Effects of Divorce on Men

[banacek8675]

Theres always 3 or 4 cunts who disagree with these manwomanmyth videos. Its not enough they laugh an all out full frontal assault on our rights; they have to invade the one outlet we have to vent. Stick to your own channels you lowlife bitches.

[joshuajayden77]

Great video, there are so many lesbian/feminist women around my family and it has caused us a lot of trouble. I do not want my two boys around that garbage. I'm going through a divorce and it makes me angry to think that they will be exposed to who knows what when I'm gone.

[Sam10947]

@joshuajayden77

Hey bud, never back down from what u believe, u got a gut of sane ppl, live strong and ur head up high, protect ur children from degeneracy, u heard, peace.

[joimko2]

Do not want divorce? Just never marry. Human are not ment to stay in a lifelong relationship... I married just to please my wife. And not I am very bitter about it.

Well let me rephrase that, do not marry a second best. The only chance is to marry theone. If you can't get it, stay away. Just my opinion!

[MrKeldoMills]

@joimko2 I agree. After seeing this, I ain't getting married! There are other ways around marriage such as hoes and stuff.

[framboise595]

I listened to an old video on You Tube last week ,a song of the sixties I think .The woman sang : "I will follow him wherever he may go".

Of course ,this was too good ,too virtuous to last. Those vile demon-possessed feminists came and pushed all women into ruling over their husbands (under "equality" disguise) ,mocking them ,despise them ,teaching them independance bullshit .

There is no love in hell . Just hate.

Welcome to hell , feminism's headquarter.

[framboise595]

The day will come when women pay for all the evil they spread on this miserable earth.

They are the ones who file for divorce (more than 70%) .Why ? because they fight with men instead of following them .They want to be the head of the household ,they don't know what submission is any more because their hearts is full of hate and confusion.

By embrassing their bloody "careers" buttering up their ego ,,they have forgotten two essential words : love and sacrifice.

[MrKeldoMills]

@framboise595 I hate women, they just ain't worth a s**t! I sure wouldn't marry one. Being a hoe is the way to go if you want to do it without marriage.

[carloscantube]

This is an awesome video, even though it made me cry almost immediately because I'm going through a divorce.

[G41MCombo]

a fine example of a man getting gang raped by the lawyers and the legal system.....and gays still want to get married,hmmmmmm.

[123456RaulMorales]

I don't need to marry anyone!!I am proud to be alone than being with bad mates!!

[147896325xl5]

The Father is always bad, right Mum? Never let the children forget that.

[hmongvaj08]

Great video. My wife just left me and took my son with her. Everything I ever worked or look forward to is all down the drain. Life sucks.

[mybrandnewlook]

It can still bring tears. Even after all this time.

[hatke159]

OH come on...

Men Start acting like REAL MEN...

We are not Women... We are tough, adventurous, lazy, MANLY...

we dont need women, women need us....

We only need women for Cooking and SEX...

And we dont have to get depressed if marriage ends in divorce..

We just need ways to keep ourselves busy...

[pyramidhead138]

no 8 out of 10 marriages end in divorce

[semdavidanger]

now we men are fucked than before

[RickvanOsta]

I'm 1 of the 42% :)

[bornblond9gb]

I don't think divorce is ever positive....i know it wasn't for my ex-husband!

[hatke159]

@bornblond9gb LOL... That's what you think..

I think he probably went to Vegas the next day you got divorced ...

[bornblond9gb]

@hatke159 Yes your right he did and just a few years later after two more kids the woman he had an affair with left him for someone else and now to the best of my knowledge he is living with a woman and taking care of kids that aren't even his while paying two sets of child support...where's the logic in that...it most defintely wasn't a positive outcome for him!

[americathinks1]

This is a great video, I got marrried with a divorce guy, the problem we have is that he get drunk and he start to talk about his last broke up, I am getting sick about it, and they need to talk because of the boy they have, is very difficult because I have a baby girl too , sometimes I wonder if he will ever move on !!! is so frustrated , to the point that I ask to myself if I still love him .... sometimes I think we should get divorce ....

[chipmunx]

@americathinks1 Would you ever be able to "move on" from your baby girl?

