thnxz for telling ur story, it really helped me in relizing i'm not the only one who has shyness. ur video really inspired me to be a better person. :)
in high school it's hard 4 me to be who i really am because i'm shy, i've been shy all through preschool and elementry. i have a tight group of friends who aren't alway's accepting of people and when i try to talk to other people i have no idea of what to say. when i'm on the computer and at home i'm a totally different person, more out going. when walking down the hallway to my class with a close friend it feels like eveyone is judging me 4 who i am. and it hurts. :(
Wow... I'm the same exact way... my bro was always the popular one and I was unpopular. When I was younger, I was pretty hyper too and I didn't care about what people thought of me. I was teased and bullied and my bro was one of my bullies too. I stopped talking after a while and I became really quiet and shy but b/c of that, i actually made friends, which is weird... but anyway, glad to know i'm not alone. thanks sooo much for sharing ur experiences! :)
Im a loner and its a turn on for me if the chick is a loner/shy/has social anxiety...sometimes i dont give a rats ass about me being a loner but sometimes this muhfuckin low self esteem creeps in and makes me feel like shit till i gotta lie about having friends and shit just so that they wont think im a loser or someshit...Whats a nigga to do I keep praying to God
im shy, but lately im been getting tired of it. Told my self to relax(in a mean way:P), and it worked. I'v been talking more in class than usual. Please don't tell me what i told my self. It's not very pleasant.
yah im so shy wen i see girls n the real world and they say do u have any cigs lol i say no n a shyway and i got made fun of they went and mocked me and went nooo and laffed liek fuk u to bitch lol ahh thats life for yah rude people what else is new
What so wrong with being a little shy i like shy women they are so sensitive to others around them & think before they talk, i'd take u out for tea if u lived in my town, u seem very thoughtful. And yes i do have a shy bone in my body i just like listening to that Pointer Sisters song "He So Shy", they like shy guys dont u think? well thanks for making me smile
One thing that has helped me get over my anxiety is focusing on taking my time, relaxed and aware, and focusing on love, loving something once the anxiety is about to happen. Love! Love yourself, love others, love the moment, appreciate the good things. Love is an action that takes time.
xmexd: I totally agree. once you are on that level where you dont care what ppl think and just be yourself then nothing else matters. Im actually doing better with social anxiety. I feel like ppl accept me more and dont see me as shy like I used to be and it feels good. now I have to practice at school ;)
Estoy feliz de saber que estas haciendo mejor. I "have" SA too, but if I relax and love I can go for weeks even months without thinking about it. I use to try to get to the day when everything would be perfect and I would never get shy agian, but the future doesnt exsist only the NOW. I learned to enjoy one day at a time.
If I saw you walking down the street I would have never guessed you were a shy person. So thanks for being open about it because it makes me feel a little better about my own shyness. Also, like you, I worry too much about what people think of me and I try too hard to please people.
Silicon: I am still a shy person.. but i see it more towards my social anxiety....I have social anxiety. I will make more videos about recent experiences :) thanks for the comment. you are not alone!
I can relate alot to this video. I am a guy and I'm 21 and I'm still a bit shy to this day. I have come out of it some but there is still a long way for me to go. Highschool was the worst for me as well. I would never really talk to the people in class and if I ever had to present a presentation I would feel as if my life was about to end. I have a young sister who's 10 and she has low self esteem and I try to help her as much as possible.
JBOONE: thats for the comment. when it comes to your sister, I think its great that you are helping her. My brother tried to help me as well but that didnt help. I think every person needs to help themselves. I know it from experience lol
yeah I agree that everybody needs to help theirselves and I'm not trying to run my sister's life either but I know that she hates her shyness and it pains me to see her go through what she does
There's nothing wrong being "shy" sometime shy can be a positve as well as a negative. shyness if acted upon right, can make you an "analythical" typeof person. I know shy people (I'm one of them) that are very intellect for they observe and study they surrounding before they jump into anything blindly.
