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This is so sad. Of course the guardian is going to hire "an agency" for $1500 - I wonder how much is his cut? Maybe Sam Rausman should get a real job instead of stealing from Seniors what took them a life time to save.
It's a shame they didn't give us any contact information becuase I would write this woman myself.
this lady sounds like she got all her smarts!! shame on whoever did this to her.. i dont even want to ask which state it is in.. wouldnt want to know if it was mine
I hope that the lady's daughter's daghter does that 2 her so she can feel what the daghter put the lady though it's only fair(stuid *****s who put old people though this shoud go 2 **** evil peoples)
I agree somewhat. But then there are some in a nursing home who severely mistreated their children and the ended up there because the children got tired of their abuse. The old saying is true: Be good to your children-they pick your nursing home. It goes both ways.
this is shocking ... poor women! how disgusting. This women seems perfectly sane and her only so called 'crime' is to be old? ... how sad, and everyone is making money from this woman. How sad, I hope this womens family found a way out for her. she a strong women, strong willed too, such a shame. I'm please we do not have this rubbish in the UK.
She should not have been exploited this way with her money. $1500.00 a week is outrageous! And for the treatment she got was even a bigger slap in the face.
wow this is terrible...someone needs to come forward for this woman who seems to be a lot wiser than her children...i hope her daughter will experience the same situation she put her mother through...this is very sad...
I can tell you now that no aid is making 2000 dollars every two weeks. the Agency is taking the money and barely paying the aid.. Sad but true. I can say so. I have been in the field for 14 years. C.N.A's are mostly taken advantage of in nursing homes and home health agencys. the best place is a hospital to work in. I will do a video soon on elder abuse and how to help with familys.
first of all watching this video tells me one thing this lady has her mind well set and her sanity intact who the hell lets the courts appoint anything with out consent ?second her daughter is too busyvisiting her own daughter sad she better hope that when she is in her moms place her daughter is not to busy doing the same to help her.sad very sad this is why abuse continues, because our own loved one allow it.
so very sad. it seems they should be able to get a lawyer to fight this. nursing homes can be good places or very scary places depending upon the ownership.
The issue is not about the nursing home at all. The issue is that this woman has lost her right to make her own decisions about her life because she was appointed a guardian by the courts. The guardian has the power to make all of a persons life decisions. Please learn about this process because it could easily happen to you or one of your loved ones. Visit NASGA, the National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse.
As a advocate for the elderly, I have seen my share. This is why I started my business. Not only am I a rep for these kind people, I am a visiting nurse and try to assist in any way possible.
No they can not. Nursing homes are under staffed and over worked. The county pays for families to take care of their relatives at home, provides nurses visits and home improvements for the care, yet relatives are still throwing their families into nursing homes. I take care of people who are at home because I'm honest. I offer to work under a spy camera- the only way it should be
Do you or someone you know have a similar story? If so, we would like to hear from you. Please visit our webpage at National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse where you will find a way to email us. All correspondence will be kept confidential.
survelliance cameras everywhere, in every room of the house- spend the money on that to keep your parents safe- if you can't be there to take care of them yourselves!!! I took care of my grandparents and my Dad lives behind me- here is always a way- yes I work too- makes me sick how the people that raised you are in someone else's care and you're complaining about it? Go to hell!
you are missing the point..althought you take care of YOUR family, some one can walk into the courts and appoint a guardian, who you and your family will have no legal rights against...so take your "go to hell" ignorant attitude and open your eyes to some truthful education
@imamensa Hi from New Zealand, i feel sad for the nanny in the film, i do know what can happen in nursing homes,. some people prefer to put their loved ones in a home because its easier to just have some one else care for their loved one. but it aint right in my culture, its our natural way to love and care for our elderly and loved ones till they Die...
Anyone in New York can look up the law of guardianship for the elderly in the "Mental Hygiene Law Article 81". Within that law there is a section on the "powers of a guardian" which every person should read. After reading it, you will realize that everything you imagined about your civil rights or due process was a figment of someone's imagination. Remember, forewarned is forearmed.
@imamensa This law not hurt people relatives of family they advocate, but they abuse it. My mom was appointed by a guardian, via a judge from housing court, based upon the info I gave to APS person. Imamensa, my only advice is, put the pressure on these guardianship agencies, so that you can hold their feet to the fire. That way, these agencies that were appointed by court can do their job the right way. As for the Mental Hygiene Law of Article 81, there needs to reform up in Albany for this.
I am just learning to look after my 91 y.o. mum who has become very ill very suddenly.
