@hockeystard89 yes it is possible, he lied about his sexuality and has sex with my mother but he is gay he is open about it now, and has been with his boyfriend for I think 10+ years
Your Mother didnt want you to go to Pride because of how provocative many men dress,masculine of fem. It can be quite rated XXX. I also think your Mother has gender issues. I think if you didnt appear like a "normal" acting Man, you would have most certainly had problems with your Mother about being gay. Is your Father Masculine acting? What you discribe about that kiss is called chemical attraction. You didnt get that from a female kiss..
@Lively0101 well she always loved me, but accepting everything about the gay culture took some time. My dad is not very feminine at all, he has moments but he is not super queen no.
@SlimShaney08 is your Father masculine acting? Look at your answer to that question. Its not a direct answer. He had sex with your mother to have you,so at one point he was bi. The reason I ask that is,Men who are perceived homesexuals have had real childhood scars from boys in childhood. WHen they are adults,that are better equiped to handle homphobes,becasue they are used to standing thier ground. This is not the case for masculine acting gay men. Who hide until they "come out"
@jessebobb123 That's generally what gay men do to other gay men. Thank you so much for stating the completely and utterly obvious. I'm sure your parents are proud of your powers of deduction.
Hey, Thanks for sharing your story. I'm sure it has helped a lot of people! I'm 26 and I'm just now beginning my coming out process. My only regret is that I've waited so long. I've known for sure since I wasabout 13-14 years old. Any advice?
@PTulini congrats on coming out! 26 really is not that old, some men as seniors are just now coming out, my advice is be you and do what feels right. You don't have to tell anyone you don't want too! Celebrate you can live your life now without hiding who you are :) very happy for you!
@SlimShaney08 Thank you very much. Yeah, I'm not planning on telling everyone only my closest friends and family that I can trust! I told my Mom about a year ago and she's still happy about it. When I told her, I started to cry because I was so nervous. Her response: "I love you, but I will never approve of your choice!" Then she suggested I ask God for forgiveness. For what? I've done nothing wrong. I am who I am, and it won't change.
@PTulini your so welcome! and ya sad some people think that she worded that 100% wrong but she still loves you which is much better then a lot of people get :) gay is not a choice in my mind and i would not pray for god to fix me im not broken :)
@SlimShaney08 I agree. I'm happy with who I am. I told her that I wanted to be open and honest wih her. I would rather tell than have her find out from someone else. And I'm not about to post a mass message on Facebook! I wouldn't want to spring it on my parents when I come home for the holidays either. "Btw, I'm gay, and this is my boyfriend." Not a good idea. :) Now, if only I could find a guy? LOL.
My coming out was so weird some people knew> I just posted on my facebook, and switch it to interested in men,. I said if you hate me defriend me if you want to make fun of me you can. If you want to beat me go ahead, I will become stronger and if you want to kill me you can, but just remember in time you will regret it. SO I LIKE YOURS BETTER
• 1. Research designed to prove that gays and lesbians are "born that way" has come up empty — there is no scientific evidence that being gay or lesbian is genetically determined” Matthew Brelis, "The Fading 'Gay Gene,'" The Boston Globe, March 20, 2002, p. C1.
Meta-analysis of all available linkage data found no evidence between homosexual orientation and gene Xq28, and also no genetic heritability of sexual orientation^ Schwartz, G.; Kim, R.; Kolundzija, A.; Rieger, G.; Sanders, A. (2010). "Biodemographic and physical correlates of sexual orientation in men.". Archives of sexual behavior 39 (1): 93–109.
Please visit my channel for the unpopular truth about homosexuality.
A person does not need hatred or any kind of phobia in order to acknowledge important differences between heterosexual attraction / behavior / marriage / adoption and homosexual attraction / behavior / marriage / adoption. Even non-religious people know this.
Homosexual activists, with support from the media, have succeeded at framing themselves as noble victims; it's an effective way to push a social agenda.
I am a 41 year old woman, and i just finished watching the tribute that lady gaga did for the young gay man that commited suicide jamey rodemeyer, PLEASE gay or NOT ...be yourself love yourself, cheers peace to all.
