Yo, you're the man!.. Very articulate, very simple tips-- things that I know, but then in the situation; I turn into this guy that should cater to her every need-- f's me up everytime- I do & say too much, further & I know I'm a good-looking guy! Yet, I've f'd up every single one of my last 4 dates-- tonight, I'm sitting by myself drinking whisky- it's a horrendous feeling!..
i find that all women likes a guy that looks good and dressed that way they take u seriously good looks embody confidence and shit. though smart helps too but ur way is really typical
your views, attitude and social behaviour limits you to those who are either equal or less to your views, attitude and social behaviour.
Do not expect those who have better attitude and behaviour to be attracted to you unless they see good in you.
Change yourself to be a better person everyday for yourself first, not to outshine though you will be shinning and inturn you will meet people who you and everypne admires to be with.
you want to know what attracts women.....other women. women want what they CAN'T have. here's a free one boys, to catch that girl you want, let her catch you with a few other beautiful girls. she will wonder why the other girls want you, and when she comes over to find out, you take her down
Most girls can't tell the difference between real and fake confidence.....but while they claim they want a confident guy, they really just want something that feels like real confidence. Regardless of substance.
The most confident guys I know are humble, modest, and are mistakenly thought of as being shy. Truly confident, nice guys don't get a lot of women because they usually don't go out of their way to meet girls. Let's be honest, the average college girl is a drunken whore.
Listen to this guy it's all the truth I'm a female and I'm hardly attracted to any male and from what he said the guy I'm in love with today was completely and totally comfortable with himself. Trying too hard just makes us feel uncomfortable we want more of a mystery and a way to work our way to catch you.
Bragging is a total turn off. That doesn't mean you can't let her know you do something well or that you did something you were proud of. If a topic casually comes up in the conversation you can let her know you did something but get back to something you are both interested in quickly.
yes it is 99,99999% correct. try to impress to much and you seem totally desperate. if you don't try it means you don't need because you are already good enough :P
I dont have a problem meeting girls and getting #s, i have a proble when it comes to calling them, they either dont pick up or dont want to get out to different places, what can i do :(?
Everything in this world is so connected to each other. Just like martial arts, I mean Bruce Lee said "Use no way, as a way". Same here, with girls "Impress her, by not impressing her at all"
Not that I want to rain on this guy's parade or anything but I believe that everything he said was sheer common sense, and not some fantastic words of wisdom.
The point is that a girl has to be interested in who you are and not in who you're trying to be.
THANK YOU!!!! Oh my GOSH is it annoying when guys try too hard to be impressive. I was worried that this video would say "show off this" or "say that", but it actually gave a GOOD TIP!! Well done :D A huge part of it is that we like honesty, and if the guy is showing off, then they're kinda "acting"... like someone in a play or a movie, they're not showing who they are.
I love how women contradict the shit out of themselves. "We like honesty", as they put on makeup to hide every blemish they can find, hypocrites.
I challenege you to go a month with no makeup and go out to meet guys. Then you get a taste of what we deal with that leads to over impressing. Especially when the norm of us are competing against Ed the juice bag guido.
The point here is to be yourself but you still have to sell yourself.
wow hey, this is really helpful info, even though im in school an i showboat cuz im on the soccer team, so i get an ample amount of girls, but i think i want to try this technique cuz it makes a lot of sense an my dad has been telling me this. but umm i have a request, how do i approach a girl?? like after i go up to her an starta conversation, what should i do to keep her interested? this is for say if i meet a girl in the mall or something. video response?
hey men....what if a woman did not talk to you or not approach you for a week...and i think she dont have a reason to do that to me.....what do you think i my do for our closeness to came back again..........
I recently took a girl to see the latest harry potter movie. She was actually getting to like me (I met her 4 days previously) but during that whole movie I just couldn't stop flatulating - I tried to act as though nothing was happening but I could clearly see that she wasn't impressed. I'm pretty sure that turned her off because when I call or text her she either doesn't answer or says she's busy.
