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  • It's interesting how you can find a song that matches exactly how you feel.

  • The most beutiful song I`ve heard for a looong time... Kind of scary, cause like so many ppl probebly feels, like he sings straight to my heart...

  • very sad .i feel this way all the time

  • @Brandonrobocop t(T_Tt)

  • 5 people are Brandonrobocop's friends. The other one is him.

  • This song is just..terrible. I mean what is it even about? going to church?..

  • @Brandonrobocop t(0.0t)

  • @Brandonrobocop Justin made this for his mother. It's like poetry.. A confession to his mom.

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  • for the first time, in a long time, i cried singing this.

  • This sounds a lot like REM... took me ages to realise why it sounded so familiar. Saying that, amazing song :D

  • 1:28 story of my life

  • True love right here. It's a beautiful song that myself, and i'm sure many others can relate to. <3

  • 6 people. 6 too many.

  • This is how I've felt a lot. Beautiful song.

  • singing from his heart making other hearts beating and crying! this is wonderful!

  • This song makes me cry every time i listen to it, it reminds me when i was younger and wanted to commit suicide and even a simple thing like a hug from my mom made me feel so much better.

  • I recently moved three hours away from my family for college to a town where all the girls are so tan and skinny and I don't know anyone. I've never been able to wear a pair of shorts without crying in the mirror. I quit a job that I loved to come here. I'm on a two year waiting list for a phlebotomy course that I've been dreaming of taking my whole life. I have no job. No money. I feel like I don't belong and I can't go home. It's 3 am and I'm not right.

  • @donnalestrange i just had to move away from my sister and all my friends to a town where i dont know any one with my evil mother. i feel for you

  • @airsoftguy9977 It's been awhile since I've even posted my comment but I just wanted to say thank you for your comment :) Things are doing much better now. I hope they are for you as well.

  • @donnalestrange hey, my life too has taken me to places i was not comfortable with....yet i have survived, been a musician, good friend, & now a father......& I'm not right either

    keep yer hed up gurl it's gonna be alright!

  • @seanr1013q Thank you for your comment :) I've been doing much better now. I've found a job and am adjusting to my living conditions. I've lost a TON of weight (healthy though) and I've picked up my old Les Paul once again! Thank you for your kind words. It was nice to see them :) Hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @seanr1013q glad to to hear it, keep playing,singing,rockin,ragin'.­....it's good for the soul

    much luv- sean

  • I can relate to this too...:(

  • Blue October really has found a way to make suicide look so beautiful

  • They make the music so beautiful, and then fill it with this emotional music that I can't help but cry to. I love Blue October for making even the saddest music amazing.

  • The popular music of today is bullshit. No one ever stops to listen to the other stuff. Sure, Eminem's music is heartfelt, but Blue October gets to you and pries you open like a pistachio. Blue October takes 'heartfelt' to a completely new level. Somehow, from all comments I've read and self experience, their songs, one way or another apply to any one of their fans. "Their songs immerse you into an ocean of harmonic and melodic beauty, bending said elements so much to create the perfect mix of

  • @Charliemae

    It's in the album 'Argue with a tree' titled 'For my mother'.

  • Best Blue October song ever.

  • Hearing this song is the equivalent of slicing deep into my arm...i know many dont understand self inflicted pain...but i dont understand pain caused by another person neither...i stop cutting...but now i just cut into my ears with the deep shrill of justins pain...please never stop making music for Us....

  • @TheJoeydizz totally feel u

  • I got the live version from itunes, and let me tell you, there it's way more emotional than the recorded one. I listen to it every morning while I'm getting ready, it gets me in one of my moods for the day. 

  • @snotty2345 where did you find a version of this song on itunes.... i have looked for it and i can't get it to pull up?

  • @charlimae22 I just looked blue black orchid-blue october and the live version was the only one, did you already try that?

  • @snotty2345 Thank you. I will look it up that way.

  • After hearingbth

  • first time and every other time after hearing this i almost cry EVERYTIME <=''( its suuuuch a geeewd sooong

  • When I listen to this song it makes me feel so alone like I'm the only one who feels this way..