@SlimShaney08 do not judge, that is the way i try to live each and everyday..gay or straight, we are all equil and capable of loving and being kind to others, no i am not perfect myself trustttttttttt me, ....cheers.
• Homosexuals do not want you to know that many of them were sexually abused when young, because many people who were so abused go on to molest others. And homosexuals do not want you to know that they are more likely to molest children than heterosexuals are. Ray Blanchard, et al., "Fraternal Birth Order and Sexual Orientation in Pedophiles," Archives of Sexual Behavior 29 (2000), p. 464
@EllaTuSombra you should read more, or less crap whichever.. and what's been posted is called "truth" you should pull your head out your bf's ass.. get off your knees whipe the sperm from your lips and become a man.
@karmalevel I am not sure if this is a serious question but no he never molested me, I don't even think influenced because I was not around him too much when my parents divorced, but at a very young age looking back I should have known i liked boys
@usapegasus007 nope sweetheart she did not, my mother is one of the most amazing people you could ever meet. She supports me and loves me and she has been my best friend since I was born. You need to learn some manners
@SlimShaney08 im sorry I read this wrong you were actually sticking up for me, I apologize about the snap I thought it was the same person asking me if it was my mom and not my dad
@SlimShaney08 Did you happen to notice that my comment was driected at "karmalevel" and not you... and that was for makeing the comment about the father molesting him....
@TheChrislucassmh thank u and yes many do but haters make you stronger and if someone does not like you based on something you dont have much control over there not a good person
This was a great coming out story. I just wish my coming out was like that. I came out when I was 15/16 and my family found out when I was 17/18. It was hard on them. It still is. I'm 29, and it's still hard since I live with my grandparents to help take care of my grandfather, but good for you. I hope that your boyfriend works out because you seem like a nice guy. Okay, have a great day and take care.
@HerezMikey My boyfriend did not work out haha I am very single lol. So who knows if or when that will change :) I am glad your able to eb out now and very nice of you to help take care of ur family. Much love !
@sweetfuckingchrist Oh yes my parents were married but shortly after my mom had me they divorced. She said she wondered or had asked him but he denied it, I can only assume clues but like on home movies how he spoke things he said gave clues stereotypical ones but yes. It is fine lol, I get confused sometimes
@noahnorton92 honestly im lucky my environment and those in my life never made me fear it so when I came out I really did not realize how serious it could be.
@SlimShaney08 Well mine was a lil harder (to put in simply) my dad was always like saying how he hated gay ppl and the "gay lifestyle" and my mom would just make lil comments here and there nothing mean but still made it harder for me. And now that i finally have they have totally stopped doing it at least around me which at least show they care that much.
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@josephjuvenile well I hated him for it at first lol, but ironic i realized wow I like guys too, ya we talk somewhat but not as much as people would think. Ya I came out very young
God you are lucky, you were surrounded by gay people and others who accept you. I have homophobic parents, and friends who also talk shit about gays. I'm the only son in my family so i'm expected to marry a woman and have our kids carry on our family name. I'm 22 and I don't see myself coming out anytime soon, if ever at all.
@Chilean88 these are the comments i hate, you should not have to be afraid to live your own life. I hope you can be yourself soon and if friends wont accept you because of that then they are not real friends. As for your parents you can have kids it just may not be the way they want it, donate sperm, get a donor, adopt but either way it's your life and I hope you can live it <3
@farmerz245 the main thing you have to do it when your ready. You just have to be careful you don't hurt anyone a long the way. Such as faking having a gf or worse a wife
@SAOS451316 Yes I am extremely lucky :) started out a bit rocky now things are fine. Not having to hide is great, its really nice to be able to say "mom going on a date with this guy" and have her response be "who" and not "eww"
@TheRamrod100 Aww thank you it was pretty easy some struggles but lifes gr8 with my gayness being accepted, and as far as me marrying mr.right i doubt it be anytime soon losing faith of good cute men out there lol
Thanks so much for sharing your story! It's great that you have found acceptance with your friends and family. Hopefully someday my parents will come around to accepting my sexuality. Hearing positive stories really is encouraging.