Depends on her "type" I guess. I know a lot of girls who would get mad over something like that... like you could control it or something. I guess my best suggestion, since you only knew her for a few days anyway, is to forget about her, and go for someone more practical. Good luck, I'm so sorry that there are types of girls like that that give the rest of us a bad name :(
Finally! someone who gets it! If you boys would just be cool and be yourself we will notice you. We girls like men who we can introduce to our girlfriends and our family and not worry about what they will think:) Showing off to us will make you look desperate and we don't like that.
he's right when men show off so much u look so stupid when u just act urself we LOVE it b/c we know we are getting to know the REAL you ... but u know put in SOME effort
What he said is absolutely TRUE. The same thing should apply to both men AND women. Simply put, BE YOURSELF. If the person does not accept you for who you are, criticizes you, questions everything that you do, and makes you feel inadequate, then that is THEIR problem and not yours and that person is NOT the right person for you. You should cease all contact as it is not healthy to have that kind of person in your life. This also applies to friends as well. Thanks alot for sharing arkady39 :D
Great question. You should have your own unique style that works for you. And the only reason you might perceive me as effeminate is because of the very local standard of "masculinity" that you compare me to. As you probably know, masculinity is expressed in very different ways around the world and what's consider masculine in the US or some parts of the US is considered unpolished and sloppy in other areas (of the world) so it's all relative.
he's alright with most of it... just a bit of advice to those guys out there... dont show off to the girl u like, most girls will think ur a dickhead if you do but just casually try to make her smile. Not by telling jokes but by asking this "Where's that beautiful smile of yours?" It usually works on me! So hav a go and try it out. Good Luck!
Hi, I'm Gary Brodsky I sell books and CD's on picking up women, I knock most guys who call themselves dating guru's - But this guy is excellent- I salute you
hi arkady do you have any video tips if you done mistake to the girl that you want to know just like you were like stalking her? plss help me in this.
arkady39. Is this valid for teen girls? i'm 16 and interested in a girl same age. i can play the guitar and what should i do besides looking confident? should i show off a bit or should I try not impressing her like you said?
He's got it. If your a normal then be yourself like you were around your boys. Just watch your mouth and dont act stupid. It's all about the alfa male. Confidence. Your not cocky, but you're the shit!
Is it normal for a girl to offer you a massage? If she is only your friend. I was injured after martial arts. I told her. She went is there anything i can do for you, tea, food, massage. After she said massage she was like omg i can't believe i just offered that. What does that mean?
Basically you mean just be yourself and try not to be someone your not.. Women love a guy who does not try to be someone... They want to see who YOU are and what YOU are all about I do not have much dating experience myself but I know how some of the aspects work... Very well done buddie 5 stars!!!!
"hey man, i sent this girl i like this message on myspace, and did not get a reply back, any way i can get some help"
If you didnt build attraction or interest enough she will probabaly ignore you forever. Send her another message telling her how busy you are and how much fun you have been having and take the piss out of her not responding (in a jokey NOT bitter way)!! Dont feel bad about sending another message you can do what you want because your better than her!!
chirayut dude ive nerdy w/o muscles etc it doesnt matter if u think to yourself im the shit w/o putting it on speaker phone and make her feel ur better than her youll be great
This man is 100% right. The most important thing in the game is the confidence. Women smells it, sees it. You cannot avoid it so you have to be self-confident. A little bit arrogant too, and the second most important thing is the humor. be funny and you'll get succed
If your a teenager and your hitting on teenagers. One thing I noticed from when I was younger and as I've gotten older is that teenagers often lack the confidence adults do so it changes the game a bit. Teenage girls often want to be shown that you like them cause teenage girls have lower self esteem. But if you are going to approach a confident adult, graveling will get you nowhere. For teenagers it will depend on the girl. What worked for me in high school is be sweet and smart.
