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  • hes like a pimped out fez!

  • u sound like my ap environmental teacher... =xx

  • If you have a voice like Mr. Chekov off Star Trek, also not a good thing.

  • any time you think you can predict how a woman will think (looking or not) you are setting yourself up for disappointment.theres no so thing as action/ reaction rule in women emotions or feelings.be yourself is the best rule

  • Wow at high school I used to be able to TED BUNDY stare, but it came across well, not creepily... But then when I grew older I stopped being able to do it.

  • Actually my gf thinks that its cute when I used to look away.

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  • @skat thats a bad thing bro >.> I know....

  • what if you stare at the woman and laugh? :S

  • When I looked back, I caught him looking at me with such voracity and intensity in his eyes, and the way he was standing, like Hercules(he's very muscular) just scared the hell out of me. I felt like a prey in his eyes! Later on, the manager introduces him to all of us, and when he gets to greet me, he once again locks his eyes with mine; it seemed like the time stopped for an instance.What the hell, first time I experience this and wonder what it is? I am a solitary woman, I am not available =(

  • @Scorpiusgrl I know no matter how hot a women is I take consideration for her space spacially before knowing her I see her not with voracity lol but more with admiration........I admire her curves her eyes the way she getsnervous and then just talk like we have time for share!

  • Well, at my job, I was saying bye to a costumer, until I happened to look at the podium where my manager is, and there, a new, very attractive coworker was standing. I happened to accidentally look at him at the same time that he looked at me, and damn it. He's eyes widened, sparkled and locked with mines for like 10 seconds. At that moment, I lost all my focus, although pretending I wasn't affected. Since at that moment I just noticed his eyes, I had to look again to see more.

  • My name a borat

  • I am almost 40 and just learning this stuff... Brutal.

    The comment before mine is right, when you improve your inner self it all gets easier.

    Good tip.

  • eye contact making problem wil not arise if u really happy by your heart.........if u really interested in meeting someone u will give your 100 % attention to him or her then it doesnt even come to your mind where to see in eyes or in face...u just concentrate on he or her is saying....hope my opinion will help u

  • good one

  • I locked gazes with this lady I like.. we have never spoken to each other EVER. We just both frequent the same workout gym.

    Anyway, we locked gazes in the parking lot for about 3 seconds, then she looked away and walked off.

    Not sure what to make of this.

  • @XxSSjUltimatexX tell her she reminded you to someone you knew and if she can give you workout tips!

  • Yea well i lost mine

  • I like marbles.

  • I'm a very shy guy, but you guve me confidence!

    Thanks!

  • At first, I told YOu are a Foolish guy who trying to make some stupid pickup video. But, After i watch this, You really do gain my respect. :)). thanks for the tips.

  • I was 26 when I found this out, how messed up is that? This is the kind off stuff you should learn in school. I'm serious, If you have social training eye contact never comes up.

    The sad thing is, guys usually look away because they are friendly and don't want to invade their space, they don't wan to be rude.

  • when i look people into the eyes i just want to uppercut an elephants poop hole

  • thanx for the tip! damn I have 14 more days of school to make my move wish me luck!

  • Nico Bellic! Cousin! Would you like to go bowling?

  • 90 people got rejected

  • @Chickenfatpopeye lame......

  • I always look at my feet. So I can talk about feet contact. It's really effective to be single.

  • Omg, Im a girl, and I think everything this guy is saying is true in every way

  • I just realiseD something , the part with opening a conversation really rang a bell to me. What could possibly happen? If you just like say hi while eye contact. It's not the end of the world if she says "oh im busy" etc. TY SO MUCH , now i'll keep eye contact and start a conversation. Nothin' bad can happen :D

  • im a girl and i dont want to be the one who looks away first i think its cuter if the guy looks kinda nervous but not too nervous cos it shows he cares. better if u stare into each others eyes for a second and then both look away and then walk up to her and be respectful not cocky

  • I agree with this point of view. I don't like when guys just stare and do nothing. If you approach me, I might turn you down nicely, but I will have HUGE respect for you and that may turn into something else later on

  • im a girl and i find these videos funny to watch!