@Taiman5 aww im glad my video was able to help you, i dont understand how parents can be so negative about who people are and their own children kinda sickening stay strong :) I am a very lucky person with my coming out
"Gay husband and gay son". That's funny, because it's that way with all situations ... ie black husband, black son, asshole husband, asshole son. It's like your hair and eyes and everything else, you are who you are and I'm super, super happy for you!
Oh, wow. My mom's a lesbian, and so am I. lol how coincidental. My coming out was pretty easy compared to others, as well, but I adjusted to it with no problem. :) You and I are a couple of the lucky ones.
@Nancylollypop ummm ive thought bout sex wit a girl but when i imagine coming home to my love i like imagining prince charming i guess and i dont wanna accidently knock a girl up and all and like leave her and all my dads gay and my mom left alone to raise us basically so nah ima try to not i think lol
@Nancylollypop ..... no im not having sex with a girl. and there are gay guys that have and decided guys are what they are into so things can change but nah i dont want a girl lol
I think it would be awesome to have a gay dad. Cuz instead of a Dad and son checkin out the chicks together we could check out the guyz together. And I wish Nancylollypop would stop bein all Dr. Phil down here and tellin ppl that they are confused and what there sexual orientation is.
@GLW2011 it was cool but he was not around much still isn't so I don't have much interaction with him, and yes i know let me live my life and you live yours, maybe one day :)
You are so brave for posting this. I mean you had to know that there would be people who attack you like in the comments sections. Its always sad that it takes the strongest emotions to elicit a response for good or evil. I hope that my experience goes well because I have to tell my parents soon as well. Not knowing is the worst thing and stuck being halfway out is even worse!
@residentevilvirus im sorry i just saw ur comment... my biological father is gay, and come out when your ready you may be surprised who accepts u, but also who may not...
The part about wanting your mom to marry your 3rd grade teacher so that you can have him is hilarious! :D Great coming out story. I hope it's going well with you.
@Nancylollypop Wow here you go again.... I am a gay male I have been gay since I was about 14, counseling will not change your sexuality and I don't need it. I was a straight guy but when I had my first gay experience and realized it felt more natural and what I wanted i realized I was a gay male. I could get action with guy or girl but I imagine prince charming when I come home. You really need to get a life.
@Nancylollypop I never said I had vaginal intercourse with a girl cuz I have not and yes I am gay. U said what u need to in order to make urself feel like a grownup and an adult where your obviously not, so thank you get off my page
ur dads gay.? is tht possible
hockeystard89 1 week ago
@hockeystard89 yes it is possible, he lied about his sexuality and has sex with my mother but he is gay he is open about it now, and has been with his boyfriend for I think 10+ years
SlimShaney08 1 week ago
Your Mother didnt want you to go to Pride because of how provocative many men dress,masculine of fem. It can be quite rated XXX. I also think your Mother has gender issues. I think if you didnt appear like a "normal" acting Man, you would have most certainly had problems with your Mother about being gay. Is your Father Masculine acting? What you discribe about that kiss is called chemical attraction. You didnt get that from a female kiss..
Lively0101 3 weeks ago
@Lively0101 well she always loved me, but accepting everything about the gay culture took some time. My dad is not very feminine at all, he has moments but he is not super queen no.
SlimShaney08 3 weeks ago
@SlimShaney08 is your Father masculine acting? Look at your answer to that question. Its not a direct answer. He had sex with your mother to have you,so at one point he was bi. The reason I ask that is,Men who are perceived homesexuals have had real childhood scars from boys in childhood. WHen they are adults,that are better equiped to handle homphobes,becasue they are used to standing thier ground. This is not the case for masculine acting gay men. Who hide until they "come out"
Lively0101 3 weeks ago
@SlimShaney08 You seem like a nice guy,Im not trying to give you a hard time.
Lively0101 3 weeks ago
@Lively0101 No I understand, you were just making some inferences, no worries. I appreciate you commenting :)
SlimShaney08 3 weeks ago
fuck faggots
jessebobb123 1 month ago
@jessebobb123 well I don't think bundles of sticks are that bad but you must have had a bad experience
SlimShaney08 1 month ago 2
@SlimShaney08 what a brilliant response!! LOL
Lively0101 3 weeks ago
@jessebobb123 That's generally what gay men do to other gay men. Thank you so much for stating the completely and utterly obvious. I'm sure your parents are proud of your powers of deduction.
iamglory 1 week ago
You're cute, hit me up. lol
FRANCOSALGADOMC 1 month ago
@FRANCOSALGADOMC lol i have a boyfriend but thank you very much!
