they need to play this on the radio instead off the garbage thats on it supporting violence and drugs even though i dont particularly like this music has a good message though.
its a gradual thing, its not like one date and get punched. Its over a period of time, a slow stripping of your pride, friends, and dignity. When you look for help, nobody is there. You feel trapped and with no network, your self esteem plummets. I left and came back 3 times, then married him.. ?!?!?! but now Ive been out for 3 years and finally stopped holding it in, and am a public speaker and victim advocate. I hold live music events as awareness functions.
@enoughofit7 exactly. It's a shame then that so many people think this gradual striping of ones self can't also be perpetrated against a man, simply because of his gender. Even this song only looks at it from a female victim perspective (rather than gender neutral)
Thanks for refocusing my mind.Been in this situation for 17 yrs and have a plan to get out very soon.Keep doubting what I'm doing+wish I'd done this years ago for all of us.Amazing how music can inspire and lift your soul.It's hard to let go but I really Don't want to become a statistic .
This is a great video. I hope you will continue making such inspirational messages. Can you please also check out the following Video, and help me promote the message to end Violence of All types watch?v=U2JB922FhtM
3 people are fucked up, if you don't like the song so be it. But it isn't the song that matters it's the moral of song. And the moral is amazing. No one deserves to be abused, except the abusers!
My father abuses my mother, I wish she would leave him. I've been begging her since my freshman year of high school.I'm a freshman in college now. Someone please explain to me why women feel weak around these men? I don't understand why you don't leave! Sure finances will be hard, but is the abuse worth having money? In my opinion I'd rather be broke and in a box than be struck by some pompous, controlling, psychotic man!
The intent of this song is good ... but I disagree xShell5x below this song is far from "brilliant" ... I have heard common street performers that were far superior in sound and originality. All in all good message but to the "artist".... dont quit your day job.
Andrew Cuomo abused the office of Attorney General in order to protect the wife beating Judge James Peck. We will never end spouse abuse unless we make crooked politicians like Cuomo stop protecting criminals.
@dancejess8D There's "never again" by nickelback, and "love the way you lie" by Eminem and Rihanna. That one is my favorite. I Hope that helps. Good luck.
i was in a relationship with a schitzohprenic who always abused me. i know he had demons bothering him though cause they bothered me as well. i guess its no excuse though.
This song should be played over the radio i know their are alot of ladies out there going through what i was and worse.. Men that beat on woman are all about control and lies.. They feed off of your weakness for them especially when you love them.. Report them before they do it to another...
I need to hear this song.. i was in love with a man that was a woman beater.. i finally got the courage to stand up for myself and let the law deal with his abusive ass
This song and video is very inspiring to me. I was meant to hear this song.. I was in love with a man who violated me and i was in denial for a long time of his violence against me. He would make me beleivei triggered him to hit and choke me out 1 His family aided and abbedded him in his violence.. i finally got the courage to stand up for myself and make him pay for his crimes against me.. My heart goes out to all women dealing with domestic violence. its a crime. Move on and never look back
There is never a reason for hitting anyone under any circumstance. Violence is the result of a weak mind. A person who can't succeed at their own life and has a need to blame someone else for it. Domestic violence also does not distenquish between male and female. Male on male violence, female on female violence, it also knows no age limits. Help stop the cycle now! It starts with us.
so does a girl deserve to be beat up because he lost his own phone when hes drunk? does she deserve it if she tries to help herself and he hurts her again? does she deserve being hit if she wants to have her own opinions? does she deserve it if shes crying because he yells at her so he punches her like a man? does she deserve it if shes putting on makeup and he beats her cuz he thinks shes cheating? does she deserve it because hes high on crack? does she deserve any of it? NO!
i must agree with you punk420rawk .... ive been there as well for alot of the reason you listen up there and i ended up having this mans baby ... but its all good now its been almost 5 years now and im okay now .. still hurtin on and off but okay ... and you will be too ! give it time baby give it time
Bless you for your response. I was abused off and on for over 5 years. Tried to make it work with the father of my children went thorugh horrible emotional, mental physical abuse. I was hurt for a couple of the reasons you listed. It will be a year next month that I have left him for the last time! I am almost finished with my degree, I have two beautiful children to raise and I have a wonderful and loving man in my life for myself and my children. I just wanted to say your post was appreciated!
who is this by ??