[b0bsmiley]

simple dont get married problem solved 

[pigpenthecat]

I watched this video, and began sobbing. My husband of 20 years, whom I still love with all my heart ran off with this other woman. She built her happiness upon destroying my family. My little girl who is 6 years old is heart broken. I keep hoping the pain will stop. I have always worked and made good money 100k/yr. I now find it is hard to even get out of bed some mornings.9 months later here we are he is not hurting, having a fling with horseface. So, do I think men have it harder, no I don't.

[geetarbube]

@pigpenthecat my wife of 15yrs has fallen out of love with me and has been unfaithful. we have been separated for over 2yrs. we have two daughters. i'm devastated. men hurt, too. i'm sorry this happened to you. God Bless

[pigpenthecat]

@geetarbube HI, I was thinking in the context of the one who cheated. I am sorry this has happened to you. It is not right for someone treat someone they took vows with so poorly. I feel it takes a very selfish person to hurt someone this way. Yes it is devastating, and some days I feel like I am worse than when it first happened. Then there are other days that are better. The children, have a very hard time they have to deal with the person every other week becasuse they have rights.

[charbaugh22]

good video

[richzubaty]

What is this, an ad for divorce lawyers, complete with a sappy song. Click on my name and go watch my What Men Know That Women Don't video and live again.

[Alexander67212]

I spent twelve years doing all i could to earn the love of a person that never loved me. Two small sons involved. Divorce is as painfull as a loved one dying. I have never been through something so painfull.

[yomama111336]

you fit my father

[raboadela]

@Alexander67212 i understand i been through alot but my divorce is the most painful

[paul123kenneth]

beautiful song but it breaks my heart to watch the video and know i have lost my wife and family

[mack70214]

like my uncle told me "the biggest thing I regret is getting married" NEVER GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[yomama111336]

ha my dad told me that

[OffRobert]

"When a man gets divorced, he loses his source of emotional nourishment: his wife"??!?!?!? I lost the nag who tried to stifle me, control me, castrate me, demean me, bankrupt me, neglect me, insult me, isolate me, and ultimately, abandon me. Tomorrow, my divorce day, will be FANTASTIC.

[Gr8Candid8]

HAHAHAHAHA........

[carina81gr]

@OffRobert hahaha man i liked it.it did cross my mindtoo wtf??? my husbands, ex wife sounds like wot u exact said,she cheated with a family friend,and he always sais he took my problem away,the huge abusive nager

[benopolly]

First off, divorce doesn't always causes pain. If you think about it, there are most likely problems far greater than divorce that make it happen in the first place. Second, to all of those people who write their life story, I don't care! that's right! This is YOUTUBE. k that brings me to my third point, which is, since no one is perfect, you can't always trust other people! Trust in God. 4th. I highly recommend rollin a nice doobie for Jesus.He takes these pains of life and makes it all better

[BiGMANJOE32]

I dont feel sorry for anyone a man or women who wants a divore and there partners flips out due to the depression the court fees the alimony the stress of it all and put they ass in the ground for that shit. Divorce si just away for the govenment to make money divorce is only causes pain

[N3onL1zard]

Awesome VID! I can't help but cry! I dated my wife 3 and a half yrs. before we got married and we have now been married for 10yrs. We have 2 children 4 & 3. I can hardly remember the days b4 her,...Now my wife wants a divorce,...we are going to go see a professional couselor on 10/16 to see if there is any hope,...but I'm affraid she only agreed to buy time while she looks for a job and a place to live... If we end up getting a divorce I will be loosing my whole life:My wife and kids!

[siphilrus]

this video is rough, everytime i watch this i almost cry. all i can think about is me standing tall after all of this shit and taking care of my kids. im not letting this get the best of me just keep moving on. im getting a degree after all this shit is over.

[4tomek77]

Support groups? Really?

What is happening in this country, is nothing short of a massive civil rights violation. We need men to fight for their rights, for Christ sake!

We have the right to be PARENTS. We have the right to PRESUMPTION OF INNOCENCE. We have the right to our PROPERTY and SAVINGS.