  • oh shit i look away all the time but from now on i will try to now ? ty man

  • Women judge your strength through simple things like eye contact. She wants to submit to a strong man. If you start off bad and submit to her, she will not want you.

  • @datingwomensex If U r not "her type" no eye contact tricks are gonna help you - sorry thats the world we live in and thats science based (fair studies quoted on my website). BUT "types' are not the same thing as "beauty" thats why SOMETIMES we see an average lookin and average earning guy with a hot babe.

    But its not like he mastered some eye contact patterns ... he was just the right man on the right place in the right time .

  • when you cut eye contact first, it could mean two things, you are weak specially if you look down (never look down), or you are not interested...

  • this is what I do in the club: girl look at me, I look at her, she looks away, I vanish...

    she will somewhat miss me believe it or not.... what I did when I vanished was that while she was looking away, I was actually just chaning position... I observe her, and if she scans arround to find me and finds me and locks in with her eyes on me, then I make a move... and fuck buying girls drinks its just a waste of money

  • thanks so much, this is probably best advice I heard for those all important first impressions.

  • Lol @jsgdk

  • just remember to have relaxed eyes.. not wide open stare!!.. i sometimes even try to look a little stoned.. works for me.. some say "bedroom eyes" :)

  • I stared at my girl for like 1 min. It felt like 1 hour

  • @crushni lol

  • what if you make eye contact and she automatically looks away

  • @Deadpool534

    You win.

    I depends. It doesn't always mean that she's attracted.

  • @messerJ4H yeah i don't think she likes me. Plus i saw her smiling at someone else so i'm screwed lol

  • @Deadpool534

    Girls are the ones that make the initial step. They give a green light for men, inviting them to approach.

    And it's nothing special, it doesn't mean that she's attracted, it's usually unconscious.

    But if she's doing everything to not to look into your eyes, like rolling them around you, you definitely make an impression, either good or bad ; )

  • Destroy them with your laser vision practice on your mum.

  • Damn! Just discovered this guy and he's probably got the best, honest and most no-nonesence approach to giving advice I have seen on Youtube!

  • I was recently diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome;

    So I guess I'm screwed.

    

  • HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAH is this fkn real? OMG LOLOLOLOLL

  • stare that bitch down!

  • Is it okay to break eye contact after 10 minutes of staring into each other's eyes?

  • good stuff!

  • i like sexy time!

  • AaAAHHHH !!!!! All these rules!!!!

  • i stared on a girl cleavage on a yoga class. She look at me, and i didnt look away.

  • @JoeCaliforniah LMAOO!!!!!!!!!

  • @JoeCaliforniah and when did the sexual harassment case happen?

  • @JoeCaliforniah

    Hilarious response dude!

  • This guy fucks chicks everyday

  • What about if you look like Mr Bean?

  • @Maximus25N lmfao

  • @Maximus25N at least u make she laugh

    xD

  • @Maximus25N LMFAO, I JUST LAUGHED SO LOUD.

  • @Maximus25N

    you are fucked then.....

  • Bro, you are spot on!

    Ok guys, this is so true. We can all change this, look inside yourself and find your confidence. Enough with the weak metro guy stuff. I'm sorry, it's time to find the John Wayne in your strides guys.

    Today is my birthday, I am a LEO, this is one of my personal srengths, I am the LION! When I meet eyes, I dont look away, I make them look away more than once and if I am not interested I speak no words.... This is easy to accomplish guys, I have faith in you.

    PEACE!

  • videos like this are why the amount of staring creeps i encounter on the bus and subway has increased greatly.

  • @MissDeeCole Hello sister, I can understand what you say about eye contact. We truely lack the understanding the power of contact and the affects the visual stimulations create within the human mind which in turn is interpeted via micro-electric charges. Oh, the truest work of GOD ; that is man and woman.

