A beautiful tribute for a beautiful, precious boy. I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious Brona. I hope you go on to have other children you can tell the story of their older brother to. One child never, ever replaces another, but they help to ease the pain of empty arms. I know... I have had two misscarriages, but am so grateful for the four beautiful children that I have here. Still, I keep those positive pregnancy tests in the bottom of my bedroom drawer...
Iv watch ur video so many times..it BEAUTIFUL so BEAUTIFUL..im sadin that ur video is no longer able to be seen on mobil..I miss watching it an i wish so much i could watch the video of ur sweet bby girl..if u could could u plz post ur videos so ppl with mobil could watch them? Best wishes with ur growing family
Hi i send you my massive phsycological support to you and your husband...I m really really sad and touched about your loss, but as you're a beautiful woman full of love and passion for life, I m sure your nex baby will be as lovely and beautiful as Brona, and he will give you tones of satisfactions and joy, as you really deserve it
Your son is beautiful!! And these pictures tell an amazing story. Although you can see the deep sadness, I love the pictures of you and your husband while you were giving birth. They speak so much of his love for you and your son!
That was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. I am so sorry for your loss, and also sorry for the terrible treatment that they did to you. Your son is now resting, and will be waiting for you both to join him one day soon. God Bless you both, your precious angel is resting...,.,...
I wish the volume was there, I loved the pictures , I did not take the time to do the photo's of my little one's growing inside of me and how neat and special that is. It kinda made me wish I could have another baby. I had mine at home with a midwife and on my first delivery, I had two one born alive and the other just a small unborn fetus , I always told myself I was glad I did not know was carrying two babies. If I had known that , it would of been so much harder. I'm so sorry that this had h
@dsahala oh what a beautiful angel you had! I know what you're going through. I was 28 weeks pregnant when I found out my little Lily Grace's heart had stopped and she had gotten get wings. I often wonder what I'd done wrong to have this happen but God had different plans for my little flower. I'm certain she and your little man are playing in heaven watching over us -c-
Thank you very much for sharing those amazing photographs. It was so touching to look at them and to see all the LOVE in them. My heart goes out to you and I wish you just the best of everything for your future.
I could'nt even begin to imagine giveing birth in complete devastation. Look at you & your husband.You look so happy & beautiful.Then this.This is Awful! Devastateing for us to watch.This just ripped my heart out of my chest.I am so sorry for you both.Brona is with God & Jesus now in heaven.He was such a beautiful little angel!My heart goes out to all parents includeing mine.My mom lost our jeffrey at 7 months.We will see them again.I feel it.I will remember Brona for the rest of my life.(T_T) .
I knw the pain you must have felt. My lil sister lost her child two weeks before his due date of June 27, 2010. It was the saddest thing that has ever happened to us. This was her first child. She is currently 19 years old and I feel so much for her because we are so close so when she lost Aubree, it was like i was loosing her. She still isn't the same but she is taking it day by day. Thank you and god bless your family...
Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful tribute to your son. I search for these types of videos sometimes to feel less alone. Your photos are beautiful. I only wish we had known of NILMDTS when my daughter Catie was taken from us. She drew breath for only an hour, but I treasured every second. I have faith that she and your lovely Brona are playing somewhere beautiful, just waiting for us. Tonight I will light an extra candle for Brona alongside Catie's.
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you must feel. My fiance' and I lost our little boy at thrity weeks.Christopher James. He was perfect in everyway, thank you for uploading this and sharing your experience.
He was a beautiful little boy & you have some amazing pictures to remember him. I'm so sorry for your loss . . although I do not know you . . Brona will never be forgotten! Stay strong!
So, So beautiful! I lost my daughter at 18 weeks, and held her tiny body in my hands 14 years ago. My best friend lost twins - her daughter at 15 weeks and her son was born later at 23 weeks 6 days. He lived for 3 months before he passed. I didn't know what this video was about when I started watching, but when you posted that your son had died I started to cry and just finally stopped so I could tell you that I will remember Brona for you when I remember Cammie, Emily and Colin <3 <3
I enjoyed the images as you documented such a beautiful pregnancy and sad birth and loss of your beautiful baby boy...I know how your heart must ache from personal experience with a recent loss of my own...May your angel watch over you and bless you along the way may your hearts heal and God give you another chance as I can tell you will be a wonderful team mother and father!
Brona is remembered, thank you for sharing Nana, with 3 grandkids, 2 granddaughters whoose hands I can hold and a grandson who holds my heart. July 30, 2010 24 weeks stillborn
I can´t stop to cry. Three months ago my sister lost his 5 months gestation son. I can´t imagine how hard is your soul pain or even my sister's one. You´re really brave both. God bless you.
I am crying my heart out watching this video and staring at my 1 year old. I could never even began to imagine the pain u two r going through. I will never forget ur son, he is/was beautiful.I am sure he plays with jesus and other babies now.
I remember reading your story in Midwifery Today. It is just as heartbreaking now as it was then. Your son in absolutely beautiful. I have never forgotten him or your story. Thank you so much for sharing it <3
You asked us to never forget your child, and I never will. Thank you so much for sharing. I cannot even imagine and I don't know why people have to go through this. We lost two children fairly early on before having a wonderful baby boy. I had no idea the statistics on stillbirth. It is staggering. I wish for you a healthy baby when you are ready to try again. I know he or she will be very lucky and so wanted...
You both are brave and courageous people. The love between you is incredible. I was moved to tears. So sorry for you loss. God Bless You both and that perfect angel of yours.
Your amazing photographs and heart breaking story have really touched me, Brona will be remembered by myself and a few other student mdiwives who watched your beautiful video today. It makes me sick what that obstetrician did to you. You and your husband are truly amazing, the photographs say it all. Thinking of you all and sending love xx
your son was so beautiful.. and what a loving way to ensure his memory will live on forever. i'm sorry for your loss.. i can only imagine how hard it is to lose a child.. im grateful for every day i have with my daughter, and i never take the times i spend with her for granted.. he was so beautiful..its cruel how anyone can treat you such a way after the loss of wonderful little baby. just know that he was blessed with amazing parents who will always love him, and who he will always love as well
I wanted to check in with you and say Happy 7th Anniversary and 1st Birthday to Brona...I hope this doesn't upset you that I am wishing this to you all, but out of the blue today I remembered it was May 18th and that it was your anniversary and Brona's birthday.
Hi Parents of Brona Sahala! Watching your video, God, again I remember my doughter Aliya, she was just 4m and a week into her MoM's safe womb, unfortunately, she lost her life, She came to us "dead", but she was so completely made by almighty God, so cute so beautiful, Honey, Blood is Blood unforgetable! Love you both a lot, May almighty God bless you again with a cute and healthy Son, beautiful like Brona, sweet like his mother, man like his dad, I lost 2 1 at 4m 2nd. 11months cute boy......
Your loving video made me cry, and smile. Brona was indeed beautiful, as are all baby boys. my son died 18 years ago aged 3 months so i can assure you that he will be as clear in your memory and close to your heart then as now. Even though i have had other children , before and since, none can replace the child you've lost, nor will you want them to.
If i had been able to make a video tribute, i would've been thrilled if it had been as beautiful as yours, pictures and music together xXx
I cried watching this not just because you lost your son, but because I have had 6 miscarriages and even though I never had a still birth like you have it still hurt to lose babies you though would live to see you. I'm so sorry for your loss, god bless your son & your family!
Watching your video, even though it did not have sound still hit me really hard. The photographer did a remarkable job and for you and your husband to be able to go through photos the way you did knowing it would be your last with your beloved son, you guys really are remarkable people.