Until recently she was still looking after us and I feel so sad for her, as I can see how helpless she feels now and dependent. I want to do the best I can for her and so desperately want to make her feel happy and safe. I was looking for carers information, when I came accross the subject of abuse. What a disgrace! Please DO keep well! You are terrific! Love from Oz XX
Please educate yourself and your family about forced guardianship because once it happens there is no way out. Go youtube search page and search NASGA. You will be shocked!!!
esta should sue or something for the abuse she had. no one should have what she had happen to her so she should get compensation or something like that out the the tosser
Excellent video of Esta - one of who knows how many elderly that are forced against their will into unlawful and abusive guardianships and conservatorships.
hello. I am a film student, and we have a proyect where we have to make a documentary. casually is about elder ppl and their lives during their last days and I found this material useful for it. would it be possible to send me a link with the video (avi or mpeg file) or any information where I can find videos? I want to do a documentary about elder ppl being good cared specially in their last days of life. it wont be seen on national TV nor international, but will be seen at uni... thanks
This is common. It happened to our family and my husband is an only child. He wasn't accused of abuse or neglect, they just took his Mother and our attorney went along with it.
This isn't Stalinist Russia where this is happening- it is the good ol' "Land of the free and home of the brave"... This generation fought for freedom and saved to make us what we are today. Now we treat them like garbage. Conservatorships and guardianships are a national nightmare. Don't wait until it happens to you or a loved one!
Everyone should send this video to everyone they love before it is too late and they are snagged by the guardianship courts where they will lose their money, their freedom and sometimes even their lives. Guardianship and conservatorship are a modern day holocaust. To learn more about similar victims of abusive guardianship and conservatorships search for other videos on yuotube using the search word:
I spent over 3 years reviewing actual probate court documents involving the same sorts of cases. This situation is not uncommon and unfortunately most of what is done by the guardians, conservators, attorneys, judges, magistrates and medical personel involved; while being legal is highly unethical, abusive (both financially and physically).
Esta is completely correct when she refers to this as a conspiracy. Only criminal prosecution can correct the problem.
Quite an eye opener! It is amazing to hear this very articulate and lucid woman talk about how she has been stripped of her rights and decisions. This is incredibly sad and an outrage to know that such things are happening to our seniors. Great job on the video. Keep speaking up!
Christmas on a Crutch !! This woman has it together. Totally ridiculous scenario.
caleb6868 4 months ago
What about elderly people who abuse there younger loved ones or family members?
that's not legal either.
Joanthecutey 1 year ago
they did this to my mom,
316JOHNLT 1 year ago
this is what going on with my grandmall we need help call me 7408769272 hubert yelley is my name
anndyammy7379 1 year ago
we must stop this madness.
They are stealing people to get their money and to get control of their lives.
endguardianshipabuse 1 year ago
sign our petition to STOP ELDER ABUSE AND GUARDIANSHIP ABUSE
endguardianshipabuse 1 year ago
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theseeker2k5 1 year ago
This is so sad. Of course the guardian is going to hire "an agency" for $1500 - I wonder how much is his cut? Maybe Sam Rausman should get a real job instead of stealing from Seniors what took them a life time to save.
It's a shame they didn't give us any contact information becuase I would write this woman myself.
ProtectMySenior 2 years ago
that is becase we live in free country, sucks isn't it.?
sakinehbs 2 years ago
this lady sounds like she got all her smarts!! shame on whoever did this to her.. i dont even want to ask which state it is in.. wouldnt want to know if it was mine
r2the3rd 2 years ago
I hope that the lady's daughter's daghter does that 2 her so she can feel what the daghter put the lady though it's only fair(stuid *****s who put old people though this shoud go 2 **** evil peoples)
>:(
ZwinkyIsAwesome01 2 years ago
All I can say is that one Day all you dirty low bastard's that do this to older people, will get there 's and I hope they get it in double
kesskenworth 2 years ago
I agree somewhat. But then there are some in a nursing home who severely mistreated their children and the ended up there because the children got tired of their abuse. The old saying is true: Be good to your children-they pick your nursing home. It goes both ways.
meddetect10 2 years ago
this is shocking ... poor women! how disgusting. This women seems perfectly sane and her only so called 'crime' is to be old? ... how sad, and everyone is making money from this woman. How sad, I hope this womens family found a way out for her. she a strong women, strong willed too, such a shame. I'm please we do not have this rubbish in the UK.
