How to Deal With a Breakup : Types of Relationship Breakups

[VenomFrogX]

I had to break up with someone today because things didn't feel right and realised that this relationship should never of happened. Had no choice but to be hostile to this person before cutting them off. Some who may read this may have a strong view, but I tried doing this the polite way but it didn't work out, so I had no alternative but to end it hard and fast.

[CrA1n4]

@VenomFrogX Same her im going through the same thing.

[TheBMAN541]

Honestly when my gf broke up with me. I felt like crying up a storm. Because i love her so much. But honestly I felt good when i was thinking it wasn't the end for me. I new what I did wrong and now I'm fixing my mistakes. I was afraid of being lonely now , that fear just left the building. I feel good and happy. It was my fault. I wont do the same mistake again :D.

[ElectrickDynomite]

this is on expertvillage? how many times did she get dumpd?

[benniquaid]

This didn't help at all. I still feel like shit. This pain is beyond the help of alcohol

[feldspar47]

i need your help tracy ..... my case is a lil too diffrent from all this!!!!! could i have an email or anything i can get in touch with you on this

[PlkiuMnbvf]

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[frankg3rd]

Ask yourself ....... why do all the drunks and womanizers keep their woman ? Answer ...... the relationship can never get boring ....... woman are addicted to the drama !!!!

Plus they can add to their own victim story !!!!

[JacqueRamon]

@frankg3rd Amen. That is so true it's not funny.

[evasivenose]

i got owned 10 min ago.. im taking it so well its amazing and its horrible at the same time... i hope i die ftw :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD­DDDD

[FragMaggot77]

Wow... that video was vague :(

[nishifrancis]

Except to go to work I haven't left the place in the longest time. The reason to post this here is to seek advise or any sort of comfort to latch on. It's been over a year now. I'm still sulking. And I don't know how to move on. There are no reminders I'm keeping. All pointer mentioned I have done but still the same. Can someone help, please?

[FragMaggot77]

@nishifrancis My advice woud be this... screw him... he's moved on... so should you. Find the things that make you happy. Hobbies, goals, whatever. GO out, have fun, even if by yourself. No poin in sulking (I know, I've done it plenty of times and it's pointless). Just move on like he has. Fill you mind and time with positive things. Eventually it won't be a struggle anymore and things will get better.

[nishifrancis]

@FragMaggot77 Thank you, it means a lot especially at this stage. I have started going out and all (time to time), but everyone says I have changed a lot. I don't see that but maybe others do. Time is a big healer and this would get better. But tell me one thing, how does someone get over a deception from someone you could bet your life on? Does that go away with time too?

[nishifrancis]

I kept on moving back and forth at times hating him and fighting and everything I could. Even when I fought I didn't show my anger or anything. There were patches when I thought I could be friends. He's now married to her and moved away from here. I'm still a mess. I don't know what hit me. I'm known to be very strong, social, friendly but now I cant even leave the house. What ever happened shook my entire existence. I'm now on sleeping pills, I take them and pass out for days.

[nishifrancis]

I was seeing my best friend and broke up. Still were intimate as I love him a lot. Got pregnant had a miscarriage. He was there very caring. We discussed and I told him to move on as we it was ridiculous being together without saying we were dating. He said he'd rather be with me then any other woman. A few weeks later I walked up on him and another woman. This was a year back, I had a nervous break down, been to counseling, psychiatrists a lot of anti depressants etc.

[blade004]

No of course its not negative, especially when you were with her for 5 years, had proposed to her the year before, were due to married to her this year and she tells you via email its over. Yes, there is no negativity at all, its all positive.

[samir411]

life happens man, and yah thats not positive yet, but in the future im sure you will find some one that will truly want to be with you and stay with you. stay optimistic

[wiredtojupiter]

she did not deserve you, i was with mine for half a lifetime, i thot he was perfect, well i gave myself a chance, and met much nicer ppl than him and of course you will also...but i know where you are at the moment, it does get better.

[blade004]

Well that was extremely kind of you to put forth this comment you have made in regards to what happened to myself :)

I am still not finding it very easy because i truly loved her beyond anything i could have ever imagined, but what you said is greatly appreciated.

[PaTialaRoyalz]

Be happy you got an email, I was in a relation for 4 years and after all was meant to happen I discovered she felt so emotionally desperate she had an affair. Never go out with a woman who falls under the cancer sign was too emotional and crazy about everything in life. Feel better mate . . . I realized why men turn Gay its not sexual preferences its simply they r so sick of women they start liking men LoL ;-)

[DepressedAnimeAddict]

I think you have more than enough right to go nuts. Hope you're coping okay now, though.

[blade004]

Thanks mate i do appreciate that, your a good man :) Still finding it hard and i cant see myself moving on to anyone else plus YES there are days where i feel like going nuts! especially since i am turning 36 soon and things just seem to be passing me by.

Thanks again ;)

[nishifrancis]

@blade004 I hear you. I can only wish you luck :)

[JacqueRamon]

@blade004 Women have no sole mate. I just ended a 5 year relationship. I love her so much and still do but it wasn't working. We struggled a lot in those 5 years and ironically I'm struggling really bad with it & to her, I'm the worst person in the world, even tho she knew we couldn't make it work. When you struggle for so long, try so hard and it doesn't work, then what the hell r us supposed to do? Turn it into 10 years and fail. That's my rant.

But I feel for u. E-mail break up. That is cold

[TheBMAN541]

@blade004 woah sorry to hear. I bet you over it :D