I didnt trust my x boyfriend I found out while going through his phone that he was interested in other girls. I decided 2 call some of the phone no.s and he was actually dateing some I could not believe it. when I confronted him he said that it was not true, I thought he was different because he was so quiet and hardly goes to parties. After that we spent a year 2gether and I was always insecure so I left. He wants me back but I cant c myself trusting him again.
So my future wife has had alot of sexual partners in the past before me. She popped my cherry and she is the only one I have been with. I tend to let her past affect me. makes me feel like she will cheat on me. So I confront her alot about hanging out with other guys and I dont want her to go to parties with out me. What do I do to stop? I think if I keep being this way then it will be the end of our relationship. We have been together for almost 3 years. And we are both 21 years old... HELP!
Your other half could be in another country, sitting in a bar full of hot and smart people and drunk but you know that they wouldn't go near anyone else because you just trust them. It takes a very long time to build up.. But a second to disappear.
Your significant other has a right to know...if there's anything in your past that can possibly hurt them....if it's something very important...they should know....so you can live in harmony....and this builds trust....
And what if you disclose ALL of your past secrets and 'skeletons' to your significant other, but s/he still doesn't trust and believe you, and accuses you of hiding something? What then?
@Ekman196 put your foot down... she probly wont stay with you because your obviously inconfident and your freind has enough confidence to persue a girl taken by his freind.
the best thing to do is get over her then go to your freind tell him to back off. go to the girl be confident and show her a good time and let whatever happens happen.
My girlfriend was cheated on in the past and I suffered from really bad break ups in the past, too. Maybe it's her way of worring about the worst because she was hurt so bad. Try to talk to her, help her out.
I met a girl earlier this year and we became friends first, then we started dating recently because we realized how much we ALWAYS liked each other. From time to time we talk about each others past but to know more about who we are and where we came from. I don't get offended and I don't demand the full story but I listen to her, and she does the same to me. Talking about the past isn't always a bad thing, but I agree with Dr.Paul it is IN the past
Without trust you have nothing --- trust is everything in a relationship!
AmandaS1974 3 months ago
I didnt trust my x boyfriend I found out while going through his phone that he was interested in other girls. I decided 2 call some of the phone no.s and he was actually dateing some I could not believe it. when I confronted him he said that it was not true, I thought he was different because he was so quiet and hardly goes to parties. After that we spent a year 2gether and I was always insecure so I left. He wants me back but I cant c myself trusting him again.
JahzzySweet 4 months ago
Dr. Paul looks like a PIMP in these videos, lol. Good advice though.
BenGenio 6 months ago
Cheers Dr.Paul! you make a good point about the cheating part. Thank you for your useful advice~
Alicekiss9 6 months ago
God this guy is such a badass.
HawaiiSurf10 6 months ago
I don't think I've ever seen Dr. Paul even take one sip from his drink in any of his videos.
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This is Chuck Norris' counselor, lol
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What does he nean by 'full disclosure'?
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So my future wife has had alot of sexual partners in the past before me. She popped my cherry and she is the only one I have been with. I tend to let her past affect me. makes me feel like she will cheat on me. So I confront her alot about hanging out with other guys and I dont want her to go to parties with out me. What do I do to stop? I think if I keep being this way then it will be the end of our relationship. We have been together for almost 3 years. And we are both 21 years old... HELP!
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How do you know that you fully trust someone??
Your other half could be in another country, sitting in a bar full of hot and smart people and drunk but you know that they wouldn't go near anyone else because you just trust them. It takes a very long time to build up.. But a second to disappear.
PosingAddict103 1 year ago
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blah-blah-blah!
How much can you possibly explain in a one-minute- and 57-second-long video?
Don't cheat on your significant other? That's a fricking no fricking no-brainer!!! Duh!!!
And what if one or both members of a couple decide not to give "full disclosure" on their past? What then, you boozy, Hugh Hefner wannabe?
You are a charlatain!!!
YouAreMerelyPuppets 1 year ago
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YouAreMerelyPuppets 1 year ago
@YouAreMerelyPuppets
Your significant other has a right to know...if there's anything in your past that can possibly hurt them....if it's something very important...they should know....so you can live in harmony....and this builds trust....
DrunkTrailerBabe 1 year ago
@DrunkTrailerBabe:
And what if you disclose ALL of your past secrets and 'skeletons' to your significant other, but s/he still doesn't trust and believe you, and accuses you of hiding something? What then?
YouAreMerelyPuppets 1 year ago
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razorsk8s 2 years ago
@razorsk8s what says commitment more than a wedding ring?
MBPKyle 2 years ago
My best friend is trying to steal my girlfriend away from me. What do I do? *Cry*
Ekman196 2 years ago
Not your best friend, lose that girl.
JBthree24 2 years ago 6
@Ekman196 put your foot down... she probly wont stay with you because your obviously inconfident and your freind has enough confidence to persue a girl taken by his freind.
the best thing to do is get over her then go to your freind tell him to back off. go to the girl be confident and show her a good time and let whatever happens happen.
MBPKyle 2 years ago
@Ekman196 Show her the best things that you can do to make her realize that you're the one for her
pocayama2 1 year ago
I completely agree.
Thankkss (:
you are one wise man
Princessnancy21 2 years ago
i went shoping this moring and i was like com on com on. ahahahaah
fee20luv 2 years ago
my gf thinks amma cheat on her because her ex's hav cheated on her, what can i do!!! i really love her
EastLaDrunkPunx 2 years ago
proove to her that you are completely different from those other guys.
Do something they would never do for her. Really sweep her off her feet.
jacksonuk 2 years ago
what could i do?
she loves me but she cant give me her full trust, she ses she cant let her guard down cuz she duznt wanna get hurt again... =[
EastLaDrunkPunx 2 years ago
My girlfriend was cheated on in the past and I suffered from really bad break ups in the past, too. Maybe it's her way of worring about the worst because she was hurt so bad. Try to talk to her, help her out.
JBthree24 2 years ago
shes trusting me alot more, im really happy about that =)
thanx for the advice man
EastLaDrunkPunx 2 years ago
hey!!! am just a kid!!! lol
oaig17 2 years ago
I met a girl earlier this year and we became friends first, then we started dating recently because we realized how much we ALWAYS liked each other. From time to time we talk about each others past but to know more about who we are and where we came from. I don't get offended and I don't demand the full story but I listen to her, and she does the same to me. Talking about the past isn't always a bad thing, but I agree with Dr.Paul it is IN the past
JBthree24 2 years ago 2
:) When I have my own practice--I'll definitely rock the "Hefner" jacket and candles! ....THAT won't seem creepy and wrong to clients.......
snoopypumpkin1 3 years ago
i don;t care what he say's i have trust in someone who has cheated, he's full of it...
motoman959 3 years ago
I just think his intro line is so annoying, he repeats it everytime "bla bla bla boomergirl or something something..."
thunders2020 3 years ago
I really dislike his 'Head ^ Ass' attitude
semtii 3 years ago