this is so stupid, just because ur busy studying it doesnt mean u dont have human feelings. everyone needs someone, people who dont get married and wait until 'they save up' are tempted to follow their desires in an unislamic and unafghan way, so to prevent it, one should get married. and this is not the olden days where wives have to cook and clean all day, and husbands do labour all day. in modern society ur both equal so if u cant handle modern marriage and education then your useless mate!
Marriage is important part of life, but to have an occupation beside it is more important than marriage...
Im sure 50% of afghani people who are living USA, Australia, Canada, Germany or Holland and maybe in UK are suffering the same problem, coz after some days or weeks of their marriage they are busy with their 24hrs of work, but hallo!
You work to survive but if you have a good education before marriage u wont be that much busy, i think:)
@emaljan123 yh PASHTO is also the main language of Afghanistan, so why is he not speaking in pashto. i guess he wanted everyone to understand each other, so no one feels left out.
Yeah, but this use of having multiple ethnicities in Afghanistan has led to a insurgency of war in what I can depict as an ethnic conflict. A civil war is what I see going on in Afghanistan.
But of course I can see where it comes from. Pashtuns highly regard the entire region of Afghanistan as Afghan territory, not Tajik or Dari territory and Afghan territory. Of course there is much logic behind that argument, but it is the cause for all the hostilities within the region.
The problem is that it is really hard to make peace between divergent ethnicities, because it is impossible to facilitate two languages especially if they are relative to a specific ethnicity. Take Belgium for instance or Switzerland, both countries will eventually break apart due to all the ethnic tensions going on. And Switzerland was once a vibrantly stable community.
As long as they hold together and never make an act of co-opted assimilation of each ethnicity, conflict continues.
On idea to solve the situation in Afghanistan is to kick all the Tajiks, Iranians, and Balochis out, however moving people by force out of a country is considered a crime against humanity.
So the only other option is to divide the country up, North becomes divided into three portions, one given to Tajikistan, one given to construct Hazarajat , and the other to construct Daristan in the Northwest.
The South except for a tiny portions in the Southwest and Southeast would retain as Afghanistan
Kick the tajiks and 'iranians' out? no that would be wrong-they have lived in the land for just as long as pashtuns have lived in theirs. what you dont understand is that the wars in afghanistan are not a result of ethnic tension, the ethnic tension is a result of wars. also nations who had much to gain from instabiltiy in the area have always used propaganda to make people less united. ie dauood khan was supported by russia to overthrow zahir shah bc he wanted pashtunization
You should finish reading what I said, of course I said it would be wrong. Gosh, let me restate what has been said by me.
"moving people by force out of a country is considered a crime against humanity. "
"So the only other option is to divide the country up."
Why is this so problematic? Dividing up a country. Land has to be partitioned to insure prosperity. If you try to hold something together that is starting to fall apart, it will still fall apart. So there is no point. Instead... (cont.)
Instead we focus on insuring our collective prosperity by partitioning land up by language-ethnic divisions to insure a rightful since of unity amongst people within their own region. This will insure their own prosperity and it will end all ethnic tensions, for the most part. Work on making sound borders on these factors and then start using diplomacy to create a military and economic union which over time may lead towards some form of federalism like the European Union.
You will end up having a larger Afghan influence over the region and the whole world than you would if otherwise, while possessing less land only tied to ethnic-lingual certainties.
But you have to understand this how it works with humans. We are like cats. We are lazy and don't like being bothers. But if you let us do our own thing and work on creating some form of partnership, then people will start living in harmony and work collectively together without discrimination or violence.
The very small Southwest portion is given to Balochistan and the very small Southeast portion is given to construct Nuristan and Pashaistan, which will be under the protectorate-trade-union system of Afghanistan like Belarus has with Russia. Balochistan, Hazarajat , Tajikistan, and Daristan may also follow pursuit.
This in turn requires Pashtun portions of Pakistan to become independent and fuse with the Pashtun portions of Afghanistan as well as the independence of Balochistan form Pakistan.
secondly the name and border lines of afghanistan were british imposed, knowing that it would lead to tension. prior all of central asia was much more united. russia and britian have been cutting and slicing the region up for ages leading to imposed borderlines and ethnic tensions, more division is not going to help. this has been happening in many parts of the world and as small as the nations are made it never solves anythin
I won't argue that the British fucked up the whole world and still are.
But that is the whole point of correcting these errors.
Particularly as I see it, it doesn't matter how larger your borders are so long as you can encompass the majority of your population and can facilitate enough resources to achieve some sense of prosperity. The next you need to do is work with your neighbors to insure some form of collective prosperity, which in turn can increase your own influence in that region.
The result would be a smaller overall Afghan state, well somewhat smaller. If you add in Afghan portions of Pakistan, you aren't really losing that much. But... with Afghanistan acting as the regional power and forming a trade-military-cultural-commercial union with the others, Afghanistan's influence will overall become larger.
So it is an odd situation. Afghanistan becomes smaller upon it self, but globally and regionally, it becomes much bigger.
Plus you also have the factor of stability that would rise due to the elimination of these ethnic tensions between Tajiks, Farsiwans, and Afghans, and with stability and peace comes prosperity and wealth.
Plus with an access the sea by trade union with Balochistan, Afghanistan will become vibrant like never before. And it will increasingly industrialized and then be able to compete again China and India on the global trade.
well somethings r not that rong which she said, it can be rite at a point,, overmarriaging is not wasting money its all abut ur spending in the way of ur happiness.....
Oh i forgot to Mention...I am Afghan and inshallah marry an Afghan, which is wat i want and its easier cuz i wont have issue with the difference n culture and its easier for my family as well. notthing is wrong with mix culture as Long as your Muslim...
salam,I personally dont Care about wat ppl think about my Wedding and who i marry....as long as i am happy i could Care Less about the world Cuz after all i am only JUDGED BY ALLAH TA ALLAH!!!!! no by the ignorant ppl.sorry to say.... Salam.