Mazkan 2 years ago
She should not have been exploited this way with her money. $1500.00 a week is outrageous! And for the treatment she got was even a bigger slap in the face.
meddetect10 2 years ago
wow this is terrible...someone needs to come forward for this woman who seems to be a lot wiser than her children...i hope her daughter will experience the same situation she put her mother through...this is very sad...
milyrocks246 2 years ago
I work at an assisted living facility, in the memory unit,. I've witnessed first-hand family members doing the same thing. It's very frustrating.
espezido 2 years ago
I can tell you now that no aid is making 2000 dollars every two weeks. the Agency is taking the money and barely paying the aid.. Sad but true. I can say so. I have been in the field for 14 years. C.N.A's are mostly taken advantage of in nursing homes and home health agencys. the best place is a hospital to work in. I will do a video soon on elder abuse and how to help with familys.
jstngardipee 2 years ago
first of all watching this video tells me one thing this lady has her mind well set and her sanity intact who the hell lets the courts appoint anything with out consent ?second her daughter is too busyvisiting her own daughter sad she better hope that when she is in her moms place her daughter is not to busy doing the same to help her.sad very sad this is why abuse continues, because our own loved one allow it.
marilsalex 2 years ago
so very sad. it seems they should be able to get a lawyer to fight this. nursing homes can be good places or very scary places depending upon the ownership.
SisterSunnshine 2 years ago
The issue is not about the nursing home at all. The issue is that this woman has lost her right to make her own decisions about her life because she was appointed a guardian by the courts. The guardian has the power to make all of a persons life decisions. Please learn about this process because it could easily happen to you or one of your loved ones. Visit NASGA, the National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse.
imamensa 2 years ago 3
What happen to this very healthy lady?
wenavi 3 years ago
As a advocate for the elderly, I have seen my share. This is why I started my business. Not only am I a rep for these kind people, I am a visiting nurse and try to assist in any way possible.
flatsignedbooks 3 years ago
caring homes can't be trusted...
SonnyL 3 years ago
No they can not. Nursing homes are under staffed and over worked. The county pays for families to take care of their relatives at home, provides nurses visits and home improvements for the care, yet relatives are still throwing their families into nursing homes. I take care of people who are at home because I'm honest. I offer to work under a spy camera- the only way it should be
kimmarie801 3 years ago
You have very good spirit... keep it up.... live to the fullest...
EsotericDesi 3 years ago
Great video... very intersting...
EsotericDesi 3 years ago
Do you or someone you know have a similar story? If so, we would like to hear from you. Please visit our webpage at National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse where you will find a way to email us. All correspondence will be kept confidential.
imamensa 3 years ago
survelliance cameras everywhere, in every room of the house- spend the money on that to keep your parents safe- if you can't be there to take care of them yourselves!!! I took care of my grandparents and my Dad lives behind me- here is always a way- yes I work too- makes me sick how the people that raised you are in someone else's care and you're complaining about it? Go to hell!
kimmarie801 2 years ago
you are missing the point..althought you take care of YOUR family, some one can walk into the courts and appoint a guardian, who you and your family will have no legal rights against...so take your "go to hell" ignorant attitude and open your eyes to some truthful education
djrlpn 2 years ago
is that like child protection services? what is a legal guardian that comes into someone's home and takes away another's rights?
kimmarie801 2 years ago
djrlpn, you have no clue
kimmarie801 2 years ago
@imamensa Hi from New Zealand, i feel sad for the nanny in the film, i do know what can happen in nursing homes,. some people prefer to put their loved ones in a home because its easier to just have some one else care for their loved one. but it aint right in my culture, its our natural way to love and care for our elderly and loved ones till they Die...
atutahiwahanga 1 year ago
Esta welcomes phone calls and letters! You can call her on her cell phone at 718 849-0407.
For stories of other victims visit the website of NASGA. National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse
imamensa 3 years ago
Anyone in New York can look up the law of guardianship for the elderly in the "Mental Hygiene Law Article 81". Within that law there is a section on the "powers of a guardian" which every person should read. After reading it, you will realize that everything you imagined about your civil rights or due process was a figment of someone's imagination. Remember, forewarned is forearmed.
imamensa 3 years ago
Thank you very, very much for this video. I am very glad that somebody cares, this is so sad I want to cry.
sammanzhi 3 years ago
@imamensa This law not hurt people relatives of family they advocate, but they abuse it. My mom was appointed by a guardian, via a judge from housing court, based upon the info I gave to APS person. Imamensa, my only advice is, put the pressure on these guardianship agencies, so that you can hold their feet to the fire. That way, these agencies that were appointed by court can do their job the right way. As for the Mental Hygiene Law of Article 81, there needs to reform up in Albany for this.
lee1000ify 1 year ago
A society that doesn't take care of its elderly... is probably American.
