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  • one of the most touching, saddening yet hopeful song in history

    I want to smile, cry and go through with it all at the same time

    Every time I think about suicide this song rings through my head, as if someone's singing to me not to do it

  • Seether are a dictionary definition of awesome.. Or atleast they should be..

  • thats so sad.

  • seether's are great.

  • B F M V ?!?! fucking faggot

  • 3:11

    is FUNNY (face)

  • this is a gud song but best band is bullet for my valintine......B.F.M.V

  • The same thing happened to my Uncle.. The same exact thing as sherwood786..itz sad..

  • number one band!

  • ive read some comments to tell ppl to get over it, well they have no idea what some ppl have went through. when a loved one of urs commits suicide then ull know and when u do i hope ull finally stop disrespecting ppl. i hate when ppl do that they act like they know whats goin on in everybodys lives. ppl need to fuck off

  • a good friend of mine shot himself last night after a fight with his gf he shot himself right in front of her... i cant stop listening to this song i hope that this song will help everyone who has thoughts of suicide R.I.P Jamie Lee Teetsel..

  • I am literally crying right now!

  • the song rack and and more important it has a mening behind it

  • Does anyone realize that after like 15 thousand comments, everyone is still saying the same thing?! Everyone just shut up and read all the comments before it and all your questions will be answered. And yes, we know your bro\sis commited suicide, his tears are real, and his brother was depressed.

  • not cool man, dont go sayig stuff like that. u have no idea what other people have had to live thought.

  • people sending those kind of comments is not to be individual or unique, its to show your support for someone who needs it, and yes his brother died two years ago but i know for certain he still needs help about it every day. i lost my big sister a few years ago and i still need help from time to time. telling people to stop showing they care is probably one of the worst things you could say on this, especially over a subject like this.

  • It's his brother, the building in the back ground, so the story goes anyway, is the one he jumped off, the video took a long time to shoot as the lead singer kept on breaking down in tears (which explains the watery eyes). No comedy significance about it, he wrote this song for his little bro

  • im not saying what u said isnt true by any means but how do u know shaun kept breaking into tears? i can understand y he would but seeing as u werent there u probly dont know he kept breaking into tears

  • Lol you guys... Clowns. It's therapeutic comedy significance.

  • It's his brother I think becuz they look the same :/

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  • It is his brother and this song is dedicated for him

  • does seether sing that u shouldnt or should jump..? ever band has it's style, weather it's singing about death, anarchy, depresion etc. i havnt rly listened to this band cause i'm more of a Gnr,snake pit, velvet revolver fan (yea i love slash), anyways, i dont feel like readin' between the lines, so if someone else would tel me,i'd be greatfull

  • There's always someone in your life worth sticking around for. Even if you haven't met that person yet.

  • Borderline pop my arse! This song rocks as hard as anything Seether have ever done.

    Why shouldn't they experiment with a different melody and some softer vocals - I think they've earned the right, sweety.

    'Pop' stars couldn't play instruments like these guys - and wouldn't write heartfelt tributes to their lost brothers.

    Take your immature comments to the Girls Aloud posts, luv.

    Seether, and this track, ROCKS!

  • its amazing all the emotion shaun put into this song, it just goes to show music can be just a therapeutical to the musician as it is fun to listen to by the audience.

  • good song

  • I love this song. I get goosebumps listening to it. It reminds me of my cat who just passed away. He was my best friend.

    "I call your name every day, when I feel so helpless. I'm falling down, but I'll rise above this."

    R.I.P. Nightmare. I miss you so much.

  • such a good song!

    gotta love seether!

  • how can you not like this song its amazing and who cares if its borderline pop i dont care what kind of music any thing is if it sounds good and has a good meaning behind it its good in my book

  • i love this song it helps me get threw the day p.s. please upload more!!!!

  • this song is bordering on pop

  • only song by seether i didnt like

  • great video

  • iv tryed suicide befor about mabe a year ago and the ending resolt was loosing half my friends and not being abil to remimber the order thangs happened

  • wow. just wow. this is amazing. brought me to tears. love this song.