Salam.. i So agree with the Gal about Wasting so much money on a Dam Engagement party then oh a BIG Wedding and ohhhhh we have to impress ppl and wat do our ppl do? they com eat, and talk about the bride and groom, if they make a good match or if they are ugly, talk about the food, the singer and the Hall..I hate this Crap about ppl.
in my point of view no one in this world shall marry bcz if they marry then they will lose thier independent thier life wuold related to anather person . noshe jane bezani ke yak nane tanha mezanee hahahaahahahahahah
whats up with the ppl speaking dari, i cant speak it and its pointless for him to come to a discussion which is in english and address people in dari- the end
what is with the negative comments, just because you are failure it bothers you when others are having a constructive conversation, all of them said great things, i hope they practice what they preach
what the world is going to threw and what afghanistan is going threw and what people are doing to get democracy i would like to say from the bottam of my heart i love my country dearly but fuck the people they can kiss my ass you fucking ass holes follow the realigion the right way if not than atleast dont make a joke out of it
wen we are balegh ( pass puberty ) n dem shyt n da changes occur n our body den we are ready for marriage buh forr marriage u ave to ave a good living soo u can look afta ya self n ur fam for marriage u need a good income for marriage u need a place wer u can rely on for evaa for marriage u need land bak home cuz inshallah one dai afg is rebuild den onli dosse afgunz will live in forieng countries da onez r lyk u guyz da watsting tym on fukin marriage debate instead of talkin abt sumfin goood
n y da fuk we talkin abt marriage we aint no fukin white ppl da we choose for our selwe ave our mum n dad to worry abt da we ave fam to worry abt us ndey know best m, all dis luv shit n luv marriages dnt end up succesfully ma bredaaz n sistaaz n if u fink u choose whom u wnaa get married n u decide wa age u wana get married at den u aint afgun maayte.
first of all glad to c afgunz talkin abt sumfin at least ova den makin stupid wedding videos n beng stupid tryna be funy buh dey aint n den postin dem on utube
dis video is alryt at least dey talkin and debatingn abt sumfin buh da weak point i c n dis video is instead of wastin ur tym arranging a debate abt marriage y dnt u arrange a debate abt islamic stufff abt war in afg abt education abt da importance of our culture abt our future
Salam to my all dear Afghan Brother and Sisters and it makes me happy When I see these educated and broadminded Young Afghans which our Society desperatley need it
We have a huge opium addiction epidemic, one of the highest illiteracy and infant mortality rates in the world, huge national security and corruption problems and not to mention the treatment of women - and the list continues - however, these baffoons feel that the age at which a teenager is forced into a loveless marriage to a man twice her age is a more pressing issue.
As a student at "the" U of T, I am saddened and digusted to see these pathetic Afghan discourse "debates". This is exactly why our community is behind almost every ethnic community in Toronto and around the world.
باعرض ادب بشما محترمان.....راجع بجواب محترمه ghalbeafg......عرض کنم که من اصلآ نامی از اسلام نبردیم. ولی عی رغم این هم من حاضر هستم که باشما عروسی کنم......
well, as an afghan girl, you would better no that we afghan men can have several wives and even 7 some times but it depends on if you are able to stisfy them and able effort them too...So I dont think having a wife is a big problem in our culture....so please accept it and let's have a lovely life...
kho awal bogo chanta darie ta hala k gap e 7 mezani? bachem naam e islam ra baad nako u can have more than one wife for a good purpose.lovely life me with your 7 wife? ne i go find me one lol.
you stupid who said that you can have 7 wifes as afghan wake up dont fuckin lie about us now some one well copy you and its gunna go to the media go and study kerem da aqlet
Mr. alizai99? thanks for the deferential comment. but I am afraid that you cant hide the truth. If you dont no about it or may be not have been living in your watan AND NO KNOWLEDGE ABOUT IT, that is your problem. but the fact is that it used to be not now or may be in rural areas yet. I WAS JUST KIDDING WITH ghalbeafg ANYWAYS..please dont swear again if you think you are a well educated person...THINKS
hay hay chillax man u r getting way to far. no need for fight on youtube. u r very judgmental fultrust is my husband and i am the only love of his life he got.he doesn't believe in the 7 wives thing ok?we were just having some good time and joking about these things.
I fink dis subject was good for dem guys, cos thy havnt got any clue abt afghani culture wotsoever. i guess by dis age thy should kno it n its a reall shame for they parnets. poor Dari its a shame for an afg nt to speak it... can someone answer dis? does Americans or English ppl consider us as an american or English or as an afghan ?! look up for da followings: Health n well bein Islam Family Education sense of humor personality Job Future Marriage LOVE!!!!! CDN Live
hahah that guy with the rish i think its a joke go man edit your rish or shave it, in that style you could speak ur own language that looked cool. any no offence i just type my idea.
Guys every one is going to face marraige at one stage.,... but as they said it all depends on the situation like if you are studying you shoud just concentrate just on studdies.. but there is always the influence of mum and Dad or even your friends geeting married at a young age... but at the end still its all up to ya?
... an educated person is greater in the sight of Allah s.w.t than an illiterate. It would be sophisticated for a pair if one is literate and other illiterate they will not be able to tackle the upcoming problems in their life, it would have the example of a car which has got two tires of own and two of a bicycle, it is impossible to drive your car with its opposed elements so similarly we should have either two educated or illiterate.