Dude, how am I supposed to be confident when I am so negative? I am not tall, muscular, with great hair and skin. Sure I am smart as hell, but it is a fact that women will rather like jocks than nerds.
not always, i like nerdy guys sometimes if they are confident, i liked his one guy who was in my math class at the time, he wasn't the best looking, and he had blemishes and he was a lil shorter than I was and he had glasses, but he always confident in his school work or talking to someone that it was like wow i want that or i want to be around him, confidence just draws a girl in
be confident tha way you are.. believe me there is ppl worse then u n hv full confident.. u gain confident mantly n u can do that thru meditating and other skills luk for some vids if u need more help holla at me.. n mostly start bein positive no matter what u do n u wl feel that power..
dead on. i wish there were more dudes who knew this. they also need to know, to keep em hooked, show interest but not TOO much interest.. don't always be available at the drop of a dime, you kinda gotta make it a chase. it's soo much more thrilling & attractive to me.
nice video man, very nice. i lack confidence a lot and it's kinna hard because my heart beats to fast trying to talk to this girl. what's a great way to build up confidence?
it true, it is a contradiction but it is also realistic. women can sense when a man is trying to impress her. better yet, have u ever seen a dude wearing just a little too much jewellery? it looks too much, dont it! well thats the visual equivalent of impresing her.
you are sooooooooooooooooooo right i hate it this boy was like putting random facts about his richness and i was thinking "show off ugh" biggest turn off ever keep doing wat you do man
I don't like confidence in men. They're cuter when they're blushing, fidgiting, scratching their heads, & in the end let you do all the thinking for them, provided they're at least confident drivers. They can warm up to you latter, when they find out you're into video games & comic books.
I'm A Girl, And It's True..I Get Impressed When Guys Are Just Down To Earth And Don't Try To Impress Or Try Too Hard In Everything...All Guys Should Be Like This..It Will Work.. :D
hi arkady,i have a question. i really like this girl whos very friendly and genuine.for the first time i didnt care about a girls looks. but she is very pretty indeed and me,well its kind of different. i really lack confidence to talk to her. we are friends though,could u help?
(rocklee770) maybe (just maybe) myspace isn't the best way to pick up girls. seriously when you are a complete stranger online and ask for someone's number...
this guy is so smooth he probably fucked your mother and your girlfriend...
aeronw00t 1 month ago 2
Yo, you're the man!.. Very articulate, very simple tips-- things that I know, but then in the situation; I turn into this guy that should cater to her every need-- f's me up everytime- I do & say too much, further & I know I'm a good-looking guy! Yet, I've f'd up every single one of my last 4 dates-- tonight, I'm sitting by myself drinking whisky- it's a horrendous feeling!..
MrReefAh 1 year ago 20
Dude u gIIve the Beztt ADvIIZE!!!!!
TheJerkkkk 1 year ago 9
thx man.ur vedios are very straight away and helpful.
sam871113 1 year ago
thx man.ur vedios are very straight away and helpful/
sam871113 1 year ago 5
Skyy John has a better theory: When talking to a hot chick just imagine she is an ugly unattractive woman.
TailsYay 1 year ago 30
19 and never had a girlfriend.
-Completely honest
-Confident.... women are not so attracted to it though.
-Nice at first, unless you piss me off, then I'm cocky.
-Successful and hard working.
Gorillazfreak18 1 year ago
i find that all women likes a guy that looks good and dressed that way they take u seriously good looks embody confidence and shit. though smart helps too but ur way is really typical
kirbysir675 1 year ago 2
your views, attitude and social behaviour limits you to those who are either equal or less to your views, attitude and social behaviour.
Do not expect those who have better attitude and behaviour to be attracted to you unless they see good in you.
Change yourself to be a better person everyday for yourself first, not to outshine though you will be shinning and inturn you will meet people who you and everypne admires to be with.
abuladula 1 year ago 5
yup
CROOOME 2 years ago
LOL So true. I've had people try to impress me... those ones get rejected real fast.
TeresaPiers 2 years ago
you want to know what attracts women.....other women. women want what they CAN'T have. here's a free one boys, to catch that girl you want, let her catch you with a few other beautiful girls. she will wonder why the other girls want you, and when she comes over to find out, you take her down
MrAbomb666 2 years ago 11
how came you dont talk about woman atracting man or understanding what they want with a woman or what they think of us
maiara70 2 years ago 31
@maiara70 Thanks, I have quite a few videos and articles for women and am working on making more.
arkady39 2 years ago 33
thank you for the help 5 stars
VEARKING 2 years ago 7
It looks like modesty is the answer here.
LazyGoliath 2 years ago 7
this is so true! (-;
omarion2410 2 years ago 4
woww....5 starss*****
anshb28 2 years ago 4
Most girls can't tell the difference between real and fake confidence.....but while they claim they want a confident guy, they really just want something that feels like real confidence. Regardless of substance.
