DATING NIGERIAN WOMEN: A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE

[brx345]

My honest perspective is that Nigerian American girls for the most part aren't really checking for Nigerian guys...

[hyacinthdibley]

@brx345 Very True!

[TheNaphisa03]

@brx345 I hate to admit u are right. We are not checking for them.

[soma1on1]

Ma African brother is on point.African girls bi slackin.white girls be doing it.

[hyacinthdibley]

@soma1on1 lol

[VraiDiouf]

This guy in the video is beginning to develop an American accent, but you can still hear the Nigerian in him.

[tylandforever]

Nigerian WOMEN have it hard-they have to be very careful about who they marry. There is no such thing as DATING for Nigerian Woman-everything is SERIOUS. Their culture is so strict most-NIGERIAN MEN DO NOT WANT TO MARRY A WOMEN WHO HAS DATED other NIGERIAN MEN. Bottom line.

[nachikor]

The snobbish attitude is a result of the unseriousness of a lot of Nigerian men who make it a game of wooing conquering and letting go of Nigerian women who love them. This has led to this behaviour. Most Nigerian men dangle marriage like a carrot in front of a horse to women and make them feel on the begging side. Smile and a Nigerian girl is chasing them, be open and she's forward, show love and she's loose. You need to live in Nigeria to experience and understand this. Eastern men especlly

[nachikor]

Be friendly as you suggest and the lady might be said to be desperate! There are 2 sides to every story !!!

[JusBeCuzz]

@nachikor

Question: How do Nigerian women feel about "Americanized" Black men?

You see, I'm not like other brothas from Detroit. I'm different. I desire marriage, a good woman, a good household and good friendship, but I don't want Nigerian women expecting the "outgoing" Black males or "extrovert" Black males, generally found and favored from America.

Would a Nigerian woman find chemistry with a good brotha, but a brotha who is not socially well rounded or fun or outgoing???

[nachikor]

@JusBeCuzz I don't believe in stereotyping. Once again I cannot judge a whole ethnic group based on experience from a sparsely represented minority. However, to answer your question, it's nothing much to do with the ethinicity of a man or woman. I am going to comment on a real woman or man from either Nigeria or African America. What a woman needs a man to do is understand her and knowing how to woo her. A good woman wants to be wooed and not the other way round. When a woman..................

[Blackbarbietea]

He is soooo right!!!

[Adanmadu]

sharrap!

[londonpie72]

Friends first totally agree

[londonpie72]

But Nigerian ladies are not easy because marriage is for life and he has to go the extra mile for the right girl

[MegaLadylove2012]

oh nja ya ppl become sell out so easily..yet ppl wanna come @ us lib..oh pls. plus we shud be de most westernized afterall our ancestors came straightly frm here..but abt video sef..wat is he talkin abt? didnt pay dang attention to a word he said..all I hear was tradition.wat abt tradition? eh wats wrong with tradition? N sum abt him soundin westerinzed..boy pls ya jim Ike wanna be..good try ya're almost

[hyper10shun]

this guy is a F O O  L!!!!!

[adysatwat]

i love sexy anal with naija ladies

[loyalman11212]

@adysatwat i agree with u on that cuz my baby mama is nigerian

[nesatube]

This guy is an idiot. He doesnt even know what he is talking ab out

[RubenStunner]

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[vhall5000]

Im an African American 38 yr old man & this is solid advice from you bro & i also appreciate the interviewers tone and level of understanding or at least willingness to understand.

[gfgfgtfggttr]

Try to flirt and meet Asian women online $lushfmlk.info$

[ling1448]

man, woman, nigerian, italian, german, it doesn't matter. If you are coming into a new country it can be very difficult to suddenly change who you have been raised to be. You don't get Americanized over night. I know that if an american from the age of 18 and up (if not younger) moved to a new country they wouldn't suddenly drop what they believe and know and be intergrated into their new culture. And in using their own cultural attitudes in the new country you might have problems.