The way the dispute exceeds is not so much enthusiastic but rather it becomes bored anyhow i would just like to point toward two great aspects of the debaters and those who have commented that Marriage and Knowledge both are compulsory, as to the best of mind it can be stated that a person should first get educated than get married, because if we see to the asserts of the Glorious Qur'an we evidently find that Allah s.w.t states in several places that ...
look darling i was born in kabul and it was always called farsi. farsi gap mezani they use to ask me lol so its farsi. yeh some cal it dari but its always been farsi.
furthermore to your previous comment most of sahabas turned up to get educated after work. nothing comes easy in life there fore muslims are far behind. prophet mohammad insisted more on knowledge than marriege. and you got the tow muddled up please check it again which one is sunnah and which one is fard. wasalam
if he insisted more on knowledge than marriage then wy would he say, marriage is half of your religion. i.e. half of your relegion is completed in that way. and just because yu get married doesnt mean that you are stoped from seeking knowledge! just know your priorities.
well for marriege there are constraints unlike for knowledge. also you said seeking knowledge is sunnah it is not it is the other way round. I think you just want an excuse to get married before your education. I agree that you dont need masters to get married, however you need some level of understanding.
hmm dnt knw if ma previos comment got posted.basikly am sayin we shud hve both @ d same tym, dez no reason y 1 shud exclude the other1. i dnt wnt an excuse2get marid b4 educ. i'd rather finish uni. bt i'd lyk2 do it aswell as doin edu. bt d onli fing dat makes it imposbl is the society's traditions,&customs, e.g y cnt gal+guy get marid, while parents support dem lyk dey do alrdi.+ d onli edu u need is the sunah to start wid, a degree in math wont do nufin. baskili- d customs r unnecessary.
y wud i wnt an excuse 2get maried b4 my education. dude. am studying law at university, i find being educated and having a decent career is important! even tho am a gal (tryna say, am not the 1 who's gona hav 2support d famli once am married) my argument is dat, d afghans shudnt exclude 1 for d oda.
first of all I wish you best of luck in and properity both in academic and real life. I think we are coming to the same point. they dont have to sacrifice one for another but they have to know enough to fill the criteria of marriage. any way when you become a lawyer can you do some thing to remit my parking tickets :( i have got too many. wasalam
seeking knowledge and marriage are separated. it doesnt mean that they cant be mutualy present. even though seeking knowldege is very important, that doesnt mean you should go to the extremes and wait till your 40 to get married. you shouldnt exclude on for the other. islam hates exteremism.
yup you are right they are separate issues but a guy should be clever enough to make good decision for himself , his wife and children with in the circle of islam and i dont think that could be done without having education. you said that prophet mohammad (pbuh) was uneducated but he insisted on every ocassion on education.
oh really? islam teaches that you should have a clean heart, and that you should have respect for everyone. so if everyone was to follow islam, how is this not the solution? :)
what can i say these days islam is not the solution no one is following the islam in a proper way. its too difficult for people. look at the muslim countries and tell me what you think about them.
i agree, there are people who dont follow it proper, at the same time there are people who do their best to follow it. and just because there are people who dont follow it properly does not undermine the fact that islam is the solution.
salam aliakum every one. first of all from islamic point of view . education is obligatory on every man and woman however marriege is sunat. secondly education shows you the way of life and without education most people don't know how to treat their wives properly. Educated person is in much better position to provide better life for the family because of good job, or good (educated decisions ) or other steps in life.
ehh theres no need for a degree or masters to know how to treat your wife. u just need discipline, and obviously u have 2b educated. & marriage is obligatory, while education is sunat! since Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) has said dat getin married is half of ur religion. & wat wud u say about all dose people who r 2 poor, in under developed contries who have not had the chance to get educated. Look at prophet M (pbuh), was he educated? to beggin with - no. all his knowledge came frm angel gibrael.
prophet mohammad (pbuh), "Seeking knowledge is obligatory on every Muslim man and Muslim woman."
and i think you are familiar with word obligatory (fard). and there is a hadith which says " getting married is sunnah of mine". i am not trying to say that getting married is not important.i mean ppl should get married when they are ready from every perspect of life not just because they are bored and have nothing else to do.
for all afghans interested in religion plz check out my video that i have put on youtube and show it to all your family and friends insha Allah since its in farsi
It's unbelievable to see the girls without hijab or the guys who have no knowledge of Islam, talk about marriage. Marriage without Islam is useless and fruitless.
i am geting married age 21 and i be police officer in new york.. so...... guyss say good luck to me lol..
and an dand and and and and i am have big ass weddding dont' worry i well invite u guyss.. it si gonna be big but one thing if u don't have afhgan passport u an't allowed to enter plus if u dont' know attan i won't let u eat.lol
uff look at the comments bellow .. wth man :S.. i think this debate was excellent .. and it opens discussions and pp feel free to talk about some things.. and these guys bellow me.. are talking about who is ugly or pretty, damn...
to the orgonizer of this debate bullshit title of ur debate u couldn't find anything else to disc today other ppl disc how to invent somthing poor afghans still disc about marriage what a shame don't put these kind of debate on youtube please abroye kul afghan a borden kadi e debate tan
yousufj56, the bearded guy's name is also Yousuf, so aren't you talking about yourself? Cause I know him. He lives in Scarborough, Toronto. Though, ya, he's a good guy.
This is very good, there are now more and more new and old Afghan generations in USA and europe, specialy single men some of whom have no direct contact with family so discussions like this is great and has fruitfull outcome for those who need it. SO STOP CRITISISM AND RUDNESS IF IT IS NOT RELEVANT TO YOU.
I think the biggest problem is that the most old generation are uneducated and they have grown up with all these stupid culture and tradition!they just wanna show off how rich they are.Its more important to discuss how to stablize Afghanistan rather than talking about something that will never be changeable.
I totally agree with you brother, instead these people with wedding parties create more problem for poor people in afghanistan. now the trends of weddings and engagements have completely changed and poor people can't afford it. instead of spending all that money in one night ; they could creat 20 jobs for poor afghans who could support their family with it. I will do that instead but then no one will marry me :( .
hey u guys should come to laurier
mushyman99 8 months ago
This guy need a clean shave!
royan66 1 year ago
USA and NATO moms and daughters can be found on P O R N H U B DOT C O M .....afghans these seeds are being sown in your country
MrGigo12345 2 years ago
What do you mean Afghan?? when you speak in englishi. either speak farsi or uzbeki to be called afghan. go on
AryanaTV 2 years ago 2
@AryanaTV shut up mate both those languages dnt belong to afghansitan, farsi can go to iran, uzbeki can go to uzbakistan!
we all know that the language of afghanistan is PASHTU! go on
Huaz91 2 years ago
where was this at ?
afghangirl408 2 years ago
look at that loser boy who is sitting wid his earing and talking about Afghan Debate talk lolz that makes me laugh
jurhatjan 2 years ago
chee kosii sheer megan.. haramii da farsii bogo... shoma ra chee da inglish the gy who talk in prsion love him the ather are mothr hell
afghankid333 2 years ago
this is so stupid, just because ur busy studying it doesnt mean u dont have human feelings. everyone needs someone, people who dont get married and wait until 'they save up' are tempted to follow their desires in an unislamic and unafghan way, so to prevent it, one should get married. and this is not the olden days where wives have to cook and clean all day, and husbands do labour all day. in modern society ur both equal so if u cant handle modern marriage and education then your useless mate!