The most confident guys I know are humble, modest, and are mistakenly thought of as being shy. Truly confident, nice guys don't get a lot of women because they usually don't go out of their way to meet girls. Let's be honest, the average college girl is a drunken whore.
kamaujackson811 2 years ago 31
so true man
andreads502 2 years ago 5
Agreed.
LiangHuBBB 2 years ago
ur right man ! "dont try impress a woman if u want be impressive"!
Kkingen 2 years ago
Listen to this guy it's all the truth I'm a female and I'm hardly attracted to any male and from what he said the guy I'm in love with today was completely and totally comfortable with himself. Trying too hard just makes us feel uncomfortable we want more of a mystery and a way to work our way to catch you.
psychybabe 2 years ago
Also good grooming is really a turn on. Knowing what looks good on you and being clean will catch her eye. Then she won't be afraid to talk to you.
summergiles 2 years ago
This is good advice he gives.
Bragging is a total turn off. That doesn't mean you can't let her know you do something well or that you did something you were proud of. If a topic casually comes up in the conversation you can let her know you did something but get back to something you are both interested in quickly.
summergiles 2 years ago
good video
CoupleDrinks 2 years ago
yes it is 99,99999% correct. try to impress to much and you seem totally desperate. if you don't try it means you don't need because you are already good enough :P
rogantu 2 years ago 2
quality womens D:
Metrowhite 2 years ago
seriusly man, you are helping me a lot!I've seen a lots of you videoes
okeyda 2 years ago
What exactly do you mean by this??
CodTeamKillerRPG 2 years ago
hurray for euro training lol
gregthesplintercell 2 years ago
I dont have a problem meeting girls and getting #s, i have a proble when it comes to calling them, they either dont pick up or dont want to get out to different places, what can i do :(?
s3rgio00 2 years ago
he is reading something
ugoplayer1116 2 years ago
Everything in this world is so connected to each other. Just like martial arts, I mean Bruce Lee said "Use no way, as a way". Same here, with girls "Impress her, by not impressing her at all"
Sesshoumaru888 2 years ago
iam very shy
thats the problem
siyadss 2 years ago
THIS REALLY WORKS ON ME THE WHOLE TIME
dilan4me 2 years ago
this is the best clear and perfectly explains my feelings. im a gurl n i really appreciate these advise. at last sumone who could understd! =]
cthaNi 2 years ago
Not that I want to rain on this guy's parade or anything but I believe that everything he said was sheer common sense, and not some fantastic words of wisdom.
The point is that a girl has to be interested in who you are and not in who you're trying to be.
n3kr0s666 2 years ago
thanks man
icanshoot06 2 years ago
right on brotha
barkape 2 years ago
why does it seem like these euro dudes have all the answers on dating?
mikez565 2 years ago 412
you have a point but he has a point i got like 17 girls thanx to him
callerofmusic 2 years ago
'euro dudes' lol
sarryface 2 years ago
so true. but funny that American men are rated the second most romantic in the world. But i know exactly what your talking about.
J40d 2 years ago 2
THANK YOU!!!! Oh my GOSH is it annoying when guys try too hard to be impressive. I was worried that this video would say "show off this" or "say that", but it actually gave a GOOD TIP!! Well done :D A huge part of it is that we like honesty, and if the guy is showing off, then they're kinda "acting"... like someone in a play or a movie, they're not showing who they are.
katuni08 2 years ago 52
I love how women contradict the shit out of themselves. "We like honesty", as they put on makeup to hide every blemish they can find, hypocrites.
I challenege you to go a month with no makeup and go out to meet guys. Then you get a taste of what we deal with that leads to over impressing. Especially when the norm of us are competing against Ed the juice bag guido.
The point here is to be yourself but you still have to sell yourself.
diapwnsyou 2 years ago 97
wow hey, this is really helpful info, even though im in school an i showboat cuz im on the soccer team, so i get an ample amount of girls, but i think i want to try this technique cuz it makes a lot of sense an my dad has been telling me this. but umm i have a request, how do i approach a girl?? like after i go up to her an starta conversation, what should i do to keep her interested? this is for say if i meet a girl in the mall or something. video response?
jpc1516 2 years ago 8
hey men....what if a woman did not talk to you or not approach you for a week...and i think she dont have a reason to do that to me.....what do you think i my do for our closeness to came back again..........
clarenz1114 2 years ago 7
This is simple and accurate advice.
