh is that she wants to call the brothers out, but she was the one that went and put the weave or extensions in her own hair???..(Double standard to me)
Sis, you are so right about what you have said. I am from the tropics my skin is melanated-a couple of shades lighter than yours, but to me there is nothing more sexier than a sis with her natural hair specially a fro. Hmmmm Jmmmm!!! The original woman is not just hot, she is so super hot!!! White girls got nothing on you ladies-they imitate what you do and who you are. Let's wake the rest of the melanine around the planet!!! Europe's tricks are done!!!
i think going natural is the best its healthier as opposed to perms and relaxers that damage your severely or wear human hair or weaves i think women should their natural hair texture. <3
This video is heroic, telling it like it really is. You changed only 1 thing about yourself, and you suddenly became much more attractive. Only 1 conclusion follows from that.
Chris Rock did a documentary, "Hair," and how expensive weaves are. He revealed it as a huge social problem among blacks. But, he focused blame on black women! As if women are delusional and can be more attractive to men if they only stuck to their natural look. Your own experience reveals that the problem is men.
part2 lust after the women with weaves...and these aren't just the brothers on the block.,...I know many corporate men who also appreciate the beauty that weaves may acheive...just my 2 cents though~
I totally agree with you sister that if weaves or that european/exotic look didn't apeal to men that many women wouldn't wear and invest so much time and money putting extensions in the head. I actually wear weaves often dispite having my own long natural hair....WHY? because besides it being less time consuming i notice much attention is given to me than without it. now something else I'd like to point out is even the men who claim to like real hair (kinky/ or permed)
Sorry, no. Pussy attracts men, not weaves. And the only men weaves attract are the same type of men black women bitch and complain about. As evident in your own personal experience. What corporate or hard working black man would be hanging out on a corner, rolling dice? Answer: NONE! Nice try chick. Do you notice that black women like to go for the light eyes straight haired brothers? You don't see us putting in contacts and perms and weaves. LOL
Ok IsisPaperz I got a question for you. Say you notice that some woman who got breast implants now suddenly gets more male attention. Ok so you gonna go get some implants too?!? Booty implants? Other types of plastic surgery? Where does it stop? Why don't you get that you simply caught the eye of men who liked the features you adopted? THESE MEN DO NOT REPRESENT ALL BROTHAS. Yet you think you must conform to the ignorant/unconscious. That is dangerous!
IsisPaperz aka blaqueindigo? Listen to the voice watch her hand movement and facial actions. Both make reference of NY and FL bad video quality has a lot of people thinking they are not the same person. She's had about 5+ youtube acounts like XiwontstopX but most have be closed in the last few days. If this one gets closed you will see the truth! She just another black feminist nothing more or less. watch?v=2EkHBBnenSo
Weave don't attract me. When I see a black girl with a weave its disgusting I just see them as self hating women. Weaves only attract self hating men.
@kahanyah oh that's just double-talk. why the unhealthy, baseless generalizations? every person does what they do for individual reasons. insecurity is not more or less prevalent in females than males; everyone has their own reasons to cry to sleep some nights and spring out of bed some mornings. you speak as if being a black person means you're automatically doomed to have issues about your hair.
The dice-rolling corner dwellers saw 'hooker hair'; flashy and attention grabbing on you of course because it so differed from your natural look. I don't think those fellas saw you as more valuable at all; I think they saw you as cheap and easy; and responded accordingly.
And have you considered moving? I personally have attracted more interest and positive feedback from all kinds of men with my faded natural than I ever did with a perm (though I may owe it all to my awesome hairdresser)!
i remember when iFirst went natural and cut my hair , the boys were passin me right up and then one day i get a sew-in because im not used having short hair so i decided to wear weaves until my hair gets to my chin ... lady i got this curly romance curl weave and dey did the same , iRealized the same thing , yu do get ignored.!!
@joyce365 I say to you and Isis; maybe you ought to move! Where I come from, I've never received so many stares, grins and compliments as when i decided to shave my head.
Perhaps the issue for you ladies is more environmental or social than racial?
I've had natural hair for the 40+ years of my life - dreadlocks for the past 26 years. Black men have been brainwashed to see european hair as better. However, change is a comin'. I think men are getting fed up of the weave, and want some natural hair for difference sake. not all men obviously - big generalisation, but increasingly, over the years, more men will comment and compliment my hair - especially when i am with a sister with weave.
to continue on my point. I live in the county just above your's Ma'at. It seems like the weave/ lacefront capital of the world. i go to walmart sometimes and just stand in line and count how many black women have natural hair, or at least even just well taken care of relaxed hair, and it is less and less. Most of these women wear such horrible, shiny, weaves with the tracks showing, or all the way down their back, or these hideous lacefronts that look like they got them from a gas station.
@IsisPaperz glad you can understand where im coming from i hope you didn't think im just on here blaming black women. I think many BW underestimate how much influence you all have on us and our behavior. not saying we are mindless zombies, but the power of female persuasion is very strong, and BW have the most power. BTW you are gorgeous,are you still doing the BTR show,
i usually agree with Ma'at's point of view but, not here. BM men are only going to be attracted to women they have access to.I want a Ma'at/Blaqueindigo type, in reality im going to end up with a BW in my area, or work enviorment. BM wouldn't be attracted to this fake stuff if they weren't surrounded by it since puberty. i hate weave, but realisticly its getting harder and harder to find a NATURAL, CONCIOUS SISTER. so most BM just put up with the weave, because it all over the place.