Huaz91 2 years ago
Marriage is important part of life, but to have an occupation beside it is more important than marriage...
Im sure 50% of afghani people who are living USA, Australia, Canada, Germany or Holland and maybe in UK are suffering the same problem, coz after some days or weeks of their marriage they are busy with their 24hrs of work, but hallo!
You work to survive but if you have a good education before marriage u wont be that much busy, i think:)
Study of marriage, its impossible!
Gook Luck All!
emaljan123 2 years ago
Im still believe that 80% of afghan men dont really knw what marriage is?
They are just accept their parents wishes that their kids should marry but after one year, two or maybe three years...its gone!
To marry a girl is not having someone beside you everynight and fullfill your wishes...
Marriage is a contract between two people ( Afghani tradition ) that guy should do everything even sacrifice to his Afghani Wife, Coz She Worth It!
emaljan123 2 years ago
Idiots! Stop talking ENGLISH!!!!
DARI is your Native language!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Afghan Debate, Afghan Language!!!
The guy who speak Dari, Love U BRO, Im proud of YOU!!
Pround 2bb Afghani <3
emaljan123 2 years ago
@emaljan123 yh PASHTO is also the main language of Afghanistan, so why is he not speaking in pashto. i guess he wanted everyone to understand each other, so no one feels left out.
Huaz91 2 years ago
@Huaz91: Srry i forgot to mention :)
emaljan123 2 years ago
@Huaz91 pashto & DARI are the two main languages :)
Dari is also a main language
thats why they speak dari on t.v., radio, and most of the books at the schools in Afghanistan are written in Dari
beautiful94551 2 years ago
And Dari is a Persian Dialect.
Tom101229 1 year ago
Yeah, but this use of having multiple ethnicities in Afghanistan has led to a insurgency of war in what I can depict as an ethnic conflict. A civil war is what I see going on in Afghanistan.
But of course I can see where it comes from. Pashtuns highly regard the entire region of Afghanistan as Afghan territory, not Tajik or Dari territory and Afghan territory. Of course there is much logic behind that argument, but it is the cause for all the hostilities within the region.
Tom101229 1 year ago
The problem is that it is really hard to make peace between divergent ethnicities, because it is impossible to facilitate two languages especially if they are relative to a specific ethnicity. Take Belgium for instance or Switzerland, both countries will eventually break apart due to all the ethnic tensions going on. And Switzerland was once a vibrantly stable community.
As long as they hold together and never make an act of co-opted assimilation of each ethnicity, conflict continues.
Tom101229 1 year ago
On idea to solve the situation in Afghanistan is to kick all the Tajiks, Iranians, and Balochis out, however moving people by force out of a country is considered a crime against humanity.
So the only other option is to divide the country up, North becomes divided into three portions, one given to Tajikistan, one given to construct Hazarajat , and the other to construct Daristan in the Northwest.
The South except for a tiny portions in the Southwest and Southeast would retain as Afghanistan
Tom101229 1 year ago
@Tom101229
Kick the tajiks and 'iranians' out? no that would be wrong-they have lived in the land for just as long as pashtuns have lived in theirs. what you dont understand is that the wars in afghanistan are not a result of ethnic tension, the ethnic tension is a result of wars. also nations who had much to gain from instabiltiy in the area have always used propaganda to make people less united. ie dauood khan was supported by russia to overthrow zahir shah bc he wanted pashtunization
gurliegurl89 1 year ago 24
You should finish reading what I said, of course I said it would be wrong. Gosh, let me restate what has been said by me.
"moving people by force out of a country is considered a crime against humanity. "
"So the only other option is to divide the country up."
Why is this so problematic? Dividing up a country. Land has to be partitioned to insure prosperity. If you try to hold something together that is starting to fall apart, it will still fall apart. So there is no point. Instead... (cont.)
Tom101229 1 year ago
Instead we focus on insuring our collective prosperity by partitioning land up by language-ethnic divisions to insure a rightful since of unity amongst people within their own region. This will insure their own prosperity and it will end all ethnic tensions, for the most part. Work on making sound borders on these factors and then start using diplomacy to create a military and economic union which over time may lead towards some form of federalism like the European Union.
Tom101229 1 year ago
You will end up having a larger Afghan influence over the region and the whole world than you would if otherwise, while possessing less land only tied to ethnic-lingual certainties.
But you have to understand this how it works with humans. We are like cats. We are lazy and don't like being bothers. But if you let us do our own thing and work on creating some form of partnership, then people will start living in harmony and work collectively together without discrimination or violence.
Tom101229 1 year ago
The very small Southwest portion is given to Balochistan and the very small Southeast portion is given to construct Nuristan and Pashaistan, which will be under the protectorate-trade-union system of Afghanistan like Belarus has with Russia. Balochistan, Hazarajat , Tajikistan, and Daristan may also follow pursuit.
This in turn requires Pashtun portions of Pakistan to become independent and fuse with the Pashtun portions of Afghanistan as well as the independence of Balochistan form Pakistan.
Tom101229 1 year ago
secondly the name and border lines of afghanistan were british imposed, knowing that it would lead to tension. prior all of central asia was much more united. russia and britian have been cutting and slicing the region up for ages leading to imposed borderlines and ethnic tensions, more division is not going to help. this has been happening in many parts of the world and as small as the nations are made it never solves anythin
gurliegurl89 1 year ago 2
I won't argue that the British fucked up the whole world and still are.
But that is the whole point of correcting these errors.