Although being well dressed and smelling wonderful also helps.
PlatinumGeist 2 years ago 166
hey! you're right! haha. i get turned off when a guy is really needy too :x
angle021 2 years ago 46
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 10 months today :D
mongopojk 2 years ago
why havent i heard this method before? this seems like the best way to impress a woman, great advice
ONLYBESTVlDEOSFORYOU 2 years ago 32
!!!...TRUE!
slsglfl 2 years ago 3
I think overall this guy gives the best dating advice i have ever heard.
SirHappyThe1st 2 years ago 48
I recently took a girl to see the latest harry potter movie. She was actually getting to like me (I met her 4 days previously) but during that whole movie I just couldn't stop flatulating - I tried to act as though nothing was happening but I could clearly see that she wasn't impressed. I'm pretty sure that turned her off because when I call or text her she either doesn't answer or says she's busy.
Can anyone help me out??
brianswathey 2 years ago 17
Brianswathey
.......and the point of this funny story is.....??
SirHappyThe1st 2 years ago 4
dont ever call her back or text her..dont wait for her your wasting your time..
smokesar 2 years ago 25
Depends on her "type" I guess. I know a lot of girls who would get mad over something like that... like you could control it or something. I guess my best suggestion, since you only knew her for a few days anyway, is to forget about her, and go for someone more practical. Good luck, I'm so sorry that there are types of girls like that that give the rest of us a bad name :(
katuni08 2 years ago
i'm a girl and this is true.
pinksoccerplyr59 2 years ago 4
Ya he needs a video that shows us a sample of his closet so I can get an idea of what shirts to buy
crazysoccerman14 2 years ago
haha fashion model thought you were gonna say fag...ahhah good very well video btw 5/5
conscript93 2 years ago
Finally! someone who gets it! If you boys would just be cool and be yourself we will notice you. We girls like men who we can introduce to our girlfriends and our family and not worry about what they will think:) Showing off to us will make you look desperate and we don't like that.
rofaca 2 years ago 6
omg that is so true
thanks sooo much for ur advice
cause i was going to take her the best place on the 1st date to try impress her....
thx so much for tips
initialvin 2 years ago
amen! gah. guys just seem cocky when they show off.
kikicwazy5 2 years ago 7
nice video tips and advice
eduardfel 2 years ago 9
he's right when men show off so much u look so stupid when u just act urself we LOVE it b/c we know we are getting to know the REAL you ... but u know put in SOME effort
iloveeric89 2 years ago 14
nice shirt
sanalkjoy 2 years ago 18
What he said is absolutely TRUE. The same thing should apply to both men AND women. Simply put, BE YOURSELF. If the person does not accept you for who you are, criticizes you, questions everything that you do, and makes you feel inadequate, then that is THEIR problem and not yours and that person is NOT the right person for you. You should cease all contact as it is not healthy to have that kind of person in your life. This also applies to friends as well. Thanks alot for sharing arkady39 :D
ANIMEGIRL385 2 years ago 5
yea he's right .. don't try to impress us too much lol..
We like natural fun guys.
drunkenlilTIFFY1990 2 years ago 4
Great question. You should have your own unique style that works for you. And the only reason you might perceive me as effeminate is because of the very local standard of "masculinity" that you compare me to. As you probably know, masculinity is expressed in very different ways around the world and what's consider masculine in the US or some parts of the US is considered unpolished and sloppy in other areas (of the world) so it's all relative.
arkady39 2 years ago 8
haha LOL
he's alright with most of it... just a bit of advice to those guys out there... dont show off to the girl u like, most girls will think ur a dickhead if you do but just casually try to make her smile. Not by telling jokes but by asking this "Where's that beautiful smile of yours?" It usually works on me! So hav a go and try it out. Good Luck!
kaitybabi77 2 years ago 7
oh man haha
these videos are interesting
but i laugh
DREAspiffy 2 years ago
correct
want2cplz 2 years ago 2
thats pretty natural.
its not about talking about who you are and what you've done. Its about being the who you are.
smackdown416 2 years ago 3
Hi, I'm Gary Brodsky I sell books and CD's on picking up women, I knock most guys who call themselves dating guru's - But this guy is excellent- I salute you
garyguns 2 years ago 60
Thanks a lot.
arkady39 2 years ago 27
hi arkady do you have any video tips if you done mistake to the girl that you want to know just like you were like stalking her? plss help me in this.
eduardfel 2 years ago
Great advice as always.
