I think insecurity is a big part of it, both for men and women. It also seems like a lot of people are quick to point the finger at other someone else, but they never take a step back to see what they might or might not be doing to make it better. I can't count how many people have griped on to me about how the opposite (or same) sex is evil, and I'd ask, "Do you think you're being attracted to the wrong kind of person/qualities?" and the only response I get is a blank, confused stare.
@toplasestra Insecurities is a massive thing thing, I completely agree with you. Also agree with one pointing the finger at another, I'm honest to say I've done that myself, think we all have at one point or another. Often it is a case where you really do have to step back, take time and figure what you've done wrong, it's a fault of my own. And the reason you get a blank answer is because what you said is often very true!
@ScottMcK9 Same with me, which is why I'll ask that question :) I remember thinking to myself, "Why are all these guys such jerks?!", then I figured that it probably wasn't all guys. I was probably just passing up on the better ones. It's silly how people just lump everyone into "this group" and "that group". Yeah, you'll meet some asses, but that's life, right?
@toplasestra Completely agree with you, because in life, no one is perfect, there will be a lot of guys you may come across with faults, but their not bad people. It's like me, I have my faults, but I'd never intentionally be spiteful to hurt someone, not in my nature. As for people grouping, it's wrong, and that's what I can't understand, the whole group of whether you're nice or bad, it's stupid. It's like you could be a nice person, but be more independent than that of a bad person.
@nikoninja16 Completely agree with you, sure being a walkover etc perhaps isn't attractive, but neither is them being arseholes. As for guys that beat into lassies, will never understand that, doesn't make one more powerful, just makes them lower.
@Qurisstine It just pisses me off, the stupidity and lies. The whole category of 'nice guy' and 'bad guy'. Such stupid, stupid stereotypes. I mean how stupid can people get? "Oh he's a nice guy, that must mean he's a walk over" really? hahahahaha they can try being in a relationship with me then, they'd soon be calling a nice guy like me an arsehole lol
@mettanc LOL never saw this, been busy sorting through email and stuff and yesterday Celebrating as Rangers won the league, so aye! lol just got around to this the now lol
I think nice guys ; who are honest and good-hearted are cool.
All women are not after a guy's money foremost. Every women wants to be economically stable; such as in marriage, but a good woman is willing to help out...like working to help her husband and family, if possible. I don't like men who are " dick-headed "! YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT THE WAY " DICK- HEAD " COMES IN A RELATIONSHIP... LYING ABOUT HIS TRUE NATURE! WE LADIES, DO BE IN DENIAL ABOUT THE WARNING SIGNS.
@spainishgirl The reason I spoke about it, and some tried to claim like it was just the 'internet' or a 'joke' is simply because, I know for a fact people like that guy Jerry, actually do believe in all that truth. They're so thick, they don't realise, they discriminate against people like me. It's as if the guy's saying, am the fool as if he knows it all. What pisses me off about that, I know for a fact the guy doesn't have a clue. People don't speak their mind on video and then say it's a joke
We are only after money? What in the whole world is he talking about??? Then what does that woman what's with live? I cant think of something else than kids, a nice house, husband, good job and a life with my family etc...
I mean, money is something we all need to live our lifes but that is not what woman are after! What we want is someone that we can spend our lifes together with and all the rest...
@ButterflyGalaxxy Completely agree with that, I'd defend that. I have no reason to be a sook, it's a fact of life, and to me I don't agree with ignorant folk like him. What pisses me off, is his arrogance to talk like he knows it all, has it all worked out, yet in reality knows nothing and is trying to claim he knows more than guys like me, that's what makes that chauvinistic fool a complete idiot so to say.
Hi Scottie, I grew up and lived my whole life with these types. It is simple. America is broke because these people live for their own self IMMEDIATE gratification. In WWII we had the largest ship building facility in the world - 3 ships per day.(for short time - Glasgow is supreme in this area) I know personally why this was not developed into pease time value. Because of thousands like this. Now they want "Jobs", they'll never get. They have no concept of "the invisable hand" Wallace
@wallyozzy I understand, sad thing is, fools like that exist in many parts, even around Britain. I can't help myself but to rub it in and say nasty things to people like that, guess because their logic goes right past me. With people like him, I wouldn't be surprised if they'd never get certain jobs, they can't even see their own racist, sexist remarks as well as haven't the intelligence to even put it together!
You seriously have issues if you feel it necessary to take it that serious. You are not American so you don't understand our lingo. It's not that serious. I can't believe you would insult me the way you did because I replied to a video (which wasn't yours...btw). Why would you let one guy from another continent upset you so much?
@Sinsatiable14u If I had insulted, I would apologise, but that guy, nah, he wasn't joking, I know this because I know many guys just like him and think just like him, not just in america, so it's not something of American lingo, pricks like him exist everywhere Sinsatiable, and it's about time they get told the truth, that they're as thick as shit :)
Ok, I watched his video and I could only take it in "cycles," cuz that was a lot of anger and, ironically, the attitude (and the same name even) of my verbally abusive ex. It's sad because now that I've been through someone like that I know those "thick" girls was once me.