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
Hey, Thanks for sharing your story. I'm sure it has helped a lot of people! I'm 26 and I'm just now beginning my coming out process. My only regret is that I've waited so long. I've known for sure since I wasabout 13-14 years old. Any advice?
PTulini 1 month ago
@PTulini congrats on coming out! 26 really is not that old, some men as seniors are just now coming out, my advice is be you and do what feels right. You don't have to tell anyone you don't want too! Celebrate you can live your life now without hiding who you are :) very happy for you!
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@SlimShaney08 Thank you very much. Yeah, I'm not planning on telling everyone only my closest friends and family that I can trust! I told my Mom about a year ago and she's still happy about it. When I told her, I started to cry because I was so nervous. Her response: "I love you, but I will never approve of your choice!" Then she suggested I ask God for forgiveness. For what? I've done nothing wrong. I am who I am, and it won't change.
PTulini 1 month ago
@PTulini your so welcome! and ya sad some people think that she worded that 100% wrong but she still loves you which is much better then a lot of people get :) gay is not a choice in my mind and i would not pray for god to fix me im not broken :)
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@SlimShaney08 I agree. I'm happy with who I am. I told her that I wanted to be open and honest wih her. I would rather tell than have her find out from someone else. And I'm not about to post a mass message on Facebook! I wouldn't want to spring it on my parents when I come home for the holidays either. "Btw, I'm gay, and this is my boyfriend." Not a good idea. :) Now, if only I could find a guy? LOL.
PTulini 1 month ago
@PTulini lol i hear ya finding a guy is hard online can be good but way hard its difficult
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
Yeah I felt good after I own up to it. Being free and not letting anyone tell me I"m wrong.
wrwrmigul 2 months ago
@wrwrmigul :) its not wrong its life
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
My coming out was so weird some people knew> I just posted on my facebook, and switch it to interested in men,. I said if you hate me defriend me if you want to make fun of me you can. If you want to beat me go ahead, I will become stronger and if you want to kill me you can, but just remember in time you will regret it. SO I LIKE YOURS BETTER
wrwrmigul 2 months ago
@wrwrmigul well at least own up to who you are :)
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
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rondord 3 months ago
@rondord original :) thanks for the view and making yourself an obvious douche :)
SlimShaney08 3 months ago 12
@rondord You just jealous that you won't have someone to suck your small dick. So lay off us
wrwrmigul 2 months ago
@rondord u need to be reported U worthless peice of S!
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• 1. Research designed to prove that gays and lesbians are "born that way" has come up empty — there is no scientific evidence that being gay or lesbian is genetically determined” Matthew Brelis, "The Fading 'Gay Gene,'" The Boston Globe, March 20, 2002, p. C1.
waxonify 3 months ago
@waxonify i also dont recall anything proving how it is a choice... :)
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
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you fags have taken over youtube die from aids and go away
rondord 3 months ago
@rondord oh no! cigarettes have taken over youtube!? thats horrible! Karma asshole karma
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
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lightandbeautiful 4 months ago
@lightandbeautiful sweetheart you need to have a focus on life your own not others where you have no buisness :)
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
btw i am not a buddy i am a woman
41gagavision 4 months ago
@itsarthurmarshall thank you :)
SlimShaney08 4 months ago
I am a 41 year old woman, and i just finished watching the tribute that lady gaga did for the young gay man that commited suicide jamey rodemeyer, PLEASE gay or NOT ...be yourself love yourself, cheers peace to all.
41gagavision 5 months ago 2
@41gagavision its horrible what happens but people do learn sadly not all
SlimShaney08 5 months ago
@SlimShaney08 do not judge, that is the way i try to live each and everyday..gay or straight, we are all equil and capable of loving and being kind to others, no i am not perfect myself trustttttttttt me, ....cheers.