I agree . I am very observant..I like to analyze people and their body language. that just leads me to choosing the right friends...can't trust everyone ;) thanks for the comment!
I can relate to this story,in high school i was also very shy and quiet,found it hard to express myself,kept to myself for the most part,i think it was due to most of my friends moving away and i became more socially withdrawn,At 26 im still trying to come out of it slowly but surely i hope.
i wish i could get through my shyness and live my life. I'm 25 and I feel like I have missed out on so much. Even if I did start improving myself I would be in my late 30s before anything actually changed. If I'm going to miss out on the rest of my life up to that point I just don't see a reason to continue.
i can defenitly Relate to this, except im tha brother and my sister is the shy one, any ways i was the popular one in school and my sister was really shy and that made me mad ,so i did kinda put her on the spot too, and i even talked to her about it, i was like why are you so shy? u need to stop being shy its stupid and she was like i know, i know and that was it, and we were the only two Native Americans at that school maybe that was why,any ways it was good how u express your self about it.5*
you doubt I am engaged? lol ok...second I am 22..despererate over what...and and third think before u leave a dumb ass comment...because you dont know the life I lived and what I went thru...
stop trying to diagnose your imaginary conditions son. U r the one that's suffering from your own list you insecure prick. I mean roasting someone to pump your own ego and self esteem isn't right, and you know it too. step one to help anyone is not to make premature judgments and assumptions especially with a pompous attitude.
A bit of philosophy:I've noticed,that there is an interesting category of ugly and fat people,especially girls,that are really don't look good and sexy,but their self confidence is on the level of god.
If you have s friend of this kind,she can help you meeting some nice guys.Because in fact,they will look at you and not at her.Egoistic,I know,but this is the reality of life.
without lowering Your morality just relize that ain't no shame in the game cuse they succum to lowliness, those who would think bad about what good you mean, are the expressio of illness, and since You intend goodonly, ain't no shame in the game
Hey great clip. I dont think i would be able to do a clip like this on shyness. Thanks for spreading the word. Realy glad that you younger ones know about this now while your young.
Saying there is something wrong with you is like saying there is something wrong with a beautiful flower. The only problem is the way you are thinking that your brother is ideal and you are less. I am so happy that your are dealing with this issue sensibly, some people use drugs and alcohol, some people never address their issues or leave it much later in life. Perhaps its more of a relationship thing with your brother because you feel you need to live up to his expectations. Good Luck.
that is very true..till this day I feel like he has never accepted me for the person I am..thanks for the comment. I didn't realize that it WAS like that ..
all I can say is to you is be yourself. you dont have a reason to be shy in class. I remember knowing everyone in class at that age. but they always made fun of me for the most stupid reasons. after that, I guess it became worse for me.
I was extremely shy in middle school and high school. For me it also came from being made fun of a lot. Mostly from black kids because I had darker skin and African features. Back then the philosophy was the lighter your skin the better. It's gotten much better over the years but I still do have a lot of shyness in me.
I wasn't really shy in school. I was friends with the popular people but I never partied or did drugs. I was focused on school and my future. Yeah people are mean and ignorant. I wish it wasn't like that. It looks like you over came your shyness which is great. I saw your myspace page and liked your poetry. I read what you had to go through in your life. You're strong, beautiful, intelligent, and creative. You'll do great things so don't worry about what people think. Laters girl. Bye.
I used to be shy in junior high..Then in high school I just went nuts and made a fool of myself but sometimes it was worth it. Nowadays I'm definitely not shy. If I have something on my mind I say it. I've been a fool too long to care what people think of me.