Good luck to you, Esta.
spidergoodlegs 3 years ago
she is a very smart lady
FlatSkateTeam 3 years ago
Esta, stay strong! Wish I could help.
I am just learning to look after my 91 y.o. mum who has become very ill very suddenly.
Until recently she was still looking after us and I feel so sad for her, as I can see how helpless she feels now and dependent. I want to do the best I can for her and so desperately want to make her feel happy and safe. I was looking for carers information, when I came accross the subject of abuse. What a disgrace! Please DO keep well! You are terrific! Love from Oz XX
YarramanofOz 3 years ago
where is this?
kimmarie801 3 years ago
Esta's case is in New York, but forced guardianships are happening all over the country.
imamensa 3 years ago
kim,
Please educate yourself and your family about forced guardianship because once it happens there is no way out. Go youtube search page and search NASGA. You will be shocked!!!
imamensa 3 years ago
esta should sue or something for the abuse she had. no one should have what she had happen to her so she should get compensation or something like that out the the tosser
sharky1105 3 years ago 2
Excellent video of Esta - one of who knows how many elderly that are forced against their will into unlawful and abusive guardianships and conservatorships.
stopguardianabuse 3 years ago
hello. I am a film student, and we have a proyect where we have to make a documentary. casually is about elder ppl and their lives during their last days and I found this material useful for it. would it be possible to send me a link with the video (avi or mpeg file) or any information where I can find videos? I want to do a documentary about elder ppl being good cared specially in their last days of life. it wont be seen on national TV nor international, but will be seen at uni... thanks
hooyoun1982 3 years ago 2
This is common. It happened to our family and my husband is an only child. He wasn't accused of abuse or neglect, they just took his Mother and our attorney went along with it.
It could happen to you.
grandmotherrocks 3 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
This isn't Stalinist Russia where this is happening- it is the good ol' "Land of the free and home of the brave"... This generation fought for freedom and saved to make us what we are today. Now we treat them like garbage. Conservatorships and guardianships are a national nightmare. Don't wait until it happens to you or a loved one!
syringa12 3 years ago
Everyone should send this video to everyone they love before it is too late and they are snagged by the guardianship courts where they will lose their money, their freedom and sometimes even their lives. Guardianship and conservatorship are a modern day holocaust. To learn more about similar victims of abusive guardianship and conservatorships search for other videos on yuotube using the search word:
NASGA
imamensa 3 years ago
This woman is incredible, what a strong, incredible woman. She could be a real spokesman for the vulnerable elderly.
This is what we are all setting aside retirement accounts for............... for the judges, attorneys and banker's retirement.
grandmotherrocks 3 years ago
I have met this articulate and feisty senoir
citizen.
She is a national treasure and should be the poster girl for the elderly.
She is bright, capable and has a mind that is sharp as a tack!
Prevent this form of abuse from being repeated--write legislators to stop this
nationwide crime.
God Bless you Esta!!
Dee King, daughter of probate court abused victim, Daniel Gross.
dee2utube 3 years ago
I spent over 3 years reviewing actual probate court documents involving the same sorts of cases. This situation is not uncommon and unfortunately most of what is done by the guardians, conservators, attorneys, judges, magistrates and medical personel involved; while being legal is highly unethical, abusive (both financially and physically).
Esta is completely correct when she refers to this as a conspiracy. Only criminal prosecution can correct the problem.
barryf13 3 years ago
Esta gives us all an education about unlawful and abusive guardianships / conservatorships.
A subculture of our society is pretying on the vulnerable -- for profit. It's outrageous and we've got to stop them.
Visit the National Association to STOP Guardian Abuse.
scuds2 3 years ago 2
search you tube for...
The Secret Rulers of the World - Present/Past [Documentary]
freightmaster2 4 years ago 3
This is a sad country! Stick the elderly in homes so you can work 2 jobs to make ends meet. When are you gonna open your eyes and see the obvious?
The Secret Rulers of the World - Present/Past [Documentary]
freightmaster2 4 years ago 5
Quite an eye opener! It is amazing to hear this very articulate and lucid woman talk about how she has been stripped of her rights and decisions. This is incredibly sad and an outrage to know that such things are happening to our seniors. Great job on the video. Keep speaking up!
DominiqueGizelle 4 years ago 3