41gagavision 5 months ago
@41gagavision So true :) love and let love :)
SlimShaney08 5 months ago
youre story is very cool i love you
chrisg2250 5 months ago
@chrisg2250 Hey thanks so much! please check out my youtube collab channel 7DailyGays
SlimShaney08 5 months ago
Thumbs up if your against homofobic Straight ass Boys
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chrisg2250 5 months ago
Omg Your Cute<3
vacuumlover1 5 months ago
@vacuumlover1 HAHA aww thank you very much :)
SlimShaney08 5 months ago
Your cute in this video.
chadergeist 5 months ago
@chadergeist haha thank you
SlimShaney08 5 months ago
• Homosexuals do not want you to know that many of them were sexually abused when young, because many people who were so abused go on to molest others. And homosexuals do not want you to know that they are more likely to molest children than heterosexuals are. Ray Blanchard, et al., "Fraternal Birth Order and Sexual Orientation in Pedophiles," Archives of Sexual Behavior 29 (2000), p. 464
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@waxonify this is not spam but it is a load of crap.
SlimShaney08 5 months ago
@waxonify well if it's in a book it MUST be true!
OldNewsThinker 5 months ago
@waxonify and this the most ignorant thing I've ever read.
EllaTuSombra 5 months ago
@EllaTuSombra you should read more, or less crap whichever.. and what's been posted is called "truth" you should pull your head out your bf's ass.. get off your knees whipe the sperm from your lips and become a man.
waxonify 3 months ago
@waxonify Once again you show how ignorant you are. Congratulations.
EllaTuSombra 3 months ago
my #1 fag hag lol
dean4013 6 months ago
@dean4013 lol
SlimShaney08 6 months ago
awesome vid ! please check out my story on my chanel:)
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daveandchad 7 months ago
@daveandchad my dad had a wife and together they had me and my two brothers but he came out to being gay when I was maybe two or three id say
SlimShaney08 7 months ago
@SlimShaney08 Ohh I see (:
daveandchad 7 months ago
@daveandchad ya :) but my mom told me today they divorced like when i was 3 but he did not admit to being gay till years later but she knew
SlimShaney08 7 months ago
did your dad molest you? or did he influence you?
karmalevel 8 months ago
@karmalevel I am not sure if this is a serious question but no he never molested me, I don't even think influenced because I was not around him too much when my parents divorced, but at a very young age looking back I should have known i liked boys
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@karmalevel Did your Mom molest you to make you the way your are? IDIOT
usapegasus007 8 months ago
@usapegasus007 nope sweetheart she did not, my mother is one of the most amazing people you could ever meet. She supports me and loves me and she has been my best friend since I was born. You need to learn some manners
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 im sorry I read this wrong you were actually sticking up for me, I apologize about the snap I thought it was the same person asking me if it was my mom and not my dad
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 Did you happen to notice that my comment was driected at "karmalevel" and not you... and that was for makeing the comment about the father molesting him....
usapegasus007 8 months ago
@usapegasus007 I did if you look right underneath my first comment I apologized because I thought it was to me but saw it was to him
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
That was a good video. I have friends that are gay. But alot of people judge them but I don't. So does anyone judge you?
TheChrislucassmh 8 months ago
@TheChrislucassmh thank u and yes many do but haters make you stronger and if someone does not like you based on something you dont have much control over there not a good person
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 i agree 100% percent
TheChrislucassmh 8 months ago
@TheChrislucassmh :)
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 i have haters too just saying :D
TheChrislucassmh 8 months ago
@TheChrislucassmh haters make you stronger sometimes :)
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 keyword sometimes. my haters just hate me cuz they're jealous. haha
TheChrislucassmh 8 months ago
@TheChrislucassmh haha make them fierce
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 you can count on that! seriously. :D
TheChrislucassmh 8 months ago
@TheChrislucassmh i think i meant furious but ya make sure ur fierce haha
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 haha i gotcha! i kinda figured you meant furious too.
TheChrislucassmh 8 months ago
@TheChrislucassmh haha ya
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 lol
TheChrislucassmh 8 months ago
@SlimShaney08 true. but keyword sometimes. they just hate me cuz they're jealous i hope.