Sending my love and condolenses from Melbourne Australia. May you guys find peace in knowing god has a pure angel there to watch over you and your family
Wow, your video really made me think. You are very beautiful people and my family and i hope the very best for both of you. Brona was a very sweet little guy and we couldnt help but love him to. Even though i was crying through the whole thing. With or without music the love is in those pictures. Brona and you both will always have a place in our hearts. He will never be forgotten. Best wishes for your future and always thinking of Brona, now an angel to waych over you and all of us. xoxo Lyn
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your son. He's absolutely beautiful, perfect in every way. Know that your son's story touches people, and moves people to be better, to do better in their lives, to appreciate their children and not take things for granted. It's amazing people like you and your husband and your beautiful Brona who encourage ppl like myself to become and remain photographers for NILMDTS. Thank you for sharing your story.
we have wached your video so many times,with or without music,it shows us how much you love him,so dont worry that it has no music now.we watch you video to see YOUR son,not listen to music....thinking of you with love sallie and kirstie from england
Omg I am crying tears of sadness. I am so sorry for your loss hun. I can't even emagine what your going through at this difficult time. But Always remember that he is looking down on you loving you and missing you very much. My son turns 9 month old tomorrow 1-29-09 and I don't know what I would do if I ever lost him He is my life. Your in my thoughts and prayers I will always remember Brona.
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Lilly. The pain is greater than I could ever have imagined. I am glad you got to see her alive and breathing, though I know, no matter what we got, it will never be enough. May we all find peace
I agree with my former reviewers: I do feel honored you shared this with us complete strangers. Brona would have been proud to have you as his parents.
I am fighting cancer (I relapsed for the fourth time) and your story gives me so much hope and strength, since you and Joshua are so strong. Do not take this vid down! It is heartless that WMG removed the audio, very heartless, but please, keep this tribute here. Brona deserves to be remembered. This vid made me cry. But those are good tears.
I am so sorry for your struggle. I cannot imagine. In my 40th weeks of pregnancy I had a cancer scare, but found it was benign, but it could have easily not been. We have no choice but to live with the cards we are dealt. I hope we can help each other feel more loved in this difficult world. Thank you for your comment.
Please don't take it off of here unless you are no longer comfortable with it.
We don't need music!
I am currently waiting to see if I am accepted as a volunteer photographer for NILMDTS... your story reaffirms my desire to create pictorial memories for families losing an infant.
I do not believe God 'takes' our babies because God needs them. I do believe that your baby is held in the arms of Jesus who weeps with you and holds you close. Peace
I am so sorry for your loss! He was beautiful, perfect in every way! I too lost my son at 8 1/2 months, he was born still. its heart shattering! You and your husband have so much love between you two, you can see it in the pictures. Remember EVERYTHING happens for a reason and Brona was needed in heaven and will always be with ya'll! Its been 3 years since I lost Brayden and I can guarantee that my son and yours have met and are looking down and protecting us!
I am so very very sorry you lost your baby Brayden, what a beautiful name! Yes, i can't imagine missing him less at anytime, i would imagine 3 years still finds your heart breaking and missing him. I am SO sorry that we have to go through this. thank you for your words and may we find some peace
oh and please dont take brona's memorial off we dont need music to see how beutiful he is the world deserves to see your love for brona godbless you xxx
hi darjee i carnt believe through all the pain you have suffered and now they have taken bronas music from him there are some small minded people in this world what harm was it doing its our dannys birthday today 29 th january i hope they are both playing in heaven toghether taking care of one another you take care now love nicole xxxxx
Omg I am crying tears of sadness. I am so sorry for your loss hun. I can't even emagine what your going through at this difficult time. But Always remember that he is looking down on you loving you and missing you very much. My son turns 9 month old tomorrow 1-29-09 and I don't know what I would do if I ever lost him He is my life. Your in my thoughts and orayers I will always remember Brona.
i have never cried so much...your son was a little hero, moved so many hearts not even giving a heartbeat on his own...beautiful. I will pray for him and besure ...people in Poland heard about Brona too!
Your tribute to your baby boy is beautiful. I have never felt more grateful for my baby girl in my life. I wish my tears for your baby could bring you some comfort. It is wonderful that you honored him this way. :)
I am so desperately sorry for the loss of your son. I am horrified that yet another mother has to/had to go through the outrageous awfulness of being investigated. On your anniversary too? We are strange sisters. I am so sorry. so so sorry.
I found you after a friend's recent miscarriage reminded me of losing my child at 18 wks gestation almost 10 yrs ago. Somehow your beautiful video helped me with my resurfacing emotions. When I read your son's beautiful name and story it reminded me of "When My Sorrow Was Born" by Khalil Gibran. Thank you for sharing Brona's life with me I will not forget him...
i am so glad that your baby is remembered. I am so sorry that your little one is not now ten years old, standing beside you. Thank you for sharing the suggestion of the story. I very much like Gibran. i will look it up. Thank you for being another person knowing my son existed. To think his story somehow helped you means the world. Thank you.
Your son was and is beautiful. I think you're very brave for posting this. I have a coworker who went through something similar last year. Your video brought tears to my eyes for you and her.
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful baby and I will never forget him or this video. I just wish I could say something, this video really touched my heart. Bless you and your family.
that must of been the hardest thing to go through ever in your life. it is so sad. beautiful boy and will never be forgoton. i was almost crying :o(. never forgotton. The breeze feels nice the breeze is calm Like touched by God Under the sun I see a flower... as pretty as can be I smile and I think I see you looking at me Now, you are in heaven in the pretty blue sky Now I know when the breeze feels nice You are there with me hope you like the poem xxx
Hello Brona, I see your still touching the world having been here,.. not forgotton, keep going safe journey precious little angel.... wathcing over us all....
I hope mummy is doing better.... regards kelly(midwife)
Brona Sahala is remembered.Your son shall be known.
After viewing your videio many times, I was at first angry and wanted to know WHY, WHAT HAD YOUR HEALTHCARE PROVIDERS NOT DONE? The more I watched-No Answer would bring Brona to a live birth-I have chosen to cherish him,remember Brona Sahala. To remember Brona, his Mom and Dad. Your Family.
This is the most beautiful video I have ever seen. A wonderful tribute. I am crying. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope you have the strength and courage to try again. You and your husband will make beautiful parents. Thank you for sharing your video with us. What a beautiful family.
How kind of you to reply... I am thrilled to see there is a Miss Foundation group in London, England so I shall broach the subject with sis and mum. My father is grieving terribly, I have never known anything like this. Ethan gives us great strength, I speak with him most days. You have given me strength also, thank you so much. Best wishes and much love, Nadine
I want to send you my love and to thank you for sharing this incredibly painful moment and for sharing your amazingly beautiful son. My sister gave birth to my gorgeous stillborn nephew Ethan several months ago... absolute agony. Again, I send you my love.
I am so very sorry for the loss of precious Ethan. If your sister has not yet heard of the MISS foundation, i must say it has been one of my greatest supports. They have forums online and the support in knowing you are not alone is tremendous. feel free to message me if you would like more information on other ways to help support her. I am just so very sorry that anyone ever has to experience this pain.
hi darjee and joshua its nicole just wanted to say since i have seen brona's memorial my little boy had to go to the hospital because the doctor thought he had a poorly heart like my farther so we were so scared. well we took him today and i played bronas song all the way there and i praid my little man would be safe and it is if brona was looking out for him as he has the all clear so at christmas we are going to lay a reef for brona at our beutiful forest where he can see the beauty here too x
I am so very glad your son is Ok. thank you so much for having Brona in your hearts. the gesture of you thinking of him warms my spirit. I hope he can be there for your son.
thank you John. we do remember you, thank you for all of your amazing work. we loved the conference. thank you for watching...one more person knows our son existed. :) missing all of our children!