Thank you for the advice.
splashmt99 4 months ago
thnxz for telling ur story, it really helped me in relizing i'm not the only one who has shyness. ur video really inspired me to be a better person. :)
fallenxangelclipso 5 months ago
in high school it's hard 4 me to be who i really am because i'm shy, i've been shy all through preschool and elementry. i have a tight group of friends who aren't alway's accepting of people and when i try to talk to other people i have no idea of what to say. when i'm on the computer and at home i'm a totally different person, more out going. when walking down the hallway to my class with a close friend it feels like eveyone is judging me 4 who i am. and it hurts. :(
fallenxangelclipso 5 months ago
Your a Beautiful young lady. Just remember its OK to be shy. Just be yourself and focus on the things that you like. and Thank You for being you.
falcon611 9 months ago 3
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Im shy and i dont give a dam
Edwordierred 10 months ago
most beautiful latina girl !
MidnighTx10 10 months ago
i can relate to almost everything, keep ya head up
realphase35 1 year ago
Wow... I'm the same exact way... my bro was always the popular one and I was unpopular. When I was younger, I was pretty hyper too and I didn't care about what people thought of me. I was teased and bullied and my bro was one of my bullies too. I stopped talking after a while and I became really quiet and shy but b/c of that, i actually made friends, which is weird... but anyway, glad to know i'm not alone. thanks sooo much for sharing ur experiences! :)
btw, my mom works at macys xD
Narutogrl 1 year ago
i am going through the same thing :( i am so shy at school and i hate it
Hummers222 1 year ago
Im a loner and its a turn on for me if the chick is a loner/shy/has social anxiety...sometimes i dont give a rats ass about me being a loner but sometimes this muhfuckin low self esteem creeps in and makes me feel like shit till i gotta lie about having friends and shit just so that they wont think im a loser or someshit...Whats a nigga to do I keep praying to God
UCantHandleTheTruth3 1 year ago
im shy, but lately im been getting tired of it. Told my self to relax(in a mean way:P), and it worked. I'v been talking more in class than usual. Please don't tell me what i told my self. It's not very pleasant.
xy274 1 year ago
yah im so shy wen i see girls n the real world and they say do u have any cigs lol i say no n a shyway and i got made fun of they went and mocked me and went nooo and laffed liek fuk u to bitch lol ahh thats life for yah rude people what else is new
JoeyHD2 1 year ago
What so wrong with being a little shy i like shy women they are so sensitive to others around them & think before they talk, i'd take u out for tea if u lived in my town, u seem very thoughtful. And yes i do have a shy bone in my body i just like listening to that Pointer Sisters song "He So Shy", they like shy guys dont u think? well thanks for making me smile
Nitepup 1 year ago
One thing that has helped me get over my anxiety is focusing on taking my time, relaxed and aware, and focusing on love, loving something once the anxiety is about to happen. Love! Love yourself, love others, love the moment, appreciate the good things. Love is an action that takes time.
xmexdf1 2 years ago
xmexd: I totally agree. once you are on that level where you dont care what ppl think and just be yourself then nothing else matters. Im actually doing better with social anxiety. I feel like ppl accept me more and dont see me as shy like I used to be and it feels good. now I have to practice at school ;)
johee626 2 years ago
Estoy feliz de saber que estas haciendo mejor. I "have" SA too, but if I relax and love I can go for weeks even months without thinking about it. I use to try to get to the day when everything would be perfect and I would never get shy agian, but the future doesnt exsist only the NOW. I learned to enjoy one day at a time.
xmexdf1 2 years ago
If I saw you walking down the street I would have never guessed you were a shy person. So thanks for being open about it because it makes me feel a little better about my own shyness. Also, like you, I worry too much about what people think of me and I try too hard to please people.