TheChrislucassmh 8 months ago
That is the ugliest room I have ever seen in my life...
banj0mak3r 8 months ago
@banj0mak3r haha well thank u, my goal was not to please someone i dont even know, but i moved so im no longer there
SlimShaney08 8 months ago
This was a great coming out story. I just wish my coming out was like that. I came out when I was 15/16 and my family found out when I was 17/18. It was hard on them. It still is. I'm 29, and it's still hard since I live with my grandparents to help take care of my grandfather, but good for you. I hope that your boyfriend works out because you seem like a nice guy. Okay, have a great day and take care.
HerezMikey 9 months ago
@HerezMikey My boyfriend did not work out haha I am very single lol. So who knows if or when that will change :) I am glad your able to eb out now and very nice of you to help take care of ur family. Much love !
SlimShaney08 9 months ago
nasty gay boy
TheUltimateJukebox 9 months ago
@TheUltimateJukebox MWAH
SlimShaney08 9 months ago
wait....your dads gay....but your mom.........whattttttttttttttttttttt?
milkyway531 10 months ago
@milkyway531 yup lol
SlimShaney08 10 months ago
lol i know who the girl is bwhaha poor court lol
caouette81 10 months ago
@caouette81 she seems pretty proud haha
SlimShaney08 10 months ago
@SlimShaney08 yeah well I'm still a bit far off from the family level of things but we'll see :)
Mitoni94 11 months ago
@Mitoni94 hey ur making progress which is awesome!
SlimShaney08 11 months ago
You probably won't read this but I actually came out to my friend today thanx to your video and she was totally fine with it. So yay me lol.
Mitoni94 11 months ago 2
@Mitoni94 I did read this and It made my day. I am so happy my video inspired you.
SlimShaney08 11 months ago
yay for gay people i am gay to lol and what day in may is your bday cause mine is the 4th of may ?
mannylicous 11 months ago
Could you please the logistics of you having a gay father?
sweetfuckingchrist 11 months ago
@sweetfuckingchrist what exactly do you mean? what would you like me to talk about :)
SlimShaney08 11 months ago
@SlimShaney08 Were your parents married? Did she know when they were together? Were there any clues? Sorry for not being specific enough.
sweetfuckingchrist 11 months ago
@sweetfuckingchrist Oh yes my parents were married but shortly after my mom had me they divorced. She said she wondered or had asked him but he denied it, I can only assume clues but like on home movies how he spoke things he said gave clues stereotypical ones but yes. It is fine lol, I get confused sometimes
SlimShaney08 11 months ago
I like your room..btw... fag hag? dude...plz.! were you experimenting with makeup? seems your already handsome.. Have you considered transgendering?
jeffeez 11 months ago
wow u came out at 14!! i'm not out to my parents yet and i'm 19 (in my defense i didn't know i was bi until a year and a half ago).
GiJane1992 11 months ago
Dang 14 i did not have the guts to do it at 14. ive only been out for like maybe a year now and im almost 19.
noahnorton92 11 months ago
@noahnorton92 honestly im lucky my environment and those in my life never made me fear it so when I came out I really did not realize how serious it could be.
SlimShaney08 11 months ago
@SlimShaney08 Well mine was a lil harder (to put in simply) my dad was always like saying how he hated gay ppl and the "gay lifestyle" and my mom would just make lil comments here and there nothing mean but still made it harder for me. And now that i finally have they have totally stopped doing it at least around me which at least show they care that much.
noahnorton92 11 months ago
@noahnorton92 well it's good to see how ur parents show they are trying to show care by not offending you :)
SlimShaney08 11 months ago
@SlimShaney08 Yes haha and my mom told me right after i told her that i was still her favorite haha =P
noahnorton92 11 months ago
Well your doing a great job!
Paramour0421 1 year ago
@Paramour0421 thanks I hope more people watch my videos and take something from them, cuz i dont make them for fun i make them for a reason :)
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
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ChrisThisGeneration 1 year ago
wow 14 you're so lucky! and i wish my dad was gay lol that would be cool to talk about guys and stuff!
josephjuvenile 1 year ago 12
@josephjuvenile well I hated him for it at first lol, but ironic i realized wow I like guys too, ya we talk somewhat but not as much as people would think. Ya I came out very young
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
I like the way you "matter of factly" mention that your father is gay. I had to go back and listen to that twice to get the full impact lol.
cyprixx 1 year ago 2
@cyprixx HAHA it is just routine to me lol, but yes haha
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
God you are lucky, you were surrounded by gay people and others who accept you. I have homophobic parents, and friends who also talk shit about gays. I'm the only son in my family so i'm expected to marry a woman and have our kids carry on our family name. I'm 22 and I don't see myself coming out anytime soon, if ever at all.