These are some of the most powerful birth images I've ever seen. You can feel the emotions that were in the room. The work of NILMDTS is absolutely priceless. I hope my area os the worls can get someone that gifted to perform a similar service. I wish your family peace and healing.
i am so sorry for your lose, no words can express the pain and love that you are feeling. it broke my heart watching this loving video.i cried the whole time.
The whole ten minutes i cried. I know exactly how you feel, Im only 18 and i lost my daughter at 38 weeks I had a placenta abrupition. This happened on Oct. 4th. 2008 i had to give birth on the 5th Her funeral was on OCt.15.2008 Im glad you did not do a Obtopsy becuase my aunt is a nerse and she told me they send the bodys to student that are learning to do obtopsys thats why i dindnt have one. My beautful daughter Haylee Marie os in Heaven playing with your beautiful son Brona.
I am so incredibly sorry that you lost your precious daughter. If you have not found the MISS forums yet, please do, it is tremendously helpful. I am so sorry Haylee is not in your arms. Peace to us all...missing our babies every second.
oh, god I am so so sorry... this photography is so painfully beautiful... I'm 35 weeks, having a homebirth and this terrifies me, at the risk of adding heartache, is there anything you would have or could have done differently? Again, I'm so so sorry.
oooh, the question....in hindsight many things "could" have been done different. There will always been should have's and could have's. At the time, I made the best decisions that I could for my baby and I.
What a beautiful little boy. I am so sorry for your lose. Your little angel was born on my birthday, he will always be remembered,love and prayers from Northern Ireland.xxxx
I am going to plant a little tree in remembrance of your darling little brona. He will hold a place in my heart always, even though i never knew you. I was so touched by your tribute to him. When i look out into my garden and watch his tree grow, he will always be remembered. Godbless.xxxx A tree grows in Ireland for Brona. xxx
oh, thank you so much! :') I cannot tell you how much that means to me. We move so much I have wanted to plant a tree, but haven't been able to you. I would love to see a picture of it if you do actually do it. It would be so wonderful to know there was a tree growing for him somewhere. Thank you so very very much
Absolutely beautiful video. I gave birth to my son Damien just 8 days ago..2 days after finding out he was gone. Thank you for this wonderful video tribute to your beautiful son. Thank you for sharing your story.
I am so sorry that you have lost your son. The pain of this loss is unspeakably horrible. If you read my credits you should find the answer to your question, otherwise let me know something more specific. Peace be with us all.
my heart is breaking this is the most beutiful baby i ever seen i am so sorry ! i have seen and read all the memorial and to go through the pain of losing your little man so close to him being home is tremendous the love i can see you have for each other will help you heal in time and may i say what a stunning family you are your courage is amazing. and dont worry about baby brona my little angel daniel will take care of him in heaven i hope they are both playing over brona's sunset many hugs xx
this was the most heart rendering memorial i have ever seen the imotion and courage you share is amazing i am so sorry for what your loss he was the most beutiful little man i ever seen but he will be safe in heaven as i will send my angel nephew a prayer to look after him and play with him my danny will take care of him .and i can see that you and your husband have a wonderfull strong relationship take care of yourselves and i do hope in time your pain will become easier nite nite lil man xxxx
Thank you for sharing Brona's beauty. It was very touching and I cried. I had a baby boy who was born very prematurely and died in my arms, after trying to breath and squeaking a little. Though it was 20-some yrs ago, I will never forget him. I have some ultrasounds, 2 photos, handprints & footprints, which I cherish. and yes, all I left the hospital with was a death certificate, even though my son did live outside of me a few minutes. Bless you, and I wish you the best.....
I just can't get over this video. You hear about this all the time and can't really believe it. It's not fair... May God bless you guys and I know Brona will never b replaced but I hope that U guys have another healthy and strong baby if U have'nt already and if that's what U guys want!!! GOD BLESS!!!
i couldnt stop crying both because it was sad and i was amazed at how great you cherished every second with him and got such wonderful pictures. he was beautiful. just too perfect for this world. you will be together again, but for now his spirit is withyou
This video left me smiling, not sad, as it is a truly wonderful tribute to your beautiful Son Brona. The photographs and time spent with your Son are invaluable and I admire your strength in sharing your loss. Peace be with you. x
Im so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. Thank you so much to you and Joshua for sharing Brona with me and all of us, I will never be able to forget his face and little hands and (big) feet! I will remember him not with sadness but with a smile as he is surely laughing and playing somewhere tonight and looking down upon you. You may not have gotten to spend this life with him but will have all of eternity~ I will light a candle tonight and think of your sweet Brona...
your son will not be forgotten and I am horrified by how you were treated in the wake of such a heartbreaking loss. Brona was an angel and will live on not only for you and Joshua, but among the birthing community as well. bless you and may your heart find peace.
What a lovely video tribute to your precious son Brona. I lost my firstborn in much the same way on July 9, 2007. Not a day goes by where my daughter Annika isn't missed and loved. I was touched by your story and I will not forget baby Brona.
hey i have been though a still birth with my ex girlfriend and i know how it feels it will take time to heal because i am still healing from it. give it time and i am here for you.
This is so powerful,the photo's radiating your every ounce of pain..I love the skin to skin family photo's you could see you were taking in every moment deep into your soul's..RIP Brona what a handsome little man!
You have a beautiful son, and it is a shame that he is no longer in the world. I am sorry for your loss, and I will remember you in my thoughts. I will not forget your beautiful boy.
I am so moved by your beautiful film. The anguish is so palpable in those stunnning photos, i'm glad someone was at least there to support you by taking them. I am so sorry about the ensuing witch hunt, what a terrible thing to have to deal with in your grief-stricken state. I am so touched by what a beautiful, graceful mother you are - kissing and holding him so intimately. And the father, what a diamond of a man. Brona chose very well.
The pain i am feeling after watching this beautiful tribute can not possible nearly be as much as the both of you must feel...the sadness and pain is represented in such honour of your wonderful son-it is truly commendable...my tears are shed with such peace knowing that your angel is truly an angel in heaven...and always in your heart...bless you for sharing this with the world - Brona will never be forgotten - even by me - a stranger...God be with you..x sent with lots of love and respect..x
Your son is beautiful as is your marriage and spirit. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss! Your family is in my prayers. Thank you for sharing your story and for your supporting women in birth choices. This is such an amazing memorial!
I am Helena's Mom...Noël...you comforted me during the MISS memorial last weekend. Thank you for your touch. Thank you for in that moment sparing me from feeling alone. Thank you for sharing this beautiful memoir of your time with your son. Thank you.
This is so beautiful. What an amazing tribute. I especially loved the photos of Brona with his Daddy. I have said it before and I'll say it again... NILMDTS is an amazing organization.
I will not forget him. What beauty family you have. My heart is aching. Aching for the pain that you felt. I think you captured your pregnancy and Brona's life in the most beautiful way possible. As I watched your husband, it reminded me of my own Husband and the pain that he went through too. I will pray for your family. Thank you so much for your beautiful tribute to your little son.
Your video is beautiful...You look younger in the video eventhough it was not long ago. This is the best I have seen...I am happy that you can share it...I love you both...I pray for your peace...I know you want him in your arms...I know you want your tears to fall on his sweet face...I am so very sorry.