@incogneater this message doesn't apply to u then. but try not to become defensive when we talk about the MAJORITY. of course i know that not allllllll blk men are zombies. but would u argue that most are not? i don't think you would.
so the moral to this story if you want to attract dice throwing car hollering thugs then wear a european weave.ladies if you want to know what good black men prefer just ask him. black woman your beauty is unique to only YOU take advantage of your difference and you will attract the kind of man that apreciates YOU
@reddbrotha7 There arent any negative stereotypes or connotations attached to being white.
cos of slavery, genetics Blackness is synonymous with strength,&strength is synonimous with masculinity
so people associate blackness/africaness with masculinity which is all good if ur a dk skin BM if ur a woman or a light skin BM it becomes problematic...bt more so for BW
Women in the western world MUST posess femininity, if blackness is synonimous with masculinity/stength BW are fucked hence this vid
Excellent. This video adds emphasis to the fact that we've all been acculturated and programmed with white supremacy & Eurocentrism, and how important it is for all of us - Black, white, Latino, Asian, Native, etc. - to deprogram ourselves from it, because it's a poisonous lie. We all must become AWARE. Keep promoting consciousness & awareness, my sister!
True, I've seen it! Just like how a lot of women from other enthicities get boob jobs. They don't have it so they buy it because it gets them the attention they want.
People reject what they don't understand. Thus, most non-black guys and many black guys don't understand what curly/kinky hair is really like. And since not all black women's hair is curly/kinky, many black women really don't understand what curly/kinky hair is like.
I'm white and when my black wife walked through the door with short curly hair for the first time that I knew her, I was like "WTF!" But shortly, I got to know it and everything is cool now.
It appears that you did not prepare for this video. It appears that you just clicked record and start talking.
Just think about what you want people to hear, jot some notes down, and then press record. Instead of seven minutes of some poorly told story, you'll get your points across much better in much less time.
Go to your "My Videos", click Insight *for this video*, then look at the Hot Spot for this video. I bet people drop off after a minute or two.
@TheGoalSetter i disagree i just think you cannot relate to the fucked up ness of this topic. I love this vid, Isis is an excellent story teller sooo funny...she brings humour to a topic that has made many BW feel sooo upset.
@Applebaum I went bald...and society, to a large extent, deems baldness wrong (unhealthy, unattractive, etc.)...especially on white men.
And you won't see me buckle under peer pressure and buy a toupe, do comb overs, etc. When people started ridiculing me, I just whipped up some confident retorts.
Further, I strengthened my emotional and linguistic abilities so that no one dares get out of line with me...with anything.
Cowards die a thousand deaths...hair weaves is usually one of them.
Mr, Our whole entire existance is a confident retort babe.
weve had to make confident retorts all our lives.
Black women have to deal with soooo much extra shit that you would never ever comprehend.
the bald thing, whereas it might be personally traumatic for white men to lose their hair. some people shave their hair bald it can be a fashion statement its not really comparable WM arent viewed as ugly or feminine because of a bald head
Locks are NASTY !!! DISGUSTING !!! And just so VILE... Ladies leave your hair NATURAL, clean and healthy. You would CERTAINLY attract more men with the natural hair. What does she expect from a group of dumb-ass-niggas rolling DICE on a corner. Take those dreads out your head girl, PLEASE !!!
arelius1971 1 week ago
i love natural hair ! nappy is happy ! peace and blessings to natural queens!
mujaahid72 2 weeks ago
thank you!
BeautifulCreature46 3 weeks ago
I swear if more sisters looked natural and beautiful as you do, I wouldn't have a white girl this very moment. In Richmond Va I don't think you can vote, get a drivers license, or have a bank account without wearing a weave. The sistas here are making the non hood dude here look at women from different races. Its like why be with someone who has to try that hard to look pretty, when they are covering up the things that make them pretty?
rb0975 3 weeks ago
Really, U Care about some loser on the street rolling dice?
thinker900 1 month ago
MORE TRUTH!!! AND IT IS JUST THAT WE AS A NUBIAN RACE NEED TO START FIRST LEARNING WHO WE REALLY ARE AND START LUVING WHO WE ARE. KEEP UP THE TRUTH MY SIS-STAR.
9ydolem 1 month ago
Yes, i agree some BW have weaves etc because they are influenced by a few BM who prefer eurocentric hair. However, many BW do it out of freewill; nobody puts a gun to their head.
If one has knowledge of "self", and understands that whomever created us didn't make a mistake; then nothing on planet Earth could make you change anything that you were naturally born with.
Our skin and hair are like spacesuits to protect us from the Sun. Our skin and hair are that way for a reason.
Great vid sis!!
TheRedalert7 1 month ago
i think all black women should have one day of every year by not wearing weave , perms,or track. just have natural hair day for black women
Jays9226 1 month ago
Your hair is so pretty and it is even. LOL! My mothers dreads are crimpy because she wet it and braided it. She gave it a read rinse which looks very pretty..Do you cut them or you going to continue to let it grow?
sheliene12 1 month ago
I'm a Hispanic male and I can just say this. You ain't getting play if you look like Whoopi Goldberg. Like in the movie with Adam Sandler, "You Don't Mess With The Zohan". Sandler's character sees a wig with dreads and jumps on it because he thinks it's a living creature trying to attack him. Christ Rock talked about good hair for a reason.
Thecraziestuser 1 month ago
Is this why black women never go swimming?
Thecraziestuser 1 month ago
Hay baby woman I LOVE you just the way you are, you blow my mind! All this is you question is for the same reason why woman do the same for guys that have money and flashy things...
