The carpet in this video is far cleaner than one appearing in videos ostensibly shot in your own home. So many comments pointing out how sad it is that you recorded and posted this for the world to see, but of course everyone else is wrong and you're right. Your father and you do have something in common: you both need counseling.
@polishprinsezz I know it sounds like I'm being critical. I'm not. I'm making some honest observations. Mental illness is nothing to be ashamed of. You really do seem like you would benefit from counseling, provided of course that you accept that you might have a problem.
Best of luck to you and your kids. May they shame you less in your senior years than you've shamed your father in this video.
Wow. The father is obviously struggling with some mental health issues, and so is the daughter (who sounds angry throughout the whole video). I hope if she has kids that they someday manage to break the pattern that seems to have developed in the family, instead of continuing the dysfunction. But they will be learning from their mother how to deal with their emotions, so who knows?
Hoarding is a brain disorder as are all mental illnesses. They don't make sense. Just like having a very healthy body and never smoking and coming down with lung cancer. It does not make sense. Brain imaging for hoarders is abnormal. It is not a character defect. You're hurt and angry and I understand that is normal for anyone raised in a dysfunctional family. You are powerless over your dad. Get therapy for yourself and remove yourself as far away from the situation as possible.
so your father works all day and is too busy to clean as you say yourself and all you have to do with your time is make snotty videos and post them on youtube? really SHAME ON YOU!!! if you have the time to take your daughter there and make vids and post them here , then i guess you have the time to at least take out garbage or at least the fuckin ice from the fridge. .
that said, i see the father is what i call a "health nut"
im left wondering if the daughter and grandaughter eat any better
Hoarding has been provien to be a mental disorder. With counseling and the help of a professional organizer, your dad can have a nice place to live and get his hoarding under control.
my grandmother was a hoarder. 3 yrs. ago she started cleaning up and throwing almost everything away. All her kids and grands had to help. Her house is very clean and neat now. We still don't know what made her change, but we're thankful. She's happier and much healthier now.
Please visit the children of compulsive hoarders website. Your feeling are well deserved considering the fact that hoarders love their crap more than their own children. You will be the one who is left to clean up when he passes on.
My Grandma and mothers are/were hoarders. When I visited I smuggled out a bag of trash every day and when I left at least you could see the counter. Sometimes you have to be sneaky about it. They are overwhelmed. It would depress you to live like that-sucks all the energy right out of you. I fight the genetic pull myself. I watch these videos to motivate me, they scare me into hang a constant box of donating to the Vietnam Vets & Goodwill.
Are you doing this for revenge because he did not supposedly support you or your siblings during your childhood? I think you are doing this for retaliation. It's pretty immature and high school of you to be doing this. Did you try to get him into thearpy for this hoarding problem he has? What you are doing is not the solution to the problem but you are just adding more to the problem.
Hoarding is a serious mental illness. I imagine some people think humiliating him publicly will help him face his issues, but the truth is that your callous attitude will only lead to resentment and make it less likely that he'll turn to you for help.
I don't understand how anyone can think it's ok to go behind somebody's back and publicly "out" their mental illness. Documentation for confrontation is one thing, but to publicly "embarrassing somebody into action" is so 17th century.
Wow...that amazing... Wow...Wow...that really amazing... that's very educational. my uncle lives by himself hoards, I don't know what to expect when I visit him.
ive been reading the comments and it looks as if ur upset because ur dad dint support you. i also have a dad like that, but i do not think it is right to record his way of living and exploid it, without his permission. i understand that they dont get help until something is done, but going about it this way is the wrong outlit. find a better way to help him. be the better person.
And this is just one of many examples of what hillbilly hayseeds think YouTube is for. All I hear is a person with an ugly mouth and an ugly personality being completely ignorant.
And to think this woman is breeding and bringing kids into this world. ICK.
i hate how you said how ghetto is this? you talk about ignorant but you are no better yourself. Even if he didn't support you or your siblings he deserves respect because he is your father. My father didn't support me ether but i respect him and love him with all my heart
That house isn't so bad. My mother is a hoarder and she built a new house behind the old one instead of cleaning the last one. I go in there to try to save my childhood things... She moved into my room before building the new house because there was so much shit in the living room after she moved in there. Imagine sleeping on piles of mouse shit. That's what a REAL hoarder's house is like. Not just stuff; but TRASH too. Years of trash. Pets shitting on the floor... never cleaned. You don't know.