Thank you Beth. Your thoughtful kindness has touched our hearts deeply. thank you for your rose, thank you for your video, thank you for your kindness, thank you for your blogs, thank you for being amberlee's mommy...missing our babies....so so so much
I found this link to the nilmdts website. I want to thank you for sharing this video with everyone...I don't know what it's like to loose a baby, but I couldn't imagine going through what you did. You have an amazing story...and I could feel the sorrow and the pain looking at your faces, but I could also see the happiness, and saw how proud you were of your little baby boy. You and your husband are strong, and I wish you both all the luck in the world. You and your family are in our prayers.
Thank you all...so very much for making my Brona exist for you. It means more than you know.
I wanted to say also that I have my video set so that I must approve all comments. I chose to do this as some memorial sites have the most horrible things said "is that a real baby" "get over it" and so forth. I am very pleased that, thus far. I have approved every single comment. I dont know if people just are minding what they say since it is approved or not, but it is very surprising and wonderful
what a beautiful tribute had me in tears your son was truly beautiful my deapest sympathys go out to you and your husband. Stay strong he will never be forgotton xxx
That is the most beautiful video i have ever seen, its taking me forver to write this as i am bawling my eyes out :(
I lost a baby when he was 18 weeks after going into early labour. He died in my arms after having 3 heartbeats. I cannnot even begin to imagine the pain you have been through.
I live in New Zealand, here, all babies must have a birth certificate once you get to 24 weeks, recorded stillborn, but they are registered and certified :). I think thats the right way.Brona is beautiful
I am so sorry you lost your precious baby boy. I am so glad you knew his heart-beat in your arms...i would have given anything for him to have been born alive.
This is one of the most visually sacred things I have ever seen in my life.
I am blessed, to have been a witness to this.
My deepest respect and sorrow for the loss of Brona. The M.I.S.S. Foundation is phenomenal. Dr. Joanne Cacciatore, an amazing human being.
Brona was perfect. He was so loved and wanted. You have given a gift not only to all people, but especially to parents, for allowing us to witness the sacred birth and death of your child. Peace and Love to you.
Thank you for sharing your story Darjee. A midwife I know fwd your email- I am glad to see a followup since I haven't seen you on the HBPregnancy list in awhile. My deepest sympathies- your son is beautiful.
I am Linda...mother of Elinda & Jen...grandmother of Zane & Andrew, Xavier, Logan, & Cassi. My heart breaks for you and your husband. Your video is a wonderful and fitting tribute to your beautiful son...an Angel too precious to be bound by Earthly ties. I pray that your pain will ease and you'll find peace in knowing that Brona looks down on you from Heaven and waits for the day you will be together again.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute of your son. My heartfelt sympathies to you and your husband. Brona will live in your hearts forever and in the memories of all that see this tribute. Much love, Karen xxx
A beautiful tribute for a beautiful, precious boy. I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious Brona. I hope you go on to have other children you can tell the story of their older brother to. One child never, ever replaces another, but they help to ease the pain of empty arms. I know... I have had two misscarriages, but am so grateful for the four beautiful children that I have here. Still, I keep those positive pregnancy tests in the bottom of my bedroom drawer...
Trulore1 2 weeks ago
Iv watch ur video so many times..it BEAUTIFUL so BEAUTIFUL..im sadin that ur video is no longer able to be seen on mobil..I miss watching it an i wish so much i could watch the video of ur sweet bby girl..if u could could u plz post ur videos so ppl with mobil could watch them? Best wishes with ur growing family
watev39 2 months ago
Hi i send you my massive phsycological support to you and your husband...I m really really sad and touched about your loss, but as you're a beautiful woman full of love and passion for life, I m sure your nex baby will be as lovely and beautiful as Brona, and he will give you tones of satisfactions and joy, as you really deserve it
Skull24Crusher 5 months ago
I am deeply sorry for your loss, And I will not forget Brona Thank you for sharing his brief life with us.
Rob From Canada
llew777 5 months ago
Your son is beautiful!! And these pictures tell an amazing story. Although you can see the deep sadness, I love the pictures of you and your husband while you were giving birth. They speak so much of his love for you and your son!
SellyNue 7 months ago
That was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. I am so sorry for your loss, and also sorry for the terrible treatment that they did to you. Your son is now resting, and will be waiting for you both to join him one day soon. God Bless you both, your precious angel is resting...,.,...
M.Maltais
coleromain 10 months ago
I wish the volume was there, I loved the pictures , I did not take the time to do the photo's of my little one's growing inside of me and how neat and special that is. It kinda made me wish I could have another baby. I had mine at home with a midwife and on my first delivery, I had two one born alive and the other just a small unborn fetus , I always told myself I was glad I did not know was carrying two babies. If I had known that , it would of been so much harder. I'm so sorry that this had h
karabowes 11 months ago
@dsahala oh what a beautiful angel you had! I know what you're going through. I was 28 weeks pregnant when I found out my little Lily Grace's heart had stopped and she had gotten get wings. I often wonder what I'd done wrong to have this happen but God had different plans for my little flower. I'm certain she and your little man are playing in heaven watching over us -c-
evilangelism 1 year ago
Wow that is really moving and I am glad that you all were able to share this with us.
pandygrl07 1 year ago
Thank you very much for sharing those amazing photographs. It was so touching to look at them and to see all the LOVE in them. My heart goes out to you and I wish you just the best of everything for your future.
T97Frida 1 year ago
I could'nt even begin to imagine giveing birth in complete devastation. Look at you & your husband.You look so happy & beautiful.Then this.This is Awful! Devastateing for us to watch.This just ripped my heart out of my chest.I am so sorry for you both.Brona is with God & Jesus now in heaven.He was such a beautiful little angel!My heart goes out to all parents includeing mine.My mom lost our jeffrey at 7 months.We will see them again.I feel it.I will remember Brona for the rest of my life.(T_T) .
SmokinMo11 1 year ago
I knw the pain you must have felt. My lil sister lost her child two weeks before his due date of June 27, 2010. It was the saddest thing that has ever happened to us. This was her first child. She is currently 19 years old and I feel so much for her because we are so close so when she lost Aubree, it was like i was loosing her. She still isn't the same but she is taking it day by day. Thank you and god bless your family...
misundastood19 1 year ago
omg i cried so hard when i saw this. im so sorry for your lose :'(
Drega88 1 year ago
Death can leave a heartache no one can heal, love can leave a memory no one can steal...
catherinesophia2009 1 year ago
Darjee,
Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful tribute to your son. I search for these types of videos sometimes to feel less alone. Your photos are beautiful. I only wish we had known of NILMDTS when my daughter Catie was taken from us. She drew breath for only an hour, but I treasured every second. I have faith that she and your lovely Brona are playing somewhere beautiful, just waiting for us. Tonight I will light an extra candle for Brona alongside Catie's.
Much Love,
Maggie
MegLee88 1 year ago
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you must feel. My fiance' and I lost our little boy at thrity weeks.Christopher James. He was perfect in everyway, thank you for uploading this and sharing your experience.
The1lizard 1 year ago
He was a beautiful little boy & you have some amazing pictures to remember him. I'm so sorry for your loss . . although I do not know you . . Brona will never be forgotten! Stay strong!