    Take heart, feel out the visual tresspassers one at a time and try to be kind in your engaugements. I assure you sister, we all are not evil or have bad intentions or display evil works.

  • @MissDeeCole Are you sure you have a man though, or do you tend to complain how "good guys" are taken or others show no interest?

  • I have that problem. When a girl is looking at me I look at points but not the whole time she is looking. I just get shy and I feel uncomfortable and maybe insecure. But I get nervous looking at anyone for a period of time in the eyes over time while talking to them. I'm well aware and trying to work on it. I look if she is talking but when I respond sometimes I look away then I look back at her.

  • "...you actually have what it TaAkes..."

    1:45 XD 

  • Guys,

    Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).

    I'll give you some advice right now..

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

    Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha

    Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the tip.

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  • "MINIguys make that mistake..." Ahahahaha, nice pronounciation! xD No offense, I actually like that! :D

  • @wickednloaded hahahahaha xd MINIguys

  • Good video man, thanks.

    No more insecurity for me!

    kudos

  • I am girl and when guys stare at me I get nervous and dont look back not because I am not interested but because I am shy. If you want to get a girls number dont stare at her all day or wait for the "eye contact". Just go up to her and ask her out.

  • @026april You have to help us out a bit, some of us are shy too and why do you say "just go up to her and ask her out" like it's easy when you say you're shy yourself?

  • man everyone is a rapper, model, mma fighter now everyone is a PUA.

  • @TheShootTruth10 Hahaha.. I was also thinking the same. I read Niel Strauss - Game and It was a good read but after few chapters it got boring. Won't say that I learned a lot of things from it but yes it introduced me to the new world.

  • Haha can't get girls huh? Lmao smh....

  • maybe i looked away first cause she is a real dog so shut up

  • haha you loser's cant get a girl lol

  • Keep this guy away from your girlfriend!

  • @prek2phd lmao you are so right lol he looks like a perv xD

  • This is good advice

  • im sure at some point not looking away gets creepy..OR MAYBE thats insecurity.. pfft wont let that bother me..

  • I mean, she was across on the other side of the room.....I wasn't planning on approaching her at that moment. 

  • Okay so yesterday I was at the gym and there was this really hot chick.....While doing my workouts, I glanced over at her a couple of times. One of the times, after I looked at her, she "caught me" and looked back at me. Nervous and anxious that she was looking at me, I immediately looked away. Plus I thought it would be creepy if I just continued to stare at her. So what you're saying here is that you should ALWAYS maintain eye contact? Is it weird or creepy to maintain eye contact & not smile?

  • It would help if you would look into the camera when you are speaking. :)

  • but you should give IOIs after building attraction.

  • Says the guy with the molest-stache

  • You are the man !!!

  • harder the course the more rewarding triumpth it is....i have the same picture :)

    thanks for awesome tips been having much more success, thanks to some your tips.

  • It's so hard!!! It's especially hard for me because I have eye contact problems already. I have eye contact problems with everyone, let alone girls.

  • I just show them my 12" cock.

  • Where's the line between that and just being a weirdo?

  • Tell the woman to get mother fuckin naked or you will beat her fuckin ass.

    Let me know how it works out.

  • @hamberg42 SOn of a Gun it worked!!

  • @yasinpatel12345 really?

  • @hamberg42 i don't think i should admit to this......

  • I always stare at girls n not look away. i think it was u that taught me to do that. it works. but i dont follow up after that lol haha still shy.

  • Yeah seriously if they see you looking at them they could straight up think you're a creeper or a stalker... and that doesn't help either of you.

  • you are wise

  • Sometimes if you stare at her it gives her a scary look at you especially if the girl doest know the guy..

  • So true many guys done that they look away before the woman..

  • i'm insicure and women like that about me,i don't hide it

  • GREAT SUCCESS!

