Losing Your Soul To A Man

[Inrin2]

thankyou girl <3 your vid made me cry the same thing happened to me and i cant get it back

[BermudaEntrepreneur]

Response to 3:18,

I'm sorry, but if a woman makes hot passionate love to me everynight standing on her head, I'D NEVER LEAVE HER! I'd put ring on her finger and marry her in a HEARTBEAT! I'm a horny bastard!

[hugandkissme33]

missed u for a minute. love u shay date diva you are teach us mami. you are speaking truth amen amen amen

[codegeassfanone]

cool u right im going to tell my mom

[ettisen]

If a man loves you, even if time gets difficult and he is frustrated he will not strip you of your dignity. He will work it out and continue loving you in the process. There is nothing that I can do to make this man love me and see that I am valuabe and worthy of his love. I take care of three kids day and night two with special problems and still i am not valuable because I don't have a job out side the house! Even if I get three jobs and look like a video chick all day long he still will not!

[ettisen]

years of nothing but pain. I know it has been diffucult on him financially but it has been difficult on me too raising the kids almost on my own everyday all night long everyday. I get no break, I have gained weight and stop taking care of myself. I have no money of my own, no family. I feel like I lost it all when I married him. I helped him when he was down and now that I am down he wants to treat me like garbage. I am mad a hell! But I will not let it consume me. Thanks for letting me vent.

[easygravity]

be mad, let it all out! then when you start feeling better, start planning your escape from him. You can make it on your own, he doesnt deserve any more of you unless he marries you and truley loves you and treats you with respect.

[ettisen]

He treats me as if I am not worth anything. He talks to me anyhow and we really fight a lot, it has even gotten physical. I have all these kids now and have lost my independence. I feel so trapped because i have no money and no family where I am staying my 3 yr old has autism and I have been doing my best to get him the help he needs. I finally got the 3yrold in school and I am on my way to rebuilding myself esteem and selfworth back. I will never fall into to this trap again. It has been five

[ettisen]

bedroom and don't you know I moved me and my daughter in that second bedroom and we stayed there until we were able to move. Anyhow during that time I got pregnant and the baby was born sick and almost died. He remained a sickly baby then I got pregnant again this baby was also born with the same problem anyhow I was unable to work for some time and he was working. We have been struggling financially and the stress of it all has gotten to him and now he treats me like dirt .

[ettisen]

This is so true and true for me. I found this out too late. I am in a horrible marriage. He just doesn't love me and there is nothing that I can do about it to change him. I met him when I was a single Mom raising my daughter. I was independent and holding it down. He is from Ghana and we got married. He was not legal so I to leave own place and move to where he was living because he would be unable to get a job there because he was illegal. He live lived in an apartment and occupied the second

[AtlantaAngel84]

Where where you about 8 yrs ago, lol. I love your videos.

[madika1]

You should always make sure the guy loves you more than you love him. You know you will carry your weight if you love him.

[ginanjamie09]

That was some true info...thanks for that...

[mpenny226]

Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes!!!! Very smart advice. Why would you give somebody that much of you? Poor baby, I hope she gets back on track. Thanks Shay.

[ncfwhitetigress]

omg this is good advice

[Lesheena]

Whoa this was great you were so on point! I would advise this young lady to do a search on "soul ties". There need to be verbal affirmations to reverse the spiritual and soulish ties you have created with this man. It works from my own personal experience....God Bless!

[mrsthang73]

you are absolutely the bomb!!! everything that came out of your mouth was the truth!

[tonwil06]

Come to Detroit and teach these young girls Shay!! THANX!