Particularly as I see it, it doesn't matter how larger your borders are so long as you can encompass the majority of your population and can facilitate enough resources to achieve some sense of prosperity. The next you need to do is work with your neighbors to insure some form of collective prosperity, which in turn can increase your own influence in that region.
Tom101229 1 year ago
The result would be a smaller overall Afghan state, well somewhat smaller. If you add in Afghan portions of Pakistan, you aren't really losing that much. But... with Afghanistan acting as the regional power and forming a trade-military-cultural-commercial union with the others, Afghanistan's influence will overall become larger.
So it is an odd situation. Afghanistan becomes smaller upon it self, but globally and regionally, it becomes much bigger.
Tom101229 1 year ago
Plus you also have the factor of stability that would rise due to the elimination of these ethnic tensions between Tajiks, Farsiwans, and Afghans, and with stability and peace comes prosperity and wealth.
Plus with an access the sea by trade union with Balochistan, Afghanistan will become vibrant like never before. And it will increasingly industrialized and then be able to compete again China and India on the global trade.
Tom101229 1 year ago
Why dont you improved you own self first then may be you'll understand things better..
Pashto in the Language of Afghan..do we jump like moron as you are doing ?
Its Afghan not Afghani..
Pashtunlad 2 years ago
can sme1 tell this guy not to cough in the MIC ?????????
namlesssme 2 years ago
ye gal every think iz aright
vrojoak 2 years ago
yak kasa kachoo pukhta ko - bukho.. gap-e weddinga nagee.. murqh mayshain kuleetan - gar chi murghwaray maloom mayshain - bad az arosi murgh mayshain !!
mirwais69 2 years ago
well somethings r not that rong which she said, it can be rite at a point,, overmarriaging is not wasting money its all abut ur spending in the way of ur happiness.....
Nayyirahlumi 2 years ago
she's really talking crap
every girl wants to have a princess wedding, it's not trowing your money away it's celebrating a new life coming
AFGQUEENHOLLAND 2 years ago
yak SOTA lazem ast- nafare 4 dana bazani joor meshan. and ready to marriage as well.
Barakzay 2 years ago
persian girls hahaha not afghanman they speak persian language
PashtunJan 2 years ago
HAHAHAHHAHAA
PashtunJan 2 years ago
I would have thrown that guy out for coughing
Yonus7227 2 years ago
am with u man
namlesssme 2 years ago
Oh i forgot to Mention...I am Afghan and inshallah marry an Afghan, which is wat i want and its easier cuz i wont have issue with the difference n culture and its easier for my family as well. notthing is wrong with mix culture as Long as your Muslim...
AfghaniNazaaha 2 years ago
salam,I personally dont Care about wat ppl think about my Wedding and who i marry....as long as i am happy i could Care Less about the world Cuz after all i am only JUDGED BY ALLAH TA ALLAH!!!!! no by the ignorant ppl.sorry to say.... Salam.
AfghaniNazaaha 2 years ago
Salam.. i So agree with the Gal about Wasting so much money on a Dam Engagement party then oh a BIG Wedding and ohhhhh we have to impress ppl and wat do our ppl do? they com eat, and talk about the bride and groom, if they make a good match or if they are ugly, talk about the food, the singer and the Hall..I hate this Crap about ppl.
AfghaniNazaaha 2 years ago
in my point of view no one in this world shall marry bcz if they marry then they will lose thier independent thier life wuold related to anather person . noshe jane bezani ke yak nane tanha mezanee hahahaahahahahahah
seyar2008 2 years ago
@ChiccoJuanito Yup, and she is clean.
So many women are dirty...they even have fucked with dogs.
Curious3guy 2 years ago
just because she wears a scarf doesn´t mean she is clean,
ChiccoJuanito 2 years ago
just wasted 9mins & 54secs of my life+30secs for typing
lol
321blueblood 2 years ago
hahaha
sahar99 2 years ago
traurig... afghanen diskutieren ihre "probleme" in youtube. Früher hat man für solche Fragen einen papa und eine mama gehabt
Pashtuni 2 years ago
just bullshit
khatlon 2 years ago
merriage can wait. Enjoy your time and have fun. hen you get merried than you have kids. than hell
khatlon 2 years ago
hahah dats true
sadafthesadaf183 2 years ago
FReakS""!!!!
oOyellowSky 2 years ago
THE WHOLE VIDEO IS A BULLSHIT...
kooolabo 2 years ago
waste of time watching this...
mypenisandballs 2 years ago
camera man i think ki cena baghal ast lol
scannerafg 2 years ago 27
@scannerafg lol. tokh tokh kho na mekona.
artistic0director 2 years ago
koley video motawajey sho yak raqam tokh tokh ra andaakhta specially 1.35
scannerafg 2 years ago
dalaganoo ya englisi wai yast ya parsoo wayast ..
pa khpla Afghani wali sheramgai..
..mergh pa golanooo...
FREEMAN8522 2 years ago
woooooooooooooooooooooow she is soo kool and so understand....!!!.....u all should learn u noo......
LoOoBiEzz 2 years ago
fuck yous all i just wasted9 min and 55 second of my life on this crap
khisraw420 2 years ago
dis is really gr8 we afghans need some programs lyk dis ... everyone has diff ideas buh gd to no em , keep it up n wat part of canada is dis?
BeGaNa100 2 years ago
Ahahahahahaha ahahahahahah
looooooooooooooooooooooool
That was damn hilarious, u made my day with that comment of yours.
Cheers mate!
kid0147 2 years ago
the boy who spoke farsi, my GOD you put all if not most of the afghan youth to shame with your fluent farsi. I admire you for that!! lol!! :D
MissUtubeholic 2 years ago
whats up with the ppl speaking dari, i cant speak it and its pointless for him to come to a discussion which is in english and address people in dari- the end
iboughtanewlaptop 2 years ago
all of them are bulshit
psdown2go 2 years ago
damn right!