Every1 is has "MONKEY VISION"® and cant get past what they see 2 feet in front of themselves.
TheMusicalAnomalyTM 2 months ago
Hear Badu in the background, love that song.
ReplayRayy 2 months ago
You didnt look any better Im sorry. The weave thing made you look easy-er not bett-er (easier not better babes...) If you look like a ho you will get the ho responce from most men black and white. And which one of your videos show that booty you talking about?
thispbe 2 months ago
I will say that I know for a fact if I did not have a relaxer and have hair past my shoulders, I highly doubt I would attract as much attention without it. I've met guys of all races, and black men (NOT ALL) have been the only one to bring up hair length and my skin color as why they like me. Of course when I find this out, I keep it moving along. But this type of thinking goes both ways, as I've heard black women brag about having a light skinned mate with curly hair.
corcovadoquelindo 3 months ago
@corcovadoquelindo btw, i will not be responding to any comments telling me that I hate myself b/c I have a relaxer. Its my personal choice, and all the white girls I know, except one, dye their hair blonde, and one has gotten plastic surgery. So If I hate myself then I guess most American women do. I think it becomes an issue when you are damaging your body or your hair. If you are healthy, then do you. If you hair is breaking off, your hairline receding, & u still do it then u got issues...
corcovadoquelindo 3 months ago
I'd rather have a nappy headed ho than a weave wearing bitch
Cynicalese 3 months ago
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corcovadoquelindo 3 months ago
I have never dated a woman with a weave. I'd rather marry/mate with a white woman with real hair than a black woman with a weave.
HazeWaveTV 3 months ago
DAYYYYYYYYYYMMMMMMM!!!!
yahhkatiyah 4 months ago
Not all black men love European features ! LOL
andre12593 4 months ago
Thank you for sharing this. Such a strong message.
victoriasade 5 months ago
and natural hair attracts women i once heard someone say
lit26 5 months ago
I like the point you make, but hate how you conduct the video with the little sound-effects. Nice point though, I honestly find natural hair on the woman more attractive regardless of the race. I don't have a superficial attraction to exotic women outside of my own race. I'll date any woman who appeals to me regardless of religion, color, or creed. I believe it's a little bit silly to try to turn a woman from her natural beauty. It's honestly a bit sickening, but what can ya' do, right?
Lagacy2 5 months ago
I think many women just want longer hair and really don't know how to grow and so hey let's get a weave I think many say. But I'd prefer to wear a weave if I'm doing any sort of modeling or anything that requires some strange person to style my hair. But the point I guess the guys I know truly appreciate natural hair and prefer it over a few tracks, but Idk I don't have those experiences I guess maybe my input was pointless I don't know..
AveyRose 5 months ago
I'd say that was a terrible experience but I don't know I am a lighter tone than you but I must say with or without weave nothing ever changes. At least the people I'm around see me the same. I feel black women should just focus on what makes them happy and who ever appreciates that is who you should chose to acknowledge and put in your life.
AveyRose 5 months ago
I did a study back in 06 on myspace,and the same thing happen to me.No views for my natural hair but the microbraids gave me 1000's of views!Now , i don't care!Shallow men and women only care about hair!Sadly but true ,there are bigger fish to fry,like these children killing each other and how to end it!Secondly, I'm more upset that we don't control that billion dollar hair industry as we once did.But my gripe is not hair but who profits off it!Personally , I let it all go.I wear my natural hair
2blakandbold 5 months ago
I'm a black man who loves weave...natural... it dont matter..... light,brown,chocolate...dont matter. I just cant fuck with them lacefronts lol
KelferMookie 5 months ago
preach...
polk731 5 months ago
So many judgmental people think that because some Black women wear weaves, they're self-loathers. Although that can be possible, most of the time that's not the case. I know plenty of Black women (myself included) who like to switch up their style. One week I'll wear my hair natural, then maybe next week i'll put in a weave. It depends on how I feel. Nowadays more BW are wearing their natural hair, and there's nothing wrong with that, as well as wearing weaves. It's all a matter of taste.
tokyomilkshake2 5 months ago
Natural hair is beautiful. I find that A BW wearing an asians or caucasians hair is unnatural. I do not see them wearing kinky hair. We have something unique and we all should be proud of it. SIS Please do not take the reactions of BM who roll dice all day long to heart. peace
dantej32 6 months ago
Viva la natural hair!
sclay12345 6 months ago
GREAT VIDEO!
naavajo 6 months ago
lol you telling the truth.... men look at me like a monster when I have my fro out ....but when I put in my remy weave they come up with stupid stuff to say jus to talk to me ! its crazy!!!!!! lol
moniquerogers0 6 months ago
This dumb bitch is concerned what street corner brothers think.No wonder we are in trouble as a race
whitebitchnigga 6 months ago
@whitebitchnigga We all should be. They are the guys most people outside our race see every day. When we stopped caring is when we got troubled.
LadyOfMyth 6 months ago
@whitebitchnigga
we're in trouble because the overwhelming majority of you are "street corner brothas".
AirForceGirl05 5 months ago
@AirForceGirl05 Do you really believe that the majority of black men in america are street corner brothers? If you do than you are much dumber than i had originally thought.
whitebitchnigga 5 months ago
@whitebitchnigga
i saw you on another video claiming to be a white man. lmao... black men are SAD.