I am not married and never will! If you are thinking about marriage: hire a divorce attorney and have him explain the law to you!!

[courtinjusticeuk]

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[benopolly]

I don't see anywhere in the Bible, or anyhwere else where getting married has any to do with the government! Ill get the fuck married alright someday, but it doesnt mean I GO TO the government and let them steal my money. and then complain about it. fuck our government. it's more corrupt than police in Belize

[KittyKattyYukiLvr]

Nonetheless, I do believe men are screwed in divorce...

[123456RaulMorales]

@KittyKattyYukiLvr Thats why I want proudly to be alone than to be with bad mates!!

[123456RaulMorales]

@KittyKattyYukiLvr Thats why I want proudly to be alone than to be with bad mates,because I dont need any heart-breaking case-scenarios!!

[KittyKattyYukiLvr]

My parents separated when I was four...My dad has married and had two children, my mother hasn't and I have a better relationship with my father.

[RATLOVERYEP]

my parents divorced when i was six.... and my mom s in dept even though she is getting chil supposrt from THREE GUYS and my dad hasnt had a girl friend since and that was like ten years ago.... and my mom had uh....five? or for and shes pregnant again after for kids and failed tree times.......... ugh..

[18530wod]

So glad I am gay!

[Wolf1is1MY1handle]

gays get married too-.-''

[sbays]

SO glad your gay huh? So am I. 2 years ago, my "Husband" soul mate, whatever you want to call him, left our relationship (Marriage) of 16 years because it was more imortant to be constantly cheating on me. He fell in love with another guy, and left me. Our life together GONE .. our home GONE ... everything I cared about GONE! These situations are not gender specific. Its just the sad reality of life. Off to face life ALONE!

[Gr8Candid8]

I am so sorry to read your account. I hope your better now

[1zzzzzzz1]

Just say no!

[AmariLLoTexasCorrupt]

i am now a "violent" criminal and in debt.

it isnt just the SPOUSE it is the police courts and lawyers. they make a LOT of money off of you by pretending they believe your lying spouse. and the chruches that marry you. get yoiur heads out of the clouds or you'll end up iln the GUTTER. TALK TO SOME LAWYERS BEFORE YOU SIGN THAT MARRIAGE CONTRACT.

[AmariLLoTexasCorrupt]

i didnt have any children fortunately. no children involved in my divorce. wife was a con artist married me for my money. got me arrested with her copper friends on assult charges when i tried to talk to her for the last time about where my money was going. went to jail, got, out, her slimey ass lawyer went after me like a snarling animal. TEXAS locked up my houses and cars and the money to pay for them and the police protected her while she trashed my houses, live and finances.

[pemaliktube]

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[altruistic]

congrats on such great vid. wads the song used btw?

[spooninspoon]

Heartache for a man is a thousand times worse than the heartache of a woman... It's way easier for women to find attention, love or a relationship then it is for a man. This is just my opinion, so feel free to debate

[ethicomm]

Go to Yahoo and search for "The Myth of the Deadbeat Dad". It's a sad article about the way the court system (in Canada) treats divorced Dads. It was written by a woman who totally agrees that men are screwed in divorce.

[elroller03]

GRET VIDEO, We man are not treate fairly in the USA

[sixara]

Man this really means a lot to see. My divorce devastated me. I still miss my old life.

[akohut1]

This is a GREAT video. I have a question about it. I currently run a Free Divorce Workshop in my community and would love to use something like this as an intro to the seminar about the most important thing being to ask for help.

[trublondee]

wow what a great idea! You are able to use this if you would like.

[akohut1]

Thanks! Is there a way to get the actual file?  Sometimes there are issues with the work computer and YouTube. Is there a way to speak about it or discuss further? I am fairly new to YouTube and can't figure out how to send a message or e-mail from here other than this posting. Thanks!

[gergar121]

@trublondee do you think these golddiggers women who just backstab men an then after that take away their children forever was cause by hippies and public interst groups and most importantly polical correctness. Remember when there were women who care about there man and did more than support the children and actury help their family instead of just destroying it for cash.

