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  • My heart goes out to you, I been out for 15years and in LTR for 12years. I wish you all the best.

  • The power of denial is incredibly strong and can end up hurting people's lives and others around them. It might benefit him if you take extra effort in letting him know its okay if he's gay too.. Same goes for your family. Twins sometimes don't want to be considered the same, but in this instance it's okay ;)

  • I've known 4 sets of twins who were gay. Maybe your brother used you as a lab rat to see how people would react so he could test the waters. You started to know because of your crush. Maybe your brother didn't find someone he liked, so he didn't ever think about it and has instead repressed it. After what he did, he may feel bad about coming out if he's gay. Maybe it'd be good to go out of your way and let him know that you forgive him so that it makes it easier for him to come out to you.

  • @boarderboy165 come and make another video please! we want to know how you're doing!

  • i say  stay in closit u can get more action that way.....lol

  • my coming out story is i was was raped by a friend who took addvantage of me i didn't even know he was gay... i hurt for weeks walking let me tell ya.......

  • people don't be telling him he's hot then he'll be like all the other guyz who  think there bette rthan the average gay guy... it'll give him a swelt head more wayz than one...

  • ur so good looking.Im 18 even i'm a gay,but still hidding it frm everybody....fearing and succumbing frm inside with that truth.i told my mom but she does not believe me,but iam not ready to reveal this.(8:::::::(

  • where in the world have you gone?

  • do you have a tumblr?

  • When one twin is gay, 75% of the time the other one is as well o.O

  • I. NEED. MORE. VIDS.

  • I'm 19. Still haven't officially told anyone. My sister knows though, and she also found out by seeing my computer! Then she went on to tell my family and all of her friends. I still haven't acknowledged it to anyone though. :|

  • wow so handsome , xx v gd vid well done xxx

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  • Give an update!!!

  • well im like 13 years old and im gay just like you but i really dont know whats going to happen when no if i tell people

  • you are an inspiration to me and I'm 30 years old

  • So, i have to thank you honestly. It's becuase of your video i actually decided to come out. You and like two other videos. So thanks bro!

  • your friends cried cause they are gay too

  • I'm just so relieved for the people who found the courage to come out because I'm a seventeen-year- old guy and I really don't have the guts to do so. So yeah, I'm just so happy for you ;) Being in that state of mind must absolutely be amazing.

  • Great video bro, I have a twin too. But I would b a mess if he told the school. Sounds like u handled it well (: make more videos !

  • what college do you go to? I feel like i've seen you around campus haha. but anyways you need to make more videos , cuz you seem really relatable to and you're an awesome speaker

  • you need to make a new video <3

  • OH MY PENIS! YOU'RE SEXY AND IKNOW IT.

  • you're adorable :) I love your videos :)

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  • Very good video. Thanks for sharing.

    And vsboy2, are you the new jenna120s? And don't come asking me who is that. You know who I am talking about.

  • No, please. Stay in.

  • Your twin is probably gay too, that's why he went all buck on you....could be wrong though lol.

  • if my twin had a chance like that he would have done the same thing... but i beat him with to the punch

  • Please post more videos! Everyone loves you

  • i absolutely love you <3

    thanks for advice

  • why so dam cute :D

  • Really excellent video man and you say its your first, you are a born presenter (and unbelievably cute) ! Keep up the good work and post another video for us !!!!

  • for boys like you, Im happy to be gay, is like without speaking like a girl, or behave like a Diva,In my case Im just a boy with preferences for another boy, mean, boy boy, not girly boy,really I respect every person who is not like me, but we need to show to people to is not necessary to be girly or sissy for be gay, them out that image cause the most gay people who say “IM GAY”on every corner is the most we need 2 shut up, cause is not proud at all, and are like a parody more than a gay person

  • Love the advice at 6:58. I had a similar experience with that.

  • you are awesome...glad to hear that you are secure! 

  • More videos!!!

  • You sir, are super cute.

  • U ArE SOO cute, i'm happy 4 u.... just be happy, be youself...Greetings from venezuela....