  • i love this song, you just gotta get back up and dust yourself off instead of falling deeper into the abyss of darkness in life

  • Its easier said then done to do that. especially when all you know is despair and darkness.......=[

  • i love this song so much it thought me theres more in live so u should spend it wisely

  • JDunn hes not acting hes actually crying because of the story behind this song........turns out they wrote it to get his brother out of a deep depression which lead him to commite suicide and took them a while to finish the video cuz he sobbed many times its not acting.... R.I.P Eugene

  • I give up......

    You see what you want to see.

  • I never realized how powerful this video is. Kudos to Seether, they're awesome. =]

  • Errrr... why are you listening to it if you don't like it????

  • who r u to judge? ur probly the gay one

  • Awesome.

  • It's amazing how he is telling the world not to commit suicide when it must hurt him so much to think about it. You can see how much this means to him in his eyes.

  • It is called acting..... and some eye drops for fake tears :)

  • This song is so moving.

    R.I.P. Eugene

  • I love this song way too much...RIP Eugene:(

  • R.I.P. Eugene..

    and to Shaun, you are amazing <3

  • What an emotional song....RIP Eugene...

  • great song .....r.i.p. Eugene

  • Drums r basic but epic for me:L

  • i can relate to this song i had my kill her self in the bathroom of our hotel on our honeymoon

  • im so sorry:( just always know that god is there for you

  • yes he is

  • Must be sad for him to sing it especially since its dedicated to his brother who commited suicide FROM the hotel that seether was staying on while on tour.....R.I.P Eugene

  • Perfect song. It's absolutely amazing, and very heartfelt. I listen to this song every day at least about 10 times. Seether, you never cease to amaze me.

    R.I.P. Eugene

  • Im in love with this song.... and the band!!!

  • i spitbullets im not saying im emo but there was a time when i was really sad, I lost both my parents and grandparents. Its easy for some one with no insite of a situation to say just get over it but some times you just cant and need to work things out in your head first. It takes time.

  • Muito loco esse video

  • I can understand how painful it is for Shaun..RIP Eugene..

  • want this played on my funeral.

  • yeaa, that or carry me down by demonhunter <3

  • I mean AT. Damn it.

  • seether doesnt want anybody to know what their songs mean thats the point! they want u to think and anyone who disses this song or anythin by seether is a closeminded ass

  • see, im not sayin i hate seether, they're awesome. but ppl are entitled to their own opinions. they may or may not like the same things u like and theres nothing that can be done about that.

  • if that was shaun's brother, why dont they have the same name?

  • They do. Shaun Morgan Welgemoed and Eugene Welgemoed. Shaun only uses his first and middle as his music name.

  • beastmode man and this song reminds me of kayla donaldson

  • wow thats an amazing video these guys are amazing...

  • i looooooooooove seether...seether rockz!!!!!!

  • great song

  • É a melhor musica de sempre

  • i love this song because there is just sooo much emotion put into it i cant begin to imagine how hard it would have been to write/perform this song

  • this is the best song that Shaun Morgan has ever done in my opinion..

    and dick heads like jdunn1974 need to shut the hell up and realize that people that commit suicide are act of needing help not attention like aliencowhide said..

    get off ur lazy ass and get ur head out of ur ass and realize wat songs like this mean.. u wanna kno wat something is/ means just look it up u dumbass!

    R.I.P. Eugene..

  • xxbmfcxx for sure you know what your tallking about.......unlike that one dumbass......

  • Yeah some people just have their head up their ass. Rock on Eugene!

  • jdunn1974 just committed suicide after having to listen to a hundred emo whiners comment on this video....

  • But the song really gets you....but then again maybe its the vocals....

  • AHAHAAHA...

  • :) Thank you .... I will be here all week

  • im not emo and i dont whine and neither do most emos. so y dont u just fuck off and let ppl like what they want to like.

  • God i cant begin 2 express how much i owe this song my life it has saved me time and again in my opinion the most important song+video ever made R.I.P. Eugene

  • Very well put.  What a great message this song delivers......

  • suicide is a last resort people who commit suicide dont know what to do they try get help but sometimes there is no help at the time and they make bad judgements. people who say they want to die online is a call for help from outsiders 20% of the time

  • Suicide is a call for help, not a call for attention. For those who spread around the Youtube boards that they're feelings resolve to suicide... stop trying to acquire attention. Save the attention seeking for those who really care about you and stop trying to conflict conflicts with people.