  • @naiila1217 <=( i agre tell me bout it

    

  • @naiila1217 You are not alone.. That I can promise you.. <3

  • @fredagsgodis thanks(: i was in a really tough time

  • This Song Always Makes me cry Because It's Exacly How I Feel .. I Lovd You Blue October -3

  • this relates to my life

  • It sort of funny how you hate life... but then it turns out to be all that you have left

  • OMG, I have spent all day listening to this group...I liked a couple songs before, but holy shit these guys are better than they get credit for!!! I found my new favorite band!!! Love this music!!!!

  • Blue Octobers songs touch my heart in a way no other bands songs have. Songs don't usually make me cry, but almost always tear up when I listen to their music. Its just like you can feel the raw emotion coming through your speakers, Justin just writes with such a way that nothing is sugar coated. No cover ups, no bullshit. Hes not afraid that someone will call him "emo" or whatever. And this song is a perfect example of that.

  • I miss you Pappaw..I know you're in heaven..But everything I didn't get to say...and all the words I wanted to say...all the things I needed to say...I'm sorry. I'm sorry for never really taking you in consideration. :( I miss you, and what I would give just to see your face again, to smell your familiar scent, to hug you, and to hear you doing that weird but cool coughing noise :) CHRISTMAS, THANKSGIVING AND HALLOWEEN ARE NEVER GOING TO BE THE SAME WTIHOUT YOU. WE LOVE U AND WE ALWAYS NEEDED U.

  • Love love love this song(: Blue October is such an amazing bandd!!

  • This song puts me in a zone that I can't explain it's like a sad/suicide feeling. I hate life but at the same time it's the thing I most value.

  • this a very sad song...But its saying a lots

  • god i can't believe this found it outta pure luck and guess what my band is called blue october XD guess we're gunna have to change our name ... lool

  • @VioletValentine100 Red Autumn?

    :L

    <3

  • @gibboj94 hahaha i like that :D Red Autumn sponsered by orange wednesdays XD

  • @VioletValentine100 Do it :L

    And if your band asks where the name came from, Gibbo told you (;

    <3

  • @gibboj94 hahahaa thnks alot if we ever become something mmore than a garage band you get cred for the name. :D

  • @VioletValentine100 *50% of trhe name*. You came up with half of it (;

    <3

  • @gibboj94 hahahaha ok :) :D (Y) 

  • love thia aong my theme song forlife

  • its like they sing the story of my life.....fell in lovewith them the first time i heared there band i klove them

  • Love this song so much!!

  • Just curious.. I know blue october is one in a million. But does anyone know of other musicians or groups that perform music as good??

  • @1doorhinge You can try the Gaslight Anthem, all of their stuff is gorgeous and all their songs have a story, you can tell from his singing

  • This song isn't on iTunes? :( I looked and I didn't find it T_T

  • I'me in love with Blue October since the moment i've first listened to thiw song..

    It "talks" right inside my heart and soul...

  • why did a tear fall from my eys while listening to this~such dead beauty in tragedy~to feel the essence of such sadness like this~ ON A BRIGHTER NOTE I LOVE BLUE OCTOBER BECAUSE THEY SING THE THEME SONG TO MY LIFE~dd

  • First I hear the music, then I hear his voice, then I feel his pain and then I'm not alone!

  • Das ist das schönste Lied, das ich jemals in meinem Leben gehört habe.

    Einfach wunderschön...

  • ....It is not that I am scared, to learn...

    Just why I'm empty inside.

    Hold my hand to show some concern if I...

    Live or die.

    My eyes are open wide.

    Help me look in...

    Side...

  • Story of my life right now? Yeah. Jussst a bit... how uplifting. But whatever, I love this song a lottt :)

  • I seen them in concert when i was 19 in Amarillo Texas I still love there music and my 3 yr old son sings but you cant understand him he really gets into hate me . lol

  • It's same like my feeling going on.

  • good song

  • my next tattoo is going to be of a black orchid the most beautiful song I think ever written going right on my forearm.Anyone has a question I will tell them to listen to the song with me then we can both talk about it.

  • This song realy scares me like men always try to be strong and it's a grown man telling his mum he's scared

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  • this song is soo wonderful...it makes me cry!

  • i have argue witha tree and its on that cd they are ALL live.