SiliconBlake 2 years ago
Silicon: I am still a shy person.. but i see it more towards my social anxiety....I have social anxiety. I will make more videos about recent experiences :) thanks for the comment. you are not alone!
johee626 2 years ago
I can relate alot to this video. I am a guy and I'm 21 and I'm still a bit shy to this day. I have come out of it some but there is still a long way for me to go. Highschool was the worst for me as well. I would never really talk to the people in class and if I ever had to present a presentation I would feel as if my life was about to end. I have a young sister who's 10 and she has low self esteem and I try to help her as much as possible.
jboone707 2 years ago 2
JBOONE: thats for the comment. when it comes to your sister, I think its great that you are helping her. My brother tried to help me as well but that didnt help. I think every person needs to help themselves. I know it from experience lol
johee626 2 years ago
yeah I agree that everybody needs to help theirselves and I'm not trying to run my sister's life either but I know that she hates her shyness and it pains me to see her go through what she does
jboone707 2 years ago
i feel like i cant relate to this so much
everything that you said i feel the same way
i wish that i can be more talkative
Does anyone get scared when someone starts looking at them ?
Do you feel like they dont like you ?
LetMeBe2010 2 years ago
Letmebe: I dont get scared when someone random just stares at me. But if Im presenting something, ooo yea lol
I dont really care if anyone doesnt like me...but I dont like people judging me ;)
johee626 2 years ago
I can relate to this video. Plus also I wish I could get rid of my shyness
niceangel281 2 years ago
niceangel; thanks for commenting
johee626 2 years ago
Ur very welcome
niceangel281 2 years ago
There's nothing wrong being "shy" sometime shy can be a positve as well as a negative. shyness if acted upon right, can make you an "analythical" typeof person. I know shy people (I'm one of them) that are very intellect for they observe and study they surrounding before they jump into anything blindly.
icecube7421 2 years ago
I agree . I am very observant..I like to analyze people and their body language. that just leads me to choosing the right friends...can't trust everyone ;) thanks for the comment!
johee626 2 years ago
I find myself analyzing everything as well, Im shy, as well but know I still need to eccept myself
shewshew22 2 years ago
ppl say ur so nice and dont worry becoz ur a girl! What if a guy has this shit, no one ever cares about him.. we have to die being avoided.
KarthikSoun 2 years ago 3
yeah if you were a guy you would have 200 views
rubent100 2 years ago
baby you are fine!!! strut your stuff and forget that negative shit of other people, they are just jealous
jameshudson84 2 years ago
I can relate to this story,in high school i was also very shy and quiet,found it hard to express myself,kept to myself for the most part,i think it was due to most of my friends moving away and i became more socially withdrawn,At 26 im still trying to come out of it slowly but surely i hope.
Shane2day 3 years ago 2
i wish i could get through my shyness and live my life. I'm 25 and I feel like I have missed out on so much. Even if I did start improving myself I would be in my late 30s before anything actually changed. If I'm going to miss out on the rest of my life up to that point I just don't see a reason to continue.
debtisslavery 3 years ago
i can defenitly Relate to this, except im tha brother and my sister is the shy one, any ways i was the popular one in school and my sister was really shy and that made me mad ,so i did kinda put her on the spot too, and i even talked to her about it, i was like why are you so shy? u need to stop being shy its stupid and she was like i know, i know and that was it, and we were the only two Native Americans at that school maybe that was why,any ways it was good how u express your self about it.5*
dynmite09 3 years ago
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i really doubt that ur engaged, coz
1. ur too young
2. u sound desperate
3. ur trying to defend urself...chill girl live ur life..
4.i mean lemme know if ur need a guy frnd...or more than that.,...coz i can get u a hook up
face2mirror 3 years ago
you doubt I am engaged? lol ok...second I am 22..despererate over what...and and third think before u leave a dumb ass comment...because you dont know the life I lived and what I went thru...
johee626 3 years ago
stop trying to diagnose your imaginary conditions son. U r the one that's suffering from your own list you insecure prick. I mean roasting someone to pump your own ego and self esteem isn't right, and you know it too. step one to help anyone is not to make premature judgments and assumptions especially with a pompous attitude.
mboromboroone 3 years ago
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Girl sorry but your boring me. DRINK A ENERGY DRINK!! And for once SMILE!! Even though life sucks at times! I do it! :)
RussX5Z 3 years ago
an energy drink?? hahaha. its a fukin video..get over it sonnnnnn.
johee626 3 years ago
LOL!! OK!! Now you see I'm fired up with all the B vitamins I'm taking!! BOOM!!!