  • Great job man! :)

  • @Boarderboy165 - Thnx for popping in. You are my hero. Your video I know changed so many lives in a positive way with your story. We all love you for that and will be happy to see your update soon

  • i came out to my best friend/roommate today. maybe like 2 hours ago. god i love that guy

  • wow! you are very nice!!

  • Thanks for sharing. You are quite wonderful. I am sorry your brother shared personal information that he shouldn't have. I hope you both get close and he respects you. -brilliant video.

  • 13,000 views! Damn. I'll post an update video in the coming days. Thanks everyone for your support.

  • @boarderboy165 FINALLY DUDE ! :P

  • @boarderboy165 lad this is a great video! my story is similar cause i am also a twin.. only he doesnt know he is the person i probably dreed the most coming out too, i just think he would not take it very well, i was curious to know how things are with your bro now?

    all the best, paddy

  • @boarderboy165 Hi bro, ur so hot haha sorry but i just want to say the truth u are hot haha i cant help myself hays gonna cut those thoughts lets go to a serious thoughts im very like you i didnt tell my parents as well and they want me to marry someday i follow them i try to look for lesbian and make a baby as i want to have as well and create an open family she have her girl i have my man , fair right! and we live happy ever after.

  • @boarderboy165 being gay is just having attracted to the same sex' whats the big deal? i dont understand people thinks the way like that. theres really a serious problem to our generation that need to revolutionize. I feel like wearing a pink shirt on the street with impact letters saying Im Gay, im ericted with the same sex, so whats the big deal? Haassh Holymary!!

  • Great story and good advice! Sux what your brother did but glad it all worked out in the end. Easy to listen to you because you really speak well. Lots of luck to you in college!

  • So where is video number two?

  • If you're not ready for everyone to know, don't tell anyone. It's just difficult to tell who is trustworthy these days, glad I didn't have that problem though. Once I came to terms with my sexuality, I just didn't care who found out. I think being outed before you're ready can have extremely negative effects.

  • What a great story!! I'd love am update as to whats happened in the past 7 months.

  • Yeah, I'm 15 and I've considered myself bisexual for about 2 years now and now that I'm in high school I literally can't find any girls I like but I see all these guys and I'm so tempted to come out, but my parents are very religious, so yeah

  • @saralyfe What an insulting comment. Why does it matter if he's masculine? He's gay and isn't attracted to you or any other girls. Basically dismissing feminine gay guys because of their femininity is pretty ignorant.

  • very cute thanks for sharing 

  • CAN I HAVE YOU?

  • Your a beautiful, courageous kid whose mature beyond your years. You will have a good life. Your twin bro has broken the bond of trust with you. 15 -16 is the proper age to come to terms with your sexuality. Stay strong. Continue to inspire others. Good luck.

    Al

  • Tell your parents, someone else has.

    They'll be fine from the sounds of it.

  • Wow a lot of similarities with my story, glad you came out in the end.

    Are you going to make any more videos?

  • You should tell your parents!

  • I think effeminate guys tend to have it a little tougher. The bullying is always worse and the taunts always more vicious. Having a straight appearance probably helped you with your straight male friends accepting you. Kids are just narrow minded that way. And whether you're straight acting or not, accept that people live in fear no matter what. They are likely fearful finding out you're gay, as much as you are telling them. I applaud you for having the courage. You're a great role model.

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  • your video is so inspiring i also have a twin and he does not like that i am gay but he got used to it but i also haven't told my parents yet good luck but i hope you know that the rest of us gay support you. :) <3

  • i wish you made more videos, do you have a twitter? not that you will see this.

  • Clear history or use In-private Browsing ;)... Bad twin! Bad!

  • Omg two of you...

  • apparently this is your first and last video -.-"

  • Oh another tip make sure you tell your family not someone else!

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  • Marry me!!! hehe ;P

  • you are cute!

  • I wish u so much luck

  • Congrats for being honest and straight forward. Its unfortunate that some members on here decide to insult your intelligence by being "cute" or acting horny in their moronic comments.

  • STAY strong!