[HabeshaQween]

What a shallow ass loser!! wasted my time.

[dovelov]

this man sounds so shallow-minded, so I wuld reserve my comments.

[MrChetanna]

This guy is an asshole! You are lost

[mimasua]

How come most posters who disagree with this dude are women?

[SunnyHappyPiglet]

This guy is a moron. 

[heavenlyscrts]

That conversation went on for a little over 8mins..... Dang, I get turned off by men who talk too much....

[egiter5]

i'd love to date a sexy big bottomed igbo lady

[cherubina]

'Be friends first'. Uhmm nigerian men don't understand that term quite well. Because they say that from the start, but the next minute they want you in bed. So I will continue to be stand-offish towards nigerian men.

[sexiluv88]

I feel u HOWEVER, I don't think its all of them. Well u shoulda atleast asked WHY WE DO SHAKARA? Y'all caused it. When y'all gon always try to act like u Americanized and shit. WE KNOW YOU GUYSS!!!! WE know wht yall are capable of. SO STOP BULLSHITING!!! and stop the pretense and be real for once and MAYBE we gon give yall a chance.

[sexiluv88]

I feel u HOWEVER, I don't think its all of them. Well u shoulda atleast asked WHY WE DO SHAKARA? Y'all caused it. When y'all gon always try to act like u Americanized and shit. WE KNOW YOU GUYSS!!!! WE know wht yall are capable of. SO STOP BULLSHITING!!! and stop the pretense and be real for once and MAYBE we gon give yall a chance.

[chichiorjioke92]

lol what a joke.

[captownstateofmind]

LOL he even says "You may hear my accent and think im westernized" LMAO NO I DONT! you ain't foolin anyone! my friend speak igbo joh lol!

[captownstateofmind]

This fool is "Jim Ikying". That when you haven't naturally lost your accent so you use a pretend western american or english accent. LOL it's the most pathetic thing africans do but its becoming a plague. My friend open your mouth joh! LOL

[usmanater]

@captownstateofmind lol

[nnaamen]

@captownstateofmind I love that phrase " Jim iyking". Spot on. LOL. I guess for a girl it would be "Genevieving"

[Marryet]

is this supposed to be a serious issue? Please if you can't date a Nigerian woman,look for someone else. Alot of fishes in the sea

[janyuniq]

he is just a LOSER.....IF a woman turns u down its not cos her SHAKARA is too much is cos she HAS CLASS and U DONT BELONG to that class....and yes....A WOMAN..ANY WOMAN I DONT CARE WHERE SHE IS FROM ..WANTS A MAN WHO CAN TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF AND OCASSIONALLY ....HER

[rhymeaddict]

lol

[bms4lifem3]

This video makes alot of sense. I'm just like you. First generation Nigerian born in the States. Last two girlfriends were white americans. So much easier to deal with. My brother fiance is white. I'm trying to get a wifey back in Nigeria. 8:00 ...so true.

[bmore1991]

I hope your not saying this about all Nigerian women. I'm Nigerian and straight forward. I don't chase guys but at the same time I'm not going to lead some guy on.

[oluwalogbon58]

that white hegemony has done to them..they do not have the protection of identify and culture.. some of them believe that they are from outerspace and came to earth on spaceships!thats how confused and in denial most of them are. the slave culture is a very degrading culture it has done so much damage to black people because it removed identity and self esteem with it unfortunately they cant move on because its more comfortable being a victim than taking on the very thing that gives you comfort.

[2007ICAN]

The dude is Nigerian

[oluwalogbon58]

i have read about couple of the hater kahua33's jealous comments about us and to be honest you have to take them at face value.. the resentment and hatred comes from a bad place of anger.. i have seen it all before, while we celebrate ourselves the aa is taught to hate him and herself so we have to understand that they are going to try to transpose their self hate onto us... they lack our security within our own identities and our culture is a protection against incersions from the pounding

[ebeledi]

well said

[RubenStunner]

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[hemsyyy]

i DONT agree with this men should ask women out!!!! period!!! if you are ;looking for a woman to ask you out instead then you have issues

[tekenareuben]

Ur right snobbery for me is a big turn off

[SkyDrifter13]

Im going to respond to this video. I have alot to say about Nigerian women living within London !