[chrisn99uk]

Good video - I have been divorced once and now it looks like a second time. The first one was bad but no children. I now have 3 sons, 1 severely disabled and 1 a baby. I worked hard all my life and now I will give it all away. My wife has never given me emotional nourishment ever, just bills and a guilty feeling about what i haven't done, Never praise for what i have done. time to go shoot myself ...........................

[trublondee]

i am so sorry to hear that. are things any better now with you and your wife? have you told her your frustrations? please keep fighting for your marriage.

[chrisn99uk]

If I try to tell her my problems she immediately tells me hers are worse. example - I get in from having a stressful day - I'm tired - I say I have headache - yes I have one to - I havent eaten all day - neither have I. I hit my thumb with a hammer - I trapped my arm in a door - get the picture. I'll keep trying though

[67bandit67]

@chrisn99uk You are not alone! A lot of men getting screwed. Me too.

It is our job now to spread the word of marriage and what it means if it does not work out. Spread the word.

[d8mydad]

THIS made me cry, i am not like yjat anymore, but i do have a 6 yr old daughter and i was left and felt very much like this video. i tried finding groups, but no action. its been 3 yrs and although i have moved on, its my daughter and the insanity i was put thru by my ex and her billionaire dad. the worst part is all the money in the world could not make me marry for cash, I understand now I am better off, the courts, and the world short change all men, WE ARE NOT TREATED FAIRLY AT ALL

[briannaarmstrong]

d8mydad, I don't mean to be rude at all but you think YOU have it tough?! Try being a woman! That's no walk in the park and women have their troubles with divorce too! My mom's tried killing herself because of the divorce she's going through now. It's tough for men AND women!

[ethicomm]

If you go to Yahoo or Google and type in "The Myth of the Deadbeat Dad", you can read a sad article about what the justice system does to men during divorce. The article is written by a woman and quotes mostly women. They present the argument that the court system discriminates against men during divorce. Suicide, poverty and isolation: these are the issues divorced men face. Some deserve it, most don't.

[fedaclafedacla]

I just watched your movie, it is so true... I am trying to survive a divorce... it is the worst thing a man can experience in his life. I am 28, married since 2 years, no kids. The suffering is so much, I could cry the whole day... My wife left home a month ago, I am trying to get out of this depression, but it is really hard. My wife is my source of emotional nutrition (as the movies says)... I really do not know how to continue living without her....

[ShaolinSurfer777]

divorce is an irrational situation if it's within a good society that doesn't encourage it's women to compete with its Men, that promotes modesty and living moderately instead of extravagance and self importance,

a good system which the act of marriage itself is not chosen by the couples themselves but by the spiritual judges/arrangers. And most of all a great society which encourages LOVE FOR GOD.

[fun555555555]

shit man i was crying after this (i'm a guy and 17)

my sister just and i mean JUST divorced her husband and they have a kid about 8 months old, dude i don't know what do. i mean i love em both but it's just stupid, ANDD THEY DIVORCED IN OUR HOUSE seriously. about 10 minutes ago

[trublondee]

wow im so sorry.. that is a really tough thing to go through. have things gotten any better?

[fun555555555]

uhhh. i mean they sort of resolved (not divorced) but my sister is staying with us because of the debt that my brother in law mad because he has no brain with money. i like both of them. but it does seem to fluctuate frequently

[fun555555555]

thanks for caring

[canamwing]

marriage is for gay people. So nothing to worry about anymore!

[avonrangemaster]

Excellent video! The part re Mormons is very true..very helpful about debt too,you don't feel the only one any more.

[mbogdanoff]

Very good video - professional!

[Berumen85]

Awsome vid! Whats the song called?

[trublondee]

its called "you could be happy" by snow patrol

[Berumen85]

Thnx! U should do some more vids!

[webmastercorey]

Interesting information. I like the idea behind it. The text seems some what unplanned (transitions, placement, etc.) Pictures fit nicely.

[KaniG21]

Wow, I didn't know most of this stuff. We always think about the effects of divorce on women and children, but rarely men. Good work!

[GTNRE2010]

Good work. I liked the details -- especially that you added web addresses at key instrumental moments...

yeah.

[blacktape88]

very well done. you did a good job on the editing. :D