  • Shaun seems like a really gentle guy

    I feel like somehow I miss Eugene even though I never even knew him ... perhaps it's cos this subject hits so close to home for me

  • Maybe Im taking certain things too serious, but at the beginning when the drummer like waits for the singer to start. Like: 'I'm ready when you are'. That really made me feel the inner-thought of the video. I just love seether!!!

  • agree with you DougKhajit101 allthough u can't actually drown yourself simply by holding your head under water... you will by reflex pull your head up again at some point. and i did'nt get the whole discussion from the beginning but seriously.. suiciders are quitters. get yourself together and stop crying.. we all got it rough sometimes, nothing is fun if everything is fun

  • I tottally agree with you fieldscout, altho maybe its cus we have the kind of personality thats "optomistic", ie we have hope and know that the rough time is transient......

    And believe me im feeling the whole..."not everything is fun" ......uni exams need i say more?!

  • suiciders are not quiters you idiot youve obviously just never been that fucking depressed or had anything absolutly horrid ever happen to you other wise maybe youd pull your head out of your ass and see not every suiced was a quiter trying to take the easy way out they were in need of help they never got

  • Suicide is fleeing any way you turn it. This means you can't label it as courageous. Working through hardship instead, on the other hand, has surprisingly little to do with courage either.

    We're all human, trying to make the best of things. The truly strong among us lend others a helping hand, but it is no crime to be weak.

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  • wow gave me goosebumps

  • amazing song. powerful song. i can't get enough of it. i have to admit, it helped me in my own way.

  • has anyone else noticed that every video you go to theres always people bitching at eachother like its intimidating over the internet and like they know everything?

  • yah i noticed that and it pisses me off haha they need to shut the fuck up and enjoy the fucking song

  • One of the best bands ever !! and song as well !

  • had to post one response, now i want to state what this song means to me. music is a life blood to the entire human race and songs like this CAN change someones life for the better. these kind of songs always touch me because a song like this once saved ME. bless these groups for the good they do. because if they save just one life with this message it was worth it.

  • it saved me

  • beautiful song, this isnt an emo song, its telling people to NOT commit suicide, so anyone watching this, and just be grateful that you are alive and im willing to talk to anyone who is having problems with depression or any problems at all

  • such a depressing song. It really makes me look at the smallest things of my life and how grateful I should be for having my family.

  • i wouldnt say weak more like confused

  • Not offending any1,,but i think suicide is for weak ppl..

  • i can tell your young. so allow me to educate if you would. ive gone through many depressions and helped friends through them. everyone is weak. their isnt a single living human being who hasnt thought about it at least briefly. more importantly think of human beings as say the twin towers. strong, defiant, resilient. but if an attack from the outside is strong enough even they can fall. dont ever judge on something like that. until youve had to go through the same shit. and no im not offended.

  • I must say that I disagree on your point, saying that everyone is weak.

    Just thinking about something like that doesn't make you weak. Submitting to it makes you weak. Everybody can be down at times, as long as you take life back into your own hands and try to make the best out of it, you're not weak in my eyes.

    And I think this song is exactly the kind of person who is strong in my eyes, saying that life sux for him now, but he'll get over it.

  • Oh, and one more thing, i don't think that you can judge age by what someone says. Getting older doesn't always make you wiser.... one can only hope :)

  • I believe president Kennedy had a plaque on his desk which said "O god they sea is so great and my boat is so small." Religious connotations aside, it shows that even the greatest of us Need help.

  • I could not disagree with you more. It takes a lot of courage and willpower to take your own life. People loose hope, get really depressed, and would rather not carry on living. That doesn't make them weak, its just that they feel there is nothing to live for. This happens to EVERYONE at some point. As the song says - you need to rise above it.

  • true. very true. but it takes more courage to live. cuz you die anytime. it takes the utmost courage to be able to live through all the troubles and obstacles and smile on through the end. though, there are people who have a hard time with that. and that's why there are songs like this and caring people to help them out.

  • IT DOESNT TAKE courage to take ur life if u have nothing to lose but making something to gain is courage

  • i would have to disagree with you...you obviously haven't tried it...