TheSazzlemedazzle 3 months ago
they need to play this on the radio instead off the garbage thats on it supporting violence and drugs even though i dont particularly like this music has a good message though.
pat61l 3 months ago
its a gradual thing, its not like one date and get punched. Its over a period of time, a slow stripping of your pride, friends, and dignity. When you look for help, nobody is there. You feel trapped and with no network, your self esteem plummets. I left and came back 3 times, then married him.. ?!?!?! but now Ive been out for 3 years and finally stopped holding it in, and am a public speaker and victim advocate. I hold live music events as awareness functions.
enoughofit7 7 months ago
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@enoughofit7 exactly. It's a shame then that so many people think this gradual striping of ones self can't also be perpetrated against a man, simply because of his gender. Even this song only looks at it from a female victim perspective (rather than gender neutral)
MNeilGri 2 months ago
3yrs and now im out thanks 4 the inspiration
cheyenne81296 7 months ago
Thanks for refocusing my mind.Been in this situation for 17 yrs and have a plan to get out very soon.Keep doubting what I'm doing+wish I'd done this years ago for all of us.Amazing how music can inspire and lift your soul.It's hard to let go but I really Don't want to become a statistic .
fallendirtyface 9 months ago
This is a great video. I hope you will continue making such inspirational messages. Can you please also check out the following Video, and help me promote the message to end Violence of All types watch?v=U2JB922FhtM
roud12345 9 months ago
@musicfreak13140910
Yes, lets abuse those who abuse others. I see nothing wrong with that logic.
Also, if people dislike something, that doesn't mean they're fucked up. They just didn't like the song (myself included).
1337Eskimoe 9 months ago
3 people are fucked up, if you don't like the song so be it. But it isn't the song that matters it's the moral of song. And the moral is amazing. No one deserves to be abused, except the abusers!
musicfreak13140910 10 months ago
thank you for this..i just got out of a domestic violence situation and its so hard...
socalatina09 1 year ago
My father abuses my mother, I wish she would leave him. I've been begging her since my freshman year of high school.I'm a freshman in college now. Someone please explain to me why women feel weak around these men? I don't understand why you don't leave! Sure finances will be hard, but is the abuse worth having money? In my opinion I'd rather be broke and in a box than be struck by some pompous, controlling, psychotic man!
dollface1800 1 year ago
The intent of this song is good ... but I disagree xShell5x below this song is far from "brilliant" ... I have heard common street performers that were far superior in sound and originality. All in all good message but to the "artist".... dont quit your day job.
slipknotcharlie 1 year ago
Damn good job with this video!!
TheChaves11b 1 year ago
Andrew Cuomo abused the office of Attorney General in order to protect the wife beating Judge James Peck. We will never end spouse abuse unless we make crooked politicians like Cuomo stop protecting criminals.
OfficialCorruption 1 year ago
does anyone know any other good domestic violence songs ?? im doing a dance based on one .. so any thoughts please msg me ! thanks
dancejess8D 1 year ago
@dancejess8D There's "never again" by nickelback, and "love the way you lie" by Eminem and Rihanna. That one is my favorite. I Hope that helps. Good luck.
lawstudentgirl1 1 year ago
@dancejess8D , there is a song called 'don't let him take you away' by debbie vicari.you can hear it here on youtube. hope it helps.
babyblueartest 1 year ago
i was in a relationship with a schitzohprenic who always abused me. i know he had demons bothering him though cause they bothered me as well. i guess its no excuse though.
stephypooh1990 1 year ago
@stephypooh1990 No it isn't an excuse.
lawstudentgirl1 1 year ago
OMG what a brilliant song! hits home!