AirForceGirl05 5 months ago
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whitebitchnigga 5 months ago
i love to see black women with the natural hair.Im sooo sick and tired of seeind all this weave in their heads
drewpdrew2004 6 months ago 4
I hear you Sis! U can think the "hey mama, hey shorty, dammn u look good& hey sexy" makes u feel special. BUT when u are naturally u &proud We hear, "OMG u are soo beautiful!, Hey Sis!, & Stay just the way you are" b/c we stand 4something just in our essence. I used to think weave made me prettier but once I woke up &really became proud of being An African Woman I realized that shined thru! I got / continue to get way more respect from brothas on a daily basis. & I agree w/ @dianesehoward
shemjb9 6 months ago
If blacks in brazil were like blacks in haiti. Brazil wud have been all black, and all black fast! There were tons ad tons of blacks populated in brazil.
MsRoyalTreasure 6 months ago
No lie i have seen a document on brazil, and shockingly there is a high number of natural black women. And african brazilian women (not includin mulatas) are beautiful individuals. But they can sometimes be fooled by their eurocentric individuals.
MsRoyalTreasure 6 months ago
attracts fellas with a certain level of consciousness.....oh, and I like your hair.
dianesehoward 6 months ago
attracts fellas with a certain level of consciousness.....
dianesehoward 6 months ago
I CAN NOT STAND SEEING A BLACK FEMALE WEARING SOME FAKE DEAD RAT ON HER BALD HEAD !!! I RATHER SEE A BLACK CHICK THAT CAN'T GROW HAIR WEAR A SHORT CUT !!! TO ME I RATHER GET ME A LATINA OR ASIAN OR CHICK THAT HAVE REAL HAIR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELL IN THE LONG RUN SHE WILL SAVE TIME AND MONEY !!! HELL FAKE BALD HEADED BLACK CHICK WHY WOULD I WANT THAT SHIT
ciscokid5866 7 months ago
ahahaha...good vid! ^^
YoMamaWearzArmyBootz 7 months ago
When I wear a wig, people lose their minds at how nice I look. That I don't even look like the same person. They had to take a double take to make sure it was me. I find this more than disappointing. I like what God gave me. But as a natural, I'm imvissable. So then I go through the head trip of "well maybe if I had more length. Everyone's obsessed with length. Then I think screw them all.
Diamonddusted68 7 months ago
u r as beautiful as isis.i dont need to see your trunk to know that.those guys were death dumb and blind.
dredlocdaddy 7 months ago
You're topic should've been "Because weave attracts the WRONG type of men"..Once you left the salon and seen the reaction of these brothas, you should've ran back in the salon and had them take it out!..Sistahs pay over 10 billion dollars a year for fake hair. Thats a damn shame!
ootonylongoo1231 7 months ago 9
@ootonylongoo1231 I don't think that a man is the wrong type just because he dates a woman with weave. Not all men are into hair. Some men care more about your face, or your body, or your personality. But I do agree with you on the money part. Everytime I go into the beauty supply store, I'm the only black woman not buying weave. In class, I'm usually the only black woman without a weave. Some girls I know I've never seen their real hair.
corcovadoquelindo 3 months ago
@ootonylongoo1231 excellent comment!
1111freethinker 1 month ago
daaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyymmmmmmnnn!
PlasticAngelx 7 months ago
Love the Video!
1753Hopeful 8 months ago
Rofl I love your video spit that knowledge girl :p
bebeJai 8 months ago
LOL....
AGoodWomanDiji 8 months ago
Imagine this: if all Black women had the hair texture of Europeans. We'd be 2 much! We would surpass everyone & every race! We have the best bodies, strong, intelligent. You ever seen any non-BW w/ a bald head? Looks ridiculous right? But BW rock it. Same w/ BM- ran easily rock a bald head. WM- not so much. Its called leveling the playing field. We have all these other strong, powerful, beautiful traits. We just look better with our hair. Like a black person with blue eyes. Wouldn't look right.
AtlantaITGirl 8 months ago
@AtlantaITGirl -
"Imagine this: if all Black women had the hair texture of Europeans. We'd be 2 much! We would surpass everyone & every race!"
Yeah sure. Good hair would change everything for you. LOL!
Thecraziestuser 1 month ago
@Thecraziestuser european hair texture is not "good" hair. it is simply hair. my hair is kinky. and, it is gorgeous...
iwasborntobefly 1 month ago
@Thecraziestuser Well even more relevant and to the point of my original post- shave the hair off every woman in the world of all nationalities and who are the only ones that could actually rock a bald head?? You EVER seen any other women other than Black women rock a bald head?? Nope! Cause Our hair doesn't make us- it compliments us. Its a fashion statement to me. Also- I didn't say it was "good" hair. Black hair is strong and curly- it can go curly or straight.
AtlantaITGirl 1 month ago
@AtlantaITGirl - I'm not impressed with a bald head look at all on anyone. Sinead O'Connor went with it. Name one girl who looks great bald. I've never seen one, I said good hair referring to the Chris Rock movie. It's not my expression. Black people invented it.