SirHappyThe1st 2 years ago 35
Learn how to dance; you can be yourself and someone she wants to dance with.
mockiii 2 years ago
krasav4ik :D
alinajpg 2 years ago
how does this guy know so much!?! he's sooo right. He's hot.
gogoutube 2 years ago 2
its the science
benny2511 2 years ago
hes italian! he knows everything!
sk8rkid135 2 years ago 6
arkady39. Is this valid for teen girls? i'm 16 and interested in a girl same age. i can play the guitar and what should i do besides looking confident? should i show off a bit or should I try not impressing her like you said?
mario68079 2 years ago
man u shuold definitely talk to her.
keenan871 2 years ago
dont try to impress....
VirtuosoGuy 2 years ago
dont try to impress her right off like your showing off, try to make it seem special like it was personally for her maybe in a private setting.
strawberri46254 2 years ago
He's got it. If your a normal then be yourself like you were around your boys. Just watch your mouth and dont act stupid. It's all about the alfa male. Confidence. Your not cocky, but you're the shit!
Snyder33Jon4 2 years ago
Be Yourself ! A++ vids
thetigertony 2 years ago 2
Straight Up!
GoldenPlatinumSTEEL 2 years ago 2
Honest, I wonder which girls he gets?
FillaFan 2 years ago 3
so fucking true and our subconscious knows that !
GabrielMoulin 2 years ago
I always act like myself. It hasn't worked at all. :(
Akolyte01 2 years ago
Is it normal for a girl to offer you a massage? If she is only your friend. I was injured after martial arts. I told her. She went is there anything i can do for you, tea, food, massage. After she said massage she was like omg i can't believe i just offered that. What does that mean?
ironcollosus 2 years ago
Basically you mean just be yourself and try not to be someone your not.. Women love a guy who does not try to be someone... They want to see who YOU are and what YOU are all about I do not have much dating experience myself but I know how some of the aspects work... Very well done buddie 5 stars!!!!
DeadSilence2009 2 years ago
1:52, it turns women off that men try too hard? im pretty sure thats all women do.
diveinme 2 years ago
FUCK U MAN THANX 4 THE FUKIN SHIT
MaskBoyTsquad 2 years ago
probs french
41836 2 years ago
im a woman and i say FINALLY a man who gets it! lol
lulita1234 2 years ago
I like this guy, he is like Ross from friends,, he looks and talks like he is very insecure, but he gets all the girls in the show.
scancool 2 years ago
LOL, this is so true. I end up attracting a bunch of other women by behaving normally yet the girl I'm going after I end up overworking it.
rydendm 2 years ago
wtf... i understand. THIS GUY IS BLOODY GOD!!!
aaronators 2 years ago
"hey man, i sent this girl i like this message on myspace, and did not get a reply back, any way i can get some help"
If you didnt build attraction or interest enough she will probabaly ignore you forever. Send her another message telling her how busy you are and how much fun you have been having and take the piss out of her not responding (in a jokey NOT bitter way)!! Dont feel bad about sending another message you can do what you want because your better than her!!
jammyAndPolitical 2 years ago
my god ur jesus
antmaster555 2 years ago
chirayut dude ive nerdy w/o muscles etc it doesnt matter if u think to yourself im the shit w/o putting it on speaker phone and make her feel ur better than her youll be great
zionist776 2 years ago
this makes good sense
1mahdie 2 years ago
This man is 100% right. The most important thing in the game is the confidence. Women smells it, sees it. You cannot avoid it so you have to be self-confident. A little bit arrogant too, and the second most important thing is the humor. be funny and you'll get succed
ancienthun 2 years ago
lol wtf.....this makes sense haha
heilderfuhrer33 2 years ago 21
You make perfect sense. I love your accent, by the way. Where are you from?
aksmit01 2 years ago 26
probably love land lol hes an expert.