This is like my mom's house. Every flat surface covered, lots of bags and cardboard boxes. She has moderate hoarding and won't get professional help (psychologists are "quacks" and there is no such thing as depression). My sister and I do what we can to keep the mess under contral, to keep her safe and try to keep it reasonably sanitary. It is difficult for my sister and I to understand, but it is a mental issue. Don't know what else to do.
There's nothing wrong with this lady videotaping her dad's apartment. Although he's in good health now, one day he is going to pass away and either her/her siblings are going to have to clean it or the apartment complex administrators will have to clean it. No body should have to clean up after a hoarder - it's the hoarders own fault for not taking charge of their mental health. If anything, she is doing him a favor by embarrassing him...hopefully he'll seek some help.
Well as you freely admit here that you harbor some sort of resentment toward him (or you wouldn't have mentioned his absence during your childhood), that hardly justifies what you've done here. He has a mental illness causing him to live the way he does. What's your excuse for the bad attitude and feeling the need to humiliate a sick person? In front of your own child no less.
By publicly humiliating a sick person you grew up to be no better than an absent father. Maybe worse. Congrats!
Yeah, you tell it. Those comments from PlanoPrincess are ignorant and judgemental at the very least. Many people never get help until you actually document it and show them. I'm sure this is hard on your family and effects you. OCD effects families in many ways, other than fire hazards.
This is your father's home-not yours. You should be ashamed of recording his home. You must not have learned to respect your elders. He will need help when he is ready, but you do not seem like the kind of person that can help him.
I just wrote about my in-laws having food in their fridge from the 1990's... you said your brother got sick from eating food there. Well, I will not eat food or let my kids or stay at their house because we all got sick from my MIL. It was a violent vomiting and diarrhea sickness. It was the most awful experience. My daughter vomited all over the bed about 4 times, and pooped about 2 in the night. The next night my son projectile vomited all over his grandma.
I totally understand! My mother in law was the same way but worse. We tried to help for years. We washed a really dirty rug once & she was irate. When she passed away it took weeks to clean.
I don't even know where to begin! You come off as a bitch. Your dad has a mental illness! He's a hoarder. He and your brother live in a mess that is a health hazzard, as well as a potential fire hazzard. Get some professional help for all three of you. I'd call adult protective services!
The carpet in this video is far cleaner than one appearing in videos ostensibly shot in your own home. So many comments pointing out how sad it is that you recorded and posted this for the world to see, but of course everyone else is wrong and you're right. Your father and you do have something in common: you both need counseling.
debsylvania 5 months ago
@polishprinsezz I know it sounds like I'm being critical. I'm not. I'm making some honest observations. Mental illness is nothing to be ashamed of. You really do seem like you would benefit from counseling, provided of course that you accept that you might have a problem.
Best of luck to you and your kids. May they shame you less in your senior years than you've shamed your father in this video.
kendigjl 6 months ago
Wow. The father is obviously struggling with some mental health issues, and so is the daughter (who sounds angry throughout the whole video). I hope if she has kids that they someday manage to break the pattern that seems to have developed in the family, instead of continuing the dysfunction. But they will be learning from their mother how to deal with their emotions, so who knows?
kendigjl 6 months ago
if his mess bothers you then help him clean it up..... no harm no foul
crustal189 10 months ago
Hoarding is a brain disorder as are all mental illnesses. They don't make sense. Just like having a very healthy body and never smoking and coming down with lung cancer. It does not make sense. Brain imaging for hoarders is abnormal. It is not a character defect. You're hurt and angry and I understand that is normal for anyone raised in a dysfunctional family. You are powerless over your dad. Get therapy for yourself and remove yourself as far away from the situation as possible.
disposophobic 11 months ago
You can hope he dies soon then when he does regret it and kill yourself.
Reverseflush 1 year ago
so your father works all day and is too busy to clean as you say yourself and all you have to do with your time is make snotty videos and post them on youtube? really SHAME ON YOU!!! if you have the time to take your daughter there and make vids and post them here , then i guess you have the time to at least take out garbage or at least the fuckin ice from the fridge. .
that said, i see the father is what i call a "health nut"
im left wondering if the daughter and grandaughter eat any better
poosaypirate 1 year ago
theres ice in the fridge becasue some one is too lazy to REMOVE IT not because its jammed with "stuff" theres more damned ice than stuff
kaptain obvious
no wonder you get sick ,t he door probably cant even close BECAUSE OF THE ICE its like helloooooooooooooooo
honk! honk!
poosaypirate 1 year ago
send his ass to vegas for a week, rent a long dumpster and throw it all out! when he gets tell him some one robbed him
fourpointohh 1 year ago
What's so ghetto about lining the oven with aluminum foil? Doesn't that prevent having to clean up greasy baked on messes?
princesscharmer 1 year ago 3
Your dad is so depressed... Ask someone to help him and do not be cruel to him.
betzyluna 1 year ago 2
I've seen worse.
minnescanada 1 year ago
Whoa big surprise a dirty white man!!!! lol........sarcasm at its finest
777SONOFRIGHT777 1 year ago
@777SONOFRIGHT777 at least now you know why there is racism
poosaypirate 1 year ago
i love the dish washer that is so funny
vivitar45 1 year ago
@polishprinsezz
Hoarding has been provien to be a mental disorder. With counseling and the help of a professional organizer, your dad can have a nice place to live and get his hoarding under control.