Thecraziestuser 1 month ago
@Thecraziestuser Grace Jones. Amber Rose. Mashumba (Super Model), Alec (Super Model)
AtlantaITGirl 1 month ago
Girl, you so for real putting your video on my FB.....i'm a white girl that does weave...growing my hair out. no one notices me until I get weave...know its like damn, hey shorty...you can ride in my car! whats up! its crazy. you can check my pic out...that is a weave, but girl went Rihanna red this time and men are tripping...so stupid, men!
sweetstephana 8 months ago
HAHAHA @ 2:38 LOL
but i'll only date women with their natural hair rather
no matter the race, and to be completely honest i'll
date a BALD woman 7days out of the week before
i date one with Weave.(Nothing against it, just isn't my
preference.) XOXO :)
Powell4184 8 months ago
I think it has more to do with wearing your hair short, rather than it being an afro. Guys like long hair. Period.
starfaery 8 months ago
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starfaery 8 months ago
this is so true..on 1 hand you diss weave but yr tongues hang out when you see black woman with straight long hair..bunch of hypcrites. i am natural cos iam self assured and dont need that adoration from those type of black men, my black husband appreciates and loves the TRUE beauty in me.
valmuno 8 months ago
A bunch of brothers on the street with no job, I wouldn't worry about what they think.
henneytampa 9 months ago
if a guy is attracted by your hair doesn*t tell much about his personality... especially some guys in the street rolling dices for 5 hours straight... i would want them to look at me at all!
allyahny 9 months ago
besides the little cartoons which were lol moment i completely agree.
insertyourquarters 9 months ago
lol@ people who still think that african and nergros are the same people.....
Tazaiyar1 9 months ago
@Tazaiyar1 Niggas still believing these cavemen lies,people who think that are still in the slave mindset,african aint even a nationality,neither is african american,but niggas still to stupid to see that,they think all black skinned people are the same.
guttaboi88 8 months ago
i don't think men mind weaves as long as she doesn't wear it constantly and spends soo much money on it and can stick with her natural hair for once. Me personally i don't wear weves and i don't even like make up. every now and then i may wear some make up.
SpeakMyMind500 9 months ago
I believe it is in our human nature to want similarity or to be jealous of someone and not in a mean way. I am a European American with stick straight honey blonde hair. I understand somewhat because in my community blonde haired white girls were a dime a dozen. I always wanted to have African hair. I think it's beautiful and you can style it. I can't style my hair it falls even with spray. I think African women and all women should embrace their natural beauty. I have a hard time doing i
Buu7899 9 months ago
its so true,thank you sister it is both, im tired of hearing so called pro black sistahs blaming sistahs for this hair thing
braggs619 10 months ago
its so true
braggs619 10 months ago
crackin me up lol saaaamme brothahs on the block
you:'hey brothahs wassup.
them:daaaaayuuum guurl wass gud !? you:... :s ummm .. -_-
milliy044 10 months ago 2
AFRICANS CAME HERE WITH LONG HAIR. SLAVE MASTERS CUT THEIR HAIR
OUR ENEMY IS OURSELVES. STUDY THE HISTORY MANY BLACK FOLK DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE BLACK PLANTATION OWNERS WHO OWNED SLAVES. ANGER AND DELUSION KEEPS ALL PEOPLE FROM LEARNING THE TRUTH.
bluntress 10 months ago
Well non- black women with so called good hair is wearing weaves now. So black men and their ignorance on what beauty is might just get a hand full of weave with his non- black woman. So what does it matter they gonna get a weave with or with out a black woman. More Black women are educated than black men, Black women make more money than black men. So if black men want to stay down leave 'em there. When they learn respect 4 black women is when I will give 'em a chance. Study the history here
bluntress 10 months ago
crea tive as all hell, keep up the good work
kmauryo 10 months ago
Honestly as a man it does not matter to me how long a females hair is. That thought process is stupid as hell. Thats for the lame ass dudes who think they will get a "Beyonce Type'...But guess what guys: YOU NEVER WILL. Please continue chasing your "dreams" and all the other beautiful black women can be left up to me and me alone.....
BLACKPUSSYPUNISHER 10 months ago
@BLACKPUSSYPUNISHER Beyonce is the Queen Bey right now! LOL! Yeah, if they're looking for a Beyonce Type, they'll never get that!
SightseerLounge 10 months ago
You're really young, but back in the 70s a black man wouldn't be caught dead with a woman unless she had a fro or wore afro puff poneytails. I was really young then, but I remember the love and ethnic pride from those days.
BillyBobKumar 10 months ago 10
Whether nappy or straight: Long Hair=Femininity & Short Hair=Masculinity. A lot of guys just think that we women who have long hair are sexier and more attractive than short haired women . Black women are already viewed as being too strong/masculine, so anything that the Black female can do to achieve a more feminine look is great.
bayareagirl1000 10 months ago
@bayareagirl1000 my sentiments exactly
CALLMEMISS21 10 months ago
you are hilarious! but you are telling the truth
seriously it is so sad
mimi42428 10 months ago 2
Conclusion:Locks Rock!!! OneLove!!!
kayaburning 11 months ago
There's a difference between being natural and getting your hair done. You described that you hair wasn't done when you first walked by. It had nothing to do with your natural texture. I've seen tons of black men fall over black women with their natural texture when their hair is styled. It had nothing to do with your weave/caucasian hair texture. Now, just image the girls with tore-up weaves walking passed them, they probably got ignored, too. Styled hair turn heads. Jacked up hair, don't.
WhereYaBoss 11 months ago 4
@WhereYaBoss
I agree. i remember when I started 6th form I wore my hair in puffs when I started and no-one made a big deal but then I got single braids and everyone went on about how much they loved my hair. However, when I started my job I wore single braids and no-one paid attention then I took them out and everyone went on about how much they loved my hair! People always make a big deal when you change your style and it's noticeable; whatever it is. It's not always hate on natural hair.
tigereyes5 6 months ago
@tigereyes5 Thank you!