Ryan1m 2 years ago
Hmm.. Do you mean that to be humble yet confident is the best way to impress a woman? Does it imply on teenagers???
3ch056 2 years ago 9
It applies to quality women. Period. Likewise, it will attract quality teenagers.
picassoandtheredhead 2 years ago
not most teenager girls, but the good ones yes, and those are the ones who are worth it.
lulita1234 2 years ago
If your a teenager and your hitting on teenagers. One thing I noticed from when I was younger and as I've gotten older is that teenagers often lack the confidence adults do so it changes the game a bit. Teenage girls often want to be shown that you like them cause teenage girls have lower self esteem. But if you are going to approach a confident adult, graveling will get you nowhere. For teenagers it will depend on the girl. What worked for me in high school is be sweet and smart.
jasonofcompsci 2 years ago
YOu got some real shyt in your head bruh... good stuff I like you,
MrFeets4life 2 years ago 2
Dude, how am I supposed to be confident when I am so negative? I am not tall, muscular, with great hair and skin. Sure I am smart as hell, but it is a fact that women will rather like jocks than nerds.
chirayut 2 years ago
not always, i like nerdy guys sometimes if they are confident, i liked his one guy who was in my math class at the time, he wasn't the best looking, and he had blemishes and he was a lil shorter than I was and he had glasses, but he always confident in his school work or talking to someone that it was like wow i want that or i want to be around him, confidence just draws a girl in
sweetine777 2 years ago
be confident tha way you are.. believe me there is ppl worse then u n hv full confident.. u gain confident mantly n u can do that thru meditating and other skills luk for some vids if u need more help holla at me.. n mostly start bein positive no matter what u do n u wl feel that power..
two6c4you 2 years ago
nice shirt!
tenebre26 2 years ago 2
u know ur shit man!!!thanks for sharing
amydramine 3 years ago
dead on. i wish there were more dudes who knew this. they also need to know, to keep em hooked, show interest but not TOO much interest.. don't always be available at the drop of a dime, you kinda gotta make it a chase. it's soo much more thrilling & attractive to me.
ri0twh0r3 3 years ago
3 words-IM VERY NERVOUS
daftheed 3 years ago
OMG HE IS SOOOO RIGHT.
hhhgarcia525 3 years ago
its like your awnsering the questions i didnt even think of asking.
your at the top of your game man!
flagger402 3 years ago
True as far as I'm concerned. If a guy tries to be impressive it makes me wonder what he is trying to make up for.
spiffygoodness 3 years ago
Only works when you're interesting in the first place.
Naturally interesting>uninteresting>trying to be interesting
Naturally impressive>unimpressive=trying to impress
frozengreenblob 3 years ago
Wow guys talk about girls as if they are tonnes complicated. We aren'ttt. I say if guys wanna know about girls ask one!
flipityflop123 3 years ago
I've been watching your vids for about an hour, and i'm hooked dude!!
Keep up the good work Arkady, u rock :)
HumanAfterAll1302 3 years ago
i agree
francescfabregas1234 3 years ago
ROFLMAO HES RIGHT
xgerry13 3 years ago
Dude you are really starting to help me even though I just watched two of your vids.
born2watch723 3 years ago
your a very nice guy im going to try that from now on. talk to her like you deserve to have a conversation with her
kevin33558 3 years ago
Thats what i did wrong.
and she went off with another guy..
nice video man..
sid6911 3 years ago
very nice. thank u
889bball 3 years ago
You know When I saw You for the first time, I did'nt like you at all man, You seems like like the tipycal AFC guy, now I like you better.
everything you say make sence.
Mazz-
peptobismolmax 3 years ago 23
so true
mixerjason 3 years ago
I agree...lol
Peltonwheel 3 years ago 3
You r right on. The same is true of a woman who is too nice. You know where it's at. Good job.
Terrigm45 3 years ago 3
nice video man, very nice. i lack confidence a lot and it's kinna hard because my heart beats to fast trying to talk to this girl. what's a great way to build up confidence?