BacheKhala 2 years ago
Chee megi Farci Gab bisan bachem
IHackRF 2 years ago
what is with the negative comments, just because you are failure it bothers you when others are having a constructive conversation, all of them said great things, i hope they practice what they preach
omidwardak 2 years ago
salam to all sweet and lovely afghans I love afghanistan jan
frayba20 2 years ago
what the world is going to threw and what afghanistan is going threw and what people are doing to get democracy i would like to say from the bottam of my heart i love my country dearly but fuck the people they can kiss my ass you fucking ass holes follow the realigion the right way if not than atleast dont make a joke out of it
watanmiyadigi 2 years ago
wen we are balegh ( pass puberty ) n dem shyt n da changes occur n our body den we are ready for marriage buh forr marriage u ave to ave a good living soo u can look afta ya self n ur fam for marriage u need a good income for marriage u need a place wer u can rely on for evaa for marriage u need land bak home cuz inshallah one dai afg is rebuild den onli dosse afgunz will live in forieng countries da onez r lyk u guyz da watsting tym on fukin marriage debate instead of talkin abt sumfin goood
Afghustlaa 2 years ago
in islaam we ave da ryt to choose our partner buh it dnt sai da we ave to debate abt it wen we shud get married,
Afghustlaa 2 years ago
n y da fuk we talkin abt marriage we aint no fukin white ppl da we choose for our selwe ave our mum n dad to worry abt da we ave fam to worry abt us ndey know best m, all dis luv shit n luv marriages dnt end up succesfully ma bredaaz n sistaaz n if u fink u choose whom u wnaa get married n u decide wa age u wana get married at den u aint afgun maayte.
Afghustlaa 2 years ago
salaam
first of all glad to c afgunz talkin abt sumfin at least ova den makin stupid wedding videos n beng stupid tryna be funy buh dey aint n den postin dem on utube
dis video is alryt at least dey talkin and debatingn abt sumfin buh da weak point i c n dis video is instead of wastin ur tym arranging a debate abt marriage y dnt u arrange a debate abt islamic stufff abt war in afg abt education abt da importance of our culture abt our future
Afghustlaa 2 years ago
Salam to my all dear Afghan Brother and Sisters and it makes me happy When I see these educated and broadminded Young Afghans which our Society desperatley need it
Allah pe Aman
deer deer Manenna
Aziz u khan London UK
azizullahkhan76 2 years ago
We have a huge opium addiction epidemic, one of the highest illiteracy and infant mortality rates in the world, huge national security and corruption problems and not to mention the treatment of women - and the list continues - however, these baffoons feel that the age at which a teenager is forced into a loveless marriage to a man twice her age is a more pressing issue.
equate123 2 years ago 2
As a student at "the" U of T, I am saddened and digusted to see these pathetic Afghan discourse "debates". This is exactly why our community is behind almost every ethnic community in Toronto and around the world.
equate123 2 years ago
salam to all sweet and lovely afghans can someone plz tell me where this gatherin is happenin i would realy appreciate thanks
AfghaniXerxes 2 years ago
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alizai99 2 years ago
thanks for the translation i did knewwhathe was saying but again asi mentioned i and him were just goofing around talking like that.
ghalbeafg 2 years ago
I dont know why the heck some of the guys are coughing....may be they are nervous to give a speech in front the audience.
2009Alig 2 years ago
lmaooo <3
Roxa1810 2 years ago
باعرض ادب بشما محترمان.....راجع بجواب محترمه ghalbeafg......عرض کنم که من اصلآ نامی از اسلام نبردیم. ولی عی رغم این هم من حاضر هستم که باشما عروسی کنم......
fultrust 2 years ago
well, as an afghan girl, you would better no that we afghan men can have several wives and even 7 some times but it depends on if you are able to stisfy them and able effort them too...So I dont think having a wife is a big problem in our culture....so please accept it and let's have a lovely life...
fultrust 2 years ago
kho awal bogo chanta darie ta hala k gap e 7 mezani? bachem naam e islam ra baad nako u can have more than one wife for a good purpose.lovely life me with your 7 wife? ne i go find me one lol.
ghalbeafg 2 years ago
you stupid who said that you can have 7 wifes as afghan wake up dont fuckin lie about us now some one well copy you and its gunna go to the media go and study kerem da aqlet
alizai99 2 years ago
Mr. alizai99? thanks for the deferential comment. but I am afraid that you cant hide the truth. If you dont no about it or may be not have been living in your watan AND NO KNOWLEDGE ABOUT IT, that is your problem. but the fact is that it used to be not now or may be in rural areas yet. I WAS JUST KIDDING WITH ghalbeafg ANYWAYS..please dont swear again if you think you are a well educated person...THINKS
fultrust 2 years ago
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alizai99 2 years ago
hay hay chillax man u r getting way to far. no need for fight on youtube. u r very judgmental fultrust is my husband and i am the only love of his life he got.he doesn't believe in the 7 wives thing ok?we were just having some good time and joking about these things.
ghalbeafg 2 years ago
alright my friend, I suppose you have already got the answer so i dont need to argue with you for nothin....
fultrust 2 years ago
fultrust khuda maydana chandta waife darie ta hala wa megi fultrust dashta bashem boro kaka jan teerat biyaar ma barie tu besiar hot astum.
ghalbeafg 2 years ago
i think this subject is very important for afghans my age.
i am at the point of my life where i can choose either way.
1i can stay in college study till i get a career then think about marriage.
2 i could marry and think my husband will let me study but then what if i have kids somewhere in the middle?
then my best friends around me are getting married i am so lonely i need a man lol.
ghalbeafg 2 years ago
liverpool8684 2 years ago
hahah that guy with the rish i think its a joke go man edit your rish or shave it, in that style you could speak ur own language that looked cool. any no offence i just type my idea.
TheA11i 2 years ago
Someone freakn give that nigga a glass of water so he could stop coughing, Damnn hahaha
Or wait a minute, Nigga is high, Chars e khoda zada baaz aamada ba Debate lol
Nigga has smoked Chars before walking in for the Debate .. hahahahah
Marg Marg Marg ... Gomsho stop coughing already .. Olee shit
toughhh 2 years ago
Please contact me for a short time living together. then you will know ....!!!!!!!!!!!
khabulhelmand 2 years ago
woooo what a waste of life.....
nafg12 2 years ago
Please marry me. You are so good, and we will be so happy...
waziland 2 years ago
okay
WAT A USELESS SUBJECT!