Chilean88 1 year ago 3
@Chilean88 these are the comments i hate, you should not have to be afraid to live your own life. I hope you can be yourself soon and if friends wont accept you because of that then they are not real friends. As for your parents you can have kids it just may not be the way they want it, donate sperm, get a donor, adopt but either way it's your life and I hope you can live it <3
SlimShaney08 1 year ago 8
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queers learn butt fuckery from their abusers.
myprawnsarefrozen 11 months ago
woah..what was the boyfriend saying when that boy kissed you haha..but great story though :)
claireLovesBulbasaur 1 year ago
@claireLovesBulbasaur well.... they both kinda were diggin me that night put it that way lol and thanks!!!
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
This is so nice, and you're very easy to listen to! I just adore your voice, and you're great at telling stories your voice just flows so fluidly!
<3
PleaseDieQuietly 1 year ago
So nice to hear a coming out story filled with accepting and loving people!
KindaGayBlog 1 year ago
@KindaGayBlog Aww thanks ya I am lucky :)
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
very useful Thank you. I am still yet to come out
farmerz245 1 year ago
@farmerz245 the main thing you have to do it when your ready. You just have to be careful you don't hurt anyone a long the way. Such as faking having a gf or worse a wife
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
You are very lucky to have such a loving and accepting family.
SAOS451316 1 year ago
@SAOS451316 Yes I am extremely lucky :) started out a bit rocky now things are fine. Not having to hide is great, its really nice to be able to say "mom going on a date with this guy" and have her response be "who" and not "eww"
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
It's refreshing to hear your coming out,wasn't so difficult. You seem well adjusted and I wish you the best when you marry Mr. Right.
TheRamrod100 1 year ago
@TheRamrod100 Aww thank you it was pretty easy some struggles but lifes gr8 with my gayness being accepted, and as far as me marrying mr.right i doubt it be anytime soon losing faith of good cute men out there lol
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
Thanks so much for sharing your story! It's great that you have found acceptance with your friends and family. Hopefully someday my parents will come around to accepting my sexuality. Hearing positive stories really is encouraging.
Taiman5 1 year ago
@Taiman5 aww im glad my video was able to help you, i dont understand how parents can be so negative about who people are and their own children kinda sickening stay strong :) I am a very lucky person with my coming out
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
how inspiring - as a 62yo alone with 3 inside and 20 outside cats, I must admit I wish I had the balls to connect with another man I could love...
bmelin 1 year ago
@bmelin sometimes u gotta take the jump. If u never try to say how u feel how will he ever know
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
@SlimShaney08 true = thanks
bmelin 1 year ago
@bmelin your welcome, sometimes u have to take the initial leap :) best wishes
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
Could you talk about dating a guy? I think everyone wonders what thats like.
justanote7 1 year ago
@justanote7 Ya i can :) ill include a shoutout
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
My thinking was all backwards, wasn't it. LOL Both my parents were str8, so ur so right. Thanks for it all man ... ur awesome!
justanote7 1 year ago
@justanote7 LMAO np! and any topic ideas lemme know ill do a vid
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
"Gay husband and gay son". That's funny, because it's that way with all situations ... ie black husband, black son, asshole husband, asshole son. It's like your hair and eyes and everything else, you are who you are and I'm super, super happy for you!
justanote7 1 year ago
@justanote7 Aww thanks so much, and it's actually not. Most gay sons come from str8 parents haha I am a rare case :)
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
Oh, wow. My mom's a lesbian, and so am I. lol how coincidental. My coming out was pretty easy compared to others, as well, but I adjusted to it with no problem. :) You and I are a couple of the lucky ones.