It's attitudes like his that make you feel unwanted and categorized. Putting you down for something they think they've got all figured out and you don't. In the end, the harshness is an ideal over an actual conversation.
@KMartSpecial I shall link his video in the info section. But aye, people like that anger me, because they're as thick as mince, and that guy 'Jerry' is. To me there is nothing worse than arrogance, being sexist, thinking they're right. I've seen enough of the crap and am not scared to let them know it. And aye, they think they know it all, in real fact they know nothing, they like to think they 'know' when they know nothing!
This attitude isn't just sexist, it's "relationship management." Once you've got this thought into a persons (male or female) head, they will run with it and think that people have to prove themselves in order to be with them. What a messed up kind of love, right? As Paul Simon sang: "Nature gives us shapeless shapes
@KMartSpecial Agreed! Relationships can have arguments arguments and disagreements, there's no question of that. However, certain pricks like him like to think they're above (better) than woman. Am not a sook, am a person of equality, I just hate the way arseholes like him talk because, it's partially trying to degrade people like me, as if to say, I don't know what am doing. Idiots like him trying to educate masses? They aren't educating anyone. As for others having to prove themselves?...
@KMartSpecial With their mentality of others having to prove themselves to be good enough for them, shows their mentality that they think the sun shines out their arses. I never try to prove anything, I wouldn't expect the same from lassies.
@LillyLillyCaterpilly The guy's an arsehole and am most certainly no feart to say it, and thanks Lilly :) end of the day am just speaking the truth :)
I think insecurity is a big part of it, both for men and women. It also seems like a lot of people are quick to point the finger at other someone else, but they never take a step back to see what they might or might not be doing to make it better. I can't count how many people have griped on to me about how the opposite (or same) sex is evil, and I'd ask, "Do you think you're being attracted to the wrong kind of person/qualities?" and the only response I get is a blank, confused stare.
toplasestra 1 month ago
@toplasestra Insecurities is a massive thing thing, I completely agree with you. Also agree with one pointing the finger at another, I'm honest to say I've done that myself, think we all have at one point or another. Often it is a case where you really do have to step back, take time and figure what you've done wrong, it's a fault of my own. And the reason you get a blank answer is because what you said is often very true!
ScottMcK9 1 month ago
@ScottMcK9 Same with me, which is why I'll ask that question :) I remember thinking to myself, "Why are all these guys such jerks?!", then I figured that it probably wasn't all guys. I was probably just passing up on the better ones. It's silly how people just lump everyone into "this group" and "that group". Yeah, you'll meet some asses, but that's life, right?
toplasestra 1 month ago
@toplasestra Completely agree with you, because in life, no one is perfect, there will be a lot of guys you may come across with faults, but their not bad people. It's like me, I have my faults, but I'd never intentionally be spiteful to hurt someone, not in my nature. As for people grouping, it's wrong, and that's what I can't understand, the whole group of whether you're nice or bad, it's stupid. It's like you could be a nice person, but be more independent than that of a bad person.
ScottMcK9 1 month ago
@nikoninja16 Completely agree with you, sure being a walkover etc perhaps isn't attractive, but neither is them being arseholes. As for guys that beat into lassies, will never understand that, doesn't make one more powerful, just makes them lower.
ScottMcK9 2 months ago
wow some people got really heated over this topic...imma keep it simple lol..i agree with everything u said !! =)
Qurisstine 6 months ago
@Qurisstine It just pisses me off, the stupidity and lies. The whole category of 'nice guy' and 'bad guy'. Such stupid, stupid stereotypes. I mean how stupid can people get? "Oh he's a nice guy, that must mean he's a walk over" really? hahahahaha they can try being in a relationship with me then, they'd soon be calling a nice guy like me an arsehole lol
ScottMcK9 6 months ago
Long as he's got enough money on him to buy his bus ticket home is all women care about I think. :)
mettanc 9 months ago
@mettanc this was a joke, i felt this subject needed a little humor.
mettanc 9 months ago
@mettanc LOL never saw this, been busy sorting through email and stuff and yesterday Celebrating as Rangers won the league, so aye! lol just got around to this the now lol
ScottMcK9 9 months ago
"The guy is such a plonker" Nice! hahaha
DUJETO 10 months ago
@DUJETO lol I feel the guy is anyhow, either way bud, everyone is entitled to their own opinion and view.
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
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DUJETO 10 months ago
agree to disagree.
DUJETO 10 months ago
Hi Scott,
I think nice guys ; who are honest and good-hearted are cool.