SUM1 KIL ME
brumi4lyfbraaap786 2 years ago
Guys every one is going to face marraige at one stage.,... but as they said it all depends on the situation like if you are studying you shoud just concentrate just on studdies.. but there is always the influence of mum and Dad or even your friends geeting married at a young age... but at the end still its all up to ya?
ali03283 2 years ago
nice he not but speaking farsi lol niceeeeeee keep it up and i like what he saying wow and ur farsi really good ,,
akh dega
love ur kabul gal
Sexybk2011 2 years ago
what the fuck is she talking about????
sohbat19 2 years ago
something u dont know lol 19 still young lol
Sexybk2011 2 years ago
where did this took place? In Afghanistan ?
syedabdulaziz 2 years ago
haha the guy that speaks afghan wata sikunt u dnt expect that guy to speak and know farsi like the way he talked
thedrmteam 2 years ago 3
... an educated person is greater in the sight of Allah s.w.t than an illiterate. It would be sophisticated for a pair if one is literate and other illiterate they will not be able to tackle the upcoming problems in their life, it would have the example of a car which has got two tires of own and two of a bicycle, it is impossible to drive your car with its opposed elements so similarly we should have either two educated or illiterate.
letsknow 2 years ago
The way the dispute exceeds is not so much enthusiastic but rather it becomes bored anyhow i would just like to point toward two great aspects of the debaters and those who have commented that Marriage and Knowledge both are compulsory, as to the best of mind it can be stated that a person should first get educated than get married, because if we see to the asserts of the Glorious Qur'an we evidently find that Allah s.w.t states in several places that ...
letsknow 2 years ago
i love the guy who speaks in farsi rather than english very good move :)
wawanany 2 years ago
its not farsi my friend but dari
1carlento 2 years ago 2
look darling i was born in kabul and it was always called farsi. farsi gap mezani they use to ask me lol so its farsi. yeh some cal it dari but its always been farsi.
wawanany 2 years ago
Just follow what the rulings are in islam, that it. no need to consider anything else.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
furthermore to your previous comment most of sahabas turned up to get educated after work. nothing comes easy in life there fore muslims are far behind. prophet mohammad insisted more on knowledge than marriege. and you got the tow muddled up please check it again which one is sunnah and which one is fard. wasalam
ebabajan 2 years ago
if he insisted more on knowledge than marriage then wy would he say, marriage is half of your religion. i.e. half of your relegion is completed in that way. and just because yu get married doesnt mean that you are stoped from seeking knowledge! just know your priorities.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
well for marriege there are constraints unlike for knowledge. also you said seeking knowledge is sunnah it is not it is the other way round. I think you just want an excuse to get married before your education. I agree that you dont need masters to get married, however you need some level of understanding.
ebabajan 2 years ago
hmm dnt knw if ma previos comment got posted.basikly am sayin we shud hve both @ d same tym, dez no reason y 1 shud exclude the other1. i dnt wnt an excuse2get marid b4 educ. i'd rather finish uni. bt i'd lyk2 do it aswell as doin edu. bt d onli fing dat makes it imposbl is the society's traditions,&customs, e.g y cnt gal+guy get marid, while parents support dem lyk dey do alrdi.+ d onli edu u need is the sunah to start wid, a degree in math wont do nufin. baskili- d customs r unnecessary.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
y wud i wnt an excuse 2get maried b4 my education. dude. am studying law at university, i find being educated and having a decent career is important! even tho am a gal (tryna say, am not the 1 who's gona hav 2support d famli once am married) my argument is dat, d afghans shudnt exclude 1 for d oda.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
first of all I wish you best of luck in and properity both in academic and real life. I think we are coming to the same point. they dont have to sacrifice one for another but they have to know enough to fill the criteria of marriage. any way when you become a lawyer can you do some thing to remit my parking tickets :( i have got too many. wasalam
ebabajan 2 years ago
hehehe ;) take care bro.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
seeking knowledge and marriage are separated. it doesnt mean that they cant be mutualy present. even though seeking knowldege is very important, that doesnt mean you should go to the extremes and wait till your 40 to get married. you shouldnt exclude on for the other. islam hates exteremism.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
yup you are right they are separate issues but a guy should be clever enough to make good decision for himself , his wife and children with in the circle of islam and i dont think that could be done without having education. you said that prophet mohammad (pbuh) was uneducated but he insisted on every ocassion on education.
ebabajan 2 years ago
Culture = problems.
Islam= Solutions.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
i dont think islam is the solution though. religion is not important the main thing is that you respect everyone plus you must have a clean heart.
1carlento 2 years ago
oh really? islam teaches that you should have a clean heart, and that you should have respect for everyone. so if everyone was to follow islam, how is this not the solution? :)
AlahaJan 2 years ago
what can i say these days islam is not the solution no one is following the islam in a proper way. its too difficult for people. look at the muslim countries and tell me what you think about them.
1carlento 2 years ago
i agree, there are people who dont follow it proper, at the same time there are people who do their best to follow it. and just because there are people who dont follow it properly does not undermine the fact that islam is the solution.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
Mariage is a sunna, but divorce is an obligation. Afghans are not fully civilized, so they better not look at Western standards!
waziland 2 years ago
the guy who spoke farsi damn very well spoken and very handsome lol muah
afgsfinest 2 years ago
salam aliakum every one. first of all from islamic point of view . education is obligatory on every man and woman however marriege is sunat. secondly education shows you the way of life and without education most people don't know how to treat their wives properly. Educated person is in much better position to provide better life for the family because of good job, or good (educated decisions ) or other steps in life.
ebabajan 2 years ago
ehh theres no need for a degree or masters to know how to treat your wife. u just need discipline, and obviously u have 2b educated. & marriage is obligatory, while education is sunat! since Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) has said dat getin married is half of ur religion. & wat wud u say about all dose people who r 2 poor, in under developed contries who have not had the chance to get educated. Look at prophet M (pbuh), was he educated? to beggin with - no. all his knowledge came frm angel gibrael.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
prophet mohammad (pbuh), "Seeking knowledge is obligatory on every Muslim man and Muslim woman."