[hemsyyy]

i live in london and im a nigerian i cant wait for your video....lololol

[missaquaboogie]

girl I owned kunt33 in every SINGLE reply girl needs to retire. I mean at 33 yrs old, u'd think the beyotch would know betta...

[missaquaboogie]

he really isn't LOL...he those naija babes must hav caused his grief: look at that belly it tells the tale of a few women and some serious emotional eating ha ha

[kahua33]

black americans blame the white man the same way .africans blame them for africa.

[missaquaboogie]

because colonialism is what caused the way africa turned out...but never the less we RISE above that. Key word is WE DO NOT LET HISTORIAL PAST be a CRUTCH...y'all turn everything into a 'race' debate. black man breaks his hand 'oh it is the white man's fault' STFU with ridiculous ass excuses. Slavery is long over. GET over it or some of you 'blame whitey' ppl will remain in the gutter. You kunt33 were always from the gutter :-) u are the poster child for diva gutter bitch lol

[kahua33]

you people do ya'll blame them for the turmoil over there with the oil.nigerians blame them for their corrupt governmentyou blame them for aids to.please there 3 finges pointing back at you.y.nigerians are kill every day crossing the sea in little boat then blame the white man when your ass drown at sea

[missaquaboogie]

3 finges...learn english first damn. Nigerians are kill every day...u mean killed...Hey at least we are killed TRYING TO MAKE A BETTER LIFE. black americans kill each other all the time for stepping on people's shoes in clubs. Young black american deaths are often the cause of some stupid shootings. The white man didn't tell you to go and be killing yourself.

[kahua33]

your people kill each other for body parts becase you believe vodoo can make you powerful that just dump nigeria have tribe wars all the time and many are killed. ya'll still blame the white man for that.you people are smart don't leave your country mke it better stop begging the white man to take ya'll in

[missaquaboogie]

who is killing because of voodoo...LOL some1 has been spending WAY too much time watching TV. I like how you remain so vague...you have no sources. Re-read your own posts PLEASE you sound like a white supremacist!!!!

[kahua33]

missaquaboogie you sound like an ass. nigerians are not welcome in a lot of places. do you really want to go there bitch

[missaquaboogie]

Kunt33, I can't be bothered to even read your comments I just delete them...I find you sometimes amusing to read, it is hard to understand how someone with the stupidity of your calibar can even use a computer. 'God is good' LOL I'm done with you. crawl back into your gutter. g'day

[Spongyb]

missaquaboogie: I doff my hat for those replies given to kunt/kahua33 on this vid. I read all with keen interest, I'm so satisfied with ur answers, I couldn't do better. I've read her comments about African women and wonder why she's so jealous, I think she's got identity problem. Thanks for putting her where she belong ... Peace & Love

[missaquaboogie]

no need to thank me lol if someone is causing TROUBLE that is UNNEEDED and talking absolute crap about African women. I will NOT let it slide. Most Black american women are NOT like her however some DO have a TERRIBLE inferiority complex and low low self esteem. She isn't a very attractive women. She is older and very much overweight.

[eastcoastbrotha]

@missaquaboogie ;both are killing each other over stupid things so don't put it all on us blk americans,we not killing each other over religion like u are and many other things.u better learn some respect bcos it bcos of blk americans that u here,we been to hell and back with the white man so u other blks think u can come here and disrespect us,hell no.