TheSwords99 1 year ago
@TheSwords99 so is armchair psychiatry - a proven mental disorder.
being a kunty daughter is priceless
poosaypirate 1 year ago
Has anything changed?
jamiliyah1 1 year ago
LOL he still has his SNES connected to his TV!!
that deserves respect!!!
CheapBeer09 1 year ago 2
haha line ma shit wit foil
arabicprincess111 1 year ago
my grandmother was a hoarder. 3 yrs. ago she started cleaning up and throwing almost everything away. All her kids and grands had to help. Her house is very clean and neat now. We still don't know what made her change, but we're thankful. She's happier and much healthier now.
214jcf 1 year ago
Please visit the children of compulsive hoarders website. Your feeling are well deserved considering the fact that hoarders love their crap more than their own children. You will be the one who is left to clean up when he passes on.
joymom1 1 year ago
My Grandma and mothers are/were hoarders. When I visited I smuggled out a bag of trash every day and when I left at least you could see the counter. Sometimes you have to be sneaky about it. They are overwhelmed. It would depress you to live like that-sucks all the energy right out of you. I fight the genetic pull myself. I watch these videos to motivate me, they scare me into hang a constant box of donating to the Vietnam Vets & Goodwill.
4FUNNYGIRL 1 year ago
@polishprinsezz yea i with u on that if your father has done nothing for u why give him any respect at all..
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naty86able 1 year ago
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naty86able 1 year ago
Also in addition, there are two sides to every story. For all we know you could be a spoiled brat who just wants to get her way.
naty86able 1 year ago
Also in addition, there are two sides to every story. For all we know you could be a spoiled brat who just wants to get her way.
naty86able 1 year ago
Are you doing this for revenge because he did not supposedly support you or your siblings during your childhood? I think you are doing this for retaliation. It's pretty immature and high school of you to be doing this. Did you try to get him into thearpy for this hoarding problem he has? What you are doing is not the solution to the problem but you are just adding more to the problem.
naty86able 1 year ago
Hoarding is a serious mental illness. I imagine some people think humiliating him publicly will help him face his issues, but the truth is that your callous attitude will only lead to resentment and make it less likely that he'll turn to you for help.
I don't understand how anyone can think it's ok to go behind somebody's back and publicly "out" their mental illness. Documentation for confrontation is one thing, but to publicly "embarrassing somebody into action" is so 17th century.
heatherleigh63 1 year ago 2
I like the reaction at 4:38 . If only someone reacts like that to him everyday, he wouldn't hard as much. :)
bravecat100 1 year ago
Wow...that amazing... Wow...Wow...that really amazing... that's very educational. my uncle lives by himself hoards, I don't know what to expect when I visit him.
bravecat100 1 year ago
ive been reading the comments and it looks as if ur upset because ur dad dint support you. i also have a dad like that, but i do not think it is right to record his way of living and exploid it, without his permission. i understand that they dont get help until something is done, but going about it this way is the wrong outlit. find a better way to help him. be the better person.
babalobashob 2 years ago
And this is just one of many examples of what hillbilly hayseeds think YouTube is for. All I hear is a person with an ugly mouth and an ugly personality being completely ignorant.
And to think this woman is breeding and bringing kids into this world. ICK.
zeraphym 2 years ago
@zeraphym fucking LOL at your comment of "hillbilly hayseeds"
Reverseflush 2 years ago
did u just leave ur baby lyig on a chair with all that stuf surrounding him?
Peachis911 2 years ago 4
Did you get permission from your dad you make this video or are you just trying to embarrass him?
perkoff 2 years ago 12
i hate how you said how ghetto is this? you talk about ignorant but you are no better yourself. Even if he didn't support you or your siblings he deserves respect because he is your father. My father didn't support me ether but i respect him and love him with all my heart
BebeLuz2010 2 years ago
That house isn't so bad. My mother is a hoarder and she built a new house behind the old one instead of cleaning the last one. I go in there to try to save my childhood things... She moved into my room before building the new house because there was so much shit in the living room after she moved in there. Imagine sleeping on piles of mouse shit. That's what a REAL hoarder's house is like. Not just stuff; but TRASH too. Years of trash. Pets shitting on the floor... never cleaned. You don't know.