413krissy 1 year ago
sweet little angel brona, he is in heaven and lives in your heart....the best for you parents
fischli678 1 year ago
So, So beautiful! I lost my daughter at 18 weeks, and held her tiny body in my hands 14 years ago. My best friend lost twins - her daughter at 15 weeks and her son was born later at 23 weeks 6 days. He lived for 3 months before he passed. I didn't know what this video was about when I started watching, but when you posted that your son had died I started to cry and just finally stopped so I could tell you that I will remember Brona for you when I remember Cammie, Emily and Colin <3 <3
hunnysaurus 1 year ago
I enjoyed the images as you documented such a beautiful pregnancy and sad birth and loss of your beautiful baby boy...I know how your heart must ache from personal experience with a recent loss of my own...May your angel watch over you and bless you along the way may your hearts heal and God give you another chance as I can tell you will be a wonderful team mother and father!
dedicatedheart78 1 year ago
Brona is remembered, thank you for sharing Nana, with 3 grandkids, 2 granddaughters whoose hands I can hold and a grandson who holds my heart. July 30, 2010 24 weeks stillborn
forgivengirl2 1 year ago
my heart goes out to yall, yall had a beautiful family
jjac31456287 1 year ago
I'm so sorry. Don't worry, Brona is in God's loving hands.
iluvdrawing 1 year ago
so sorry for your lost!!!!!!!!
2324sonya 1 year ago
I can´t stop to cry. Three months ago my sister lost his 5 months gestation son. I can´t imagine how hard is your soul pain or even my sister's one. You´re really brave both. God bless you.
jadeisa1979 1 year ago
I am crying my heart out watching this video and staring at my 1 year old. I could never even began to imagine the pain u two r going through. I will never forget ur son, he is/was beautiful.I am sure he plays with jesus and other babies now.
kaelenesmommy 1 year ago
Girl u don't need any music. The photography was amazing, and spoke a billion more words than any song ever could. God bless u and your family.
22DevilAngel 1 year ago
how desperately sad. life can be so cruel. xxx
joosiej85 1 year ago
I remember reading your story in Midwifery Today. It is just as heartbreaking now as it was then. Your son in absolutely beautiful. I have never forgotten him or your story. Thank you so much for sharing it <3
crazyinfanta 1 year ago
Amazing video!
So sorry. This made me cry and smile at the same time.
Just beautiful..
MickeyMouse016 2 years ago
i´m so... so sorry for u.
lisachastain 2 years ago
my heart breaks for you .. i too know this pain you feel and i so send you my heartfelt deepest sympathy.. your baby is beautiful..
MyPinkRainbow 2 years ago
You asked us to never forget your child, and I never will. Thank you so much for sharing. I cannot even imagine and I don't know why people have to go through this. We lost two children fairly early on before having a wonderful baby boy. I had no idea the statistics on stillbirth. It is staggering. I wish for you a healthy baby when you are ready to try again. I know he or she will be very lucky and so wanted...
volswagn 2 years ago
You both are brave and courageous people. The love between you is incredible. I was moved to tears. So sorry for you loss. God Bless You both and that perfect angel of yours.
gorkonian 2 years ago
Your amazing photographs and heart breaking story have really touched me, Brona will be remembered by myself and a few other student mdiwives who watched your beautiful video today. It makes me sick what that obstetrician did to you. You and your husband are truly amazing, the photographs say it all. Thinking of you all and sending love xx
EmilyGaj 2 years ago
God bless you and your husband.
jahspromise 2 years ago
your son was so beautiful.. and what a loving way to ensure his memory will live on forever. i'm sorry for your loss.. i can only imagine how hard it is to lose a child.. im grateful for every day i have with my daughter, and i never take the times i spend with her for granted.. he was so beautiful..its cruel how anyone can treat you such a way after the loss of wonderful little baby. just know that he was blessed with amazing parents who will always love him, and who he will always love as well
virtualflesh 2 years ago
i love yours son...
bambitornado 2 years ago
I am so sorry ..
piglettoes 2 years ago
I´m very sorry for your loss, Brona was a beautyful boy and a gorgeous angel now in heaven. god bless you little wonderboy, we never forget!
prinsessa666 2 years ago
Beautiful video! Too bad the sound isn't working!
I felt really sad for you. I don't know how I would get trough. You are really tough and I admire you!
EmmanuellePorlier 2 years ago
i am so sorry for your loss.. he was beautiful
angeljohnnie 2 years ago
Life is just so unfair sometimes. He was so beautiful... God bless you xox
petalovespongy 2 years ago
Unforgettably Beautiful.
femf8tal 2 years ago
hi i just want to say watching this mad me cry. im so sorry about what happened. may god bless u both. xxx
louait1976 2 years ago
Happy Birthday Brona!!
A Simply Beautiful Tribute to a Beautiful Boy whose time here was too short!
Thank you for allowing us to share that very precious time with your Precious Little Man!
freakypetOZ 2 years ago 4
Happy Birthday Brona!
A Simply Beautiful Tribute for a Beautiful Boy whose time was too short in this world!!
Thank you for letting us share that special time with your Precious Boy!
freakypetOZ 2 years ago
I wanted to check in with you and say Happy 7th Anniversary and 1st Birthday to Brona...I hope this doesn't upset you that I am wishing this to you all, but out of the blue today I remembered it was May 18th and that it was your anniversary and Brona's birthday.
raincheck01 2 years ago
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Brona! You are well-loved, remembered, and missed! Thinking of you today and every day, Darjee!
ShortySayers 2 years ago
darjee thinking of you on your beautiful baby brona's 1 st birthday sending love from australia Jacqui
Jemzy124 2 years ago
darjee thinking of you on your beautiful baby brona's 1 st birthday sending love from australia Jacqui
Jemzy124 2 years ago
yarwaqas 2 years ago
Your loving video made me cry, and smile. Brona was indeed beautiful, as are all baby boys. my son died 18 years ago aged 3 months so i can assure you that he will be as clear in your memory and close to your heart then as now. Even though i have had other children , before and since, none can replace the child you've lost, nor will you want them to.
If i had been able to make a video tribute, i would've been thrilled if it had been as beautiful as yours, pictures and music together xXx
hippimummy 2 years ago 2
Checking in with you and family;
Remembering Brona
Warm Hugs
Love
Comfort
Peace
Always Remember Your Brona.
ak47doubletap 2 years ago
I cried watching this not just because you lost your son, but because I have had 6 miscarriages and even though I never had a still birth like you have it still hurt to lose babies you though would live to see you. I'm so sorry for your loss, god bless your son & your family!
angelkitty02 2 years ago
Watching your video, even though it did not have sound still hit me really hard. The photographer did a remarkable job and for you and your husband to be able to go through photos the way you did knowing it would be your last with your beloved son, you guys really are remarkable people.
Sending my love and condolenses from Melbourne Australia. May you guys find peace in knowing god has a pure angel there to watch over you and your family
Kia Kaha (Stay strong)
febekafleencrant 2 years ago
Wow, your video really made me think. You are very beautiful people and my family and i hope the very best for both of you. Brona was a very sweet little guy and we couldnt help but love him to. Even though i was crying through the whole thing. With or without music the love is in those pictures. Brona and you both will always have a place in our hearts. He will never be forgotten. Best wishes for your future and always thinking of Brona, now an angel to waych over you and all of us. xoxo Lyn
mamasgirlxo 2 years ago
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your son. He's absolutely beautiful, perfect in every way. Know that your son's story touches people, and moves people to be better, to do better in their lives, to appreciate their children and not take things for granted. It's amazing people like you and your husband and your beautiful Brona who encourage ppl like myself to become and remain photographers for NILMDTS. Thank you for sharing your story.
ownedurfase 3 years ago
A heart felt sympathy for your loss. May his spirt soar in the kingdom of heaven.
AlTheRelic 3 years ago
I'm sorry but I cannot imagine a" better place" than in his mothers arms.
thistleandlavender 3 years ago
we have wached your video so many times,with or without music,it shows us how much you love him,so dont worry that it has no music now.we watch you video to see YOUR son,not listen to music....thinking of you with love sallie and kirstie from england
kirstiedale3 3 years ago
Omg I am crying tears of sadness. I am so sorry for your loss hun. I can't even emagine what your going through at this difficult time. But Always remember that he is looking down on you loving you and missing you very much. My son turns 9 month old tomorrow 1-29-09 and I don't know what I would do if I ever lost him He is my life. Your in my thoughts and prayers I will always remember Brona.