  • You are really cute..

    But that's good. (:

  • you are so goddamn cute....

  • @leptismagna10 Completely agree.....

  • Thumbs up! =)

  • Youre beautiful! Stay strong and stay true yourself bro! Peace!

  • Great video :) thank you

  • Can I keep you forever? Because you're adorable.

  • great story. congrats!

  • Thank you :)

  • Hey I see you are intellegent with a well thought message - we need to see more of what you are doing in your life at least every 6 months. As you know there are lots of different personalities some more grounded than others - your advice would add a lot and that is why you made the vid so make some more -you are comfortable on camera and make good sense keep it up there are lots of guys that need your input thx

  • good for you man, great to hear things are going well for you, not everyone can say the same thing, so consider yourself lucky... and much luck to you down the road as you continue your life :)

  • oh wow. your gay??? number? lol

  • Thanks soooooo much for making this video! Continue making more :)

  • Thanx for sharing!

  • hum:/ do you have facebook:)?

  • Thanks for sharing!

  • great story, thanks for sharing, you are awesome!

  • Now I'm glad that I don't have twins. Thanks for your story.

  • Went through a similar situation with my brother who is a year older. I told him first to get advise. He ruined my high school life. Its been a few years and we're closer than ever. He just won't stop apologizing.

  • ops i ment embracing:)

    

  • I have never sen one more atracktiv guy then you in my entier life. Damn i'm melting:). And i like your

    Intresting and emracing story. :) <3

  • @TimHultgren1 I love how you correct "emracing" and none of the other words lol. haha well good video man very inspirational to me

  • Amazing!!!! Super cute and very inspirational!!!!

  • you give me hope dude

  • i am an identical triplet. im gay as well. i can really relate to your story. i can relate growing up different and always being compared, especially to your brothers. Im glad i can appreciate my uniqueness and indivisuality :)

  • 4 People are Homophobic! And don't have cute taste in guys! D:

  • Yeah yeah yeah! Spread the love!!...... Your cute...

  • yo are u single add me to skype rudebwoyswag

  • omg so hot!!!!! bemy friend on youtube!!!!!! im gay, we can talk all the time:D

  • I liked your story and the way you told it. Thanks for that. I'm quite a bit older than you, and so I came out much later (sign of the times/generations). I subscribed! Write more about your life and how you navigate this issue. Many people need to hear it.

  • haha i have a twin brother too... he goes into my room A LOT and i have to minimize my screen so much... it gets really annoying...

  • i remeber when me and austin came out ..

  • I was like you about looking on YouTube for advice and watching your video has inspired me to make a coming out video as well, sort of to give back, to help other people with their coming out.

  • <3.............:)

  • great ;)

  • Of course your parents (and step father) know that you're gay: And that's because your cunt of a twin brother probably told them all.

    Why the fuck did he decide to tell your school and never talk to you about it? Did you discuss that with him? He's a douche.

    And so is your step father. What an inappropriate and weird and passive aggressive thing to do to you, at dinner there.

    You need to express some fucking anger. Too passive you're being.

  • @brama1969 i would agree with you for the most part, well done

  • you are sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooo hot lol...and i like your coming out story :DD

  • yes u r gorgeous! I wish I could date you :p

  • Can someone plz tell me what a good gay website is to just talk and not look for dating or anything more?

  • i don't think you'd bore anyone going into detail because half these people just like to look at you including me lol. Couldn't have said anything better myself. It's people like you that keep me moving forward. Couldn't be more proud.

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  • You are really cute man. Nice story.

  • @your step dad. My face would've been O_O; Congratulations on coming out!

  • you are soo cute =) and I feel motivated to come out to my parents also, so thanks for being an inspiration!

  • hey! thanx for posting this video on my BIRTHDAY:))))

    I hope you've told ur parents already and i really hope they've taken it great:))

    and u r supercute:)))) have a nice happy out life:) my regards from far far away Ukraine:)))

  • Awesome honest video. Good job mate.