TakahashiMaikeru 2 years ago
This is like my mom's house. Every flat surface covered, lots of bags and cardboard boxes. She has moderate hoarding and won't get professional help (psychologists are "quacks" and there is no such thing as depression). My sister and I do what we can to keep the mess under contral, to keep her safe and try to keep it reasonably sanitary. It is difficult for my sister and I to understand, but it is a mental issue. Don't know what else to do.
aliasannie1 2 years ago
There's nothing wrong with this lady videotaping her dad's apartment. Although he's in good health now, one day he is going to pass away and either her/her siblings are going to have to clean it or the apartment complex administrators will have to clean it. No body should have to clean up after a hoarder - it's the hoarders own fault for not taking charge of their mental health. If anything, she is doing him a favor by embarrassing him...hopefully he'll seek some help.
Rebecca46179239 2 years ago
"the king pollock" hahaha...
arsdag81 2 years ago
Well as you freely admit here that you harbor some sort of resentment toward him (or you wouldn't have mentioned his absence during your childhood), that hardly justifies what you've done here. He has a mental illness causing him to live the way he does. What's your excuse for the bad attitude and feeling the need to humiliate a sick person? In front of your own child no less.
By publicly humiliating a sick person you grew up to be no better than an absent father. Maybe worse. Congrats!
archon1010 2 years ago 2
@archon1010
yet you watched it.. what does that make you???
jaycce76 2 years ago
"...dont drink in it, it might make you helucinate.."
SshHiiT! That might be the BEST thang to drank!!!
Gold3nStat3KiD 2 years ago 3
Yeah, you tell it. Those comments from PlanoPrincess are ignorant and judgemental at the very least. Many people never get help until you actually document it and show them. I'm sure this is hard on your family and effects you. OCD effects families in many ways, other than fire hazards.
ggadguy 2 years ago
This is your father's home-not yours. You should be ashamed of recording his home. You must not have learned to respect your elders. He will need help when he is ready, but you do not seem like the kind of person that can help him.
PlanoPrincess 2 years ago 8
yep he's a hoarder.
lestersggirl 2 years ago 3
"miscellaneous crap" Perfectly put!
mindchime 2 years ago
LOL
CRAP
i loved how she said it as well
hyperkid86 2 years ago
I just wrote about my in-laws having food in their fridge from the 1990's... you said your brother got sick from eating food there. Well, I will not eat food or let my kids or stay at their house because we all got sick from my MIL. It was a violent vomiting and diarrhea sickness. It was the most awful experience. My daughter vomited all over the bed about 4 times, and pooped about 2 in the night. The next night my son projectile vomited all over his grandma.
sharonlb27 2 years ago
I totally understand! My mother in law was the same way but worse. We tried to help for years. We washed a really dirty rug once & she was irate. When she passed away it took weeks to clean.
stezton 2 years ago
1:50 what is a sitting area?
hocsoin 3 years ago
You aren't alone in having a family member with this problem.
MegF142857 3 years ago 2
I got to help my family mem too. GL
missannekol 4 years ago
Congrats, your awful nasal whining as driven you father insane.
CptBloodclot 5 years ago 3
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaooooooooooooo!
missannekol1 4 years ago
I don't even know where to begin! You come off as a bitch. Your dad has a mental illness! He's a hoarder. He and your brother live in a mess that is a health hazzard, as well as a potential fire hazzard. Get some professional help for all three of you. I'd call adult protective services!
misty3831 5 years ago 5
show us your home
mrbs54 5 years ago 5
It is called OCD- he needs behavioral therapy, an intervention!
Babs967 5 years ago
lmao. this dad is a little OCD maybe
decembering04 5 years ago
The plants are sick and dying through lack of care. I like that. What about the lack of care of your father? Who is responsible for that?
NigelMelish 5 years ago 2
He has a shall we say, a mental ilness, (Undiagnosed), where he cannot get organized with stuff. You should get some help for him if you really care.
NigelMelish 5 years ago 4
His House, His Rules.
horatio19 5 years ago 13
@horatio19 FUCK U ASS-HOLE (wtf are u talkin about hes got everyones life at risk ) YR PROBABLY A FUCKIN HOARDER YR SELF
PRODIGYCENTRAL 1 year ago
all I can say is WOW
ntally 5 years ago