WhereYaBoss 6 months ago
I THOUGHT SHE WAS LAURYN HILL FOR A SEC,LOL
MeUAndLiqour 11 months ago 3
lol black men cant stand weaves BUT THEY LOVE LONG HAIR
onlinebabeful 11 months ago
Men are brain washed by the media to desire that look.
alexlove31 11 months ago
My best friend brother told her that he would date me if I got a perm/relaxer. SMDH!
nishaswirl 11 months ago
we in a society full of zombies honey its fucked up and these white supremacist just laugh and get a kick out of this
insanebeatjunkie 11 months ago
LOVE MY NATURAL SISTAS!
2423hop 11 months ago
wtf???? am i watching cartoons?
xxLoBBLyDominicaNxx 11 months ago
i like you pretty hair
mazambulla 11 months ago
THIS SISTER IS ON POINT!!!
BROTHER's, STOP CHASING CAUCASOID PUMPUM!!!
reggystarr 11 months ago
same thing happen to me.
bynumyes 11 months ago
Boy I remember a time if a woman wore a weave she was corny, all of a sudden it just change when Janet Jackson wore hers, it was crazy. I hate weaves. give me a sista with the locs, afro, braids, even cut low as long as it's neat we good, I HATE MAKEUP! African descent women spend a billion dollars a year on that crap!
rahim4411 11 months ago
@rahim4411 i think we spend more money on hair products while other nonAA women spend it on make up
i am the only AA that i know what wears makeup with the exception of my two friends but we are makeup artist so we dont count lol
bynumyes 11 months ago
weave attract men cuz they dont like the natural look, sooo i believe that goes back to black men dating white women, long flowing hair that can be maintained and pulled. but in all its too each his own liking
rashanda15 1 year ago
sad but true..
o0R3stless0o 1 year ago
Humorous and true!
♥♥♥ Marashor ♥♥♥♥
Marashor 1 year ago
Plus Black women have to stop blaming Black men for liking these nasty weaves. It was the Black woman that wanted to have hair like the white woman in the first place. If you would've just been happy with the natural hair God gave you , you wouldn't be in this position where African American males now shun the natural look. Black women in America were rocking the afro in the 60's and 70's so what changed?
SoulfulLova 1 year ago
@SoulfulLova
SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU COME FROM A COUNTRY WHERE THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN BLEACH THEIR SKIN NIGGER GO PREACH THAT NATURAL SHIT TO THOSE DONKEYS
SewenamiAhosu 1 year ago
@SewenamiAhosu Your an African American pretending to be White. Sorry but in Africa we don't say "nigger". That's for you slave children. You've followed me to 3 or 4 videos now. I feel for you, your obviously mentally unhinged.
SoulfulLova 1 year ago
@SoulfulLova im sorry but i have to disagree. again personally speakin i know SOO many AA women that want to be natural and embrace themselves but once they take out that weave the fellas say time for a perm boo or you need to do somethin with that. im natural and i love it but i get soo much flack from men and women of my own race
bynumyes 11 months ago
It happens with longer locs as well. When my locs grew long I got more attention from black men (as well as men of other ethnicities) verus when my locs were shorter or is worn in a bun. Hair in a bun I get: "beautiful", loose locs I get: "sexy". All this to say I don't let other people influence how I wear my hair. As you get older you learn to get better at silencing other people's opinion.
beybels 1 year ago
"We have BOTH" been bamboozled" ABSOLUTELY! Nobody knows the before an after effect/perspective like a sistah who's gone to the salon. I have hear black men's accusations about black women getting weaves to attract non black men but I know they're worn primarily to attract black men. I think we ALL, black men and black women alike have to admit that we do carry some forms of self hate around rather than just accuse our counterparts of it. We've all "inherited" some of the bull over generations
JukBxLuvSong 1 year ago 13
The shit's called street harassment! Never take it as a compliment! LOL at your vid! I fav'd it!
HappyHookerTV 1 year ago 2
That weave shit is for suckas', any babe wearin' a weave is pretty much a sucka' in my eyes and many brothas now are saying that too. I love going to Brasil, Bahia/Salvador where you see the natural type black woman with natural type hair. The videos of black women in the USA are getting down there with all of these weave bitches prancin' around and i hate that shit. The black woman in the USA is basically self loathing deep down inside, that is why they love that weave booleshyyt! VIVA BRASIL!!
nagone11 1 year ago
What makes me laugh is that she wants to call the brothers out, but she was the one that went and put the weave or extensions in her own hair???..(Double standard to me)
KalBachaayar 1 year ago
Sis, you are so right about what you have said. I am from the tropics my skin is melanated-a couple of shades lighter than yours, but to me there is nothing more sexier than a sis with her natural hair specially a fro. Hmmmm Jmmmm!!! The original woman is not just hot, she is so super hot!!! White girls got nothing on you ladies-they imitate what you do and who you are. Let's wake the rest of the melanine around the planet!!! Europe's tricks are done!!!
polylingue 1 year ago 13
i think going natural is the best its healthier as opposed to perms and relaxers that damage your severely or wear human hair or weaves i think women should their natural hair texture. <3
TheKenneyshow 1 year ago
This video is heroic, telling it like it really is. You changed only 1 thing about yourself, and you suddenly became much more attractive. Only 1 conclusion follows from that.
Chris Rock did a documentary, "Hair," and how expensive weaves are. He revealed it as a huge social problem among blacks. But, he focused blame on black women! As if women are delusional and can be more attractive to men if they only stuck to their natural look. Your own experience reveals that the problem is men.