  • LordWabbit, I totally agree with you

    Amazing song ;)

  • @LordWabbit; i'd disagree slightly, having been in similar positions. I'll accept your point about will power completely, for example most people find it hard to stay under water past their comfort zone let alone drown themselves etc. But I would disagree on courage, because will power can be spawned of desparation rather than courage, wouldnt you say?

  • I love this song. It's kind of heartbreaking to listen to though.

  • suicide takes the lives of loved ones all over this earth and yes it is wrong but when somone has such a bad life can you blame them? i mean think about it? what if your parents beat you and told you that you where worthless all the time? i am strongly againt suicide but i do have a little sympathy...

  • amber i get u on tha suicide shit i lost my aunt to it cuase her fukin prick ass husband made her think she was hated even when she was smilin u could see it deep inside how bad she felt

  • just shut the hell up u idots, sucide is not good or bad in my mind, but everybody has someone who cares weather it be neibor, a teacher, a parentsome one who just says hi to you everyday would care sucide it will take away everything you love I LOST MY BEST FRIEND TO HER COMMETING SUCIDE she did it because her parents were drunks and the beat her she did it to escape so all you people who think youve got it bad some people have it worse

  • For the ones who don't know:This song is dedicated to Shaun's brother who killed himself and it "tells" US to NOT do the same mistake ;this is NOT an Emo song.Try listening to the verses more closely (even google them) before you post stupid comments ,Seether for Life!

  • This is beautiful I think =]

  • Some take this out of hand. This is just good music with a moral and hope to help behind it. This band did not post this to start arguments over if contemplating suicide is stupid or not, it's simply here to help people realize that there are other options that won't hurt them or their loved ones, and to entertain others who don't have that issue. Besides, there are medical illnesses (such as depression) that could lead to suicide. People going through rough times are not the only ones.

  • can make a person resent themselves and turn a sane person mad...even to the point of just seeing the uselessness of their existence.

  • there's a cure to most pain but when you feel pain and take away reason or how to fix it because you don't know why or where it's coming from... sometimes suicide seems the logical and only choice.

  • Life is full of rocks and hard places...and good decisions are mistakes not yet made... live and learn, let the past burn... and look to a better day.

  • i listen to this song everyday i used to think nothing in life mattered nothing to care for nothing to live for you know but a friend helped me through it and i lived on and found someone i love very much

    THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME LIVE ALEX I OWE YOU MY LIFE

  • awsome

  • Yo ispitbullets why dont you just shut the fuck up. From your comment Im guessing that you have never felt the type of pain that drives people to do this. it has nothing to do with people being emo. Instead of acting like a fucking cunt why dont u keep your fucking mouth shut. Ive felt that pain and Ive tried to commit suicide. However I found a reason to live and I fought and held on.

    Madeline I love you, you are the reason im here today. (K)

  • wtf? little girls and boys become *emo* because every one is.They think they have pain but they don't, and have to do stupid ass stuff like committing suicide and cutting them self s. Every one feels pain specially threw teen gotta go threw it like every one else does and dont be a fcking retard and commit suicide , i to was about to commit suicide when i was like 12 by slitting my throat and cutting my self , and now that i look back i think of my self as a retard

  • You Are So Fuckin Retarded.Being In Pain Has Nothing To Do With Being Emo.

    When People Commit Suicide, Its Not Because Everyone Else Is Doing It Dumbass. Its Because They Feel Hopeless And They Think That They Don't Have Another Choice Or That It Doesn't Even Matter What Happens To Them. Maybe You Were Doing It Because You Thought Everyone Else Was Doing It. So Don't Judge Other People Jackass.

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  • you probly misunderstood me , little boys and girls think of * emo * as a trend now , not like it use to be back when it first was called emo. To me emo is a bunch of suicidal people who think suicide is the way out. Yes pain or depression is a reason that they commit suicide or cause pain on there selfs. No i only did this because i was RETARDED and thought that one little problem messed up my hole life. So to me emo is just abunch of followers and a suicide waiting to happen

  • And you say its the only way out , that just proves how RETARDED they are. Sure they might face problems but that is why there's counciling , and police. If your parents beat you how about you do something about it and not hurt your self? instead of isolating your self from the whole world and slowly getting pushed to committing suicide.