Abunai07 3 years ago 2
How do you know all this stuff? scary. you read women's minds!!!
amyb876 3 years ago 3
isn't that a contradiction impressing her by not impressing her....
kublkun 3 years ago
it true, it is a contradiction but it is also realistic. women can sense when a man is trying to impress her. better yet, have u ever seen a dude wearing just a little too much jewellery? it looks too much, dont it! well thats the visual equivalent of impresing her.
creeball 3 years ago
more of a paradox
rubberducky113 2 years ago
you are sooooooooooooooooooo right i hate it this boy was like putting random facts about his richness and i was thinking "show off ugh" biggest turn off ever keep doing wat you do man
rori525 3 years ago
very true
fuckthehero 3 years ago
great advice
brandonbyrd09 3 years ago
I don't like confidence in men. They're cuter when they're blushing, fidgiting, scratching their heads, & in the end let you do all the thinking for them, provided they're at least confident drivers. They can warm up to you latter, when they find out you're into video games & comic books.
LikaLaruku 3 years ago
thank u 1,000,000 times
therdymike 3 years ago
you right thats all i have to say
cpmafia 3 years ago
I'm A Girl, And It's True..I Get Impressed When Guys Are Just Down To Earth And Don't Try To Impress Or Try Too Hard In Everything...All Guys Should Be Like This..It Will Work.. :D
truchaz805 3 years ago
LOVE GURU?
bonustime12 3 years ago
Man where did you learn all of this stuff? Did you go to the budhist temple? Asian styles...lol
samazn20 3 years ago
dude ur like the best
all this stuff u say really works
thanks man
joelthepole12345 3 years ago
intelligent observation
chocbear1028 3 years ago
dude u are good!
newnamedanyy 3 years ago
Not trying to impress sounds useful... unless you're Homer Simpson.
TheDarkPan 3 years ago
This guy gets so much @ss!
responder12345 3 years ago
Very well said.
Nordicrebirth 3 years ago
unpretentiousness - the 'new' confidence?
MUTYAAR 3 years ago
thanks for a great advice!
brutalcriticism 3 years ago
i bet you can get any girls that you like ;P
-great video
chinaboiii1314 3 years ago
this dude lolololol he knows wats he talking about hes right all the way
raybrizs 3 years ago 18
This guy is a G
True Ladies Man!
Cyklizzle 3 years ago 41
lol
imaking300 3 years ago
I have anxiety :( that's why I'm shy *CRIES*
Mobile3999 3 years ago 11
hi arkady,i have a question. i really like this girl whos very friendly and genuine.for the first time i didnt care about a girls looks. but she is very pretty indeed and me,well its kind of different. i really lack confidence to talk to her. we are friends though,could u help?
Redrocket14 3 years ago 4
Be comfortable, relax and friendly? Talk about little things first?
rlam86 3 years ago
so true. confidence is the best asset.
coffee1313bean 3 years ago 5
arkady i suscribed... man you r a genius
BloopersAndSports 3 years ago 5
Thanks, you are too kind.
arkady39 3 years ago
hey, i know how to impress a woman, just subscribe to my internet site and pay me money. = fraud
brianengesser 3 years ago
Access to my site is absolutely free, so.... you must be talking about someone else. :)
arkady39 3 years ago
briangesser you just got pwned.
akady39 your vids are great dont listen to that peice of trash.
iBRINGyouVIDS 3 years ago
hey man, i sent this girl i like this message on myspace, and did not get a reply back, any way i can get some help?
rocklee770 2 years ago
no if you sent her a messege and she didn't reply back, she is not interested.
DETROITMAN313RD 2 years ago
(rocklee770) maybe (just maybe) myspace isn't the best way to pick up girls. seriously when you are a complete stranger online and ask for someone's number...
DancingWithChickens 2 years ago
hey, would you mind calling me, or having me call you. i would much rather here your voice than sit here and msg back and forth
and i was being dramatic when i sent that msg...its kinda embarassing.
so ya, can i have a home number or something i can call you on?
after i sent the girl i like this message, i got nothing in return. any advice?
rocklee770 2 years ago
Because you wrote that and she didn't answer, I'm guessing you two are just starting out. Why?
picassoandtheredhead 2 years ago