MurderReignz1 1 year ago
@MurderReignz1 very much so! <3
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
Just have to say, your eyes are beautiful.
cumpanyun 1 year ago
@cumpanyun aww thank u so much! i got that a lot actually haha very nice of u to say
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
would you ever have sex with a girl? it might happen because I heard so many of gay guys having wild sex with their best female friends.
Nancylollypop 1 year ago
@Nancylollypop ummm ive thought bout sex wit a girl but when i imagine coming home to my love i like imagining prince charming i guess and i dont wanna accidently knock a girl up and all and like leave her and all my dads gay and my mom left alone to raise us basically so nah ima try to not i think lol
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
@SlimShaney08 Are you saying that u might have sex with a girl? r u bi? Because if you are gay, than u wouldn't have sex with a girl.
Nancylollypop 1 year ago
@Nancylollypop ..... no im not having sex with a girl. and there are gay guys that have and decided guys are what they are into so things can change but nah i dont want a girl lol
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
@SlimShaney08 Have you met any gay guys that had sex with a girl? did they enjoyed.
Nancylollypop 1 year ago
@Nancylollpop, most said it was eh or no lol or prefer guys
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
@SlimShaney08 they are bi, not gay.
Nancylollypop 1 year ago
Love your story! Happy BDAY lol. Hope all is well with you.
Bugsbunny439 1 year ago
@Bugsbunny439 Aww thanks! it was a gr8 bday! i got my first tattoo ha I keep forgettin im 20 lol and im glad u like my story! :)
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
I think it would be awesome to have a gay dad. Cuz instead of a Dad and son checkin out the chicks together we could check out the guyz together. And I wish Nancylollypop would stop bein all Dr. Phil down here and tellin ppl that they are confused and what there sexual orientation is.
GLW2011 1 year ago
@GLW2011 it was cool but he was not around much still isn't so I don't have much interaction with him, and yes i know let me live my life and you live yours, maybe one day :)
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
You are so brave for posting this. I mean you had to know that there would be people who attack you like in the comments sections. Its always sad that it takes the strongest emotions to elicit a response for good or evil. I hope that my experience goes well because I have to tell my parents soon as well. Not knowing is the worst thing and stuck being halfway out is even worse!
MakeWhyNot 1 year ago
@MakeWhyNot Yes I do, and do what feels right, come out when your ready there are people who will support u best of luck!
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
Nice voice :)
kmilobjork 1 year ago
@kmilobjork THANKs! it's better when singing I think lol
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
i think.. i never coming out from the closet ... because it's just to hard...
by the way.. nice coming out story ! your father gay ? < your step father ? or the biology father ?
residentevilvirus 1 year ago
@residentevilvirus im sorry i just saw ur comment... my biological father is gay, and come out when your ready you may be surprised who accepts u, but also who may not...
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
@residentevilvirus im sorry i seemed to miss answering this my biological father is gay
SlimShaney08 6 months ago
The part about wanting your mom to marry your 3rd grade teacher so that you can have him is hilarious! :D Great coming out story. I hope it's going well with you.
gustjorodedheo 1 year ago
@gustjorodedheo LOL well i didnt realize it at the time but looking back on it I do lol and thanks ya life is good :)
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
I strongly agree with jenna120s that you are bi and a confused individual. You need to get counseling. Maybe you might turn bi again
You must liked your experiences with girls because that's the only way you could get some action
Nancylollypop 1 year ago
@Nancylollypop Wow here you go again.... I am a gay male I have been gay since I was about 14, counseling will not change your sexuality and I don't need it. I was a straight guy but when I had my first gay experience and realized it felt more natural and what I wanted i realized I was a gay male. I could get action with guy or girl but I imagine prince charming when I come home. You really need to get a life.
SlimShaney08 1 year ago
Wow, you had intercourse with a girl?but I thought you were gay
Nancylollypop 1 year ago
Wow, you had intercourse with a girl? I thought you were gay
I could tell that you are gay just by looking at you and your body movement
Nancylollypop 1 year ago
@Nancylollypop I never said I had vaginal intercourse with a girl cuz I have not and yes I am gay. U said what u need to in order to make urself feel like a grownup and an adult where your obviously not, so thank you get off my page
SlimShaney08 1 year ago