  • haha this is jokess

  • I TAKE THAT BACK UR PRETTY SMOOTH ILL GIVE IT A TRY

  • GOOD LUCK LOL

  • absolute win

  • why are woman so damn critical about every little thing i mean shit they are judgemental creatures.

  • @DemonosZXZ Nah, it's human psychology.

  • Man XD i always do that ahahaha....its true..

    i still get some with that mistake tho ;)....

  • it was recess i was sitting and my crush was infront of me with her friends then between us their were kids playing basketball near to her , then i was watching those kids playing while looking to her then suddenly my crush and her friends look .

    so whats that means?

  • @KiLLeRxxBuNNy

    it depends....

    it probably just means they all saw you looking at her and now they know that you probably like one of them...Which is a good thing.now it depends on how you look if they ether laughed at you or were just talking about you but yeah.Or maybe they just all looked at you and thats about it... need a little bit more detail in you're story.as a kid i always tried to make the girl i like laugh and be friends with her...

    and it worked every time..

  • @shirye i always look at her but these days shes like looking at me but she doesnt smile neither me when im lookng at her

  • @KiLLeRxxBuNNy

    alright well i wouldn't stair to much.

    She probably would start to feel uncharitable.

    its cool at first but when it keeps happening it makes the rest of the year awkward towards you and her which makes it harder to approach her.

    just because she looking at you doesn't means she likes you. it just means she notice you looking at her.Play it cool and don't use any stupid pickup lines.

    Try talking to her in a friendly way. and don't try to hard.

  • @shirye

    "Uncomfortable"

  • @KiLLeRxxBuNNy

    Think of her as your sister or cousin when talking to her.

    approach her as you would approach a guy just to be friends with him.

    She's not a queen or anything, just a person. have it in your mind that its not that serious.

    You have to realize that When you become friends with her it makes it easier to ask her out Plus you get to know her more.Try to start a conversation with her, like if something funny happened in class, talk about it while smiling at her.again,Don't try to hard

  • @shirye the problem is shes white im asian....

  • @KiLLeRxxBuNNy

    What does that have to do with anything?

    race shouldn't matter at all in a relationship....

    but i can say this... white women find asians interesting...XD... but i cant say what she thinks about you.

    i don't know the girl... basically dude, just ask her out. if she says no, accept it and move on.

    No biggie.

  • @shirye ok thx for advice

  • @KiLLeRxxBuNNy

    If you are an rasist then I see your problem, otherwise... don't get the point.

  • Btw am 99% she liked me :p

  • Guys pls help I knew a girl in high school and I also had her phone and we even texted each other.last summer we finished school and last time I texted her was 2 months ago and she responded.should I text her again but it's been 2 months since we last talked.

  • soo vlook at said vwomen and vour outcome vill be much better, thank you my name is steve

  • may, i wish i was liek you.

    handsome, smart, psychologic knowledge, without any body abnormalities that are socially depriving, and speaks russian.

    man, ur my idol

  • @RomZruleTeHworld He speaks Russian?? Didn't know that...

    ... well normally Russians are associated with some violent, drunk morons by a lot of the world, so it's not really a good thing. : /

  • @1MadVirus1 thn youve been stereotypic

  • @RomZruleTeHworld

    Not me, but other people. I was born in Russia and lived in the Netherlands, so I have asked some flatmates in my accommodation in London: "Should I say to the girls I meet that I am from Russia or the Netherlands?"

    6/6 agreed that I should say that I am from "Holland". It's not that they have anything against Russians, but don't think that saying that you're Russian will impress the girl all that much.

  • @1MadVirus1 actually, im russophilic

    the russian part was my preference.

  • You should realize before you approach women that most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS by most men approaching them in a lame way.

    I just made a quick vid on how not to be one of those bored men. Check out my channel.

  • yes its true what he's saying but if you're really insecure inside than are you suppose to fake it? My advice to everyone one is work on yourself from the inside out, be true to yourself everything will just flow. Don't be something you're not. Top notch quality girls can see right through that.

  • i did what you said and as a little added bonus i stopped closing my eyes and today i am blind.