ApostateAbe 1 year ago
I ejaculated in my gf's hair and it started to grow!
mybigboner 1 year ago
part2 lust after the women with weaves...and these aren't just the brothers on the block.,...I know many corporate men who also appreciate the beauty that weaves may acheive...just my 2 cents though~
aishahunt 1 year ago
I totally agree with you sister that if weaves or that european/exotic look didn't apeal to men that many women wouldn't wear and invest so much time and money putting extensions in the head. I actually wear weaves often dispite having my own long natural hair....WHY? because besides it being less time consuming i notice much attention is given to me than without it. now something else I'd like to point out is even the men who claim to like real hair (kinky/ or permed)
aishahunt 1 year ago
Sorry, no. Pussy attracts men, not weaves. And the only men weaves attract are the same type of men black women bitch and complain about. As evident in your own personal experience. What corporate or hard working black man would be hanging out on a corner, rolling dice? Answer: NONE! Nice try chick. Do you notice that black women like to go for the light eyes straight haired brothers? You don't see us putting in contacts and perms and weaves. LOL
DionLaurent1 1 year ago
Your personality should attract a brother, not your goddamn weave.
TheFacelessComedian 1 year ago
Ok IsisPaperz I got a question for you. Say you notice that some woman who got breast implants now suddenly gets more male attention. Ok so you gonna go get some implants too?!? Booty implants? Other types of plastic surgery? Where does it stop? Why don't you get that you simply caught the eye of men who liked the features you adopted? THESE MEN DO NOT REPRESENT ALL BROTHAS. Yet you think you must conform to the ignorant/unconscious. That is dangerous!
dealmaker007 1 year ago
lol @ the impersonations. DAAAAAAAAAAAYUUUUMMMMMNNNNMNMNMNM! lol
dealmaker007 1 year ago
IsisPaperz aka blaqueindigo? Listen to the voice watch her hand movement and facial actions. Both make reference of NY and FL bad video quality has a lot of people thinking they are not the same person. She's had about 5+ youtube acounts like XiwontstopX but most have be closed in the last few days. If this one gets closed you will see the truth! She just another black feminist nothing more or less. watch?v=2EkHBBnenSo
The1Thatgotaway412 1 year ago
@The1Thatgotaway412
that ain't blaqueindigo
thelivingpoet 1 year ago
damn shame malicious character assassination ran this chick off of youtube :(
kronos48221 1 year ago
Straight hair is sexualized, perhaps?
PeaceUdo 1 year ago
omg I know you did not intend for this to be funny but you r so funny when u imitated the men I love your hair it's healthy and pretty
jamesgirl37 1 year ago
ARE YOU SURE THOSE WERE MEN THAT YOU PASSED AT 10AM SHOOTING DICE IN THE MORNING? ARE YOU SURE THOSE WERE MEN/
GARVYITE 1 year ago
I know the feeling same experience!
YahzMangoTr3e 1 year ago
The locs are raw plus you are fine as a motherfucker.
hastious 1 year ago
Weave don't attract me. When I see a black girl with a weave its disgusting I just see them as self hating women. Weaves only attract self hating men.
YoungBlackStud95 1 year ago
loooool what do you expect sis! theses are the same men that go round killing each other for fun! you can expect them to have any taste or standards!
jankraw 1 year ago
@kahanyah oh that's just double-talk. why the unhealthy, baseless generalizations? every person does what they do for individual reasons. insecurity is not more or less prevalent in females than males; everyone has their own reasons to cry to sleep some nights and spring out of bed some mornings. you speak as if being a black person means you're automatically doomed to have issues about your hair.
crispybluu 1 year ago
The dice-rolling corner dwellers saw 'hooker hair'; flashy and attention grabbing on you of course because it so differed from your natural look. I don't think those fellas saw you as more valuable at all; I think they saw you as cheap and easy; and responded accordingly.
And have you considered moving? I personally have attracted more interest and positive feedback from all kinds of men with my faded natural than I ever did with a perm (though I may owe it all to my awesome hairdresser)!
crispybluu 1 year ago
LOVE YOU SISTAH...
lashondraable 1 year ago
those of us that appreciate that natural look are still out here sis. thanks for sharing, gorgeous.
XNakisisaX 1 year ago
Great video, deep made me think...still gotta rock the synthetic hair though! :D lol, but I feel ya so that's gotta count 4 something.
GaGax4xGaGa 1 year ago
i remember when iFirst went natural and cut my hair , the boys were passin me right up and then one day i get a sew-in because im not used having short hair so i decided to wear weaves until my hair gets to my chin ... lady i got this curly romance curl weave and dey did the same , iRealized the same thing , yu do get ignored.!!
joyce365 1 year ago
@joyce365 I say to you and Isis; maybe you ought to move! Where I come from, I've never received so many stares, grins and compliments as when i decided to shave my head.
Perhaps the issue for you ladies is more environmental or social than racial?
crispybluu 1 year ago
@crispybluu idk , but im not worried about the men.!
joyce365 1 year ago
@joyce365 ooooh....so you like the laydeez instead? If that's the case then I'm sure you've found lots of appreciation for your naturalness!