  • I love the black orchid..sends chills down my spine.. stunning

  • incredibly sad, but beautiful. i don't get how this solitude can be this welcoming. this makes my skin feel so tight with sadness, but happiness that i can connect with these words. love blue october sooo much :D

  • I wish you could get this on itunes...its from 1998!!!!

  • does anyone esle ever feel this alone?

  • Yes, i do :(

  • i visited your site, but i couldnt read it. is it in portuguese?

  • It is in Estonia.

  • @misscallieshouse, Absolutely all the time.

  • I like this song but its the most depressing song I've ever herd.

  • I love Blue October. This song is amazing and beautiful.

  • Beautiful song. I love Blue October. Favorite band. Rock on!

  • This is such an awesome band, their music is hella cool. But what album is this song from? I thought I had all their music.

  • It's from the album The Answers.

  • @lilugo77 ME TOO? IM A SLACKER I RECKON I LISTEN TO SO MUCH BUT I GOT ONE CD SHAme on me~thier music sings the story of my life~this fascinates me in adoration of thier talent~Peace~DD

  • @ChillinWithYou also find it live on "Argue with a tree"

  • @ChillinWithYou u are from cali

  • This is an amazing song that Im sure alot of people can relate to.

  • i can relate to this

  • @WCSteeze Many can....And that is what makes it so amazing.

  • this song is one of my faves... <3

  • wow.... i love this song so much!! Especially the end music...

  • I love this song, but I didn't know that it was sung by Blue October until I checked it today oO

    Absolutely beautiful.

  • Your beautiful.

  • my god i love this song. Cierra this song is for you my wonderful girl!

  • dude thats really sweet andeverything but i dont think anyone could take you seriously with that usernamne :P

  • wats my username got to do with anything. Urs isnt too hot either

    geez thats twice someones takin a stab at my username. I didnt even make it myself

  • your username isnt that bad its acctually pretty good

  • lol thanks it makes everybody laugh which i like

  • The tears are still rolling down my face

    someone out there i hope you are knowing what this is all about

  • wow man!!! these fuckin lyrics are so touchin u dnt evn kno wow i feel exactly like this....i fuckin love blue october!!! this made me cry =(

  • This song is so beautiful... it makes me cry every time... to listen to this song... this song really hit home for me...

  • its beautiful...

  • This song is so sad, but I adore it.

  • make me cry... great song

  • i listen to this song everyday and it just reminds me of sad moments of my life beautiful song work of art

  • i love this song, it reminds me of how i was like this. this song would have helpped allot during that time. i still love it. all of their songs are so gread.

  • i love the flower, song..... EVERYTHING:')

  • Wow! Such a beautiful and sad song... :O

    And the video, with the lyrics and the background is simple and awesome!

  • wow that's an amazing song I love this band even as a guy it reminds me of my parents way to much it hurts but the is my second favorite band my first is system of a down

  • im like this :O, my type of music, totally defines me

  • Really is a truly breath-taking song. I've always been a fan of Blue October. Their songs are a work of genius.

  • this song is soo depressing... but i cant stop listening

  • Half of the 21936 are mine...Cannot stop to listening this song...Typically hate this type of songs, but this is one apart!

  • Such An Amazing song

    :]

    Sad too tho .

    :[

    But its so lovely

    Listening to it non-stopp.

    :]

  • a song has never made me cry like this.... and my stupid ass dont even know what it means

  • Even worse when your ex literaly singed it crying to your face!... I might am masochist but still love this song...

  • One of maybe three songs in the history of songs guaranteed to make me cry.

  • This is a peaceful song..I like it..

  • Just discovered this band Is so nice :)

  • god this song is sad, i havent stopped listening to it for days, i love blu october, there songs get so deep

  • i can't stop listening to that song and while i am listening to it i can't stop crying. i am pathetic eh!

  • Dont worry thats my situation too :|

  • thx man it's actually comforting to know that Im not alone

  • No prob :)

    Nothing to be ashamed of

  • I'm a lot older than most of you but if u like this band u know good music wow make s me feel like a kid again! Don's stop rockin' 'till the reaper comes knockin.

  • I am obsessed with this song..I really am. It has so much meaning and depth..Great write and great song..love it!