MichelleisMarried123 3 years ago
Oh mein gott das ist ja furchtbar. Das tut mir so schrecklich Leid für euch. Ich wünsche euch alles Glück er Welt !!!
Tascha4585 3 years ago
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Lilly. The pain is greater than I could ever have imagined. I am glad you got to see her alive and breathing, though I know, no matter what we got, it will never be enough. May we all find peace
dsahala 3 years ago
we hope u and ur husband are ok,sending our love to u both love kirstie ,i hpe you are peaceful today,also love to brona
kirstiedale3 3 years ago
The pictures are so beautiful.
I'm so sorry :(
ChestnutThunder 3 years ago
I agree with my former reviewers: I do feel honored you shared this with us complete strangers. Brona would have been proud to have you as his parents.
I am fighting cancer (I relapsed for the fourth time) and your story gives me so much hope and strength, since you and Joshua are so strong. Do not take this vid down! It is heartless that WMG removed the audio, very heartless, but please, keep this tribute here. Brona deserves to be remembered. This vid made me cry. But those are good tears.
PeppyPower 3 years ago
I am so sorry for your struggle. I cannot imagine. In my 40th weeks of pregnancy I had a cancer scare, but found it was benign, but it could have easily not been. We have no choice but to live with the cards we are dealt. I hope we can help each other feel more loved in this difficult world. Thank you for your comment.
dsahala 3 years ago
Please keep it up babe. It brings me just a little comfort that others may see him too. He was so,...wanted and beautiful. I love him still.
thistleandlavender 3 years ago
Such a beautiful tribute... raw, honest, sacred.
Please don't take it off of here unless you are no longer comfortable with it.
We don't need music!
I am currently waiting to see if I am accepted as a volunteer photographer for NILMDTS... your story reaffirms my desire to create pictorial memories for families losing an infant.
I do not believe God 'takes' our babies because God needs them. I do believe that your baby is held in the arms of Jesus who weeps with you and holds you close. Peace
myrrhamira 3 years ago
I am so sorry for your loss! He was beautiful, perfect in every way! I too lost my son at 8 1/2 months, he was born still. its heart shattering! You and your husband have so much love between you two, you can see it in the pictures. Remember EVERYTHING happens for a reason and Brona was needed in heaven and will always be with ya'll! Its been 3 years since I lost Brayden and I can guarantee that my son and yours have met and are looking down and protecting us!
God Bless you and stay strong!:-)
hillarydramos 3 years ago
I am so very very sorry you lost your baby Brayden, what a beautiful name! Yes, i can't imagine missing him less at anytime, i would imagine 3 years still finds your heart breaking and missing him. I am SO sorry that we have to go through this. thank you for your words and may we find some peace
dsahala 3 years ago
oh and please dont take brona's memorial off we dont need music to see how beutiful he is the world deserves to see your love for brona godbless you xxx
ebayfreakonline 3 years ago
hi darjee i carnt believe through all the pain you have suffered and now they have taken bronas music from him there are some small minded people in this world what harm was it doing its our dannys birthday today 29 th january i hope they are both playing in heaven toghether taking care of one another you take care now love nicole xxxxx
ebayfreakonline 3 years ago
Omg I am crying tears of sadness. I am so sorry for your loss hun. I can't even emagine what your going through at this difficult time. But Always remember that he is looking down on you loving you and missing you very much. My son turns 9 month old tomorrow 1-29-09 and I don't know what I would do if I ever lost him He is my life. Your in my thoughts and orayers I will always remember Brona.
MichelleisMarried123 3 years ago
Thank you for saying you'll remember him. it means more than you know.
dsahala 3 years ago
i have never cried so much...your son was a little hero, moved so many hearts not even giving a heartbeat on his own...beautiful. I will pray for him and besure ...people in Poland heard about Brona too!
xxx
expecting mum
kajakaja09 3 years ago
Your tribute to your baby boy is beautiful. I have never felt more grateful for my baby girl in my life. I wish my tears for your baby could bring you some comfort. It is wonderful that you honored him this way. :)
kelliebear18 3 years ago
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your video was beautiful and has touched my life forever. Thank you for sharing.
Karinza 3 years ago
I am so desperately sorry for the loss of your son. I am horrified that yet another mother has to/had to go through the outrageous awfulness of being investigated. On your anniversary too? We are strange sisters. I am so sorry. so so sorry.
dsahala 3 years ago
I found you after a friend's recent miscarriage reminded me of losing my child at 18 wks gestation almost 10 yrs ago. Somehow your beautiful video helped me with my resurfacing emotions. When I read your son's beautiful name and story it reminded me of "When My Sorrow Was Born" by Khalil Gibran. Thank you for sharing Brona's life with me I will not forget him...
raincheck01 3 years ago
i am so glad that your baby is remembered. I am so sorry that your little one is not now ten years old, standing beside you. Thank you for sharing the suggestion of the story. I very much like Gibran. i will look it up. Thank you for being another person knowing my son existed. To think his story somehow helped you means the world. Thank you.
dsahala 3 years ago
beautiful video...RIP BRONA
cklizabeth 3 years ago
that was beautiful, he was georgeous
EasyBakeSmiles 3 years ago
Your son was and is beautiful. I think you're very brave for posting this. I have a coworker who went through something similar last year. Your video brought tears to my eyes for you and her.
actchickcee 3 years ago
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful baby and I will never forget him or this video. I just wish I could say something, this video really touched my heart. Bless you and your family.
tmmom2 3 years ago
Thank you for sharing. The video had me in tears but Brona is beautiful and has wonderful parents that care so much about him.
viewyourpic 3 years ago
That was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. What an amazing way to capture a life too soon taken from this world.
greentoejam 3 years ago
xXxwhittxXx 3 years ago
Thank you for the poem, it is beautiful.
dsahala 3 years ago
its okay...anything for a beuatiful little angel :o) xx xx
xXxwhittxXx 3 years ago
Timely 2009 to you and your family! Brona's spirit lives on and he is not forgotten!
ShortySayers 3 years ago
Hello Brona, I see your still touching the world having been here,.. not forgotton, keep going safe journey precious little angel.... wathcing over us all....
I hope mummy is doing better.... regards kelly(midwife)
kink1my 3 years ago
Thinking about and remembering Brona today!
ShortySayers 3 years ago
oh my gosh that must have been devastating!
i'm sorry.
this was so touching.
lildrumm3rchic 3 years ago
It is so sad.
Beautiful pictures.
I will not forget this. It is touching me so much.
<3
filozsofia 3 years ago
Brona Sahala is remembered.Your son shall be known.