    Only good thing about emo's now is that some of the girls are hot

  • and i can judge who ever the hell i want , cause guess what? its on a public video . You should know some one like me with a opinon is going to see a comment that some one posted. I was that some one and there. If you do want to post a comment like that then go start a blog or something

  • just shut the FUCK UP. your all pathetic little fucking emos, your not dying in africa your sitting on a computer. give me the thumbs down and it shows what a little kid you are, your so selfish you don't see just by being on a computer you have more chance of a good life than millions of people you fucking teenager

  • Who The Fuck Said I Was

    Emo Dumbass. And Mind

    Your Own Damn Buisness.

    I Didn't Even Give You A Thumbs

    Down Moron, And When Did

    I Even Say My Life Wasn't

    Good?? I Love My Life,

    But Thats None Of Your Buisness

    So Fuck Off Asshole.

  • your a little kid you cunt, why don't you go jump off a bridge you pathetic jewcoon. my mum died and i didnt act like some little boy nonse and slit my wrists, be a fucking man, some people don't even get to eat so be fucking grateful you little kid

  • people grieve very differently so no need to have a go at someone cos they deal with their family members dying differently than u did

  • ty damnit getting tired of emos

  • This song is talking about how when you commit suicide it affects everyone around you. And stop being so insensitive. People who commit suicide (not emos) feel that they have good reason behind it. If you can't respect that then go grab your blankie and go to bed because you obviously arent mature enough to function with the rest of us.

  • amazing,

  • Wow ,like this to bits,this let me think!

  • There is no more Selfish act than Suicide , You are Stealing something that can't ever be given back to those around you .....

  • i jus got bak from the funeral........

  • yea, what he said :)

  • keep holding we will help u

  • I've never tried to kill myself and i used to call myself a coward for being to afraid to do it. but then I took a step back and told myself "things have to get better, i have to make them better." I still very depressed but I'm holding on tight.

  • same here except the only reason y i'm holding on is for this girl that i love and i know it would just kill her if i died or else i would be gone...

  • i know exactly what you mean

  • I know exactly what you mean.

    Like..

    She's your thread and love is holding on.

    She keeps you alive.

    But yet, I'm such an idiot, in my case, I'd already be standing with rope around my neck, then after having the girl cry and threaten her own life to save mine, I realize "I love this girl. I'd rather live with her, then die AND not have her. I need her, she needs me. I need to put my act together."

  • serously dude...ive actualy attempted too but failed believe it or not.

  • I know how you feel. I've failed so many times. Emotions hold you back.. Sometimes your too afraid to let go.

  • Good for you!

    I went through a major depression after my mom died...

    But I learned to hold on...and that is the best anyone can do..

    It always helps to talk to people too...

    Bless you, honey!

  • love her..

  • cann someone tell me what is the song called?

    I MEET A GIRL WHO HATED THE WORLD,SHE USED HER BODY TO SELL HER SOUL,EVERYTIME THEY BRAKE HER IN PAIN...

    cann someone plese help, i really need to know.

  • I think its Seether - Love Her :]

  • Seether - Love Her

  • love her by seether

  • Hey J@Jaywolf...........

    You ARE a beautiful person, never forget it.

  • are yall very religeous or something no offense to any of yall just askin

  • Shaun, I've lost 2 brothers. My heart goes out to you man. Beautiful tribute...

  • mikecampbell i agree you, if you fail at killing yourself you have something to do in your life if it is saveing other peoples lives or just makeing the best of your life

  • I tryed many times and failed..my bro shot himself, my roomie at a group home o.d'ed herself, my trans genderd friend jumped from a bridge...when does it stop ? When will people stop and take a step back and stop pushing people to this? Why does it have to go this far..y do we have to lose this fight to gain a win on refletion ...to change ourselfs, our actions, our words, our world.......

  • just remember that someone loves you.

    it is no one's fate to die with suicide.

    I always think why me?

    because someone else couldn't handle it.

    make it a goal to prove this statement right.

    btw i've tried many times as well

    i'm not "healed" yet but i've lived through it so far...

  • @jessicathejaywolf

    yeah same here im not as well but im surviving,,,,barely

  • that's what matters

    your important

  • if you tried killing youreself and lived then you have something to live for it might not happen now but it'l happen later

  • it will stop when we finally are happy but thats not close to happening now is it...