RussX5Z 3 years ago
You remind me of me, except you're insanely beautiful... and a chick.
Rahab111222 3 years ago 9
ima really shy guy.i have been working on it n as i relaize its pretty dum.lol i jst gotta get my confidence up. ur really cute u jst gotta see it.
DADERider 3 years ago
ara you really shy?you are too beatiful to be shy.
44striker44 3 years ago
why would I lie...
johee626 3 years ago
A bit of philosophy:I've noticed,that there is an interesting category of ugly and fat people,especially girls,that are really don't look good and sexy,but their self confidence is on the level of god.
If you have s friend of this kind,she can help you meeting some nice guys.Because in fact,they will look at you and not at her.Egoistic,I know,but this is the reality of life.
kiril1 3 years ago
without lowering Your morality just relize that ain't no shame in the game cuse they succum to lowliness, those who would think bad about what good you mean, are the expressio of illness, and since You intend goodonly, ain't no shame in the game
AllOhoy 3 years ago
Hey great clip. I dont think i would be able to do a clip like this on shyness. Thanks for spreading the word. Realy glad that you younger ones know about this now while your young.
Tampa0123456789 3 years ago
Dang Johee your hot!
RayzerRay1 3 years ago 3
Saying there is something wrong with you is like saying there is something wrong with a beautiful flower. The only problem is the way you are thinking that your brother is ideal and you are less. I am so happy that your are dealing with this issue sensibly, some people use drugs and alcohol, some people never address their issues or leave it much later in life. Perhaps its more of a relationship thing with your brother because you feel you need to live up to his expectations. Good Luck.
coprey66 3 years ago
that is very true..till this day I feel like he has never accepted me for the person I am..thanks for the comment. I didn't realize that it WAS like that ..
johee626 3 years ago
you're very cute, and kinda funny...but don't worry about people feelings.
hatagata 3 years ago
i am 10 and i am really shy in my school i am quite but at home i am loud u know........
simiashleytisdalefan 3 years ago 12
all I can say is to you is be yourself. you dont have a reason to be shy in class. I remember knowing everyone in class at that age. but they always made fun of me for the most stupid reasons. after that, I guess it became worse for me.
johee626 3 years ago
They say that most social anxiety issues come from traumatic experiences.
rooroo1988 3 years ago 3
@simiashleytisdalefan Haha me too, I'm frickin loud and stupid with my real close friends, and family, but shy at other places. :D
Seiga 10 months ago 2
Why be shy your beautiful.
KRSBlair 3 years ago
the worst part about the shyness is the missed opportunities and not understanding what's wrong with you and wishing you were normal.
kuunami 3 years ago
I was extremely shy in middle school and high school. For me it also came from being made fun of a lot. Mostly from black kids because I had darker skin and African features. Back then the philosophy was the lighter your skin the better. It's gotten much better over the years but I still do have a lot of shyness in me.
kuunami 3 years ago
I wasn't really shy in school. I was friends with the popular people but I never partied or did drugs. I was focused on school and my future. Yeah people are mean and ignorant. I wish it wasn't like that. It looks like you over came your shyness which is great. I saw your myspace page and liked your poetry. I read what you had to go through in your life. You're strong, beautiful, intelligent, and creative. You'll do great things so don't worry about what people think. Laters girl. Bye.
shenmue2951 3 years ago
I appreciate it :)
johee626 3 years ago
I used to be shy in junior high..Then in high school I just went nuts and made a fool of myself but sometimes it was worth it. Nowadays I'm definitely not shy. If I have something on my mind I say it. I've been a fool too long to care what people think of me.
PoetPhenom 3 years ago
your not crazy...lol just a bit stressed. good video!
love9boy 3 years ago