After viewing your videio many times, I was at first angry and wanted to know WHY, WHAT HAD YOUR HEALTHCARE PROVIDERS NOT DONE? The more I watched-No Answer would bring Brona to a live birth-I have chosen to cherish him,remember Brona Sahala. To remember Brona, his Mom and Dad. Your Family.
ak47doubletap 3 years ago
This is the most beautiful video I have ever seen. A wonderful tribute. I am crying. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope you have the strength and courage to try again. You and your husband will make beautiful parents. Thank you for sharing your video with us. What a beautiful family.
maaazchill 3 years ago
I just watched and it was beautiful and so sad, I am sorry for your loss ty for sharing, your in my heart.
angeleyesONT 3 years ago
i love you darjee
maitreya94 3 years ago
How kind of you to reply... I am thrilled to see there is a Miss Foundation group in London, England so I shall broach the subject with sis and mum. My father is grieving terribly, I have never known anything like this. Ethan gives us great strength, I speak with him most days. You have given me strength also, thank you so much. Best wishes and much love, Nadine
nadinewiddows 3 years ago
I want to send you my love and to thank you for sharing this incredibly painful moment and for sharing your amazingly beautiful son. My sister gave birth to my gorgeous stillborn nephew Ethan several months ago... absolute agony. Again, I send you my love.
nadinewiddows 3 years ago
I am so very sorry for the loss of precious Ethan. If your sister has not yet heard of the MISS foundation, i must say it has been one of my greatest supports. They have forums online and the support in knowing you are not alone is tremendous. feel free to message me if you would like more information on other ways to help support her. I am just so very sorry that anyone ever has to experience this pain.
dsahala 3 years ago
hi darjee and joshua its nicole just wanted to say since i have seen brona's memorial my little boy had to go to the hospital because the doctor thought he had a poorly heart like my farther so we were so scared. well we took him today and i played bronas song all the way there and i praid my little man would be safe and it is if brona was looking out for him as he has the all clear so at christmas we are going to lay a reef for brona at our beutiful forest where he can see the beauty here too x
ebayfreakonline 3 years ago
I am so very glad your son is Ok. thank you so much for having Brona in your hearts. the gesture of you thinking of him warms my spirit. I hope he can be there for your son.
peace be with you
dsahala 3 years ago
thank you John. we do remember you, thank you for all of your amazing work. we loved the conference. thank you for watching...one more person knows our son existed. :) missing all of our children!
dsahala 3 years ago
I am so sorry for your loss. Your son was beautiful.
kgray811 3 years ago
These are some of the most powerful birth images I've ever seen. You can feel the emotions that were in the room. The work of NILMDTS is absolutely priceless. I hope my area os the worls can get someone that gifted to perform a similar service. I wish your family peace and healing.
nicunurse5 3 years ago
thank you, NILMDTS is amazing. they currently have over 8000 photographers in many countries around the world. Maybe they are in your part.
dsahala 3 years ago
i am so sorry for your lose, no words can express the pain and love that you are feeling. it broke my heart watching this loving video.i cried the whole time.
skippyisland05 3 years ago
kashinafahmy 3 years ago
I am so incredibly sorry that you lost your precious daughter. If you have not found the MISS forums yet, please do, it is tremendously helpful. I am so sorry Haylee is not in your arms. Peace to us all...missing our babies every second.
dsahala 3 years ago
oh, god I am so so sorry... this photography is so painfully beautiful... I'm 35 weeks, having a homebirth and this terrifies me, at the risk of adding heartache, is there anything you would have or could have done differently? Again, I'm so so sorry.
classyass 3 years ago
oooh, the question....in hindsight many things "could" have been done different. There will always been should have's and could have's. At the time, I made the best decisions that I could for my baby and I.
dsahala 3 years ago
What a beautiful little boy. I am so sorry for your lose. Your little angel was born on my birthday, he will always be remembered,love and prayers from Northern Ireland.xxxx
joannekillen 3 years ago
Oh thank you! I love knowing he shares your birthday. I love Ireland, such a beautiful land full of magick and wonder (and rain).
dsahala 3 years ago
I am going to plant a little tree in remembrance of your darling little brona. He will hold a place in my heart always, even though i never knew you. I was so touched by your tribute to him. When i look out into my garden and watch his tree grow, he will always be remembered. Godbless.xxxx A tree grows in Ireland for Brona. xxx
joannekillen 3 years ago
oh, thank you so much! :') I cannot tell you how much that means to me. We move so much I have wanted to plant a tree, but haven't been able to you. I would love to see a picture of it if you do actually do it. It would be so wonderful to know there was a tree growing for him somewhere. Thank you so very very much
dsahala 3 years ago
Absolutely beautiful video. I gave birth to my son Damien just 8 days ago..2 days after finding out he was gone. Thank you for this wonderful video tribute to your beautiful son. Thank you for sharing your story.
cfrance83 3 years ago
Beautiful tribute. What happened if you dont mind me asking? I lost my son in September.
1981meagan 3 years ago
I am so sorry that you have lost your son. The pain of this loss is unspeakably horrible. If you read my credits you should find the answer to your question, otherwise let me know something more specific. Peace be with us all.
dsahala 3 years ago
I am crying for you and your family, I am so sorry. This is a beautiful tribute. God bless you.
karynvigg 3 years ago
I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. I am too sorry for the horrible things people say. Blessed be to you too ;)
dsahala 3 years ago
I am so sorry that your sweet Jacen is not in your arms. It is the greatest tragedy I know to lose our children. I am so very sorry.
dsahala 3 years ago
my heart is breaking this is the most beutiful baby i ever seen i am so sorry ! i have seen and read all the memorial and to go through the pain of losing your little man so close to him being home is tremendous the love i can see you have for each other will help you heal in time and may i say what a stunning family you are your courage is amazing. and dont worry about baby brona my little angel daniel will take care of him in heaven i hope they are both playing over brona's sunset many hugs xx
ebayfreakonline 3 years ago
this was the most heart rendering memorial i have ever seen the imotion and courage you share is amazing i am so sorry for what your loss he was the most beutiful little man i ever seen but he will be safe in heaven as i will send my angel nephew a prayer to look after him and play with him my danny will take care of him .and i can see that you and your husband have a wonderfull strong relationship take care of yourselves and i do hope in time your pain will become easier nite nite lil man xxxx
ebayfreakonline 3 years ago
Thank you for sharing Brona's beauty. It was very touching and I cried. I had a baby boy who was born very prematurely and died in my arms, after trying to breath and squeaking a little. Though it was 20-some yrs ago, I will never forget him. I have some ultrasounds, 2 photos, handprints & footprints, which I cherish. and yes, all I left the hospital with was a death certificate, even though my son did live outside of me a few minutes. Bless you, and I wish you the best.....
feelinda 3 years ago
I am also a midwife (in Germany) and your way to say goodbye is a very beutiful one. It touched me deeply. He was a beautiful little baby.
midwifebecky 3 years ago
I just can't get over this video. You hear about this all the time and can't really believe it. It's not fair... May God bless you guys and I know Brona will never b replaced but I hope that U guys have another healthy and strong baby if U have'nt already and if that's what U guys want!!! GOD BLESS!!!
taimany67 3 years ago
This was truly the most sad, tragic, and yet extraordinarily beautiful video I have ever seen. Brona will never be forgotten.
sunkissed206 3 years ago
i couldnt stop crying both because it was sad and i was amazed at how great you cherished every second with him and got such wonderful pictures. he was beautiful. just too perfect for this world. you will be together again, but for now his spirit is withyou
Brennanshae 3 years ago
This video left me smiling, not sad, as it is a truly wonderful tribute to your beautiful Son Brona. The photographs and time spent with your Son are invaluable and I admire your strength in sharing your loss. Peace be with you. x
gailliec 3 years ago
Im so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. Thank you so much to you and Joshua for sharing Brona with me and all of us, I will never be able to forget his face and little hands and (big) feet! I will remember him not with sadness but with a smile as he is surely laughing and playing somewhere tonight and looking down upon you. You may not have gotten to spend this life with him but will have all of eternity~ I will light a candle tonight and think of your sweet Brona...
toogood4u97 3 years ago
That was so touching....
ideenfee 3 years ago
Wow, this is heart-wrenching. I couldn't possibly imagin how hard that would be. He is a part of you always.