  • I think the best advice is to come out when you're absolutely sure that you're ready. And never come out as bi when you're actually gay, because that's just makes everything more complicated. Also be prepared to continuously come out to people and be prepared to not be accepted by everyone. This is an awesome video bro, you gave some good advice.

  • Hi there, thanks for this video. You are such an amazing young man. Your encourage I am sure, will help many young people to live, and live happy. I just wish I could have done this (come out) when I was young. I lost all my life, cause being an adult, still not out and living an unrealistic life. Listening to your words I am sure you are doing saving many life's.Thanks you!!! By the way, you're sooo handsome...... :)

  • This young man has a really inspirational message to share based on what he has and is learning. Enough with the death threats and suicide wishes towards others. I really do not think that behavior was/is his intention. If someone is commenting with words that are taken as a threat, you "can" report their id to YouTube and they will review all their comments seeing what actions to take. Yes, they can open a new account, but it keeps them busy. :-)

  • so handsome ;)

  • cute : ) ive gone through the same things! never give up yo : )

  • Awe! (:

  • Dam our hot

  • If I am that hot and that cute, i don't have to wait to come out :)

  • Sounds like your father knows and sounds like he'd be accepting of it, which is great! Just as long as you have the support of mom and dad, you certainly don't need the support of your brother, step dad, ect...

    Glad to know you are a very strong person! Keep your head up, sweetheart.

  • your a cute lil white boy lol

  • You rock! Very inspirational! Cute too! :] Keep up spreading love!

  • make another video :(

  • will you have sex with me?

  • @brndnrckn lol ew i can smell the aids you have from here

  • @PookieGivesUp haha wow man chill, it was a joke. im a virgin.

  • @brndnrckn haha sorry.

  • One word>>HOT!!!

  • You are gorgeous. (:

  • OMG YOUR BEAUTIFUL!

  • you going to me vloggin again anytime soon? lol

  • Parabéns pelo video...são mensagens como estas que podem ajudar outros jovens que se sintam perdidos, confusos e sem terem uma referência para os guiar.

    E apesar de cada um ter o seu ritmo é importante sair do armário, mostrar que ser gay não tem nada de mais nem é nenhuma vergonha.

  • ... OMG you are so fucking hot, i really love you.. hahah i am gay and i am proud of it =)

  • I used to say I was bi in hopes of liking girls too. It's pretty common which surprises me :P

    You're cute too :)

  • Your are nice! Make more videos...tell us how are you doing?

  • I believe there is nothing wrong with love.

  • Excellent, congratulations. This one of the most mature and intelligent videos about one's coming out I've ever watched on YouTube. I hope you have come out to your close family by now. Ciao.

  • Nice house

  • In some cultures all young men go through a gay phase that is acceptable in the culture they come from. Throughout the world during adolescence, having gay experiences is extremely common. Many grow out of it. Some do not. I would not label myself until at least 25 years of age. Especially in your case, because I could not detect any so called gay mannerisms. You are good looking and you will attract sexual attention based on that alone. Look after yourself.

  • Loved you video

  • You are so good to help other lgbt people in this way. Sounds like you have great parents too! Remember to stay away from drugs and under age drinking at college and you will do just fine! You are very nice to listen to! Thanks for your help!

  • Haha you say (like) alot..but great vid man I'm off to college to

  • ur hot. make more videos lol. but no seriously...make another video ;)

  • Great. Good for you.

  • You should really make more videos!

  • You're a great guy. I'd be very proud if you were my son.

  • You are amazing!

  • Wow, you are really hot!! You should be a model!!!!

  • Very inspiring. For some reason pretty much everyone I know comes out saying theyre bisexual before they say theyre gay. Idk why? I always thought to myself might as well just come all the way out if you're going to come out at all but I still get it, I guess it's like a stepping stone. Very cute btw I'm crushing on you through the vid

  • oh my lord you are hot.

    

  • Don't trust your brother anymore.. “Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker's reflection.” :)

  • great first video.  don't let it be your last!

  • your cute. XD

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  • OOOH LORD!!! Ur GORGEOUS!!! *_*

  • You should make more videos!! You seem interesting :)