[MegaPeacechild]

@missaquaboogie @missaquaboogie As a Nigerian-American, I am shocked that a black person could be so small-minded.Without the suffering and beatings blacks in America suffered at the hands of the white men, you would not be here writing crap on the internet. Its alright to not like certain things about some people, but ure dead wrong for generalizing about all African-Americans. Remember the sacrifice that the blacks made in this country for you. Appreciate it or get out!

[MegaPeacechild]

@missaquaboogie @missaquaboogie @missaquaboogie As a Nigerian-American, I am shocked that a black person could be so small-minded.Without the suffering blacks in America suffered at the hands of the white men, you would not be here writing crap on the internet. Its alright to not like certain things about some people, but ure dead wrong for generalizing about all African-Americans. Remember the sacrifice that the blacks made in this country for you. Appreciate it or get out!

[kahua33]

nigrian people have made a bad name for themself in europe.itlay nigeria .women was being throw from windows.spain nigerian women was't a loud in the stores if they could't show money before going in.some whore houses would't even let them work .i'm a black american that travel alot on business 'm going to west africa ghana ,nigera,ivory coast can't wait to see what i fine.you people come here and lie ya'l do the same shit drugs,gays, human body parts

[missaquaboogie]

Itlay is not a country moron. Where are you making this shit up 'women was being throw from windows'. I must applaud you sad efforts at mastering the english language LOL your talking so much shit abt africans. I hope when you go to those countries that someone who read your posts will show your ignorant ass a lesson or two. 'ya'l do the same shit' LOL what is 'gays, human body parts' it is too easy to laugh at you. I pity your poor mother sadly enough you came out of her pussy LOL

[nawtiichic]

'Kahua33'.. u say ur a business woman..

i doubt ur even educated.. u sound like an ignorant illitrate.. u cant even type accurately!.. retard!

[kahua33]

nawtiichic this youtube bitch.i'm american born i can go any where i like without a visa. now can you say the same you bitch.

[nawtiichic]

girl grow up.. ur acting like a child.. im a british citizen nd yes i can say the same so shut ur ugly ass up and stop making a fool of urself!

[kahua33]

please you know you and your parent was not born in the uk if you leave that bitch uk won't let you back in

[nawtiichic]

nd there u go again "kahua33".. exposing how stupid u really are.. if u aint embarrased of how much of a fool uve revealed urself to be, im embarrased for you sweetheart..

[sguardian870]

so u can go anywhere without a visa, but yet ur treated like slaves in ur own country wow.

[missaquaboogie]

lol who is this fat bastard talking abt? don't like us...dont date us simple...this man sounds like he sounds like he is anti-women rights...our shakara is too much ABEG jare! k'mot

[aicespin]

@malunguinho... I have a sneaky feeling that you are a " born troway" If you're from 9ja (which I think you are), then you are LOST. My advice to you is... if you still have any surviving relatives in 9ja (Nigeria), save up and go visit...2 reasons.

1st...You'll see people surviving,happy and hardworking under extreme conditions,I might add, as opposed to your myopic "12 yr old Rant "

2ndly...You might just find your SOUL again.

I'm done here, have a happy life...all of you.

PEACE.

[malunguinho]

KAKAKAKAKAKKKA! I have been to naija, hence my assessment...and my soul is doing just fine...anybody in here, and wow! people seem to get hopped up in here, knows what I am talking about...

[aicespin]

Kahua33, brush up on ur education and learn how to write a sentence..or two, and I'm pretty sure even YOUR own women (wherever you're from) don't find any un-educated,un-cultured,un-cou­th and probably un-kempt BOY like you obviously are,attractive.

[malunguinho]

I havev never met such immature people, both men and women, as nigerians. They act like goofy 12 year olds and have no idea how to just relax and get to know someone. They are fake, game players, back stabbers. Nigerian men and women deserve each other as noone else can handle the hysterics, drama and general bullshit required to have a "freindship", don't even get me started on relationship...In a word, Predictable.any nigerians out there who've broken free of the social/cultural strait jacket

[solomonsydelle]

I hope that you are very pleased with your ability to share incredibly narrow minded, generalizations and stereotypes about an entire nation of people.