Natureismygod 3 years ago
your son will not be forgotten and I am horrified by how you were treated in the wake of such a heartbreaking loss. Brona was an angel and will live on not only for you and Joshua, but among the birthing community as well. bless you and may your heart find peace.
diobolicm80 3 years ago
god bless your beautiful son sorry i am gonna cry !!! he is the most beautiful sight i have ever seen
shannonandant 3 years ago
What a lovely video tribute to your precious son Brona. I lost my firstborn in much the same way on July 9, 2007. Not a day goes by where my daughter Annika isn't missed and loved. I was touched by your story and I will not forget baby Brona.
Love and tears for our babies...
alisonheeringa 3 years ago
hey i have been though a still birth with my ex girlfriend and i know how it feels it will take time to heal because i am still healing from it. give it time and i am here for you.
bhalliwell4 3 years ago
This is so powerful,the photo's radiating your every ounce of pain..I love the skin to skin family photo's you could see you were taking in every moment deep into your soul's..RIP Brona what a handsome little man!
mum211 3 years ago
You have a beautiful son, and it is a shame that he is no longer in the world. I am sorry for your loss, and I will remember you in my thoughts. I will not forget your beautiful boy.
Metrojosie 3 years ago
I saw the most beautiful sunset last night, and thought about your Brona!
ShortySayers 3 years ago
I am so moved by your beautiful film. The anguish is so palpable in those stunnning photos, i'm glad someone was at least there to support you by taking them. I am so sorry about the ensuing witch hunt, what a terrible thing to have to deal with in your grief-stricken state. I am so touched by what a beautiful, graceful mother you are - kissing and holding him so intimately. And the father, what a diamond of a man. Brona chose very well.
Romakat1 3 years ago
I am so sad for you after watching this video. It is horrible that you also had to deal with such negativity from the ob at the hospital.
I hope you know you are amazing and that posting this video helps other people.
Sending you blessings.
x
frangipannipresent 3 years ago
The pain i am feeling after watching this beautiful tribute can not possible nearly be as much as the both of you must feel...the sadness and pain is represented in such honour of your wonderful son-it is truly commendable...my tears are shed with such peace knowing that your angel is truly an angel in heaven...and always in your heart...bless you for sharing this with the world - Brona will never be forgotten - even by me - a stranger...God be with you..x sent with lots of love and respect..x
nikkigees1 3 years ago
Your son is beautiful as is your marriage and spirit. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss! Your family is in my prayers. Thank you for sharing your story and for your supporting women in birth choices. This is such an amazing memorial!
ShortySayers 3 years ago
What a beautiful boy. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll remember Brona.
chugchug13 3 years ago
Brona's Mama,
I am Helena's Mom...Noël...you comforted me during the MISS memorial last weekend. Thank you for your touch. Thank you for in that moment sparing me from feeling alone. Thank you for sharing this beautiful memoir of your time with your son. Thank you.
~Noël
noelchristy1979 3 years ago
This is so beautiful. What an amazing tribute. I especially loved the photos of Brona with his Daddy. I have said it before and I'll say it again... NILMDTS is an amazing organization.
beckerbuns 3 years ago
I will not forget him. What beauty family you have. My heart is aching. Aching for the pain that you felt. I think you captured your pregnancy and Brona's life in the most beautiful way possible. As I watched your husband, it reminded me of my own Husband and the pain that he went through too. I will pray for your family. Thank you so much for your beautiful tribute to your little son.
Love Carly (MISSsister)
Scarletriver26 3 years ago
Your video is beautiful...You look younger in the video eventhough it was not long ago. This is the best I have seen...I am happy that you can share it...I love you both...I pray for your peace...I know you want him in your arms...I know you want your tears to fall on his sweet face...I am so very sorry.
Beth
77elifoo 3 years ago
Thank you Beth. Your thoughtful kindness has touched our hearts deeply. thank you for your rose, thank you for your video, thank you for your kindness, thank you for your blogs, thank you for being amberlee's mommy...missing our babies....so so so much
dsahala 3 years ago
I found this link to the nilmdts website. I want to thank you for sharing this video with everyone...I don't know what it's like to loose a baby, but I couldn't imagine going through what you did. You have an amazing story...and I could feel the sorrow and the pain looking at your faces, but I could also see the happiness, and saw how proud you were of your little baby boy. You and your husband are strong, and I wish you both all the luck in the world. You and your family are in our prayers.
elizabethk416 3 years ago
I found this link on the NILMDTS forum. This is BEAUTIFUL. Left me bawling.
PaigeBentley 3 years ago
I'm lighting a candle for Brona and for you in my thoughts and prayers.
He was beautiful and perfect. I'm so sorry for your loss.
leopardskinfynn 3 years ago
Thank you all...so very much for making my Brona exist for you. It means more than you know.
I wanted to say also that I have my video set so that I must approve all comments. I chose to do this as some memorial sites have the most horrible things said "is that a real baby" "get over it" and so forth. I am very pleased that, thus far. I have approved every single comment. I dont know if people just are minding what they say since it is approved or not, but it is very surprising and wonderful
dsahala 3 years ago
that is so sad I am so sorry
marypop64 3 years ago
My dear friend,
What to say... there are no words in the English language that seem right at this time.
I light a candle for Brona, for You and for Josh.
You are in my thoughts, Brona is beautiful like his mom and dad....
miamirubber 3 years ago
what a beautiful tribute had me in tears your son was truly beautiful my deapest sympathys go out to you and your husband. Stay strong he will never be forgotton xxx
saraholive1 3 years ago
That is the most beautiful video i have ever seen, its taking me forver to write this as i am bawling my eyes out :(
I lost a baby when he was 18 weeks after going into early labour. He died in my arms after having 3 heartbeats. I cannnot even begin to imagine the pain you have been through.
I live in New Zealand, here, all babies must have a birth certificate once you get to 24 weeks, recorded stillborn, but they are registered and certified :). I think thats the right way.Brona is beautiful
BexieLady 3 years ago
I am so sorry you lost your precious baby boy. I am so glad you knew his heart-beat in your arms...i would have given anything for him to have been born alive.
dsahala 3 years ago
and feel free to use the name!
dsahala 3 years ago
Brave
Real
Only
Nobel
Angel
Thank You and My little Justin is playing with Brona in Heaven! See you at the MISS Conference.
Dean Synan
TuberJohn316 3 years ago
that was beautiful. i am in tears and as a mama my heart aches for your family.
nickandstick 3 years ago
This is one of the most visually sacred things I have ever seen in my life.
I am blessed, to have been a witness to this.
My deepest respect and sorrow for the loss of Brona. The M.I.S.S. Foundation is phenomenal. Dr. Joanne Cacciatore, an amazing human being.
Brona was perfect. He was so loved and wanted. You have given a gift not only to all people, but especially to parents, for allowing us to witness the sacred birth and death of your child. Peace and Love to you.
mariegwy 3 years ago
Thank you for sharing your story Darjee. A midwife I know fwd your email- I am glad to see a followup since I haven't seen you on the HBPregnancy list in awhile. My deepest sympathies- your son is beautiful.
busybusymomma 3 years ago
What a beautiful tribute to your beautiful son. My heart aches with yours. I am just so sorry.
jcaccia 3 years ago
I am Linda...mother of Elinda & Jen...grandmother of Zane & Andrew, Xavier, Logan, & Cassi. My heart breaks for you and your husband. Your video is a wonderful and fitting tribute to your beautiful son...an Angel too precious to be bound by Earthly ties. I pray that your pain will ease and you'll find peace in knowing that Brona looks down on you from Heaven and waits for the day you will be together again.
just1Linda 3 years ago
Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute of your son. My heartfelt sympathies to you and your husband. Brona will live in your hearts forever and in the memories of all that see this tribute. Much love, Karen xxx
TinyMoments 3 years ago