and i think you are familiar with word obligatory (fard). and there is a hadith which says " getting married is sunnah of mine". i am not trying to say that getting married is not important.i mean ppl should get married when they are ready from every perspect of life not just because they are bored and have nothing else to do.
ebabajan 2 years ago
خود کش بیگانه پرست
gfrdsahg 2 years ago
The debate took place at UofT Scarborough Campus
popalyar 3 years ago
Is UoT in Canada?
shakib2 2 years ago
afghan realy dont have mind to use it 4 afghanistan what kind of islam do you think can save afghanistan i dont beleive islam can save afghanistan
mirwaisafg 3 years ago
coz afghans dont know how to use this beautiful religion that Allah gived us and to respect it
sotahra 2 years ago
what do you mean? can you expand on that?
The debate is not wether religion is beautiful or marriage is wonderful, but rather should one finish their studies before getting married?
popalyar 2 years ago
oh ya i didnt know lol.. i just answered the comments thats all..
sotahra 2 years ago
This is primitive mentality, there shouldn't be no marriage at all.
SirianKings 3 years ago
i think mariage is a wonderful..everyone has their own opinion
sotahra 2 years ago
WHERE THIS DEBATE HAS TAKEN PLACE??
ROYALAFG 3 years ago
is this in vancouver,bc??
3eanyy 3 years ago
i think its in Ontario...
sotahra 2 years ago
learn dari or pashto plz!!!!!
maximus112 3 years ago
Is it a classroom or an organization? Its a very interesting discussion and can someone elaborate on the description of this video? Please?
81air3 3 years ago
for all afghans interested in religion plz check out my video that i have put on youtube and show it to all your family and friends insha Allah since its in farsi
watch?v=I6wzTD5LRE4&feature=channel_page
yousufj56 3 years ago
It's unbelievable to see the girls without hijab or the guys who have no knowledge of Islam, talk about marriage. Marriage without Islam is useless and fruitless.
qasemkhan 3 years ago
these 2 gurls sar locha khely ugly astan
fighter01tezab 3 years ago
medecine begy u r coughing man u stress me lolzzzzzz
fighter01tezab 3 years ago
OMFG!!! AJ
Bakhtbolland13 3 years ago
haha
nicee
my afghanss
i am geting married age 21 and i be police officer in new york.. so...... guyss say good luck to me lol..
and an dand and and and and i am have big ass weddding dont' worry i well invite u guyss.. it si gonna be big but one thing if u don't have afhgan passport u an't allowed to enter plus if u dont' know attan i won't let u eat.lol
Nrahimjan 3 years ago
im good at attan
lol buh will a british passport do? lol
lilmizz16 3 years ago
uff look at the comments bellow .. wth man :S.. i think this debate was excellent .. and it opens discussions and pp feel free to talk about some things.. and these guys bellow me.. are talking about who is ugly or pretty, damn...
missafglala 3 years ago
to the orgonizer of this debate bullshit title of ur debate u couldn't find anything else to disc today other ppl disc how to invent somthing poor afghans still disc about marriage what a shame don't put these kind of debate on youtube please abroye kul afghan a borden kadi e debate tan
mohammad042 3 years ago
the guy at 6.56 is smart mashAllah
yousufj56 3 years ago
yousufj56, the bearded guy's name is also Yousuf, so aren't you talking about yourself? Cause I know him. He lives in Scarborough, Toronto. Though, ya, he's a good guy.
Konfuzing 3 years ago
no lol im not talking bout myself...but ya thats awsome masha Allah that he is so religious
yousufj56 3 years ago
hamy tan bad foxxxxxxxxxxx badrang ugly pple .shame for our pretty nation . shokor ki shoma bad foxa da france nesten
fighter01tezab 3 years ago
gom shawen katy debate %%%%%%tan
fighter01tezab 3 years ago
hahaha
AlahaJan 2 years ago
omg the dude at 2.50 is jokes
kutekamz 3 years ago
Who da fuck is coughing so much
smp336 3 years ago
hahaha omg righttttttttt
nyafghan 3 years ago
THE GUY at 5:52 is so dumb
u dont have to have a big wedding if ur afghan.
thats dumb
u shouldnt be thinking about what others will think of u, u should be thinking of what allah (SWT)thinks of u.
and not all afghans have a BIG wedding.
and if ppl are going to judge, u shouldnt care.
becuz the only judgement that will matter at the end is allah(SWT)
-peace
afgzarghona 3 years ago
agreed.
AlahaJan 3 years ago
he is right you can try to ignore the ppl but still kam meyaia adam peshe kheshe qawm
and you are right too...but i think ke afghana ta hale da u niveau narasidan ke ignore konan....you know afghans dega
M2307W 3 years ago
lol yh.
AlahaJan 2 years ago
This is very good, there are now more and more new and old Afghan generations in USA and europe, specialy single men some of whom have no direct contact with family so discussions like this is great and has fruitfull outcome for those who need it. SO STOP CRITISISM AND RUDNESS IF IT IS NOT RELEVANT TO YOU.
ZIVONZivon 3 years ago
che moshkel dara aga fari gap bizzani?
ooh sorry maybe u dont understand wt i said!
wt is the problem to talk persian?
n u ppl discuss abt cultur, abt family n abt to be afghan..... lol
icare4it 3 years ago
fuck them all they aren't afghans
they can't be
kalewaal 3 years ago
I think the biggest problem is that the most old generation are uneducated and they have grown up with all these stupid culture and tradition!they just wanna show off how rich they are.Its more important to discuss how to stablize Afghanistan rather than talking about something that will never be changeable.
royaltanha 3 years ago
I totally agree with you brother, instead these people with wedding parties create more problem for poor people in afghanistan. now the trends of weddings and engagements have completely changed and poor people can't afford it. instead of spending all that money in one night ; they could creat 20 jobs for poor afghans who could support their family with it. I will do that instead but then no one will marry me :( .
ebabajan 2 years ago