Hopefully, nobody will hold the fact that you just espoused such a close minded opinion, hinging on incredible ignorance, naivete and much more, against you and what ever group you represent, oh, like your country, or even your family.

Feel free to leave leave a relevant comment or simply leave others to have a discussion. Take care.

[malunguinho]

U r confused. Just leaving my opinion which am entitled to have, not based on ignorance, generalizations, but on having firsthand experience. The naija movies kind of back that up too...hence.....We are free to post opinions here, and I did. Stereotypes exist because those characteristics/traits/cultura­l tendencies exist.There is always some truth on both sides of the fence.don't get your nose bent out of shape it's just a comment.from the looks of the rest of the "discussions" here, I'll pass.

[aicespin]

LMAO...True 9ja woman Temietope (hope you are A WOMAN)!!! That response IS exactly what I love about 9ja women..they don't have time for nonsense,BUT,will also stand by you KAMPE if they love you...N.B. someone tell the bloke in the video to slim down just a little and brush up on his English and he might just get in with some ladies!!! PEACE.

(From a happily married 9ja man with 9ja kidz)

[kahua33]

no one want a nigerian woman your women are not pretty

[missaquaboogie]

this cunt is so jealous of naija babes she goes around searching vids with 'nigerian women' LOL I have a feeling that your boyfriend was stolen by a fine naija babe...boo hoo

[missaquaboogie]

jealous of our culture of our HIGH STANDARDS and YES LOOKS lol girl u just mad cause u got aids already and u got that angry aging black woman complex. it is my fault ur a sperm dump...only if ur mom had had that abortion she wanted so much lol go back to ur lonely life!

[missaquaboogie]

**it is not my fault that ur a sperm dump. grow up, like i said at least african men like african women...black american men openly declare war on their women...at least on yt

[missaquaboogie]

e-mail scammer lol at least my people are not know for being LAZY, FAT, ON WELFARE (hand outs) and worst of all having NO IQ whatsoever. We africans value education, a word ever so foreign to your limited vocabulary. Also you talk about me having a dirty pussy, bitch please I'm not the one a-whoring for those tacky 99cent wigs. Hell you even throw in lip services for free. Buy one fuck, get herpies for free! LOL

[Witherman1]

lol

[missaquaboogie]

I forget black american women are know for being vile sluts with 2, 3, 4 baby daddies...70% illegitimacy rates and still manage to blame the white man for that too. kunt33 get over yourself no one wants a dried up, overused vagina like yours. large gaping whole, I bet you can't even feel the dick anymore lol oh and say hi to your 15 kids for me lol

[missaquaboogie]

***hole

[kahua33]

that funny because in europe that what nigerian women are know for the same thing american women are know for.90% work as sex worker like you. i don't have any kids sorry how many you abort already..i own a wig shop bitch.the only thing you own is a greencard and hepers

[missaquaboogie]

ha ha you plagairst...I called u a sex worker 1st couldn't come up with something original. you own a wig shop? or you mean a DOLLAR store. hepers? where in Europe? black american women are the lowest of the low even your own MEN hate you...hey at least that wig shop is keeping you busy forgetting that lonely empty life. Kunt33 close your legs...I can smell the tuna all the way from here LOL damn at least take a shower and don't forget to wash YOUR douche!

[Temietope]

God will punish your stupid self for that impertinence. Aint no body want you anyways so you can go and meet your French girls. Nonsense. Your ass only wishes you were good enough to date. Idiot!

[Unilag]

SPOT ON BRO. never really dated a nigerian gurl B4, (Im more into French Gurls) but they get on my nerves. They ought to know that there are other Nationalities for nigerian Men to choose from and quit the Bull Shit Shakara, plus they aint all that anyways. They act as if they gat it going on, but they are extremely lonely in private. My advice to Nigerian women is to be real and take it one day at a time. Comprende!!!