  • Justin Furstenfeld could quite possibly be the greatest poet of this generation. Songs like this and sorry hearts are just a couple of examples of his genius. He'll be viewed as such in 25 years, pure poetic genius.

  • this has got to be one of my favorite songs ever.. it makes so much since to me

  • most of this song doesnt really make any sense, but there are some parts of it that are pretty deep and well thought out, and listening to it makes me sad and kind of depressed...

  • He wrote it when he was 14. Maybe he didn't have his composition skills yet..It is still a great song.

  • it makes sense to me. Probably too much sense! Very tragic and yet very beautiful.

  • its relly easy to imagine the deepest depths of depression try this. imagin you gave up every one who ever loved or cared about not material things but the things that truely make a man rich in life wife,daughter,family for 1 pill and a year of losing choice over using drugs and waking up one day to realize u can never go back

  • think maybe that they really are better off without u at the precibis we make a decision to keep going or the easyier way end it now.JUST KNOW U ONLY HURT THOSE THAT LOVE WILL HURT MORE THAN EVER AND IT WILL NEVER FADE ETERNALPAIN WILL BE THE GIFT U GUVE BY TAKING YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!

  • I love this song.

  • I find it hard to imagine being this depressed, but this song makes me feel a lot of empathy for people who are. Big fan.

    (Although I think a lot of people nowadays use the term depression when they just feel a bit down, which is pretty stupid and self centered.)

  • I agree with you. I hate it when people throw the word depression around like nothing. People do the same thing with OCD and ADD.

  • this guy has some serious demons to work out....but still great song

  • So beautiful, can't stop listening to it

  • absolutly beAutiful!

  • I love this song, I don't know why I love it so much but I just do. It's so amazing. <3 Blue October <3

  • "maybe life's not for everyone." amazing.

    Great song.

  • Reminds me of someone special...great song...

  • such beautiful song.....

  • This song is so sad. Amazingly writen and sung. There's so much emotion in it that it's incredible! I can feel it in my heart evertime I hear this song. It's one of my favorites by Blue October.

  • ... Erm. Go get a hobby. Honestly, I know where you're coming from, but I really can't can't respect whining about it on here.

    S'pose I'm not good for givin' advice, though, eh? Just hold on and wait. It'll end eventually, and death has gotta be terribly boring.

  • lolwut n00b

  • i love this song when im sad. becuase you know her more sad than me and i feel much better lol

  • This is such a beautiful song. You can tell it's coming from the heart when he sings it. It makes you feel what he felt. This is true music. Music has emotion. Thank you so much for the video.

  • loooove it

  • i have to present this song to my class anyone know why he wrote it

  • I don't know "why" he wrote it specifically, but I know he wrote it when he was about 13 or 14 and that it was a day he felt he couldn't go on and he figured "life's not for everyone".....I hope that this helps.

  • yes, he wrote it when he was 14 because he was depressed and he didn't know how to tell his mother about it so he wrote it to her...I think.

  • yea in an interview he said something along the lines of he always shared his songs with his mother first and this song was a confession to her that he was going thur a hard time

  • he was so depressed he got thoughts of suicidal... and the words to this was something he wrote in a letter to send to his mom... about death.

    till his band pulled him out of it

  • i love this song, and i love this band. . . they sing so true.

  • this is my song

  • this song totally sums up how i feel sometimes...<3

  • And to think Justin wrote this at age 14... He's amazing and living proof that anyone who feels like this can indeed get by to live a great life when they're older, including sucess and a great family. :)

  • :`(<\3

  • well thats my life....got no one where i live and the girl i love is 3000 miles away...my dog is dying.....my parents hate me......my life just sucks....and im alone....

  • That sounds really sad. Hope things work out for you!

  • lol i just want to dissapear, is that so hard?

    nice song

  • this song has got me through some shit...i know im not alone when i hear this song

  • i have had so some hard times with my friends. and i just have been a total wreck emotionally and i feel like i can just stop and cry every second with this song. but not even my best friend knows how i feel

  • Everytime I'm down...I listen to this song (Which happens alot). It sort of gives me an outlook of myself.

  • this song makes me so sad.... it really reminds me of myself. or at least what i feel like sometimes, i would never tell anyone this is how i really am. :(