All women are not after a guy's money foremost. Every women wants to be economically stable; such as in marriage, but a good woman is willing to help out...like working to help her husband and family, if possible. I don't like men who are " dick-headed "! YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT THE WAY " DICK- HEAD " COMES IN A RELATIONSHIP... LYING ABOUT HIS TRUE NATURE! WE LADIES, DO BE IN DENIAL ABOUT THE WARNING SIGNS.
spainishgirl 10 months ago
@spainishgirl The reason I spoke about it, and some tried to claim like it was just the 'internet' or a 'joke' is simply because, I know for a fact people like that guy Jerry, actually do believe in all that truth. They're so thick, they don't realise, they discriminate against people like me. It's as if the guy's saying, am the fool as if he knows it all. What pisses me off about that, I know for a fact the guy doesn't have a clue. People don't speak their mind on video and then say it's a joke
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
@janjohansen6 The type of people that at times you have no words for their height of stupidity and ignorance? :) lol
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
We are only after money? What in the whole world is he talking about??? Then what does that woman what's with live? I cant think of something else than kids, a nice house, husband, good job and a life with my family etc...
I mean, money is something we all need to live our lifes but that is not what woman are after! What we want is someone that we can spend our lifes together with and all the rest...
ButterflyGalaxxy 10 months ago
@ButterflyGalaxxy Completely agree with that, I'd defend that. I have no reason to be a sook, it's a fact of life, and to me I don't agree with ignorant folk like him. What pisses me off, is his arrogance to talk like he knows it all, has it all worked out, yet in reality knows nothing and is trying to claim he knows more than guys like me, that's what makes that chauvinistic fool a complete idiot so to say.
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
Hi Scottie, I grew up and lived my whole life with these types. It is simple. America is broke because these people live for their own self IMMEDIATE gratification. In WWII we had the largest ship building facility in the world - 3 ships per day.(for short time - Glasgow is supreme in this area) I know personally why this was not developed into pease time value. Because of thousands like this. Now they want "Jobs", they'll never get. They have no concept of "the invisable hand" Wallace
wallyozzy 10 months ago
@wallyozzy I understand, sad thing is, fools like that exist in many parts, even around Britain. I can't help myself but to rub it in and say nasty things to people like that, guess because their logic goes right past me. With people like him, I wouldn't be surprised if they'd never get certain jobs, they can't even see their own racist, sexist remarks as well as haven't the intelligence to even put it together!
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
You seriously have issues if you feel it necessary to take it that serious. You are not American so you don't understand our lingo. It's not that serious. I can't believe you would insult me the way you did because I replied to a video (which wasn't yours...btw). Why would you let one guy from another continent upset you so much?
Sinsatiable14u 10 months ago
@Sinsatiable14u If I had insulted, I would apologise, but that guy, nah, he wasn't joking, I know this because I know many guys just like him and think just like him, not just in america, so it's not something of American lingo, pricks like him exist everywhere Sinsatiable, and it's about time they get told the truth, that they're as thick as shit :)
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
Ok, I watched his video and I could only take it in "cycles," cuz that was a lot of anger and, ironically, the attitude (and the same name even) of my verbally abusive ex. It's sad because now that I've been through someone like that I know those "thick" girls was once me.
It's attitudes like his that make you feel unwanted and categorized. Putting you down for something they think they've got all figured out and you don't. In the end, the harshness is an ideal over an actual conversation.
KMartSpecial 10 months ago
@KMartSpecial I shall link his video in the info section. But aye, people like that anger me, because they're as thick as mince, and that guy 'Jerry' is. To me there is nothing worse than arrogance, being sexist, thinking they're right. I've seen enough of the crap and am not scared to let them know it. And aye, they think they know it all, in real fact they know nothing, they like to think they 'know' when they know nothing!
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
@ScottMcK9
This attitude isn't just sexist, it's "relationship management." Once you've got this thought into a persons (male or female) head, they will run with it and think that people have to prove themselves in order to be with them. What a messed up kind of love, right? As Paul Simon sang: "Nature gives us shapeless shapes
Clouds and waves and flame
But human expectation
Is that love remains the same
And when it doesn't
We point our fingers
And blame blame blame"
KMartSpecial 10 months ago
@KMartSpecial Agreed! Relationships can have arguments arguments and disagreements, there's no question of that. However, certain pricks like him like to think they're above (better) than woman. Am not a sook, am a person of equality, I just hate the way arseholes like him talk because, it's partially trying to degrade people like me, as if to say, I don't know what am doing. Idiots like him trying to educate masses? They aren't educating anyone. As for others having to prove themselves?...
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
@KMartSpecial With their mentality of others having to prove themselves to be good enough for them, shows their mentality that they think the sun shines out their arses. I never try to prove anything, I wouldn't expect the same from lassies.
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
Okay. Here's this.
Firstly, sexism exists, no matter how hard you try to fight it, it's gonna exist.
Secondly, you should include the video link for this guy's video.
And lastly, I find you to be EXTREMELY attractive and intelligent. ;)
LillyLillyCaterpilly 10 months ago
@LillyLillyCaterpilly The guy's an arsehole and am most certainly no feart to say it, and thanks Lilly :) end of the day am just speaking the truth :)
ScottMcK9 10 months ago
loool fuk off man buy a dog an get oot more
mooseheed1 10 months ago
@mooseheed1 lol as for that comment, am no even gonnae go there.
ScottMcK9 10 months ago