xShell5x 1 year ago
I usually don't like rap, but this one is a keeper.
ronhj62 1 year ago
This video is the reality of domestic violence.. It so sad but so real.
hopebrown1971 1 year ago
This song should be played over the radio i know their are alot of ladies out there going through what i was and worse.. Men that beat on woman are all about control and lies.. They feed off of your weakness for them especially when you love them.. Report them before they do it to another...
hopebrown1971 1 year ago
@hopebrown1971 I agree.
lawstudentgirl1 1 year ago
I need to hear this song.. i was in love with a man that was a woman beater.. i finally got the courage to stand up for myself and let the law deal with his abusive ass
hopebrown1971 1 year ago
@hopebrown1971 Good for you. You are a very brave person and I respect you for that.
lawstudentgirl1 1 year ago
This song and video is very inspiring to me. I was meant to hear this song.. I was in love with a man who violated me and i was in denial for a long time of his violence against me. He would make me beleivei triggered him to hit and choke me out 1 His family aided and abbedded him in his violence.. i finally got the courage to stand up for myself and make him pay for his crimes against me.. My heart goes out to all women dealing with domestic violence. its a crime. Move on and never look back
hopebrown1971 1 year ago
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Remember comming home and having to pull him off of her. Beating her down close fist like a man. She was pregnant.
Never thought that one day we would bury the child in her womb. But we did. :(
ClubGirlPower 2 years ago
awesome!!!
schwoogie78 1 year ago
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fuzziisocks145 2 years ago
Im NOT droppin SHIT! mOVIN oN Gladly! But charges will stay!!!!!!!!!
YouNo0216 2 years ago
There is never a reason for hitting anyone under any circumstance. Violence is the result of a weak mind. A person who can't succeed at their own life and has a need to blame someone else for it. Domestic violence also does not distenquish between male and female. Male on male violence, female on female violence, it also knows no age limits. Help stop the cycle now! It starts with us.
ridgerunner98570 2 years ago 12
you couldn't of said it any better. /so very true
hopebrown1971 1 year ago
@ridgerunner98570 You are so correct.
lawstudentgirl1 1 year ago
i love this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
amy20057 1 year ago
no body deserves to be hit anyone should be ashamed for thinking that its right to hit a women
shyone6000 2 years ago
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Some bitches need to be shown who's boss sometimes.
k4n31985 2 years ago
SHAME ON YOU!!
wonderglory 2 years ago 4
Would u like 4 ur mother 2b bitched slapped? Perhaps u r looking 4 a response ......shame on u ........u need 2b prayed 4
healingbrokenwings 2 years ago 2
yea if she deserved it
missmell63 2 years ago
so does a girl deserve to be beat up because he lost his own phone when hes drunk? does she deserve it if she tries to help herself and he hurts her again? does she deserve being hit if she wants to have her own opinions? does she deserve it if shes crying because he yells at her so he punches her like a man? does she deserve it if shes putting on makeup and he beats her cuz he thinks shes cheating? does she deserve it because hes high on crack? does she deserve any of it? NO!
punk420rawk 2 years ago
i must agree with you punk420rawk .... ive been there as well for alot of the reason you listen up there and i ended up having this mans baby ... but its all good now its been almost 5 years now and im okay now .. still hurtin on and off but okay ... and you will be too ! give it time baby give it time
mamaniki1987 2 years ago
@healingbrokenwings you need to stop with the numbers.
FranzKarlWeber 1 year ago
I agree
missmell63 2 years ago
Bless you for your response. I was abused off and on for over 5 years. Tried to make it work with the father of my children went thorugh horrible emotional, mental physical abuse. I was hurt for a couple of the reasons you listed. It will be a year next month that I have left him for the last time! I am almost finished with my degree, I have two beautiful children to raise and I have a wonderful and loving man in my life for myself and my children. I just wanted to say your post was appreciated!
Biechler23 2 years ago
you ass hole i was one of them that was abused. fuck off
sappire2008 2 years ago