  • good advice!

  • Ok I'm sitting in class and there is this boy Tony always staring at me and trying to make me laugh but when I look at him he will give me a squinted eye and I give him the look bak but if I don't look away we would practically be staring at eachother for 1 hour and it gets awkward but Idk if he is leading me on or not u should make a video about how to tell when a boy leads u on or Sumthin cuz I am really confused

  • man i never thought about it like that. sheet.. in my entire life as teenager.. how many girls did i lost because of this atitude? man.. im diapointed wth my self..

  • It sounds good in theory, but in reality its probably pretty creepy, especially if you do it wrong. Fuck it, you're gonna die one day. What do you have to lose?...

  • what the fuck is this guy talking about? getting advice on how to get women from men can sometimes be more detremental to your health, but this is maily beginner stuff.

  • he is a robot

  • Two lines that always work:

    1. "I think I'm going gay, but I bet you could cure me. Wanna try?"

    2. "If I don't get laid tonight, I'm gonna kill myself. Are you free this evening?"

    ;)

  • If you are insecure and lack confidence, then it seems to me that instead of trying to hide these flaws like a phony, the best thing to do is to work on things in your life that would make you secure and confident.

    Then again, banging a hot chick goes a long ways toward that goal. lol

  • There's only one issue with this. If he is insistant on not breaking eye-contact and she is SHARING THIS EXACT SAME MENTALITY! It's going to turn from-being flirtatious, to being out-right CREEPY & AWKWARD!

    There may come a point he'll have to look away, because it is meant to be a "moment," of eye-contact, not 8 full minutes or more of a staring contest.

  • @lovelyladynostalgic - Yes, you have a point. More than a 2 or 3 second contact with the eyes must conclude. Usually with a slight smile and raise of an eyebrow from the guy. The communication is this, "Hi, you caught me looking at you and I don't mind you knowing that I find you attractive." Now, the guy's job is to be aware if the woman is moving closer to him. If so, he does the same and smiles, and starts a conversation. He's got about 1 minute then to make it or break it.

  • its not about looking or opening lines.

    it is about going up to her, whatever you say if okay, as long as you just keep a nice conversation. 1 on 1 most people are nice, so it shouldn't be a big deal. people like meeting people. just talk about anything. you'll find something you both want to talk about soon enough.

  • No, the first thing it tells a woman is this.."I am not attracted to you." Not the message you want.

  • i have a doubt-whats the first sentence you should use when aproaching a woman

  • @hugofernanades "Wanna fuck?"

  • I like this tip. It's one that I have to work on but it's easy to practice. I just need to do this with everyone - women and men. :)

  • dude i look so good that i don't need that tips...i don't even need 2 talk...lol

  • i never look away.. in fact.. when girls look at me and they are HOT.. my heart goes to ADRENALINE MODE".. and then i go speak with them... its like one of those times when my body is in auto mode.. i dont feel my legs and they are walking straight at her... i dont even know how i do that.. but u know what.. i love it

  • I think it's funny how so many people nowadays need help getting girls. If these guys were to be sent back in time before the internet... They would have been FUCKED! Not literally of course...

  • i cant risist the urge too look at her face on this youtube video

  • I think if this guy is smart enough to get women he would at least be able to edit our himself reaching for the camera

  • YOU MUST RESIST THAT URGE! hahaha

  • wtf !!!!!!!!!! wheres immagration when u need them

  • make some videos for women for starters.....why the hell does it always have to be on the guy to initiate and maintain nearly every aspect of the relationship? wtf is that?!

  • @suchafool990 well women don't really need tips at this kind of stuff. they just have to make themselves pretty and i'm sure a guy comes up to her,but yeah i have to agree with you. It seems like women don't have to do shit about this stuff.

  • Very good advice;I've actually tried the smiling and waving response to a very beautiful young woman who made eye contact,and had the courage to speak to her on a few occasions,which didn't end up too bad.I can only hope I may be able to see her again soon.