Please excuse me if I misread; either way good for you for not worrying about someone else's definition of your beauty!
crispybluu 1 year ago
@crispybluu .... hell no. What the hell. im not gay.! iSaid im not worried about them cause iLook good for myself.!!! is that a crime.!
joyce365 1 year ago
@joyce365 that ain't no crime...and neither is being a lesbian...as I said, forgive me if I misread and kudos for your confidence
crispybluu 1 year ago
I've had natural hair for the 40+ years of my life - dreadlocks for the past 26 years. Black men have been brainwashed to see european hair as better. However, change is a comin'. I think men are getting fed up of the weave, and want some natural hair for difference sake. not all men obviously - big generalisation, but increasingly, over the years, more men will comment and compliment my hair - especially when i am with a sister with weave.
lovzgood 1 year ago
that's a damn shame on behalf of those brothers! black men don't realized how blessed they are.
rggarrett007 1 year ago
Excuses!Black men dont give a Fu%$ about weave !! Im a man and black
dreamkasts 1 year ago
to continue on my point. I live in the county just above your's Ma'at. It seems like the weave/ lacefront capital of the world. i go to walmart sometimes and just stand in line and count how many black women have natural hair, or at least even just well taken care of relaxed hair, and it is less and less. Most of these women wear such horrible, shiny, weaves with the tracks showing, or all the way down their back, or these hideous lacefronts that look like they got them from a gas station.
jahluv3000 1 year ago 9
@jahluv3000 peace love. ur point is valid.
IsisPaperz 1 year ago
@IsisPaperz glad you can understand where im coming from i hope you didn't think im just on here blaming black women. I think many BW underestimate how much influence you all have on us and our behavior. not saying we are mindless zombies, but the power of female persuasion is very strong, and BW have the most power. BTW you are gorgeous,are you still doing the BTR show,
jahluv3000 1 year ago
i usually agree with Ma'at's point of view but, not here. BM men are only going to be attracted to women they have access to.I want a Ma'at/Blaqueindigo type, in reality im going to end up with a BW in my area, or work enviorment. BM wouldn't be attracted to this fake stuff if they weren't surrounded by it since puberty. i hate weave, but realisticly its getting harder and harder to find a NATURAL, CONCIOUS SISTER. so most BM just put up with the weave, because it all over the place.
jahluv3000 1 year ago 2
i couldnt agree more with you. u are very intelligent
blackprincess212006 1 year ago
natural hair is beautiful and i think black men and black woman should embrace for what its worth
TheKenneyshow 1 year ago
i would more likely call to you with your natural hair than any other way my friend. dont use the scummy hombres as a rulestick
incogneater 1 year ago
@incogneater this message doesn't apply to u then. but try not to become defensive when we talk about the MAJORITY. of course i know that not allllllll blk men are zombies. but would u argue that most are not? i don't think you would.
IsisPaperz 1 year ago
@IsisPaperz i have no defense for scumbags. only wish you the love you deserve.
incogneater 1 year ago
so the moral to this story if you want to attract dice throwing car hollering thugs then wear a european weave.ladies if you want to know what good black men prefer just ask him. black woman your beauty is unique to only YOU take advantage of your difference and you will attract the kind of man that apreciates YOU
juseph29 1 year ago 12
LOL
DatTrueMendousLady 1 year ago
@reddbrotha7 There arent any negative stereotypes or connotations attached to being white.
cos of slavery, genetics Blackness is synonymous with strength,&strength is synonimous with masculinity
so people associate blackness/africaness with masculinity which is all good if ur a dk skin BM if ur a woman or a light skin BM it becomes problematic...bt more so for BW
Women in the western world MUST posess femininity, if blackness is synonimous with masculinity/stength BW are fucked hence this vid
Applebaum 1 year ago
Excellent. This video adds emphasis to the fact that we've all been acculturated and programmed with white supremacy & Eurocentrism, and how important it is for all of us - Black, white, Latino, Asian, Native, etc. - to deprogram ourselves from it, because it's a poisonous lie. We all must become AWARE. Keep promoting consciousness & awareness, my sister!
SchoolofSoul 1 year ago 2
True, I've seen it! Just like how a lot of women from other enthicities get boob jobs. They don't have it so they buy it because it gets them the attention they want.
GurlPrincess 1 year ago
People reject what they don't understand. Thus, most non-black guys and many black guys don't understand what curly/kinky hair is really like. And since not all black women's hair is curly/kinky, many black women really don't understand what curly/kinky hair is like.
I'm white and when my black wife walked through the door with short curly hair for the first time that I knew her, I was like "WTF!" But shortly, I got to know it and everything is cool now.
Just encourage peole to touch it.
TheGoalSetter 1 year ago
It appears that you did not prepare for this video. It appears that you just clicked record and start talking.
Just think about what you want people to hear, jot some notes down, and then press record. Instead of seven minutes of some poorly told story, you'll get your points across much better in much less time.
Go to your "My Videos", click Insight *for this video*, then look at the Hot Spot for this video. I bet people drop off after a minute or two.
TheGoalSetter 1 year ago
@TheGoalSetter i disagree i just think you cannot relate to the fucked up ness of this topic. I love this vid, Isis is an excellent story teller sooo funny...she brings humour to a topic that has made many BW feel sooo upset.
has your hair texture ever been deemed wrong?
Applebaum 1 year ago
@Applebaum I went bald...and society, to a large extent, deems baldness wrong (unhealthy, unattractive, etc.)...especially on white men.
And you won't see me buckle under peer pressure and buy a toupe, do comb overs, etc. When people started ridiculing me, I just whipped up some confident retorts.
Further, I strengthened my emotional and linguistic abilities so that no one dares get out of line with me...with anything.
Cowards die a thousand deaths...hair weaves is usually one of them.
TheGoalSetter 1 year ago
@TheGoalSetter
Mr, Our whole entire existance is a confident retort babe.
weve had to make confident retorts all our lives.
Black women have to deal with soooo much extra shit that you would never ever comprehend.
the bald thing, whereas it might be personally traumatic for white men to lose their hair. some people shave their hair bald it can be a fashion statement its not really comparable WM arent viewed as ugly or feminine because of a bald head
plus noone had bald WM as slaves either
Applebaum 1 year ago 2