It would be nice if your parents showed more compassion and understanding. It will take time. Without going into the details about your family Christmas etc even though that is important stuff I would like to say I also like your monster hat and it even matches your shirts trek the halls shirt logo too.
The light colored shirt and white walls and door background is more uplifting instead of the dark backgrounds and dark shirts.
Your dad really needs to know of the struggle you face, and nost of all that you are and have always been female. I am one of the guilty fathers who did not see or understand my daughters choice. It was a huge trama for us but we finally saw that she was happy and living life as she wanted. you have one other advantage...I think most dads love their daughters more than sons. He will love you even more than before. Dont give up. He is still in shock mode. It will pass and he will reach out toyou
@tishafish Nobody can say for sure what the future holds, but I will do my best to have a happy life, and in order to do that, transition was the only good choice for me.
Hi,, I can tell you from experience that your dad feels hurt but most of all he needs to be educated on trans issues. the best way to do that is through your stepmother. If she has an open mind, have her view all the other trans people on line. I know it opened my mind to a lot of things and closed the huge gap that was in our family. He has to learn that it is your life.
@tishafish It's possible she will try to understand, although it's going to take a long time regardless. Some people just don't want to ever go along with it in any way.
I think that your video is quite positive.
It would be nice if your parents showed more compassion and understanding. It will take time. Without going into the details about your family Christmas etc even though that is important stuff I would like to say I also like your monster hat and it even matches your shirts trek the halls shirt logo too.
The light colored shirt and white walls and door background is more uplifting instead of the dark backgrounds and dark shirts.
Have a Happy New Year
LassieGee 1 month ago
Your dad really needs to know of the struggle you face, and nost of all that you are and have always been female. I am one of the guilty fathers who did not see or understand my daughters choice. It was a huge trama for us but we finally saw that she was happy and living life as she wanted. you have one other advantage...I think most dads love their daughters more than sons. He will love you even more than before. Dont give up. He is still in shock mode. It will pass and he will reach out toyou
tishafish 1 month ago
@tishafish Nobody can say for sure what the future holds, but I will do my best to have a happy life, and in order to do that, transition was the only good choice for me.
Forlorn79 1 month ago
Hi,, I can tell you from experience that your dad feels hurt but most of all he needs to be educated on trans issues. the best way to do that is through your stepmother. If she has an open mind, have her view all the other trans people on line. I know it opened my mind to a lot of things and closed the huge gap that was in our family. He has to learn that it is your life.
tishafish 1 month ago
@tishafish It's possible she will try to understand, although it's going to take a long time regardless. Some people just don't want to ever go along with it in any way.
Forlorn79 1 month ago